1 00:00:06,006 --> 00:00:06,923 HAPPENED BEFORE 2 00:00:07,007 --> 00:00:08,508 Sex is important to me. 3 00:00:08,591 --> 00:00:11,636 Oh my god. Yes. -Take it easy. 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:13,513 You are a family person. - I know. 5 00:00:13,596 --> 00:00:16,307 You could be a great mother. 6 00:00:16,391 --> 00:00:18,059 I have a 7 year old daughter. 7 00:00:18,143 --> 00:00:21,938 Does it make you nervous or anxious? bring two people into your life? 8 00:00:22,022 --> 00:00:24,941 makes me nervous but it feels like a privilege. 9 00:00:25,025 --> 00:00:27,318 I've done Ironmans, triathlons. 10 00:00:27,402 --> 00:00:28,611 That's charming. 11 00:00:28,695 --> 00:00:30,280 I went to school in Michigan. 12 00:00:30,363 --> 00:00:33,950 That's the hottest news of the day. I hate Ohio State. 13 00:00:34,034 --> 00:00:35,785 He is intelligent and loyal. 14 00:00:35,869 --> 00:00:39,205 you are so kind compassionate and empathetic. 15 00:00:39,289 --> 00:00:43,543 I don't want to be corny. "We belong together." -You can say that too. 16 00:00:43,626 --> 00:00:45,378 We had an incredible connection. 17 00:00:45,462 --> 00:00:49,382 But I want to focus on my other connection. 18 00:00:49,466 --> 00:00:51,384 I thought I'd talk about the same thing. 19 00:00:51,468 --> 00:00:52,635 Stop it, Chris! 20 00:00:52,719 --> 00:00:57,015 There's something about you. -You stand out. 21 00:00:57,098 --> 00:00:58,391 What are you doing, Kevan? 22 00:00:58,475 --> 00:01:01,144 I don't want to disappoint anyone. 23 00:01:01,227 --> 00:01:02,896 You are not ready for a relationship. 24 00:01:04,022 --> 00:01:06,483 My grandfather passed away. 25 00:01:07,150 --> 00:01:08,193 I'm sorry. 26 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:13,323 My knee is on the floor. May I have the honor of being your husband? 27 00:01:13,406 --> 00:01:14,699 That would be lovely. 28 00:01:14,783 --> 00:01:15,784 Yes. 29 00:01:15,867 --> 00:01:17,827 i love you - You're such a sweetheart. 30 00:01:18,745 --> 00:01:21,539 Thank you for accepting me as I am. 31 00:01:21,623 --> 00:01:23,208 Connor! -Finally. 32 00:01:23,291 --> 00:01:26,544 When I think about our future, the best is yet to come. 33 00:01:26,628 --> 00:01:29,756 Now that we saw, this just tops it all. 34 00:01:29,839 --> 00:01:32,217 It feels like we've known each other for a long time. 35 00:01:32,300 --> 00:01:35,053 I could really get used to this, Amber. 36 00:01:35,136 --> 00:01:36,679 Love really is blind. 37 00:01:36,763 --> 00:01:41,309 The next time I have sex, I want to know for sure 38 00:01:41,392 --> 00:01:43,853 that we will spend the rest of our lives together. 39 00:01:43,937 --> 00:01:48,566 If I could see you in the wild, i think you want hall scarecrow. 40 00:01:48,650 --> 00:01:51,402 I swim in the morning and work out. I need it. 41 00:01:51,486 --> 00:01:53,404 If only I felt the same. 42 00:01:53,488 --> 00:01:55,490 Brittany is physically attractive. 43 00:01:55,573 --> 00:01:58,660 I'm still figuring it out does the physical side match the emotional connection. 44 00:01:58,743 --> 00:02:00,703 Have you talked to him about it? 45 00:02:00,787 --> 00:02:03,832 I was looking forward to our meeting. 46 00:02:05,166 --> 00:02:07,961 I've never had a fritsu. - You'll get a point. 47 00:02:08,044 --> 00:02:09,295 I don't want fritsu. 48 00:02:09,379 --> 00:02:11,673 It feels like we're not engaged. 49 00:02:11,756 --> 00:02:14,092 All kinds of things are going through my head right now. 50 00:02:14,175 --> 00:02:16,594 I have family concerns, I'm adjusting to everyday life. 51 00:02:16,678 --> 00:02:19,347 Sorry. I have other things to think about. 52 00:02:34,612 --> 00:02:37,532 He should have gone home. -What do you mean? 53 00:02:37,615 --> 00:02:40,285 He should have left after his grandfather died. 54 00:02:40,368 --> 00:02:42,745 You are upset because you lost your uncle. 55 00:02:42,829 --> 00:02:46,666 I know how it feels. I lost my grandmother a year ago. 56 00:02:46,749 --> 00:02:50,628 This is my life too. We were supposed to get married. 57 00:02:50,712 --> 00:02:53,798 He is angry because I express my feelings. 58 00:02:54,299 --> 00:02:57,302 He thinks that I should just understand. 59 00:02:57,385 --> 00:03:00,889 It's okay not to talk about him for two days. 60 00:03:01,681 --> 00:03:06,352 Should I just understand? He should have gone home. 61 00:03:07,770 --> 00:03:09,898 Is Brittany here? -There is. 62 00:03:12,817 --> 00:03:14,027 Do you want to chat? 63 00:03:30,126 --> 00:03:33,087 I received confirmation yesterday that 64 00:03:33,171 --> 00:03:36,841 when i said that I felt our connection cracking. 65 00:03:37,634 --> 00:03:41,012 If you had said you were struggling - 66 00:03:41,095 --> 00:03:45,183 and you can't give me everything what is needed right now. 67 00:03:45,266 --> 00:03:47,185 You would ask for patience. 68 00:03:49,062 --> 00:03:52,023 That would be different. I can understand. 69 00:03:52,106 --> 00:03:54,192 I've talked about it. 70 00:03:54,943 --> 00:03:59,572 That's why I've tried to understand and I gave you space. 71 00:03:59,656 --> 00:04:01,908 I feel like you don't understand now. 72 00:04:04,535 --> 00:04:05,995 I feel alone. 73 00:04:07,538 --> 00:04:12,627 You can't even talk to me when we have no other problems. 74 00:04:12,710 --> 00:04:15,255 There is so much… When we have children. 75 00:04:15,338 --> 00:04:19,133 It's a big factor, that shakes our world. 76 00:04:19,217 --> 00:04:23,805 I don't know how you feel about me. I know what you said in the deal. 77 00:04:23,888 --> 00:04:27,934 I trust the emotional connection we create. Otherwise I wouldn't be here. 78 00:04:29,310 --> 00:04:31,562 I wouldn't be here if I didn't believe in us. 79 00:04:31,646 --> 00:04:35,858 But I won't wait here for hours, not to see me. 80 00:04:40,196 --> 00:04:45,451 You are not ready for everything right now, what is involved in this. 81 00:04:45,535 --> 00:04:48,246 I think I am. This has just been tough. 82 00:04:57,630 --> 00:05:01,009 I'm sorry, that you feel this way. 83 00:05:05,763 --> 00:05:07,432 Everything is new. 84 00:05:23,614 --> 00:05:26,034 This is not always like this. 85 00:05:28,619 --> 00:05:29,662 I guess you know that? 86 00:05:36,252 --> 00:05:37,462 I hear your words. 87 00:05:47,722 --> 00:05:48,973 Do you want a tissue? 88 00:05:49,932 --> 00:05:51,893 Are you sure? - You don't have to. 89 00:05:55,313 --> 00:05:57,482 Let's go to bed. 90 00:06:07,658 --> 00:06:12,497 IS LOVE BLIND? 91 00:06:14,665 --> 00:06:18,169 21 DAYS UNTIL THE WEDDING 92 00:06:18,252 --> 00:06:20,463 We'll be back, Cabo. Remember that. 93 00:06:20,546 --> 00:06:21,631 That's for sure. 94 00:06:22,924 --> 00:06:26,010 Too bad to leave. Nice to go home. -The last day. 95 00:06:26,094 --> 00:06:27,970 Let's go to the airport. - Let's go. 96 00:06:28,054 --> 00:06:32,433 Time to go. With the travel princess has one suitcase. 97 00:06:32,517 --> 00:06:34,852 Three suitcases. 98 00:06:35,436 --> 00:06:37,146 Bye, Cabo. 99 00:06:37,980 --> 00:06:42,276 Our engaged couple is returning home from their romantic vacation. 100 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:46,280 This is where the most intensive phase of the exam begins. 101 00:06:46,364 --> 00:06:48,533 They move in together in the real world. 102 00:06:48,616 --> 00:06:52,662 Hey, mom. I'm here with my fiancee. 103 00:06:53,162 --> 00:06:54,247 Hello! 104 00:06:54,330 --> 00:06:55,790 Hello, Victoria. 105 00:06:55,873 --> 00:06:57,458 I got engaged. 106 00:06:57,542 --> 00:06:58,543 AMBER'S FRIEND 107 00:06:58,626 --> 00:06:59,752 And I am… 108 00:06:59,836 --> 00:07:00,920 What? 109 00:07:01,003 --> 00:07:03,881 How they connect their lives, his home and his career? 110 00:07:03,965 --> 00:07:08,261 Do they give modern stimuli or influenced by the opinions of loved ones? 111 00:07:08,344 --> 00:07:10,054 I'm engaged. 112 00:07:10,138 --> 00:07:11,431 Did you poop? 113 00:07:11,514 --> 00:07:12,515 ASHLEY'S FRIEND 114 00:07:12,598 --> 00:07:14,016 He slapped the receiver to his ear. 115 00:07:16,144 --> 00:07:19,105 Welcome to my home state of Ohio. 116 00:07:20,106 --> 00:07:22,733 O-H! -I-O! 117 00:07:22,817 --> 00:07:24,777 Welcome home, gang! 118 00:07:24,861 --> 00:07:27,029 Then let's go! - Let's go. 119 00:07:27,113 --> 00:07:30,992 It all started with love, from a genuine emotional bond. 120 00:07:31,075 --> 00:07:32,743 Oh well, anyway. 121 00:07:32,827 --> 00:07:35,830 Damn it. - It's nice here. 122 00:07:35,913 --> 00:07:39,125 What is the order of operation? - We cleanse evil spirits. 123 00:07:41,502 --> 00:07:43,629 Do I? - I'll smoke you. 124 00:07:43,713 --> 00:07:46,466 I'm pulling the demons out. - Take it away. 125 00:07:46,549 --> 00:07:51,137 In three weeks, they will do at the altar the most important decision of his life. 126 00:07:51,721 --> 00:07:54,599 Can't really use a can opener? 127 00:07:54,682 --> 00:07:55,641 Oh my god. 128 00:07:55,725 --> 00:07:58,352 Do they prove that love is blind? 129 00:08:02,106 --> 00:08:04,066 It's great to be back here. 130 00:08:05,109 --> 00:08:09,238 We have an awful lot to do. We will clarify future work issues... 131 00:08:09,864 --> 00:08:15,286 It was nice when you said you were stressed, but it's not about me. 132 00:08:15,369 --> 00:08:20,583 I tend to overthink easily, if the other seems irritable or something. 133 00:08:20,666 --> 00:08:24,837 You said on your own initiative, that this is not because of me. 134 00:08:25,755 --> 00:08:28,132 It made me feel much safer. 135 00:08:28,216 --> 00:08:31,135 I think it's important at least tell me about my feelings. 136 00:08:31,219 --> 00:08:33,262 Otherwise, I won't say it all day. 137 00:08:33,346 --> 00:08:36,766 I would have thought you hated me. "What happened?" 138 00:08:36,849 --> 00:08:37,850 So. 139 00:08:37,934 --> 00:08:40,603 And it's not like that. -Thanks for the clarification. 140 00:08:40,686 --> 00:08:41,854 So. 141 00:08:41,938 --> 00:08:42,855 Nice to hear. 142 00:08:42,939 --> 00:08:46,943 I think it is though little drama compared to the rest. 143 00:08:47,527 --> 00:08:50,780 So, we don't have any drama. 144 00:08:50,863 --> 00:08:53,491 I also mentioned it to Emma at the pool. 145 00:08:54,534 --> 00:08:55,701 What did he say? 146 00:08:55,785 --> 00:08:57,703 I was talking about Connor, and… 147 00:08:57,787 --> 00:09:00,498 We don't know how they got along. 148 00:09:00,581 --> 00:09:04,252 I only know about the lounge. He didn't want to talk about it. 149 00:09:04,335 --> 00:09:06,879 I thought "sure". - He was out of his mind. 150 00:09:06,963 --> 00:09:08,297 So. -I understand very well. 151 00:09:08,881 --> 00:09:11,425 There's all kinds of stuff here that we don't know about. 152 00:09:11,509 --> 00:09:18,266 The women spoke differently in the agreements. Probably the men were also quite different. 153 00:09:18,766 --> 00:09:21,519 We only know what people say. -So. 154 00:09:21,602 --> 00:09:23,980 Or you notice it when the group is together. 155 00:09:24,063 --> 00:09:25,481 Well but… 156 00:09:26,190 --> 00:09:28,150 I only know our experience. 157 00:09:28,234 --> 00:09:30,570 It feels like we're just hanging out. 158 00:09:30,653 --> 00:09:34,865 Same. I know. But I could have been scared of that too. 159 00:09:34,949 --> 00:09:36,367 Jeez. 160 00:09:36,450 --> 00:09:38,953 "Why is this so natural?" -Yeah. 161 00:09:39,036 --> 00:09:41,122 Are there bodies in the basement or what? 162 00:09:41,205 --> 00:09:43,249 I don't have a basement, but… 163 00:09:43,332 --> 00:09:45,501 That's how you answer. - Did you see Dexter? 164 00:09:45,585 --> 00:09:47,336 Ice cream truck. 165 00:09:47,420 --> 00:09:50,965 There was no ice cream. It's an ice truck killer. The first season. 166 00:09:51,048 --> 00:09:53,092 It was a damn good series. -Yeah. 167 00:09:53,175 --> 00:09:56,929 I called you a murderer the first evening in our new home. 168 00:09:57,013 --> 00:10:01,559 That's awesome. I appreciate that. I carried your bag in, I proposed to you… 169 00:10:02,977 --> 00:10:04,687 Now I'm an ice truck killer. 170 00:10:07,732 --> 00:10:09,984 Shall I call my mother? - Call. 171 00:10:12,361 --> 00:10:13,738 Hello? 172 00:10:13,821 --> 00:10:16,365 Hello, mom. How is it going? 173 00:10:16,449 --> 00:10:18,367 Oh dear! 174 00:10:19,452 --> 00:10:23,039 I'm here with my fiancee Ashley. See you soon. 175 00:10:23,122 --> 00:10:25,958 Hello! I look forward to it. I've heard a lot about you. 176 00:10:26,042 --> 00:10:27,501 Alright… 177 00:10:28,002 --> 00:10:29,754 All the best. 178 00:10:29,837 --> 00:10:33,966 I want to meet you too. Welcome to our family then. 179 00:10:34,050 --> 00:10:36,135 Thanks. This is wild. 180 00:10:36,218 --> 00:10:40,723 We just got home in Columbus. I look forward to meeting you. 181 00:10:41,557 --> 00:10:45,936 It will be great. I'm looking forward to it too. 182 00:10:46,020 --> 00:10:47,021 Great. 183 00:10:47,104 --> 00:10:49,440 I'm on the road. 184 00:10:49,523 --> 00:10:50,775 are you 185 00:10:50,858 --> 00:10:53,569 I'm in Phoenix now, baby. So… 186 00:10:53,653 --> 00:10:54,570 Yeah. 187 00:10:54,654 --> 00:10:56,238 Nice. Fits the pattern. -Yeah. 188 00:10:56,322 --> 00:10:58,282 Ironically, we were talking about… 189 00:10:58,366 --> 00:11:01,786 We are planning to move out of Ohio over the next few months. 190 00:11:01,869 --> 00:11:04,955 The Scottsdale area is one option, so does Florida. 191 00:11:05,039 --> 00:11:07,458 Ironic that you are already there. 192 00:11:07,541 --> 00:11:10,419 Great. I started a new job. 193 00:11:10,503 --> 00:11:13,506 So I'm on the road, but… - Oops. 194 00:11:13,589 --> 00:11:15,925 A lot has happened during this time. 195 00:11:16,008 --> 00:11:18,719 Same words. -How long has it been? 196 00:11:18,803 --> 00:11:21,013 That goes for all of us. -Right. 197 00:11:21,097 --> 00:11:24,141 It would be great to come meet Ashley. 198 00:11:24,225 --> 00:11:28,270 I need some downtime so I can… 199 00:11:28,354 --> 00:11:31,399 Of course. Let's get back to it. - I'll schedule it. 200 00:11:31,482 --> 00:11:34,318 It's really exciting. Congratulations to both. 201 00:11:34,402 --> 00:11:37,279 Thank you very much. i love you We'll be back soon. 202 00:11:37,363 --> 00:11:39,448 It was nice to hear your voice. -Likewise. 203 00:11:39,532 --> 00:11:41,659 Talk to you soon. Hello! -See you. 204 00:11:44,328 --> 00:11:46,163 Always nice to hear from mom. 205 00:11:46,247 --> 00:11:50,042 He seems wild. He's on the road. "I'm starting a new job." 206 00:11:50,126 --> 00:11:52,128 This is my life. 207 00:11:52,211 --> 00:11:55,631 I didn't know he was applying for a job or being in Arizona. 208 00:11:55,715 --> 00:11:58,217 Should have asked for tips. 209 00:11:58,300 --> 00:12:01,470 There are probably enough of them. -"Check the men." 210 00:12:01,554 --> 00:12:04,473 Shall we sit down? -Yeah. 211 00:12:05,057 --> 00:12:07,852 Shall we sit here? -Yeah. This is good. 212 00:12:07,935 --> 00:12:10,646 Don't know what your mother is doing now? - Not at all. 213 00:12:10,730 --> 00:12:15,359 You know what he did in Montana? -He drove loads up and down the mountain. 214 00:12:15,443 --> 00:12:16,360 Ohhh. 215 00:12:16,444 --> 00:12:21,323 He retrieved his motorcycle from storage and drive it to the next location. 216 00:12:22,241 --> 00:12:23,951 That's how he works. - Crazy. 217 00:12:24,034 --> 00:12:27,997 That's the beauty of travel. That gives you the perspective you want. 218 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,208 I lived in Florida. I spent a lot of time in Arizona. 219 00:12:31,292 --> 00:12:34,420 I know I enjoy those places. 220 00:12:34,503 --> 00:12:37,256 I also know where I am not comfortable. -Cleveland? 221 00:12:37,339 --> 00:12:38,758 Not really. 222 00:12:39,341 --> 00:12:41,051 I said it directly. - I know. 223 00:12:41,135 --> 00:12:45,264 Are your items in Florida? -It's not much. Most are here. 224 00:12:45,347 --> 00:12:48,392 The rest are in storage in Florida. I am flexible. 225 00:12:48,476 --> 00:12:51,145 Let's see what comes up. 226 00:12:51,228 --> 00:12:54,565 You are so calm. I need a little more from you. 227 00:12:55,065 --> 00:12:58,944 Do you want me not to be calm? -No. I appreciate your calmness. 228 00:12:59,028 --> 00:13:01,447 I just panicked more. -Of course. 229 00:13:01,530 --> 00:13:05,743 I've lived like this before. I feel more comfortable. 230 00:13:05,826 --> 00:13:09,038 But I'll give you some leeway to the best of my ability. 231 00:13:09,121 --> 00:13:12,500 We are in the right place. We take it one day at a time. 232 00:13:13,083 --> 00:13:16,086 I'm just afraid of the unknown. -I understand that very well. 233 00:13:16,170 --> 00:13:20,508 My life has been disciplined and easy. -You like to plan. So. 234 00:13:20,591 --> 00:13:25,888 Yeah, it's because of my parents… We had an easy and comfortable life. 235 00:13:26,764 --> 00:13:30,518 I'm always up for an adventure, but this is different. 236 00:13:31,101 --> 00:13:34,772 This is not… This is crazy. -Right. 237 00:13:34,855 --> 00:13:37,399 This is exactly how I imagined my life. -Yes. 238 00:13:46,408 --> 00:13:48,702 Where do you put your dirty clothes? 239 00:13:48,786 --> 00:13:50,204 Dirty clothes? -Yeah. 240 00:13:50,287 --> 00:13:54,542 They're all together now. I'll put these up here. 241 00:13:54,625 --> 00:13:55,876 Order. 242 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:57,628 Do you know what I mean? 243 00:13:58,337 --> 00:13:59,338 Yes. 244 00:13:59,421 --> 00:14:03,008 You look at me like I'm crazy because I arrange. 245 00:14:03,092 --> 00:14:06,345 I wasn't always just as systematic, but… 246 00:14:06,428 --> 00:14:07,763 I'm a little freaked out. 247 00:14:07,847 --> 00:14:10,349 I know. I might not just… 248 00:14:10,432 --> 00:14:13,561 I am productive when motivated. This is just not motivating. 249 00:14:13,644 --> 00:14:14,645 Get motivated. 250 00:14:14,728 --> 00:14:17,523 I'm not motivated by orders. 251 00:14:17,606 --> 00:14:18,732 Where then? 252 00:14:19,316 --> 00:14:24,822 I'm not motivated right now, that we don't have a laundry basket or anything. 253 00:14:24,905 --> 00:14:26,574 Put them aside. - I know. 254 00:14:26,657 --> 00:14:29,785 It's gonna feel a little sloppy, but that's okay. 255 00:14:29,869 --> 00:14:34,039 Shorts. Let's wash… -Do you separate colors when you do laundry? 256 00:14:34,915 --> 00:14:36,542 Yeah. -Clear. 257 00:14:36,625 --> 00:14:37,835 Don't you? 258 00:14:37,918 --> 00:14:41,755 I separate. That's why I asked. -Who doesn't distinguish colors? 259 00:14:42,673 --> 00:14:43,799 Serial killers? 260 00:14:44,300 --> 00:14:47,511 Yeah. I can really tell the colors apart. 261 00:14:48,387 --> 00:14:50,180 I'm hungry. 262 00:14:50,764 --> 00:14:54,101 I'm done. Now I can go enjoy… 263 00:14:55,019 --> 00:14:57,229 I'll have a beer and relax. 264 00:14:57,313 --> 00:15:00,608 Open frosty. -This is a bit strange. 265 00:15:00,691 --> 00:15:05,404 I haven't lived with anyone but my family. 266 00:15:05,487 --> 00:15:09,491 So. Are you worried or excited about something? 267 00:15:09,575 --> 00:15:12,578 I've never lived with a woman. -Yeah. 268 00:15:12,661 --> 00:15:14,955 You bring your own mess and stuff. 269 00:15:15,039 --> 00:15:16,332 Yes, but I… 270 00:15:16,415 --> 00:15:19,668 Shoes there, socks here. -Clear. 271 00:15:19,752 --> 00:15:22,796 We both have our quirks. - Well, of course. 272 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,424 I certainly have enough of them. -Clear. 273 00:15:25,507 --> 00:15:28,427 I noticed in Cabo that you don't close the doors. 274 00:15:29,011 --> 00:15:31,847 Yeah. There was only one locker. 275 00:15:32,806 --> 00:15:36,393 And not. It had both sides. We have our quirks. 276 00:15:36,477 --> 00:15:39,438 There were my shirts and stuff. 277 00:15:39,521 --> 00:15:43,317 But the door is closed behind. It makes no odds. 278 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:46,946 Various quirks. That'll make it. - I'm trying to close the doors. 279 00:15:47,529 --> 00:15:50,491 I'm trying to pick up my stuff. -Compromise. 280 00:15:50,574 --> 00:15:54,411 We already made compromises. How else. 281 00:15:59,083 --> 00:16:01,085 It's great to be back. 282 00:16:01,168 --> 00:16:03,587 To be honest… -Me too. 283 00:16:03,671 --> 00:16:07,091 I met Emma before. It was crazy to see my daughter. 284 00:16:07,174 --> 00:16:10,386 It was a wonderful reunion… 285 00:16:11,804 --> 00:16:13,847 How do you say it? 286 00:16:14,348 --> 00:16:15,432 Reunion! 287 00:16:15,516 --> 00:16:20,729 Emma immediately noticed my ring. "What is that?" 288 00:16:21,814 --> 00:16:24,358 "Who did you get it from?" I said from a man. 289 00:16:24,441 --> 00:16:28,612 We talked long and hard. I said things are open. 290 00:16:28,696 --> 00:16:32,116 He will meet dad and you. Everyone must agree. 291 00:16:32,199 --> 00:16:37,204 It immediately put her at ease. 292 00:16:37,287 --> 00:16:39,623 It's great that he took it well. 293 00:16:39,707 --> 00:16:44,461 I get to be happy. I get to be with someone. 294 00:16:44,545 --> 00:16:46,463 Yeah. Of course. 295 00:16:46,547 --> 00:16:48,841 And… - I really hope so. 296 00:16:48,924 --> 00:16:50,092 Yeah. 297 00:16:51,010 --> 00:16:55,264 So… It is again… -You should be happy. 298 00:16:55,848 --> 00:16:57,891 So. -You deserve it. 299 00:16:59,601 --> 00:17:00,644 Let's hug. 300 00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:17,202 Three weeks… - To the wedding. 301 00:17:17,286 --> 00:17:18,620 For our wedding. 302 00:17:19,121 --> 00:17:24,251 You know I don't want to be in a bad marriage. 303 00:17:24,334 --> 00:17:26,211 So. - I want this to work. 304 00:17:26,295 --> 00:17:32,134 At the end of the exam, I want to be sure when I say "I will". 305 00:17:32,217 --> 00:17:35,971 I commit to our union, until death do us part. 306 00:17:36,055 --> 00:17:37,306 So. -So... 307 00:17:37,389 --> 00:17:41,477 That's what I hope and fear at the same time. 308 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:42,561 Yes. 309 00:17:42,644 --> 00:17:45,022 My family doesn't believe in divorce. 310 00:17:45,522 --> 00:17:48,567 I know things happen. 311 00:17:48,650 --> 00:17:52,362 But on the eve of marriage I'm not really thinking about divorce. 312 00:17:52,446 --> 00:17:55,949 I know, but you know my background. 313 00:17:56,033 --> 00:17:57,034 Yeah. 314 00:17:57,117 --> 00:18:00,120 We're both fucking betting on it. 315 00:18:00,204 --> 00:18:02,289 Should I say "damn"? 316 00:18:02,372 --> 00:18:06,877 Sorry. That's how I feel. We give it our all. 317 00:18:07,628 --> 00:18:09,338 Clear. 318 00:18:11,048 --> 00:18:14,885 I meant to say the rest with an accent. -Do not. 319 00:18:14,968 --> 00:18:18,597 We try to be serious. - That's why I didn't do it. 320 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:22,017 That's why I'm serious. I just said I held back. 321 00:18:22,101 --> 00:18:26,855 Thanks for stopping by, when we try to have a serious conversation. 322 00:18:26,939 --> 00:18:28,440 Nothing. 323 00:18:29,441 --> 00:18:30,943 Why did you choose me? 324 00:18:32,277 --> 00:18:38,033 You were so confident goal-oriented and strong. 325 00:18:38,117 --> 00:18:44,206 Even when you didn't give up sandboarding because you wanted down. 326 00:18:44,289 --> 00:18:45,999 Stop it. 327 00:18:46,083 --> 00:18:50,420 It's charming, that you pursue your dreams. 328 00:18:50,504 --> 00:18:54,842 I see it in many things. You worked hard. 329 00:18:54,925 --> 00:19:00,848 You are respected in your work. It motivates me immensely. 330 00:19:00,931 --> 00:19:05,644 You say directly what you want and need. 331 00:19:06,228 --> 00:19:09,189 I needed it. I just didn't know how much. 332 00:19:09,273 --> 00:19:11,817 I know and see that you care about people. 333 00:19:11,900 --> 00:19:16,446 If people bet on you… 334 00:19:16,530 --> 00:19:20,200 Your loved ones, loved ones, friends and family... 335 00:19:20,701 --> 00:19:24,454 I feel how tender you are towards me too. 336 00:19:24,538 --> 00:19:27,875 You do everything for your loved ones. 337 00:19:27,958 --> 00:19:30,627 It exudes you. 338 00:19:31,503 --> 00:19:33,088 So. 339 00:19:37,009 --> 00:19:39,970 I'm just a regular Mimmi from Michigan. 340 00:19:41,597 --> 00:19:43,807 I got lucky with you. 341 00:19:44,474 --> 00:19:46,810 I got lucky with you too. 342 00:19:48,312 --> 00:19:50,981 Because I'm a regular stallion from Ohio? 343 00:19:51,481 --> 00:19:54,776 People always say you know it. 344 00:19:54,860 --> 00:19:58,822 I tried to understand how it feels. 345 00:19:58,906 --> 00:20:05,245 If I close my eyes and imagine, with whom I share my life, I saw you. 346 00:20:05,329 --> 00:20:08,540 Our lives fit together perfectly. 347 00:20:08,624 --> 00:20:14,129 We're going to Ann Arbor, we go to football matches and your family parties. 348 00:20:14,213 --> 00:20:17,549 And in Pennsylvania. We try water skiing. 349 00:20:17,633 --> 00:20:20,052 I have dreamed of these moments. 350 00:20:20,135 --> 00:20:24,473 I'm excited to experience them with you. 351 00:20:26,225 --> 00:20:28,143 That was a really good feeling. 352 00:20:28,227 --> 00:20:30,103 I imagined these things too. 353 00:20:30,187 --> 00:20:35,192 Now we are in the bedroom, that we imagined. 354 00:20:35,275 --> 00:20:37,569 This is exactly what we imagined. - It's us. 355 00:20:37,653 --> 00:20:38,904 So. - We are here. 356 00:20:38,987 --> 00:20:40,197 Here we are. 357 00:20:53,335 --> 00:20:55,879 can you believe that the wedding is three weeks away? 358 00:20:55,963 --> 00:20:58,215 Are you excited? -I am. 359 00:20:58,298 --> 00:21:00,425 Legally bound. -Yeah. 360 00:21:00,509 --> 00:21:03,011 I don't bring my boyfriend on the show. 361 00:21:03,095 --> 00:21:05,472 Right. - I'm bringing a groom home. 362 00:21:05,555 --> 00:21:10,352 It's pretty good, that this was not really easy. 363 00:21:10,435 --> 00:21:13,397 Moments later, our emotions boiled over. 364 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:17,067 I saw a different side of you than I thought. And the same the other way around. 365 00:21:17,776 --> 00:21:20,570 I really hope this works. 366 00:21:21,154 --> 00:21:23,824 This seems to be working already. 367 00:21:23,907 --> 00:21:26,785 I believe that love is blind. 368 00:21:26,868 --> 00:21:30,914 I'm really hopeful that we can make this work. 369 00:21:30,998 --> 00:21:34,751 That's what I hope too. And I'm not afraid of anything about it. 370 00:21:34,835 --> 00:21:36,795 I know we're talking openly. 371 00:21:36,878 --> 00:21:42,926 Sometimes it takes me a while to open up, but… -Yeah, I'll ask 15 times. 372 00:21:43,010 --> 00:21:45,804 We've made it through. -I agree. 373 00:21:45,887 --> 00:21:48,098 So far. Communication works. 374 00:21:48,181 --> 00:21:51,101 As for me, you hear my words when I speak. 375 00:21:51,184 --> 00:21:52,394 Yeah. -And... 376 00:21:52,477 --> 00:21:54,771 I appreciate it, and… -Of course. 377 00:21:54,855 --> 00:21:56,606 I appreciate your communication. 378 00:21:56,690 --> 00:21:59,609 We now have a good foundation. -Yeah. 379 00:21:59,693 --> 00:22:03,697 I trust you. I feel safe with you. 380 00:22:03,780 --> 00:22:06,450 I will help with that with your patience. 381 00:22:07,034 --> 00:22:08,785 You are very virtuous. 382 00:22:09,411 --> 00:22:12,581 That's what I appreciate in a man. 383 00:22:13,165 --> 00:22:14,583 Great to hear. 384 00:22:16,668 --> 00:22:18,045 You are like that. 385 00:22:18,628 --> 00:22:20,380 Let's go to sleep. - Yep. 386 00:22:20,881 --> 00:22:22,674 First night in our house. -Yes. 387 00:22:35,979 --> 00:22:38,273 20 DAYS TO THE WEDDING 388 00:22:40,734 --> 00:22:42,277 Then let's go. 389 00:22:43,195 --> 00:22:46,782 Today we will visit each other's house. 390 00:22:46,865 --> 00:22:49,910 Never mind. The cabbage is a little flooded. 391 00:22:50,410 --> 00:22:52,829 We live in Columbus and Mount Vernon. 392 00:22:52,913 --> 00:22:54,373 Be good. 393 00:22:55,457 --> 00:22:57,459 This is the living room. - Okay. 394 00:22:57,542 --> 00:22:59,961 Here is the Horror from the Crypt series. 395 00:23:00,462 --> 00:23:03,465 This… Oh shit. Let's put these in a box. 396 00:23:03,548 --> 00:23:05,175 Kitchen. -Clear. 397 00:23:05,258 --> 00:23:08,053 Does the banana taste good? -Oh my god! 398 00:23:08,136 --> 00:23:10,430 I left some broccoli here. 399 00:23:10,514 --> 00:23:13,058 Disgusting. -And water. Bathroom. 400 00:23:13,642 --> 00:23:17,396 let's see how much weight I gained after Mexico. 401 00:23:17,479 --> 00:23:20,107 Oops. Don't look at it. Yeah. 402 00:23:20,190 --> 00:23:21,233 The bedroom is… 403 00:23:22,442 --> 00:23:24,069 Well… -It's not bad. 404 00:23:24,152 --> 00:23:25,153 It isn't. 405 00:23:25,237 --> 00:23:26,738 Yeah. - This is quite nice. 406 00:23:26,822 --> 00:23:29,116 I still like my bed. -I see. 407 00:23:29,199 --> 00:23:32,911 This is still pretty nice. - But it's good to be here. 408 00:23:33,829 --> 00:23:35,914 Welcome to the man cave. - Wow. 409 00:23:38,125 --> 00:23:39,042 Dart board. 410 00:23:39,126 --> 00:23:41,420 You can throw darts here. -Yeah. 411 00:23:41,503 --> 00:23:45,424 We can hang out here. - I'll go next to the sword. 412 00:23:47,467 --> 00:23:48,593 Yeah, that's nice. 413 00:23:48,677 --> 00:23:49,970 Cool place. 414 00:23:50,053 --> 00:23:52,389 I would probably decorate differently. 415 00:23:52,472 --> 00:23:55,016 I don't know if my stuff will fit in here. 416 00:23:55,100 --> 00:23:57,185 Not here, yeah. 417 00:23:57,269 --> 00:23:58,979 As long as we get a room. 418 00:23:59,062 --> 00:24:04,734 I don't need a fancy giant home. It doesn't have to be anything earth-shattering. 419 00:24:04,818 --> 00:24:08,280 I'm the same. I don't want to go beyond our means. 420 00:24:08,363 --> 00:24:13,243 A mortgage should not be stressful. I want to spend my money on enjoyment and not… 421 00:24:13,743 --> 00:24:16,288 To constant stress. -Exactly. 422 00:24:16,371 --> 00:24:19,082 I can't stand it when the gang gets attached to the material. 423 00:24:19,166 --> 00:24:22,002 I see. - There is much more to life. 424 00:24:22,085 --> 00:24:28,967 We experienced something incredible. Money can't buy that. 425 00:24:29,050 --> 00:24:30,927 So. -And didn't get it. 426 00:24:31,011 --> 00:24:37,392 First impressions are such a thing, what nothing… 427 00:24:37,476 --> 00:24:40,395 Even if you take me on vacation or to a wonderful place. 428 00:24:40,479 --> 00:24:43,148 I was still happier in that moment. 429 00:24:43,231 --> 00:24:44,816 Sweetly said. 430 00:24:48,236 --> 00:24:50,489 That felt good. I agree. 431 00:24:50,572 --> 00:24:51,907 What about the neighborhood? 432 00:24:51,990 --> 00:24:58,079 You'll see it then. When Emma is with us, we have to find out... 433 00:24:58,163 --> 00:25:01,082 Schools and other things. -He has a good school now, so... 434 00:25:01,166 --> 00:25:03,752 Yes. It must be taken into account. 435 00:25:03,835 --> 00:25:05,670 I know we already talked about this. 436 00:25:05,754 --> 00:25:09,591 If we keep a house in Mount Vernon, because I bought it so cheap. 437 00:25:09,674 --> 00:25:13,678 We could rent it or come Mount Vernon for a couple of months. 438 00:25:13,762 --> 00:25:16,473 You will be in Mount Vernon for the rest of your life. 439 00:25:17,807 --> 00:25:20,310 I need a little change to the bars. 440 00:25:20,393 --> 00:25:23,230 What if you don't? What if you find your gang… 441 00:25:23,313 --> 00:25:25,815 I saw there's a pierogi place. 442 00:25:25,899 --> 00:25:27,108 You should be careful. 443 00:25:27,192 --> 00:25:30,445 I already weighed myself upstairs. I don't need pierogies. 444 00:25:36,034 --> 00:25:38,370 Yay! Nice to show my home. 445 00:25:38,453 --> 00:25:42,374 I live an hour away in Mount Vernon. I hope he likes it. 446 00:25:42,457 --> 00:25:46,586 Maybe we could consider living here even for a while. 447 00:25:46,670 --> 00:25:49,214 I'll show you everything I did. - I like black. 448 00:25:49,297 --> 00:25:51,383 I renovated the door and porch. 449 00:25:51,466 --> 00:25:52,634 It looks amazing. 450 00:25:52,717 --> 00:25:55,220 I bought a slightly older house. 451 00:25:55,303 --> 00:25:58,223 I renovated it for seven years room at a time. 452 00:25:58,306 --> 00:26:00,392 Did you fix the windows? -Yes. 453 00:26:00,475 --> 00:26:02,561 He wants to be close to Columbus. 454 00:26:02,644 --> 00:26:09,526 But financially it would be better stay here. We save money. 455 00:26:09,609 --> 00:26:10,944 Here it is! 456 00:26:11,027 --> 00:26:12,696 That's nice. -Thanks. 457 00:26:12,779 --> 00:26:16,157 It would also make my life easier. Emma's school is here. 458 00:26:16,241 --> 00:26:21,037 If he fucks a girl from Columbus, we can live there. 459 00:26:21,121 --> 00:26:22,831 Is this the dollhouse? 460 00:26:22,914 --> 00:26:26,585 Yes. This dollhouse I built for Emma for Christmas. 461 00:26:26,668 --> 00:26:27,961 Absolutely insane. 462 00:26:28,044 --> 00:26:30,505 This is what the fireplace looked like before. 463 00:26:30,589 --> 00:26:32,424 It got a lot better. -Yeah. 464 00:26:32,507 --> 00:26:34,551 The staircase used to look like this. 465 00:26:34,634 --> 00:26:36,886 I like the new railings. 466 00:26:38,430 --> 00:26:40,724 You messed up a lot. A wonderful home. 467 00:26:41,558 --> 00:26:45,812 Teddy Grahams and… -Chocolate cookies are addictive. 468 00:26:45,895 --> 00:26:47,439 I can't contain myself. 469 00:26:47,522 --> 00:26:50,400 Have you tried these Moo Bites? - Yes, probably. 470 00:26:50,483 --> 00:26:53,987 "I guess yes"? I only bought these when I had a child. 471 00:26:54,070 --> 00:26:56,031 Yeah. I don't allow them to myself. 472 00:26:56,114 --> 00:26:58,783 The girl gets mad if you eat Moo Bites. 473 00:26:58,867 --> 00:27:01,578 I'll bring mine with me. Is it okay? 474 00:27:01,661 --> 00:27:03,413 Then he eats yours. 475 00:27:03,496 --> 00:27:05,665 You're going to have a fight. 476 00:27:05,749 --> 00:27:08,918 This is Emma's room. -Little sloth. 477 00:27:09,002 --> 00:27:11,588 He decorated everything himself. 478 00:27:11,671 --> 00:27:14,883 Here is my room. - That's nice. Pretty. 479 00:27:15,467 --> 00:27:17,135 This is pretty nice. 480 00:27:17,218 --> 00:27:20,055 It's pretty good to be there. -Yeah. Jeez… 481 00:27:20,138 --> 00:27:21,973 I thought you were attacking. - I don't. 482 00:27:22,057 --> 00:27:24,017 You've worked hard for this. 483 00:27:24,100 --> 00:27:27,812 If we are here even for a moment, we are not far. 484 00:27:27,896 --> 00:27:30,273 I would like to be closer to the city. 485 00:27:30,357 --> 00:27:32,859 There's more to do. - Well, yeah. 486 00:27:32,942 --> 00:27:35,945 In the longer term I want a new home together. 487 00:27:36,029 --> 00:27:38,073 It feels like both of them. 488 00:27:38,156 --> 00:27:41,159 I bought this cheap. 489 00:27:41,242 --> 00:27:44,454 I couldn't afford anything else With Emma. 490 00:27:44,537 --> 00:27:47,957 When I got her, and before my proper job. 491 00:27:48,041 --> 00:27:50,794 This was supposed to be very temporary. 492 00:27:50,877 --> 00:27:53,922 Although the car lane type is nice… - Yes. 493 00:27:54,673 --> 00:27:58,093 I didn't think about retiring here. -Okay. So. 494 00:27:58,927 --> 00:28:00,512 Do you know? -Yeah. 495 00:28:10,355 --> 00:28:12,399 Hello! - Hello, mom. 496 00:28:12,482 --> 00:28:13,608 You look pretty. 497 00:28:13,692 --> 00:28:15,235 Thanks. 498 00:28:15,735 --> 00:28:17,445 Here's Vic. -Hello. 499 00:28:17,529 --> 00:28:20,782 It's nice to meet you. -Vic, this is Melody. 500 00:28:20,865 --> 00:28:23,827 I heard a lot about you. - Jeez. It's nice to meet you. 501 00:28:23,910 --> 00:28:26,162 I'm excited for them to meet. 502 00:28:26,246 --> 00:28:29,416 I want to see my mother's reaction. 503 00:28:29,499 --> 00:28:32,502 He knows how excited I am about this. 504 00:28:32,585 --> 00:28:36,256 You are getting married. How does that thought make you feel? 505 00:28:36,339 --> 00:28:38,508 I'm excited. - Are you ready? 506 00:28:38,591 --> 00:28:41,386 I am very excited and confident. -Good. 507 00:28:41,469 --> 00:28:46,141 I trust my decision. I let God lead. 508 00:28:46,224 --> 00:28:51,855 I find it strange that someone like you an educated person would go for this. 509 00:28:51,938 --> 00:28:53,356 How are you single? 510 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:57,402 Not because that you have to be stupid for this. 511 00:28:57,485 --> 00:28:59,279 But first… 512 00:28:59,362 --> 00:29:02,991 The girl doesn't fit that mold, which I saw on this show. 513 00:29:03,074 --> 00:29:07,871 I didn't see him like that. I wonder how he fits in. 514 00:29:07,954 --> 00:29:10,832 Were you put together or how did it go? 515 00:29:10,915 --> 00:29:12,250 No. -It just happened. 516 00:29:12,333 --> 00:29:14,127 Because you were in a group. 517 00:29:14,210 --> 00:29:17,255 I didn't want to poke right away: "Do you believe in God?" 518 00:29:17,338 --> 00:29:22,927 "You do this and that. What do you do for a living?" I didn't want to load right away. 519 00:29:23,011 --> 00:29:28,516 Before I could even mention it, he brought it up. 520 00:29:29,017 --> 00:29:31,352 Your voice attracted me. I can't explain. 521 00:29:31,436 --> 00:29:36,900 I've been trying to find words for it, how you feel the force of attraction through the wall. 522 00:29:36,983 --> 00:29:40,737 He knows things about me that no one else knows. 523 00:29:40,820 --> 00:29:44,324 It's amazing. He accepts me regardless. 524 00:29:44,407 --> 00:29:46,326 Because you were honest. 525 00:29:46,409 --> 00:29:52,874 The program is like God's way bring you together. 526 00:29:52,957 --> 00:29:56,503 How else would you have met? It sounds corny… 527 00:29:56,586 --> 00:29:58,004 That's how I feel too. 528 00:29:58,087 --> 00:30:00,882 what were you thinking when did you see each other for the first time? 529 00:30:00,965 --> 00:30:04,052 I think that was a bonus in many ways. 530 00:30:04,135 --> 00:30:09,390 Before the doors opened i knew i loved him. 531 00:30:09,474 --> 00:30:11,434 "I truly love Christine." 532 00:30:11,518 --> 00:30:13,019 That would be a scary moment. 533 00:30:13,102 --> 00:30:16,648 So it was. I was a little nervous, I must admit. 534 00:30:16,731 --> 00:30:20,610 He is so hearty, and gets it in many ways from you. 535 00:30:20,693 --> 00:30:23,238 I was happy to hear that we are meeting. 536 00:30:23,321 --> 00:30:25,949 Nice to hear. -The way he talked about you… 537 00:30:26,032 --> 00:30:29,828 I knew that his big heart inherited from someone. 538 00:30:29,911 --> 00:30:34,332 I wanted to meet you to see its source. 539 00:30:34,415 --> 00:30:38,211 So you didn't hear the whole story. Madness was not mentioned. 540 00:30:38,711 --> 00:30:41,923 Everyone's a little crazy. -You'll see it again. 541 00:30:42,006 --> 00:30:43,633 He knows bad things. 542 00:30:43,716 --> 00:30:48,054 We have no reason to be proud. Our family is… 543 00:30:48,137 --> 00:30:51,349 There have been big problems in our family. -So. 544 00:30:51,432 --> 00:30:55,937 The girl has not had a good father in his life. 545 00:30:56,020 --> 00:31:00,066 We sided it a bit. -He was a real piston. 546 00:31:00,149 --> 00:31:02,527 Sorry, but it's true. 547 00:31:02,610 --> 00:31:04,445 He's still your father. -Right. 548 00:31:04,529 --> 00:31:07,115 He loves you. - That's what I told him too. 549 00:31:07,198 --> 00:31:11,619 I know he loves me. I feel sorry for him. 550 00:31:11,703 --> 00:31:13,830 But he is not close as a father. 551 00:31:13,913 --> 00:31:16,791 You will be shocked when he dies. It feels bad. 552 00:31:16,875 --> 00:31:18,084 So. -And you... 553 00:31:18,167 --> 00:31:20,545 I don't know about your situation. What… 554 00:31:20,628 --> 00:31:22,505 My father is not in my life. -Clear. 555 00:31:22,589 --> 00:31:26,926 But there's no grudge or anything involved. 556 00:31:27,010 --> 00:31:30,972 Maybe younger and still in my twenties felt like it, but… 557 00:31:31,055 --> 00:31:33,850 Today I think that I forgave him. 558 00:31:33,933 --> 00:31:38,062 We spoke with Christine agreed about his father. 559 00:31:38,146 --> 00:31:42,025 We talked about forgiveness must be found at some point. 560 00:31:42,108 --> 00:31:43,109 So. 561 00:31:43,192 --> 00:31:47,071 And what would it look like when the father is still alive. 562 00:31:47,155 --> 00:31:50,575 He has a similar story. Single mothers. 563 00:31:50,658 --> 00:31:53,953 Self-sacrificing mothers. I guess that unites us. 564 00:31:54,037 --> 00:31:59,292 There was a lot in common. But our mother would give their all to their loved ones. 565 00:31:59,375 --> 00:32:02,003 My grandmother had a great saying. 566 00:32:02,086 --> 00:32:06,424 "The family is like a hukar. It bends but never breaks." 567 00:32:06,507 --> 00:32:09,135 You get Vic, you don't lose me. -So. 568 00:32:09,218 --> 00:32:10,762 Yeah. -Yeah. 569 00:32:10,845 --> 00:32:11,804 For real. -Yeah. 570 00:32:11,888 --> 00:32:15,892 Already felt familiar, because I know Christine. 571 00:32:15,975 --> 00:32:21,272 I don't think he will settle or stretches in its standards. 572 00:32:21,356 --> 00:32:22,273 So. 573 00:32:22,357 --> 00:32:24,609 It's great that you met. 574 00:32:24,692 --> 00:32:25,610 So. -Yeah. 575 00:32:25,693 --> 00:32:27,779 It's comforting to know 576 00:32:27,862 --> 00:32:32,784 that someone cares about you like I do. 577 00:32:32,867 --> 00:32:34,619 So. -What about the kids? 578 00:32:34,702 --> 00:32:36,955 When will I have a grandchild? 579 00:32:37,705 --> 00:32:39,832 Do you want children? -Wait a minute. 580 00:32:39,916 --> 00:32:40,833 Yeah. -Yes. 581 00:32:40,917 --> 00:32:43,461 When we buy a house and settle down. 582 00:32:43,544 --> 00:32:46,839 Then we'll talk more. It will still take a while. 583 00:32:47,590 --> 00:32:48,591 So. -Yeah. 584 00:32:48,675 --> 00:32:52,929 I don't know. I am happy for both of you. 585 00:32:53,012 --> 00:32:54,806 I'm excited. So… 586 00:32:54,889 --> 00:32:56,432 This feels good. 587 00:32:56,516 --> 00:32:59,185 You were the most important person in my life. 588 00:32:59,268 --> 00:33:01,813 Now you are the most important, and… 589 00:33:01,896 --> 00:33:03,022 Yes. 590 00:33:03,106 --> 00:33:05,274 I'm happy you met. 591 00:33:05,358 --> 00:33:06,693 Yes. 592 00:33:06,776 --> 00:33:09,487 Do we pray quickly? Would you be open to that? 593 00:33:09,570 --> 00:33:10,655 That would be lovely. 594 00:33:11,239 --> 00:33:14,909 Mr. Thanks for letting us experience this loving moment. 595 00:33:14,993 --> 00:33:19,831 We get to talk and get to know each other. We get closer to each other and to You. 596 00:33:19,914 --> 00:33:21,541 We ask for your protection. 597 00:33:21,624 --> 00:33:25,086 Guide and lead us closer to You and each other. 598 00:33:25,169 --> 00:33:28,464 Now and always. We pray in the name of the Lord. Amen 599 00:33:28,548 --> 00:33:31,968 Vic is very gentle. I like that about him. 600 00:33:32,051 --> 00:33:34,887 He seems very confident. 601 00:33:34,971 --> 00:33:37,140 And I thought she was hot. 602 00:33:37,765 --> 00:33:39,183 Can I say that? 603 00:33:40,226 --> 00:33:42,729 It was beautiful. Thanks. 604 00:33:42,812 --> 00:33:44,230 So. This was awesome. 605 00:33:44,313 --> 00:33:46,733 I'm still in disbelief. 606 00:33:47,316 --> 00:33:51,696 The girl found such a perfect partner for himself. 607 00:33:51,779 --> 00:33:52,989 We are a family. 608 00:33:53,072 --> 00:33:55,199 We become a family. -So. 609 00:33:55,283 --> 00:33:57,910 I still want to hug. -Of course. 610 00:33:57,994 --> 00:34:00,038 May I hug your husband, Christine. 611 00:34:01,289 --> 00:34:04,459 Stand on your toes. - It was a pleasure to meet you. 612 00:34:04,542 --> 00:34:07,211 Same words. You wouldn't guess. 613 00:34:07,295 --> 00:34:08,755 Yeah. - This was great. 614 00:34:17,055 --> 00:34:19,932 Okay. Casa de Connor. 615 00:34:20,016 --> 00:34:22,060 Here we are. - Me first? 616 00:34:22,143 --> 00:34:23,436 Clear. 617 00:34:23,519 --> 00:34:26,606 The woman crosses the threshold first. 618 00:34:26,689 --> 00:34:28,191 The man still celebrates Christmas. 619 00:34:28,274 --> 00:34:30,735 The Christmas spirit lasts. - All right, Connor. 620 00:34:30,818 --> 00:34:35,323 It's exciting to show my home to Bri. It's great to own a home. It's mine. 621 00:34:35,406 --> 00:34:37,867 I bought it about two years ago. 622 00:34:37,950 --> 00:34:40,703 But this shows who I was before the exam. 623 00:34:41,204 --> 00:34:45,666 We might live here for a while. Let's see where we settle. 624 00:34:45,750 --> 00:34:48,252 There is pressure here, but… 625 00:34:51,339 --> 00:34:53,049 Way to go, Connor. -So. 626 00:34:54,509 --> 00:34:55,510 Kitchen. 627 00:34:55,593 --> 00:35:00,181 Do you volunteer to show your fridge? -Oh damn. 628 00:35:00,264 --> 00:35:03,142 Okay. This is a man's refrigerator. 629 00:35:03,226 --> 00:35:05,520 But she does the dishes. -So do the dishes. 630 00:35:05,603 --> 00:35:08,731 The counters are taken care of. - It's never a problem. 631 00:35:08,815 --> 00:35:10,525 Clear. -If you see creatine… 632 00:35:11,651 --> 00:35:12,777 For a smoothie. 633 00:35:12,860 --> 00:35:15,822 And more plants. The man likes plants. -Yeah. 634 00:35:15,905 --> 00:35:18,574 This surprises you. -I like plants. 635 00:35:23,579 --> 00:35:26,082 Christmas tree. Connor! 636 00:35:26,165 --> 00:35:28,584 I said I procrastinate. - Connor! 637 00:35:28,668 --> 00:35:32,505 I wanted a friend to help me. -So you decided to keep it. 638 00:35:32,588 --> 00:35:36,425 That can wait until next Christmas. - I wanted to break it down with you. 639 00:35:36,509 --> 00:35:39,178 I can't stand it. So, of course. -You get free hands. 640 00:35:39,262 --> 00:35:40,263 This is… 641 00:35:40,346 --> 00:35:43,224 This is a blank slate. - Is it? 642 00:35:43,808 --> 00:35:45,685 You are brave. Do you know that? 643 00:35:45,768 --> 00:35:47,311 And I'm not. - You are. 644 00:35:49,438 --> 00:35:50,690 What now? 645 00:35:51,190 --> 00:35:52,608 There's a bathroom here. 646 00:35:52,692 --> 00:35:55,570 Okay, this is nice. 647 00:35:55,653 --> 00:35:57,446 The ring is up. 648 00:35:57,530 --> 00:35:58,990 It wasn't me. 649 00:35:59,073 --> 00:36:01,492 He said he would put it down. -Yes. 650 00:36:03,119 --> 00:36:04,120 Clear. 651 00:36:04,203 --> 00:36:06,247 This is the guest room. 652 00:36:06,330 --> 00:36:10,209 If your bed didn't have a headboard, you would go straight to jail. 653 00:36:10,293 --> 00:36:12,003 would you leave me -Yeah. 654 00:36:12,086 --> 00:36:15,715 It's best to have a headboard in your bed. -Do you love me or not? 655 00:36:15,798 --> 00:36:17,508 Connor, does it matter? 656 00:36:17,592 --> 00:36:21,053 Is love really blind? -Does it matter? 657 00:36:21,846 --> 00:36:24,432 This is a big reveal. -Here it is. 658 00:36:24,515 --> 00:36:26,601 Clear. He has a headboard. 659 00:36:31,105 --> 00:36:32,982 A note from 2022. 660 00:36:33,816 --> 00:36:36,402 I wrote a poem for the cottage. 661 00:36:36,485 --> 00:36:39,322 Crumple it up and throw it away. Ahead. 662 00:36:39,405 --> 00:36:41,199 Did you write this? -Yeah. 663 00:36:41,282 --> 00:36:42,408 He is a poet. 664 00:36:42,491 --> 00:36:45,703 Your vows are amazing. - I already wrote them. 665 00:36:46,871 --> 00:36:48,998 Will your oath be read today? -No. 666 00:36:49,081 --> 00:36:51,709 I won't read my vows until our wedding. 667 00:36:51,792 --> 00:36:53,920 Shall I show the game room? -Absolutely. 668 00:36:54,962 --> 00:36:58,007 Oh, my goodness. 669 00:36:58,090 --> 00:36:59,884 Here it is. 670 00:37:00,635 --> 00:37:03,429 Then at night… - This is the place. 671 00:37:03,512 --> 00:37:05,473 This is where I'm at my happiest. 672 00:37:07,642 --> 00:37:09,393 I really can't stand it. 673 00:37:09,477 --> 00:37:13,022 This is where work is done, and this is where we play. 674 00:37:13,105 --> 00:37:14,106 Yes. 675 00:37:14,190 --> 00:37:17,276 A gaming station is more advanced than a workstation. 676 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:18,903 I pay for this, they pay for that. 677 00:37:19,487 --> 00:37:21,739 I've never seen anything like this. 678 00:37:22,740 --> 00:37:24,700 Everyone has their thing. -Yes. 679 00:37:24,784 --> 00:37:26,869 This is yours. - My little thing. 680 00:37:26,953 --> 00:37:30,498 Do I see a barrel over there? - We'll talk about it later. 681 00:37:30,581 --> 00:37:33,042 There's a barrel outside. -That's right, damn it. 682 00:37:33,125 --> 00:37:34,669 This is a student house. 683 00:37:36,921 --> 00:37:39,507 They are fake snakes. -Good. 684 00:37:39,590 --> 00:37:42,760 I can't wait for you to see my home. 685 00:37:42,843 --> 00:37:45,096 You realize how different we are. 686 00:37:48,766 --> 00:37:50,017 Did the door close? 687 00:37:50,101 --> 00:37:53,104 You stand there so proud. 688 00:37:53,187 --> 00:37:54,355 Well… 689 00:37:54,438 --> 00:37:55,731 A man cave. 690 00:37:56,607 --> 00:37:57,900 Oh well, anyway. 691 00:37:57,984 --> 00:37:59,443 This is still in progress. 692 00:37:59,527 --> 00:38:03,197 The dart board comes into the corner, maybe a pool table, foosball, and… 693 00:38:03,281 --> 00:38:04,949 This is a man cave. 694 00:38:05,032 --> 00:38:06,158 Literally. 695 00:38:07,034 --> 00:38:10,288 The man cave is more important like a parking space in a garage. 696 00:38:10,371 --> 00:38:13,457 Clear. Casa de Connor. 697 00:38:13,541 --> 00:38:17,003 If I came to a guy at 21… 698 00:38:17,086 --> 00:38:19,338 But you're 32. 699 00:38:19,422 --> 00:38:21,173 Are you kidding me? -Yeah. 700 00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:28,222 Is that what you lock the door with? You put the latch? 701 00:38:28,306 --> 00:38:31,434 The neighborhood is good. Not coming here. - Is that my security? 702 00:38:31,517 --> 00:38:35,021 Such is the case at someone's backyard gate. 703 00:38:35,104 --> 00:38:36,814 You cannot enter from the outside. 704 00:38:37,690 --> 00:38:39,442 I want to test it. 705 00:38:42,737 --> 00:38:44,905 I want to see how sturdy this is. 706 00:38:45,406 --> 00:38:47,658 Oh my gosh! 707 00:38:48,784 --> 00:38:49,827 Jukolist! 708 00:38:50,328 --> 00:38:54,415 Oh my god. I didn't know that you push so hard. 709 00:38:54,498 --> 00:38:56,125 Damn it. 710 00:38:56,208 --> 00:38:57,793 Hell no. 711 00:38:57,877 --> 00:39:00,087 It never comes off like that. 712 00:39:00,588 --> 00:39:02,131 Oh for god's sake. 713 00:39:02,214 --> 00:39:06,719 Connor! I only used a little force. I'm not safe here. 714 00:39:06,802 --> 00:39:08,346 It's not safe here. 715 00:39:08,429 --> 00:39:11,849 Columbus calls. - That's what you heard. We have to go. 716 00:39:11,932 --> 00:39:14,685 Let's disappear. - Helkari. You still destroy the whole room. 717 00:39:21,233 --> 00:39:22,860 Excited? -None. 718 00:39:22,943 --> 00:39:25,613 Should I be excited? - I don't know. See you soon. 719 00:39:26,197 --> 00:39:27,865 Nice to see them. -Really? 720 00:39:27,948 --> 00:39:30,493 We haven't been apart this long. 721 00:39:30,576 --> 00:39:32,119 It's going well. - I know. 722 00:39:32,203 --> 00:39:35,539 Alex is meeting my family today. I'm a little nervous. 723 00:39:35,623 --> 00:39:37,666 what are you drinking -I'll take the Old Fashioned. 724 00:39:37,750 --> 00:39:39,043 That's what my dad drinks too. 725 00:39:39,126 --> 00:39:43,714 My father is the protector and breadwinner. He fights for his family. 726 00:39:43,798 --> 00:39:46,425 They came. Hello! 727 00:39:46,509 --> 00:39:50,513 I'm his little girl. He thinks I'm treated well. 728 00:39:50,596 --> 00:39:54,392 I will get a good marriage. My father thinks I deserve everything. 729 00:39:54,892 --> 00:39:56,310 He's right. 730 00:39:57,561 --> 00:39:59,647 Hello! -Oh my god. Girl lover. 731 00:39:59,730 --> 00:40:01,315 Healthy. I'm Alex. -Hello. 732 00:40:01,399 --> 00:40:04,068 I'm Jackie. Nice to meet you. -Same words. 733 00:40:04,151 --> 00:40:05,945 I missed you. I start to cry. 734 00:40:06,028 --> 00:40:07,405 I'm Pete. - Nice to meet you. 735 00:40:07,488 --> 00:40:09,782 How is it going? I'm Paul. - Nice to meet you. 736 00:40:09,865 --> 00:40:11,367 The joy is ours. -Thanks. 737 00:40:11,450 --> 00:40:12,743 Nice to meet you. 738 00:40:12,827 --> 00:40:16,872 You go to the end of the table. -Ahsley decides everything. 739 00:40:16,956 --> 00:40:18,541 I realized that quickly. 740 00:40:19,041 --> 00:40:21,460 Yeah. Everyone will figure it out eventually. 741 00:40:21,544 --> 00:40:24,130 That's how it goes. -He is strong-willed. 742 00:40:24,213 --> 00:40:25,923 Answer this, Alex. 743 00:40:26,006 --> 00:40:28,467 Reel off. Tell me. -Clear. 744 00:40:28,551 --> 00:40:30,052 What did you learn about Ashley? 745 00:40:30,136 --> 00:40:31,846 Vastly. -Tell me a little. 746 00:40:31,929 --> 00:40:37,643 I fell in love with it, how close he is with his family. 747 00:40:37,726 --> 00:40:41,772 You taught your children to do good decisions. 748 00:40:41,856 --> 00:40:45,818 He made it clear, 749 00:40:45,901 --> 00:40:49,822 that he is independent, strong and very confident. 750 00:40:49,905 --> 00:40:55,244 He brings it with him to the relationship and is ready to commit. 751 00:40:55,327 --> 00:41:00,416 I think about you a lot. I look for the same in him. 752 00:41:00,499 --> 00:41:04,670 I wanted to get to know him more. He became my best friend. 753 00:41:04,753 --> 00:41:08,007 I remember hoping in front of the door, that there would be Alex. 754 00:41:08,090 --> 00:41:11,302 He had everything I was looking for. 755 00:41:11,385 --> 00:41:12,303 Muscles. 756 00:41:12,887 --> 00:41:14,805 I didn't know. Love is blind. 757 00:41:14,889 --> 00:41:16,432 "Playmaker". - Futaaja. 758 00:41:18,267 --> 00:41:21,061 I learned more about him. He is adventurous. 759 00:41:21,145 --> 00:41:23,606 I want more of that in my life. 760 00:41:23,689 --> 00:41:26,108 I haven't traveled. It fascinated me. 761 00:41:26,192 --> 00:41:27,776 I told him about you. 762 00:41:27,860 --> 00:41:30,029 You are a protector and provider. 763 00:41:30,529 --> 00:41:32,072 I start to cry. 764 00:41:35,409 --> 00:41:38,120 I don't know. He felt at home, so… 765 00:41:38,704 --> 00:41:40,873 From home in a foreign land. -Yeah. 766 00:41:40,956 --> 00:41:43,792 Good thing, honey. - I found it. 767 00:41:47,505 --> 00:41:49,298 What did you study? 768 00:41:49,381 --> 00:41:52,551 My major was communication. I went on to finance. 769 00:41:52,635 --> 00:41:54,762 Did you study the field or did you go to work? 770 00:41:54,845 --> 00:41:56,972 I continued my studies in finance. 771 00:41:57,056 --> 00:42:00,559 I was a soccer player. I thought about playing after college. 772 00:42:00,643 --> 00:42:06,815 Rehabilitation required four knee surgeries. So I became a financial advisor. 773 00:42:06,899 --> 00:42:12,613 Covid hit, so I took a severance package. I traveled around the world. 774 00:42:12,696 --> 00:42:14,949 I have been traveling for the last few years. 775 00:42:15,533 --> 00:42:16,909 Did you work at the same time? 776 00:42:16,992 --> 00:42:19,328 Or were you just traveling? -Mostly a passenger. 777 00:42:19,411 --> 00:42:23,082 Tell me where you lived for the last five years. 778 00:42:23,165 --> 00:42:27,711 Chicago to Tampa, Tampa to San Diego. San Diego to Phoenix. 779 00:42:27,795 --> 00:42:31,757 I lived in New Zealand. I have dual citizenship. 780 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:36,220 I lived in Australia for a year. I worked three different jobs around the country. 781 00:42:36,303 --> 00:42:40,766 I work as a commercial fisherman 4–5 months in the Northern Territory. 782 00:42:40,849 --> 00:42:44,061 I ran a gym at Bondi Beach Outside of Sydney. 783 00:42:44,144 --> 00:42:47,481 I also worked for a long time casino in Melbourne. 784 00:42:47,565 --> 00:42:49,483 Did you meet Crocodile Dundee? 785 00:42:49,567 --> 00:42:51,110 I played like that. 786 00:42:51,193 --> 00:42:53,487 I fished and threw my catch overboard. 787 00:42:53,571 --> 00:42:56,824 Crocodiles and sharks surfaced. It was wild. 788 00:42:56,907 --> 00:43:00,160 I met my father when I was 25 in Hong Kong. 789 00:43:00,244 --> 00:43:02,329 How did it happen? 790 00:43:02,413 --> 00:43:04,415 He left before I was born. 791 00:43:04,498 --> 00:43:07,835 He started a family in Australia and ended up in Hong Kong. 792 00:43:07,918 --> 00:43:10,588 She married her translator and raised a family there. 793 00:43:10,671 --> 00:43:13,132 Were your parents married? -No. 794 00:43:13,215 --> 00:43:16,010 I was an "accident" to be honest. 795 00:43:16,093 --> 00:43:18,929 My mother wondered if she would keep me. 796 00:43:19,013 --> 00:43:22,224 My grandparents were more traditional in that sense. 797 00:43:22,308 --> 00:43:25,269 He kept me and I was the apple of my grandparents' eye. 798 00:43:25,352 --> 00:43:28,897 My grandparents were my family, as I told him. 799 00:43:28,981 --> 00:43:31,108 I called my stepfather father. 800 00:43:31,191 --> 00:43:35,237 How old were you when your mother got married? - I think two years old. 801 00:43:35,321 --> 00:43:38,198 Your stepfather was your father most of your life. 802 00:43:38,282 --> 00:43:41,952 Yeah. They broke up. My stepfather was not very nice. 803 00:43:42,036 --> 00:43:43,871 Why? -Physical violence. 804 00:43:43,954 --> 00:43:48,959 I was severely beaten in my childhood. I got no love from him. 805 00:43:49,543 --> 00:43:54,757 My grandparents showed me what is true love. 806 00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,510 I said it like that. 807 00:43:58,594 --> 00:44:03,515 I learned how to be a phenomenal husband and father through reverse. 808 00:44:03,599 --> 00:44:05,601 Who is your male role model, your grandfather? 809 00:44:05,684 --> 00:44:06,810 Absolutely. 810 00:44:06,894 --> 00:44:10,856 He took out a big world map. 811 00:44:10,939 --> 00:44:14,068 He Tailors various loans. 812 00:44:14,151 --> 00:44:17,613 He flew around To Iraq, Iran and Afghanistan. 813 00:44:17,696 --> 00:44:20,324 To places of risk. -Right. To prepare. 814 00:44:20,407 --> 00:44:22,409 How old did your grandfather live? 815 00:44:22,993 --> 00:44:24,411 He was 67. 816 00:44:24,495 --> 00:44:26,580 So young. - My grandmother died young too. 817 00:44:26,664 --> 00:44:29,375 How long were they married? -More than 50 years. 818 00:44:29,458 --> 00:44:31,669 It must have been 53 years. 819 00:44:31,752 --> 00:44:34,421 That can't be true. -Yes. 820 00:44:34,505 --> 00:44:37,132 He died in his 60s. -He was 67. 821 00:44:37,716 --> 00:44:42,763 My aunt said the union lasted 50 years. -Clear. Golden wedding day. Whatever. 822 00:44:43,347 --> 00:44:47,142 He hit my grandmother in Pomona, California. 823 00:44:47,226 --> 00:44:49,728 Grandma was a waitress. My grandfather did business. 824 00:44:49,812 --> 00:44:52,106 Grandpa asked for my grandma's number. 825 00:44:52,189 --> 00:44:55,275 Grandma gave it to me. He thought someone else was calling. 826 00:44:55,359 --> 00:44:57,945 He fell in love with the voice on the phone. 827 00:44:58,028 --> 00:45:00,030 A bit like you. -Right. 828 00:45:00,114 --> 00:45:01,782 Did you make that up? -I don't! 829 00:45:01,865 --> 00:45:04,952 look at me Did you figure it out? - I got a message from my aunt. 830 00:45:05,035 --> 00:45:07,746 You looked down to the left. - I looked to the right. 831 00:45:07,830 --> 00:45:09,957 You looked over there. - I was looking at the steak. 832 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,251 You don't. -Really? Maybe so. 833 00:45:12,334 --> 00:45:14,336 That's what my aunt actually said. 834 00:45:14,420 --> 00:45:17,673 Why do you want to settle down? Tired of traveling? 835 00:45:17,756 --> 00:45:18,757 Absolutely. 836 00:45:18,841 --> 00:45:22,594 I can't stand another grocery store, hall and a different group of friends. 837 00:45:22,678 --> 00:45:25,764 Different types? - I'm not lying. Absolutely. 838 00:45:25,848 --> 00:45:28,058 Clear. That's how it is. - I'll screw them up. 839 00:45:29,268 --> 00:45:31,311 Absolutely. 840 00:45:31,395 --> 00:45:33,313 Are you still in finance? - I don't. 841 00:45:33,397 --> 00:45:35,941 I do day trading. -What type? 842 00:45:36,024 --> 00:45:38,026 Australian and US dollars. 843 00:45:38,110 --> 00:45:40,904 How many trades per week? - Five good things a day. 844 00:45:40,988 --> 00:45:43,365 Do you use a broker? - I'll do it myself. 845 00:45:43,449 --> 00:45:45,075 Do you have permits? 846 00:45:45,159 --> 00:45:48,245 They got old. I didn't know if I would return to finance. 847 00:45:48,328 --> 00:45:51,039 I'm interested in crypto. -What is the price of Bitcoin? 848 00:45:51,123 --> 00:45:53,625 About a hundred thousand. I don't know at the moment. 849 00:45:53,709 --> 00:45:56,420 Don't use another currency? - Not at the moment. 850 00:45:56,503 --> 00:45:57,713 Did you vote for Trump? 851 00:45:57,796 --> 00:46:00,674 I didn't vote but I would have voted for Trump. 852 00:46:00,758 --> 00:46:03,635 Lintsari. -I wasn't here. I know. 853 00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,680 I am undoubtedly conservative. 854 00:46:06,764 --> 00:46:09,558 Fortunately, he won. -I feel sorry for him. 855 00:46:09,641 --> 00:46:11,351 Sorry. -No problem. 856 00:46:11,435 --> 00:46:12,811 I was a lawyer. -Yeah. 857 00:46:12,895 --> 00:46:15,856 I can handle this. - I might lie to test. 858 00:46:15,939 --> 00:46:17,649 I see. -I'll find the answer. 859 00:46:17,733 --> 00:46:20,152 Certainly. - I am a professional examiner. 860 00:46:20,235 --> 00:46:23,864 And believe it. Ashley came right up to her father. 861 00:46:25,741 --> 00:46:27,659 I can definitely see the similarities. 862 00:46:27,743 --> 00:46:30,329 You're studying me. And so it should be. 863 00:46:30,412 --> 00:46:33,874 I'll check you out. - I believe it. We are the same. 864 00:46:33,957 --> 00:46:37,211 We play around, for the other to reveal himself. 865 00:46:37,294 --> 00:46:39,296 You admit you're kidding. -Really? 866 00:46:39,379 --> 00:46:41,632 You said so. -Is that so? 867 00:46:41,715 --> 00:46:42,633 Yes. 868 00:46:42,716 --> 00:46:45,135 Perhaps. I think you're smarter than you pretend. 869 00:46:45,219 --> 00:46:48,680 I'm not very smart. - I don't believe that for a second. 870 00:46:48,764 --> 00:46:53,644 When you have a family, you say goodbye to your former self. 871 00:46:53,727 --> 00:46:55,896 What do you bring to the table as a father? 872 00:46:55,979 --> 00:47:00,275 I've heard that when a baby is in your arms, 873 00:47:00,359 --> 00:47:03,278 you sacrifice everything for the child. 874 00:47:03,362 --> 00:47:07,908 I want to rewrite my childhood. 875 00:47:07,991 --> 00:47:11,203 I can now set an example myself. 876 00:47:11,286 --> 00:47:13,705 Maybe it's selfish. I'm honest. 877 00:47:13,789 --> 00:47:17,543 I was educated before fatherhood. Football was important to me. 878 00:47:17,626 --> 00:47:21,588 I was never supposed to make it. I changed everything about myself. 879 00:47:21,672 --> 00:47:24,716 I was the first in the bag and I was the last to leave. 880 00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,052 It's not a cliche because it's true. 881 00:47:27,135 --> 00:47:29,930 I went from college team to All-America. 882 00:47:30,013 --> 00:47:31,348 I was the team captain - 883 00:47:31,431 --> 00:47:34,935 and the first chosen goalkeeper despite my knee surgeries. 884 00:47:35,018 --> 00:47:37,896 The back pack came at an important stage in my life. 885 00:47:37,980 --> 00:47:41,400 I lost my career and my future. It was my therapy. 886 00:47:41,483 --> 00:47:44,611 Without it I had to recreate myself. 887 00:47:44,695 --> 00:47:45,821 It's not easy. 888 00:47:45,904 --> 00:47:48,532 I think it shows in other areas of life. 889 00:47:48,615 --> 00:47:50,492 What do you want to do? 890 00:47:50,576 --> 00:47:53,871 I want to day trade. I like coaching soccer. 891 00:47:53,954 --> 00:47:58,250 I have a job in Southwest Florida, and then I can also… 892 00:47:58,333 --> 00:48:00,460 Career or day trading again? 893 00:48:00,544 --> 00:48:03,922 Career work. Day trading takes care of itself at the moment. 894 00:48:04,006 --> 00:48:06,550 I can go back to finance if needed. 895 00:48:06,633 --> 00:48:10,220 in Southwest Florida there is also a place in wholesale. 896 00:48:10,304 --> 00:48:13,181 I'm involved in the interviews. 897 00:48:13,265 --> 00:48:17,895 I have a finance job in Arizona, which I can return to if necessary. 898 00:48:17,978 --> 00:48:20,814 I can get an apartment here on a monthly basis. 899 00:48:20,898 --> 00:48:23,734 We talked about changing to something warmer. 900 00:48:23,817 --> 00:48:26,445 It depends a bit on things in your career. 901 00:48:26,528 --> 00:48:28,655 What do you bring to the table? 902 00:48:29,156 --> 00:48:30,407 Just crying. 903 00:48:32,326 --> 00:48:33,952 Here's my best advice. 904 00:48:34,036 --> 00:48:37,539 I did divorce work for 41 years. 905 00:48:37,623 --> 00:48:40,584 I told almost all my clients the same thing. 906 00:48:40,667 --> 00:48:46,381 Never use your partner's name, which he will remember for the rest of his life. 907 00:48:47,466 --> 00:48:48,634 Nothing more. 908 00:48:48,717 --> 00:48:51,595 There will be good times and bad times. 909 00:48:51,678 --> 00:48:54,640 Always support each other. 910 00:48:54,723 --> 00:48:57,225 Don't go to bed angry. -So. 911 00:48:57,309 --> 00:49:00,729 The disputes of the day are settled before the evening. 912 00:49:00,812 --> 00:49:04,316 And whenever you make a decision, 913 00:49:04,816 --> 00:49:06,526 put the other first. 914 00:49:08,153 --> 00:49:10,656 That's good. -Can you do it? 915 00:49:10,739 --> 00:49:12,866 I think I can do it. 916 00:49:12,950 --> 00:49:15,035 It has worked for you. 917 00:49:15,118 --> 00:49:17,245 I always put myself first. 918 00:49:18,246 --> 00:49:20,707 He doesn't follow his own advice. -Oh my god. 919 00:49:20,791 --> 00:49:22,125 Don't do as I show. 920 00:49:22,209 --> 00:49:25,587 The rules are for you, not him. -Covid comes to mind. 921 00:49:25,671 --> 00:49:27,589 Really? - Emergency number. 922 00:49:27,673 --> 00:49:29,633 He plays along. I see. 923 00:49:29,716 --> 00:49:31,301 You are cheeky. -Okay. 924 00:49:31,385 --> 00:49:33,804 You are taken care of. I admit it. 925 00:49:33,887 --> 00:49:35,555 I don't know about the rest. 926 00:49:38,141 --> 00:49:40,185 Convince me of your authenticity. 927 00:49:43,772 --> 00:49:46,274 I'm in love with your daughter. -Not enough. 928 00:49:46,358 --> 00:49:49,569 Right? - Those are just words. 929 00:49:49,653 --> 00:49:53,407 I can show it in my future actions. 930 00:49:53,490 --> 00:49:55,409 Clear. -Let me show you. 931 00:49:55,492 --> 00:49:57,953 I am the patriarch of the family. -As it should be. 932 00:49:58,036 --> 00:50:00,163 Undoubtedly. I know that. 933 00:50:00,247 --> 00:50:02,207 Everyone here knows that. 934 00:50:02,290 --> 00:50:04,751 They know. I don't trust easy. 935 00:50:04,835 --> 00:50:07,754 I'm not asking for your trust. I trust myself completely. 936 00:50:07,838 --> 00:50:10,674 That's what you're asking for. It won't come easy. 937 00:50:10,757 --> 00:50:12,843 No, I am asking you to give… 938 00:50:12,926 --> 00:50:14,386 The occasion? -Right. 939 00:50:14,469 --> 00:50:18,015 I'm not asking for your trust. I can't get it in two hours. 940 00:50:18,098 --> 00:50:19,641 That goes for all three. 941 00:50:19,725 --> 00:50:22,102 I grilled Alex a bit. 942 00:50:22,185 --> 00:50:24,521 He is impressive and smart. 943 00:50:24,604 --> 00:50:30,110 He answered my questions skillfully. Almost too skillfully. 944 00:50:30,193 --> 00:50:32,946 Honesty can be seen throughout the body. 945 00:50:33,030 --> 00:50:37,325 I'm not saying he's a bad person, 946 00:50:37,826 --> 00:50:40,912 but honesty is not his forte. 947 00:50:42,706 --> 00:50:44,541 It was fun with you. 948 00:50:44,624 --> 00:50:45,667 Same words. 949 00:50:45,751 --> 00:50:48,128 I want you to enjoy your trip. 950 00:50:48,211 --> 00:50:52,549 Whether it works or not. This was a really pleasant evening. 951 00:50:52,632 --> 00:50:54,885 Nice to see you again, baby. - I know. 952 00:50:54,968 --> 00:50:58,138 God, how I missed you. -And I you. Stop it. 953 00:50:58,221 --> 00:51:02,517 I feel the pressure to protect my daughter. 954 00:51:02,601 --> 00:51:05,812 Everyone is interested in him. 955 00:51:05,896 --> 00:51:09,232 He's dynamite. 956 00:51:10,233 --> 00:51:13,070 And on Ashley's side - 957 00:51:14,112 --> 00:51:16,907 anyone is the luckiest person in the world. 958 00:51:16,990 --> 00:51:20,619 If my daughter says she wants this, 959 00:51:20,702 --> 00:51:22,829 it suits daddy. 960 00:51:23,330 --> 00:51:25,999 I will add, that my daughter has bad radar. 961 00:51:27,501 --> 00:51:28,960 Or was before. 962 00:51:29,044 --> 00:51:30,378 A toast to you. -Cheers. 963 00:51:30,462 --> 00:51:32,756 Enjoy your trip. -Absolutely. 964 00:51:32,839 --> 00:51:33,965 And about everything else. 965 00:51:34,049 --> 00:51:35,842 And congratulations on your engagement. 966 00:51:59,825 --> 00:52:01,034 what are you doing 967 00:52:01,535 --> 00:52:02,828 What? -What are you doing? 968 00:52:03,578 --> 00:52:05,205 what are you doing -I'll put the cream on. 969 00:52:05,288 --> 00:52:07,207 Does it fit? -Yes, then. 970 00:52:09,709 --> 00:52:11,253 Here. It is… 971 00:52:14,464 --> 00:52:15,966 It likes you. 972 00:52:18,343 --> 00:52:21,429 It's happy here. - It was nice to see you. 973 00:52:23,849 --> 00:52:25,183 How do you feel? 974 00:52:26,476 --> 00:52:28,228 Regarding the wedding? -Yeah. 975 00:52:28,311 --> 00:52:31,690 Open questions in my opinion there's still a lot - 976 00:52:31,773 --> 00:52:34,234 before I can say "yes" for sure. 977 00:52:34,317 --> 00:52:35,777 So. - At the altar. 978 00:52:35,861 --> 00:52:40,115 For all questions no reply in three weeks. 979 00:52:40,198 --> 00:52:44,327 Your promotion will be cleared during that time. Right? 980 00:52:44,411 --> 00:52:45,328 Yeah. 981 00:52:45,829 --> 00:52:49,291 If you don't get promoted, you look for a new job. 982 00:52:49,374 --> 00:52:51,543 So. - Now I ask one question. 983 00:52:51,626 --> 00:52:57,465 If you are looking for another job, looking for it in columbus? 984 00:52:57,549 --> 00:52:59,676 I am open to everything. I think that… 985 00:53:00,260 --> 00:53:07,100 If we're serious, I will do everything I can so that we can be together. 986 00:53:07,184 --> 00:53:09,853 Clear. What does it mean to be serious? 987 00:53:09,936 --> 00:53:12,147 I think we're serious now. 988 00:53:12,230 --> 00:53:13,315 Clear. 989 00:53:13,398 --> 00:53:17,068 I hope to see you at the altar. 990 00:53:17,152 --> 00:53:20,030 There's no one else there either. -I hope not. 991 00:53:20,113 --> 00:53:23,283 I don't think it will. - We hope so. Can't know. 992 00:53:23,366 --> 00:53:27,746 I want to be with you and make this work. 993 00:53:32,417 --> 00:53:37,297 I make my decisions based on our relationship. 994 00:53:37,380 --> 00:53:38,381 Clear. 995 00:53:39,549 --> 00:53:41,468 We talked about this before. -So. 996 00:53:42,594 --> 00:53:43,637 Issue. -Yeah. 997 00:53:44,304 --> 00:53:46,765 We got our phone. I opened mine. 998 00:53:46,848 --> 00:53:50,894 First I saw that my best friend gets a kiss. 999 00:53:50,977 --> 00:53:54,814 They got married half a year ago. Another friend of mine is having a baby too. 1000 00:53:54,898 --> 00:53:57,651 I was thinking about the option of not having children. 1001 00:53:57,734 --> 00:53:59,569 So. - But I want children. 1002 00:53:59,653 --> 00:54:02,489 i want to know that it is part of my future. 1003 00:54:02,572 --> 00:54:03,490 So. 1004 00:54:04,449 --> 00:54:06,618 I want a family. 1005 00:54:10,830 --> 00:54:13,250 I mean this well. -Yeah. 1006 00:54:13,333 --> 00:54:19,422 Maybe we'll get married because you can imagine a family with me. 1007 00:54:19,506 --> 00:54:21,299 You are open to children. -Yeah. 1008 00:54:21,383 --> 00:54:23,969 Then something changes. 1009 00:54:24,052 --> 00:54:26,554 Or we'll have a baby and you'll regret it. 1010 00:54:26,638 --> 00:54:30,600 You are bitter towards your child and me. 1011 00:54:30,684 --> 00:54:32,435 I couldn't live with that. 1012 00:55:12,225 --> 00:55:14,144 Subtitles: Katariina Uusitupa