1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,162 WWW.MY-SUBS.CO 1 00:00:44,002 --> 00:00:46,874 Way to go, Mary. Keep it up. 2 00:00:58,225 --> 00:00:59,554 LUCY: Mary? 3 00:00:59,726 --> 00:01:01,186 Mary? 4 00:01:01,353 --> 00:01:02,813 What are you dreaming? 5 00:01:05,732 --> 00:01:08,106 - What time is it? - Time to get up and go to school. 6 00:01:10,237 --> 00:01:11,566 Robbie. 7 00:01:11,738 --> 00:01:13,150 Were you dreaming about Robbie? 8 00:01:13,323 --> 00:01:15,282 No. Better than that. 9 00:01:15,450 --> 00:01:17,740 I was playing with the pros. 10 00:01:17,911 --> 00:01:19,110 It was so real. 11 00:01:19,288 --> 00:01:21,198 Real or not, you'd better get ready for school. 12 00:01:21,373 --> 00:01:23,331 [PHONE RINGS] 13 00:01:26,003 --> 00:01:28,127 - Hello? CLEARY [ON PHONE]: Mary? 14 00:01:28,297 --> 00:01:30,374 - Coach Cleary? - Bring some sweats with you today 15 00:01:30,549 --> 00:01:31,795 we're gonna work out, okay? 16 00:01:32,176 --> 00:01:34,632 - With? - Just be ready to work out. 17 00:01:34,803 --> 00:01:37,129 I think I've got something you might be interested in. 18 00:01:37,306 --> 00:01:38,967 - I'll see you at school. - Okay. 19 00:01:39,141 --> 00:01:40,304 Bye. 20 00:01:42,644 --> 00:01:45,433 - Wow. - Wow, what? 21 00:01:46,064 --> 00:01:48,687 I think my dream is about to come true. 22 00:01:48,859 --> 00:01:50,058 The dream you just had? 23 00:01:50,235 --> 00:01:51,351 Yeah. 24 00:01:51,528 --> 00:01:53,985 The dream I've always had. 25 00:01:54,156 --> 00:01:55,984 I think I'm gonna play for the pros. 26 00:03:42,973 --> 00:03:44,682 - I'm back in the game. - What game? 27 00:03:44,850 --> 00:03:46,890 The coach called and told me to bring sweats 28 00:03:47,060 --> 00:03:48,805 and plan to work out after school. 29 00:03:48,979 --> 00:03:51,352 - But the season is over, way over. - What I'm thinking 30 00:03:51,523 --> 00:03:54,015 is that Coach Cleary realises now I lost my scholarship 31 00:03:54,193 --> 00:03:55,818 I don't know what college I'm going to, 32 00:03:55,986 --> 00:03:57,695 or what I'm gonna do when I get there. 33 00:03:57,863 --> 00:03:59,109 - And so? - And so, 34 00:03:59,281 --> 00:04:02,283 maybe he's bringing someone in from the pros to look at me. 35 00:04:02,451 --> 00:04:03,650 Wouldn't that be great? 36 00:04:04,077 --> 00:04:05,489 Maybe that would be great. 37 00:04:05,662 --> 00:04:08,617 But is there any reason to believe that that's what he's doing? 38 00:04:08,790 --> 00:04:09,906 Yes, there is. 39 00:04:10,083 --> 00:04:12,955 I had a dream last night that I was playing with the Lakers. 40 00:04:13,128 --> 00:04:15,834 Do you really think that that dream was somehow prophetic? 41 00:04:16,340 --> 00:04:17,965 My gut feeling? 42 00:04:18,133 --> 00:04:19,213 Yes. 43 00:04:20,385 --> 00:04:22,094 The thing about dreams to me, 44 00:04:22,262 --> 00:04:24,470 is that they're kind of like going to the movies. 45 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:27,132 Some of them have a basis in reality, 46 00:04:27,309 --> 00:04:30,228 but most of them don't. Most of them are pure entertainment, you know? 47 00:04:30,395 --> 00:04:33,018 Or something left over in your head from the day. 48 00:04:33,190 --> 00:04:35,148 Some are good, some are bad. 49 00:04:35,317 --> 00:04:38,023 And some are predictions of the future. 50 00:04:39,863 --> 00:04:42,189 What? Why couldn't it happen? 51 00:04:42,616 --> 00:04:46,068 Why couldn't the coach call because he's setting me up with the pros? 52 00:04:46,245 --> 00:04:48,819 Is there any reason to believe that that's not what he's doing? 53 00:04:49,665 --> 00:04:50,697 [SIGHS] 54 00:04:50,874 --> 00:04:52,500 Don't you want me to play pro ball? 55 00:04:52,668 --> 00:04:55,242 Well, what happened to going to college? 56 00:04:55,420 --> 00:04:57,213 This could be better than college. 57 00:04:59,550 --> 00:05:01,093 Why aren't you more excited for me? 58 00:05:01,260 --> 00:05:03,965 I will be excited when I find out what Coach Cleary is up to. 59 00:05:04,137 --> 00:05:06,345 Because I'm sure that it's something good. 60 00:05:06,515 --> 00:05:08,722 But I don't know if it's what you think it is. 61 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,185 Thanks a lot. 62 00:05:15,232 --> 00:05:16,941 Good luck. 63 00:05:22,155 --> 00:05:24,908 Hey, did you hear? Mary is gonna play pro basketball. 64 00:05:25,075 --> 00:05:26,191 Heh, yeah, I heard. 65 00:05:26,368 --> 00:05:27,697 And all because she dreamed it. 66 00:05:27,995 --> 00:05:29,276 Well, we'll see. 67 00:05:29,454 --> 00:05:32,409 I'm not sure Mary's ready. She's got four years of college ahead of her. 68 00:05:32,583 --> 00:05:34,208 I hope I dream I'm something great. 69 00:05:34,376 --> 00:05:37,497 - Hmm. Like what? - Like the Queen of England. 70 00:05:39,423 --> 00:05:42,259 I'd love to be the Queen of England. 71 00:05:45,679 --> 00:05:48,385 Just out of curiosity, what is it you want to be when you grow up? 72 00:05:48,891 --> 00:05:50,350 I don't know. 73 00:05:50,517 --> 00:05:52,725 Not a minister. 74 00:05:55,939 --> 00:05:59,392 He's only 13, he doesn't know what he wants to be. 75 00:05:59,568 --> 00:06:02,142 No, but evidently he knows what he doesn't want to be. 76 00:06:02,321 --> 00:06:03,864 Oh, come on. 77 00:06:04,031 --> 00:06:05,989 You can't take that to heart. 78 00:06:06,158 --> 00:06:07,867 Really, he didn't mean to hurt you. 79 00:06:08,035 --> 00:06:10,741 I mean, intellectually I know that. 80 00:06:10,913 --> 00:06:12,871 And yet... 81 00:06:23,842 --> 00:06:27,343 You just tighten this just a little like so, and there you go. 82 00:06:27,513 --> 00:06:29,056 The knob can't come off, and that way 83 00:06:29,223 --> 00:06:31,216 you have nothing to snack on but real food. 84 00:06:32,643 --> 00:06:34,802 I think the old school bus is pulling out. 85 00:06:35,771 --> 00:06:38,856 Ah. I was just fixing the dresser. 86 00:06:39,024 --> 00:06:40,852 - The knob came loose. - Thanks. 87 00:06:41,026 --> 00:06:42,936 Could you put the toolbox in the closet for me? 88 00:06:43,111 --> 00:06:44,655 Sure. 89 00:06:49,618 --> 00:06:50,698 That's my girl. 90 00:07:01,129 --> 00:07:03,835 - Shana. - Every time I call, I can't get through. 91 00:07:04,049 --> 00:07:06,209 Her roommates always have some lame excuse. 92 00:07:06,385 --> 00:07:09,837 She's in class, or she's at the library, or she's at work. 93 00:07:10,472 --> 00:07:12,015 Yeah, all of those, totally lame. 94 00:07:12,182 --> 00:07:13,214 [SIGHS] 95 00:07:13,392 --> 00:07:14,768 This was all a big mistake. 96 00:07:14,935 --> 00:07:16,134 What was a big mistake? 97 00:07:16,311 --> 00:07:19,017 - Letting Shana go to NYU. - Letting? 98 00:07:22,359 --> 00:07:23,439 Wait a minute. 99 00:07:23,610 --> 00:07:25,355 Maybe the mistake wasn't letting her go. 100 00:07:25,529 --> 00:07:27,321 Maybe the mistake wasn't going with her. 101 00:07:28,073 --> 00:07:30,150 I know what I have to do. 102 00:07:30,325 --> 00:07:32,319 I'm afraid to ask, but what do you have to do? 103 00:07:32,494 --> 00:07:34,203 Obviously, I have to move to New York. 104 00:07:34,371 --> 00:07:35,914 When do you think this will be? 105 00:07:36,081 --> 00:07:38,205 Now or soon or whenever I get the money together. 106 00:07:38,375 --> 00:07:39,491 I see. 107 00:07:39,668 --> 00:07:41,329 And how much do you have in savings? 108 00:07:41,503 --> 00:07:44,422 What school in New York has accepted you into a premed programme? 109 00:07:44,590 --> 00:07:46,879 Where are you gonna stay when you get there? 110 00:07:47,050 --> 00:07:49,009 How are you gonna pay and support yourself? 111 00:07:49,178 --> 00:07:52,548 - What are you, my parents? - No, just a friend. 112 00:07:55,309 --> 00:07:57,219 - Hey. - Hey, what's up? 113 00:07:57,394 --> 00:07:59,720 Did Coach Cleary ask you to work out after school today? 114 00:08:00,189 --> 00:08:03,356 - No, why? - Oh, never mind. 115 00:08:03,525 --> 00:08:04,902 No, it's okay, what's going on? 116 00:08:05,235 --> 00:08:08,438 Last night I had this dream that I was playing basketball for the pros 117 00:08:08,614 --> 00:08:11,865 and then this morning Coach Cleary called me and asked if I could work out 118 00:08:12,034 --> 00:08:14,277 - today after school. - And so? 119 00:08:14,453 --> 00:08:17,075 And so I think it means something. 120 00:08:17,247 --> 00:08:19,574 I think it means he's gonna help me turn pro. 121 00:08:22,878 --> 00:08:24,457 Maybe he couldn't reach you, 122 00:08:24,630 --> 00:08:26,208 and he was gonna ask you during school. 123 00:08:26,381 --> 00:08:27,663 That's not likely. 124 00:08:27,841 --> 00:08:29,586 I've already lined up something. 125 00:08:29,927 --> 00:08:31,636 I'm going to Brown, back East. 126 00:08:31,803 --> 00:08:34,296 I have an academic scholarship and a grant from the government 127 00:08:34,473 --> 00:08:37,226 to document my life as a single mom going to college. 128 00:08:38,143 --> 00:08:39,769 But hey, good luck. 129 00:08:40,229 --> 00:08:42,353 I hope your dream comes true. 130 00:09:00,290 --> 00:09:01,454 I don't know what he's doing. 131 00:09:01,625 --> 00:09:03,915 Well, I think it's supposed to be a surprise. 132 00:09:04,086 --> 00:09:05,878 Why don't you step outside and find out? 133 00:09:17,599 --> 00:09:19,011 What's going on? 134 00:09:19,184 --> 00:09:20,929 Wait. 135 00:09:21,144 --> 00:09:22,556 - Did someone die? - No. 136 00:09:22,729 --> 00:09:23,845 - No one died. - Okay. 137 00:09:24,022 --> 00:09:25,434 No... 138 00:09:25,607 --> 00:09:27,067 It's just that-- 139 00:09:27,234 --> 00:09:30,271 Since the twins were born, you and I haven't spent any time together, 140 00:09:30,445 --> 00:09:32,854 at least not just the two of us, so... 141 00:09:33,031 --> 00:09:35,737 I don't know, I thought I'd stop by and see if you wanted 142 00:09:35,909 --> 00:09:37,535 to play hooky and hang out with me. 143 00:09:37,703 --> 00:09:39,328 Is it your heart? Are you dying? 144 00:09:39,496 --> 00:09:41,988 No. No, I'm not dying. I-- 145 00:09:42,165 --> 00:09:43,958 I just, you know, wanted to have some fun. 146 00:09:44,126 --> 00:09:46,452 Well, what about work? Why don't you have to work? 147 00:09:46,628 --> 00:09:49,298 I made a dozen phone calls and rescheduled everything. 148 00:09:49,464 --> 00:09:50,960 - But I'm in school. - Yeah. 149 00:09:51,133 --> 00:09:52,961 - I'll get in trouble if I leave. - You won't. 150 00:09:53,135 --> 00:09:55,804 I cleared it with the principal and your teacher. It's okay. 151 00:09:55,971 --> 00:09:58,214 It's an afternoon at the movies, come on. 152 00:09:58,390 --> 00:10:00,847 How can you turn down getting out and going to the movies? 153 00:10:01,018 --> 00:10:03,510 Okay, I guess you know what you're doing. 154 00:10:04,396 --> 00:10:05,975 Well... 155 00:10:06,732 --> 00:10:09,983 - I'll go get my books. - Okay. 156 00:10:12,738 --> 00:10:15,823 You're selling all your stuff to do what? 157 00:10:16,491 --> 00:10:17,868 Move to New York. 158 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:19,359 Huh. 159 00:10:19,745 --> 00:10:23,115 You don't have that kind of stuff. We don't even have that kind of stuff. 160 00:10:23,332 --> 00:10:24,412 [LAUGHS] 161 00:10:24,958 --> 00:10:27,035 - Hey, do you want this? - Yes, I want it. 162 00:10:27,294 --> 00:10:28,410 I've never seen it. 163 00:10:28,587 --> 00:10:30,664 It was an anniversary gift from your father. 164 00:10:30,839 --> 00:10:32,251 Our first anniversary. 165 00:10:32,424 --> 00:10:34,750 It's always been here in the basement. You don't use it. 166 00:10:34,927 --> 00:10:38,261 I might use it someday, when I have the time to fix it or get it fixed. 167 00:10:38,430 --> 00:10:39,842 You can't have it. 168 00:10:43,101 --> 00:10:45,938 So, uh, ahem, why are you moving to New York? 169 00:10:46,104 --> 00:10:48,774 Shana. Why else would I move to New York? 170 00:10:48,941 --> 00:10:51,397 Uh, premed too much of a challenge? 171 00:10:51,568 --> 00:10:53,229 No, it's not too much of a challenge. 172 00:10:53,403 --> 00:10:56,441 Studying and working at the hospital a little too much of a challenge? 173 00:10:56,615 --> 00:11:00,744 I'm not working that much or studying that much. 174 00:11:00,911 --> 00:11:03,664 - Why not? - I'm just 175 00:11:03,830 --> 00:11:05,824 saving up my efforts for the hard stuff. 176 00:11:07,543 --> 00:11:10,248 Look, I don't know how or when but I'm going, okay? 177 00:11:10,420 --> 00:11:13,422 So I'd appreciate it if you didn't try to stop me. I have to do this. 178 00:11:13,590 --> 00:11:15,133 Fine. I won't try to stop you. 179 00:11:15,300 --> 00:11:17,175 But you still can't have my clock. 180 00:11:20,264 --> 00:11:22,886 How much do you think you're gonna raise by selling all this? 181 00:11:23,517 --> 00:11:24,681 Couple hundred bucks. 182 00:11:25,477 --> 00:11:28,265 Maybe Shana can meet you in Kansas. 183 00:11:32,317 --> 00:11:33,813 But the movie already started. 184 00:11:33,986 --> 00:11:36,988 So we'll go in in the middle, and stay till it runs back to the middle. 185 00:11:37,155 --> 00:11:38,734 It's the last showing, sir. 186 00:11:38,907 --> 00:11:40,652 It's a different movie at 5:00. 187 00:11:40,826 --> 00:11:43,448 - So we'll see half the movie. - But we've already seen it. 188 00:11:43,620 --> 00:11:46,539 Right, so it won't make any difference that we don't see the beginning. 189 00:11:46,707 --> 00:11:48,036 We've already seen it. 190 00:11:59,845 --> 00:12:02,681 Oh, my big boy. 191 00:12:02,848 --> 00:12:04,842 Why did Dad pick up Simon from school? 192 00:12:05,017 --> 00:12:07,141 Dad took Simon for a day. They went to the movies. 193 00:12:07,311 --> 00:12:09,885 How come I never get half a day off to go to the movies? 194 00:12:10,564 --> 00:12:12,807 Well, maybe when you get to the same grade as Simon, 195 00:12:12,983 --> 00:12:14,526 you and I will take off half a day. 196 00:12:14,693 --> 00:12:15,892 I'll pencil it in. 197 00:12:16,069 --> 00:12:17,315 [CHUCKLES] 198 00:12:17,487 --> 00:12:18,568 Hey. 199 00:12:18,739 --> 00:12:20,068 Guess what I taped for you today? 200 00:12:21,283 --> 00:12:23,158 The biography of Queen Elizabeth. 201 00:12:23,327 --> 00:12:24,786 Cool. 202 00:12:24,953 --> 00:12:27,077 The tapes are on top of the TV. 203 00:12:28,540 --> 00:12:30,285 What's up? 204 00:12:30,459 --> 00:12:33,461 Do you think Mary is really gonna get a chance at the pros? 205 00:12:33,837 --> 00:12:35,831 Oh, I don't know. Why? 206 00:12:36,507 --> 00:12:38,132 She seems pretty set on it. 207 00:12:38,300 --> 00:12:41,255 Just because she dreamed about it, doesn't mean it's going to happen. 208 00:12:41,428 --> 00:12:45,641 Besides, she's never even mentioned trying to play pro ball until now. 209 00:12:45,807 --> 00:12:48,181 I want something nice like that to happen for her. 210 00:12:48,352 --> 00:12:50,641 She's been through a lot. 211 00:12:50,812 --> 00:12:53,221 - But? - But I don't want her to leave home. 212 00:12:53,398 --> 00:12:55,191 I don't think she's ready to leave home. 213 00:12:55,359 --> 00:12:56,474 No. 214 00:12:56,652 --> 00:12:58,645 Besides, we've always shared a room. 215 00:12:58,820 --> 00:13:00,814 I can't imagine her not being here. 216 00:13:00,989 --> 00:13:03,825 I don't think you have to worry about it. At least not yet. 217 00:13:07,329 --> 00:13:08,789 Oh. Heh-heh. 218 00:13:08,956 --> 00:13:10,866 [CHUCKLING] 219 00:13:11,041 --> 00:13:13,533 [CHATTERING] 220 00:13:13,710 --> 00:13:15,834 I'll give you 10 bucks for the whole lot of it. 221 00:13:16,004 --> 00:13:17,085 I need your space. 222 00:13:17,256 --> 00:13:18,715 Ten bucks? I don't think so. 223 00:13:18,882 --> 00:13:23,296 You might make 20, if you hang out till closing time and you sell it yourself, 224 00:13:23,470 --> 00:13:25,678 but then you'd have to hang out till closing time. 225 00:13:25,848 --> 00:13:27,640 So I'll hang out till closing time. 226 00:13:30,185 --> 00:13:33,223 I'm really happy you didn't have anything to do this afternoon. 227 00:13:33,397 --> 00:13:35,022 I was too. 228 00:13:35,190 --> 00:13:37,860 So when are you gonna tell me what this is all about? 229 00:13:38,026 --> 00:13:39,272 You'll see. 230 00:13:39,444 --> 00:13:41,023 It's a great opportunity. 231 00:13:45,117 --> 00:13:46,197 Here they come. 232 00:13:54,585 --> 00:13:55,996 Mary, 233 00:13:56,170 --> 00:13:58,412 this is Molly, the team captain. 234 00:13:58,589 --> 00:14:01,294 Her father is a good friend of mine, Jack Connelly. 235 00:14:01,466 --> 00:14:02,630 JACK: I thought you might be able 236 00:14:02,801 --> 00:14:05,210 to help them get ready for the Special Olympics. 237 00:14:06,471 --> 00:14:07,883 [CHUCKLES] 238 00:14:24,239 --> 00:14:25,319 Great movie, huh? 239 00:14:25,490 --> 00:14:27,235 It was the same as the last time we saw it. 240 00:14:27,409 --> 00:14:29,035 I'm not into the cowboy stuff that much. 241 00:14:29,203 --> 00:14:30,698 But it's not just about cowboys. 242 00:14:30,871 --> 00:14:35,830 It's about men and work and having a purpose, you know? 243 00:14:36,001 --> 00:14:39,916 It reminds me of when I was trying to decide what I wanted to be in life and... 244 00:14:40,130 --> 00:14:41,376 Look, the flea market is open. 245 00:14:41,548 --> 00:14:43,458 Maybe we can find bargains. Can we take a look? 246 00:14:44,301 --> 00:14:45,713 Sure, we can take a look. 247 00:14:56,146 --> 00:14:57,974 Hey, maybe Matt would like this. 248 00:14:58,482 --> 00:15:00,808 Maybe I'd like it. I might want to go to Crawford one day. 249 00:15:00,984 --> 00:15:02,895 But not to become a minister. 250 00:15:03,070 --> 00:15:04,695 No, not to become a minister. 251 00:15:04,863 --> 00:15:06,145 Hey, doc. 252 00:15:06,323 --> 00:15:08,566 You got a customer. 253 00:15:17,918 --> 00:15:19,627 Is there something you want to tell me? 254 00:15:21,046 --> 00:15:23,336 He's working his way through med school. 255 00:15:23,715 --> 00:15:26,552 That's funny. I thought I was working his way through med school. 256 00:15:28,178 --> 00:15:31,346 I'm thinking about moving to New York to go to medical school. 257 00:15:31,515 --> 00:15:32,891 So that's what this is about. 258 00:15:33,058 --> 00:15:34,518 Yeah. 259 00:15:34,685 --> 00:15:37,058 Why are you hanging out in the middle of the afternoon? 260 00:15:37,229 --> 00:15:39,223 Dad took me out of school to see The Wild Bunch. 261 00:15:39,398 --> 00:15:41,142 Oh. Sounds like a lecture coming up. 262 00:15:41,316 --> 00:15:43,191 You and I will talk later. 263 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,401 Because you have to talk to Simon about something. 264 00:15:47,030 --> 00:15:49,569 There's a lecture coming, isn't there? What did I do? 265 00:15:49,741 --> 00:15:51,534 You didn't do anything, really. No lecture. 266 00:15:51,702 --> 00:15:54,194 - Hey, how much you want for this? - Uh, $15. 267 00:15:55,873 --> 00:15:57,332 Fifteen dollars? 268 00:15:57,499 --> 00:15:59,292 How much did I pay for it the first time? 269 00:15:59,459 --> 00:16:01,334 - Thirty dollars. - For a sweatshirt? 270 00:16:01,503 --> 00:16:03,461 You're not getting 15 bucks for that. 271 00:16:13,390 --> 00:16:14,933 Forget it. 272 00:16:18,395 --> 00:16:21,730 I'm sorry this afternoon wasn't what you expected. 273 00:16:22,149 --> 00:16:24,189 It's almost the end of the school year. 274 00:16:24,359 --> 00:16:26,519 I'm graduating, 275 00:16:26,695 --> 00:16:29,982 and I don't know where I'm going once I walk out that door. 276 00:16:30,574 --> 00:16:32,781 I have no idea what I want to do with my life 277 00:16:32,951 --> 00:16:36,820 and I don't know who I am or who I wanna be. 278 00:16:36,997 --> 00:16:42,205 If it's any comfort, I don't know who I am or who I want to be either. 279 00:16:42,377 --> 00:16:43,956 You don't know you're Mom? 280 00:16:44,129 --> 00:16:46,372 I have a lot in common with Mom, 281 00:16:46,548 --> 00:16:48,542 but I'm not Mom and I don't want to be Mom. 282 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:53,426 Well, at least, not just Mom. 283 00:16:59,353 --> 00:17:02,853 Just Mom left her laundry basket. 284 00:17:10,447 --> 00:17:13,070 ERIC: I had just gotten into seminary in New York 285 00:17:13,242 --> 00:17:15,282 and I put off telling the Colonel because 286 00:17:15,452 --> 00:17:17,529 he had thought, at some point, 287 00:17:17,704 --> 00:17:21,039 if he didn't give me any financial help to go to college, that I'd crack. 288 00:17:21,208 --> 00:17:23,166 I'd have to join the service, then the Marine Corps 289 00:17:23,335 --> 00:17:24,878 would pay my tuition. 290 00:17:25,045 --> 00:17:27,537 Besides, he felt it was my duty to enlist 291 00:17:27,714 --> 00:17:29,673 and go wherever I was needed. 292 00:17:29,842 --> 00:17:31,551 Which at that time was Vietnam. 293 00:17:33,011 --> 00:17:34,507 I-- 294 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,254 I didn't want to be in the Marine Corps or the Army or the Navy 295 00:17:37,432 --> 00:17:38,976 or anything else. I never wanted to. 296 00:17:39,142 --> 00:17:41,599 And I certainly didn't want to go to Vietnam. 297 00:17:41,770 --> 00:17:42,802 Wait. 298 00:17:42,980 --> 00:17:45,306 You're not gonna tell me you dodged the draft, are you? 299 00:17:45,482 --> 00:17:46,646 No. 300 00:17:46,817 --> 00:17:49,190 No, they came up with this lottery system. 301 00:17:49,736 --> 00:17:50,900 Hmm. 302 00:17:51,822 --> 00:17:55,239 I remember all my buddies and I are gathered around the television set 303 00:17:55,409 --> 00:18:00,700 and we waited as this guy read out birthdates and lottery numbers. 304 00:18:00,873 --> 00:18:03,080 Low number, you were drafted. 305 00:18:03,250 --> 00:18:06,335 High number, you were off the hook. 306 00:18:06,712 --> 00:18:08,088 So I told myself, 307 00:18:08,589 --> 00:18:12,006 this is gonna be a sign from God. 308 00:18:12,509 --> 00:18:16,840 If I got a low number, then God wanted me to be in the Marine Corps. 309 00:18:17,014 --> 00:18:19,091 High number, 310 00:18:19,474 --> 00:18:20,970 he wanted me to be a minister. 311 00:18:22,853 --> 00:18:24,229 I got a high number. 312 00:18:24,396 --> 00:18:27,184 - Is that the end of the story? - No, so the next day I went up 313 00:18:27,357 --> 00:18:30,977 to tell my Dad that I was not enlisting, 314 00:18:31,153 --> 00:18:33,941 I was going to enrol in the seminary. 315 00:18:34,114 --> 00:18:36,404 When I finally managed to get the words out of my mouth, 316 00:18:36,575 --> 00:18:39,281 the Colonel just stared at me for what 317 00:18:39,536 --> 00:18:41,245 felt like an eternity. 318 00:18:41,413 --> 00:18:43,703 And he said, "Do me a favour, son." 319 00:18:43,874 --> 00:18:45,583 And I thought, "Oh, yeah, here it comes." 320 00:18:45,751 --> 00:18:48,290 The big flag-waving lecture. But instead, 321 00:18:49,379 --> 00:18:50,923 he said: 322 00:18:51,089 --> 00:18:52,834 "If you really want to be a minister, 323 00:18:53,008 --> 00:18:57,754 if that is what you feel God wants you to do, 324 00:18:57,930 --> 00:19:00,303 then I hope you'll be a good one." 325 00:19:00,516 --> 00:19:01,845 [LAUGHS] 326 00:19:02,017 --> 00:19:04,390 And I left happier than I've ever been in my life. 327 00:19:04,561 --> 00:19:07,267 - Is that the end of the story? - No, should have been. 328 00:19:07,439 --> 00:19:09,100 WAITER: Can I get you anything else, sir? 329 00:19:09,274 --> 00:19:11,944 But now that I think about it, I don't know, maybe my Dad was just 330 00:19:12,110 --> 00:19:15,362 issuing me a challenge because what really happened at that moment, 331 00:19:15,531 --> 00:19:19,114 was that those words set in motion years and years of the Colonel 332 00:19:19,284 --> 00:19:21,195 never feeling that I was a good enough minister 333 00:19:21,370 --> 00:19:22,699 to stay out of the Marine Corps. 334 00:19:22,871 --> 00:19:24,948 Not that there haven't been times I haven't asked 335 00:19:25,123 --> 00:19:27,366 if I was a good enough minister. As well as 336 00:19:27,543 --> 00:19:30,035 whether or not God 337 00:19:30,212 --> 00:19:34,756 performs signs. For me or anyone else on request. 338 00:19:34,925 --> 00:19:37,002 Well, if you don't believe in signs, 339 00:19:37,177 --> 00:19:39,503 then maybe that high draft number didn't mean anything. 340 00:19:39,930 --> 00:19:42,339 And you're really not supposed to be a minister. 341 00:19:42,516 --> 00:19:45,850 Maybe it just meant that you lucked out and you didn't have to sign up. 342 00:19:56,613 --> 00:19:58,192 How'd you make out? 343 00:19:58,365 --> 00:19:59,944 Twenty bucks, that's how I made out. 344 00:20:00,117 --> 00:20:03,985 The sum total of my life on Earth thus far. A lousy 20 bucks. 345 00:20:04,162 --> 00:20:06,121 I couldn't even visit New York on 20 bucks. 346 00:20:06,290 --> 00:20:08,746 You can't even buy a book about New York for 20 bucks. 347 00:20:08,917 --> 00:20:10,578 - You don't need to help me. - Yes, I do. 348 00:20:10,752 --> 00:20:12,248 Did Shana ask you to come to New York? 349 00:20:12,421 --> 00:20:14,414 - Ever even mention it? - No. 350 00:20:14,590 --> 00:20:16,749 Back in the old days, following a woman across country 351 00:20:16,925 --> 00:20:19,417 and showing up at her door may have been considered romantic. 352 00:20:19,595 --> 00:20:21,837 Nowadays, I think it's pretty much considered a felony. 353 00:20:22,014 --> 00:20:24,138 - I'm not stalking her. - Then what are you doing? 354 00:20:24,308 --> 00:20:26,136 I've invested two years in this relationship. 355 00:20:26,310 --> 00:20:28,802 I'm not gonna throw away two years. 356 00:20:28,979 --> 00:20:31,471 If I break up with her now, then all that time's for nothing. 357 00:20:31,648 --> 00:20:33,274 If you break up with her? "If"? 358 00:20:33,442 --> 00:20:35,732 She told me I was free to pursue other people. 359 00:20:35,903 --> 00:20:37,398 It's not a break-up, not completely. 360 00:20:37,571 --> 00:20:39,232 Why don't you just look at it as a break? 361 00:20:39,406 --> 00:20:41,613 Take a break and focus on you and what you want. 362 00:20:41,783 --> 00:20:42,899 I want to go to New York. 363 00:20:43,285 --> 00:20:44,566 Uh-huh. 364 00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:46,746 Where are you going? 365 00:20:46,914 --> 00:20:49,240 I'm gonna go find either one of my parents and apologise 366 00:20:49,416 --> 00:20:52,085 for not listening every time they gave me advice. 367 00:20:59,468 --> 00:21:01,627 [RINGS] 368 00:21:04,389 --> 00:21:06,348 - Hello? - Hi, is Shana around? 369 00:21:06,517 --> 00:21:08,226 Sorry, she and Brett went to the library. 370 00:21:08,393 --> 00:21:09,723 The library? 371 00:21:09,895 --> 00:21:11,556 On a Friday night at midnight? 372 00:21:11,730 --> 00:21:14,981 I don't know how the libraries are at little colleges in America's villages, 373 00:21:15,150 --> 00:21:17,274 but here at the big universities, in the big cities, 374 00:21:17,444 --> 00:21:18,904 libraries are open till 2 a.m. 375 00:21:19,071 --> 00:21:21,029 If it's not too much trouble when Shana gets in, 376 00:21:21,198 --> 00:21:23,108 would you tell her that I'm coming to the city? 377 00:21:23,283 --> 00:21:25,028 I want to see big buildings and take a ride 378 00:21:25,202 --> 00:21:27,824 - on that underground train. - No problem. 379 00:21:48,016 --> 00:21:50,390 I just talked to Mary, she's pretty down. 380 00:21:50,561 --> 00:21:53,931 I had no idea she was so set on playing for the WNBA. 381 00:21:54,106 --> 00:21:56,099 I don't think Mary wants to play pro ball, 382 00:21:56,275 --> 00:21:58,601 she just doesn't want to go to Crawford next year. 383 00:21:58,777 --> 00:22:00,605 I didn't know that either. 384 00:22:00,779 --> 00:22:03,567 I thought she felt lucky to still be going to college next year 385 00:22:03,740 --> 00:22:05,485 after the year she's had this year. 386 00:22:05,659 --> 00:22:07,403 - What are you doing? - Oh, nothing really. 387 00:22:07,578 --> 00:22:09,405 I'm just sort of 388 00:22:10,330 --> 00:22:12,158 puttering with this old clock. 389 00:22:16,003 --> 00:22:17,712 I don't want to be just Mom. 390 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:18,960 You're not just Mom. 391 00:22:19,131 --> 00:22:22,465 No, no. I am just Mom. 392 00:22:22,634 --> 00:22:26,550 But you're not just Dad because you have a job that people know is a job. 393 00:22:26,722 --> 00:22:30,092 Yeah, I have a job as a minister, which, until Simon pointed out to me, 394 00:22:30,267 --> 00:22:32,973 is the job I thought I was supposed to have. 395 00:22:33,145 --> 00:22:35,055 Oh, you know you were meant to be a minister. 396 00:22:35,230 --> 00:22:37,520 You can't let Simon get to you like this. 397 00:22:37,691 --> 00:22:39,898 And you can't let Lucy get to you like this. 398 00:22:44,323 --> 00:22:47,942 When did the kids' opinions get to be more important than ours? 399 00:22:48,118 --> 00:22:50,028 I don't know. 400 00:22:50,204 --> 00:22:53,739 Let's just go to bed and try to forget what they said. 401 00:22:53,916 --> 00:22:55,625 MOLLY [ON PHONE]: I forgot to say thanks 402 00:22:55,792 --> 00:22:57,833 for helping out the team today. 403 00:22:58,003 --> 00:23:00,329 No problem. I enjoyed it. 404 00:23:00,506 --> 00:23:03,128 I really enjoyed it too. 405 00:23:03,300 --> 00:23:05,922 Are you gonna be at practice Monday? 406 00:23:06,094 --> 00:23:09,429 Yep, I'm gonna be there every day after school as long as they need me. 407 00:23:09,890 --> 00:23:11,054 [CHUCKLES] 408 00:23:12,976 --> 00:23:14,472 Is that all you wanted, Molly? 409 00:23:14,645 --> 00:23:16,354 No. 410 00:23:16,522 --> 00:23:18,681 I wanted to ask you 411 00:23:18,857 --> 00:23:21,978 if you could play basketball with me tomorrow. 412 00:23:22,152 --> 00:23:24,988 But it makes me feel funny to ask you, 413 00:23:25,155 --> 00:23:29,652 because you probably have lots of things to do on Saturday, 414 00:23:29,826 --> 00:23:31,370 and don't have time. 415 00:23:31,745 --> 00:23:33,371 It's okay, I'm available. 416 00:23:33,539 --> 00:23:35,248 Great. 417 00:23:35,415 --> 00:23:37,954 Do you want to come over to my house? 418 00:23:38,126 --> 00:23:41,543 Or could I come over to your house? 419 00:23:41,713 --> 00:23:45,297 My dad could bring me, he already said. 420 00:23:45,467 --> 00:23:47,128 Fine. Then come on over. 421 00:23:49,930 --> 00:23:51,509 Is there anything else? 422 00:23:51,682 --> 00:23:53,925 - Mary? - Yeah. 423 00:23:54,101 --> 00:23:56,640 You're my hero. 424 00:23:59,273 --> 00:24:01,183 No, I'm not. 425 00:24:01,358 --> 00:24:06,235 Believe me, I'm nobody's hero. 426 00:24:24,047 --> 00:24:26,006 MAN 1: The queen. MAN 2: There she is. 427 00:24:26,175 --> 00:24:28,749 MAN 3: The queen. MAN 4: Hail to the queen. 428 00:24:28,927 --> 00:24:31,300 WOMAN 1: Long live the queen. WOMAN 2: Yes. 429 00:24:31,471 --> 00:24:32,718 MAN 5: Her Majesty. 430 00:24:33,473 --> 00:24:37,223 MAN 6: She's the queen. MAN 7: Your Highness. 431 00:24:37,394 --> 00:24:39,269 WOMAN 3: We bow to you. 432 00:24:39,438 --> 00:24:41,266 MAN 8: This way please. WOMAN 4: Yes. 433 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:42,555 MAN 9: Bow before you. 434 00:24:46,695 --> 00:24:50,030 SIMON: Ruthie. Ruthie! Ruthie, hey. 435 00:24:51,533 --> 00:24:53,194 You better get up if you want pancakes. 436 00:24:54,870 --> 00:24:56,864 Where are my loyal subjects? 437 00:24:57,748 --> 00:24:59,326 What are you talking about? 438 00:25:00,918 --> 00:25:03,291 Wow. I'm gonna be the Queen of England. 439 00:25:03,462 --> 00:25:05,835 - Yeah, sure you are. - I am. 440 00:25:06,006 --> 00:25:08,130 Look, Mary dreamed she was gonna play for the pros. 441 00:25:08,300 --> 00:25:10,128 And she's not gonna play for the pros. 442 00:25:10,302 --> 00:25:12,177 We don't know that. 443 00:25:12,346 --> 00:25:14,754 - It still could happen. - I doubt it, Your Majesty. 444 00:25:14,932 --> 00:25:17,091 And if you don't get up, I'm eating your pancakes. 445 00:25:17,267 --> 00:25:18,300 Off with your head. 446 00:25:23,732 --> 00:25:26,520 - Why can't we just talk about it? - We don't have to talk about it. 447 00:25:26,693 --> 00:25:29,268 I understand, you don't want to be just Mom. 448 00:25:29,446 --> 00:25:31,072 I don't want to be just Mom either. 449 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,865 And I don't have to be just Mom. 450 00:25:34,535 --> 00:25:37,490 - I dreamed I'm the Queen of England. - Uh-oh. 451 00:25:37,871 --> 00:25:40,446 That's probably because you watched those tapes on the queen yesterday. 452 00:25:40,624 --> 00:25:42,534 - Just one of them. - Well, what did you learn 453 00:25:42,709 --> 00:25:45,462 that made you think you would truly wanna be the Queen of England? 454 00:25:45,629 --> 00:25:48,797 Hello? She lives in a castle with a bunch of dogs. 455 00:25:48,966 --> 00:25:51,090 And people have to do anything she tells them, 456 00:25:51,260 --> 00:25:52,838 and bow and curtsy to her. 457 00:25:53,011 --> 00:25:55,171 You should probably watch the other two tapes. 458 00:25:55,347 --> 00:25:57,139 You need to do a lot of research on someone 459 00:25:57,307 --> 00:25:58,968 before you decide you want to be them. 460 00:26:00,811 --> 00:26:02,804 Or before you decide you don't want to be them. 461 00:26:04,314 --> 00:26:06,641 [DOORBELL RINGS] 462 00:26:11,488 --> 00:26:14,027 - Hi, Mary. - Oh, hey, kiddo. 463 00:26:14,199 --> 00:26:16,489 I'm glad you could make it. 464 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,370 I'm off to meet Coach Cleary. I'm going to the driving range 465 00:26:20,539 --> 00:26:23,873 to hit a few balls but I'll be back in a couple of hours. 466 00:26:24,084 --> 00:26:27,003 Molly said she wasn't sure whether she should be here this morning 467 00:26:27,171 --> 00:26:29,497 because you said something that confused her last night. 468 00:26:31,133 --> 00:26:34,004 Why didn't you want to be my hero? 469 00:26:34,219 --> 00:26:35,299 [SIGHS] 470 00:26:35,470 --> 00:26:37,927 It's not that I don't want to be your hero. 471 00:26:38,098 --> 00:26:39,973 I don't deserve to be your hero. 472 00:26:43,061 --> 00:26:45,898 It's a long story. I haven't had a great year. 473 00:26:46,064 --> 00:26:47,643 I'm aware of that. 474 00:26:47,816 --> 00:26:49,810 Maybe you're being a little too hard on yourself. 475 00:26:50,235 --> 00:26:51,695 Or not hard enough. 476 00:26:54,031 --> 00:26:55,490 You ready? 477 00:26:55,657 --> 00:26:57,402 Have a good time. Do your best. 478 00:26:57,576 --> 00:26:58,822 I will. 479 00:27:08,128 --> 00:27:09,671 I'm gonna take Happy for a walk. 480 00:27:09,838 --> 00:27:12,840 Uh, okay, but before you do that, you might want to find your father 481 00:27:13,008 --> 00:27:15,927 - and talk to him. - I talked to him all day yesterday. 482 00:27:16,094 --> 00:27:18,218 And all you got out of it is that he could have gone 483 00:27:18,388 --> 00:27:19,932 to Canada to avoid the draft. 484 00:27:20,432 --> 00:27:23,719 - So? - So your Dad was trying to tell you 485 00:27:23,894 --> 00:27:27,727 how he became a minister and why he loves doing what he does. 486 00:27:27,898 --> 00:27:31,398 And you made him question whether or not he was ever meant to do it. 487 00:27:31,568 --> 00:27:33,063 You're kidding. I did that? 488 00:27:33,237 --> 00:27:35,111 Simon, you're a young man now. 489 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,855 You're not a little boy anymore. What you say matters. 490 00:27:39,785 --> 00:27:41,410 Find your Dad and talk to him. 491 00:27:55,467 --> 00:27:56,927 I woke up and you weren't there. 492 00:27:57,469 --> 00:27:59,095 Do I have to tell you when I go out now? 493 00:27:59,346 --> 00:28:01,803 No, it's just that I've never known you to leave so quietly. 494 00:28:01,974 --> 00:28:04,596 I figured if I woke you up, I'd get another lecture. 495 00:28:04,768 --> 00:28:06,596 Is that why you're here, for another lecture? 496 00:28:06,770 --> 00:28:09,606 No, we just had a problem with the fax machine in the emergency room, 497 00:28:09,773 --> 00:28:12,728 which I took care of. I just wanted to make sure it was still working. 498 00:28:14,403 --> 00:28:17,570 - So you talked to Shana? - No, I didn't talk to Shana. 499 00:28:17,739 --> 00:28:19,698 But I left a message that I plan to visit. 500 00:28:20,284 --> 00:28:23,903 Well, I'll say one thing for you, you are persistent. 501 00:28:24,079 --> 00:28:26,286 I'll see you back at the apartment. 502 00:28:26,456 --> 00:28:28,000 Need some help? 503 00:28:28,166 --> 00:28:30,575 Oh, thanks. I'd love a five-minute break. 504 00:28:30,752 --> 00:28:33,161 - I've got a phone call to make. - At your service. 505 00:28:34,423 --> 00:28:38,422 - By the way, I'm Matt Camden. - Pleased to meet you, Matt. I'm Jake. 506 00:28:38,594 --> 00:28:42,427 - Ah. Are you new? - Do I look new? 507 00:28:42,598 --> 00:28:43,761 [CHUCKLES] 508 00:28:43,932 --> 00:28:45,344 I just never seen you before. 509 00:28:45,517 --> 00:28:46,977 How long have you been working here? 510 00:28:47,144 --> 00:28:48,176 Nine months. 511 00:28:48,353 --> 00:28:51,308 Oh, well, I've been here almost 39 years. 512 00:28:51,481 --> 00:28:52,977 Yeah, I work all over the hospital. 513 00:28:53,150 --> 00:28:54,978 Fill in wherever I'm needed. 514 00:28:55,152 --> 00:28:58,273 I've done about every lousy job there is to do here. 515 00:29:02,993 --> 00:29:06,078 Now, that's what I wanted to do, be a doctor. 516 00:29:06,705 --> 00:29:08,284 I'm in premed at Crawford. 517 00:29:08,457 --> 00:29:10,616 Well, that's where I graduated from. 518 00:29:10,792 --> 00:29:13,747 - You graduated from Crawford? - Yep. Premed. 519 00:29:13,921 --> 00:29:16,673 I even went a year to USC Medical School. 520 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,332 Oh, but then I got married and had kids. 521 00:29:19,510 --> 00:29:22,511 I couldn't make a go at medical school with all that responsibility. 522 00:29:22,930 --> 00:29:25,137 But you graduated from college, right? 523 00:29:25,307 --> 00:29:26,933 Yep. 524 00:29:27,684 --> 00:29:29,892 Oh, I didn't always do this. 525 00:29:30,062 --> 00:29:32,554 See, I worked in the lab for years. 526 00:29:32,940 --> 00:29:35,858 But you get older, gigs get harder to get, 527 00:29:36,026 --> 00:29:38,981 and the opportunities are fewer and farther between. 528 00:29:41,782 --> 00:29:43,526 Well, I've got to make that phone call. 529 00:29:43,700 --> 00:29:45,196 Right. 530 00:29:45,702 --> 00:29:47,696 WOMAN [OVER PA]: Paging Sarah Esserman. 531 00:29:56,421 --> 00:29:57,502 [KNOCKING] 532 00:30:02,511 --> 00:30:03,543 Come in. 533 00:30:14,565 --> 00:30:16,558 [SIMON SIGHING] 534 00:30:16,733 --> 00:30:19,735 - I'm sorry if I did something wrong. - You didn't do anything wrong. 535 00:30:19,903 --> 00:30:22,609 You just made me think about my life, that's all. 536 00:30:22,781 --> 00:30:25,783 - It's a good thing. - I guess I hurt your feelings 537 00:30:25,951 --> 00:30:27,909 when I said I didn't want to do what you do. 538 00:30:28,579 --> 00:30:30,323 It's more the way you said it. 539 00:30:30,497 --> 00:30:33,499 As if being a minister were ridiculous. 540 00:30:33,667 --> 00:30:36,206 But it is ridiculous, for me. 541 00:30:38,672 --> 00:30:41,246 I don't like to deal with other people's problems. 542 00:30:41,425 --> 00:30:45,506 I feel sorry for them, but I don't have a lot of patience. 543 00:30:45,679 --> 00:30:48,515 And I can't stand being around sick people 544 00:30:48,682 --> 00:30:50,391 because I'm always afraid they'll die. 545 00:30:52,811 --> 00:30:54,805 And I wouldn't want to stand up in church 546 00:30:55,022 --> 00:30:58,807 and talk about God because I feel like it's so personal and close to my heart 547 00:30:58,984 --> 00:31:03,398 that I'd have trouble saying things out loud without getting all weepy. 548 00:31:05,616 --> 00:31:07,574 You're good at what you do. 549 00:31:07,743 --> 00:31:12,904 Really, the world would be much worse off if you had gone to Canada. 550 00:31:14,166 --> 00:31:16,076 I'm gonna let that draft dodger thing drop. 551 00:31:16,251 --> 00:31:17,830 Thanks. 552 00:31:20,589 --> 00:31:23,461 It's okay, you don't have to explain. 553 00:31:24,843 --> 00:31:26,671 Did you know that when the queen was my age, 554 00:31:26,845 --> 00:31:29,800 she didn't have to go to school? They sent the teachers to her. 555 00:31:36,021 --> 00:31:39,023 And did you know that she beat her two sisters out of the job for queen? 556 00:31:39,191 --> 00:31:40,603 Keep watching. 557 00:31:44,404 --> 00:31:48,106 It's not that I don't think you're smart. You're the smartest woman I know. 558 00:31:48,283 --> 00:31:50,324 You can do everything. 559 00:31:50,494 --> 00:31:53,247 And you're smart enough to do anything. 560 00:31:53,580 --> 00:31:55,408 I love you and I admire you. 561 00:31:56,124 --> 00:31:57,999 But come on, 562 00:31:58,168 --> 00:32:00,494 who wants to be their own mother? 563 00:32:00,671 --> 00:32:02,830 I mean, if you think about it? 564 00:32:03,006 --> 00:32:06,008 When you think about it, who really knows their own mother? 565 00:32:06,176 --> 00:32:08,086 You've only known me for 16 years. 566 00:32:08,971 --> 00:32:10,680 I'm not just a mom. 567 00:32:10,848 --> 00:32:15,142 I'm a person, a woman, a wife. 568 00:32:15,310 --> 00:32:18,016 And like anyone else, I have dreams. 569 00:32:18,981 --> 00:32:21,983 - Dreams? - Yeah. 570 00:32:22,150 --> 00:32:24,725 There's much more I want to do in life. 571 00:32:24,903 --> 00:32:27,193 My life's not over. 572 00:32:27,948 --> 00:32:29,692 Really? 573 00:32:30,117 --> 00:32:32,027 So tell me about one of your dreams. 574 00:32:32,202 --> 00:32:34,077 Okay. 575 00:32:34,246 --> 00:32:38,114 When Matt was a baby and your father had just gotten assigned to Glenoak, 576 00:32:38,292 --> 00:32:40,534 I wanted to start a cooperative at the church. 577 00:32:41,837 --> 00:32:43,213 So that I could bring together 578 00:32:43,380 --> 00:32:47,046 the women who get accused of just staying home to bake cupcakes, 579 00:32:47,217 --> 00:32:48,760 with the women who get accused of 580 00:32:48,927 --> 00:32:51,846 abandoning their children to go to work. 581 00:32:52,556 --> 00:32:54,799 More than 20 years have passed. 582 00:32:54,975 --> 00:32:58,345 And the women are still divided into the same two groups. 583 00:32:58,770 --> 00:33:02,105 - But that's not your fault. - No. 584 00:33:02,274 --> 00:33:04,018 But wouldn't it be nice 585 00:33:04,193 --> 00:33:07,812 if some of the moms who stayed at home, could take in one or two kids 586 00:33:07,988 --> 00:33:10,112 with their own after school. 587 00:33:10,282 --> 00:33:13,154 Look after them, so that the moms who work outside the home 588 00:33:13,327 --> 00:33:15,201 could save some money on child-care. 589 00:33:15,370 --> 00:33:17,079 Or, wouldn't it be nice 590 00:33:17,247 --> 00:33:21,626 if the moms who worked outside of the home could help the other moms 591 00:33:21,793 --> 00:33:23,917 with whatever special skills they might have. 592 00:33:24,087 --> 00:33:25,796 Or even just donate 593 00:33:25,964 --> 00:33:31,386 a little of their salary to help build that church child-care centre. 594 00:33:31,553 --> 00:33:33,132 Well, that's a great idea. 595 00:33:33,305 --> 00:33:34,800 Have you ever told Dad about it? 596 00:33:35,182 --> 00:33:36,761 No. 597 00:33:38,143 --> 00:33:39,603 Well, why not? 598 00:33:39,770 --> 00:33:41,810 Because if I did, I might actually have to do it. 599 00:33:41,980 --> 00:33:44,104 And I'm not sure I actually can. 600 00:33:45,859 --> 00:33:49,146 It's okay to dream, it's important to dream. 601 00:33:49,321 --> 00:33:51,315 But it's also important to know the difference 602 00:33:51,490 --> 00:33:54,445 between dreams and reality. 603 00:33:54,660 --> 00:33:58,575 And how to make a dream a reality. 604 00:34:06,463 --> 00:34:08,006 Who taught you how to play basketball? 605 00:34:08,173 --> 00:34:10,131 - You're really good. - My dad. 606 00:34:10,300 --> 00:34:12,009 What does your dad do? What kind of work? 607 00:34:12,177 --> 00:34:14,752 He finds girls who play basketball. 608 00:34:16,181 --> 00:34:19,883 It's called a scout. He's the scout for the WNBA. 609 00:34:20,060 --> 00:34:21,603 He's a scout for the pros? 610 00:34:23,105 --> 00:34:24,386 Aha. 611 00:34:24,606 --> 00:34:25,805 So I was right. 612 00:34:26,692 --> 00:34:28,602 It's good to be right. 613 00:34:41,957 --> 00:34:44,876 - They're all down there. - All? 614 00:34:45,043 --> 00:34:47,998 Mom, Dad, Coach Cleary, Mr. Connelly. 615 00:34:48,172 --> 00:34:50,498 - What did you hear? - I was too nervous to listen. 616 00:34:50,674 --> 00:34:52,335 But you know what Mom and Dad are saying. 617 00:34:52,509 --> 00:34:54,088 They're saying I should go to college. 618 00:34:54,261 --> 00:34:57,346 And I don't want to go to college. Not if I can play pro ball. 619 00:34:57,514 --> 00:34:59,840 But if they want you to play pro ball, 620 00:35:00,017 --> 00:35:02,010 why didn't Molly's dad just talk to you about it? 621 00:35:02,186 --> 00:35:04,891 Because obviously, he wanted to tell Mom and Dad first. 622 00:35:05,063 --> 00:35:07,187 When Dad called Coach Cleary he didn't seem to know 623 00:35:07,357 --> 00:35:10,194 - anything about it either. - Hello? It's supposed to be a surprise. 624 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,354 Otherwise, he would have said something yesterday. 625 00:35:12,738 --> 00:35:14,399 I just find the whole thing kind of odd. 626 00:35:14,573 --> 00:35:16,732 Yeah, well, I find you kind of odd. 627 00:35:16,909 --> 00:35:19,614 I just don't know why you're so sure about this offer. 628 00:35:20,162 --> 00:35:24,955 - My dream. - Oh, yeah, the dream, yeah. Um... 629 00:35:25,125 --> 00:35:27,748 Maybe you shouldn't leave home without me. 630 00:35:29,630 --> 00:35:32,382 I'm really not looking forward to this. 631 00:35:32,549 --> 00:35:34,459 I guess I should be the one to let her know. 632 00:35:34,635 --> 00:35:37,257 No. I don't think you should be the one to tell her. 633 00:35:37,429 --> 00:35:41,344 Well, I don't think I should be the one to tell her. 634 00:35:42,851 --> 00:35:44,761 - Me? JACK: No, 635 00:35:44,937 --> 00:35:46,562 I want Molly to tell her. 636 00:35:48,398 --> 00:35:51,068 - Can you give me 15 minutes? - You sure about that, Jack? 637 00:35:51,235 --> 00:35:53,193 Yes, I'm sure. 638 00:35:53,362 --> 00:35:54,905 Do you want me here? 639 00:35:55,072 --> 00:35:56,353 That's okay. 640 00:35:56,532 --> 00:35:58,858 We'll want to talk to Mary alone after she gets the news. 641 00:35:59,034 --> 00:36:00,660 Okay. 642 00:36:09,878 --> 00:36:11,836 [BAND PLAYING ON TV] 643 00:36:19,763 --> 00:36:20,927 [BABBLING] 644 00:36:22,140 --> 00:36:23,173 What happened? 645 00:36:23,350 --> 00:36:25,723 Did you know that the Queen of England works? 646 00:36:26,395 --> 00:36:28,270 I'd assume there was some work to it, yeah. 647 00:36:28,438 --> 00:36:30,812 Why would anyone assume there was work involved? 648 00:36:30,983 --> 00:36:33,107 All the people are supposed to work for her. 649 00:36:33,277 --> 00:36:35,603 No. She works for all the people. 650 00:36:35,779 --> 00:36:38,615 I'll say. She never gets a chance to play with her dogs 651 00:36:38,782 --> 00:36:41,239 or ride her horses or see her kids. 652 00:36:41,410 --> 00:36:43,119 I don't think she's too upset about that. 653 00:36:43,287 --> 00:36:45,446 It's a good thing Mom gave me those tapes. 654 00:36:45,622 --> 00:36:48,245 I would have been heading for a major disappointment. 655 00:36:51,670 --> 00:36:54,921 So are Mom and Dad gonna let Mary take the basketball job 656 00:36:55,090 --> 00:36:56,751 - or not? - I don't know. 657 00:36:56,925 --> 00:36:59,049 They're still in their big conference. 658 00:36:59,219 --> 00:37:00,596 What are you guys doing? 659 00:37:00,762 --> 00:37:04,132 Ruthie just decided that she doesn't want to be the Queen of England. 660 00:37:04,766 --> 00:37:06,262 What do you wanna be when you grow up? 661 00:37:06,685 --> 00:37:10,102 - I want to be Mom. - Want to be? You are Mom. 662 00:37:10,272 --> 00:37:11,436 No, not yet. 663 00:37:11,607 --> 00:37:15,142 But if I turn out to be half the woman my mother is that'll be fine with me. 664 00:37:15,319 --> 00:37:19,483 Hey, you're on recon, you have to go find out what's happening with Mary. 665 00:37:21,241 --> 00:37:23,994 I'd hate to see Mary leave. 666 00:37:24,161 --> 00:37:25,407 But someday she will. 667 00:37:26,496 --> 00:37:28,289 Yeah, someday she will. 668 00:37:28,457 --> 00:37:29,656 We all will. 669 00:37:30,959 --> 00:37:33,451 Yeah, by the time you leave they probably won't even notice. 670 00:37:34,421 --> 00:37:36,747 Ah, come on, you know I love you. 671 00:37:38,425 --> 00:37:39,885 [PHONE RINGS] 672 00:37:40,093 --> 00:37:41,968 MAN [ON PHONE]: Hello? - Is Shana there? 673 00:37:42,137 --> 00:37:44,594 Shana isn't here. She's at the library. 674 00:37:44,765 --> 00:37:47,553 - Is this Matt? - Yeah, it's Matt. 675 00:37:47,726 --> 00:37:49,305 What time does your bus get into town? 676 00:37:49,478 --> 00:37:52,349 Heh. I guess that passes for humour in the big city. 677 00:37:52,523 --> 00:37:55,275 Hey, man, I'm sorry. It's just that you've called here 27 times. 678 00:37:55,442 --> 00:37:58,563 And I hate to keep telling you that Shana isn't here. But she's not here. 679 00:37:58,737 --> 00:38:00,316 She's in premed. She studies. 680 00:38:00,489 --> 00:38:02,447 She goes to the library. What can I tell you? 681 00:38:02,616 --> 00:38:03,992 If all you guys are in premed 682 00:38:04,159 --> 00:38:06,153 and everyone's always at the library studying, 683 00:38:06,328 --> 00:38:08,405 how come you're always at home answering the phone? 684 00:38:08,580 --> 00:38:12,116 - Because I got kicked out. - Oh, sorry. 685 00:38:12,292 --> 00:38:14,085 I'll tell her you called, again. 686 00:38:14,294 --> 00:38:15,790 Thanks. 687 00:38:16,964 --> 00:38:18,589 And tell her I'm not coming to visit. 688 00:38:18,757 --> 00:38:20,715 I think that's best. 689 00:38:23,762 --> 00:38:25,507 You decided not to go to New York? 690 00:38:25,722 --> 00:38:27,134 [SIGHS] 691 00:38:27,683 --> 00:38:29,890 I was never gonna go to New York, we both know that. 692 00:38:30,060 --> 00:38:32,184 No, I knew that. You didn't know that. 693 00:38:33,522 --> 00:38:35,812 You know, I talked to this old guy at work today. 694 00:38:35,983 --> 00:38:39,020 Something he said made me think twice about it. 695 00:38:39,278 --> 00:38:41,105 I really do need to get serious about school. 696 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,107 Ooh. Hallelujah. 697 00:38:44,449 --> 00:38:46,657 Yeah, I signed up to work as an orderly today. 698 00:38:46,827 --> 00:38:50,197 Get more hours, earn more money. Get more of a feel for what's going on 699 00:38:50,372 --> 00:38:52,745 - outside the world of hospital food. - Good for you. 700 00:38:52,916 --> 00:38:54,459 No, good for you. 701 00:38:54,626 --> 00:38:56,667 You paid that old guy to tell me that story 702 00:38:56,837 --> 00:38:58,213 about dropping out of med school. 703 00:38:58,380 --> 00:38:59,579 How did you know? 704 00:38:59,756 --> 00:39:02,960 Because it was a totally lame story and a little too coincidental. 705 00:39:03,135 --> 00:39:06,505 He confessed. Now, I figured if you went through all that trouble 706 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,839 to try to get through to me, I should start listening. 707 00:39:13,061 --> 00:39:16,562 - Want to go to the library? - Why not? 708 00:39:17,482 --> 00:39:19,690 We make a nice couple. 709 00:39:19,860 --> 00:39:22,613 You say the sweetest things. 710 00:39:25,741 --> 00:39:27,450 Pizza? 711 00:39:30,495 --> 00:39:32,406 You realise you'll basically be moving out? 712 00:39:32,581 --> 00:39:34,491 Yeah, I realise. 713 00:39:34,666 --> 00:39:37,585 And you'll be giving up your opportunity to go to college? 714 00:39:37,753 --> 00:39:38,916 Or delaying. 715 00:39:39,087 --> 00:39:43,466 A couple of years in the WNBA and I can pay my way through college. 716 00:39:43,634 --> 00:39:46,885 I should write that down. That is a big selling point. 717 00:39:47,679 --> 00:39:50,681 Maybe Mom and Dad won't even try to stop you. 718 00:39:50,849 --> 00:39:53,768 Maybe they think it's a good idea. 719 00:39:54,686 --> 00:39:56,514 They're not gonna think this is a good idea. 720 00:39:58,398 --> 00:40:00,890 You know what? I'm almost 18, 721 00:40:01,068 --> 00:40:03,394 and when it comes down to it, they have to let me do this. 722 00:40:03,570 --> 00:40:04,603 This is my life. 723 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:06,776 [KNOCKING] 724 00:40:07,741 --> 00:40:09,023 Molly's here to see you. 725 00:40:12,788 --> 00:40:14,331 Good luck. I love you. 726 00:40:23,048 --> 00:40:25,207 I think I made a mistake. 727 00:40:25,384 --> 00:40:27,342 I make a lot of mistakes. 728 00:40:27,511 --> 00:40:28,627 What mistake? 729 00:40:31,139 --> 00:40:32,848 Oh, no. 730 00:40:33,725 --> 00:40:36,478 - You're dad isn't a pro scout? - No, he is. 731 00:40:37,437 --> 00:40:39,894 That's good. What mistake? 732 00:40:40,065 --> 00:40:42,937 Did I say that he wants you to play pro ball? 733 00:40:43,527 --> 00:40:45,983 Not in so many words, but... 734 00:40:46,154 --> 00:40:49,358 Because if I did, I'm really sorry. 735 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:51,909 He doesn't want me to play pro ball. 736 00:40:52,077 --> 00:40:53,537 No. 737 00:40:54,413 --> 00:40:56,406 How could that be? 738 00:40:56,582 --> 00:40:58,908 Why would Coach Cleary have me coach--? 739 00:40:59,084 --> 00:41:00,627 Girls like me. 740 00:41:02,129 --> 00:41:04,455 Because I saw you play in high school 741 00:41:04,631 --> 00:41:08,381 and that's when I decided that you're my hero. 742 00:41:18,020 --> 00:41:20,512 Molly's very responsible. When she's done something wrong 743 00:41:20,689 --> 00:41:23,726 or something that hurts someone, she likes to handle it herself. 744 00:41:23,901 --> 00:41:26,523 It gives her a lot of confidence. 745 00:41:29,364 --> 00:41:31,654 Molly didn't say you wanted to draft me. 746 00:41:31,825 --> 00:41:36,405 Uh, she told me you were a scout and I jumped to the wrong conclusion. 747 00:41:38,248 --> 00:41:39,743 I didn't make a mistake? 748 00:41:40,209 --> 00:41:44,706 - No. I made the mistake. JACK: Molly, 749 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,372 I owe you an apology. 750 00:41:48,091 --> 00:41:49,337 I'm so sorry, kid. 751 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,299 - It's okay. - No, it's not okay. 752 00:41:52,471 --> 00:41:55,888 Yes, it is. Everyone makes mistakes. 753 00:41:58,143 --> 00:42:00,552 I should have told Mary I was a scout in the first place. 754 00:42:00,729 --> 00:42:02,853 And that Molly was a big fan of Mary's. 755 00:42:05,484 --> 00:42:09,020 It's not that you're not WNBA material, 756 00:42:09,446 --> 00:42:11,689 I just don't think you're WNBA material yet. 757 00:42:11,907 --> 00:42:13,450 I hope you land on a college team 758 00:42:13,617 --> 00:42:15,824 and we can work something out in the future. 759 00:42:15,994 --> 00:42:17,406 You've got a lot of potential. 760 00:42:18,622 --> 00:42:21,114 Thanks, that means a lot to me. 761 00:42:25,295 --> 00:42:27,455 So I'll see you on practice Monday afternoon? 762 00:42:27,631 --> 00:42:30,716 Thanks, Mary. Good night. 763 00:42:39,309 --> 00:42:40,473 We know you're disappointed. 764 00:42:41,478 --> 00:42:43,388 Yeah, I am. 765 00:42:43,856 --> 00:42:46,561 But don't underestimate my ability to come back. 766 00:42:46,733 --> 00:42:49,190 After spending some time with Molly and seeing 767 00:42:49,361 --> 00:42:51,604 how hard she has to work at things, 768 00:42:51,780 --> 00:42:54,106 I realise that I'm gonna have to work a little bit harder 769 00:42:54,283 --> 00:42:56,110 if I really want my dreams to come true. 770 00:43:07,421 --> 00:43:09,379 She's amazing. 771 00:43:09,548 --> 00:43:11,506 Inspiring. 772 00:43:13,552 --> 00:43:15,131 Hey. 773 00:43:16,513 --> 00:43:20,678 I want to talk to you about a dream I've had for years. 774 00:43:20,851 --> 00:43:23,853 Well, I can't wait to hear it. 775 00:43:24,021 --> 00:43:26,727 - Did Simon talk to you? - Yeah. 776 00:43:26,899 --> 00:43:28,477 And? 777 00:43:28,901 --> 00:43:34,358 And the flip side of doubt is faith.