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I realize this is a bad one
news. But understand that it is treatable.

2
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His condition is serious,
but it can be cured.

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- Okay, but...
- Yes?

4
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- Can I ask a question?
- Yes, of course.

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The treatment is...

6
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Will I have to ask for sick leave?

7
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Yes. Not right away, but
during therapy.

8
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Therapy, with pills?

9
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No. Surgery or radiotherapy, ed
both have side effects.

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Let me know if I'm going too fast.

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Surgery means removing the
prostate, which will lead to sterility.

12
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But it would also happen with the
radiotherapy treatment.

13
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Both treatments
will affect your erectile function.

14
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This can be partially
corrected with training,

15
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but his erections probably
they will never be the same again.

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Incontinence is another side effect
common, but many do not suffer from it.

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I would recommend surgery.
But in the end, the choice is yours alone.

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This happens to many
men, at some point.

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If the patient is elderly, sometimes
we choose not to deal with it. But she isn't.

20
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It should let it settle
a bit of all this.

21
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Do you have any questions right now?
You can ask me anything.

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No.

23
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Wednesday 6 August

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- Can I ask you something?
- Certain.

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- I'm not sure if he really has
Got it right - Really?

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- Didn't you have that impression?
- No...

27
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Well, it's not uncommon for the
patient is unable to...

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Maybe more than usual.

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He had no questions,
but this is not uncommon.

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The next patient?

31
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Please reply.
What did he tell you?

32
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They can't leave you
go without answers.

33
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- Björn Holm?
- What should they do?

34
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Well, I don't know, but...
It's not malignant, right?

35
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I do not believe.
I didn't quite understand what he said.

36
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- Didn't you ask?
- I have to ask for sick leave.

37
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You have to ask until when
you won't have a clear answer!

38
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- Please come with me.
- Why?

39
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There's someone you need to see.

40
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- I'll go ask.
- Ninth.

41
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- Yes.
- No.

42
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You can ask
both to go back inside?

43
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- Hey.
- How are you?

44
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SEX / DREAMS / LOVE

45
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DREAMS / LOVE

46
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LOVE

47
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All the art we see here
tells us something.

48
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I think it's essential to see

49
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the decorations of the town hall as a
message for all of us who live in Oslo.

50
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And with that in mind, you'll see

51
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than the entire building
radiates human values.

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That frieze, for example, shows

53
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different constellations
of women and children.

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On the left, a single woman with child.

55
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And next to her, two women
together with a child.

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I interpret this as an approval of mothers
single and same-sex parenting.

57
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And in extension, a municipal tax
unequivocal to homosexuality.

58
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Isn't it wonderful? By the way,
she is my friend Marianne.

59
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Feel free to join us. Let's find
other good examples on the west face.

60
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In this country
we love sports results.

61
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So I love the fact
than the sport they chose

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is one who, in a certain sense,
supports the feminine side.

63
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Namely, skating!

64
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- Here we see the symbol of Oslo itself.
- The girl from Oslo.

65
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Or the "Oslo woman",
as I prefer to call it.

66
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Look how it is there,
observing and listening.

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Looking at his city.
I think it's very beautiful.

68
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On this side, I would like
show you these two sculptures

69
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that stand out from the rest. The Fisherman by Nils Flakstad.

70
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It represents one of the industries
most important in Norway.

71
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But we must not forget that the fisherman
It is also an ancient symbol of Christ.

72
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Therefore, I love seeing this figure
as an image of the loving Christ

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who blesses with his hand
the lives of all citizens of Oslo.

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And everything that includes,
dreams and worries...

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and needs, not least sexual needs,
that I would like to reconnect to this figure.

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This is the only sculpture that
deals explicitly with sexuality.

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We see a meeting between three people.

78
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A couple on the right,
a single man on the left.

79
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This meeting is provocative
a lot of sexual tension.

80
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Something is clearly going on

81
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between the man on the left
and the woman on the right.

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But if we analyze the man on the right,

83
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his gaze is not directed
also towards the other man?

84
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Now look at his hands,
bend over his groin.

85
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What does this mean?
Will it end in a sexual fusion of the three?

86
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A trio, quite simply?
Similar things happen.

87
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People have needs
and different sexual preferences,

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that Jesus sees and recognizes
as part of creation.

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What I find particularly
It's interesting that such a point

90
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important on the external wall of ours
town hall was dedicated to sexuality.

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I find it so touching and thoughtful.

92
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- But... isn't that a somewhat limited vision?
- How come?

93
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I mean it looks like a
a little too niche...

94
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This should be the foundation
of the Oslo centenary celebration.

95
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A celebration
national. Style and party...

96
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Yes, and we have a lot planned
events in the city around this theme.

97
00:08:01,792 --> 00:08:03,528
They should go on for days.

98
00:08:03,578 --> 00:08:06,583
Yes. It's a process
ongoing that we...

99
00:08:06,792 --> 00:08:10,166
What do you imagine, in particular?

100
00:08:10,375 --> 00:08:14,583
Having a budget is difficult when you don't
we know what we are working on.

101
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We have specific suggestions…

102
00:08:17,667 --> 00:08:20,416
But it won't just be one day.

103
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It should include everyone.

104
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Absolutely! It's for
everyone! But who is "everyone"?

105
00:08:27,667 --> 00:08:29,166
Doesn't that mean "all" of us?

106
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Many small niches for
women and men and different...

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Together we are all.

108
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See you tomorrow.

109
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- Until we meet again.
- Until we meet again.

110
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- It wasn't good.
- Yes!

111
00:08:41,917 --> 00:08:46,798
No, it wasn't good. We can
go for a coffee?

112
00:08:46,799 --> 00:08:48,583
Don't we have to take the ferry?

113
00:08:48,792 --> 00:08:51,491
We don't have to be in Nesodden
that in two hours. There is time.

114
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- These were your ideas.
- Yes, my presentation.

115
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Everyone presents their idea,
then we decide together.

116
00:09:03,667 --> 00:09:07,749
There is also a consultancy company,
with a proposal, of course.

117
00:09:07,917 --> 00:09:10,916
But it must be based on
people's concerns.

118
00:09:11,125 --> 00:09:12,916
Do you believe?

119
00:09:13,125 --> 00:09:16,583
- I? You think so too.
- I? As?

120
00:09:16,750 --> 00:09:18,958
When I applied
for this job, you said:

121
00:09:19,125 --> 00:09:24,291
"Working for the municipality
an opportunity to help people"

122
00:09:26,917 --> 00:09:30,541
- Did you say that? - Yes.
- Were you referring to your work?

123
00:09:30,750 --> 00:09:32,624
- Perhaps?
- "Maybe"...

124
00:09:33,750 --> 00:09:36,749
You speak without thinking, Marianne.

125
00:09:36,750 --> 00:09:40,541
"When you say my name,
I go crazy with joy at the fact

126
00:09:40,750 --> 00:09:45,541
that you know my name."
Do you remember that you wrote it to me?

127
00:09:45,750 --> 00:09:48,541
Yes, you bet.

128
00:09:48,750 --> 00:09:52,166
It's a quote from Ragnar Hovland.
Why did you think about it now?

129
00:09:52,375 --> 00:09:55,041
I don't know, probably
because you said "Marianne".

130
00:09:55,250 --> 00:09:57,458
Tell me more about tonight.

131
00:09:57,667 --> 00:10:01,208
What will happen tonight is...

132
00:10:01,417 --> 00:10:06,041
that I put together one
team to work out the details.

133
00:10:06,250 --> 00:10:09,333
There is a composer, an architect,

134
00:10:09,500 --> 00:10:12,249
a choreographer... and then we are...

135
00:10:12,417 --> 00:10:15,583
But what about the
geologist? Do you know I'm coming?

136
00:10:15,792 --> 00:10:17,666
Yes, of course.

137
00:10:19,709 --> 00:10:22,708
I have a good feeling.

138
00:10:22,875 --> 00:10:26,624
Well, maybe it's just in my head,
but I think they'll get along.

139
00:10:26,792 --> 00:10:28,166
We'll get along...

140
00:10:28,375 --> 00:10:32,833
And it's a nice environment
to meet other people.

141
00:10:33,042 --> 00:10:35,115
It won't be so formal, you know...

142
00:10:35,165 --> 00:10:37,958
I get along
with many people.

143
00:10:38,125 --> 00:10:41,499
- What, how...?
- No, just...

144
00:10:41,667 --> 00:10:46,833
In a way I lose the...
seems much more important to you.

145
00:10:47,042 --> 00:10:49,958
That you meet someone?

146
00:10:50,167 --> 00:10:51,791
No.

147
00:10:52,875 --> 00:10:55,124
No, it's not that.

148
00:10:56,667 --> 00:10:59,083
- No, it's not like that.
- No?

149
00:10:59,250 --> 00:11:02,666
That's not what you were saying
I'm missing a guy, right?

150
00:11:02,792 --> 00:11:04,708
No.

151
00:11:04,875 --> 00:11:08,874
Maybe I see it
just from my point of view.

152
00:11:10,125 --> 00:11:13,499
I was so worried
to meet someone.

153
00:11:13,667 --> 00:11:16,708
But you said you are
willing to meet someone.

154
00:11:16,875 --> 00:11:19,458
Yes, I am.

155
00:11:19,667 --> 00:11:23,249
But when you say you were like that
worried about finding someone,

156
00:11:23,417 --> 00:11:26,958
what were you so stressed about?

157
00:11:27,125 --> 00:11:29,749
I really don't know.

158
00:11:29,917 --> 00:11:34,208
You liked being alone.

159
00:11:36,917 --> 00:11:41,708
It is the safety that
does a relationship bring?

160
00:11:41,875 --> 00:11:44,208
- Maybe...
- I thought about it a lot.

161
00:11:44,375 --> 00:11:46,958
I don't feel insecure
in life. And neither do you.

162
00:11:47,084 --> 00:11:48,458
No.

163
00:11:48,667 --> 00:11:52,874
Well, I like being married.

164
00:11:53,042 --> 00:11:55,541
I'm simpler than you in this regard.

165
00:11:57,125 --> 00:12:01,458
After seven or eight years in that apartment,
have you decided to buy a bedside table?

166
00:12:01,667 --> 00:12:03,916
It never occurred to me.
Where can I get one?

167
00:12:04,125 --> 00:12:08,916
At Ikea, I guess. Or one
used online. Which type do you want?

168
00:12:09,084 --> 00:12:11,916
Must be short
to match the bed.

169
00:12:12,125 --> 00:12:14,416
- You'll need two.
- No.

170
00:12:14,584 --> 00:12:18,458
You can't have a double bed
with a bedside table on one side only. It's sad.

171
00:12:18,667 --> 00:12:20,708
What does it matter?
Why sad?

172
00:12:20,917 --> 00:12:23,916
Buying two is not...

173
00:12:24,084 --> 00:12:28,291
Hello!
Are you going to a party too?

174
00:12:28,500 --> 00:12:30,916
- Party?
- More of a meeting.

175
00:12:31,084 --> 00:12:34,916
- or a spiritual encounter.
- OK. I'm coming home.

176
00:12:35,084 --> 00:12:37,611
Do you live in Nesodden?
I had no idea.

177
00:12:37,661 --> 00:12:40,916
No. I'm staying in a borrowed cottage.

178
00:12:41,084 --> 00:12:43,708
I spent the summer there.

179
00:12:43,917 --> 00:12:46,099
Heidi, my friend,
And Tor, my colleague.

180
00:12:46,149 --> 00:12:46,916
Pleasure.

181
00:12:47,084 --> 00:12:50,791
- Have fun.
- Certain.

182
00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:52,999
- See you tomorrow?
- Certain. HI.

183
00:12:55,125 --> 00:12:57,916
- Is he a doctor?
- No, a nurse.

184
00:12:58,125 --> 00:13:01,999
- I need a mirror.
- I go out.

185
00:13:10,917 --> 00:13:12,541
Hey!

186
00:13:25,625 --> 00:13:29,583
You can't take people for granted
they actually understand what you say.

187
00:13:29,792 --> 00:13:33,583
I thought about that
patient all day.

188
00:13:33,792 --> 00:13:39,333
- I'm so glad you stopped him.
- Well, he reminded me of my father.

189
00:13:39,542 --> 00:13:43,124
- I can be a bit like that too.
- You can?

190
00:13:43,292 --> 00:13:50,124
Well, I can say that I dare not ask
in case I risk being ridiculous.

191
00:13:50,292 --> 00:13:54,083
- I understand. Where are you from?
- Hob�l, in the county of �stfold.

192
00:13:54,292 --> 00:13:57,833
- Did you grow up on a farm?
- No, but my mother did.

193
00:13:58,042 --> 00:14:00,833
- I understand.
- But they weren't farmers.

194
00:14:01,042 --> 00:14:04,833
They are normal people. My father
he worked in construction.

195
00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:08,366
- And you became a nurse.
- Yes, in the end.

196
00:14:08,375 --> 00:14:12,324
I never imagined that you
I was from Hob�l, or even from �stfold.

197
00:14:12,334 --> 00:14:16,166
No?
Why am I so beautiful?

198
00:14:16,375 --> 00:14:19,666
- Do you think you are so beautiful?
- I was joking.

199
00:14:19,875 --> 00:14:23,958
But people have said it
as I was leaving.

200
00:14:23,959 --> 00:14:24,958
No, really?

201
00:14:25,125 --> 00:14:28,541
“You are too beautiful for
be of �stfold."

202
00:14:28,750 --> 00:14:30,907
Do people really say that?

203
00:14:30,957 --> 00:14:34,541
No. Or yes,
It happened a few times.

204
00:14:34,875 --> 00:14:38,541
Maybe it's the dialect. � 
difficult to be taken seriously.

205
00:14:38,750 --> 00:14:41,583
- There is no way of knowing that you are from �stfold.
- No.

206
00:14:41,584 --> 00:14:42,699
I try to hide it.

207
00:14:42,709 --> 00:14:45,374
You can't even tell
that we are from Dokka.

208
00:14:45,709 --> 00:14:49,541
- No, I don't think so.
- Where is Dokka?

209
00:14:49,875 --> 00:14:54,624
Not far from Gj�vik.
Between Gj�vik and Fagernes.

210
00:15:05,792 --> 00:15:08,208
- Where is your cottage?
- Right there.

211
00:15:08,417 --> 00:15:11,499
- The little red one?
- Yes, the first.

212
00:15:11,667 --> 00:15:14,749
- Close to the ferry dock.
- Yes.

213
00:15:17,042 --> 00:15:19,583
- Until we meet again.
- Until we meet again.

214
00:15:26,917 --> 00:15:29,708
- Wow, is this it?
- Yes.

215
00:15:29,917 --> 00:15:33,791
- What a house! He must be rich.
- Rich?

216
00:15:37,125 --> 00:15:39,666
- Hey.
- Hey.

217
00:15:41,125 --> 00:15:43,958
How did yours go?
presentation? Wasn't it today?

218
00:15:44,125 --> 00:15:46,944
Not good.
They didn't understand me.

219
00:15:46,994 --> 00:15:49,083
No, it went really well.

220
00:15:49,292 --> 00:15:52,249
I'm sure so.
You made it look amazing.

221
00:15:52,417 --> 00:15:54,916
I was almost jealous of your ideas.

222
00:15:55,125 --> 00:15:57,208
- HI. Ole Harald.
- Marianne.

223
00:15:57,417 --> 00:16:00,916
So you're Marianne!
Heidi told us about you.

224
00:16:01,125 --> 00:16:03,916
- You're not part of...
- No, I'm a doctor.

225
00:16:04,125 --> 00:16:08,916
Have you just arrived?
What will you serve them?

226
00:16:09,125 --> 00:16:13,624
- Beer and wine. A snack.
- You have a barbecue! It's fantastic.

227
00:16:13,792 --> 00:16:17,708
It's none of my business. Let's go,
girls. Dad has a meeting.

228
00:16:17,917 --> 00:16:21,333
Hey, you... go inside.
The others are already here.

229
00:16:21,500 --> 00:16:25,958
- Let's go home now.
You come. - No!

230
00:16:26,125 --> 00:16:28,499
We have already discussed it.
Dad has a meeting.

231
00:16:28,625 --> 00:16:31,333
- Please?
- Let's go. One two three!

232
00:16:31,459 --> 00:16:35,208
<i>Today, the concept of "feminism"
must understand a lot.</i>

233
00:16:35,417 --> 00:16:38,916
<i>Yes, it was diluted to that extent
which has lost all meaning.</i>

234
00:16:39,125 --> 00:16:41,833
- Hey!
- I'm so glad you came.

235
00:16:42,042 --> 00:16:44,499
- Hey, guys. Hello...
- Ismael.

236
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- Heidi. Are you the architect?
- HI. �nice.

237
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- Marianne.
- Hello, Anna. Nice to see you again.

238
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- This is Marianne.
- I'm not participating.

239
00:16:56,000 --> 00:17:02,833
Right. I couldn't help but
hearing that you talked about feminism.

240
00:17:03,042 --> 00:17:08,291
I'm curious, do you think it's raining?
in the wet with this project?

241
00:17:08,500 --> 00:17:12,416
- I'm not sure, it depends...
- Depends on how you see it.

242
00:17:12,625 --> 00:17:16,916
My mother called me
last night, and I told him about it.

243
00:17:17,125 --> 00:17:22,041
I told her it was a municipal project.
But she doesn't identify with feminism.

244
00:17:22,209 --> 00:17:27,041
She says it has nothing to do with her.
He needs domestic care,

245
00:17:27,250 --> 00:17:32,791
but he doesn't know how to ask her.
Calls, with no results, which is...

246
00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:36,083
So you think we should
celebrate the anniversary

247
00:17:36,250 --> 00:17:40,041
improving public services e
creating better web solutions?

248
00:17:40,250 --> 00:17:46,041
- One does not exclude the other.
- No, not at all.

249
00:17:46,250 --> 00:17:52,041
- Are you a municipal employee?
- Yes, in the Department of Culture.

250
00:17:52,250 --> 00:17:57,041
And I'm a leader of the
anniversary project.

251
00:17:57,250 --> 00:17:59,923
I'm a historian.

252
00:17:59,973 --> 00:18:04,041
With a notable doctoral thesis.

253
00:18:04,250 --> 00:18:08,041
- Okay, wow! - I wrote
my thesis on the history of fashion.

254
00:18:08,250 --> 00:18:12,541
- On what topic?
- On Spook, have you heard about it?

255
00:18:12,750 --> 00:18:16,041
HI.
He is...

256
00:18:16,250 --> 00:18:18,041
Yes.
HI.

257
00:18:18,250 --> 00:18:22,041
Right...
Would you like...? No?

258
00:18:22,250 --> 00:18:26,041
As I said in the email,

259
00:18:26,250 --> 00:18:31,166
this must be a meeting
initial and stimulating.

260
00:18:32,250 --> 00:18:35,041
I hear very similar words now.

261
00:18:35,250 --> 00:18:43,041
If we start with the basics, that is with
the ground we stepped on...

262
00:18:43,250 --> 00:18:46,916
And since I have a good neighbor
who is a geologist,

263
00:18:47,125 --> 00:18:49,999
I started thinking about it and I thought that

264
00:18:50,167 --> 00:18:54,583
perhaps this perspective can
bring new ideas.

265
00:18:54,750 --> 00:18:57,041
- I don't know if you...
- Yes?

266
00:18:57,250 --> 00:19:00,166
I wanted to say a few things

267
00:19:00,334 --> 00:19:05,541
on the geological formation of the city.

268
00:19:05,750 --> 00:19:09,124
And so on.
If you like the idea.

269
00:19:10,667 --> 00:19:12,916
I suggest going up to the terrace,

270
00:19:13,125 --> 00:19:19,708
where the view is better.
We can see the whole city.

271
00:19:19,917 --> 00:19:20,708
Thrilling.

272
00:19:20,917 --> 00:19:24,874
- Follow me
- Excellent idea.

273
00:19:25,042 --> 00:19:28,833
That shirt...
It's so beautiful.

274
00:19:29,042 --> 00:19:31,583
- Thank you!
- I noticed it too.

275
00:19:31,750 --> 00:19:34,916
I am ashamed.
It's my most expensive shirt ever.

276
00:19:35,125 --> 00:19:38,624
There is no railing,
please sit down.

277
00:19:38,792 --> 00:19:41,208
I don't want anyone to fall.

278
00:19:41,375 --> 00:19:44,708
- Can I come through here?
- Sure, no problem.

279
00:19:45,750 --> 00:19:49,583
- Whose bed is it in the entrance?
- It's mine.

280
00:19:49,792 --> 00:19:52,958
- Do you sleep here?
- I should have changed the sheets.

281
00:19:53,125 --> 00:19:56,583
- No, why?
- No, I just... I grew up here.

282
00:19:56,792 --> 00:20:00,087
Well, in the old one
house that was here.

283
00:20:00,137 --> 00:20:02,583
My room was here, more or less.

284
00:20:02,792 --> 00:20:06,491
- So this is your boy's room?
- Yes, my bed as a boy.

285
00:20:06,500 --> 00:20:09,541
- Is this exciting for you?
- Yes, a little.

286
00:20:10,667 --> 00:20:13,155
I got excited too.

287
00:20:13,205 --> 00:20:14,791
It's not very wide.

288
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:19,583
No, but... there's room, if you want.

289
00:20:19,792 --> 00:20:22,791
If you want, there's room.

290
00:20:24,125 --> 00:20:25,541
Right...

291
00:20:31,125 --> 00:20:35,958
Let me start by saying
that everything is evolving.

292
00:20:36,125 --> 00:20:40,999
Constantly. So, nothing
It's really fundamental.

293
00:20:41,167 --> 00:20:44,166
But we have the historical facts.

294
00:20:44,334 --> 00:20:47,083
"The Oslo Cauldron"
derives its name from the hills

295
00:20:47,250 --> 00:20:52,041
by Nordmarka ed
Ekebergs tilting

296
00:20:52,250 --> 00:20:54,749
towards the plain, giving it
a cauldron-like shape.

297
00:20:54,875 --> 00:21:00,124
What we call Oslo today,
It is made up of three types of stones.

298
00:21:00,292 --> 00:21:03,749
We have the base rock, which is made up

299
00:21:03,875 --> 00:21:08,749
from hard species
such as gneiss and granite.

300
00:21:08,875 --> 00:21:12,999
This area extends
from �stmarka to Ekeberg

301
00:21:13,125 --> 00:21:15,833
and goes down to Bunnefjorden.

302
00:21:15,959 --> 00:21:18,333
So we have "the center".

303
00:21:18,459 --> 00:21:24,083
Which mainly consists of
Cambro-Silurian and other stone species

304
00:21:24,250 --> 00:21:31,583
softer like limestone and slate
and many deposits and clay.

305
00:21:31,709 --> 00:21:34,226
And if you look at the upper environment,

306
00:21:34,276 --> 00:21:36,083
like Nordmarka and S�rkedalen,

307
00:21:36,209 --> 00:21:40,833
we find mostly eruptive species,
like lava and basalt.

308
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:46,083
These are rocky species
which tend to rise,

309
00:21:46,250 --> 00:21:49,291
as he explained to me
a high school teacher.

310
00:21:49,459 --> 00:21:55,291
And everything forms the topography
which may resemble a cauldron.

311
00:21:59,334 --> 00:22:04,833
It's not up to me to interpret
the impact of geology on our lives.

312
00:22:05,042 --> 00:22:09,749
But... yes, I think about
where I walk, where I put my feet,

313
00:22:09,917 --> 00:22:15,583
but also to what surrounds us.
Buildings, for example flora,

314
00:22:15,750 --> 00:22:18,416
they affect us mentally.

315
00:22:18,584 --> 00:22:23,041
I think they can be considered
a bit like the smell of clothes

316
00:22:23,209 --> 00:22:27,583
of someone who doesn't use deodorant
or perfumes or things like that.

317
00:22:28,667 --> 00:22:31,958
We react to that smell.

318
00:22:32,167 --> 00:22:34,708
He has personality and challenges us.

319
00:22:34,917 --> 00:22:39,041
We feel it in the body.

320
00:22:39,250 --> 00:22:44,416
And equally, I think it has
an impact on our soul.

321
00:23:14,250 --> 00:23:18,374
Yes, we can go back down.
Would anyone like some wine?

322
00:23:18,500 --> 00:23:21,833
- Yes, please.
- Or something else?

323
00:23:22,042 --> 00:23:24,041
Let's go down.

324
00:23:25,667 --> 00:23:27,541
Watch your head.

325
00:23:44,209 --> 00:23:49,041
When the architect said that his mother
He didn't get the help he needed...

326
00:23:49,250 --> 00:23:55,041
When so many things don't work,
it follows that this whole celebration...

327
00:23:55,250 --> 00:24:00,208
It's as if I hadn't thought about it. That the
our focus should be elsewhere.

328
00:24:00,417 --> 00:24:03,041
I think you're complicating things.

329
00:24:03,250 --> 00:24:08,041
Something that is important doesn't pay off
another less important or interesting.

330
00:24:08,250 --> 00:24:13,041
This keeps happening.
You have this deeply original idea,

331
00:24:13,250 --> 00:24:17,041
which is all yours, but then the doubts come.

332
00:24:17,250 --> 00:24:20,041
- Ida, no.
- It must be exhaustive.

333
00:24:20,250 --> 00:24:25,041
<i>You can't run away from mom. Let's go
to read a bedtime story.</i>

334
00:24:25,250 --> 00:24:28,041
I understand that you have to think about everything.

335
00:24:28,250 --> 00:24:31,458
<i>You had already cleaned your teeth
and you were about to go to bed!</i>

336
00:24:31,667 --> 00:24:34,041
<i>Let's go read one
bedtime story.</i>

337
00:24:34,250 --> 00:24:37,041
<i>- Let's go, let's go.
- Hello, Solveig.</i>

338
00:24:37,250 --> 00:24:41,583
- Let me help you.
- I am fine.

339
00:24:41,792 --> 00:24:46,041
I am fine. Where is Oda?
Are you at home alone?

340
00:24:46,250 --> 00:24:49,958
Oda is at home with Geir.
They are sleeping.

341
00:24:50,167 --> 00:24:52,041
- You come.
- I am fine.

342
00:24:52,250 --> 00:24:56,583
It's just me who can't
sleep. Let's go home, dear.

343
00:24:56,792 --> 00:24:59,791
- You come.
- You can sleep here. You go home.

344
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,916
- But this is my week.
- No, that's it.

345
00:25:03,125 --> 00:25:07,124
Solveig, let's go home together.
I'm going to get my bag.

346
00:25:09,250 --> 00:25:12,041
- Is everything okay here?
- Yes.

347
00:25:12,250 --> 00:25:14,124
Didn't you do anything for them?

348
00:25:16,250 --> 00:25:19,041
- I'm leaving.
- How rude, Ole.

349
00:25:19,250 --> 00:25:22,124
We had a fish pie, didn't we?

350
00:25:23,250 --> 00:25:25,874
- And white wine.
- Excellent.

351
00:25:27,250 --> 00:25:30,041
I don't like throwing food away.

352
00:25:30,250 --> 00:25:35,041
- Ida, why don't we go home, dear?
- Solveig, let's go.

353
00:25:35,250 --> 00:25:39,708
- I'm leaving too.
- Can I ask you something?

354
00:25:39,917 --> 00:25:43,833
- Certain. - Be the mother
that the aunt had cancer.

355
00:25:44,042 --> 00:25:45,791
Yes?

356
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,041
Sorry... So me
I was just asking...

357
00:25:49,250 --> 00:25:51,791
Sorry!
I am fine.

358
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:57,041
I was wondering if you knew one
correlation between cancer and insomnia.

359
00:25:58,584 --> 00:26:02,594
I've never heard of it
talk about conclusive studies.

360
00:26:02,644 --> 00:26:04,541
So don't worry.

361
00:26:05,584 --> 00:26:08,459
Let's go. You will find the
way to the ferry?

362
00:26:08,509 --> 00:26:11,458
Ida, see you tomorrow.
Sleep well.

363
00:26:11,667 --> 00:26:16,458
- Okay, bye.
- I'll send a message before Wednesday.

364
00:26:16,584 --> 00:26:19,499
- Great. HI!
- Later.

365
00:26:20,584 --> 00:26:24,458
- I'm sorry about that.
- There's no need to apologize.

366
00:26:24,584 --> 00:26:28,458
- Hey!
- I'd like to talk more.

367
00:26:28,584 --> 00:26:31,416
- Me too.
- To find out what your story is.

368
00:26:31,625 --> 00:26:33,833
I don't know if I have a story, but...

369
00:26:34,042 --> 00:26:39,416
Who are you. Anyway, it's me
really enjoyed talking to you.

370
00:26:39,625 --> 00:26:43,416
Me too.
Well...

371
00:26:43,584 --> 00:26:46,291
- Hello and good luck.
- HI.

372
00:27:49,125 --> 00:27:50,166
- Hey.
- Hey.

373
00:27:50,375 --> 00:27:53,166
- Are you following me?
- You too.

374
00:27:53,334 --> 00:27:55,374
Three times in one day?

375
00:27:57,125 --> 00:27:58,999
Where are you going?

376
00:28:00,500 --> 00:28:04,916
- Out of town?
- No, not out of town.

377
00:28:05,084 --> 00:28:07,958
- Okay?
- I'm not going anywhere.

378
00:28:08,125 --> 00:28:10,916
- Are you taking the ferry?
- Yes.

379
00:28:11,084 --> 00:28:15,833
I'll just take the ferry, come on
and back. I do it sometimes.

380
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,958
How was the party?

381
00:28:19,125 --> 00:28:21,916
The party, well...

382
00:28:22,084 --> 00:28:28,041
in reality it's quite over
abruptly. Oh, that was a little strange.

383
00:28:29,125 --> 00:28:36,541
I only went because Heidi
he wants me to go out with a neighbor.

384
00:28:37,667 --> 00:28:43,958
And he... well, he's divorced and there
his ex-wife lives next door.

385
00:28:44,084 --> 00:28:46,541
- Oh well.
- Not your type?

386
00:28:46,750 --> 00:28:48,916
Yes, absolutely.

387
00:28:49,125 --> 00:28:51,999
Perhaps.
We will see.

388
00:28:53,125 --> 00:28:56,166
And take the ferry
back and forth?

389
00:28:56,334 --> 00:29:02,541
Yes, sometimes when
I can't sleep

390
00:29:02,750 --> 00:29:04,708
and I feel restless, I take the ferry.

391
00:29:05,750 --> 00:29:07,708
Mainly to search...

392
00:29:07,917 --> 00:29:10,999
- To look for men, really.
- Okay.

393
00:29:12,959 --> 00:29:18,916
- Do you know Grindr? Or Tinder, for sure.
- Sure, and I also know Grindr.

394
00:29:19,084 --> 00:29:23,916
You can see who is online,
and who is closest.

395
00:29:24,084 --> 00:29:29,123
There's something about being in one
enclosed space, like a ferry.

396
00:29:29,173 --> 00:29:30,916
You can see who is online.

397
00:29:31,125 --> 00:29:34,708
And when you see them on the screen,
you just have to look up.

398
00:29:34,917 --> 00:29:37,208
And they could be right in front of you.

399
00:29:37,417 --> 00:29:40,916
- Is there anyone online tonight?
- No, not now.

400
00:29:41,125 --> 00:29:43,916
- But does it happen?
- Absolutely. Often.

401
00:29:44,125 --> 00:29:46,916
Okay, so what do you do?

402
00:29:47,125 --> 00:29:51,916
Sometimes nothing. Maybe
just an exchange of glances.

403
00:29:52,125 --> 00:29:54,999
- Or we go out on the bridge.
- And do you have sex?

404
00:29:56,125 --> 00:29:58,291
Yes?
Mostly, we talk.

405
00:29:58,500 --> 00:30:00,708
Maybe we'll organize something.

406
00:30:00,917 --> 00:30:03,291
For me, it's about
mainly the thrill.

407
00:30:03,500 --> 00:30:07,666
Meeting someone's gaze and
realize that we are both "online".

408
00:30:09,125 --> 00:30:12,833
But have you ever had sex
on the Nesodden ferry?

409
00:30:13,042 --> 00:30:18,666
Sometimes. But the journey is like this
short that you can't do much.

410
00:30:18,875 --> 00:30:19,708
Right.

411
00:30:19,917 --> 00:30:23,499
- It's a bit like a cruise.
- Cruise, what is it?

412
00:30:24,625 --> 00:30:26,583
You have no idea?

413
00:30:26,792 --> 00:30:32,041
It's about going in certain
places for casual sex.

414
00:30:32,250 --> 00:30:37,458
There are many cruising spots. Often isolated parts
of parks, where men meet other men.

415
00:30:37,667 --> 00:30:41,458
To have sex.

416
00:30:41,667 --> 00:30:44,041
Yes.

417
00:30:44,250 --> 00:30:50,583
But not only this. Come on
this ferry, we mostly talk.

418
00:30:50,792 --> 00:30:55,708
And sometimes, when you wander in a park,

419
00:30:55,917 --> 00:30:59,666
you sit and talk afterwards
having had sex.

420
00:31:01,125 --> 00:31:03,291
And there's something about that
post-sex talk.

421
00:31:03,500 --> 00:31:08,791
Because these are
people you know nothing about.

422
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,833
You may not know theirs
name. Maybe you'll never know.

423
00:31:13,042 --> 00:31:17,458
And be on land
neutral creates this...

424
00:31:17,584 --> 00:31:22,458
- strange, but pleasant closeness.
- Right.

425
00:31:22,667 --> 00:31:26,541
Which makes opening up so natural.

426
00:31:26,750 --> 00:31:28,370
What is the topic?

427
00:31:28,420 --> 00:31:31,541
It varies.
There are all kinds of people.

428
00:31:31,750 --> 00:31:35,541
Some are still hidden.

429
00:31:35,750 --> 00:31:39,136
And some don't
they consider themselves gay at all.

430
00:31:39,186 --> 00:31:41,541
They only like to have sex with men.

431
00:31:41,750 --> 00:31:46,958
And there are some very sad ones,
prey to the guilt complex.

432
00:31:47,167 --> 00:31:51,458
They may have escaped from the dinners
family or children's parties

433
00:31:51,667 --> 00:31:54,041
and they need to talk about it.

434
00:31:55,167 --> 00:31:59,166
Some just want to talk
of "coming out".

435
00:32:00,125 --> 00:32:02,916
- But you did it, right?
- I? Yes.

436
00:32:03,125 --> 00:32:08,458
For me, it was easy.
But you hear these crazy stories.

437
00:32:08,667 --> 00:32:11,791
Parents cutting off all contact.

438
00:32:14,125 --> 00:32:15,791
Pure evil.

439
00:32:25,125 --> 00:32:30,041
Tonight, that guy who
I had to meet him...

440
00:32:31,084 --> 00:32:36,291
He's not really the type to
I wouldn't even consider it.

441
00:32:37,334 --> 00:32:42,166
Then we went to his roof.
He wanted to show us something.

442
00:32:42,334 --> 00:32:46,624
And out there, suddenly I have
felt this overwhelming closeness.

443
00:32:47,667 --> 00:32:52,541
And I couldn't control the
hands. I touched his ass.

444
00:32:52,750 --> 00:32:56,833
- How did you react?
- I've never done anything like this.

445
00:32:57,042 --> 00:33:00,874
How did he react? Well, � 
was surprised. As I was.

446
00:33:01,042 --> 00:33:03,833
- But I think he liked it.
- Did you like it?

447
00:33:04,042 --> 00:33:06,833
- Yes, I liked it.
- Okay...

448
00:33:07,042 --> 00:33:09,833
What kind of boy is he?

449
00:33:10,042 --> 00:33:14,833
He's a little smart, warm and
cheeky, all at once.

450
00:33:15,042 --> 00:33:17,833
And what kind of men turn you on?

451
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:22,166
I have no idea. It seems
completely unpredictable.

452
00:33:22,334 --> 00:33:24,833
And to you?
What turns you on?

453
00:33:25,042 --> 00:33:29,833
- A certain type of skin, I think.
- Okay.

454
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,833
It's quite difficult to explain.

455
00:33:33,042 --> 00:33:36,916
I can get turned on by…sweat.

456
00:33:39,042 --> 00:33:41,833
The skin on the inside of the thighs
when she's sweaty...

457
00:33:42,042 --> 00:33:43,833
Ok...

458
00:33:44,042 --> 00:33:47,833
I can be excited
from all sorts of things.

459
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,833
Will you see him again?

460
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,416
Nesodden's guy?
Yes... yes?

461
00:33:54,625 --> 00:33:56,666
Or not?
I don't...

462
00:33:57,750 --> 00:34:01,958
I don't know. These things
they always get so complicated.

463
00:34:04,042 --> 00:34:07,003
I wanted to have sex with him tonight

464
00:34:07,053 --> 00:34:08,833
and never see him again.

465
00:34:09,042 --> 00:34:13,291
Why aren't you
looking for a relationship?

466
00:34:14,917 --> 00:34:17,041
Yes and no...

467
00:34:17,250 --> 00:34:20,833
- Do you have a bedside table?
- Night table?

468
00:34:21,042 --> 00:34:22,465
Yes, I have two.

469
00:34:22,515 --> 00:34:26,833
I keep them in stock
while I'm in the cottage.

470
00:34:27,042 --> 00:34:28,916
Why do you ask me this?

471
00:34:36,167 --> 00:34:38,958
- Are you coming down here?
- Are you continuing?

472
00:34:39,084 --> 00:34:40,041
Good luck.

473
00:34:40,250 --> 00:34:42,249
- Thank you.
- Until we meet again.

474
00:36:02,042 --> 00:36:02,916
HI.

475
00:36:04,417 --> 00:36:05,791
HI.

476
00:36:07,125 --> 00:36:08,916
Did you have a nice evening?

477
00:36:09,125 --> 00:36:10,999
Nice evening?

478
00:36:12,417 --> 00:36:14,583
I worked.

479
00:36:14,792 --> 00:36:18,916
- And now? Do you go home to your partner?
- No.

480
00:36:19,125 --> 00:36:21,999
No, I don't have a partner.

481
00:36:23,792 --> 00:36:27,208
- Why did you work so late?
- I had a patient.

482
00:36:27,417 --> 00:36:29,833
- I'm a psychologist.
- Oh!

483
00:36:30,042 --> 00:36:33,041
Right?
I think so too.

484
00:36:33,250 --> 00:36:34,666
Ouch.

485
00:36:36,917 --> 00:36:40,041
Well, how's it going?

486
00:36:40,250 --> 00:36:46,083
Right now, it feels like work
in a factory. On the assembly line.

487
00:36:46,292 --> 00:36:48,208
In what sense?

488
00:36:48,417 --> 00:36:50,291
In what sense...

489
00:36:52,417 --> 00:36:54,208
I mean...

490
00:36:54,417 --> 00:36:58,708
If you grew up with the expectation

491
00:36:58,917 --> 00:37:05,124
that nothing in life
should never be painful or stimulating,

492
00:37:05,250 --> 00:37:08,583
you will fall apart at the
minimal hint of adversity.

493
00:37:08,750 --> 00:37:12,291
You think having a bad one
day is not normal.

494
00:37:12,500 --> 00:37:14,541
And that you need treatment.

495
00:37:16,167 --> 00:37:19,916
It almost seems wrong to say it,
but I...

496
00:37:21,167 --> 00:37:26,916
sometimes, I just want to say
them to get together.

497
00:37:27,125 --> 00:37:29,541
It would be much cheaper.

498
00:37:30,667 --> 00:37:33,541
Ok...
I saw you on Grindr.

499
00:37:34,667 --> 00:37:39,458
- I'm not that interested in...
- I can leave.

500
00:37:39,667 --> 00:37:43,541
Not at all, feel free to stay.

501
00:37:44,667 --> 00:37:49,458
Other than that, you're looking
a partner or just sex?

502
00:37:49,667 --> 00:37:54,458
- Sex? Nothing is "just" sex.
- No?

503
00:37:54,667 --> 00:37:56,541
Well, no...

504
00:37:57,667 --> 00:38:00,458
I don't think so. Not for the
most, anyway.

505
00:38:00,667 --> 00:38:03,874
But maybe you are someone
who has a lot of sex?

506
00:38:04,084 --> 00:38:08,458
Yes.
I guess... yes.

507
00:38:08,667 --> 00:38:12,458
- With many different partners?
- Yes.

508
00:38:12,667 --> 00:38:15,541
- No stable partner?
- No, I...

509
00:38:16,667 --> 00:38:20,541
- I'll sit here, if that's okay.
- All right.

510
00:38:21,667 --> 00:38:24,541
I'm fine without it
a permanent partner.

511
00:38:27,167 --> 00:38:28,958
How is it, then?

512
00:38:29,167 --> 00:38:32,041
Having sex nowadays?

513
00:38:33,792 --> 00:38:37,458
Bene, � ...
Are you kidding?

514
00:38:37,625 --> 00:38:39,416
- No.
- No?

515
00:38:39,625 --> 00:38:42,958
What is it like to have sex nowadays...

516
00:38:43,167 --> 00:38:46,541
Bene.
What do you mean, exactly?

517
00:38:47,334 --> 00:38:50,708
I do not know...
Do you feel safe?

518
00:38:50,917 --> 00:38:52,791
Safe?
S�.

519
00:38:54,292 --> 00:38:56,958
But no, not everyone feels like it.

520
00:38:57,084 --> 00:38:59,458
Some bodies are so tense you can see

521
00:38:59,667 --> 00:39:03,624
how much they try to
squeeze anything.

522
00:39:03,750 --> 00:39:07,458
Whether it's seed or emotions.

523
00:39:07,667 --> 00:39:09,736
But they could have
watch a lot of porn.

524
00:39:09,786 --> 00:39:12,160
Right.
So you wouldn't recommend it?

525
00:39:12,167 --> 00:39:14,166
Porn?
Certain.

526
00:39:14,334 --> 00:39:19,658
It might help you find out
what do you like, if anything.

527
00:39:19,667 --> 00:39:21,333
Kinky stuff?

528
00:39:22,584 --> 00:39:26,041
Perverse...
What is perverse, then?

529
00:39:27,917 --> 00:39:29,791
Not especially here?

530
00:39:32,667 --> 00:39:38,208
I do not know. I think the majority
some things can be beautiful.

531
00:39:38,334 --> 00:39:41,708
I enjoy being fucked by
many men at the same time.

532
00:39:41,917 --> 00:39:45,708
Or pissing inside me.

533
00:39:45,917 --> 00:39:49,791
I think both
can be very exciting.

534
00:39:51,334 --> 00:39:55,708
But when it happens, not
I consider it a perversion.

535
00:39:55,917 --> 00:39:58,583
- No?
- Good.

536
00:39:58,792 --> 00:40:00,166
Oh beautiful.

537
00:40:02,667 --> 00:40:05,541
But maybe that's what you mean
for perversion?

538
00:40:07,042 --> 00:40:09,458
No, I...

539
00:40:09,667 --> 00:40:11,374
I don't know.

540
00:40:13,917 --> 00:40:19,208
You are not interested in
nothing? No sex or a boyfriend?

541
00:40:20,667 --> 00:40:22,708
As if they were opposite things?

542
00:40:22,917 --> 00:40:27,416
Most of the
Don't people want both?

543
00:40:27,584 --> 00:40:32,291
Both many sexual partners and
someone who loves you exclusively?

544
00:40:32,500 --> 00:40:36,999
- Isn't that the dilemma?
- It doesn't need to be.

545
00:40:40,209 --> 00:40:45,083
I'm so inconsiderate.
I didn't ask you what you do.

546
00:40:45,250 --> 00:40:48,833
Or if you've been through one
nice evening, or else.

547
00:40:49,042 --> 00:40:52,458
I'm sorry about this.
I was downright rude.

548
00:40:52,667 --> 00:40:58,041
I'm not usually this self-centered. It is
It was really nice of you to come.

549
00:40:58,250 --> 00:41:02,999
I appreciated it, so you know.
But now we're getting there.

550
00:41:04,167 --> 00:41:07,416
- I think he'll go back inside.
- Certain.

551
00:41:07,584 --> 00:41:09,916
Have a good evening.

552
00:41:14,125 --> 00:41:16,583
What is your name?

553
00:41:16,792 --> 00:41:19,916
- Bj�rn.
- Bj�rn...

554
00:41:21,042 --> 00:41:24,041
My name is Tor.

555
00:41:24,250 --> 00:41:25,916
I understand.

556
00:41:27,125 --> 00:41:28,666
Goodbye, Tor.

557
00:41:29,792 --> 00:41:31,374
Goodbye, Bj�rn.

558
00:41:38,667 --> 00:41:40,458
<i>Will he die?</i>

559
00:41:40,584 --> 00:41:43,708
<i>No, he won't die.</i>

560
00:41:43,917 --> 00:41:45,916
It's just that...

561
00:41:49,792 --> 00:41:52,583
I don't feel like
someone who has cancer.

562
00:41:52,792 --> 00:41:54,833
No...

563
00:41:55,042 --> 00:41:58,041
I realize that
This is very painful news.

564
00:41:59,084 --> 00:42:02,166
But he came to me early.
It came at the beginning.

565
00:42:02,375 --> 00:42:06,666
- He'll be fine.
- Okay...

566
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,291
The prognosis is excellent.
Consider it.

567
00:42:11,500 --> 00:42:14,291
But you told me that
Should I undergo therapy?

568
00:42:14,459 --> 00:42:17,208
We will find you the best treatment.

569
00:42:17,375 --> 00:42:22,958
It would be chemotherapy,
radiotherapy or surgery, right?

570
00:42:23,125 --> 00:42:26,083
Most likely, yes.

571
00:42:26,292 --> 00:42:28,958
I'm not able...

572
00:42:29,125 --> 00:42:31,708
I can't do this!

573
00:42:31,875 --> 00:42:36,708
I can't be that guy
bald guy on TV talking about it openly.

574
00:42:36,917 --> 00:42:39,916
But he won't have to.

575
00:42:40,125 --> 00:42:45,083
- No, no one should do that.
- I'm not like that!

576
00:42:45,292 --> 00:42:47,624
Thursday, August 14

577
00:42:47,750 --> 00:42:49,458
I think so.

578
00:42:49,667 --> 00:42:51,910
It says here that he is a cabaret artist.

579
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:53,208
Have you heard of him?

580
00:42:53,417 --> 00:42:56,958
Yes. You find it difficult
feel empathy?

581
00:42:57,008 --> 00:42:58,499
Ninth.

582
00:42:58,667 --> 00:43:03,874
I have a lot of empathy for him. But no
you will benefit financially.

583
00:43:04,042 --> 00:43:08,583
It will garner a lot of sympathy on
Instagram, I will write books...

584
00:43:08,792 --> 00:43:11,915
But it kind of goes
good. It could help others.

585
00:43:11,917 --> 00:43:16,124
It will be another example of success
on how to deal with the disease.

586
00:43:16,292 --> 00:43:20,708
It may make others feel like failures
for not being able to do so.

587
00:43:20,917 --> 00:43:23,916
- I understand.
- Who knows? Shall we have lunch together?

588
00:43:24,084 --> 00:43:25,766
No, I'll take some time off.

589
00:43:25,816 --> 00:43:28,708
Josef replaced me.
There he is.

590
00:43:28,917 --> 00:43:33,166
- Hey.
- A "Joel" just called you.

591
00:43:33,334 --> 00:43:34,121
Joel?

592
00:43:34,171 --> 00:43:36,583
Personal.
He wanted me to call him back.

593
00:43:36,750 --> 00:43:39,499
It might have been
"Hoel"? Ole Harald Hoel?

594
00:43:39,625 --> 00:43:40,749
I'm confused.

595
00:43:40,917 --> 00:43:44,624
- I'll make a quick call.
- Certain. I go.

596
00:43:44,750 --> 00:43:46,416
- All right. Until we meet again.
- Until we meet again.

597
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,708
- Anyone you know?
- Perhaps?

598
00:44:22,667 --> 00:44:25,833
HI!
Do you recognize me?

599
00:44:26,042 --> 00:44:28,083
- The one from the ferry?
- Yes.

600
00:44:28,292 --> 00:44:30,041
Are you coming home?

601
00:44:31,417 --> 00:44:33,291
Something wrong?

602
00:44:34,667 --> 00:44:37,458
Hey...let me see.

603
00:44:37,667 --> 00:44:40,458
- Can you breathe?
- I don't know what's happening to me.

604
00:44:40,667 --> 00:44:42,458
Can you lift your arm?

605
00:44:42,667 --> 00:44:46,458
Hey, can you lift your arm?
Okay, good.

606
00:44:46,667 --> 00:44:49,541
- I am fine.
- Look at me.

607
00:44:50,667 --> 00:44:54,083
It sounds like you have a problem.

608
00:44:54,250 --> 00:44:56,833
Have you received bad news?

609
00:44:57,042 --> 00:44:59,374
- I am fine.
- Yes?

610
00:45:00,917 --> 00:45:02,541
Thank you.

611
00:45:05,667 --> 00:45:07,541
- Hey...
- Listen, I'm fine.

612
00:45:08,667 --> 00:45:11,541
- Are you sure?
- Yes, completely.

613
00:45:40,167 --> 00:45:43,041
"I have an innate love for humanity.

614
00:45:44,167 --> 00:45:45,916
For all humans.

615
00:45:46,125 --> 00:45:48,958
And also compassion.

616
00:45:49,167 --> 00:45:52,499
I don't think I'm cut out
to have only one man.

617
00:45:52,709 --> 00:45:57,291
It seems almost childish
love only one human being.

618
00:45:57,500 --> 00:45:59,958
I could never be faithful.

619
00:46:00,167 --> 00:46:05,041
Not because of other men, but because
I'm made up of many people"

620
00:46:06,292 --> 00:46:08,666
What book is it?

621
00:46:09,750 --> 00:46:13,916
It's a diary.
Etty Hillesum is the author.

622
00:46:14,084 --> 00:46:17,290
It was his name. I'm reading
his diaries and letters.

623
00:46:17,292 --> 00:46:21,491
I've been reading the last while
I came here. I like it so much.

624
00:46:21,500 --> 00:46:23,958
- Do you think it's for me?
- I don't know.

625
00:46:24,167 --> 00:46:26,958
I can lend it to you when I finish it.

626
00:46:27,167 --> 00:46:33,333
- What are you reading? Something?
- I mainly read scientific literature.

627
00:46:34,375 --> 00:46:37,416
I'm not a fan of stories.

628
00:46:37,625 --> 00:46:40,208
"Then it happened,
Then it happened..."

629
00:46:40,417 --> 00:46:45,791
- It doesn't seem real to me.
- Real. A diary is different, however.

630
00:46:46,917 --> 00:46:53,583
It's unpredictable and...
made up of things past and present.

631
00:46:53,792 --> 00:46:57,041
It has no retroactive logic.

632
00:46:58,625 --> 00:47:01,416
I read mostly about rocks.

633
00:47:01,625 --> 00:47:05,583
I also write about rocks. I think
to write more than I read.

634
00:47:05,792 --> 00:47:10,208
- I understand.
- I usually sit in that chair.

635
00:47:10,417 --> 00:47:13,124
- And I write.
- Speaking of rocks.

636
00:47:13,334 --> 00:47:17,583
On the rocks.
Wrapped in a blanket.

637
00:47:17,792 --> 00:47:19,583
Trial.
It's comfortable.

638
00:47:19,792 --> 00:47:21,541
Thank you.

639
00:47:25,167 --> 00:47:29,958
So this is where you sit
with your laptop and write?

640
00:47:30,167 --> 00:47:32,208
Well, I write mostly by hand.

641
00:47:32,417 --> 00:47:33,916
Really?

642
00:48:01,334 --> 00:48:05,083
It occurred to me that no
he sees people's handwriting more.

643
00:48:05,292 --> 00:48:06,833
Well, this is mine.

644
00:48:07,042 --> 00:48:08,916
What do you think?

645
00:48:15,667 --> 00:48:19,124
"It seems austere.
This is mine"

646
00:48:20,667 --> 00:48:23,249
Thanks.
It seems...

647
00:48:24,792 --> 00:48:26,541
old fashioned?

648
00:48:29,417 --> 00:48:33,708
- Oh well.
- But I have to apologize.

649
00:48:34,834 --> 00:48:37,958
I intended to
prepare dinner for you.

650
00:48:39,042 --> 00:48:41,458
I like cooking.

651
00:48:41,667 --> 00:48:44,416
But things are not
go as planned today.

652
00:48:44,584 --> 00:48:47,166
Dinner was fantastic.

653
00:48:48,667 --> 00:48:49,999
But...

654
00:48:52,042 --> 00:48:54,708
Urologist...?

655
00:48:54,917 --> 00:48:57,291
Yes, urologist.

656
00:48:57,500 --> 00:48:59,708
I was thinking...

657
00:48:59,917 --> 00:49:05,541
The abdomen,
this part of the body, �...

658
00:49:06,417 --> 00:49:10,541
the one we consider most intimate.

659
00:49:11,667 --> 00:49:15,208
It can be a source of pleasure.

660
00:49:15,417 --> 00:49:21,041
But we also associate it with urination, with
defecate, things that people find repulsive.

661
00:49:22,375 --> 00:49:29,791
Therefore, we associate it with the
shame, whether the area works or not.

662
00:49:31,667 --> 00:49:34,999
- But... geologist?
- Yes.

663
00:49:36,125 --> 00:49:38,666
- Explain, please.
- Well...

664
00:49:39,792 --> 00:49:47,291
Many become geologists for
work in the oil industry.

665
00:49:47,500 --> 00:49:52,708
It might have been too
my goal, before starting.

666
00:49:52,917 --> 00:49:55,958
Before giving up
realize what the stone was.

667
00:49:56,167 --> 00:49:59,291
- Before becoming a fan of the stone.
- Yes... yes?

668
00:49:59,500 --> 00:50:03,249
At this point, the stone could be
the most important thing in my life.

669
00:50:03,459 --> 00:50:06,208
And I can...

670
00:50:06,417 --> 00:50:11,208
I can hear the stones singing.

671
00:50:14,792 --> 00:50:17,291
If I...

672
00:50:17,500 --> 00:50:19,458
and I like doing it...

673
00:50:19,667 --> 00:50:24,916
if I lie down on a rock or
very close to the sea...

674
00:50:25,084 --> 00:50:31,166
and I press my ear
against the rock, I feel it.

675
00:50:33,292 --> 00:50:37,041
There is no magical thinking involved.

676
00:50:37,250 --> 00:50:40,833
It's just a combination

677
00:50:41,042 --> 00:50:44,124
of the physical sensation of the stone

678
00:50:44,250 --> 00:50:47,208
against the skin and everything I know about stone.

679
00:50:47,417 --> 00:50:54,833
I guess it's one
fusion of knowledge

680
00:50:55,042 --> 00:50:59,291
and the physical sensation it gives
the sense of a living pulse.

681
00:51:00,500 --> 00:51:06,833
It's something I can feel,
but you can do it too.

682
00:51:07,042 --> 00:51:09,333
You can feel it too.

683
00:51:09,542 --> 00:51:12,208
 �...
It works the same way.

684
00:51:14,667 --> 00:51:17,624
When I started my master's degree,

685
00:51:17,750 --> 00:51:24,833
I had a friend who made me a
model of Oslo topography.

686
00:51:25,042 --> 00:51:33,458
It was the first time
I discovered the poetic aspect of...

687
00:51:33,667 --> 00:51:36,208
I would love to see that model.

688
00:51:36,417 --> 00:51:39,166
- Well, I still have it.
- No, really?

689
00:51:39,375 --> 00:51:41,083
Yes?

690
00:51:41,292 --> 00:51:43,124
Yes, yes.

691
00:52:04,167 --> 00:52:05,166
Wow!

692
00:52:07,750 --> 00:52:10,249
- It's pretty big!
- Yes.

693
00:52:12,250 --> 00:52:14,666
- Nice, right?
- Very!

694
00:52:17,084 --> 00:52:22,208
I love that every species
has its own color.

695
00:52:22,334 --> 00:52:25,958
You have a sense of their properties.

696
00:52:26,084 --> 00:52:30,041
- What is it?
- This is shale.

697
00:52:31,125 --> 00:52:33,166
And this one here?

698
00:52:35,125 --> 00:52:36,999
Limestone.

699
00:53:04,917 --> 00:53:06,708
What are you thinking?

700
00:53:06,917 --> 00:53:09,999
To your skin.
I really like.

701
00:53:12,125 --> 00:53:16,708
And I love that you are like that
passionate about your profession.

702
00:53:16,917 --> 00:53:19,999
Yes?
I'm also interested in other things.

703
00:53:22,125 --> 00:53:27,916
The one I love most in the whole world,
It's spending time with my daughters.

704
00:53:28,125 --> 00:53:30,916
They are the most
important part of my life.

705
00:53:31,125 --> 00:53:36,916
You didn't just say they were
the rocks? What will it be, the rocks or the girls?

706
00:53:37,125 --> 00:53:42,999
Both. It's not like
if I had to choose.

707
00:53:44,125 --> 00:53:48,999
It's only language that makes us
think that way.

708
00:53:53,375 --> 00:53:55,708
What?

709
00:53:55,917 --> 00:54:01,791
I'm just listening to you. I think
that you might like this book.

710
00:54:04,042 --> 00:54:06,916
It may be that you
Would you like to spend the night here?

711
00:54:08,042 --> 00:54:09,916
Yes, I would like that.

712
00:54:10,750 --> 00:54:14,416
But I don't think he will stay.
I think I'll leave.

713
00:55:20,834 --> 00:55:24,791
- Would it be okay if I sat here?
- Certain.

714
00:55:30,750 --> 00:55:33,208
- Well...
- Yes?

715
00:55:33,417 --> 00:55:36,833
- Yes...
- What brings you here, on this ferry?

716
00:55:37,042 --> 00:55:40,666
I visited someone.
Now I'm going home.

717
00:55:40,875 --> 00:55:42,916
- Who did you meet?
- A friend.

718
00:55:43,125 --> 00:55:45,958
- For lunch?
- Dinner.

719
00:55:46,167 --> 00:55:48,208
"Dinner on Nesodden"?

720
00:55:48,417 --> 00:55:50,624
It sounds like a folk album.

721
00:55:52,417 --> 00:55:54,791
Candles, harmonica...

722
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:58,958
- Conspiracy theories.
- Certain. I like folk music.

723
00:55:59,167 --> 00:56:01,041
Certain.
Me too.

724
00:56:02,667 --> 00:56:04,666
And you?
Have you worked?

725
00:56:04,875 --> 00:56:09,166
I'm renovating a house. I have
installed flooring throughout the day.

726
00:56:12,167 --> 00:56:13,916
Damnation.

727
00:56:14,084 --> 00:56:18,708
- It's supposed to rain today.
- Is it a shame he didn't do it?

728
00:56:18,917 --> 00:56:22,041
It's nice to swim when it rains.

729
00:56:27,625 --> 00:56:31,749
When I finish work,
I usually go swimming.

730
00:56:33,125 --> 00:56:36,166
The people I work for
they have a swimming pool.

731
00:56:38,625 --> 00:56:41,958
- Don't like swimming?
- I love it.

732
00:56:44,167 --> 00:56:47,624
What do you do when you don't
are you out swimming?

733
00:56:48,750 --> 00:56:51,083
Not so much.

734
00:56:51,292 --> 00:56:54,708
- I do crosswords.
- Crossword?

735
00:56:54,917 --> 00:56:57,916
- You too?
- No. I read.

736
00:56:58,125 --> 00:57:00,416
Oh, I see.

737
00:57:00,625 --> 00:57:05,583
You like words that
do they follow one another in a sequence?

738
00:57:05,792 --> 00:57:07,184
Certain.

739
00:57:07,234 --> 00:57:11,458
I understand. I prefer them
a little more mixed.

740
00:57:11,584 --> 00:57:15,433
A kind of chaos to make sense of.

741
00:57:15,483 --> 00:57:16,749
Right.

742
00:57:19,625 --> 00:57:23,583
You have really beautiful hair.

743
00:57:23,792 --> 00:57:26,541
- Thank you.
- Can I...

744
00:57:39,292 --> 00:57:45,583
You know what we could have done
what if we had a car?

745
00:57:45,750 --> 00:57:50,791
We could have driven to Paradise Bay,
to swim and then make love.

746
00:57:51,917 --> 00:57:53,458
We could have done it.

747
00:57:53,625 --> 00:57:56,208
We really could.

748
00:57:56,417 --> 00:58:00,833
But... there are others
places beyond Paradise Bay.

749
00:59:59,875 --> 01:00:03,083
Are you laughing?
Did you find it funny?

750
01:00:03,292 --> 01:00:07,416
I am very happy to have you
encountered. I've never done this before.

751
01:00:07,584 --> 01:00:10,695
At least not like this
spontaneously. And you?

752
01:00:10,745 --> 01:00:12,708
Yes, of course.
I... yes.

753
01:00:12,917 --> 01:00:18,083
Quite often,
actually. Depends.

754
01:00:18,292 --> 01:00:24,708
My wife is visiting
to his parents. His father is ill.

755
01:00:24,917 --> 01:00:27,958
Which gives me more time for myself.

756
01:00:28,167 --> 01:00:32,416
- Oh. Are you married?
- Certain. Are you not?

757
01:00:32,584 --> 01:00:36,541
- No.
- I thought we both were.

758
01:00:36,750 --> 01:00:39,708
- Oh.
- Okay.

759
01:00:39,917 --> 01:00:44,541
Good, good.
You look married.

760
01:00:44,750 --> 01:00:47,708
Did it surprise you?
You seem surprised.

761
01:00:47,917 --> 01:00:52,208
Married and surprised?
Yes, maybe a little surprised.

762
01:00:52,417 --> 01:00:55,541
Mainly by the fact that you
is on Tinder and is married.

763
01:00:55,750 --> 01:00:58,333
You're not afraid of that
Does your wife find out?

764
01:00:58,383 --> 01:01:00,458
He's not on Tinder, right?

765
01:01:00,667 --> 01:01:02,954
I do not know.
But his friends, perhaps.

766
01:01:03,004 --> 01:01:03,749
Ninth.

767
01:01:09,417 --> 01:01:14,208
You might not believe me,
but I really love my wife.

768
01:01:14,417 --> 01:01:18,958
We have been married for 20 years. We will be
together with Voss this weekend.

769
01:01:19,167 --> 01:01:22,999
- Are you from Voss?
- Yes. Me and my wife too.

770
01:01:25,292 --> 01:01:31,166
Where I grew up there was half
km. between the house and the mailbox.

771
01:01:32,167 --> 01:01:34,708
This counts for something.

772
01:01:34,917 --> 01:01:39,416
You can't imagine the expectations
that are created during that walk.

773
01:01:39,584 --> 01:01:43,916
- I'm from Dokka.
- Certain. Then you know what I mean.

774
01:01:44,125 --> 01:01:47,541
I imagine your box too
post office was quite far away.

775
01:01:47,750 --> 01:01:51,833
- Not half a kilometer.
- No, but you know what I mean.

776
01:01:52,042 --> 01:01:55,458
Then you also understand that it isn't there
no connection

777
01:01:55,584 --> 01:01:58,666
between expectations and the life you lead.

778
01:01:58,834 --> 01:02:02,458
But aren't you married?
- No. - Okay.

779
01:02:02,667 --> 01:02:05,541
Well, if you say so.
You know it better than anyone.

780
01:02:05,750 --> 01:02:09,916
I heard it was there
something different about you.

781
01:02:10,084 --> 01:02:15,083
I don't know about you, but most women
unmarried expects something more.

782
01:02:15,292 --> 01:02:17,999
They might not admit it, but...

783
01:02:19,625 --> 01:02:24,624
I have a friend and we are strongly
disagree on this, but he...

784
01:02:25,917 --> 01:02:30,458
He thinks that every woman he meets
on Tinder is a prostitute.

785
01:02:30,625 --> 01:02:36,208
I have never been with a prostitute.

786
01:02:36,417 --> 01:02:39,541
He did, before Tinder.
But I don't.

787
01:02:39,750 --> 01:02:44,624
He told me that Tinder
It's a "free brothel".

788
01:02:46,417 --> 01:02:49,958
And in a way, it is.
But not only that.

789
01:02:50,167 --> 01:02:53,958
Because I see a lot
women who prostitute themselves,

790
01:02:54,167 --> 01:02:57,678
but they have too high expectations,

791
01:02:57,728 --> 01:03:00,208
which are impossible to reach.

792
01:03:00,417 --> 01:03:03,166
And this makes me feel guilty.

793
01:03:06,667 --> 01:03:09,208
And that's why I... No.

794
01:03:09,417 --> 01:03:15,666
I think if you're married, le
your expectations are lower.

795
01:03:15,875 --> 01:03:17,999
And that...

796
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:26,166
- Did I express myself badly?
- Not at all.

797
01:03:29,792 --> 01:03:32,541
You don't feel guilty
towards your wife?

798
01:03:32,750 --> 01:03:35,666
Of course yes.
Extremely.

799
01:03:35,834 --> 01:03:39,666
Of course I feel guilty,
but it's completely different!

800
01:03:44,417 --> 01:03:50,916
You probably think I am
the biggest asshole on the planet.

801
01:03:51,084 --> 01:03:54,291
But there's so much sex in me.

802
01:03:54,500 --> 01:03:57,458
And I...

803
01:03:57,667 --> 01:04:01,791
I really like people!
People are...

804
01:04:03,167 --> 01:04:08,583
You seem like a good person,
and what we just shared...

805
01:04:08,750 --> 01:04:13,458
It's something
completely different from...

806
01:04:13,584 --> 01:04:15,666
something with someone else.

807
01:04:17,125 --> 01:04:21,374
So I think: why
does it have to be that wrong?

808
01:04:23,792 --> 01:04:26,791
Of course it weighs on the
my bad conscience.

809
01:04:31,667 --> 01:04:34,166
I think you screwed it up a bit
this meeting.

810
01:04:35,584 --> 01:04:39,999
- Why? Did I say something wrong?
- No, I'm just...

811
01:04:41,625 --> 01:04:43,999
I think I should go home.

812
01:04:46,667 --> 01:04:49,833
You don't really know me.

813
01:04:50,042 --> 01:04:51,916
But I'm...

814
01:04:53,500 --> 01:04:55,833
I'm a good guy.

815
01:04:56,042 --> 01:05:00,083
Yes, I truly believe you are.
You're a good boy.

816
01:05:00,250 --> 01:05:03,208
Absolutely.
But...

817
01:05:03,417 --> 01:05:08,708
Don't you want to stay for a while?
You seem so tense.

818
01:05:08,917 --> 01:05:11,708
No, I... I'm going home.

819
01:05:11,917 --> 01:05:14,541
- Thanks for tonight. It was nice.
- Thank you.

820
01:05:15,792 --> 01:05:17,374
Until we meet again.

821
01:05:28,959 --> 01:05:32,833
Sunday 17 August

822
01:06:11,792 --> 01:06:15,208
Monday 18 August

823
01:06:30,042 --> 01:06:33,916
He really said that Tinder
Is it a free brothel?

824
01:06:36,792 --> 01:06:39,583
- Yes.
- What does this make you, a prostitute?

825
01:06:39,792 --> 01:06:44,208
Yes, or him.
I had no other intentions.

826
01:06:44,334 --> 01:06:47,083
I just wanted to have sex with him.

827
01:06:47,292 --> 01:06:50,166
We wanted the same thing,
and that's what happened.

828
01:06:50,375 --> 01:06:53,583
Afterwards, he said things
that no woman would have said.

829
01:06:53,792 --> 01:06:57,666
But I'm not sure that makes it
a bad person, morally.

830
01:06:58,792 --> 01:07:00,583
Well, he was married.

831
01:07:00,792 --> 01:07:03,624
Maybe I wouldn't have gone to bed
with him if I had known.

832
01:07:03,792 --> 01:07:06,624
- It really bothers me.
- What?

833
01:07:06,750 --> 01:07:10,124
That you pass directly from
making out with Ole Harald

834
01:07:10,292 --> 01:07:16,166
to have sex with someone
random stranger near the port.

835
01:07:16,375 --> 01:07:18,749
But it wasn't problematic at all.

836
01:07:18,917 --> 01:07:23,124
It made me really happy. I am
felt so free, in a certain sense.

837
01:07:23,292 --> 01:07:28,499
A casual proximity to one
unknown can feel really good.

838
01:07:28,667 --> 01:07:32,999
You talk as if you've never had sex
occasional before, but you did.

839
01:07:33,125 --> 01:07:36,708
Maybe it was the situation:
meet on the ferry.

840
01:07:36,875 --> 01:07:39,624
It was much less
demanding of an appointment.

841
01:07:39,792 --> 01:07:43,708
It's not like organizing a meeting
via Tinder, or sitting in a bar,

842
01:07:43,917 --> 01:07:46,083
which is more like a transaction.

843
01:07:46,292 --> 01:07:50,666
No, it was simply a free space.
We met on an equal footing.

844
01:07:53,917 --> 01:07:57,708
- Am I boring you?
- No, but you have to wear ...

845
01:07:57,917 --> 01:08:00,791
Wear them,
because they are about to...

846
01:08:30,042 --> 01:08:33,458
- Hey.
- HI. I checked the rooms.

847
01:08:33,667 --> 01:08:37,583
And they're pretty nice, but
it would be much nicer to do it here.

848
01:08:37,750 --> 01:08:43,833
With a sound system, it can
it can be experienced by the whole city.

849
01:08:44,042 --> 01:08:47,749
- Has the project been approved?
- No.

850
01:08:47,750 --> 01:08:52,083
- It looks like he will fail.
- Failed? Why? When?

851
01:08:52,292 --> 01:08:57,374
This morning. I was going to tell you, but
then you told me that sex story.

852
01:08:57,375 --> 01:09:03,166
We want to do something anyway.
A number up here, a filmed show.

853
01:09:03,375 --> 01:09:04,583
That would be really nice.

854
01:09:04,625 --> 01:09:07,958
We'll have to see what we can afford.

855
01:09:08,167 --> 01:09:10,583
It hasn't been decided yet.

856
01:09:10,792 --> 01:09:14,749
Now there is a lot of interest
for a project involving Knausg�rd

857
01:09:14,792 --> 01:09:20,916
who curates an exhibition on artists during
the Second World War. Partisan art.

858
01:09:22,625 --> 01:09:26,791
I'm going to talk to the
carillonneur, and I'll be back later.

859
01:09:29,500 --> 01:09:32,958
I worked on it so much.
It gave me so much energy.

860
01:09:33,167 --> 01:09:37,583
And now I have to work with Knausg�rd
and the Second World War?

861
01:09:37,750 --> 01:09:42,416
I feel miserable and drained.
I just want to stop.

862
01:09:42,625 --> 01:09:44,833
You can't stop.

863
01:09:45,042 --> 01:09:48,708
I'm in crisis too
for the things you are doing.

864
01:09:48,917 --> 01:09:51,416
I can't get over this, Marianne.

865
01:09:51,625 --> 01:09:54,206
Straight from making out with the geologist,

866
01:09:54,256 --> 01:09:56,291
to have sex with the carpenter!

867
01:09:57,417 --> 01:10:00,129
You, the most person
manager I know!

868
01:10:00,179 --> 01:10:02,541
Do you think I'm irresponsible?

869
01:10:02,542 --> 01:10:06,083
- I do not know.
- I do not believe.

870
01:10:06,292 --> 01:10:08,833
I think my morals are very strict.

871
01:10:09,042 --> 01:10:13,708
I'm not just about sex, but
rather about how we treat each other.

872
01:10:13,917 --> 01:10:18,124
This is exactly what you said
so good during the city hall tour!

873
01:10:18,292 --> 01:10:21,416
You talked about freedom,
of sexual freedom...

874
01:10:21,625 --> 01:10:25,708
Yes, and a lot of it comes from you.

875
01:10:25,917 --> 01:10:28,374
It was all about you.
Surely you realised?

876
01:10:28,500 --> 01:10:33,833
- Do things I could never do.
- But would you have liked it?

877
01:10:34,042 --> 01:10:36,041
Oh, I don't know.

878
01:10:36,250 --> 01:10:39,416
I think I feel threatened,
in a certain sense.

879
01:10:39,625 --> 01:10:42,749
That freedom of yours. Yours
transgressive behavior.

880
01:10:42,917 --> 01:10:45,083
What does that make me?

881
01:10:45,292 --> 01:10:51,583
A shy, submissive, boring person,
who is afraid to live?

882
01:10:51,792 --> 01:10:54,999
- It's not about that, Heidi.
- I know, deep down.

883
01:10:55,209 --> 01:10:57,648
But when I talk to you,
I think so.

884
01:10:57,698 --> 01:10:59,416
You make me think like that.

885
01:10:59,625 --> 01:11:02,041
This doesn't mean my life is boring,

886
01:11:02,250 --> 01:11:05,708
even if I don't sleep
with random carpenters.

887
01:11:05,917 --> 01:11:08,450
Having sex with that carpenter

888
01:11:08,500 --> 01:11:13,416
doesn't make me completely free,
nor does it make my life wonderful.

889
01:11:13,584 --> 01:11:16,583
I'm not even that interested in sex.

890
01:11:16,750 --> 01:11:21,874
It just happened, as with any
something else, and I really liked it.

891
01:11:22,042 --> 01:11:26,923
Well. But things also get complicated
for me regarding Ole Harald.

892
01:11:26,973 --> 01:11:28,583
He's a friend!

893
01:11:28,792 --> 01:11:30,233
I met him on the ferry.

894
01:11:30,283 --> 01:11:34,083
He had a great time and
He couldn't wait to call you.

895
01:11:34,292 --> 01:11:37,041
No, really?
This is so nice to hear!

896
01:11:38,167 --> 01:11:43,291
Heidi, I really like it.
I think it's fantastic.

897
01:11:43,500 --> 01:11:46,458
What are you saying?
Will you see him again?

898
01:11:46,508 --> 01:11:48,083
I might, who knows?

899
01:11:48,292 --> 01:11:51,583
But I'm pretty sure
that we won't become a couple.

900
01:11:51,792 --> 01:11:56,208
This became clear when he said that
his girls were more important than anything.

901
01:11:56,417 --> 01:12:01,166
- Why? Do you want to be the most important?
- No, of course not.

902
01:12:01,334 --> 01:12:04,583
It hit me
how complicated it is.

903
01:12:04,792 --> 01:12:08,916
His daughters should be there
most important thing in his life.

904
01:12:09,125 --> 01:12:13,291
But they may not feel that way
if someone else came into their life.

905
01:12:13,500 --> 01:12:19,083
- You can't think like that, Marianne.
- No? I too am a child of divorce.

906
01:12:19,292 --> 01:12:22,583
Don't think about your daughters
that would be really selfish!

907
01:12:22,792 --> 01:12:27,166
If I start dating Ole Harald,
I have to be involved in his life.

908
01:12:27,334 --> 01:12:30,701
It's not a good thing,
be involved in someone's life?

909
01:12:30,751 --> 01:12:32,083
Your daughters will love you.

910
01:12:32,292 --> 01:12:34,916
Yes, maybe, but...

911
01:12:35,125 --> 01:12:38,041
being involved means
take responsibility.

912
01:12:38,250 --> 01:12:40,916
And that family has problems.

913
01:12:41,125 --> 01:12:45,208
Two insecure daughters and an ex
wife next to her drinking.

914
01:12:45,417 --> 01:12:48,416
Do you think Solveig has
a problem with drinking?

915
01:12:48,625 --> 01:12:50,291
- Yes.
- I do not believe.

916
01:12:50,500 --> 01:12:54,541
That was typical behavior
alcoholic. He reminded me of my father.

917
01:12:55,917 --> 01:13:00,291
Well, if you see all this,
the insecure daughters and...

918
01:13:00,500 --> 01:13:04,458
- It's not exactly that...
- Should I get involved? No.

919
01:13:04,625 --> 01:13:10,083
I am not suited for this responsibility.
The responsible move is to stay away.

920
01:13:10,292 --> 01:13:14,208
He's just cynical, Marianne.

921
01:13:14,417 --> 01:13:18,141
I think that be
involved is more cynical.

922
01:13:18,191 --> 01:13:19,416
No!

923
01:13:19,625 --> 01:13:24,208
I feel in my heart that you are wrong.

924
01:13:24,417 --> 01:13:28,833
If I were to get involved,
it would be with Solveig. He needs it more.

925
01:13:29,625 --> 01:13:33,958
Friday 22 August

926
01:13:36,625 --> 01:13:38,833
Are you checking surgery times?

927
01:13:40,375 --> 01:13:43,124
- Can I ask you something?
- Yes.

928
01:13:43,292 --> 01:13:47,874
I can go to the ward and say hello to a
patient who has undergone surgery?

929
01:13:48,042 --> 01:13:50,874
It's someone you know,
or did it happen here?

930
01:13:51,042 --> 01:13:54,083
Well, yes, but...

931
01:13:54,250 --> 01:13:58,333
- I mean someone you had with
to do. - No, not here.

932
01:13:58,500 --> 01:14:00,958
And I don't know him, not like...

933
01:14:02,042 --> 01:14:05,708
I met him for the
first time on the ferry.

934
01:14:09,125 --> 01:14:12,333
First on Grindr, then on the bridge.

935
01:14:12,500 --> 01:14:17,833
Nothing happened, we just
talked, then kissed me on the cheek.

936
01:14:18,792 --> 01:14:22,499
But that was all.
And he knows I work here.

937
01:14:22,667 --> 01:14:25,499
Okay.
I don't know what to say.

938
01:14:25,667 --> 01:14:29,999
- Why visit him? Are you interested?
- No! No...

939
01:14:30,167 --> 01:14:31,916
- No.
- No?

940
01:14:32,125 --> 01:14:36,333
I just wanted to check on him.
Out of kindness, really.

941
01:14:36,500 --> 01:14:39,583
But if this could
be misinterpreted...

942
01:14:41,292 --> 01:14:45,874
You think it's okay to say
say yes to an invitation to dinner

943
01:14:46,042 --> 01:14:49,208
on the side of a guy, who I'm with
Pretty sure you don't want to get involved?

944
01:14:49,375 --> 01:14:55,499
Well, as long as not
you'll give him the wrong impression...

945
01:14:55,667 --> 01:14:58,172
Probably so
you will do it just by saying yes.

946
01:14:58,222 --> 01:14:59,624
This is the matter.

947
01:14:59,792 --> 01:15:01,833
Well...

948
01:15:02,042 --> 01:15:06,749
- Visit him as a nurse on duty.
Not as a person. - Okay.

949
01:15:08,084 --> 01:15:10,874
Hello, Carina. I'm alone
checking a patient.

950
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:12,708
Go ahead.

951
01:15:17,667 --> 01:15:20,541
Greetings. I take a look at his neighbor.

952
01:15:24,917 --> 01:15:29,208
HI.
I thought I'd check how it went...

953
01:15:29,417 --> 01:15:32,916
I can't find the
my phone charger.

954
01:15:34,042 --> 01:15:37,041
Is this it?

955
01:15:38,792 --> 01:15:42,791
Oh, there it is.
Can you connect it for me?

956
01:15:45,042 --> 01:15:47,083
- Thank you.
- I'll leave it here.

957
01:15:47,292 --> 01:15:53,083
I heard you had surgery
surgery, and that everything went well.

958
01:15:53,292 --> 01:15:58,208
Well, the prostate is gone.

959
01:15:58,417 --> 01:16:01,916
- I hope they removed everything.
- Yes, let's hope so.

960
01:16:02,084 --> 01:16:04,416
How did you know I was here?

961
01:16:04,584 --> 01:16:08,333
Well, I work here. I just
checked the surgery schedule.

962
01:16:08,542 --> 01:16:13,374
- You don't know my name.
- It wasn't difficult to find out.

963
01:16:14,625 --> 01:16:17,001
I know your name is Bj�rn

964
01:16:17,051 --> 01:16:21,208
and I met you in the corridor
after your appointment.

965
01:16:21,417 --> 01:16:26,166
I've been thinking about you so much
after our last meeting.

966
01:16:26,375 --> 01:16:30,208
- I shouldn't have left you like that.
- Oh. Don't think about it.

967
01:16:30,417 --> 01:16:35,958
- I understood how distressed I was.
- I didn't want any company.

968
01:16:37,542 --> 01:16:40,083
- I understand.
- Yes.

969
01:16:40,250 --> 01:16:45,791
In any case, it's great that you
got the surgery so soon.

970
01:16:45,959 --> 01:16:50,166
- Yes, it was fantastic.
- How do you feel now?

971
01:16:50,375 --> 01:16:56,208
Not bad, just
I feel really bloated.

972
01:16:56,417 --> 01:16:58,458
This is the worst part.

973
01:16:58,667 --> 01:17:03,458
This happens when they bloat their abdomen
for laparoscopic surgery.

974
01:17:03,667 --> 01:17:06,708
You have to walk.
Expel the air.

975
01:17:06,917 --> 01:17:10,458
- Yes, that's what they tell me.
- Do you want to go for a walk now?

976
01:17:10,667 --> 01:17:13,208
- Now?
- Sure, I can walk with you.

977
01:17:13,417 --> 01:17:14,916
- Listen, it's not...
- Come on.

978
01:17:15,084 --> 01:17:20,958
- I don't think I can get up.
- I can help you. Is it yours?

979
01:17:21,167 --> 01:17:23,291
Yes, but ...

980
01:17:25,042 --> 01:17:28,291
- Let's do it.
- Be careful with that.

981
01:17:32,417 --> 01:17:33,708
Thank you.

982
01:17:33,917 --> 01:17:36,458
- And the other.
- Yes. There.

983
01:17:36,667 --> 01:17:39,291
- Let's go.
- Please keep it.

984
01:17:39,500 --> 01:17:41,791
Certain.
The wheels are blocked.

985
01:17:44,042 --> 01:17:46,666
- There. Ready?
- Yes.

986
01:17:48,792 --> 01:17:50,374
Okay.

987
01:18:10,792 --> 01:18:14,041
- A little more.
- I think I want to go back. Yes.

988
01:18:15,584 --> 01:18:17,791
- Okay?
- Okay.

989
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:24,458
Here you are.
It went well.

990
01:18:24,667 --> 01:18:27,374
I do not know.

991
01:18:32,375 --> 01:18:37,458
- When will they discharge you?
- The day after tomorrow, I think.

992
01:18:37,667 --> 01:18:39,458
- I'm not sure.
- Probably so.

993
01:18:39,667 --> 01:18:42,083
- It will be faster than you think.
- You think so?

994
01:18:42,292 --> 01:18:44,916
Yes.

995
01:18:45,125 --> 01:18:47,749
I thought...

996
01:18:48,667 --> 01:18:52,791
Do you have someone to help you?
With the expense of something else.

997
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:55,541
You must avoid lifting
weights for a few weeks.

998
01:18:55,750 --> 01:19:00,083
- I have friends.
- Certain.

999
01:19:00,292 --> 01:19:02,904
A friend told me that
it would have helped. He'll be fine.

1000
01:19:02,954 --> 01:19:03,958
Okay, good.

1001
01:19:04,167 --> 01:19:07,749
What is your number?

1002
01:19:09,250 --> 01:19:12,791
90-25-22-13.

1003
01:19:14,125 --> 01:19:16,958
You don't have to...

1004
01:19:17,125 --> 01:19:20,416
- Now you have my number too.
- Okay.

1005
01:19:20,584 --> 01:19:25,999
In case you need it
for help with shopping or otherwise.

1006
01:19:26,167 --> 01:19:28,666
Call me.
I mean it.

1007
01:19:28,875 --> 01:19:31,791
We both live in Nesodden, after all.

1008
01:19:32,000 --> 01:19:35,999
If I lived in Sarpsborg,
I wouldn't have offered.

1009
01:19:36,167 --> 01:19:40,624
- Remember to walk, to expel the gas.
- I'll do my best.

1010
01:19:42,042 --> 01:19:44,458
- A thousand thanks.
- Please.

1011
01:19:44,667 --> 01:19:47,958
He was kind enough to
your part visit me.

1012
01:19:48,167 --> 01:19:50,666
Offering me help and all that.

1013
01:19:52,167 --> 01:19:54,458
Goodbye, Bj�rn.

1014
01:19:54,667 --> 01:19:57,541
- Are you going home to Nesodden?
- Yes.

1015
01:19:59,875 --> 01:20:03,208
This is the plan.
Maybe I'll grab a coffee on the way.

1016
01:20:03,417 --> 01:20:06,083
Or maybe a half pint before the ferry.

1017
01:20:06,250 --> 01:20:08,708
You have no idea how lucky you are.

1018
01:20:09,667 --> 01:20:13,666
<i>How fabulous it looks
when you can't have it.</i>

1019
01:20:16,667 --> 01:20:19,749
<i>Sit somewhere
leave and have a coffee.</i>

1020
01:20:20,750 --> 01:20:23,041
<i>Observe people.</i>

1021
01:21:35,292 --> 01:21:37,833
[Bj�rn]
Who are you really?

1022
01:21:38,042 --> 01:21:39,916
[Tor]
Tor :)

1023
01:21:44,875 --> 01:21:48,166
[Bj�rn]
It won't work with a psychologist.

1024
01:21:54,625 --> 01:21:58,041
[Bj�rn]
I might take you up on your offer of help.

1025
01:22:02,917 --> 01:22:05,041
[Tor]
Good :)

1026
01:22:34,250 --> 01:22:37,041
Monday 25 August

1027
01:22:41,917 --> 01:22:45,333
- Have you seen Elvestad?
- The patient is already there.

1028
01:22:49,167 --> 01:22:51,208
Excuse me.

1029
01:22:51,417 --> 01:22:55,708
I had a clear agreement with Egil.
I find it strange.

1030
01:22:55,917 --> 01:22:59,708
We had dinner this weekend,
And he said... he promised...

1031
01:22:59,917 --> 01:23:03,208
- Well, the gentleman was sent to me.
- Warrant for...?

1032
01:23:03,417 --> 01:23:05,958
If you wish, I can check...

1033
01:23:06,167 --> 01:23:09,416
- Have you seen Syland?
- He's not in the operating room?

1034
01:23:09,584 --> 01:23:13,499
I thought so, but this patient
she had an appointment with him.

1035
01:23:13,667 --> 01:23:17,999
There must have been a mistake.
This is very bad.

1036
01:23:18,167 --> 01:23:21,833
- Can't you contact him?
- Not while he's in surgery.

1037
01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:28,541
- But I have your test results here.
- Ninth. Only with Egil.

1038
01:23:28,709 --> 01:23:31,583
Could you maybe call him?

1039
01:23:31,792 --> 01:23:35,516
I can check if
He's actually in surgery.

1040
01:23:35,566 --> 01:23:36,791
Well.

1041
01:23:37,667 --> 01:23:40,916
The intervention should have
be performed in Hamburg.

1042
01:23:41,125 --> 01:23:45,083
- It's the best clinic there is.
- I'm sure he knows.

1043
01:23:45,250 --> 01:23:48,708
- Beyond Copenhagen.
- They're very good there too.

1044
01:23:48,917 --> 01:23:53,958
But speaking to Hamburg,
I said I knew Egil.

1045
01:23:54,167 --> 01:24:00,916
Them: "Why come to Hamburg if one
of the best European hospitals is in Norway? "

1046
01:24:01,125 --> 01:24:08,791
The funny thing is that Egil's uncle,
H�kon S�yland, looked after my father.

1047
01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:12,208
Not for the same disease.
He was a heart surgeon.

1048
01:24:12,417 --> 01:24:17,416
His cottage was next to the
my parents, in Mysuseter.

1049
01:24:17,625 --> 01:24:20,458
- I understand. What a coincidence.
- Right?

1050
01:24:20,667 --> 01:24:23,541
Egil is a surgeon
exceptional, obviously.

1051
01:24:24,917 --> 01:24:28,004
He's done right now.
I'll come down...

1052
01:24:28,054 --> 01:24:30,208
I'm a little late.

1053
01:24:30,417 --> 01:24:32,583
It will be there in ten minutes.

1054
01:24:32,792 --> 01:24:34,374
Thank you.

1055
01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:39,708
- Sverre's father lived to be 105 years old.
- He's already dead.

1056
01:24:39,917 --> 01:24:45,791
He died this spring, but
He was lively and present until the end.

1057
01:24:46,000 --> 01:24:48,416
- Yes, it was.
- Few are so lucky.

1058
01:24:48,625 --> 01:24:53,416
- True, and his brother is still alive.
- Not my brother. My uncle.

1059
01:24:53,584 --> 01:24:57,583
Yes, his uncle.
Well, he's gay, but...

1060
01:24:57,792 --> 01:25:01,958
It's a shame, seeing
that there are no heirs, but...

1061
01:25:02,167 --> 01:25:06,416
It's lively, absolutely.
We live a long time in our family.

1062
01:25:06,584 --> 01:25:08,999
- Yes...
- We live, yes.

1063
01:25:09,959 --> 01:25:14,999
105? Some people are so unpleasant that they come
want to take a shower after talking to them.

1064
01:25:15,125 --> 01:25:18,249
Did you feel offended?

1065
01:25:18,417 --> 01:25:23,083
He is afraid of losing his partner,
like everyone else. Fear of death.

1066
01:25:23,292 --> 01:25:24,594
Aren't you offended?

1067
01:25:24,644 --> 01:25:27,333
Because he didn't want to
that I examined it?

1068
01:25:27,500 --> 01:25:31,249
Egil speaks theirs
language. I understand them well.

1069
01:25:31,375 --> 01:25:37,333
One more thing... you visited
that Grindr friend of yours?

1070
01:25:38,500 --> 01:25:40,499
Yes, I stopped by.

1071
01:25:42,917 --> 01:25:45,666
I offered to give
a hand with the shopping.

1072
01:25:45,875 --> 01:25:49,041
It's borderline, do you understand?

1073
01:25:49,209 --> 01:25:52,958
You cannot offer care at home
to people you meet on Grindr.

1074
01:25:53,084 --> 01:25:56,249
It's none of my business,
but it also applies to me.

1075
01:25:56,459 --> 01:26:01,624
I can't offer a special service because
our parents are cottage neighbors.

1076
01:26:01,792 --> 01:26:05,541
- No...
- No. And one more thing.

1077
01:26:05,750 --> 01:26:08,667
If this were a girl
that you met on Tinder,

1078
01:26:08,717 --> 01:26:10,583
I would say no in a heartbeat.

1079
01:26:10,750 --> 01:26:13,083
But now I don't do it anymore,
which confuses me.

1080
01:26:13,250 --> 01:26:17,749
It's because you both are
men, which becomes everything...

1081
01:26:17,917 --> 01:26:21,708
In any case, this is a
vulnerable patient, so I think...

1082
01:26:21,917 --> 01:26:23,166
No...

1083
01:26:24,834 --> 01:26:28,208
I'm not doing this to impress.

1084
01:26:28,417 --> 01:26:31,541
- I don't care.
- It's none of my business.

1085
01:26:31,709 --> 01:26:34,791
And I don't think I give
the wrong impression.

1086
01:26:35,667 --> 01:26:40,791
I think help someone buy
groceries is acceptable, right?

1087
01:26:43,542 --> 01:26:46,708
No, you're probably right.

1088
01:26:46,917 --> 01:26:50,666
- Of course you're right. But, listen...
- What?

1089
01:26:50,875 --> 01:26:54,662
Something I have
thought, what should I say.

1090
01:26:54,712 --> 01:26:56,666
About another thing.
All right?

1091
01:26:56,875 --> 01:27:01,958
It has nothing to do with
Grindr, but it's something I think about often.

1092
01:27:02,167 --> 01:27:05,583
We get a lot of gay patients.

1093
01:27:05,792 --> 01:27:08,833
I'm sure there
I have identified more than you.

1094
01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:13,041
I can say it right away, and
what I see is this...

1095
01:27:16,667 --> 01:27:22,124
Because I know the consequences
of that diagnosis for those men.

1096
01:27:22,292 --> 01:27:24,999
And that's something
that you never tell them.

1097
01:27:25,167 --> 01:27:28,458
You talked about dysfunction
erectile and sterility,

1098
01:27:28,625 --> 01:27:33,749
but you hardly say how much the removal
of the prostate affects sex.

1099
01:27:33,917 --> 01:27:37,083
You don't just lose
the erection, you also lose the...

1100
01:27:39,875 --> 01:27:46,749
When you have anal sex, if someone takes me
from behind, to put it bluntly,

1101
01:27:46,917 --> 01:27:49,946
they press their cock against my prostate.

1102
01:27:49,996 --> 01:27:51,833
Which is a really nice feeling.

1103
01:27:52,000 --> 01:27:56,041
It's a very big part
great pleasure that...

1104
01:27:56,875 --> 01:27:59,874
that is lost when
the prostate is removed.

1105
01:28:00,042 --> 01:28:02,041
And this is right...

1106
01:28:04,125 --> 01:28:09,166
I guess I feel more compassion
for gay men than for others.

1107
01:28:09,292 --> 01:28:12,958
I know what it means
actually, in practice.

1108
01:28:13,167 --> 01:28:16,749
It's a double loss, in a certain sense.

1109
01:28:17,834 --> 01:28:22,208
This has never occurred to me
for the head. I am sorry.

1110
01:28:22,417 --> 01:28:24,708
All right.

1111
01:28:24,917 --> 01:28:28,017
And it's absolutely not
connected to..., it's just...

1112
01:28:28,067 --> 01:28:29,083
No, no.

1113
01:28:29,292 --> 01:28:33,083
I've thought about it so much
that I had to tell you.

1114
01:28:33,209 --> 01:28:35,791
I'm very happy
that you did it. Thank you.

1115
01:28:37,375 --> 01:28:40,291
Now it has been said.

1116
01:29:52,292 --> 01:29:56,708
Tuesday 26 August

1117
01:29:56,834 --> 01:30:02,541
My friend was supposed to help me, but
he had to take his dog to the vet.

1118
01:30:03,834 --> 01:30:08,958
- The one who helps you with the shopping?
- I'll do it tomorrow.

1119
01:30:09,167 --> 01:30:11,539
But then you'll have nothing tonight.

1120
01:30:11,589 --> 01:30:12,583
All right.

1121
01:30:12,750 --> 01:30:16,833
Then I'll take you home, and
then I will go shopping for you.

1122
01:30:17,042 --> 01:30:21,624
- Ninth. It's not necessary.
- All right. Really.

1123
01:30:22,875 --> 01:30:26,833
- Is your catheter okay?
- It's very uncomfortable, but...

1124
01:30:27,042 --> 01:30:29,916
- Is it fixed well?
- It's there.

1125
01:30:30,125 --> 01:30:31,166
Hey...

1126
01:30:34,292 --> 01:30:36,916
It's far from full.

1127
01:30:37,125 --> 01:30:39,541
Did they show you how to empty it?

1128
01:30:43,750 --> 01:30:47,208
- And do you have diapers too?
- Yes.

1129
01:30:48,334 --> 01:30:50,141
Did you get the recipe?

1130
01:30:50,191 --> 01:30:53,083
For all types of prescriptions.
For Viagra!

1131
01:30:53,292 --> 01:30:56,891
- This is to help you regain an erection.
- I'm aware of it.

1132
01:30:59,417 --> 01:31:04,208
- Did it bother you to hear that?
- Yes, I would say.

1133
01:31:04,417 --> 01:31:06,541
They explain well, though.

1134
01:31:06,750 --> 01:31:10,208
It's nice that they have them
spoken. It's important.

1135
01:31:11,334 --> 01:31:14,499
You just have to go at your own pace.

1136
01:31:25,750 --> 01:31:27,624
I think we should go.

1137
01:31:40,750 --> 01:31:44,541
<i>We focus on making sure that
patients feel well again.</i>

1138
01:31:44,750 --> 01:31:47,249
<i>We don't really have the capacity</i>

1139
01:31:47,417 --> 01:31:51,874
<i>to face the pain they might
try after surgery.</i>

1140
01:31:52,042 --> 01:31:57,583
<i>The fact that someone
has invaded your body and</i>

1141
01:31:57,709 --> 01:32:01,958
<i>removed or fixed
something, it may seem...</i>

1142
01:32:02,125 --> 01:32:05,283
<i>Well, maybe it's not a violation,
but more than a forced intrusion, perhaps.</i>

1143
01:32:05,292 --> 01:32:09,083
<i>You wake up and your body does
feels completely different.</i>

1144
01:32:09,292 --> 01:32:12,541
<i>Some hear
a feeling of loss.</i>

1145
01:32:12,750 --> 01:32:14,208
<i>We can't change this
thing, but we would be wise</i>

1146
01:32:14,209 --> 01:32:17,541
<i>if we were able to recognize
that some may feel pain.</i>

1147
01:32:17,750 --> 01:32:22,208
<i>And that pain may take time to heal
heal, and perhaps transform into something else.</i>

1148
01:32:22,417 --> 01:32:26,208
- Anything else?
- Yes.

1149
01:32:26,417 --> 01:32:32,208
I'm not sure, but what I learned
It's that the body is a battlefield.

1150
01:32:32,417 --> 01:32:35,499
<i>We gain by taking it to heart,</i>

1151
01:32:35,709 --> 01:32:39,708
<i>in taking things
calmly and don't fight them.</i>

1152
01:32:39,917 --> 01:32:44,333
<i>This doesn't just apply to
illness. It also applies to sexuality.</i>

1153
01:32:46,584 --> 01:32:50,083
<i>My first wife had cancer.</i>

1154
01:32:50,292 --> 01:32:52,541
<i>It happened before we met.</i>

1155
01:32:54,125 --> 01:32:56,999
<i>How many times have you been married?</i>

1156
01:32:57,167 --> 01:32:58,624
<i>- Two.
- Oh.</i>

1157
01:32:59,750 --> 01:33:04,666
You never thought
to get married and have children?

1158
01:33:06,417 --> 01:33:08,208
No.

1159
01:33:08,417 --> 01:33:10,958
I think I might get married again.

1160
01:33:11,167 --> 01:33:15,291
What makes you think that
would it work a third time?

1161
01:33:16,750 --> 01:33:21,749
- You think that when you're in love.
- But you've seen how it can change.

1162
01:33:22,625 --> 01:33:26,083
I don't understand why people
feel the need to get married.

1163
01:33:26,292 --> 01:33:30,958
If there is love and you want to stay
together, isn't that enough?

1164
01:33:31,167 --> 01:33:34,053
There's something about making that vow.

1165
01:33:34,103 --> 01:33:36,541
Which you broke twice,

1166
01:33:36,750 --> 01:33:39,916
yet you are willing to do it
a third time?

1167
01:33:40,125 --> 01:33:43,666
So is marriage
it starts with a big lie.

1168
01:33:43,875 --> 01:33:48,083
And everyone knows that a lie is a basis
wobbly to build anything.

1169
01:33:48,292 --> 01:33:53,666
In my opinion, this makes marriage
a sort of production unit,

1170
01:33:53,875 --> 01:33:56,999
where the main aim is to have children.

1171
01:33:58,125 --> 01:34:00,999
- Is that how you see it?
- Yes.

1172
01:34:02,000 --> 01:34:05,374
That's basically what it is.

1173
01:34:05,584 --> 01:34:11,541
Starts as a joint project,
but in the end it falls on the children

1174
01:34:11,750 --> 01:34:13,554
take charge of the project,

1175
01:34:13,604 --> 01:34:18,041
when parents can no longer
or they won't invest in that anymore.

1176
01:34:19,000 --> 01:34:20,958
They can break up and start over again,

1177
01:34:21,167 --> 01:34:25,166
but the children are stuck with that
marriage for the rest of their lives.

1178
01:34:28,292 --> 01:34:32,166
- I am sorry.
- You just tell it like it is.

1179
01:34:34,917 --> 01:34:40,541
I'm just full of bad
conscience. But that's okay.

1180
01:34:42,000 --> 01:34:44,749
That's how I always feel.

1181
01:34:45,750 --> 01:34:47,791
Yes?

1182
01:34:49,042 --> 01:34:50,999
Yes, always.

1183
01:34:53,875 --> 01:34:57,749
I should never ask you
to get married, then?

1184
01:35:00,167 --> 01:35:02,874
All right.
I never will.

1185
01:35:03,084 --> 01:35:04,583
Thank you.

1186
01:35:06,167 --> 01:35:09,166
I promise.
But...

1187
01:35:13,917 --> 01:35:16,624
It's okay if I say...

1188
01:35:18,417 --> 01:35:21,291
that I'm in love?

1189
01:35:23,875 --> 01:35:27,291
All right.
You can tell.

1190
01:35:44,417 --> 01:35:47,666
Are you always like this?
So kind?

1191
01:35:47,875 --> 01:35:49,583
Always.

1192
01:35:49,792 --> 01:35:52,624
Life is too short, you know.

1193
01:35:55,417 --> 01:35:58,791
Bj�rn, your bag... I think
that it needs to be emptied.

1194
01:35:59,000 --> 01:36:02,166
Oops.
You are right.

1195
01:36:06,167 --> 01:36:08,624
- Do you need a hand?
- Ninth.

1196
01:36:18,167 --> 01:36:20,749
No!
Oh no...

1197
01:36:29,167 --> 01:36:32,791
I'll be fine.
Please don't enter.

1198
01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:35,999
- Hey, can I...
- I'll be fine.

1199
01:36:37,042 --> 01:36:39,958
- Do you have a bucket?
- Out in the kitchen.

1200
01:36:40,167 --> 01:36:43,999
- Under the table.
- Okay.

1201
01:38:03,834 --> 01:38:09,749
- Who are the people in the photos?
- Dag Hammarskj�ld made them.

1202
01:38:10,625 --> 01:38:14,166
- Okay.
- Yes. I think they're exciting.

1203
01:38:15,834 --> 01:38:18,874
The other is from Palme.

1204
01:38:21,625 --> 01:38:24,624
Subtle homo-eroticism.

1205
01:38:27,125 --> 01:38:29,912
You didn't sleep
a lot in hospital.

1206
01:38:29,962 --> 01:38:30,874
No.

1207
01:38:31,084 --> 01:38:36,083
I didn't sleep much after the surgery.
I lay awake, thinking.

1208
01:38:36,292 --> 01:38:37,791
What were you thinking?

1209
01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:42,541
To everything, really.
How useless it was.

1210
01:38:42,750 --> 01:38:46,666
Useless?
Do you really think so?

1211
01:38:46,834 --> 01:38:52,958
It's terrible to say, but I really am
starting to realize.

1212
01:38:53,167 --> 01:38:59,083
The morning of my surgery,
I was listening to the news on the radio.

1213
01:38:59,292 --> 01:39:05,208
They said that a vaccine against
HIV would soon be available.

1214
01:39:05,417 --> 01:39:06,708
Yes?

1215
01:39:06,917 --> 01:39:10,958
The pandemic gave the opportunity
to test mRNA technology.

1216
01:39:11,167 --> 01:39:13,958
Yes, I heard.
Isn't that great?

1217
01:39:14,167 --> 01:39:17,999
Sure, but that day...

1218
01:39:20,000 --> 01:39:23,624
"The irony of fate", not
Is that what it's called?

1219
01:39:24,750 --> 01:39:30,541
Right after you're done
coming out in the summer of 1986...

1220
01:39:30,750 --> 01:39:32,541
Before I was born.

1221
01:39:32,750 --> 01:39:35,791
- Really?
- Yes.

1222
01:39:37,625 --> 01:39:44,499
Shortly after I saw this
television documentary on AIDS.

1223
01:39:45,792 --> 01:39:51,291
It was like a horror movie! They said
what they usually said back then.

1224
01:39:52,417 --> 01:39:59,666
That AIDS was a terrible disease and
deadly that mainly affected gays.

1225
01:39:59,834 --> 01:40:07,708
And I felt like I was being punished, a little,
for daring to come out.

1226
01:40:07,917 --> 01:40:10,291
I deserved it.

1227
01:40:11,667 --> 01:40:17,208
This changed everything for me.
It scared me deeply.

1228
01:40:17,417 --> 01:40:25,083
If I had sex and had some
cum on my skin, it was enough to terrify me.

1229
01:40:25,292 --> 01:40:29,958
Not to mention if I had slept with
someone who didn't want to use a condom.

1230
01:40:30,167 --> 01:40:34,958
I found it hard to persist,
and I didn't like using it.

1231
01:40:35,167 --> 01:40:41,208
Afterwards I collapsed.
I always ran to get tested.

1232
01:40:41,417 --> 01:40:46,416
Sitting in the clinic waiting room
feeling dirty and ashamed.

1233
01:40:46,584 --> 01:40:49,583
And for the three months it takes
to obtain the final result,

1234
01:40:49,750 --> 01:40:53,958
I was paralyzed with anxiety.

1235
01:40:54,084 --> 01:40:57,208
I wavered between the fear of death

1236
01:40:57,417 --> 01:41:03,916
and thoughts on how to confess it
to those who were close to me.

1237
01:41:04,084 --> 01:41:07,666
I would wake up at night thinking
to my parents and brothers,

1238
01:41:07,834 --> 01:41:14,166
about how they should have
tell others I was HIV positive.

1239
01:41:15,042 --> 01:41:18,541
Ultimately, frustration and stress
they had become so serious

1240
01:41:18,750 --> 01:41:21,208
that it seemed better to me to stop having sex.

1241
01:41:21,417 --> 01:41:24,083
Completely.
Stop altogether.

1242
01:41:24,250 --> 01:41:26,666
To be spared from anxiety.

1243
01:41:26,834 --> 01:41:30,791
But then we got the drugs.
For some time now it has no longer been a death sentence.

1244
01:41:31,000 --> 01:41:32,666
But you're still scared, right,

1245
01:41:32,834 --> 01:41:37,208
of contracting a disease for which you will have to
take medications for the rest of your life?

1246
01:41:37,417 --> 01:41:42,208
And you don't know what effect it will have
on your body. Side effects and...

1247
01:41:42,417 --> 01:41:46,416
What about PrEP?
Why haven't you tried it?

1248
01:41:46,625 --> 01:41:50,708
Of course I should have.
I realize it now.

1249
01:41:50,917 --> 01:41:55,166
But when it arrived, it looked like
if the train had left the station.

1250
01:41:55,375 --> 01:42:00,416
More or less.
I don't know, I'm just so... off.

1251
01:42:00,625 --> 01:42:03,083
But you're on Grindr.

1252
01:42:03,292 --> 01:42:05,985
It's just for browsing.
I never do anything.

1253
01:42:06,035 --> 01:42:06,916
Okay?

1254
01:42:08,167 --> 01:42:13,874
I don't think I have anything that
can excite people.

1255
01:42:15,125 --> 01:42:20,541
When I was told I had to
let me operate, and S�yland said

1256
01:42:21,875 --> 01:42:25,708
that there was a good chance
that I would lose my erection...

1257
01:42:25,917 --> 01:42:29,791
It seemed like the least of the problems to me.

1258
01:42:30,000 --> 01:42:36,291
But that day, as I went towards
to intervention and probable impotence...

1259
01:42:37,292 --> 01:42:41,541
or at least sterility,
never another ejaculation...

1260
01:42:41,750 --> 01:42:45,916
That day, of all days, they tell me

1261
01:42:46,084 --> 01:42:50,166
than an AIDS vaccine
it will probably arrive.

1262
01:42:51,292 --> 01:42:53,958
It's as if I've closed a circle.

1263
01:42:54,167 --> 01:42:58,083
I thought about what you said
the day we met.

1264
01:42:58,250 --> 01:43:01,958
That people
they should stay together.

1265
01:43:02,167 --> 01:43:04,401
I don't mean to say that you should,

1266
01:43:04,451 --> 01:43:08,041
but perhaps to avoid wallowing
in self-pity.

1267
01:43:12,625 --> 01:43:15,208
You're not finished at all.

1268
01:43:15,417 --> 01:43:17,666
Come to bed now.

1269
01:43:31,917 --> 01:43:33,916
- Can you do it?
- Yes.

1270
01:43:37,917 --> 01:43:39,666
Thank you.

1271
01:43:43,292 --> 01:43:47,416
- What are you doing?
- I'm going to lie down with you.

1272
01:43:47,625 --> 01:43:50,958
- Why?
- Because I feel like it.

1273
01:43:51,167 --> 01:43:54,916
I'm not going to do anything
I just want to lie down next to you.

1274
01:43:55,792 --> 01:43:57,675
You don't have to do it out of pity.

1275
01:43:57,725 --> 01:44:00,791
No. I do it because
I want to be with you.

1276
01:44:01,792 --> 01:44:04,541
Think of it as something good.

1277
01:44:05,917 --> 01:44:07,916
As a painkiller.
For both.

1278
01:44:10,500 --> 01:44:12,666
I'm serious.

1279
01:44:36,167 --> 01:44:38,541
Just try to relax.

1280
01:44:47,917 --> 01:44:51,583
Wednesday 27 August

1281
01:45:19,167 --> 01:45:21,458
I'm going to work.

1282
01:45:21,667 --> 01:45:25,166
- How do you feel today?
- Not bad.

1283
01:45:29,667 --> 01:45:33,916
It looks good.
But the bag must be emptied.

1284
01:45:37,042 --> 01:45:38,999
What is it?

1285
01:45:40,625 --> 01:45:44,249
- Maybe this will get weird now.
- What?

1286
01:45:45,625 --> 01:45:49,228
You don't have to feel
obliged to return,

1287
01:45:49,278 --> 01:45:52,374
just because you have
slept here with me.

1288
01:45:53,792 --> 01:45:56,833
Bj�rn ...
Bj�rn, Bj�rn, Bj�rn.

1289
01:45:57,042 --> 01:45:59,833
You have to have more trust in people.

1290
01:46:14,125 --> 01:46:15,166
HI.

1291
01:46:22,917 --> 01:46:24,708
Hello, Ida.

1292
01:46:24,917 --> 01:46:26,041
Hey.

1293
01:46:27,000 --> 01:46:29,055
Have you been sitting here for a long time?

1294
01:46:29,105 --> 01:46:32,166
I entered,
but you were still in bed.

1295
01:46:32,375 --> 01:46:36,916
- You were with mom this week.
- I don't want to stay with mum.

1296
01:46:37,125 --> 01:46:38,999
No, I understand, but...

1297
01:46:40,167 --> 01:46:42,583
Come in,
we will have breakfast together.

1298
01:46:42,792 --> 01:46:45,791
First I will say goodbye to Marianne.

1299
01:46:52,667 --> 01:46:54,471
I'm sorry about this.

1300
01:46:54,521 --> 01:46:58,416
There is no need to
apologize. I should apologize.

1301
01:46:58,625 --> 01:47:02,958
Ida has been sitting on the porch since dawn, too
scared to go to her house,

1302
01:47:03,167 --> 01:47:08,291
because I'm lying in the bed I usually stay in
takes refuge to find comfort! It's not good!

1303
01:47:08,500 --> 01:47:13,916
We'll fix this in some time
way. I'll talk to Solveig.

1304
01:47:21,042 --> 01:47:24,833
You know what I think
would it have been better?

1305
01:47:25,042 --> 01:47:31,458
If you and I were there...
met on the Nesodden ferry one evening.

1306
01:47:31,667 --> 01:47:35,916
So random.
Do you think it was possible?

1307
01:47:54,167 --> 01:47:57,583
- Oh, hi!
- HI!

1308
01:47:57,792 --> 01:47:59,958
- Are you sitting here?
- Yes?

1309
01:48:00,167 --> 01:48:03,583
- Oh, this is where you live?
- Are you coming from Ole?

1310
01:48:03,792 --> 01:48:07,458
- Yes.
- I told Ida not to run up there.

1311
01:48:07,667 --> 01:48:13,208
- I'm so sorry if it bothered you.
- Not at all. There's no need to apologize.

1312
01:48:13,417 --> 01:48:16,374
No... did you get up early?

1313
01:48:16,584 --> 01:48:19,291
- I'm going to work.
- Right.

1314
01:48:19,500 --> 01:48:22,458
- So you had to leave anyway?
- Yes.

1315
01:48:22,667 --> 01:48:25,958
- Are you up early too?
- I've been up since 3 in the morning

1316
01:48:26,167 --> 01:48:27,958
- Oh!
- Yes...

1317
01:48:28,167 --> 01:48:33,083
Would you like a cup of coffee?
Will you keep me company for a while?

1318
01:48:34,500 --> 01:48:38,083
- Just for a little while?
- Yes... yes.

1319
01:48:38,292 --> 01:48:40,916
How beautiful. You come!

1320
01:48:43,667 --> 01:48:45,958
Even a pillow? Thank you.

1321
01:48:46,167 --> 01:48:48,041
Here you go.

1322
01:48:51,917 --> 01:48:54,923
From three? You have
insomnia problems?

1323
01:48:54,973 --> 01:48:55,958
Many.

1324
01:48:56,167 --> 01:49:00,958
It's been like this for years.
I did some tests.

1325
01:49:01,167 --> 01:49:04,041
You know, they say that...

1326
01:49:05,667 --> 01:49:10,458
little sleep shortens the
life. It's exhausting to think about.

1327
01:49:10,667 --> 01:49:14,624
- I understand.
- You lie awake thinking:

1328
01:49:14,750 --> 01:49:17,999
"Now my life is
becoming shorter".

1329
01:49:18,167 --> 01:49:22,833
I don't understand why you should
they say. That's not exactly helpful.

1330
01:49:23,042 --> 01:49:24,708
No.

1331
01:49:24,917 --> 01:49:27,666
And I think a lot of people
think the same way.

1332
01:49:29,250 --> 01:49:31,124
Are you a socialist?

1333
01:49:35,084 --> 01:49:37,541
Yes. Yes, I guess I am.

1334
01:49:39,625 --> 01:49:44,708
You're a music teacher, right?
What do you do when you can't sleep?

1335
01:49:44,917 --> 01:49:48,166
I am an experienced music therapist.

1336
01:49:48,375 --> 01:49:51,374
But right now, I'm unemployed.

1337
01:49:52,500 --> 01:49:58,041
It's difficult to find a job
here. I thought about returning to Oslo.

1338
01:49:58,250 --> 01:50:02,166
I saw a job offer in Bergen.

1339
01:50:03,375 --> 01:50:07,999
But Ole and I agree to live
close to each other because of the children.

1340
01:50:09,292 --> 01:50:14,124
But I don't know if it's one
such a good thing. Do you know?

1341
01:50:14,334 --> 01:50:18,083
Sometimes I think I have to
living down here in this depression...

1342
01:50:18,292 --> 01:50:21,416
I rented the first floor here, you see.

1343
01:50:21,625 --> 01:50:26,583
So I sit here on this ladder, so
that the children can run between me and Ole.

1344
01:50:26,792 --> 01:50:30,624
Sometimes I think it is
a punishment, indeed.

1345
01:50:32,584 --> 01:50:35,124
You have no husband and
children and... so on?

1346
01:50:37,417 --> 01:50:39,374
- No.
- No...

1347
01:50:40,917 --> 01:50:42,791
You seem so calm.

1348
01:50:44,917 --> 01:50:51,833
The first time I met you,
I thought you were settled.

1349
01:50:53,792 --> 01:50:55,541
No...

1350
01:50:57,667 --> 01:51:00,958
No, I really don't feel that way.

1351
01:51:01,167 --> 01:51:04,416
- Now I'm starting to cry.
- I am very sorry!

1352
01:51:04,625 --> 01:51:06,791
Okay, I'm just...

1353
01:51:07,917 --> 01:51:11,541
I feel like I'm
constantly bumping into a wall.

1354
01:51:13,042 --> 01:51:16,458
I'm always looking
to find my way.

1355
01:51:16,625 --> 01:51:19,749
- Sorry if I said something wrong.
- You didn't.

1356
01:51:19,875 --> 01:51:24,583
I honestly think that
It's okay if I feel that way.

1357
01:51:24,750 --> 01:51:26,791
This is how it should be.

1358
01:51:33,750 --> 01:51:35,958
I'm so sorry...

1359
01:51:36,084 --> 01:51:39,458
No, there is no reason to apologize.

1360
01:51:39,584 --> 01:51:44,458
Sometimes you feel like you are
blocked, in a certain sense?

1361
01:51:44,584 --> 01:51:49,249
In a situation or in your personality,
in expectations?

1362
01:51:49,375 --> 01:51:51,833
Completely stuck, thinking:

1363
01:51:53,250 --> 01:51:58,458
- "How did I end up like this?" - Oh, absolutely.
Quite often, really.

1364
01:51:58,625 --> 01:52:00,833
But...

1365
01:52:01,042 --> 01:52:03,416
- But, listen.
- Yes?

1366
01:52:03,625 --> 01:52:10,416
Even if things seem impossible,
and discouragement increases...

1367
01:52:11,917 --> 01:52:17,874
you must never stop
believe there is a way out.

1368
01:52:18,000 --> 01:52:21,791
- Should I just hold on?
- Yes.

1369
01:52:24,667 --> 01:52:27,243
"How are your days,
so will your strength be. "

1370
01:52:27,250 --> 01:52:30,416
- Heidi?
- Yes, that's what Heidi says.

1371
01:52:33,167 --> 01:52:36,624
I have to go now, or I will be late.

1372
01:52:36,792 --> 01:52:40,458
Because one day there won't be
Let's meet Heidi, you and me?

1373
01:52:40,667 --> 01:52:44,041
- It would be so nice!
- Come with Heidi to Oslo and...

1374
01:52:44,209 --> 01:52:46,499
- Yes!
- We could go out to eat.

1375
01:52:46,667 --> 01:52:49,583
I don't want to spoil it
things between you and Ole.

1376
01:52:49,792 --> 01:52:53,708
- You can leave it behind.
- Yes?

1377
01:52:53,875 --> 01:52:59,083
- You can get my number from Heidi.
- Heidi. Should I call you or...

1378
01:53:00,292 --> 01:53:02,833
- I have to go.
- I'll talk to Heidi. Obviously.

1379
01:53:03,042 --> 01:53:05,749
- Thanks for sitting with me.
- Thanks for the coffee.

1380
01:53:05,917 --> 01:53:10,249
- It's great talking to you. Until we meet again!
- Me too! Yes! HI!

1381
01:53:33,792 --> 01:53:36,374
- HI!
- Are you a commuter now?

1382
01:53:36,584 --> 01:53:38,166
- No.
- No?

1383
01:53:38,334 --> 01:53:41,833
You spent the night at
house of... what's his name?

1384
01:53:42,042 --> 01:53:45,583
- S�.
- Are things going well?

1385
01:53:45,792 --> 01:53:48,208
- S�.
- You seem happy.

1386
01:53:48,417 --> 01:53:52,083
- I'm excited to go to work.
- S�.

1387
01:53:52,250 --> 01:53:54,416
No, I'm actually really happy.

1388
01:53:54,584 --> 01:53:56,583
I seem to be able to think clearly.

1389
01:53:56,792 --> 01:53:57,708
It's fantastic.

1390
01:53:57,917 --> 01:54:00,458
- And you? You seem happy with yourself.
- S�?

1391
01:54:00,667 --> 01:54:04,291
I guess I am. It's me too
excited to go to work.

1392
01:54:04,500 --> 01:54:06,166
- Ciao.
- Ciao.

1393
01:54:06,375 --> 01:54:07,416
Up early?

1394
01:54:07,584 --> 01:54:11,958
I'm meeting Anna and the musicians.

1395
01:54:12,167 --> 01:54:15,458
Did you stay at Ole Harald's house?

1396
01:54:15,584 --> 01:54:19,416
How is the project going?
Have they decided on the anniversary?

1397
01:54:19,584 --> 01:54:21,833
Yes...

1398
01:54:22,042 --> 01:54:23,833
Ok...

1399
01:54:24,000 --> 01:54:28,374
Yes.
I had a terrible meeting yesterday.

1400
01:54:29,792 --> 01:54:32,833
But things are going
as I want, after all.

1401
01:54:33,042 --> 01:54:34,958
- Wow!
- Not what you think.

1402
01:54:35,167 --> 01:54:38,708
I realized that's just stupid
spending so much money on a party.

1403
01:54:38,917 --> 01:54:44,708
I convinced them to spend it to make more money
easy for people to contact the council,

1404
01:54:44,917 --> 01:54:49,166
so that they get help when they need it
they need, quite simply.

1405
01:54:49,334 --> 01:54:54,124
There will be a small event on the roof
of the town hall, as Anna suggested.

1406
01:54:54,334 --> 01:54:57,458
We composed a piece
which will be performed by a singer,

1407
01:54:57,667 --> 01:54:59,892
which it should
represent the "girl from Oslo".

1408
01:54:59,942 --> 01:55:01,915
This is a so-called
daily cantata.

1409
01:55:01,917 --> 01:55:04,458
That's what we're feeling now.

1410
01:55:04,667 --> 01:55:10,958
It's much simpler,
and more significant, I think.

1411
01:55:11,167 --> 01:55:13,958
So now won't you stop,
after all?

1412
01:55:14,167 --> 01:55:16,916
I was planning on quitting.

1413
01:55:18,167 --> 01:55:21,416
Think about everything you have
made with this, Heidi.

1414
01:55:21,625 --> 01:55:24,999
You can't stop now.
You have great ideas.

1415
01:55:25,209 --> 01:55:28,541
We need
people like you in the municipality.

1416
01:55:28,750 --> 01:55:32,458
First thing first!
"You are needed in the municipality."

1417
01:55:32,667 --> 01:55:35,958
- You too. You are needed too.
- But not you?

1418
01:55:36,167 --> 01:55:39,041
<i>Me? Certain.
I am the common.</i>

1419
01:57:39,042 --> 01:57:40,242
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