0 00:00:10.610 --> 00:00:15.210 Our sex life isn't going very well. 1 00:00:15.210 --> 00:00:18.350 It's not Donny. 2 00:00:18.350 --> 00:00:24.370 He always wants sex all the time, and he's not demanding. 3 00:00:24.370 --> 00:00:32.610 I've never been able to, you know, loosen up and enjoy it. 4 00:00:32.610 --> 00:00:37.970 Well, Autumn, you know that I'm not a sex therapist. 5 00:00:37.970 --> 00:00:42.590 But that being said, I do think I could help you. 6 00:00:42.590 --> 00:00:48.210 The first thing that you need to understand is that this is not unusual at all. 7 00:00:48.210 --> 00:00:58.430 And the second is that there are therapies out there that can help you to loosen up, 8 00:00:58.430 --> 00:01:01.430 for lack of a better word. 9 00:01:01.430 --> 00:01:03.810 Would that be something you'd like to try? 10 00:01:03.810 --> 00:01:04.810 Yes. 11 00:01:04.810 --> 00:01:07.370 I'm up for whatever you tell me to do. 12 00:01:07.370 --> 00:01:10.030 If I don't do something, I don't know what to do. 13 00:01:10.030 --> 00:01:12.490 If I don't do something, I could lose Donny. 14 00:01:12.490 --> 00:01:16.550 Well, I think that we should keep these meetings professional. 15 00:01:16.550 --> 00:01:23.270 So why don't you come around my office, let's say tomorrow at 2 p.m.? 16 00:01:23.270 --> 00:01:25.030 Thank you so much. 17 00:01:25.030 --> 00:01:26.910 You're a lifesaver. 18 00:01:26.910 --> 00:01:40.050 I'll be there. 19 00:01:40.050 --> 00:01:43.410 Thank you so much for letting me come in today. 20 00:01:43.410 --> 00:01:46.890 I'm so glad that we were able to make time for this. 21 00:01:46.890 --> 00:01:49.230 Thank you for coming to the office. 22 00:01:49.230 --> 00:01:50.230 Now listen. 23 00:01:50.230 --> 00:01:51.230 You know that I'm not a sex therapist. 24 00:01:51.230 --> 00:01:53.510 We went over this. 25 00:01:53.510 --> 00:01:59.570 However, I did train in some sexual therapy modalities while I was in school. 26 00:01:59.570 --> 00:02:04.030 So I am kind of excited to be able to do some exercises. 27 00:02:04.030 --> 00:02:09.530 I want to go over the parameters of these exercises really quickly before we get started. 28 00:02:09.530 --> 00:02:14.350 The first thing is, of course, if you're uncomfortable at any point, just say stop. 29 00:02:14.350 --> 00:02:15.350 We stop everything. 30 00:02:15.350 --> 00:02:16.350 You go home. 31 00:02:16.350 --> 00:02:17.350 It's awesome. 32 00:02:17.350 --> 00:02:18.690 However, I hope that we can press through any discomfort. 33 00:02:18.690 --> 00:02:19.690 I think that's a good thing. 34 00:02:19.690 --> 00:02:20.690 I know. 35 00:02:20.690 --> 00:02:27.610 I don't want any discomfort on this one because with this particular exercise, the whole goal 36 00:02:27.610 --> 00:02:30.810 is about pushing past your discomfort with your own body. 37 00:02:30.810 --> 00:02:36.270 Because if you can't be comfortable in your own skin, with your own body, advocating for 38 00:02:36.270 --> 00:02:41.170 your own pleasure to yourself, how on earth are you going to do that in the context of 39 00:02:41.170 --> 00:02:42.170 a relationship? 40 00:02:42.170 --> 00:02:43.170 Yeah, you're so right. 41 00:02:43.170 --> 00:02:44.170 And I'm up for whatever you want to teach me and learn. 42 00:02:44.170 --> 00:02:45.170 I just really don't want to mess up my relationship. 43 00:02:45.170 --> 00:02:46.170 You're so right. 44 00:02:46.170 --> 00:02:47.170 And I'm up for whatever you want to teach me and learn. 45 00:02:47.170 --> 00:02:48.170 I just really don't want to mess up my relationship. 46 00:02:48.170 --> 00:02:49.170 Thank you. 47 00:02:49.170 --> 00:02:50.170 Thank you. 48 00:02:50.690 --> 00:02:51.690 Thank you. 49 00:02:51.690 --> 00:02:52.690 And I do really appreciate your love and support. 50 00:02:52.690 --> 00:02:53.690 I love your love of your relationship with Donny. 51 00:02:53.690 --> 00:02:54.690 He means so much to me. 52 00:02:54.690 --> 00:02:55.690 So, get comfy. 53 00:02:55.690 --> 00:02:56.690 Lay back. 54 00:02:56.690 --> 00:02:57.690 Big inhale. 55 00:02:57.690 --> 00:03:02.110 And on the exhale, close those eyes. 56 00:03:02.110 --> 00:03:15.330 I want you to imagine in your mind your husband in the shower. 57 00:03:15.330 --> 00:03:16.670 He's naked. 58 00:03:16.670 --> 00:03:19.610 The water's running all over him. 59 00:03:19.610 --> 00:03:21.850 What's your favorite thing about your husband? 60 00:03:21.850 --> 00:03:24.320 Like, this? 61 00:03:24.320 --> 00:03:36.870 part on his body his arms he's running those big strong arms all over his body 62 00:03:36.870 --> 00:03:48.990 he's got soap in one hand there's suds and bubbles cascading down his hard abs 63 00:03:48.990 --> 00:03:59.140 sliding and pulling around his cock he finds himself getting harder in the 64 00:03:59.140 --> 00:04:12.000 shower and he starts to stroke he's touching himself thinking about you his 65 00:04:12.000 --> 00:04:31.040 soft curvy he finds his cock getting harder in his hands he starts to stroke 66 00:04:31.040 --> 00:04:39.150 faster grip thinking about your mouth 67 00:04:39.150 --> 00:04:51.130 hot warm your soft hands touching him all over 68 00:04:51.130 --> 00:04:56.610 running your fingers down his strong abs he's thinking about what he would do to 69 00:04:56.610 --> 00:05:05.630 you the things he wants 70 00:05:05.630 --> 00:05:14.400 he wants to run those big strong arms all over you 71 00:05:14.400 --> 00:05:18.390 pulling you in behind him 72 00:05:18.390 --> 00:05:19.370 you got this 73 00:05:19.370 --> 00:05:20.030 what's going on 74 00:05:20.030 --> 00:05:20.110 hun 75 00:05:20.110 --> 00:05:30.420 wrap his bicep around your throat as he grips you, pulls you by the hips and starts rubbing 76 00:05:30.420 --> 00:05:50.380 that between your butt, your pussy lips, back and forth between your head, dripping soft 77 00:05:50.380 --> 00:05:59.170 cut. I know that's a harsh word but I want you to be comfortable with all elements of 78 00:05:59.170 --> 00:06:15.480 reality, including the indelicate parts. I want you to think about him coming over to 79 00:06:15.480 --> 00:06:35.520 your ear, breathing, he has you all gripped by the back of the neck, one hand there, one 80 00:06:35.520 --> 00:06:41.520 hand on his hips, he's holding you and you go soft like a little kitten. 81 00:06:41.520 --> 00:07:00.520 He can do whatever he wants to and you love it. Your pussy's starting to drip over his 82 00:07:00.520 --> 00:07:15.780 cock. He hasn't even put it in you. You're begging, moaning like a bitch in heat. You 83 00:07:15.780 --> 00:07:35.940 need it. You're rigid. You just need to get warmed up and that's all. He's running up 84 00:07:35.940 --> 00:07:40.720 for your pussy lips. 85 00:07:40.720 --> 00:07:42.720 And before he eats you. 86 00:07:42.720 --> 00:07:50.720 He even slides it in you. You're already kicking those hips back. Thrusting into it. 87 00:07:50.720 --> 00:08:11.680 Begging. You're empty. You want to get filled up. You're already thrusting back. You can 88 00:08:11.680 --> 00:08:19.680 feel that pussy wellness dripping down right here. That spot where he likes to slide his 89 00:08:19.680 --> 00:08:21.680 cock between. 90 00:08:21.680 --> 00:08:36.640 That spot where he bites you when you start to cum on his mouth. Begging. Begging to get filled up. 91 00:08:36.640 --> 00:09:00.420 You need it. Frigid. You don't need to loosen up. You just need to access those animal places. 92 00:09:00.420 --> 00:09:02.420 That part of you that bucks your hips back. 93 00:09:02.420 --> 00:09:09.990 Bucks your hips back onto his without even knowing why. 94 00:09:09.990 --> 00:09:11.990 Don't think. 95 00:09:11.990 --> 00:09:13.990 Just feel. 96 00:09:13.990 --> 00:09:23.160 Your breath starting to get shallow. 97 00:09:23.160 --> 00:09:31.720 While someone's touching you. 98 00:09:31.720 --> 00:09:38.070 Sexy. 99 00:09:38.070 --> 00:09:50.560 Satisfying. 100 00:09:50.560 --> 00:09:52.560 Aching. 101 00:09:52.560 --> 00:09:54.560 For that sensation. 102 00:09:54.560 --> 00:10:02.710 He slides into you. 103 00:10:02.710 --> 00:10:04.710 Bitch. Fuck me. 104 00:10:04.710 --> 00:10:06.710 Please fuck. 105 00:10:06.710 --> 00:10:19.750 But then. 106 00:10:19.750 --> 00:10:24.310 He starts sliding. 107 00:10:24.310 --> 00:10:26.310 He doesn't want to get carried away by himself. 108 00:10:26.310 --> 00:10:30.260 Fuck you too hard. 109 00:10:30.260 --> 00:10:34.240 Mind it. 110 00:10:34.240 --> 00:10:40.790 Slow. He slows down. 111 00:10:40.790 --> 00:10:44.550 He uses his hand. 112 00:10:44.550 --> 00:11:36.180 Let's take it. Faster. 113 00:11:36.180 --> 00:11:46.850 Please fuck me. 114 00:11:46.850 --> 00:11:48.850 Don't stop. 115 00:11:48.850 --> 00:11:50.850 Please don't stop. 116 00:11:50.850 --> 00:11:54.870 Breathe. 117 00:11:54.870 --> 00:11:56.870 Everything you didn't even know you want. 118 00:11:56.870 --> 00:12:41.360 Animal space. 119 00:12:41.360 --> 00:12:43.360 Breathe. 120 00:12:43.360 --> 00:12:45.360 You're slipping. 121 00:12:45.360 --> 00:12:52.740 He goes hips back. 122 00:12:52.740 --> 00:12:56.120 Don't stop. 123 00:12:56.120 --> 00:12:58.120 He's got you gripped by the ass. 124 00:12:58.120 --> 00:13:06.840 Please. 125 00:13:06.840 --> 00:13:12.680 For his pleasure. 126 00:13:12.680 --> 00:13:16.310 Don't stop. 127 00:13:16.310 --> 00:13:18.310 Please. 128 00:13:18.310 --> 00:13:20.310 Get you out of your head. 129 00:13:20.310 --> 00:13:22.310 You think too much. 130 00:13:22.310 --> 00:13:26.390 You fuck him. 131 00:13:26.390 --> 00:13:28.390 And you're thinking about your grocery list. 132 00:13:28.390 --> 00:13:30.390 Whether your tummy looks flat. 133 00:13:30.390 --> 00:13:33.860 And all he's thinking about. 134 00:13:33.860 --> 00:13:35.860 Is that you have. 135 00:13:35.860 --> 00:13:37.860 Fucking parents. 136 00:13:37.860 --> 00:13:42.770 He's got to get a lot. 137 00:13:42.770 --> 00:14:29.700 One time slows down. 138 00:14:29.700 --> 00:14:40.400 Does he eat your pussy. 139 00:14:40.400 --> 00:14:42.400 And moan into it. 140 00:14:42.400 --> 00:14:44.400 While he does it. 141 00:14:44.400 --> 00:14:48.840 Does he drink. 142 00:14:48.840 --> 00:14:50.840 The way you taste stuff. 143 00:14:50.840 --> 00:14:54.630 Does he have to. 144 00:14:54.630 --> 00:14:59.920 How you smell. 145 00:14:59.920 --> 00:15:01.920 Before he puts his mouth on it. 146 00:15:01.920 --> 00:15:12.210 You have to hold your mouth. 147 00:15:12.210 --> 00:17:26.240 Let's fuck. 148 00:17:26.240 --> 00:18:17.040 Please. 149 00:18:17.040 --> 00:18:19.040 Don't touch. 150 00:18:19.040 --> 00:18:33.460 And tell me it's your bite. 151 00:18:33.460 --> 00:18:35.460 You know what I like. 152 00:18:35.460 --> 00:18:51.280 The kohl I always got when I get food. 153 00:18:51.280 --> 00:18:53.280 Is it a glue bag for a show and a movie. 154 00:18:53.280 --> 00:19:02.040 Or does he grab you anyhow. 155 00:19:02.040 --> 00:19:04.040 Or does he take you. 156 00:19:04.040 --> 00:19:06.040 And work your whole life. 157 00:19:06.040 --> 00:19:08.040 to me. 158 00:19:08.040 --> 00:19:10.040 Don't touch. 159 00:19:10.040 --> 00:19:12.040 Aw. 160 00:19:12.040 --> 00:19:14.040 Too good. 161 00:19:14.040 --> 00:19:16.040 Yeah. 162 00:19:16.040 --> 00:19:18.040 So. 163 00:19:18.040 --> 00:20:52.450 He's just going to be a gum. 164 00:20:52.450 --> 00:20:54.450 Queer.