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♪♪

2
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- Hi!

3
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- You're doing tequila?

4
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- Gotta warm up!

5
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- Did you bring Gemma?

6
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- No.

7
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- Previously,
on "In the City"...

8
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[Gemma crying]

9
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- Since becoming a mom,

10
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my life has been
absolute chaos.

11
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- Does Gemma
ever eat this stuff?

12
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My dogs love them.

13
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- I would not have been able

14
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to get through
this last year

15
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without my girlfriends.

16
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- Is this brunch?

17
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I thought we were going to
some kind of fun--

18
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I mean,
this is fun but...

19
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[children fussing]

20
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- Just come out
in your scrubs.

21
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- No, she needs to change.

22
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- Do you even have
anything here?

23
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When I got pregnant,

24
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Georgina was
the first person I called.

25
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- Casual clothes,
black tie,

26
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and-and in the little
sterile package,

27
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bras and underwear.
- Wow.

28
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- Black shirt memo.

29
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- It's New York.
[laughing]

30
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- I've known Kenny
at least ten years.

31
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We had a lot of different
mutual friends.

32
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I'm just getting
to know Whitney,

33
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but she seems awesome.

34
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- Growing up in Minnesota,
I always thought, like,

35
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New York felt
so intimidating.

36
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- Yeah.
- And people are actually,

37
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like, way more open
and nice here.

38
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- She moved across the country
before the ring.

39
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You can't (BLEEP) around
with this.

40
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- I'm getting
"I hate men" vibes.

41
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- I'm just allergic
to, like, annoying men.

42
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- I would love to have
a baby by 38. Yeah.

43
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- I'd love to do it
with you.

44
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- She's moving in
with this man,

45
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who's still married.
- No.

46
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- You're blowing my mind,
right now!

47
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I need you to stop!

48
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I don't even know
Danielle's guy's name.

49
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On?

50
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- I was wondering if
you might be open

51
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to, like, a lunch.

52
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- Can I think about it?

53
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I'm a little busy
these days.

54
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- I know the therapist was like,
"Let's meet tomorrow."

55
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- We're moving backwards.

56
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I'm gonna move out,
and this isn't permanent.

57
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This is, like, a month.

58
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- I've never heard of a couple
physically separating

59
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and using that as a tool
to get back together,

60
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but maybe this is
what we need.

61
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[horn honking]

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♪♪

63
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- New York
is a hustle, baby.

64
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All you do,
is hustle in this city.

65
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[dogs barking]

66
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- Are you
----ing kidding me?

67
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- This is a New York moment.

68
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♪♪

69
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- I've heard before,

70
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from an agent of mine,
about the eleven.

71
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- The angry elevens.

72
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- So, scrunch your eyebrows
together for me.

73
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So, those are the 11s.

74
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- Do you see the number 11
in between your eyebrows when--

75
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- I see a lot of 11s.
[laughing]

76
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- Kyle gets Botox.

77
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- Kyle's nine years older
than me.

78
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- You're right.

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♪♪

80
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- Can a guy pull off
a mockneck?

81
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Probably not, right?
- Yes.

82
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- No, you can, for sure.
- This is badass.

83
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- Yeah, it looks really,
really elevated.

84
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- Yeah, it's really,
really nice.

85
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- All amazing.
- These are all the new

86
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sweatshirts
with the embroidery.

87
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Is there still time to just
have Amanda weigh in?

88
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- Today?
- Um, I'll go next door.

89
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♪♪

90
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[music slowing down]

91
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- Is this the best way
to pack shoes?

92
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I don't even know.

93
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These are good.

94
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- Should we go say hi
to mom?

95
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Look who I found.

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- Hi, Miss Ryder.

97
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- What you doin'?
[Amanda sighs]

98
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- Trying to pack
some of this sh-- up.

99
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- This has gotta be the most
organized closet in the house.

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- I'm organized.

101
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It's just the stuff
that I don't know where to put,

102
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I just don't know
where to put it.

103
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Oh, I like these.

104
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Oh, but I need
the black ones, also.

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After dropping
the news to Kyle

106
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and, like, making
the decision to move out,

107
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I feel lighter.
I feel good about this decision.

108
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I feel like this could be
what we need

109
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to potentially
save this relationship.

110
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- Are you gonna have enough
stuff where you're gonna need,

111
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like, a van,
or a truck, or what?

112
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- I have no idea.

113
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Maybe we could pack up
your car.

114
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I mean, it's not gonna
be, like,

115
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a crazy amount of sh--.

116
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It's like a month long
vacation.

117
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- Are you gonna, like,
surprise me?

118
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Like, you're gonna
keep your key

119
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and just, like, pop in,
or how does that work?

120
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- Yeah, I'll just show up
at 4 AM and wake you up,

121
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like you do to me
all the time.

122
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Do you not want me here?

123
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I feel like you are
more excited for me to leave.

124
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- No, you--
that's the opposite

125
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of how I think this has felt.

126
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I think you're--
- Okay.

127
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I mean, we're trying
to figure this out, right?

128
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Spending some time apart
but, like,

129
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courting each other
and dating, again.

130
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- We knew something drastic
needed to-to happen.

131
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- Oh, I need these.
- I don't think we knew what.

132
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Therapy wasn't necessarily

133
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giving us
everything we needed.

134
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Look, I think that
there was a side of me

135
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that I felt like
we could've kept on continuing

136
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and playing this,
like, broken record.

137
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So, I give you props
for confronting this,

138
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like, head on.

139
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- Oh, I need
these sneakers, too,

140
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just in case
I need to run away.

141
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- Run away
from your own problems?
- From you.

142
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- Wow, okay, harsh.

143
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[horn honking]

144
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[dog barking]

145
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♪♪

146
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- There's so many dudes.

147
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- Yo, that's why we get
the hot girls here.

148
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- Is it always like this,
like this busy?

149
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- Thursday through Sunday--
- This is crazy!

150
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- It's awesome.
Yes, it's awesome.

151
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- Good for you.
- Like, such a vibe.

152
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- Oh, my God,
congratulations.

153
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- I'm, like,
really excited about it.
- What an accomplishment.

154
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- I wanted to be in
the hospitality business

155
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before I even knew
it was a business.

156
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I remember having a party
in high school,

157
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and the neighbor came over
the next day

158
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and alerted me that
he was gonna tell my parents.

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And then,
before he left, he said,

160
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"But I'm not gonna lie.
You threw a great party."

161
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[laughing]

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- I told my assistant,

163
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"Yeah, I'm gonna go and meet up
with my friend, Gavin."

164
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And I was, like,
telling her about you.

165
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She asked
if we ever hooked up,

166
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and I said, "No."
[laughing]

167
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- Oh!
[laughing]

168
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- I thought you were--

169
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- You thought I was going in
for the real thing.

170
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- I was like, oh, sh--,
it's happening!

171
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Me and Gavin have known
each other many, many years.

172
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I met him through Kyle.

173
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We were both in hospitality.

174
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He's the perfect amount
of fun, flirty, messy.

175
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Like, I enjoy Gavin's vibe.

176
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I love the short kings.
[laughing]

177
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- I'm making you laugh.

178
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- And I love
that you get messy.

179
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- I do.
- Like, we were giggling

180
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when we were talking
to Kenny.

181
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- So much.
- And-and I was like,

182
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yes, Gavin, yes.
- I was going for it.

183
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Shooter McGavin--
that's what they call me.

184
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[laughing]

185
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- I'm gettin' grilled over here
on relationship.

186
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- This is now a panel.
- This is a panel.

187
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- This is a panel.
- I'm gettin' grilled.

188
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- Wait, so, okay, Kenny.
- Yeah, where do we start?

189
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- What is his deal, 'cause
I don't really know Kenny

190
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or Whitney?
- Yeah.

191
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- He was, like,
kind of treating me like,

192
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I'm some sort of,
like, man-hater

193
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just because I was taking
his girlfriend's,

194
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like, perspective.

195
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In order for you

196
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to move across
the entire country,

197
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without a commitment
such as a ring,

198
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it's a very big deal.

199
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You can't (BLEEP) around
with this.

200
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- I'm getting
"I hate men" vibes.

201
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- What you're saying,
is probably true,

202
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and he knows that,

203
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and he wants to, like,
discredit you.

204
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That's what--
that's-that's his--

205
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- Oh, you think I struck
a nerve with him.

206
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- Kenny is my best friend.

207
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He can dish it out,
but he can't take it.

208
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- I can't believe
my stuff's gonna be here

209
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this week already.
- I know.

210
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- We really need to figure out
where it's gonna go.

211
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[laughing]
- Mister.

212
00:07:00,186 --> 00:07:00,920
- I know.

213
00:07:01,755 --> 00:07:04,082
- I think I have
30 boxes coming.

214
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[whimpering]

215
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I have my workout outfits.
I have my seasonal stuff.

216
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I have my coats.
I have boots.

217
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- Um...
- A billion things.

218
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I'm not really
an outfit repeater.

219
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[rattling]

220
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So, we might have to turn
that second bedroom

221
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into more of a closet.

222
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[laughing]

223
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- I'm down to
let you do your thing

224
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in the second bedroom,

225
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but I want it to still
also be a guest room,

226
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like if your sister
comes into town and DJ.

227
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Like, Gavin has stayed
in that room a million times.

228
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- Yeah, we kicked
Gavin out, finally.

229
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- Gavin is-- Gavin's done.

230
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My apartment's virtual,

231
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and Gavin's
always had a code.

232
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Gavin used to just show up.

233
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He would walk in,
and he'd be like, "Hey,"

234
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and I'd be like, "Hey,"
and then we'd hang out.

235
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It was kinda like
he lived there,

236
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even though he didn't,
but that has changed.

237
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- It's out of--
out of respect for me, too.

238
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What if I'm walking
around naked?

239
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Like, Gavin can't
just, like, walk in.

240
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- Well, he came-- he came home
one time, and we were, like,

241
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hookin' up on the couch.
[laughing]

242
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And I'm like,
"No mas on the code."

243
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How are you feeling with
your adjustment to the city?

244
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- It's been really nice,
but I think I am,

245
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like, missing that,
like, girl time.

246
00:08:05,810 --> 00:08:08,188
It's just weird, like,
trying to make new friends,

247
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like, at this stage
in life.

248
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- Yeah.
- You know?

249
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I did go to get a pedicure
with Danielle the other day,

250
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which was nice.

251
00:08:15,812 --> 00:08:17,889
- Oh, man, finally,
Kenny, like,

252
00:08:17,989 --> 00:08:20,266
this woman is amazing
'cause it's like--

253
00:08:20,300 --> 00:08:21,659
- Aww, 'cause you've known him
a while, or...?

254
00:08:21,793 --> 00:08:22,936
- Yeah, through Gavin.

255
00:08:23,002 --> 00:08:24,104
- It was really nice.

256
00:08:24,137 --> 00:08:25,772
We're just starting
to get to know each other,

257
00:08:25,939 --> 00:08:27,440
and I actually learned
some things

258
00:08:27,607 --> 00:08:29,334
about her relationship
that I didn't realize.

259
00:08:29,467 --> 00:08:31,077
I thought her and Eoin
had been together

260
00:08:31,177 --> 00:08:32,779
a really long time.
- Okay.

261
00:08:32,812 --> 00:08:35,573
- And, they started
officially dating

262
00:08:35,673 --> 00:08:36,950
in, like, April,

263
00:08:37,083 --> 00:08:39,953
and he's been in the process
of a divorce,

264
00:08:39,986 --> 00:08:42,288
which, you know,
can linger,

265
00:08:42,389 --> 00:08:45,291
and she was kind of saying,
like, it was amicable.

266
00:08:45,458 --> 00:08:48,595
- But then
she found out about me.

267
00:08:48,695 --> 00:08:51,464
It has not been
as friendly.

268
00:08:51,598 --> 00:08:54,359
- When did that
relationship end?

269
00:08:54,492 --> 00:08:57,162
- I can't remember exactly,
but she did tell me

270
00:08:57,262 --> 00:08:58,972
that he had been
kind of checked out

271
00:08:59,105 --> 00:09:01,307
of that relationship
for a while.

272
00:09:01,441 --> 00:09:03,042
- Oh, sounds like overlap.

273
00:09:04,844 --> 00:09:06,704
- What do you think about
Danielle's boyfriend?

274
00:09:06,838 --> 00:09:08,481
[bell dings]

275
00:09:08,615 --> 00:09:10,675
Do you wanna get
to know him or no?

276
00:09:10,775 --> 00:09:11,951
- I think it's weird
for me to, like,

277
00:09:12,052 --> 00:09:12,944
wanna get to know him

278
00:09:13,044 --> 00:09:15,321
and then, like,
not really talk to her.

279
00:09:15,422 --> 00:09:16,823
I'm just sort of, like,

280
00:09:16,890 --> 00:09:18,950
playing the avoiding game
at the moment.

281
00:09:19,050 --> 00:09:22,195
- He didn't tell me we had
a VIP here, so, you know.

282
00:09:22,262 --> 00:09:23,830
- Oh, my God!

283
00:09:23,863 --> 00:09:25,698
- It's the boss.
- Hi. Can we reach up?

284
00:09:25,765 --> 00:09:26,933
Can you get over there?

285
00:09:27,033 --> 00:09:28,126
How are you?
- How are you?

286
00:09:28,226 --> 00:09:29,569
It's been a while.
- It's been, like, three years.

287
00:09:29,636 --> 00:09:30,787
How's the baby?

288
00:09:30,887 --> 00:09:31,963
- She's amazing.
- Yeah.

289
00:09:32,063 --> 00:09:33,373
- Thank you for asking.

290
00:09:33,506 --> 00:09:35,742
- My next question is,
whose side are you on?

291
00:09:38,578 --> 00:09:39,179
- That's not gonna work.

292
00:09:39,312 --> 00:09:40,213
- I don't wanna say, like,

293
00:09:40,346 --> 00:09:41,548
I had a falling out
with Danielle.

294
00:09:41,614 --> 00:09:42,682
I just, like--

295
00:09:42,782 --> 00:09:44,217
- We don't need
to talk about...

296
00:09:44,350 --> 00:09:46,553
- I just don't need it
in my life.

297
00:09:46,686 --> 00:09:48,521
- I don't even want to
relive those moments.

298
00:09:48,588 --> 00:09:50,356
That's--
those are in the past.

299
00:09:50,457 --> 00:09:51,307
I gotta get back there.

300
00:09:51,407 --> 00:09:52,725
Good seeing you.
- Yeah.

301
00:09:52,859 --> 00:09:55,320
Wait, Robert is the chef.
- Did we not know this either?

302
00:09:55,420 --> 00:09:57,764
I was, like,
is this gonna be a problem?

303
00:09:57,831 --> 00:09:59,833
I feel like there's a lot
that I don't know.

304
00:09:59,933 --> 00:10:02,427
- So, no,
yeah, there's, like,

305
00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:04,537
a lot of history
between Danielle and I.

306
00:10:04,671 --> 00:10:06,873
At least once a year,
she does something,

307
00:10:06,906 --> 00:10:09,409
and I've given her
pass after pass after pass.

308
00:10:09,476 --> 00:10:11,236
She, like, asked me
to go for a coffee,

309
00:10:11,336 --> 00:10:13,146
and I was like--
- Well, that's good.

310
00:10:13,246 --> 00:10:14,881
Is that like
an olive branch?

311
00:10:15,014 --> 00:10:18,718
- I am way more picky about
who I give my energy to

312
00:10:18,852 --> 00:10:20,653
these days. So...
- Right.

313
00:10:20,753 --> 00:10:23,289
Well, I feel special then.
- Yeah, you should.

314
00:10:23,389 --> 00:10:24,424
- It's wild to me.

315
00:10:24,491 --> 00:10:27,118
We've got Danielle
that is dating a guy,

316
00:10:27,252 --> 00:10:28,428
and the guy
is still married.

317
00:10:28,495 --> 00:10:31,865
Lindsay,
who had a baby with a guy

318
00:10:31,965 --> 00:10:33,233
after, like, two months,

319
00:10:33,299 --> 00:10:35,468
and Lindsay's
interrogating me

320
00:10:35,568 --> 00:10:37,203
about us
moving in together

321
00:10:37,303 --> 00:10:38,838
after hanging out
for a year.

322
00:10:38,938 --> 00:10:40,807
And her and Gavin
were, like, laughing

323
00:10:40,874 --> 00:10:42,542
and making a joke of
what I was going through

324
00:10:42,642 --> 00:10:44,536
with my mom and, like--
- Gavin said something?

325
00:10:44,636 --> 00:10:46,913
- Yeah, he was making, like,
(BLEEP) boy comments.

326
00:10:47,046 --> 00:10:52,018
- The stages of grief--
anger, pain, ----in' around.

327
00:10:52,118 --> 00:10:54,854
[laughing]

328
00:10:54,954 --> 00:10:56,873
- Just really
rubbed me the wrong way.

329
00:10:56,973 --> 00:10:59,926
If anybody in this scenario
knows what I went through

330
00:10:59,959 --> 00:11:02,453
and-and could have my back,
it would be Gavin.

331
00:11:03,630 --> 00:11:07,166
Last fall, we found out that
my mom had stage four cancer,

332
00:11:07,267 --> 00:11:09,836
and it was out of the blue.

333
00:11:09,903 --> 00:11:10,937
[clears throat]

334
00:11:11,037 --> 00:11:13,106
I struggle to even
talk about my mom still,

335
00:11:13,139 --> 00:11:16,109
at this point,
'cause we were just very close.

336
00:11:16,242 --> 00:11:18,403
It was a really
difficult period.

337
00:11:18,503 --> 00:11:20,613
Um, Whitney and I
were dating, but, like,

338
00:11:20,647 --> 00:11:22,974
I just felt like
I wasn't in the place

339
00:11:23,074 --> 00:11:27,245
to-to be what she deserved
in a relationship,

340
00:11:27,345 --> 00:11:28,488
and we broke up.

341
00:11:28,555 --> 00:11:30,957
- Sometimes this can happen
in dynamics of, like,

342
00:11:30,990 --> 00:11:32,917
best friends and someone
getting in a relationship

343
00:11:33,017 --> 00:11:34,460
when another one isn't.

344
00:11:34,494 --> 00:11:35,528
Does he feel like
you're not spending

345
00:11:35,628 --> 00:11:37,247
as much time with him...
- I don't know, maybe.

346
00:11:37,347 --> 00:11:39,399
- ...and that's why he's,
like, saying these comments?

347
00:11:39,499 --> 00:11:40,900
- I-- he's-he's just so bad
at using his words

348
00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,302
that it's like,
I would never know,

349
00:11:42,402 --> 00:11:43,937
until something blows up.

350
00:11:44,103 --> 00:11:45,805
♪♪

351
00:11:45,905 --> 00:11:46,639
- Coming up...

352
00:11:46,739 --> 00:11:47,640
- There are times
where I think

353
00:11:47,774 --> 00:11:48,841
Amanda's already given up,

354
00:11:48,975 --> 00:11:50,310
and now she's telling me
she wants to

355
00:11:50,476 --> 00:11:51,995
move out of the apartment.
- Dude...

356
00:11:52,195 --> 00:11:55,131
♪♪

357
00:11:57,817 --> 00:12:02,455
♪ Let's go
flying over mountains ♪

358
00:12:02,555 --> 00:12:05,825
♪ I am now the queen
of the castle ♪

359
00:12:05,925 --> 00:12:09,996
♪ If you want to rule
with me ♪

360
00:12:10,163 --> 00:12:12,332
- What are you doin',
girlfriend?

361
00:12:12,432 --> 00:12:13,983
[cork popping]

362
00:12:15,268 --> 00:12:16,603
Hi!

363
00:12:16,703 --> 00:12:19,172
- Hello.
- Guess who's here.

364
00:12:19,339 --> 00:12:21,566
- Is that your friend, Gemma?
- It's Eloise!

365
00:12:21,699 --> 00:12:22,809
- Is that your friend?

366
00:12:22,909 --> 00:12:24,535
I literally came
straight from the office.

367
00:12:24,636 --> 00:12:26,145
- Say hi.

368
00:12:26,246 --> 00:12:27,447
- I came straight from work.
- Hi, Eli.

369
00:12:27,547 --> 00:12:29,015
- But I did remember--
I did remember

370
00:12:29,182 --> 00:12:30,308
the hand-me-downs.
- Hi.

371
00:12:30,408 --> 00:12:33,019
- You got some baby Louboutins
in there, actually.

372
00:12:33,152 --> 00:12:34,312
- You're giving me
baby Louboutins?

373
00:12:34,412 --> 00:12:35,488
- Yeah, you outgrew them.

374
00:12:35,555 --> 00:12:37,757
- This is why we love
Eloise's hand-me-downs.

375
00:12:37,857 --> 00:12:38,758
- Yeah.

376
00:12:38,825 --> 00:12:40,093
- Do you want water
or anything?

377
00:12:40,193 --> 00:12:42,528
- Wine is good. Thank you.
- Okay.

378
00:12:42,662 --> 00:12:44,831
One of those days, I see.
- Yeah.

379
00:12:44,998 --> 00:12:46,090
♪♪

380
00:12:46,224 --> 00:12:48,501
If there was, like,
a first aid kit for mothers,

381
00:12:48,601 --> 00:12:50,370
bottle of champagne
would be in there.

382
00:12:50,470 --> 00:12:52,505
I don't know how any parents
do it sober.

383
00:12:52,605 --> 00:12:55,158
- I put Gemma to bed,
and I'm, like, wine. Um...

384
00:12:55,258 --> 00:12:57,001
- I smell it,
and I feel better.

385
00:12:57,101 --> 00:13:00,546
You're dealing with things that
are just so insanely stupid.

386
00:13:00,647 --> 00:13:02,949
The other day, my son and
my daughter were painting,

387
00:13:03,049 --> 00:13:04,684
and I'm, like, doing the dishes,
and I pop out.

388
00:13:04,784 --> 00:13:06,077
I'm like,
why is it so quiet?

389
00:13:06,177 --> 00:13:08,946
And my son painted
his penis blue,

390
00:13:09,013 --> 00:13:11,157
which was shocking because
green is his favorite color.

391
00:13:11,257 --> 00:13:12,292
[laughing]

392
00:13:12,392 --> 00:13:14,419
I know this is non-toxic,
like, organic paint

393
00:13:14,519 --> 00:13:18,523
but, like, probably not good
for your scrotum.

394
00:13:18,623 --> 00:13:20,466
- I look at you
having two kids,

395
00:13:20,533 --> 00:13:22,902
and I think I might just be
one and done.

396
00:13:23,002 --> 00:13:24,462
- One and done--
you did it right.

397
00:13:24,529 --> 00:13:27,340
- Honestly, like, I don't know
how I would have

398
00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:30,209
gotten through without you.
- You would have been fine.

399
00:13:30,276 --> 00:13:32,178
- No, I wouldn't have.
I don't have any, like,

400
00:13:32,278 --> 00:13:34,939
other friends
that are in similar situations.

401
00:13:35,039 --> 00:13:37,784
Over summer, no one ----ing knew
about anything

402
00:13:37,917 --> 00:13:39,152
I was dealing with

403
00:13:39,218 --> 00:13:42,447
that was, like,
very serious, like, legal.

404
00:13:42,547 --> 00:13:44,090
No one at the ----ing
Summer House

405
00:13:44,223 --> 00:13:47,427
is gonna understand.
Like, nobody has kids.

406
00:13:47,593 --> 00:13:49,629
- What is going on
with mediation?

407
00:13:49,762 --> 00:13:51,698
- I don't know.
- How is he with that stuff?

408
00:13:51,798 --> 00:13:54,033
Like, do you agree on anything?
- We basically--

409
00:13:54,133 --> 00:13:57,437
- Like, school-wise, at least?
- Well, we agree on a lot.

410
00:13:57,603 --> 00:13:58,771
- It's amazing that
you're supposed to plan

411
00:13:58,871 --> 00:14:01,708
18 years in, like, now.

412
00:14:01,808 --> 00:14:05,445
- My baby daddy and I
are near the end

413
00:14:05,545 --> 00:14:06,946
of mediation for Gemma,

414
00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,183
and it's been an
up and down roller coaster.

415
00:14:10,249 --> 00:14:12,510
You know,
we are making decisions

416
00:14:12,643 --> 00:14:16,522
that are very impactful
on Gemma's entire future.

417
00:14:16,622 --> 00:14:19,625
So, the sooner we can
get through

418
00:14:19,759 --> 00:14:23,463
all of the legal stuff,
then the easier it will be.

419
00:14:23,563 --> 00:14:27,767
And, hopefully, that document
is just in a drawer somewhere

420
00:14:27,867 --> 00:14:30,027
and doesn't have to
ever be taken out.

421
00:14:30,161 --> 00:14:32,430
It can fit in the bottom drawer
of my nightstand,

422
00:14:32,530 --> 00:14:34,924
next to the condoms
that are never used.

423
00:14:35,024 --> 00:14:37,268
That's the hope and dream
for the agreement,

424
00:14:37,368 --> 00:14:38,611
not the condoms.

425
00:14:38,711 --> 00:14:40,271
- I wanted, at one point,
when I was still hoping

426
00:14:40,371 --> 00:14:41,481
it would work out,
to put into

427
00:14:41,581 --> 00:14:42,982
the custody agreement
that we all had to hang out

428
00:14:43,116 --> 00:14:44,776
with each other
one time per week

429
00:14:44,876 --> 00:14:46,119
for at least three hours.

430
00:14:46,219 --> 00:14:49,288
I wanted to force
family time.

431
00:14:49,388 --> 00:14:50,757
This lawyer was like,

432
00:14:50,857 --> 00:14:52,592
"You can't force somebody
to hang out with you."

433
00:14:52,692 --> 00:14:53,659
[laughing]

434
00:14:53,826 --> 00:14:55,328
My relationship
with my ex, Bobby,

435
00:14:55,428 --> 00:14:56,996
is in a good place,
right now.

436
00:14:57,096 --> 00:14:58,931
Obviously, it's taken
a lot to get here.

437
00:14:59,031 --> 00:15:01,100
This is the guy
who moved out on me

438
00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,836
when I was 30 weeks pregnant
and had a toddler to raise,

439
00:15:03,970 --> 00:15:08,007
but I've made
a conscious effort to
put aside the hatred,

440
00:15:08,141 --> 00:15:10,143
focus on what's gonna be best
for my kids

441
00:15:10,243 --> 00:15:11,844
and for my own health.

442
00:15:11,978 --> 00:15:15,148
It's better than planning to buy
a ----ing voodoo doll

443
00:15:15,248 --> 00:15:16,516
and stab it every night.

444
00:15:16,682 --> 00:15:20,686
I choose civil and friendly
over voodoo doll.

445
00:15:20,820 --> 00:15:22,622
Well, you know, that's still
in the back of my head.

446
00:15:22,722 --> 00:15:25,825
Did you do a poopy?

447
00:15:25,925 --> 00:15:28,194
No, okay. Um--
- Is it mine?

448
00:15:28,327 --> 00:15:29,896
Do you smell poop?
- No, no, no.

449
00:15:30,029 --> 00:15:31,998
She farts a lot.
[laughing]

450
00:15:32,165 --> 00:15:39,897
♪♪

451
00:15:42,842 --> 00:15:44,836
♪♪

452
00:15:44,936 --> 00:15:47,380
- All right. All right.

453
00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:48,347
- Boys night.

454
00:15:48,448 --> 00:15:49,649
- Boys night-- I know.

455
00:15:49,749 --> 00:15:51,108
What's up, D?
- How we doin', Kenny?

456
00:15:51,242 --> 00:15:52,385
- How you doin', brother?
- Chilling, bro.

457
00:15:52,518 --> 00:15:53,753
- There he is.
- Good to see you.

458
00:15:53,886 --> 00:15:55,588
What's going on?
[laughing]

459
00:15:55,721 --> 00:15:57,915
- Is this ----ing real?
We have good taste.

460
00:15:58,015 --> 00:15:58,891
- Good taste.
- That's what it is.

461
00:15:59,058 --> 00:16:00,226
- Gav, you want a shot
and a beer?

462
00:16:00,326 --> 00:16:01,894
- Come on.
You know that's my drink, bro.

463
00:16:02,028 --> 00:16:03,596
- I-- It is.
- Friends that drink together

464
00:16:03,729 --> 00:16:05,231
stay together,
all right?

465
00:16:05,331 --> 00:16:06,866
- Boys night.
- Yes.

466
00:16:06,966 --> 00:16:08,759
- Oh, you guys just rip one?
- Rip-rip the shot.

467
00:16:08,860 --> 00:16:09,936
- Oh, my goodness.

468
00:16:10,069 --> 00:16:11,704
- Drinks on the house tonight,
right, Gavin?

469
00:16:11,804 --> 00:16:13,039
- Yeah, exactly, my man.

470
00:16:13,139 --> 00:16:14,674
- Has Whitney witnessed
a boys night?

471
00:16:14,774 --> 00:16:16,509
- Whitney has witnessed
too many boys nights.

472
00:16:16,609 --> 00:16:17,577
That's the problem.

473
00:16:17,743 --> 00:16:18,845
- I've had nights,
but I've been pretty good.

474
00:16:18,945 --> 00:16:19,779
Cleaning my act up.

475
00:16:19,912 --> 00:16:20,913
- Does she-does she
get after it?

476
00:16:21,013 --> 00:16:22,648
- Whitney has
an alter ego...

477
00:16:22,748 --> 00:16:24,600
- Oh!
- ...named Claire.

478
00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:30,022
♪♪

479
00:16:30,122 --> 00:16:31,449
- How is that going, actually?

480
00:16:31,549 --> 00:16:34,527
- She has a really,
really, really good
friend group in L.A.

481
00:16:34,627 --> 00:16:35,987
- She's gotta have a good one
in New York, too.

482
00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:37,563
- I know.
It's just difficult

483
00:16:37,663 --> 00:16:40,716
when you are trying
to introduce your girlfriend

484
00:16:40,816 --> 00:16:42,468
and have her welcomed
by a group of girls,

485
00:16:42,602 --> 00:16:44,103
and there's one girl
that's, like,

486
00:16:44,203 --> 00:16:45,730
kinda causing
all this drama.

487
00:16:45,830 --> 00:16:47,056
Last time we were here,

488
00:16:47,156 --> 00:16:48,774
Lindsay was, like,
hammering me.

489
00:16:48,875 --> 00:16:50,309
I'm like, "Lindsay,
we don't even know each other.

490
00:16:50,443 --> 00:16:52,645
You're comin' in hot."
- And I was-- I was--

491
00:16:52,778 --> 00:16:54,171
- Were you poking the fire?
- I was poking.

492
00:16:54,305 --> 00:16:55,806
We had Kenny in, like,
a nice situation.

493
00:16:55,907 --> 00:16:56,949
I know Kenny can handle it.

494
00:16:57,116 --> 00:16:58,718
- I'm saying
it's a big commitment

495
00:16:58,818 --> 00:17:01,454
to move across the country
for a guy.

496
00:17:01,554 --> 00:17:03,481
- This is now a panel.
- This is a panel.

497
00:17:03,581 --> 00:17:04,724
- This is a panel.

498
00:17:04,824 --> 00:17:06,225
- It came across
very judgy,

499
00:17:06,325 --> 00:17:07,760
and then she was making
comments about, like,

500
00:17:07,860 --> 00:17:09,295
all men,
and-and this and that.

501
00:17:09,462 --> 00:17:10,897
She just came across
the wrong way.

502
00:17:10,997 --> 00:17:12,748
- Do you think it was
projecting or just, like,

503
00:17:12,848 --> 00:17:14,233
asking from a good place?
- It was either projecting.

504
00:17:14,333 --> 00:17:15,768
No, no, no.
- I will say,

505
00:17:15,868 --> 00:17:18,471
I think she was just
trying to be a girls' girl.

506
00:17:18,638 --> 00:17:19,972
- You're rubbing me
the same way, honestly,

507
00:17:20,072 --> 00:17:21,674
that you rubbed me that night
where it was, like,

508
00:17:21,774 --> 00:17:23,109
it was a dogpile.

509
00:17:23,209 --> 00:17:27,079
Lindsay has her little crew,
her little minions,

510
00:17:27,179 --> 00:17:28,347
and for some reason,
you were, like,

511
00:17:28,481 --> 00:17:29,932
standing over there
with Lindsay.

512
00:17:30,032 --> 00:17:31,784
I am not happy
with the way that went down.

513
00:17:31,884 --> 00:17:33,019
You gotta have
your boy's back.

514
00:17:33,085 --> 00:17:34,720
♪♪

515
00:17:34,820 --> 00:17:37,181
- Gavin is used to Kenny
being in a relationship,

516
00:17:37,281 --> 00:17:39,625
but he's used to Kenny
probably having issues

517
00:17:39,725 --> 00:17:41,160
or being unhappy, and,

518
00:17:41,260 --> 00:17:42,261
you know,
Gavin's there for him.

519
00:17:42,361 --> 00:17:43,829
Like, "Oh, let's go have
a boys night."

520
00:17:43,963 --> 00:17:47,333
I don't think Gavin's used to
Kenny in a relationship, happy,

521
00:17:47,433 --> 00:17:49,936
and I think that's-that's what
we're-we're dealing with here.

522
00:17:50,036 --> 00:17:53,439
Like, Gavin thinks
he's about to lose his boy.

523
00:17:53,539 --> 00:17:55,232
- And maybe I'm being
over-overly protective,

524
00:17:55,366 --> 00:17:56,642
overly sensitive.
It's a real possibility.

525
00:17:56,709 --> 00:17:58,678
- No, but you have every right.
Dude, you love this girl.

526
00:17:58,844 --> 00:18:00,179
- Always defend your woman.

527
00:18:00,313 --> 00:18:01,514
- Lexi's been great,
by the way.

528
00:18:01,614 --> 00:18:02,682
She loves-she loves Lexi,

529
00:18:02,815 --> 00:18:04,976
and Lexi's been very, like,
she reaches out,

530
00:18:05,076 --> 00:18:05,952
she's welcoming.

531
00:18:06,052 --> 00:18:07,853
"Let's grab brunch.
Let's do this."

532
00:18:07,954 --> 00:18:10,323
[horn honking]

533
00:18:10,423 --> 00:18:11,524
[siren wailing]
- How are you feeling?

534
00:18:11,624 --> 00:18:13,826
I mean, moving in together
is a big step.

535
00:18:13,926 --> 00:18:16,395
- Totally. I feel like
it'll just take some time,

536
00:18:16,529 --> 00:18:19,156
but it's , like,
an exciting chapter.

537
00:18:19,256 --> 00:18:23,169
I feel like we're in
a really good place.

538
00:18:23,269 --> 00:18:24,136
Oh, my God,
this is just chaos. Like--

539
00:18:24,236 --> 00:18:26,806
- I know.
Like, this is really crazy.

540
00:18:26,906 --> 00:18:29,508
- I've never seen
so many fire trucks.

541
00:18:29,608 --> 00:18:31,444
- To the chaotic
New York life.

542
00:18:31,510 --> 00:18:34,380
- Literally,
welcome to New York.

543
00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,675
- We're doing a kind of
welcome to New York party.

544
00:18:37,775 --> 00:18:38,884
- That's nice.

545
00:18:38,985 --> 00:18:40,911
- Obviously, we're boys,
and we spend time together,

546
00:18:41,012 --> 00:18:42,989
and I want her
to feel comfortable

547
00:18:43,089 --> 00:18:44,674
and welcomed in this group.
- Yeah.

548
00:18:44,774 --> 00:18:45,675
I mean, listen,

549
00:18:45,775 --> 00:18:47,360
Amanda and I have been
goin' through a lot,

550
00:18:47,460 --> 00:18:48,794
and so she probably--
- I've said that.

551
00:18:48,894 --> 00:18:49,862
I'm like, listen.
- She-she's almost been in,

552
00:18:49,962 --> 00:18:52,498
like, a-a-
a no new friends headspace.

553
00:18:52,598 --> 00:18:54,567
- You know,
I'm Team Amanda and Kyle.

554
00:18:54,700 --> 00:18:57,236
- I mean, listen,
I'm trying to be receptive

555
00:18:57,336 --> 00:19:00,364
and open-minded about
the kind of drastic measures

556
00:19:00,464 --> 00:19:02,875
that we need to take
to try to figure out

557
00:19:02,975 --> 00:19:04,710
if we're meant to be.

558
00:19:04,810 --> 00:19:06,746
There are times where I think
Amanda has already given up,

559
00:19:06,912 --> 00:19:09,306
and she's just waiting for me
to do something stupid,

560
00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:10,683
so she can
officially end it.

561
00:19:10,783 --> 00:19:12,084
And now, she's telling me
she wants to

562
00:19:12,251 --> 00:19:15,054
move out of the apartment.
- Dude...

563
00:19:15,154 --> 00:19:18,816
- She keeps talkin' about, like,
this is for a month or two.

564
00:19:18,949 --> 00:19:20,292
- Yeah, listen, Kyle.

565
00:19:20,426 --> 00:19:22,712
Bro, I think that speaks
for itself.

566
00:19:22,812 --> 00:19:24,121
I am Team Kyle and Amanda,

567
00:19:24,221 --> 00:19:27,533
but I'm also Team Kyle,
and I'm Team Amanda,

568
00:19:27,633 --> 00:19:31,562
if they're not
Team Kyle and Amanda.

569
00:19:31,662 --> 00:19:35,057
You need to take the space
and see how that feels,

570
00:19:35,157 --> 00:19:38,377
and maybe it feels
great for you.

571
00:19:38,477 --> 00:19:40,296
- That ----in' sucks.
Let's be honest.

572
00:19:40,496 --> 00:19:43,933
♪♪

573
00:19:46,077 --> 00:19:50,523
♪♪

574
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:57,296
- Whoa, that was way too much.

575
00:19:57,463 --> 00:19:58,931
I haven't, like,
celebrated

576
00:19:59,031 --> 00:20:00,766
someone moving
to New York in--

577
00:20:00,866 --> 00:20:02,259
ever, it feels like.
- I know.

578
00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:07,406
- My life the last year
has been so ultra serious,

579
00:20:07,506 --> 00:20:10,142
and I almost feel like
I'm coming out of
the other end.

580
00:20:10,242 --> 00:20:13,112
Now, I can have fun.
That's all I'm interested in.

581
00:20:13,212 --> 00:20:15,281
- That's called self-love,
and you deserve this.

582
00:20:15,381 --> 00:20:17,717
It's time to have fun.

583
00:20:17,817 --> 00:20:21,220
- It's not always easy to get
a night out on the town

584
00:20:21,287 --> 00:20:22,655
like I used to.

585
00:20:22,822 --> 00:20:25,391
Yvonne and I
are hospitality girls.

586
00:20:25,491 --> 00:20:27,626
When I was 23,
I was running the entire city,

587
00:20:27,727 --> 00:20:30,429
opening a club, restaurant,
and hotel lounge bar

588
00:20:30,529 --> 00:20:32,098
every single month.

589
00:20:32,198 --> 00:20:33,666
- Between the two of us,
you really had

590
00:20:33,833 --> 00:20:37,169
an all-access pass to the city.
- I love Yvonne so much.

591
00:20:37,336 --> 00:20:40,773
I just wish that she would
remember that I'm a mom now.

592
00:20:40,873 --> 00:20:42,842
- Are you gonna be around,
around, like, 11:00?

593
00:20:42,975 --> 00:20:44,143
- No.

594
00:20:44,210 --> 00:20:46,178
- Can you come and meet me
for a glass of wine?

595
00:20:46,278 --> 00:20:47,571
- I have a baby.

596
00:20:47,638 --> 00:20:48,547
- She's like,
"Yvonne...

597
00:20:48,681 --> 00:20:50,049
I'm a mom."
- I'm a mom.

598
00:20:50,182 --> 00:20:51,750
- Sometimes
she says yes, though,

599
00:20:51,851 --> 00:20:54,453
but, like, then sometimes
she gets activated.

600
00:20:54,553 --> 00:20:57,857
There is a brand-new restaurant
opening tonight.

601
00:20:57,957 --> 00:20:58,958
- Oh, my God.

602
00:20:59,058 --> 00:21:00,493
- I'm so excited for tonight.

603
00:21:00,593 --> 00:21:02,528
- I'm actually surprised
Kenny invited me.

604
00:21:02,661 --> 00:21:03,996
Andrea was telling me
this week,

605
00:21:04,063 --> 00:21:07,133
he's like, "Yeah,
Kenny doesn't really like you

606
00:21:07,233 --> 00:21:09,201
because you pressured him
to propose."

607
00:21:09,335 --> 00:21:11,095
I was like, what?

608
00:21:11,228 --> 00:21:12,338
- What are you wearing
tonight?

609
00:21:12,438 --> 00:21:14,440
- I think I'm gonna wear
this brown cocktail dress.

610
00:21:14,540 --> 00:21:17,009
- That's hot.
I think I'm gonna do this linen.

611
00:21:17,109 --> 00:21:18,494
I think I'm gonna do
the black on black

612
00:21:18,594 --> 00:21:19,445
with the T-shirt.

613
00:21:19,545 --> 00:21:21,147
I think you're gonna
love this space.

614
00:21:21,247 --> 00:21:23,607
It's the Campbell Building
up in Grand Central.

615
00:21:23,741 --> 00:21:25,684
- I know you don't like to go
above 14th Street,

616
00:21:25,751 --> 00:21:26,852
but, you know.
- For you...

617
00:21:26,952 --> 00:21:28,988
I'll go anywhere
in Manhattan,

618
00:21:29,088 --> 00:21:30,723
maybe not Brooklyn.

619
00:21:30,823 --> 00:21:32,725
- I think it's just like,
here's this party

620
00:21:32,858 --> 00:21:34,059
that I'm throwing for you,

621
00:21:34,193 --> 00:21:35,861
so you forget about
the lack of closet space

622
00:21:35,961 --> 00:21:38,197
that you have
in my apartment.

623
00:21:38,297 --> 00:21:40,166
- So, when's my party?

624
00:21:40,266 --> 00:21:41,200
- You're not getting a party.

625
00:21:41,300 --> 00:21:42,368
- Do you think we'll ever
get to the stage

626
00:21:42,468 --> 00:21:45,404
where I don't just have, like,
one little closet,

627
00:21:45,504 --> 00:21:48,073
and then your stuff isn't, like,
in the living room?

628
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:49,608
- I don't want this
out here either,

629
00:21:49,742 --> 00:21:52,194
but I have a lot of jackets.

630
00:21:52,294 --> 00:21:53,362
I mean, closet space
in New York

631
00:21:53,462 --> 00:21:54,880
is hard to come by, right?

632
00:21:54,947 --> 00:21:56,081
You've been here
for two months, right?

633
00:21:56,248 --> 00:21:57,716
- I know.

634
00:21:57,817 --> 00:22:00,186
I feel like I can graduate on
to a little bit more space.

635
00:22:00,286 --> 00:22:02,054
- I think I've been pretty
generous, actually.

636
00:22:02,121 --> 00:22:04,148
[laughing]

637
00:22:04,215 --> 00:22:06,025
- Anyway, how are you feeling
about tonight

638
00:22:06,125 --> 00:22:08,093
'cause you-you haven't seen
Lindsay since you,

639
00:22:08,194 --> 00:22:10,563
uh, got turned down by her
for your date?

640
00:22:10,663 --> 00:22:12,064
- Yeah, turned down
is the right word.

641
00:22:12,131 --> 00:22:13,566
I'm just, like,
I guess I'm nervous.

642
00:22:13,666 --> 00:22:14,725
I'm anxious.

643
00:22:14,825 --> 00:22:17,469
There's tons of history there,
so, like, you know.

644
00:22:17,603 --> 00:22:18,571
- Yeah.

645
00:22:18,671 --> 00:22:19,772
- It makes-- it makes it
a little heavier,

646
00:22:19,872 --> 00:22:21,507
but I'll figure it out.

647
00:22:25,377 --> 00:22:28,681
♪♪

648
00:22:34,353 --> 00:22:37,423
- I've never been here.
Hi.

649
00:22:37,523 --> 00:22:39,091
- Can I get you started
with a drink?

650
00:22:39,191 --> 00:22:41,318
- I think I'm gonna start
with an espresso martini.

651
00:22:41,418 --> 00:22:42,753
- I think we're around here.

652
00:22:42,853 --> 00:22:43,796
- That's what I was
gonna go with, too.

653
00:22:43,929 --> 00:22:45,598
- Okay.
- Done. Perfect.

654
00:22:45,698 --> 00:22:47,416
- Thank you.

655
00:22:47,516 --> 00:22:48,467
Oh, they're here.

656
00:22:48,567 --> 00:22:50,361
Hi!
- Hey.

657
00:22:50,427 --> 00:22:51,303
How we doin'?
- Good. How are you?

658
00:22:51,437 --> 00:22:52,529
- Thanks for coming.
- Of course.

659
00:22:52,663 --> 00:22:55,374
You look beautiful.
- Aww, thank you. So do you.

660
00:22:55,474 --> 00:22:56,442
- Hi.
- Hi. How are you?

661
00:22:56,508 --> 00:22:57,810
- Good. How are you?
- Hi.

662
00:22:57,943 --> 00:22:58,911
- Good to see you, Linds.
- Hi. How are you?

663
00:22:59,011 --> 00:23:00,145
- How are you doing?

664
00:23:00,279 --> 00:23:02,047
- How you been?
You look sharp.

665
00:23:04,783 --> 00:23:06,986
- Hi.
- Hi.

666
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,088
- Thank you for having us.

667
00:23:09,188 --> 00:23:10,990
- Hi.
Welcome to New York.

668
00:23:11,123 --> 00:23:12,324
- Hi. How are you?
Good to see you.

669
00:23:12,458 --> 00:23:14,093
- How are we doing?
Good to see you.
- Good. Good.

670
00:23:14,193 --> 00:23:15,127
- Uh, where's Kyle?

671
00:23:15,227 --> 00:23:16,962
- He had to drop
something off for work,

672
00:23:17,062 --> 00:23:18,797
so I just came up
with Katie.

673
00:23:18,898 --> 00:23:20,132
- Hi, Gavin.

674
00:23:20,232 --> 00:23:22,067
It's so good to see you.

675
00:23:22,167 --> 00:23:24,136
- Too long. Too long.
- It's been too long.

676
00:23:24,236 --> 00:23:26,572
- Welcome to New York.
- Hey, you look beautiful.

677
00:23:26,672 --> 00:23:27,673
- How was your anniversary?

678
00:23:27,806 --> 00:23:29,775
- We had, like, a really
nice time at dinner,

679
00:23:29,875 --> 00:23:31,677
and drinks, and stuff.
- Okay, good.

680
00:23:31,810 --> 00:23:37,483
- But, um, I told Kyle
that I'm moving out.

681
00:23:37,650 --> 00:23:40,653
♪♪

682
00:23:40,753 --> 00:23:41,654
- Oh, my God, you did.

683
00:23:41,754 --> 00:23:43,489
- But then I explained
to him

684
00:23:43,589 --> 00:23:45,624
I'm gonna find somewhere,
like, temporary.

685
00:23:45,724 --> 00:23:46,692
- Right.
- Like, we're not separating.

686
00:23:46,759 --> 00:23:47,526
We're not calling off
the relationship.

687
00:23:47,660 --> 00:23:49,028
- Yeah.
- Like, we're still gonna

688
00:23:49,128 --> 00:23:50,296
see each other, dating.

689
00:23:50,396 --> 00:23:51,422
Like, we're gonna have to
make efforts

690
00:23:51,555 --> 00:23:52,865
with each other.
- Yeah, yeah.

691
00:23:52,965 --> 00:23:55,034
- I was so nervous to say
something to him,

692
00:23:55,134 --> 00:23:57,169
but he took it so well.

693
00:23:57,236 --> 00:23:59,471
- He did?
- Yeah.

694
00:23:59,571 --> 00:24:01,206
Like, something
just has to change.

695
00:24:01,340 --> 00:24:03,567
He's like, "I don't think
it's, like, the worst idea.

696
00:24:03,667 --> 00:24:07,171
Like, it's"--
[laughing]

697
00:24:07,271 --> 00:24:09,948
Um, but yeah.

698
00:24:12,351 --> 00:24:14,078
- Hey!

699
00:24:15,654 --> 00:24:19,024
- Flirting versus charming.
- Charming.

700
00:24:19,124 --> 00:24:21,226
- Where am I at with--

701
00:24:21,393 --> 00:24:23,253
- You're chirting.

702
00:24:23,354 --> 00:24:25,030
Don't ----ing kiss my girl.

703
00:24:25,130 --> 00:24:26,924
- Gavin's a little sh--.

704
00:24:28,133 --> 00:24:29,468
- Muah!
- Nice to meet you.

705
00:24:29,568 --> 00:24:31,428
- Nice to meet you.
How are you?
- Hi. How are you?

706
00:24:31,528 --> 00:24:33,130
- Frank. Nice to meet you.
- Yvonne. Nice to meet you.

707
00:24:33,197 --> 00:24:34,673
- I got ready
at the office today.

708
00:24:34,773 --> 00:24:37,843
I used the laser hair removal
to shave my legs.

709
00:24:37,943 --> 00:24:39,078
I was like,
you know what?

710
00:24:39,211 --> 00:24:41,246
I don't have time to go home,
so this is what it is.

711
00:24:41,380 --> 00:24:43,874
- Yo, how we doin'?
- How you doin'? How you doin'?

712
00:24:43,974 --> 00:24:46,685
- Ciao!
- I wanted to say hello
to the ladies.

713
00:24:46,785 --> 00:24:48,779
- Who is that?
- What perfect timing.

714
00:24:48,879 --> 00:24:51,240
- Rico Suave with the hair.

715
00:24:54,026 --> 00:24:55,094
- What did he just say?

716
00:24:55,227 --> 00:24:57,121
- No!

717
00:24:57,221 --> 00:25:00,065
Frank, come meet the ladies.

718
00:25:00,165 --> 00:25:01,066
This is Lindsay.
- Hi, Lindsay.

719
00:25:01,166 --> 00:25:02,601
- Hi, Frank. Lindsay.
- Frank Acosta.

720
00:25:02,701 --> 00:25:04,436
Nice to meet you. How are you?
- Nice to meet you.

721
00:25:04,570 --> 00:25:05,871
- You guys were,
uh, at my wedding.

722
00:25:05,971 --> 00:25:08,040
- Oh, that's right.
- Oh.

723
00:25:08,140 --> 00:25:09,742
- If I think two people
are amazing,

724
00:25:09,842 --> 00:25:12,277
and they're single,
I try to get them together.

725
00:25:12,378 --> 00:25:14,905
And, Frank
remembered Lindsay.

726
00:25:15,005 --> 00:25:18,083
He remembered exactly the dress
she was wearing that night.

727
00:25:18,183 --> 00:25:19,752
I thought she was
wearing red,

728
00:25:19,852 --> 00:25:20,953
but then she was
wearing green,

729
00:25:21,053 --> 00:25:22,579
and Frank knew,
and I didn't.

730
00:25:22,679 --> 00:25:23,847
- And he's
a great-looking guy,

731
00:25:23,981 --> 00:25:25,758
and Lindsay's
great-looking,

732
00:25:25,858 --> 00:25:27,626
so I think
it's a good match.

733
00:25:27,726 --> 00:25:29,294
- I can see some steam...

734
00:25:29,461 --> 00:25:31,697
- Yeah.
- ...coming in.

735
00:25:31,764 --> 00:25:32,798
- Where are you from
originally?

736
00:25:32,931 --> 00:25:35,300
- Michigan--
I moved to New York,

737
00:25:35,434 --> 00:25:37,302
started a milk
and dairy company.

738
00:25:37,436 --> 00:25:39,104
- Milk and dairy.

739
00:25:39,204 --> 00:25:40,839
Frank is so ----ing hot.

740
00:25:40,973 --> 00:25:42,608
- But I don't like
to party-party.

741
00:25:42,674 --> 00:25:45,177
Do you?
- Those days are long gone.

742
00:25:45,277 --> 00:25:47,379
Um, I have
a ten-month-old baby.

743
00:25:47,479 --> 00:25:49,506
She's, like, the most
perfect baby on earth.

744
00:25:49,606 --> 00:25:52,050
It's been a while
since I've gotten,

745
00:25:52,117 --> 00:25:54,253
like, flustered like this.

746
00:25:54,353 --> 00:25:56,088
I'm gonna run to
the restroom real quick.

747
00:25:56,188 --> 00:25:57,790
I'll be right back.

748
00:25:57,890 --> 00:25:59,450
I'm, like,
sweating a little.

749
00:25:59,550 --> 00:26:02,661
I think Andrea brought
this guy to introduce me to,

750
00:26:02,828 --> 00:26:04,263
and I'm drinking
an espresso martini

751
00:26:04,363 --> 00:26:06,782
and eating
cheese and meats,

752
00:26:06,882 --> 00:26:09,468
and I'm like, I need
to go to the bathroom

753
00:26:09,568 --> 00:26:11,670
and, like,
spray something in my mouth.

754
00:26:11,770 --> 00:26:14,973
- Let me see.

755
00:26:15,074 --> 00:26:16,675
Oh, yeah, you're good.

756
00:26:16,809 --> 00:26:18,577
- Hi!

757
00:26:20,779 --> 00:26:23,982
Hello.
- Hey, how are you doing?

758
00:26:24,082 --> 00:26:25,417
How are you?

759
00:26:25,517 --> 00:26:26,802
- This is a vibe.
- Hi. How are you?

760
00:26:26,902 --> 00:26:27,953
- I'm good. How are things?
Good to see you.

761
00:26:28,053 --> 00:26:29,288
- Good to see you, homie.
- How are you things?

762
00:26:29,388 --> 00:26:30,322
- Good, good, good.

763
00:26:30,422 --> 00:26:31,215
- Thanks for having us.
This is great.

764
00:26:31,315 --> 00:26:32,691
- Hey, absolutely.

765
00:26:32,791 --> 00:26:34,426
- I wanna get a cocktail.

766
00:26:34,526 --> 00:26:35,360
What are you drinking?
- Prosecco.

767
00:26:35,527 --> 00:26:39,364
- Hi, Lindsay.
- Prosecco-- oh, hi.

768
00:26:39,465 --> 00:26:40,557
How are you?
- Nice to see you.

769
00:26:40,657 --> 00:26:41,934
Good. How are you?

770
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,602
- Um, okay, so...

771
00:26:45,637 --> 00:26:48,207
- Yeah, now I need one.
- Yeah, I get it.

772
00:26:48,307 --> 00:26:49,508
- What is going on,
right now?

773
00:26:49,608 --> 00:26:50,976
- Yeah, tell me.
What's going on?

774
00:26:51,076 --> 00:26:52,077
- Danielle just showed up--
- What?

775
00:26:52,211 --> 00:26:54,112
- And gave me a kiss
on the cheek to say hi.

776
00:26:58,317 --> 00:26:59,818
- Like, what?

777
00:26:59,918 --> 00:27:02,838
She stiffed me for wanting
to go out for coffee and chat,

778
00:27:02,938 --> 00:27:05,591
and now she can't even, like,
say two sentences to me.

779
00:27:05,724 --> 00:27:08,727
It just feels like
I'm a stranger to her now.

780
00:27:08,827 --> 00:27:09,962
It just sucks.

781
00:27:10,028 --> 00:27:10,896
- What is happening
around here?

782
00:27:11,029 --> 00:27:13,090
- Next time--
- There is so much going on.

783
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:15,901
- It's just so sh---y.

784
00:27:16,034 --> 00:27:18,370
She looked at me, and she
was just, like, cold as ice.

785
00:27:18,437 --> 00:27:20,430
It makes me so sad.

786
00:27:25,869 --> 00:27:28,397
♪♪

787
00:27:30,215 --> 00:27:31,583
- This is Jackson's
best friend.

788
00:27:31,750 --> 00:27:33,051
- As in your dog?
- Yeah.

789
00:27:33,152 --> 00:27:34,953
- Okay.
- Oh, we're-we're homies, bro.

790
00:27:35,087 --> 00:27:36,613
And he's got the ----ing
best hair in New York.

791
00:27:36,713 --> 00:27:38,991
- Can we give you a mullet?
- He's on his--

792
00:27:40,659 --> 00:27:42,819
- Yeah, I did.
That was an era.

793
00:27:42,953 --> 00:27:44,930
- Kyle just keeps
walking right past me.

794
00:27:45,030 --> 00:27:46,265
Does he even know
that I'm here?

795
00:27:46,365 --> 00:27:48,433
- Kyle used to be a little
more fun with a mullet.

796
00:27:48,534 --> 00:27:50,727
Now, he's like, uh, you know,
growing up, being--

797
00:27:50,827 --> 00:27:52,087
- Don't tempt me, Nick.

798
00:27:55,607 --> 00:27:56,508
The place is busy.

799
00:27:56,575 --> 00:27:57,376
Hi.
- I know.

800
00:27:57,476 --> 00:27:58,577
Why didn't you say
hi to me?

801
00:27:58,644 --> 00:28:00,946
- I-I guess
I walked by you.

802
00:28:01,046 --> 00:28:03,215
- I heard you, your voice,
right behind me.

803
00:28:03,315 --> 00:28:04,449
I said,
"Oh, Kyle's here."

804
00:28:04,550 --> 00:28:06,585
- I walked in and--
- I could feel the vibrations

805
00:28:06,685 --> 00:28:07,786
in my chest
of you talking.

806
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,389
I said my--
I think Kyle's here.

807
00:28:10,489 --> 00:28:12,157
- You know, Amanda,
she's moving out.

808
00:28:12,291 --> 00:28:15,561
But we're not separated,
We're just creating separation.

809
00:28:15,661 --> 00:28:17,829
But it's confusing.
This is foreign territory.

810
00:28:17,963 --> 00:28:21,300
I don't know
how I'm supposed to act.

811
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:22,801
- Did you feed the dogs?
- Yeah.

812
00:28:22,901 --> 00:28:25,704
- Did you take 'em out?
- No.

813
00:28:25,804 --> 00:28:29,600
It's still hard to believe
this is happening.

814
00:28:29,700 --> 00:28:31,343
[glass clinking]

815
00:28:31,476 --> 00:28:33,612
- Hey, hey, hey,
hey, hey, hey, hey!

816
00:28:33,712 --> 00:28:36,281
- I wanted to give
a toast to Whitney.

817
00:28:36,381 --> 00:28:37,783
We're all here
as, you know,

818
00:28:37,883 --> 00:28:39,209
her welcome to New York.

819
00:28:39,276 --> 00:28:41,320
She is the best person
that I know

820
00:28:41,453 --> 00:28:42,754
and the best person
in my life,

821
00:28:42,854 --> 00:28:46,325
and I'm so excited
to be dragging her

822
00:28:46,425 --> 00:28:48,360
across the country
to New York.

823
00:28:48,493 --> 00:28:50,596
- On the subway.
- We took the subway today
for the first time.

824
00:28:50,696 --> 00:28:52,764
[cheering]

825
00:28:52,864 --> 00:28:54,633
She's an amazing woman.
To Whitney.

826
00:28:54,700 --> 00:28:57,336
[cheering]

827
00:28:57,436 --> 00:28:58,337
- Go, Whitney!

828
00:28:58,470 --> 00:29:00,238
- I love you.
- Whoo!

829
00:29:04,776 --> 00:29:06,011
- Katie,
I like that green on you.

830
00:29:06,144 --> 00:29:07,179
- I do, too.
- Thank you, honey.

831
00:29:07,279 --> 00:29:08,380
- Green's
my favorite color. So...

832
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:09,748
- Oh, thank you.
I appreciate that.

833
00:29:10,974 --> 00:29:12,250
- Is that right?
- He's obsessed with it, though.

834
00:29:12,351 --> 00:29:13,352
It's really weird.

835
00:29:13,518 --> 00:29:15,379
Green shoes, green socks,
green underwear, green shorts,

836
00:29:15,479 --> 00:29:16,688
green shirt,
green jacket, green hat.

837
00:29:16,788 --> 00:29:19,024
- Aww, that's adorable.

838
00:29:19,191 --> 00:29:21,360
I love that.
- It's a lot of laundry.

839
00:29:21,460 --> 00:29:24,029
- Do you want a drink?
- Yeah.

840
00:29:24,129 --> 00:29:26,832
- Did you and Lindsay
get the lace memo?

841
00:29:26,932 --> 00:29:29,534
- No, I don't know.
- This is a vibe,
I'm not gonna lie.

842
00:29:29,701 --> 00:29:32,037
- We don't talk.
So, that would be--

843
00:29:32,137 --> 00:29:33,205
- Can I steal you
for a minute?

844
00:29:33,305 --> 00:29:34,439
- Yeah, 100%.

845
00:29:34,539 --> 00:29:35,766
- Fill me in
on the ----ing tidbits

846
00:29:35,899 --> 00:29:38,435
'cause I-I've got
a bone to pick, as well.

847
00:29:38,568 --> 00:29:41,446
- I was joking 'cause in an--
in an alternative universe,

848
00:29:41,513 --> 00:29:43,115
you and Lindsay would have
coordinated a little lace.

849
00:29:43,181 --> 00:29:44,549
- I-I miss you.

850
00:29:44,650 --> 00:29:46,618
- I didn't mean to, like,
be insensitive.

851
00:29:46,685 --> 00:29:49,171
- Eoin!
- How are you?

852
00:29:49,271 --> 00:29:50,339
Good to see you.
- Good to see you.

853
00:29:50,439 --> 00:29:51,657
- How are things?
I love your hair.

854
00:29:51,757 --> 00:29:55,027
- I'm trying to broker
a common ground.

855
00:29:55,127 --> 00:29:58,422
We're too closeknit
for there to be awkwardness.

856
00:29:59,264 --> 00:30:01,199
Just confront her now
and squash it.

857
00:30:01,300 --> 00:30:02,868
You own it, she owns it.

858
00:30:02,968 --> 00:30:04,870
- She literally
texted me that summer.

859
00:30:04,936 --> 00:30:06,705
She said,
"You said something punchy."

860
00:30:06,805 --> 00:30:08,573
- The beach was harsh.

861
00:30:08,674 --> 00:30:10,409
- I mean, we don't even
live together, let alone--

862
00:30:10,542 --> 00:30:12,377
- You don't live together?
- No.

863
00:30:12,477 --> 00:30:13,578
- You don't live
with this man?

864
00:30:13,679 --> 00:30:14,713
- No.
- And he has put

865
00:30:14,780 --> 00:30:17,082
a baby inside you?
- Yeah.

866
00:30:17,182 --> 00:30:18,917
- And now, she has
all sorts of opinions

867
00:30:19,017 --> 00:30:20,402
about how you've
carried yourself.

868
00:30:22,546 --> 00:30:26,692
I think Lindsay-- I don't want
to say the word "slut,"

869
00:30:26,792 --> 00:30:29,619
but she has opinions
on your behavior.

870
00:30:30,562 --> 00:30:32,364
- Before Carl and I
got engaged,

871
00:30:32,464 --> 00:30:34,766
she gave him a hand job
in the back of an Uber

872
00:30:34,866 --> 00:30:37,135
a week after we broke up.

873
00:30:37,269 --> 00:30:41,440
- The word "boy crazy"
has come up.

874
00:30:41,540 --> 00:30:43,567
- Are you ----ing kidding me?
- I'm not.

875
00:30:43,667 --> 00:30:45,544
- Are you ----ing
out of your mind

876
00:30:45,644 --> 00:30:46,803
bringing this to me?

877
00:30:46,903 --> 00:30:48,146
- Don't freaking
shoot the messenger.

878
00:30:48,246 --> 00:30:50,182
- (BLEEP) that.

879
00:30:50,282 --> 00:30:53,452
Now, all of a sudden that
I'm in a serious relationship,

880
00:30:53,585 --> 00:30:57,089
you have this laundry list
of issues with me

881
00:30:57,189 --> 00:30:59,591
about guys
that I have dated.

882
00:30:59,691 --> 00:31:02,018
I mean, to call me
boy crazy,

883
00:31:02,152 --> 00:31:05,630
like, I wouldn't be
pointing in this direction.

884
00:31:05,731 --> 00:31:07,966
Like, girl...

885
00:31:08,066 --> 00:31:10,268
What did you think was
gonna come from that, Kyle?

886
00:31:10,369 --> 00:31:11,636
There's no chance I'm gonna
go over and be like,

887
00:31:11,770 --> 00:31:12,971
"Hey, can we have
a conversation.

888
00:31:13,071 --> 00:31:14,606
I'm so sorry
about everything."

889
00:31:14,706 --> 00:31:16,700
No, thanks.

890
00:31:16,833 --> 00:31:18,443
- Of course.

891
00:31:18,543 --> 00:31:19,644
- Excellent.

892
00:31:19,711 --> 00:31:20,937
You're tan, which means you
were out in the sun

893
00:31:21,037 --> 00:31:23,098
without sunscreen,
but I'll let it pass.

894
00:31:23,198 --> 00:31:25,417
- He looks great for 45.
- Yeah, yeah, so, you're good.

895
00:31:25,517 --> 00:31:26,118
- Really?
- Yeah.

896
00:31:26,184 --> 00:31:28,220
- It's 99% genetic, honestly.

897
00:31:28,286 --> 00:31:29,713
My job is the 1%.

898
00:31:29,846 --> 00:31:31,823
- Okay, can we talk?
- Okay.

899
00:31:31,957 --> 00:31:34,359
- What's that?
Can we talk? Yeah.

900
00:31:34,493 --> 00:31:37,829
- First of all,
lovely party, lovely speech.

901
00:31:37,929 --> 00:31:39,664
- Thank you for coming.

902
00:31:39,765 --> 00:31:41,733
- Well, thank you
for inviting me.

903
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,971
Um, I did hear that
you felt grilled by me

904
00:31:46,071 --> 00:31:47,639
at The Garrett, right?

905
00:31:47,739 --> 00:31:50,475
- That's correct.
It felt like you were

906
00:31:50,575 --> 00:31:52,477
grilling me,
interrogating me.

907
00:31:52,544 --> 00:31:54,446
You were--
- Was it just me?

908
00:31:54,546 --> 00:31:55,981
- You were recruiting people.

909
00:31:56,081 --> 00:31:57,149
- I didn't recruit people.
- Literally, you were,

910
00:31:57,249 --> 00:31:58,583
like, literally,
like, "Come over here."

911
00:31:58,683 --> 00:32:00,051
- I was just asking
you questions

912
00:32:00,185 --> 00:32:02,187
'cause that's how you
get to know somebody.

913
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:03,555
This is who I am.

914
00:32:03,622 --> 00:32:05,357
Like, I just-- and I question
everyone in my life.

915
00:32:05,490 --> 00:32:07,359
I'm a very curious person,

916
00:32:07,459 --> 00:32:08,660
and I want to get to know

917
00:32:08,727 --> 00:32:10,962
everyone's interpersonal
relationships.

918
00:32:11,062 --> 00:32:14,424
- I-I wish it felt
genuine like that.

919
00:32:14,558 --> 00:32:18,094
You think that that line
of questioning was normal,

920
00:32:18,228 --> 00:32:19,971
and everyone ----ing rolling in
and piling in--

921
00:32:20,071 --> 00:32:22,040
- It's normal in my life
with all of my friends.

922
00:32:22,140 --> 00:32:23,175
- ...was normal?
Is it?

923
00:32:23,275 --> 00:32:24,334
Well, I love that
for you and your friends

924
00:32:24,434 --> 00:32:25,444
'cause it seems
like you have

925
00:32:25,544 --> 00:32:27,237
a lot of disagreements
with a lot of people.

926
00:32:27,337 --> 00:32:29,339
It's just like
drama, drama, drama,

927
00:32:29,439 --> 00:32:31,341
and it feels like
it's just you're creating

928
00:32:31,441 --> 00:32:32,442
these narratives that just
are, like, unnecessary.

929
00:32:32,576 --> 00:32:34,386
- No, I call out
----ing truths and facts,

930
00:32:34,486 --> 00:32:35,946
and I'm sorry that
you don't like to hear

931
00:32:36,012 --> 00:32:37,222
the ----ing truth.

932
00:32:37,322 --> 00:32:38,857
- You're grilling me
about moving a girl

933
00:32:38,957 --> 00:32:41,451
across the country
after knowing her for a year.

934
00:32:41,585 --> 00:32:42,561
You had a kid with a guy

935
00:32:42,661 --> 00:32:44,229
after ----ing two months.
- You're right.

936
00:32:44,396 --> 00:32:45,697
So, what's
the problem about that?

937
00:32:45,797 --> 00:32:47,699
- The problem is,
don't project your insecurities

938
00:32:47,766 --> 00:32:48,934
on my relationship.

939
00:32:49,034 --> 00:32:50,760
- I'm not.
- It feels like you are.

940
00:32:58,535 --> 00:33:01,229
♪♪

941
00:33:02,472 --> 00:33:03,882
- You're grilling me
about moving a girl

942
00:33:03,982 --> 00:33:06,551
across the country
after knowing her for a year.

943
00:33:06,651 --> 00:33:07,586
You had a kid with a guy

944
00:33:07,686 --> 00:33:09,421
after ----ing two months.
- You're right.

945
00:33:09,588 --> 00:33:10,889
So, what's
the problem about that?

946
00:33:10,989 --> 00:33:12,858
- The problem is,
don't project your insecurities

947
00:33:12,958 --> 00:33:13,925
on my relationship.

948
00:33:14,059 --> 00:33:15,927
- I'm not.
- It feels like you are.

949
00:33:16,061 --> 00:33:19,965
You're telling me that you,
and your personal life,

950
00:33:20,098 --> 00:33:22,267
and the fact that you had
this relationship with this guy,

951
00:33:22,367 --> 00:33:25,662
and you have a child has
nothing to do with the fact

952
00:33:25,795 --> 00:33:26,555
that you are grilling me
on-on my commitment level.

953
00:33:26,655 --> 00:33:28,707
- It sounds like
you're judging me.

954
00:33:28,807 --> 00:33:29,941
It sounds like
you're judging me. No.

955
00:33:30,041 --> 00:33:31,301
- No, I just don't need to
be pressed on my commit--

956
00:33:31,401 --> 00:33:32,944
on my commitment level.
- You and your commitment level.

957
00:33:33,111 --> 00:33:35,397
Kenny acts like
he knows who I am,

958
00:33:35,497 --> 00:33:39,284
and he doesn't know sh--,
but I know narcissistic men,

959
00:33:39,384 --> 00:33:42,287
and that's what
he's giving, right now.

960
00:33:42,387 --> 00:33:44,656
So, Whitney, good luck.

961
00:33:44,756 --> 00:33:45,657
- You just asked me
about bringing someone

962
00:33:45,790 --> 00:33:47,684
across the country
without a ring.

963
00:33:47,817 --> 00:33:48,827
- No, I didn't.
- I'm like--

964
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:50,061
Stop with the nonsense.
- What I said was--

965
00:33:50,161 --> 00:33:52,414
and maybe you're not
----ing remembering-- was,

966
00:33:52,514 --> 00:33:54,532
"Wow, she moved across
the country for you

967
00:33:54,599 --> 00:33:56,968
"without you putting
a ring on her finger.

968
00:33:57,102 --> 00:33:59,271
"That shows commitment."
- That's a normal occurrence.

969
00:33:59,371 --> 00:34:00,805
- That shows--
no, it's not.

970
00:34:00,906 --> 00:34:03,074
I have multiple girlfriends
that would never do that

971
00:34:03,174 --> 00:34:04,643
without a ring
on their ----ing finger.

972
00:34:04,809 --> 00:34:06,428
- That's a you thing.
- That is--

973
00:34:06,528 --> 00:34:07,929
- Oh, they're still going.

974
00:34:08,029 --> 00:34:09,414
- I don't really wanna step in
because I feel like--

975
00:34:09,514 --> 00:34:11,616
- I know. I'm like you,
where, like,

976
00:34:11,716 --> 00:34:13,618
it's other people's problems,
not mine.

977
00:34:13,685 --> 00:34:15,879
- I obviously wanna, like,
stand up for my relationship,

978
00:34:15,946 --> 00:34:17,622
and that's why I stepped
into that conversation

979
00:34:17,722 --> 00:34:19,024
at The Garrett
when you weren't there.

980
00:34:19,157 --> 00:34:20,442
- But I don't think she's
questioning your relationship.

981
00:34:20,542 --> 00:34:22,460
I think she wants
the best for you,

982
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,622
and I think she's trying
to protect you.

983
00:34:25,722 --> 00:34:27,132
- Why is she trying
to protect me, like,

984
00:34:27,232 --> 00:34:29,301
when we know
what we're doing?

985
00:34:29,401 --> 00:34:30,435
- Yeah.
- And that's, like,

986
00:34:30,535 --> 00:34:32,237
our own decisions and--
- Lindsay-- she's a mom.

987
00:34:32,337 --> 00:34:33,939
She's just like mama bear.
- Yeah.

988
00:34:34,039 --> 00:34:35,907
- It's just
her personality.

989
00:34:36,007 --> 00:34:38,201
- I just think you have drama
that follows you around

990
00:34:38,301 --> 00:34:39,377
everywhere you go.

991
00:34:39,511 --> 00:34:41,146
- Like, I don't have time
for drama.

992
00:34:41,246 --> 00:34:42,480
I don't care for that.
- Think about it.

993
00:34:42,580 --> 00:34:44,416
You're in the middle
of a fight with me

994
00:34:44,482 --> 00:34:47,085
in the middle of Whitney's
welcome to New York party.

995
00:34:47,152 --> 00:34:50,814
Is that dramatic?

996
00:34:50,914 --> 00:34:53,049
- You're the one
fighting with me.

997
00:34:53,149 --> 00:34:56,419
- Okay.

998
00:34:56,486 --> 00:34:57,963
- Thank you for inviting me.

999
00:34:58,063 --> 00:34:59,764
- I'm glad you came.

1000
00:35:04,135 --> 00:35:06,204
♪ We got what you need ♪

1001
00:35:06,304 --> 00:35:08,707
[bell tolling]

1002
00:35:08,807 --> 00:35:10,775
♪ You know you need me ♪

1003
00:35:10,875 --> 00:35:12,043
♪ You know it ♪

1004
00:35:12,143 --> 00:35:14,646
- Two-bedroom--
that was my, uh,

1005
00:35:14,746 --> 00:35:16,648
highly requested.
- Oh, this is nice.

1006
00:35:16,748 --> 00:35:18,575
- Primary's this way.
- Okay, perfect.

1007
00:35:18,675 --> 00:35:20,085
- That's where you're gonna be
spending all your time.

1008
00:35:20,218 --> 00:35:22,445
[laughing]
- Potentially.

1009
00:35:22,579 --> 00:35:23,922
- You got
a great soaking tub.

1010
00:35:24,055 --> 00:35:26,358
- Oh, wow.
- Oh, my God!

1011
00:35:26,424 --> 00:35:29,561
- No, that's a pool.
- Wait, this is a hot tub.

1012
00:35:29,661 --> 00:35:31,621
I'm bringing Gemma
to bathe in your tub.

1013
00:35:31,755 --> 00:35:33,289
- Oh, Gemma
wants bathtime.

1014
00:35:33,423 --> 00:35:35,567
- No, she can--
she can splash around.

1015
00:35:35,700 --> 00:35:37,902
- I'm trying to find somewhere
that's, like, furnished,

1016
00:35:38,003 --> 00:35:40,864
month to month,
outdoor space,

1017
00:35:40,964 --> 00:35:42,807
pet-friendly,
with a doorman,

1018
00:35:42,874 --> 00:35:44,676
and has sunlight.

1019
00:35:44,776 --> 00:35:48,213
- Good size primary.
- Yeah, and good lighting.

1020
00:35:48,313 --> 00:35:51,608
My bedroom, right now,
faces, like, a brick wall,

1021
00:35:51,708 --> 00:35:53,685
so it's a dungeon.

1022
00:35:53,785 --> 00:35:57,222
I wanna wake up with
the sun beating on my face

1023
00:35:57,322 --> 00:35:58,523
where I leave my house
in the morning,

1024
00:35:58,623 --> 00:35:59,991
and I have sunburn.

1025
00:36:00,091 --> 00:36:02,260
All right, and then
there's a second bedroom.

1026
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:03,094
- Oh, my God.

1027
00:36:03,228 --> 00:36:04,229
- Also, gets
really great light.

1028
00:36:04,329 --> 00:36:06,398
You get a little bit of
a water view here, too.

1029
00:36:06,464 --> 00:36:08,600
- Beautiful, yeah,
this gets really nice light.

1030
00:36:08,733 --> 00:36:10,435
- More closets.
- More closet--

1031
00:36:10,535 --> 00:36:13,338
this would be my closet,
like a clo-office.

1032
00:36:13,438 --> 00:36:15,607
You know,
a closet-office situation.

1033
00:36:15,707 --> 00:36:17,400
I've never lived
by myself before.

1034
00:36:17,500 --> 00:36:19,010
The last apartment
I looked for

1035
00:36:19,110 --> 00:36:20,545
before moving in
with Kyle,

1036
00:36:20,645 --> 00:36:22,614
our budget was, like,
next to nothing.

1037
00:36:22,714 --> 00:36:25,283
We were looking for, like,
a two-closet apartment,

1038
00:36:25,417 --> 00:36:26,901
you know,
not even a two-bedroom.

1039
00:36:27,001 --> 00:36:28,344
Just, like, give us
two closets.

1040
00:36:28,478 --> 00:36:29,688
- Oh, look at
all the wine.

1041
00:36:29,754 --> 00:36:31,089
Is the wine available
for grabs?

1042
00:36:31,156 --> 00:36:32,557
[laughing]

1043
00:36:32,657 --> 00:36:34,893
That's a selling point for me.
- [indistinct].

1044
00:36:34,993 --> 00:36:36,294
I'll let you guys chat.
I'll leave you alone.

1045
00:36:36,394 --> 00:36:38,329
- Okay, thank you
so much. Yes.

1046
00:36:38,463 --> 00:36:39,247
- All right,
have a good one, ladies.

1047
00:36:39,347 --> 00:36:41,191
- Thank you.
- Thank you so much.

1048
00:36:41,324 --> 00:36:44,135
- I mean, it's a cool view.
- It's really nice.

1049
00:36:44,235 --> 00:36:46,438
- Have you talked to
your parents at all

1050
00:36:46,538 --> 00:36:47,972
about any of this?
- Not yet.

1051
00:36:48,106 --> 00:36:49,207
- Oh.

1052
00:36:49,307 --> 00:36:52,777
- I don't wanna
make them worried.

1053
00:36:52,844 --> 00:36:54,037
- I get it, yeah.
It's hard with parents, yeah.

1054
00:36:54,104 --> 00:36:55,447
- Because especially
at this point, right now,

1055
00:36:55,513 --> 00:36:58,283
when, like, we're really
on that brink of, like,

1056
00:36:58,383 --> 00:36:59,617
will they, won't they.

1057
00:36:59,718 --> 00:37:01,986
I hate change so much.

1058
00:37:02,087 --> 00:37:04,756
When I was younger,
I handcuffed myself

1059
00:37:04,856 --> 00:37:08,326
to our cast iron railings
in our house

1060
00:37:08,426 --> 00:37:10,787
because my parents wanted
to get beautiful,

1061
00:37:10,887 --> 00:37:12,664
new, solid wooden ones,

1062
00:37:12,764 --> 00:37:14,466
and I did not want them
to change them.

1063
00:37:14,532 --> 00:37:15,967
But, at this point,

1064
00:37:16,067 --> 00:37:19,738
whatever I'm doing
has not been enough,

1065
00:37:19,804 --> 00:37:21,573
and I need to make
a bigger change,

1066
00:37:21,639 --> 00:37:22,807
and it's scary.

1067
00:37:22,907 --> 00:37:24,125
I just wanna be happy.

1068
00:37:24,225 --> 00:37:26,035
I just want to be with someone
that, like, adores me.

1069
00:37:26,136 --> 00:37:27,512
- He needs to just,
like, understand

1070
00:37:27,612 --> 00:37:28,947
that you're gonna
----ing lose her

1071
00:37:29,047 --> 00:37:30,415
if you don't
get it together.

1072
00:37:33,852 --> 00:37:35,420
♪♪

1073
00:37:35,487 --> 00:37:37,355
- All right, Ryder,
I heard you ate bread

1074
00:37:37,455 --> 00:37:39,791
out of this trash bag.
I know.

1075
00:37:39,891 --> 00:37:41,993
You're like, if it's this low,
it's fair game.

1076
00:37:42,093 --> 00:37:45,130
Not anymore.

1077
00:37:45,230 --> 00:37:47,866
All right.
[phone ringing]

1078
00:37:47,966 --> 00:37:49,534
Hey!

1079
00:37:49,634 --> 00:37:50,802
- Kyle Cooke.

1080
00:37:50,902 --> 00:37:52,971
- I love when you use
my first and last name.

1081
00:37:53,071 --> 00:37:54,572
[laughing]

1082
00:37:54,706 --> 00:37:56,508
- Well, uh,
fancy hearing from you

1083
00:37:56,608 --> 00:37:57,909
in the middle
of a workday.

1084
00:37:58,009 --> 00:37:59,043
- I know. I know.

1085
00:37:59,177 --> 00:38:00,879
How are you?
How-how was surgery?

1086
00:38:01,012 --> 00:38:02,046
How's recovery?

1087
00:38:02,180 --> 00:38:03,907
- Um, you know,
I'm doing well,

1088
00:38:04,007 --> 00:38:06,651
and dad got
precancerous melanoma,

1089
00:38:06,751 --> 00:38:08,653
and he's having that
dug out tomorrow.

1090
00:38:08,753 --> 00:38:10,054
- What the (BLEEP)?

1091
00:38:10,155 --> 00:38:14,559
- We're looking to 2026
to be a big comeback year.

1092
00:38:14,726 --> 00:38:17,529
- All right, same.
- Same for you?

1093
00:38:17,629 --> 00:38:21,199
- Oh, yeah, yeah,
this was a rough one.

1094
00:38:21,299 --> 00:38:23,168
I've been open to you guys
about the business front

1095
00:38:23,268 --> 00:38:24,460
and, you know,
some of the challenges

1096
00:38:24,594 --> 00:38:26,629
that Amanda
and I have had.

1097
00:38:26,763 --> 00:38:28,840
We had
a pretty rough summer.

1098
00:38:28,940 --> 00:38:30,942
I told you bits
and pieces of that.

1099
00:38:31,075 --> 00:38:32,177
- Yeah.

1100
00:38:32,277 --> 00:38:34,345
- And, we've kind of
been in this place before,

1101
00:38:34,445 --> 00:38:36,781
where even if we have
a good summer,

1102
00:38:36,915 --> 00:38:40,485
it-it quickly
slips into us living

1103
00:38:40,552 --> 00:38:42,020
kinda two different lives.

1104
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,613
Like, we don't
do anything together.

1105
00:38:43,713 --> 00:38:45,690
I mean, like, I'm like
pickleball,

1106
00:38:45,790 --> 00:38:47,258
kickball, traveling.

1107
00:38:47,358 --> 00:38:49,928
Like, I'll-- tell me
what you want to do.

1108
00:38:50,061 --> 00:38:52,197
She wants to go shopping,
you know.

1109
00:38:52,297 --> 00:38:54,566
- You married me.
[laughing]

1110
00:38:54,666 --> 00:38:56,234
- That's just weird, ma.

1111
00:38:56,334 --> 00:38:58,603
Um, Amanda and I,
we're like, all right,

1112
00:38:58,770 --> 00:39:00,772
what are we-- what are
we gonna do differently?

1113
00:39:00,939 --> 00:39:05,844
And-and her idea
was some separation.

1114
00:39:05,944 --> 00:39:08,079
Well, not like we are
separated, but, like,

1115
00:39:08,179 --> 00:39:10,949
I think she needs a fresh,
clean start,

1116
00:39:11,049 --> 00:39:12,784
and I need to feel like,
you know,

1117
00:39:12,884 --> 00:39:14,085
I can walk into my home

1118
00:39:14,185 --> 00:39:17,080
and not feel like it's
as cluttered and stressful

1119
00:39:17,180 --> 00:39:18,623
as the rest of my life.

1120
00:39:18,723 --> 00:39:20,158
She was in the mindset of,
like, all right,

1121
00:39:20,291 --> 00:39:23,186
maybe we need, like,
a month apart.

1122
00:39:23,319 --> 00:39:24,295
- Oh, gee...

1123
00:39:24,395 --> 00:39:27,398
- She's trying to find
an apartment. Uh--

1124
00:39:27,498 --> 00:39:31,135
- Ooh, this is big.

1125
00:39:31,269 --> 00:39:34,305
Well, we know you've been
unhappy, you guys,

1126
00:39:34,472 --> 00:39:37,141
for quite a while.

1127
00:39:37,308 --> 00:39:39,310
[sighs]

1128
00:39:39,444 --> 00:39:42,146
And, uh, you know,
I know you also have love

1129
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:43,181
for each other.

1130
00:39:43,314 --> 00:39:45,466
So, it's, you know,
I feel so sad.

1131
00:39:48,786 --> 00:39:50,655
Um...

1132
00:39:50,755 --> 00:39:54,959
- I just feel guilty because,
in-in-in the heat of the moment,

1133
00:39:55,059 --> 00:39:56,094
she'll yell at me
and tell me

1134
00:39:56,194 --> 00:39:58,162
I-I've wasted
ten years of her life,

1135
00:39:58,329 --> 00:40:00,965
and, like,
I don't really--

1136
00:40:01,065 --> 00:40:03,234
[sniffling]

1137
00:40:05,036 --> 00:40:07,171
It's just, like,
I tried to make it work.

1138
00:40:07,272 --> 00:40:13,036
- That's-- yeah, that's not
a good thing to hear.

1139
00:40:13,136 --> 00:40:14,979
You know,
but think of dad.

1140
00:40:15,079 --> 00:40:16,639
He was in
a ten-year marriage.

1141
00:40:16,739 --> 00:40:21,486
He knows what feeling stuck
feels like.

1142
00:40:21,586 --> 00:40:24,956
He had two kids, so it was
really hard to leave,

1143
00:40:25,056 --> 00:40:28,192
but he did,
and it gave me a chance

1144
00:40:28,293 --> 00:40:32,163
to, you know, find him.

1145
00:40:32,330 --> 00:40:38,836
♪♪

1146
00:40:38,936 --> 00:40:40,204
- This isn't,
like, the end,

1147
00:40:40,371 --> 00:40:46,377
but it-it does feel like
a huge, drastic move.

1148
00:40:46,511 --> 00:40:50,348
- I know.
- Like, I'm--

1149
00:40:50,448 --> 00:40:54,335
it's just-- it-it's been
a-a tough year.

1150
00:40:54,435 --> 00:40:57,413
- I feel sad for you both.

1151
00:40:58,790 --> 00:41:00,792
- I wanna be with you.

1152
00:41:02,527 --> 00:41:04,787
- You have
the keys to my heart.

1153
00:41:04,921 --> 00:41:07,699
It's about time you get
the keys to my apartment.

1154
00:41:07,799 --> 00:41:09,067
[laughing]
- Kyle.

1155
00:41:09,167 --> 00:41:11,794
- Your coming out
and supporting Loverboy

1156
00:41:11,928 --> 00:41:13,638
means the world to us.

1157
00:41:13,738 --> 00:41:15,073
Will you marry me?

1158
00:41:15,206 --> 00:41:16,474
- Yes!

1159
00:41:16,574 --> 00:41:19,769
So, Kyle thinks he may
or may not have COVID.

1160
00:41:19,869 --> 00:41:24,282
- No, we can't catch a break
with this ----ing wedding.

1161
00:41:24,382 --> 00:41:25,950
[crying]

1162
00:41:26,084 --> 00:41:26,918
- If we can make it
through this,

1163
00:41:27,051 --> 00:41:29,387
I feel like we can make it
through anything.

1164
00:41:29,487 --> 00:41:32,924
- You never gave up on us,
on our love,

1165
00:41:33,024 --> 00:41:34,525
and I promise
to do the same.

1166
00:41:34,625 --> 00:41:37,395
- I can't wait to spend
a lifetime loving you.

1167
00:41:37,462 --> 00:41:38,896
[applause]

1168
00:41:38,963 --> 00:41:41,399
[cheering]

1169
00:41:41,466 --> 00:41:42,734
- There was
a period of time

1170
00:41:42,834 --> 00:41:44,369
we were building
a life together,

1171
00:41:44,469 --> 00:41:47,105
building a business together.

1172
00:41:47,238 --> 00:41:50,591
Yeah, I just never thought
I'd be sitting here alone.

1173
00:41:53,002 --> 00:41:56,581
Now, I just feel
like a failure.

1174
00:41:56,647 --> 00:41:59,283
- You know, I--
I think you can't--

1175
00:41:59,384 --> 00:42:02,186
you can't look at yourself
as a failure.

1176
00:42:02,286 --> 00:42:04,756
The key thing is, sweetie,
we want you happy.

1177
00:42:04,922 --> 00:42:11,529
♪♪

1178
00:42:12,096 --> 00:42:13,798
- Next time,
on "In The City"...

1179
00:42:13,898 --> 00:42:14,699
- Look at us.

1180
00:42:14,799 --> 00:42:16,567
This makes me so happy,
right now.

1181
00:42:16,667 --> 00:42:18,269
- You guys gotta
eventually just, like,

1182
00:42:18,369 --> 00:42:19,529
chill out, all right?

1183
00:42:19,595 --> 00:42:21,572
- West has been fighting
for this his whole life.

1184
00:42:21,672 --> 00:42:22,473
[laughing]

1185
00:42:22,540 --> 00:42:23,641
- So, you're a master
in the streets,

1186
00:42:23,741 --> 00:42:25,510
but how are you
in the sheets?

1187
00:42:25,643 --> 00:42:27,311
- Yeah.

1188
00:42:27,412 --> 00:42:29,147
- That was a joke,
by the way.

1189
00:42:29,247 --> 00:42:31,040
- So, I finally
found a place.

1190
00:42:31,174 --> 00:42:33,651
It is a year-long lease.

1191
00:42:33,751 --> 00:42:34,685
- Kenny told me,

1192
00:42:34,819 --> 00:42:36,888
"Sometimes I worry
we don't have that spark."

1193
00:42:36,954 --> 00:42:39,515
- You moved your whole life
here for him.

1194
00:42:39,615 --> 00:42:42,018
- And, like, I will
move it right back out.


