1 00:00:05,576 --> 00:00:09,006 - (organ music) - (plastic crinkling) 2 00:00:10,515 --> 00:00:13,545 (birds chirping) 3 00:00:34,539 --> 00:00:37,739 (quiet chatter) 4 00:00:37,809 --> 00:00:41,039 (organ playing) 5 00:00:51,890 --> 00:00:53,920 (organ continues) 6 00:00:53,991 --> 00:00:57,231 (quiet church chatter) 7 00:01:20,952 --> 00:01:23,362 - Hi. - Hi. 8 00:01:36,167 --> 00:01:38,837 (organ stops) 9 00:01:39,904 --> 00:01:41,974 Look at how many of us came here 10 00:01:42,039 --> 00:01:44,709 to celebrate a beautiful life. 11 00:01:46,410 --> 00:01:48,780 Darlene would often say, 12 00:01:48,846 --> 00:01:51,876 "Imagine a life without music." 13 00:01:53,151 --> 00:01:54,951 (soft laugh) 14 00:01:55,019 --> 00:01:57,349 I'm sure many of you would join me 15 00:01:57,421 --> 00:02:00,121 in feeling grateful for that lesson. 16 00:02:00,190 --> 00:02:02,160 As she did with many of her students, 17 00:02:02,226 --> 00:02:04,126 Darlene taught me this song. 18 00:02:04,195 --> 00:02:06,225 So I would like to invite any fellow students 19 00:02:06,297 --> 00:02:09,157 who would like to, to rise and join me in singing 20 00:02:09,233 --> 00:02:12,603 "An die Musik" by Franz Schubert. 21 00:02:12,665 --> 00:02:15,705 (cheerful piano melody) 22 00:02:18,743 --> 00:02:21,783 (people singing in German) 23 00:02:25,817 --> 00:02:28,847 (singing in German) 24 00:02:45,904 --> 00:02:48,944 (piano and singing continue) 25 00:03:04,755 --> 00:03:07,785 ♪ ♪ 26 00:03:19,337 --> 00:03:22,567 (singing ends, piano continues) 27 00:03:27,011 --> 00:03:28,651 (sniffles) 28 00:03:32,416 --> 00:03:35,646 - (sniffles) - (hushed murmuring) 29 00:03:37,155 --> 00:03:39,385 - That was beautiful. - Yeah. 30 00:03:40,959 --> 00:03:42,999 - (sniffles) - (piano ends) 31 00:03:46,097 --> 00:03:48,897 - Joel, I'm sorry. - I'm sorry, too. 32 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,230 - I miss you. - (sniffles) 33 00:03:54,406 --> 00:03:55,966 I know. (sniffles) 34 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,440 - (both laugh softly) - (sniffles) 35 00:04:02,279 --> 00:04:06,709 - (quiet chatter) - (birds chirping) 36 00:04:06,783 --> 00:04:09,293 Do you ever think about who's gonna come to your funeral? 37 00:04:10,522 --> 00:04:11,792 Hm... 38 00:04:11,855 --> 00:04:14,485 Maybe my dad'll come, and then I'll finally get to meet him. 39 00:04:14,558 --> 00:04:16,158 (laughs) 'Course, I'll be dead. 40 00:04:16,227 --> 00:04:20,027 - But, he showed up. - (laughs) Yeah. 41 00:04:20,098 --> 00:04:23,828 (indistinct chatter) 42 00:04:23,900 --> 00:04:26,700 - Uh, how's the song coming? - Oh, still struggling. 43 00:04:26,771 --> 00:04:28,471 - Yeah. - (clears throat) How about you? 44 00:04:28,538 --> 00:04:30,768 How's your, uh, thing coming together? 45 00:04:30,841 --> 00:04:33,081 Well, I dumped a lot of ideas on the page, 46 00:04:33,144 --> 00:04:36,314 but I haven't figured out the beginning. 47 00:04:36,380 --> 00:04:39,280 - Or the end, or the middle. - (both laugh) 48 00:04:39,351 --> 00:04:40,351 - Hi. - Hey. 49 00:04:40,418 --> 00:04:42,448 Uh, well, if you wanted, um, 50 00:04:42,519 --> 00:04:44,409 you know, you could come over and, later, 51 00:04:44,483 --> 00:04:46,323 and we could help each other out, work on 'em together. 52 00:04:46,390 --> 00:04:48,520 - Yeah, I would totally love that. - Great. 53 00:04:48,592 --> 00:04:50,732 You can come over, too, if you want. 54 00:04:50,795 --> 00:04:53,555 Oh, thank you. I have to grade papers. 55 00:04:53,632 --> 00:04:55,302 - Oh. (soft laugh) - Brad: Um, 56 00:04:55,365 --> 00:04:58,295 I'd love for you to come by some time for dinner. 57 00:04:58,369 --> 00:05:00,439 I roast a beautiful chicken. 58 00:05:01,439 --> 00:05:03,339 Oh, yeah, well, 59 00:05:03,407 --> 00:05:05,277 - everybody loves chicken. - (soft laughter) 60 00:05:05,344 --> 00:05:07,754 (birds chirping) 61 00:05:13,250 --> 00:05:14,490 (knocking) 62 00:05:16,220 --> 00:05:17,460 (sniffles) 63 00:05:19,057 --> 00:05:20,987 (sniffs) 64 00:05:21,058 --> 00:05:23,288 - Hi. - (Joel laughs quietly) 65 00:05:23,361 --> 00:05:24,961 - Come in. - Thank you. 66 00:05:26,197 --> 00:05:27,427 I brought snacks just in case. 67 00:05:27,499 --> 00:05:29,299 Oh, well, I, um, 68 00:05:29,366 --> 00:05:31,896 - I put some snacks out just in case. - Aw. 69 00:05:31,969 --> 00:05:34,839 - I learned from the best. - Is that me? 70 00:05:34,906 --> 00:05:36,366 - Yeah. - (laughs) 71 00:05:36,441 --> 00:05:37,711 Um, do you want a drink? 72 00:05:37,775 --> 00:05:39,775 I've been working on my teeny 'tinis. 73 00:05:39,844 --> 00:05:42,714 Maybe we should do our assignments first. 74 00:05:42,775 --> 00:05:44,415 Smart. (laughs) 75 00:05:45,783 --> 00:05:49,283 You know, I was thinking about the key. 76 00:05:49,353 --> 00:05:51,353 Maybe we could transpose it to A. 77 00:05:51,421 --> 00:05:54,261 I love your voice in A. It sounds so good. 78 00:05:54,325 --> 00:05:56,555 Um... Joel? 79 00:05:58,195 --> 00:05:59,855 (deep inhale) 80 00:05:59,931 --> 00:06:02,031 Um, I'm really sorry. 81 00:06:02,094 --> 00:06:03,834 Oh, no, it's okay. We're all good. 82 00:06:03,901 --> 00:06:05,141 No... 83 00:06:07,637 --> 00:06:10,577 I just wanna-- I wanna try to say something. 84 00:06:12,977 --> 00:06:15,507 I do this... (sighs) 85 00:06:16,613 --> 00:06:19,853 I don't know, I make all these rules for people 86 00:06:19,917 --> 00:06:21,977 and, um... 87 00:06:22,052 --> 00:06:24,292 I set a lot of... 88 00:06:24,355 --> 00:06:27,025 unfair expectations, um... 89 00:06:29,827 --> 00:06:32,657 because I think it keeps me safe. 90 00:06:37,336 --> 00:06:38,966 It doesn't. 91 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,079 Um... I don't wanna do that anymore. 92 00:06:50,114 --> 00:06:51,654 And, um... 93 00:06:54,051 --> 00:06:55,181 And it's your fault. 94 00:06:55,253 --> 00:06:58,493 (laughing) 95 00:07:01,892 --> 00:07:03,132 Joel: Sam... 96 00:07:05,663 --> 00:07:08,033 - I love you. - Mm... 97 00:07:08,099 --> 00:07:09,399 Joel: D-Don't do that face. 98 00:07:09,467 --> 00:07:12,067 - Just listen to me. - (sighs) 99 00:07:13,237 --> 00:07:14,937 I love you. 100 00:07:21,807 --> 00:07:23,047 Thank you. 101 00:07:27,384 --> 00:07:30,454 You know, I think, um... 102 00:07:30,521 --> 00:07:32,761 I think Brad's a really nice guy, Joel. 103 00:07:33,791 --> 00:07:36,101 And I really am happy for you. 104 00:07:36,795 --> 00:07:38,025 I, um... 105 00:07:39,097 --> 00:07:40,897 I am. 106 00:07:40,965 --> 00:07:42,195 Thank you. 107 00:07:45,336 --> 00:07:46,636 (sniffles) 108 00:07:46,705 --> 00:07:48,565 Why'd you shave your legs? 109 00:07:48,638 --> 00:07:51,138 Oh... because I'm gonna fuck my neighbor. 110 00:07:51,209 --> 00:07:54,249 (both laughing) 111 00:07:55,447 --> 00:07:56,717 The drug dealer? 112 00:07:57,449 --> 00:07:58,849 (sniffles) Yes. 113 00:07:58,916 --> 00:08:01,616 (both laugh) 114 00:08:01,685 --> 00:08:03,645 He's probably really good in bed. 115 00:08:03,721 --> 00:08:05,721 - Oh, I hope so. - (both laugh) 116 00:08:05,790 --> 00:08:07,730 I mean, we'll see, you know? 117 00:08:08,993 --> 00:08:10,733 One thing at a time. 118 00:08:10,794 --> 00:08:13,634 First, I open my heart to you, and then I open my legs to him. 119 00:08:13,697 --> 00:08:15,627 - I guess that seems like the logical progression. - (laughs) 120 00:08:15,699 --> 00:08:18,799 So, we'll see, but I don't-- No promises. 121 00:08:18,869 --> 00:08:20,499 First, we gotta go to this fucking wedding, 122 00:08:20,570 --> 00:08:23,270 and sing fuckin' Ave fuckin' Maria . 123 00:08:23,342 --> 00:08:25,872 (both laughing) 124 00:08:25,943 --> 00:08:29,683 ♪ ♪ 125 00:08:29,747 --> 00:08:33,007 - (birds chirping) - (cows mooing) 126 00:08:33,083 --> 00:08:35,983 (insects chirping) 127 00:08:36,053 --> 00:08:38,523 - (rooster crowing) - (breeze blowing) 128 00:08:38,589 --> 00:08:40,989 - Sam: Morning! - Hey. 129 00:08:41,058 --> 00:08:42,588 Wow. You must have started the crack of dawn. 130 00:08:42,660 --> 00:08:45,360 Yeah. Been here since about 6:00. 131 00:08:45,429 --> 00:08:47,829 - A lot to do. - So... 132 00:08:47,899 --> 00:08:49,059 Wow, what's going on here? 133 00:08:49,133 --> 00:08:51,603 Is this like the Kansas rainbow, or is it a... 134 00:08:51,670 --> 00:08:52,900 No, it's like... 135 00:08:52,970 --> 00:08:55,910 I-It's a love rainbow. It's... 136 00:08:55,974 --> 00:08:58,274 You know, thought it kinda fit the occasion. 137 00:08:58,337 --> 00:08:59,707 - It's really pretty. - You like it? 138 00:08:59,777 --> 00:09:01,607 I love it. (soft laugh) 139 00:09:03,314 --> 00:09:05,054 Oh, I have your jacket. Are you gonna get ready here 140 00:09:05,116 --> 00:09:08,146 - or somewhere else? Okay. - No, no. I'm gonna run home. 141 00:09:08,219 --> 00:09:10,959 - Get ready there... - This one goes down here towards me. 142 00:09:12,624 --> 00:09:14,364 Just so you know, 143 00:09:14,426 --> 00:09:16,056 Joel and I made up. 144 00:09:16,127 --> 00:09:17,527 - You did? - Yep. 145 00:09:17,595 --> 00:09:20,455 Oh. That's... Wow. 146 00:09:20,531 --> 00:09:22,031 "Wow" what? 147 00:09:22,100 --> 00:09:23,570 Well, I mean, you just don't, you know, 148 00:09:23,634 --> 00:09:26,914 always let people back in once they've pissed you off, so... 149 00:09:29,841 --> 00:09:32,171 - Well, I did. Okay? - Yeah. 150 00:09:32,243 --> 00:09:35,583 And he and his boyfriend are gonna pick me up 151 00:09:35,646 --> 00:09:37,306 and bring me to the wedding, so... 152 00:09:37,381 --> 00:09:38,481 Oh, okay. Yeah. I see. 153 00:09:38,549 --> 00:09:40,219 Huh. And you're okay with that, huh? 154 00:09:40,285 --> 00:09:41,315 Yeah. 155 00:09:41,385 --> 00:09:44,615 Good. I mean, you know, you're not always... 156 00:09:44,689 --> 00:09:46,189 that great at sharing, so. 157 00:09:46,257 --> 00:09:47,687 Well, I'm mature now, so. 158 00:09:47,759 --> 00:09:49,159 Okay. Well, yeah. Look at us. 159 00:09:49,226 --> 00:09:50,756 (Sam laughs) 160 00:09:51,963 --> 00:09:54,773 And, um, what about Holly? 161 00:09:57,401 --> 00:09:58,871 What, are you still mad at her? 162 00:09:58,936 --> 00:10:02,036 I mean, you've forgiven Joel and me, I think. 163 00:10:02,106 --> 00:10:05,836 - Mm. - You know, sh-she really was gonna tell you 164 00:10:05,910 --> 00:10:08,110 when she got better. She just... 165 00:10:09,246 --> 00:10:11,276 - Didn't. - Yeah. 166 00:10:13,951 --> 00:10:14,991 It's cool. 167 00:10:16,254 --> 00:10:18,994 (sighs) Chairs or what? 168 00:10:19,056 --> 00:10:22,186 Yeah. So, each... each table gets five. 169 00:10:22,260 --> 00:10:23,300 Sam: Okay. 170 00:10:24,061 --> 00:10:27,101 ♪ ♪ 171 00:10:33,104 --> 00:10:34,174 (spoon clanks) 172 00:11:17,682 --> 00:11:20,352 (door creaks, shuts) 173 00:11:25,284 --> 00:11:27,094 - Okay... - Drew: Hey. 174 00:11:27,157 --> 00:11:29,157 - Wow. You're all dressed up. - Sam: Oh. 175 00:11:29,226 --> 00:11:31,786 Yeah, I'm going to a wedding. There's an open bar, so. 176 00:11:31,863 --> 00:11:34,103 Oh, I love an open bar. 177 00:11:34,164 --> 00:11:35,764 Well, I'd say you could come by, 178 00:11:35,833 --> 00:11:37,103 but I don't want any trouble. 179 00:11:37,168 --> 00:11:39,528 - (Sam laughs softly) - (sighs) 180 00:11:39,603 --> 00:11:41,843 - Good call. Have fun. - Thank you. 181 00:11:41,905 --> 00:11:45,205 - (car door opens) - I'll be here, sending selfies to my probation officer. 182 00:11:45,276 --> 00:11:46,736 - Brad: Hi, Sam. - Hi. 183 00:11:46,811 --> 00:11:48,381 You look great. 184 00:11:48,447 --> 00:11:49,237 Oh, thank you. 185 00:11:49,313 --> 00:11:50,913 No, no, no. You've got the long legs. 186 00:11:50,982 --> 00:11:52,582 You sit in front. I'll get in the back. 187 00:11:52,651 --> 00:11:54,121 - You sure? - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 188 00:11:56,421 --> 00:11:58,291 Joel: Um... 189 00:11:58,357 --> 00:11:59,387 Sam: What? 190 00:12:00,992 --> 00:12:02,592 We saw all of that. 191 00:12:02,660 --> 00:12:04,060 (all laugh) 192 00:12:04,128 --> 00:12:05,758 - I think you should go for it. - Sam: Can we just go? 193 00:12:05,830 --> 00:12:07,200 He's gonna think we're talking about him. 194 00:12:07,265 --> 00:12:09,965 - Joel: Oh, we are talking about him. - He is very cute. 195 00:12:11,001 --> 00:12:12,631 Would that be a pound? 196 00:12:12,703 --> 00:12:14,543 - Joel: Yeah, that'd be a pound. - Oh, my God. 197 00:12:14,606 --> 00:12:16,196 - (Joel laughs) - (car starts) 198 00:12:16,273 --> 00:12:19,113 (pops lips) Let's get to that wedding. 199 00:12:19,710 --> 00:12:22,950 ♪ ♪ 200 00:12:23,648 --> 00:12:25,508 (Joel laughs) 201 00:12:25,583 --> 00:12:26,883 - (gasps) - Sam: Hi. 202 00:12:26,951 --> 00:12:28,481 - Tricia: Hey, how's it going? - Good. 203 00:12:28,553 --> 00:12:29,523 - Have you met Brad? - No! 204 00:12:29,587 --> 00:12:30,787 - Brad: Hi. - Nice to meet you. 205 00:12:30,855 --> 00:12:32,515 Nice to meet you, Tricia. 206 00:12:32,591 --> 00:12:33,821 - (sighs) Hi. - Hi. 207 00:12:33,891 --> 00:12:35,791 - Well, it looks wonderful. - It really does. 208 00:12:35,860 --> 00:12:37,130 - Thanks. - Wanna look around? 209 00:12:37,195 --> 00:12:39,125 - Yeah. - Yeah, sure. Go ahead. 210 00:12:39,196 --> 00:12:41,596 Just, you know, just don't touch anything. 211 00:12:41,666 --> 00:12:43,826 - I won't. (laughs) - Okay? Good. 212 00:12:43,900 --> 00:12:46,040 - So, is that how you're wearing it? - Um, yeah. 213 00:12:46,104 --> 00:12:48,734 - Okay, good... Yeah. - Does it look okay? 214 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:50,210 - Thank you. - Oh, good. There's the caterers. 215 00:12:50,274 --> 00:12:51,814 They're so fucking late. I'll be right back. 216 00:12:51,875 --> 00:12:53,805 - Uh, do you want some help? - Tricia: No, I'm good! 217 00:12:55,814 --> 00:12:58,384 Hi! The seats are just right that way. 218 00:12:59,684 --> 00:13:03,454 ♪ ♪ 219 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,580 - (indistinct) - So this should be one brisket, one chicken. 220 00:13:06,651 --> 00:13:07,921 Okay. So, you're gonna take it in here, 221 00:13:07,992 --> 00:13:09,262 go to the right, far back. 222 00:13:09,326 --> 00:13:11,026 - Okay. - Right corner, right-hand corner. 223 00:13:11,095 --> 00:13:13,855 Tiffani: Uh, this is my date, Jen. 224 00:13:13,932 --> 00:13:14,962 Brad: Oh, hi. 225 00:13:15,032 --> 00:13:16,502 - How are you? - I'm good. 226 00:13:16,567 --> 00:13:18,527 Have you met Irma? 227 00:13:18,603 --> 00:13:20,873 Hi, Irma. I've heard about you. 228 00:13:20,938 --> 00:13:22,868 It's gonna go chicken, brisket, 229 00:13:22,941 --> 00:13:25,241 - biscuits, cornbread, beans! - Caterer: Mm-hmm. 230 00:13:25,309 --> 00:13:27,279 Lemme make sure that you don't have anything left back here! 231 00:13:27,344 --> 00:13:30,584 - (plants rustling) - (birds chirping) 232 00:13:37,088 --> 00:13:38,618 Fred? 233 00:13:38,690 --> 00:13:40,560 - Hey. - Fred: Oh, hey. 234 00:13:40,625 --> 00:13:41,585 You two good? 235 00:13:41,659 --> 00:13:43,529 - (laughs) Yeah. - We're okay. 236 00:13:43,595 --> 00:13:45,285 - Oh, good. - Are you okay? 237 00:13:45,363 --> 00:13:47,333 - Yeah. - You sure? 238 00:13:47,398 --> 00:13:49,668 - Yeah. - Sam: It's not too late to back out. 239 00:13:49,734 --> 00:13:51,004 - No. - (both laugh) 240 00:13:51,068 --> 00:13:52,698 - Did you make her sign a prenup? - No. 241 00:13:52,770 --> 00:13:54,340 I'm the one that had to sign the prenup. 242 00:13:54,405 --> 00:13:55,465 (all laugh) 243 00:13:55,539 --> 00:13:57,109 I don't wanna rush you. I know you're having, like, 244 00:13:57,175 --> 00:13:59,065 - a moment, but it's time. - Yeah, I know. 245 00:13:59,143 --> 00:14:01,913 - You wanna go? - Yeah. 246 00:14:01,978 --> 00:14:05,548 - What's the worst that could happen? Let's do it. - (sighs) Alright. Now? 247 00:14:05,615 --> 00:14:07,875 - Fuck yeah, right now. - Yeah, we're actually gonna go now. 248 00:14:07,946 --> 00:14:10,186 - Come on, you're all dressed up. - It's so pretty. 249 00:14:10,254 --> 00:14:12,554 - Joel: It is gorgeous. - Sam: How about people see that beautiful suit? 250 00:14:12,623 --> 00:14:15,123 Joel: They get to see it from the behind. Come on. 251 00:14:15,192 --> 00:14:18,392 - Everybody can see this suit. - (laughs) That's right. 252 00:14:18,462 --> 00:14:20,802 - Joel: Stand right over there. - Sam: Alright, all your friends. Here we go. 253 00:14:20,864 --> 00:14:23,534 - Joel: Okay? You stand-- You just stand... - I'm gonna grab my music, 254 00:14:23,601 --> 00:14:26,171 - and let's get this shit started. - Joel: Alright. 255 00:14:26,236 --> 00:14:28,496 Fred: My God. Is she here yet? 256 00:14:28,573 --> 00:14:30,643 (quiet chatter) 257 00:14:30,708 --> 00:14:31,568 Alright, how do I look? 258 00:14:31,643 --> 00:14:32,473 - Sharp. - Great. 259 00:14:32,543 --> 00:14:34,183 - I know. - Joel: You good? 260 00:14:35,079 --> 00:14:37,209 She's late, right? 261 00:14:37,281 --> 00:14:38,851 - Ah. - Joel: Turn around. 262 00:14:38,916 --> 00:14:40,346 (door slides open) 263 00:14:49,561 --> 00:14:51,431 (Joel laughs softly) 264 00:14:51,496 --> 00:14:53,126 Fred (quietly): Hey. 265 00:14:53,698 --> 00:14:55,028 Oh, my God. 266 00:14:55,099 --> 00:15:02,239 ♪ Ave maria ♪ 267 00:15:05,710 --> 00:15:12,580 ♪ Gratia plena ♪ 268 00:15:12,650 --> 00:15:19,650 ♪ Maria gratia plena ♪ 269 00:15:20,090 --> 00:15:27,300 ♪ Maria gratia plena ♪ 270 00:15:28,099 --> 00:15:30,459 ♪ Ave ♪ 271 00:15:30,530 --> 00:15:31,900 (whispers): Hi, baby. 272 00:15:31,969 --> 00:15:35,839 ♪ Ave dominus ♪ 273 00:15:35,906 --> 00:15:37,566 She looks beautiful. 274 00:15:37,642 --> 00:15:44,322 ♪ Dominus tecum ♪ 275 00:15:50,988 --> 00:15:53,688 Joel: When Fred asked me 276 00:15:53,758 --> 00:15:56,958 to speak today, I-I felt so... 277 00:15:57,028 --> 00:15:58,728 terrified. (laughs) 278 00:15:58,796 --> 00:16:00,396 (guests laughing) 279 00:16:00,464 --> 00:16:03,774 You know, we're surrounded by these beautiful fields. 280 00:16:03,834 --> 00:16:07,304 Last year at this time, they were filled with corn. 281 00:16:07,371 --> 00:16:09,611 And, this year, they have soybeans. 282 00:16:10,742 --> 00:16:12,112 Fred taught me 283 00:16:12,176 --> 00:16:14,176 that the reason you change those crops 284 00:16:14,244 --> 00:16:17,354 is to keep the soil fertile and rich, 285 00:16:17,414 --> 00:16:20,324 so that it can provide new life 286 00:16:20,384 --> 00:16:22,624 year after year after year. 287 00:16:24,856 --> 00:16:27,186 I know from talking to Fred and Susan, 288 00:16:27,258 --> 00:16:29,758 they're so excited about this journey 289 00:16:29,826 --> 00:16:33,096 that they're taking together, but I also know that 290 00:16:33,164 --> 00:16:35,034 with any change, 291 00:16:35,099 --> 00:16:39,129 there's fear, apprehension. 292 00:16:39,203 --> 00:16:42,143 Sometimes though, just like with these crops, 293 00:16:43,174 --> 00:16:46,154 change can bring miraculous growth. 294 00:16:47,645 --> 00:16:49,745 So, Fred and Susan, 295 00:16:49,814 --> 00:16:53,254 here, in this special place 296 00:16:53,317 --> 00:16:55,717 where seeds have been planted, 297 00:16:55,786 --> 00:16:57,946 where hard work has been done, 298 00:16:58,022 --> 00:16:59,722 where there has been grief 299 00:16:59,791 --> 00:17:04,031 and joy, storms, and music, 300 00:17:04,095 --> 00:17:06,895 we promise to hold you 301 00:17:06,964 --> 00:17:08,534 as you go forward. 302 00:17:08,598 --> 00:17:12,268 We promise to do it with all of our actions, but... 303 00:17:12,336 --> 00:17:14,136 you know it's my job here right now 304 00:17:14,205 --> 00:17:16,205 to say it with words, too. 305 00:17:16,808 --> 00:17:18,768 You are loved. 306 00:17:18,843 --> 00:17:20,783 We love you. 307 00:17:20,845 --> 00:17:22,645 And we love your love. 308 00:17:25,649 --> 00:17:27,919 So now, let's get on with it, right? 309 00:17:27,986 --> 00:17:30,386 - The main event! - (guest chuckling) 310 00:17:31,089 --> 00:17:32,689 Fred and Susan... 311 00:17:32,756 --> 00:17:35,556 - (party chatter) - Oh, I could add that to my bracelet from the-- 312 00:17:35,626 --> 00:17:37,786 - Do you have a charm bracelet? - Yes, from the Vatican. 313 00:17:37,862 --> 00:17:41,102 (upbeat music playing) 314 00:17:43,734 --> 00:17:45,574 Tiffani (on microphone): What's going on, everybody? Welcome! 315 00:17:45,635 --> 00:17:49,365 - (guests cheering) - Yeah, we having a good time tonight? Let's go! 316 00:17:49,441 --> 00:17:51,911 (applause) 317 00:17:51,976 --> 00:17:53,236 Before we get down to it, 318 00:17:53,310 --> 00:17:56,180 it is my honor to introduce the newlyweds, 319 00:17:56,247 --> 00:17:57,807 Fred and Susan! 320 00:17:57,881 --> 00:18:01,721 - (Kansas State fight song playing) - (cheering) 321 00:18:01,786 --> 00:18:04,816 (applause) 322 00:18:05,723 --> 00:18:07,823 Thank you! 323 00:18:07,892 --> 00:18:09,162 Hey, baby! 324 00:18:09,694 --> 00:18:11,334 (inaudible) 325 00:18:12,196 --> 00:18:14,796 - Come on, baby. - (indistinct) 326 00:18:14,865 --> 00:18:17,795 (raucous cheering) 327 00:18:17,869 --> 00:18:19,699 Ah, one more. 328 00:18:19,770 --> 00:18:22,640 - Hey! Thank you, thank you, Tiffani. - (song, cheering ends) 329 00:18:22,706 --> 00:18:26,036 Oh, we are so overwhelmed by all of this. 330 00:18:26,110 --> 00:18:28,980 Thank you. We love you all. 331 00:18:29,047 --> 00:18:30,907 And we wanted to thank Tricia Murphy 332 00:18:30,981 --> 00:18:34,881 and Trish Upon A Star for everything being so beautiful! 333 00:18:34,952 --> 00:18:37,752 - (applause, cheering) - Tricia! 334 00:18:37,822 --> 00:18:39,662 And, thanks, Dad. 335 00:18:39,724 --> 00:18:41,464 I, um... 336 00:18:41,525 --> 00:18:43,525 It means a lot that you're here. 337 00:18:44,661 --> 00:18:47,361 And now, I would like to pass this off 338 00:18:47,431 --> 00:18:49,431 to my husband! (laughs) 339 00:18:49,500 --> 00:18:52,330 - (guests cheering) - That's me! That's me! 340 00:18:52,397 --> 00:18:55,907 - That's the first time she said it. It's real! - Guests: Yeah! 341 00:18:55,974 --> 00:18:57,744 - And she's my wife! - Woo! 342 00:18:57,809 --> 00:19:01,109 (applause, cheering) 343 00:19:01,179 --> 00:19:03,409 And, uh, I'd like to say a few words 344 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,580 about our host who's not here. 345 00:19:05,645 --> 00:19:07,315 About a year ago, 346 00:19:07,384 --> 00:19:10,224 Sam asked me to come out on the farm, 347 00:19:10,287 --> 00:19:12,117 uh, to help her out. 348 00:19:12,189 --> 00:19:15,319 And from the moment I walked in, 349 00:19:15,392 --> 00:19:19,232 I felt such a deep connection with Ed. 350 00:19:19,296 --> 00:19:20,996 You know, we were just two guys 351 00:19:21,065 --> 00:19:23,525 who shared a love of the land. 352 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,200 It wasn't about him accepting me. 353 00:19:26,270 --> 00:19:28,170 It wasn't about being nice. 354 00:19:28,239 --> 00:19:30,369 He just saw me. 355 00:19:30,441 --> 00:19:33,381 That's a rare thing, no matter where I am. 356 00:19:33,444 --> 00:19:36,584 So, if he were here today, 357 00:19:36,646 --> 00:19:40,716 my friend Ed would be my best man. 358 00:19:40,784 --> 00:19:44,694 So, raise your glasses, everybody. Raise 'em high! 359 00:19:44,756 --> 00:19:45,816 This is to Ed. 360 00:19:45,890 --> 00:19:47,660 Guests: To Ed! 361 00:19:47,725 --> 00:19:50,725 - (applause, cheering) - Fred: Thank you! 362 00:19:50,794 --> 00:19:53,864 Tiffani: Alright, alright, alright! Who's ready to party? 363 00:19:53,931 --> 00:19:55,061 (cheering) 364 00:19:55,133 --> 00:19:57,273 - (music playing) - (Irma singing) 365 00:19:57,335 --> 00:20:00,035 ♪ There goes "you'll never leave me alone" ♪ 366 00:20:00,104 --> 00:20:01,374 ♪ For all the lies you told ♪ 367 00:20:01,438 --> 00:20:04,168 - Somebody's trying to get laid. - (both laughing) 368 00:20:04,241 --> 00:20:05,611 ♪ Whoa, hey, ladies ♪ 369 00:20:05,676 --> 00:20:08,336 ♪ When your man wanna get buck wild ♪ 370 00:20:08,412 --> 00:20:11,482 - (continues singing) - Wow. (gasps) 371 00:20:11,549 --> 00:20:13,579 I love it when you sing like that. 372 00:20:13,651 --> 00:20:15,651 I forgot how it makes me feel. 373 00:20:16,453 --> 00:20:19,353 - Thank you. - You killed it. 374 00:20:19,423 --> 00:20:21,323 You know what? You killed it. 375 00:20:21,392 --> 00:20:23,622 - Oh, come on. - No, you did. I mean, 376 00:20:23,693 --> 00:20:26,463 - this is not at all what I was expecting. - (laughs) 377 00:20:26,530 --> 00:20:27,730 Well, I had a million more ideas. 378 00:20:27,798 --> 00:20:29,928 Like, I wanted to do these little burlap flowers 379 00:20:29,995 --> 00:20:31,265 in mason jars on all the tables. 380 00:20:31,335 --> 00:20:32,995 And I had this, um, groom cake topper 381 00:20:33,070 --> 00:20:35,700 that was in a little three-piece suit. So cute. 382 00:20:35,773 --> 00:20:37,643 - Oh, you know what would've been great? - Hm? 383 00:20:37,708 --> 00:20:39,398 Some little monkey butts by the dessert spoons. 384 00:20:39,471 --> 00:20:42,181 - I knew that was you that took it, by the way. - (laughs) 385 00:20:42,246 --> 00:20:45,176 - Got it right by my toilet. - (laughs) 386 00:20:45,249 --> 00:20:47,249 It reminds me to keep it clean, you know? 387 00:20:48,586 --> 00:20:50,686 No, they said they wanted simple, and so... 388 00:20:50,754 --> 00:20:53,834 - You know, I think it turned out pretty great. - It definitely did. 389 00:20:55,860 --> 00:20:59,630 You know, I saw you during the ceremony 390 00:20:59,698 --> 00:21:00,918 gettin' all emo. 391 00:21:00,993 --> 00:21:02,863 - Oh, you stalking me? - Maybe. 392 00:21:02,932 --> 00:21:05,802 (laughs) I can't help it. I just can't help it. 393 00:21:05,870 --> 00:21:07,840 Seeing Fred and Susan like that? (sighs) 394 00:21:08,568 --> 00:21:09,438 Oh... 395 00:21:09,508 --> 00:21:12,538 Just love is so beautiful. 396 00:21:12,610 --> 00:21:14,440 Just a crazy thing that's been happening 397 00:21:14,512 --> 00:21:17,752 over and over again for thousands of years. It's... 398 00:21:18,717 --> 00:21:19,747 (sighs) 399 00:21:21,819 --> 00:21:22,949 I don't know. 400 00:21:23,020 --> 00:21:25,350 Kinda seemed like you were over it the other night. 401 00:21:25,423 --> 00:21:27,833 Well, yeah, I'm over Rick, but I'm not... 402 00:21:28,527 --> 00:21:30,797 I'm not over love. 403 00:21:32,629 --> 00:21:35,829 - (lively music playing) - (guest chatter) 404 00:21:35,900 --> 00:21:39,530 ♪ ♪ 405 00:21:39,603 --> 00:21:43,613 Oh, is it really? Happy birthday. 406 00:21:46,378 --> 00:21:48,608 Uh, hello? 407 00:21:48,679 --> 00:21:52,549 - Hello! (laughing) - (guests cheering) 408 00:21:53,950 --> 00:21:56,580 My name is Sam Miller. I'm friends with Fred. 409 00:21:56,653 --> 00:21:58,723 Congratulations, Fred and Susan! 410 00:21:58,789 --> 00:22:01,319 - (guests cheering) - Thank you for the open bar. We appreciate it. 411 00:22:01,393 --> 00:22:04,963 (applause) 412 00:22:05,029 --> 00:22:06,759 Fred asked me to sing something tonight 413 00:22:06,830 --> 00:22:08,800 that would make him happy, so that's what we're gonna do. 414 00:22:08,866 --> 00:22:10,896 We've never done this song before, but fuck it. 415 00:22:10,969 --> 00:22:12,669 What's the worst that can happen, right? 416 00:22:12,737 --> 00:22:14,437 - (guests laughing) - Hit the track! 417 00:22:14,506 --> 00:22:16,566 (band plays "Gloria") 418 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,940 I think some of you might know this song. 419 00:22:19,010 --> 00:22:21,440 (music builds) 420 00:22:21,511 --> 00:22:23,681 (guests cheering and laughing) 421 00:22:23,748 --> 00:22:24,978 (laughing) 422 00:22:25,048 --> 00:22:27,678 - We got a super-fan in the house tonight! - (inaudible) 423 00:22:27,752 --> 00:22:30,992 (cheering, laughter continue) 424 00:22:36,428 --> 00:22:38,728 ♪ Gloria ♪ 425 00:22:38,796 --> 00:22:42,256 ♪ You're always on the run now ♪ 426 00:22:42,333 --> 00:22:44,933 ♪ Runnin' after somebody ♪ 427 00:22:45,003 --> 00:22:46,403 (cheering continues) 428 00:22:46,470 --> 00:22:48,810 ♪ Gotta get 'em somehow ♪ 429 00:22:49,974 --> 00:22:52,144 ♪ I think you better slow down ♪ 430 00:22:52,210 --> 00:22:53,470 (laughs) 431 00:22:53,543 --> 00:22:56,683 ♪ Before you start to blow it ♪ 432 00:22:56,747 --> 00:23:00,417 ♪ I think you're headed for a breakdown ♪ 433 00:23:00,484 --> 00:23:03,124 ♪ Just be careful not to show it ♪ 434 00:23:04,421 --> 00:23:06,921 ♪ You really don't remember ♪ 435 00:23:06,991 --> 00:23:07,891 Ah! 436 00:23:07,958 --> 00:23:10,888 ♪ Was it somethin' that he said? ♪ 437 00:23:10,961 --> 00:23:15,031 ♪ All the voices in your head ♪ 438 00:23:15,099 --> 00:23:18,039 ♪ Callin' Gloria ♪ 439 00:23:19,203 --> 00:23:20,073 We sing! 440 00:23:20,137 --> 00:23:21,337 ♪ Gloria ♪ 441 00:23:21,406 --> 00:23:22,566 ♪ Gloria! ♪ 442 00:23:22,639 --> 00:23:24,539 ♪ I think they got your number ♪ 443 00:23:24,609 --> 00:23:26,209 ♪ Gloria! ♪ 444 00:23:26,277 --> 00:23:28,407 ♪ If everybody wants you ♪ 445 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:29,480 ♪ Gloria! ♪ 446 00:23:29,547 --> 00:23:33,477 ♪ Why isn't anybody callin'? ♪ 447 00:23:33,550 --> 00:23:35,720 ♪ You don't have to answer ♪ 448 00:23:36,853 --> 00:23:39,323 ♪ Leave 'em hangin' on the line ♪ 449 00:23:39,389 --> 00:23:43,059 ♪ Whoa, callin' Gloria ♪ 450 00:23:43,127 --> 00:23:45,927 (band continues) 451 00:23:45,997 --> 00:23:47,997 (crowd cheering) 452 00:23:48,065 --> 00:23:50,325 ♪ I think they got your number ♪ 453 00:23:50,401 --> 00:23:51,701 ♪ Gloria ♪ 454 00:23:51,770 --> 00:23:53,370 ♪ I think they got the alias ♪ 455 00:23:53,438 --> 00:23:54,898 ♪ Gloria ♪ 456 00:23:54,973 --> 00:23:57,273 ♪ That you been livin' under ♪ 457 00:23:57,336 --> 00:23:58,966 - Come here, Tricia! - (crowd cheering) 458 00:23:59,043 --> 00:24:02,013 ♪ But you really don't remember ♪ 459 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,910 ♪ Was it somethin' that they said? ♪ 460 00:24:04,983 --> 00:24:05,913 Hop on! 461 00:24:05,983 --> 00:24:08,453 ♪ Are the voices in your head ♪ 462 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:09,490 (cheering) 463 00:24:09,554 --> 00:24:11,884 ♪ Calling Gloria ♪ 464 00:24:11,951 --> 00:24:15,291 (cheering, laughter) 465 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,129 Dance, everybody! 466 00:24:17,195 --> 00:24:19,355 (wild cheering) 467 00:24:19,431 --> 00:24:22,331 (band continues) 468 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,240 Come on! 469 00:24:33,611 --> 00:24:36,581 - (slow doo-wop music) - (quiet chatter) 470 00:24:36,647 --> 00:24:39,477 (insects chirping) 471 00:24:39,551 --> 00:24:42,281 Oh, right. (laughs) 472 00:24:42,353 --> 00:24:45,593 (indistinct soft singing) 473 00:24:48,793 --> 00:24:50,593 Brad: I'm getting a dog. 474 00:24:50,662 --> 00:24:52,902 Oh, I love dogs. I do love dogs. 475 00:24:52,964 --> 00:24:54,324 Can you hold on just a second, okay? 476 00:24:54,393 --> 00:24:58,103 - (singing continues) - (footsteps approaching) 477 00:24:58,169 --> 00:25:00,809 Hey. How you doin'? 478 00:25:01,934 --> 00:25:04,814 Good. I'm, uh... 479 00:25:04,876 --> 00:25:08,336 - I'm celebrating my triumph. - (both laugh) 480 00:25:08,412 --> 00:25:11,152 - It really was. - (ice clinking) 481 00:25:11,215 --> 00:25:12,845 You wanna come join us? 482 00:25:12,917 --> 00:25:15,417 Nah, nah, you go ahead. I'm havin' a... 483 00:25:15,487 --> 00:25:17,217 little me-time. 484 00:25:19,791 --> 00:25:20,831 (laughs) 485 00:25:22,427 --> 00:25:24,887 (sighs) Uh... 486 00:25:24,962 --> 00:25:28,232 We're gonna be okay, you know? Just... 487 00:25:30,235 --> 00:25:31,295 Meh. 488 00:25:32,002 --> 00:25:33,572 Meh. 489 00:25:36,340 --> 00:25:39,410 - (mumbling) - You have your me-time. You have your me-time. 490 00:25:39,477 --> 00:25:42,707 (gentle music continues) 491 00:25:47,118 --> 00:25:50,158 (soft singing) 492 00:25:52,522 --> 00:25:53,922 Joel: Oh, my God. I'm exhausted. 493 00:25:53,992 --> 00:25:56,062 Brad: I know. That was really fun. 494 00:25:56,127 --> 00:25:57,527 Sam: Alright, well... 495 00:25:57,594 --> 00:26:00,234 Joel: Okay. Front door service. 496 00:26:00,297 --> 00:26:01,557 Sam: Thank you. 497 00:26:01,633 --> 00:26:03,573 Brad: Have a good night. 498 00:26:03,634 --> 00:26:06,234 - Sam: Text me when you get home. - Brad: Okay. 499 00:26:06,303 --> 00:26:08,903 Joel: (laughs) You text us when you get home! 500 00:26:08,972 --> 00:26:12,212 - Sam: (laughs) I'm right here! - (Joel and Brad laugh) 501 00:26:23,521 --> 00:26:25,761 Brad: She's saying go. 502 00:26:33,698 --> 00:26:36,268 (door creaking) 503 00:26:41,172 --> 00:26:42,212 (chair slides) 504 00:26:47,212 --> 00:26:48,252 (sighs) 505 00:26:50,615 --> 00:26:53,045 (quiet mumbling, giggles) 506 00:26:54,519 --> 00:26:56,089 (giggles) 507 00:26:58,918 --> 00:27:00,158 Yeah. 508 00:27:03,127 --> 00:27:05,657 Are you seriously sleeping right now? 509 00:27:06,664 --> 00:27:09,134 (quietly): Drew! (whistling) 510 00:27:10,301 --> 00:27:12,071 (whistles) Shh. 511 00:27:12,136 --> 00:27:14,296 (whispering): Let's have a beer. 512 00:27:14,372 --> 00:27:16,012 Let's have a fuckin' beer. 513 00:27:16,908 --> 00:27:18,068 (sighs) 514 00:27:18,142 --> 00:27:20,082 I said I'd fuckin' have a beer with you. 515 00:27:20,144 --> 00:27:22,444 I said I'd have a fucking beer with you. (giggles) 516 00:27:22,513 --> 00:27:24,383 Please, come on. (laughing) Wake up. 517 00:27:24,449 --> 00:27:25,409 (glass shatters) 518 00:27:25,483 --> 00:27:26,983 - Oh! Oh, shit! - (dog barking) 519 00:27:27,051 --> 00:27:30,991 - ("Carry on Wayward Son" by Kansas playing) - (muttering) 520 00:27:31,055 --> 00:27:34,285 ♪ There'll be peace when you are done ♪ 521 00:27:34,358 --> 00:27:35,588 I gotta get my shoe... 522 00:27:35,659 --> 00:27:39,319 ♪ Lay your weary head to rest ♪ 523 00:27:39,391 --> 00:27:43,201 ♪ Don't you cry no more ♪ 524 00:27:43,268 --> 00:27:46,308 ♪ ♪ 525 00:28:03,921 --> 00:28:06,761 ♪ Ah... ♪ 526 00:28:08,492 --> 00:28:12,492 ♪ Once I rose above the noise and confusion ♪ 527 00:28:12,563 --> 00:28:16,673 ♪ Just to get a glimpse behind this illusion ♪ 528 00:28:16,735 --> 00:28:20,735 ♪ I was soaring ever higher ♪ 529 00:28:20,805 --> 00:28:24,505 ♪ But I flew too high ♪ 530 00:28:24,574 --> 00:28:28,214 ♪ Though my eyes could see, I still was a blind man ♪ 531 00:28:28,278 --> 00:28:31,878 ♪ Though my mind could think, I still was a madman ♪ 532 00:28:31,949 --> 00:28:35,979 ♪ I hear the voices when I'm dreaming ♪ 533 00:28:36,053 --> 00:28:39,763 ♪ I can hear them say ♪ 534 00:28:39,824 --> 00:28:43,334 ♪ Carry on, my wayward son ♪ 535 00:28:43,394 --> 00:28:47,234 ♪ There'll be peace when you are done ♪ 536 00:28:47,297 --> 00:28:50,997 ♪ Lay your weary head to rest ♪ 537 00:28:51,068 --> 00:28:53,668 ♪ Don't you cry no more ♪ 538 00:28:53,738 --> 00:28:56,438 ♪ ♪