1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,162 WWW.MY-SUBS.CO 1 00:00:04,171 --> 00:00:07,126 CHOIR [SINGING]: He's got the whole world in his hands 2 00:00:07,299 --> 00:00:10,301 He's got you and me, sister In his hands 3 00:00:10,469 --> 00:00:13,387 He's got you and me, brother In his hands 4 00:00:13,555 --> 00:00:16,593 He's got you and me, sister In his hands 5 00:00:16,767 --> 00:00:19,685 He's got the whole world In his hands 6 00:00:19,853 --> 00:00:22,974 He's got the whole world In his hands 7 00:00:23,148 --> 00:00:25,640 He's got the whole wide world In his hands 8 00:00:25,859 --> 00:00:27,141 He's got the whole... 9 00:00:27,361 --> 00:00:30,113 - I need to talk to you after church. - Talk to me now. 10 00:00:31,615 --> 00:00:33,692 No, after. I need your help with something. 11 00:00:33,867 --> 00:00:36,110 - Help with what? - Nothing. 12 00:00:37,621 --> 00:00:40,658 Can I hang out in the church nursery with the twins? 13 00:00:40,832 --> 00:00:42,707 - And miss Daddy's sermon? - Yes. 14 00:00:42,876 --> 00:00:45,664 - No. - No fair. You let Simon go. 15 00:00:45,838 --> 00:00:48,164 Simon's in the nursery helping Mrs. Kramer out 16 00:00:48,340 --> 00:00:49,966 because she's short a volunteer today, 17 00:00:50,133 --> 00:00:52,174 not because he wants to miss Daddy's sermon. 18 00:00:52,344 --> 00:00:54,302 Why do you think he volunteered to help out? 19 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,635 CHOIR [SINGING]: He's got the whole world in his hands 20 00:00:57,808 --> 00:00:59,885 He's got everybody here... 21 00:01:00,060 --> 00:01:03,477 Okay. So Simon wants me to ask you why you're mad at him. 22 00:01:04,064 --> 00:01:06,437 - I'm not mad at him. - Really? 23 00:01:06,608 --> 00:01:08,104 I'm just never gonna talk to him. 24 00:01:08,318 --> 00:01:10,312 Ever. For the rest of his life. 25 00:01:10,487 --> 00:01:14,071 Because unlike some people, I would never knowingly hurt anyone. 26 00:01:15,325 --> 00:01:16,986 Some people, like Simon? 27 00:01:17,578 --> 00:01:19,073 Hmm. What do you think? 28 00:01:19,580 --> 00:01:22,783 Huh. The old "answer a question with a question." 29 00:01:22,958 --> 00:01:23,990 He's in big trouble. 30 00:01:24,168 --> 00:01:26,161 Mm-hm. 31 00:01:31,133 --> 00:01:33,043 [MICROPHONE FEEDBACK WAILS] 32 00:01:33,218 --> 00:01:36,386 Few things make me as happy as when my congregation grows larger 33 00:01:36,555 --> 00:01:38,465 by adding new parishioners, 34 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:43,019 so I would like to start our service today by welcoming the Carvers. 35 00:01:43,812 --> 00:01:48,522 Uh, Bill, Sheila, Bobby, would you please stand up? 36 00:01:50,485 --> 00:01:53,523 Let's give them a hearty Glenoak Church welcome. 37 00:02:01,496 --> 00:02:02,529 [SIGHS] 38 00:02:02,706 --> 00:02:05,708 Having new parishioners makes me think of beginnings, 39 00:02:06,168 --> 00:02:10,036 which in turn makes me think about the ultimate beginning, 40 00:02:10,214 --> 00:02:12,006 our beginning, Genesis, 41 00:02:12,174 --> 00:02:17,300 when the Earth was cloaked in darkness until God said-- 42 00:02:17,471 --> 00:02:19,381 BOBBY: God said-- God said-- 43 00:02:19,556 --> 00:02:20,755 God said-- God said-- 44 00:02:20,933 --> 00:02:23,507 [CONGREGATION LAUGHS] 45 00:02:26,188 --> 00:02:28,016 Well, I appreciate the help-- 46 00:02:28,190 --> 00:02:31,108 BOBBY: The help-- The help-- The help-- 47 00:02:31,276 --> 00:02:33,317 The help-- The help-- The help-- 48 00:02:36,448 --> 00:02:39,023 - Maybe we should-- - We should-- We should-- 49 00:02:39,201 --> 00:02:42,902 We should-- We should-- We should-- We should-- We should-- We should-- 50 00:02:45,499 --> 00:02:47,042 BILL: Excuse us. 51 00:04:06,371 --> 00:04:08,412 [CONGREGATION CHATTERING] 52 00:04:14,505 --> 00:04:16,332 - Thank you. - Good to see you. 53 00:04:16,507 --> 00:04:18,500 - Thanks, bye. - Good. 54 00:04:18,675 --> 00:04:19,921 - Yeah? - Great service. 55 00:04:20,093 --> 00:04:21,754 MAN: Great service. 56 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,591 - Hey. - I'll see you. 57 00:04:25,766 --> 00:04:28,887 [SPEAKING INDISTINCTLY] 58 00:04:29,061 --> 00:04:31,469 [SPEAKING INDISTINCTLY] 59 00:04:33,649 --> 00:04:35,523 Hey. 60 00:04:35,692 --> 00:04:38,481 - Hey, how are you? MAN: Hi. How you doing? 61 00:04:38,654 --> 00:04:39,983 Good. How's the new job? 62 00:04:40,155 --> 00:04:41,235 MAN: Oh, very well. - Yeah? 63 00:04:41,406 --> 00:04:45,951 - Yeah, everything's great. - Oh, thank the Lord. 64 00:04:46,119 --> 00:04:47,401 MAN: Hi. WOMAN: How are you? 65 00:04:49,706 --> 00:04:51,332 - Hi. - Hello. 66 00:04:51,500 --> 00:04:53,707 I'm Annie Camden, Reverend Camden's wife. 67 00:04:53,877 --> 00:04:56,334 We met before church, and it's Eric. 68 00:04:57,631 --> 00:05:01,001 I just came back for my purse. We left so quickly, I forgot it. 69 00:05:01,176 --> 00:05:03,384 - Is Bobby, okay? - Bobby's got ADD. 70 00:05:03,554 --> 00:05:06,223 - Oh. - Attention deficit disorder. 71 00:05:06,390 --> 00:05:08,680 His outbursts are worse when he's stressed, 72 00:05:08,851 --> 00:05:10,512 even when he's on medication. 73 00:05:10,686 --> 00:05:14,850 I think he just got nervous when he had to stand up in front of everyone. 74 00:05:15,899 --> 00:05:18,569 I had no idea. I do that with all new members. 75 00:05:18,777 --> 00:05:23,191 Oh, don't worry. Bobby's fine. My husband and I are fine. 76 00:05:23,365 --> 00:05:24,397 Everyone's fine. 77 00:05:25,784 --> 00:05:29,237 Thank you for your kind words. I'd better get back home. 78 00:05:31,039 --> 00:05:32,155 [SIGHS] 79 00:05:34,668 --> 00:05:37,207 - What? - I don't think everything's fine. 80 00:05:37,838 --> 00:05:39,119 [SIGHS] 81 00:05:39,381 --> 00:05:40,793 Come on. 82 00:05:47,764 --> 00:05:49,592 Okay, you're mad at me. 83 00:05:50,851 --> 00:05:54,435 I know how this works. I figure I have two options. 84 00:05:54,605 --> 00:05:56,349 Either wait for you to stop being mad at me 85 00:05:56,523 --> 00:05:58,896 and try to get you to tell me what I supposedly did, 86 00:05:59,067 --> 00:06:01,606 or ignore you altogether. 87 00:06:03,238 --> 00:06:05,446 That's three, not two. 88 00:06:05,616 --> 00:06:08,618 Learn to count, Mr. Insensitive. 89 00:06:08,785 --> 00:06:10,067 [SIGHS] 90 00:06:10,245 --> 00:06:12,203 - How's John? - Fine. 91 00:06:12,372 --> 00:06:14,165 - School? - Good. 92 00:06:14,333 --> 00:06:16,789 - Yeah? Work at the hospital? - Greasy. 93 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:18,954 Ha, ha. And how's Shana? 94 00:06:19,463 --> 00:06:20,495 [SIGHS] 95 00:06:20,672 --> 00:06:23,461 Boy, it's hard to be humble when you're as good as I am. 96 00:06:23,634 --> 00:06:24,915 What are you talking about? 97 00:06:25,093 --> 00:06:27,087 I'm good at guessing what's wrong with my kids. 98 00:06:27,262 --> 00:06:29,470 Shana and I are very happy. 99 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:31,514 Was it me or Friedrich Nietzsche who said, uh, 100 00:06:31,683 --> 00:06:33,677 "Liar, liar, pants on fire"? 101 00:06:34,436 --> 00:06:37,011 [PHONE RINGS] 102 00:06:40,776 --> 00:06:42,853 Hello? Shana! 103 00:06:43,028 --> 00:06:44,108 [MOUTHING] No. No. 104 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,854 Hi. Is Matt there? I just tried him at his place, 105 00:06:47,032 --> 00:06:49,191 but John said he was at your house doing laundry. 106 00:06:49,368 --> 00:06:52,037 - Sure, I'm-- - [MOUTHING]: Gone! Gone! 107 00:06:52,204 --> 00:06:54,530 Can you hold on a second, please? What is wrong with you? 108 00:06:54,706 --> 00:06:57,163 - Say I'm not here. - I'm not gonna lie for you. 109 00:06:57,334 --> 00:07:01,249 Okay, fine, don't lie. 110 00:07:05,092 --> 00:07:06,635 Shana, you just missed him. 111 00:07:08,846 --> 00:07:11,172 Are you sure you heard your teacher correctly? 112 00:07:11,348 --> 00:07:12,380 I heard her, 113 00:07:12,558 --> 00:07:15,180 my friend Sara heard her, the whole class heard her. 114 00:07:15,352 --> 00:07:18,021 All the time I've been in school, I never had a teacher call me-- 115 00:07:18,230 --> 00:07:20,140 Stupid? 116 00:07:20,858 --> 00:07:23,397 Well, maybe Ms. Riddle won't ever call you that again. 117 00:07:23,569 --> 00:07:24,815 Maybe she'll-- 118 00:07:24,987 --> 00:07:29,068 Every time I get something wrong, she calls me stupid. 119 00:07:29,241 --> 00:07:31,235 Every time. 120 00:07:31,910 --> 00:07:32,943 Wow. 121 00:07:33,537 --> 00:07:35,281 I want my old teacher back. She liked me. 122 00:07:35,455 --> 00:07:37,034 She didn't think I was stupid. 123 00:07:37,541 --> 00:07:39,499 - You have to tell Mom. - No way. 124 00:07:39,668 --> 00:07:42,789 If Mom found out, she'd go to the school and yell at my teacher. 125 00:07:42,963 --> 00:07:45,206 Then Ms. Riddle would hate me even more. 126 00:07:45,382 --> 00:07:47,008 Promise you won't say anything. 127 00:07:48,719 --> 00:07:50,677 Okay, I promise. 128 00:07:54,141 --> 00:07:56,929 - What? - Don't just sit there, do something. 129 00:07:57,269 --> 00:07:58,848 What am I suppose to do? 130 00:07:59,021 --> 00:08:01,228 Teach me how not to let words hurt me. 131 00:08:11,325 --> 00:08:12,868 You wanted to see me? 132 00:08:13,035 --> 00:08:15,527 Yeah, I wanted to ask you about Bobby Carver. 133 00:08:15,704 --> 00:08:17,781 Lucy told me he was shouting stuff in church today. 134 00:08:18,123 --> 00:08:19,618 Yeah. Do you know him? 135 00:08:19,791 --> 00:08:21,915 Well, I know of him. He's new at school. 136 00:08:22,085 --> 00:08:24,126 - He's not very popular. - Why's that? 137 00:08:24,296 --> 00:08:25,708 Everyone thinks he's weird. 138 00:08:25,881 --> 00:08:28,373 Because of his outbursts, like the one in church today? 139 00:08:28,550 --> 00:08:30,710 The jocks really make fun of him. 140 00:08:30,886 --> 00:08:33,295 Especially Brian, the captain of the football team. 141 00:08:33,472 --> 00:08:34,932 Calls him the Spazman. 142 00:08:36,558 --> 00:08:37,888 Well, I don't call him that. 143 00:08:38,060 --> 00:08:40,137 Do you remember when I told you, 144 00:08:40,312 --> 00:08:45,308 "All that's necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing"? 145 00:08:45,484 --> 00:08:47,442 Yes. 146 00:08:47,653 --> 00:08:48,768 [SIGHS] 147 00:08:48,946 --> 00:08:50,820 Let me guess. 148 00:08:50,989 --> 00:08:54,240 I'm the good man doing nothing. 149 00:08:54,868 --> 00:08:56,909 Good and smart too. 150 00:08:59,289 --> 00:09:00,619 [SIGHS] 151 00:09:03,210 --> 00:09:04,242 [SIGHS] 152 00:09:06,463 --> 00:09:08,338 [GIGGLES] 153 00:09:09,925 --> 00:09:12,132 I'd appreciate it if you didn't spy on me. 154 00:09:12,302 --> 00:09:16,004 I wasn't spying. I was entering. Entering my room. 155 00:09:16,181 --> 00:09:18,507 Now, since we actually do share a room, 156 00:09:18,684 --> 00:09:19,930 I think I'm gonna have to know 157 00:09:20,102 --> 00:09:23,223 why you were checking out your own butt in the mirror. 158 00:09:24,815 --> 00:09:26,939 This has something to do with Simon, doesn't it? 159 00:09:27,109 --> 00:09:28,308 [SIGHS] 160 00:09:28,485 --> 00:09:31,321 When we were playing basketball last night, Simon tried to block me 161 00:09:31,488 --> 00:09:33,648 and I fell on him and he called me Big Butt. 162 00:09:34,032 --> 00:09:36,109 Come on. What's the big deal? 163 00:09:36,285 --> 00:09:37,828 Well, apparently, my butt. 164 00:09:37,995 --> 00:09:39,027 [SCOFFS] 165 00:09:39,204 --> 00:09:41,779 Why do you even care about something Simon said? 166 00:09:41,957 --> 00:09:44,034 You think I have a big butt, don't you? 167 00:09:44,209 --> 00:09:45,373 [SCOFFS] 168 00:09:46,420 --> 00:09:48,330 - Oh, no. - What? 169 00:09:48,505 --> 00:09:50,713 Do you think that's why Robbie hasn't called me? 170 00:09:50,883 --> 00:09:53,291 - My butt? - I'm not getting sucked into this. 171 00:09:53,468 --> 00:09:56,221 Then leave. Because me and my big butt would like to be alone. 172 00:09:56,388 --> 00:09:58,631 I can't. I need advice. 173 00:10:00,475 --> 00:10:03,679 Ruthie told me her teacher called her stupid in front of the whole class. 174 00:10:04,229 --> 00:10:08,228 - Whoa. You have to tell Mom. - Ruthie made me promise not to. 175 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:09,979 From one older sister to another, 176 00:10:10,152 --> 00:10:13,688 when you're in over your head, you need to call for help. 177 00:10:13,864 --> 00:10:15,145 You're in over your head. 178 00:10:15,324 --> 00:10:17,483 You know, Ruthie's thing is practically the same thing 179 00:10:17,659 --> 00:10:19,653 as Simon telling you you have a big butt. 180 00:10:19,828 --> 00:10:23,031 If I have to tell Mom about Ruthie, why don't you tell Mom about Simon? 181 00:10:23,207 --> 00:10:25,366 Because, one, being told you have a big butt 182 00:10:25,542 --> 00:10:27,702 is not as bad as being told you're stupid. 183 00:10:27,878 --> 00:10:29,539 - And two? - Oh. 184 00:10:30,297 --> 00:10:32,456 Because what a teacher says can be more important 185 00:10:32,633 --> 00:10:33,832 than what a brother says. 186 00:10:45,687 --> 00:10:47,348 [LINE RINGING] 187 00:10:47,523 --> 00:10:48,769 [SIGHS] 188 00:10:58,033 --> 00:11:00,655 [PHONE RINGING] 189 00:11:04,498 --> 00:11:06,990 MATT [ON MACHINE]: This is Matt-- JOHN [ON MACHINE]: And John. 190 00:11:07,167 --> 00:11:08,746 MATT: Leave us a message at the beep. 191 00:11:08,919 --> 00:11:09,951 [MACHINE BEEPS] 192 00:11:10,128 --> 00:11:11,754 SHANA [OVER MACHINE]: Matt, pick up. 193 00:11:11,964 --> 00:11:14,420 I know it was you who just called. We have call return. 194 00:11:15,384 --> 00:11:17,591 Come on, I don't have all night. 195 00:11:18,554 --> 00:11:20,631 Let's talk about why you won't talk to me. 196 00:11:20,806 --> 00:11:22,716 And why you're mad at me. I know you are. 197 00:11:22,891 --> 00:11:25,300 You haven't returned a call in three days. 198 00:11:25,477 --> 00:11:27,554 Come on, talk to me. 199 00:11:35,279 --> 00:11:38,197 Fine, but I'm not guaranteeing when you're ready to talk, 200 00:11:38,365 --> 00:11:40,524 I'll be ready to listen. 201 00:11:51,753 --> 00:11:53,628 - Do you have a second? - Sure. 202 00:11:53,797 --> 00:11:57,416 - What's wrong? - Well, it's about Ruthie. 203 00:11:57,593 --> 00:11:58,673 Her teacher... 204 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,510 [DOOR SLAMS] 205 00:12:06,685 --> 00:12:08,264 You better tell me what's going on. 206 00:12:08,437 --> 00:12:10,929 Ruthie's new teacher has been calling her stupid. 207 00:12:11,273 --> 00:12:13,101 She asked me not to say anything, but-- 208 00:12:13,275 --> 00:12:16,028 - She called her what? - Stupid. 209 00:12:16,195 --> 00:12:17,939 [DOORBELL RINGS] 210 00:12:22,743 --> 00:12:25,317 Louis. Uh, please, come in. 211 00:12:25,495 --> 00:12:29,411 I'm sorry to come by unannounced. I, uh... 212 00:12:29,583 --> 00:12:32,953 I just had to find out if that boy in church today was okay. 213 00:12:33,128 --> 00:12:34,540 - You mean Bobby Carver? - Mm-hm. 214 00:12:34,713 --> 00:12:37,382 - The boy with Tourette's? - Tourette's? 215 00:12:37,549 --> 00:12:39,958 - As in Tourette's syndrome? - Right. 216 00:12:40,135 --> 00:12:41,630 His mother says he has ADD. 217 00:12:41,803 --> 00:12:44,473 - The boy who spoke out in church? - Yeah. 218 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,843 Well, he may have ADD, but he's also got Tourette's. 219 00:12:48,018 --> 00:12:50,475 - I'd bet my life on it. - What makes you so sure? 220 00:12:50,646 --> 00:12:51,892 Because I have Tourette's. 221 00:13:06,328 --> 00:13:08,322 Will you come to school with me for show-and-tell? 222 00:13:08,497 --> 00:13:11,368 - Really? - We're studying the Revolutionary War 223 00:13:11,542 --> 00:13:13,203 and we're starting with the rats. 224 00:13:13,377 --> 00:13:15,999 - Rats? - Yeah, like Benedict Arnold. 225 00:13:16,630 --> 00:13:20,878 I think I can get extra-credit points if I bring in a real live rat to school. 226 00:13:21,051 --> 00:13:23,377 - Am I the rat? - If the tail fits... 227 00:13:23,554 --> 00:13:24,753 [GROWLS] 228 00:13:24,930 --> 00:13:27,469 Telling Mom was the right thing to do. The only thing to do. 229 00:13:27,641 --> 00:13:29,718 And when you're a big sister, you'll understand. 230 00:13:29,893 --> 00:13:31,057 I am a big sister. 231 00:13:31,228 --> 00:13:33,518 And if Sam and David ever told me a secret, 232 00:13:33,689 --> 00:13:35,267 I would never sell them out. 233 00:13:35,691 --> 00:13:38,527 That's easy for you to say. Sam and David can't tell you anything. 234 00:13:38,694 --> 00:13:41,363 - They can't even talk. - Rat. 235 00:13:43,323 --> 00:13:44,735 [SIGHS] 236 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,702 I'm meeting with Bobby's parents today at the church. 237 00:13:52,875 --> 00:13:55,793 Do you think Louis Shea is right about Bobby having Tourette's? 238 00:13:55,961 --> 00:13:58,002 Well, uh, I did a little research last night. 239 00:13:58,172 --> 00:14:00,628 And Tourette's is often misdiagnosed as ADD. 240 00:14:00,799 --> 00:14:03,007 From what I read, Bobby's verbal tic-- 241 00:14:03,177 --> 00:14:07,389 Repeating words like he did in church. --that's Tourette's, not ADD. 242 00:14:07,556 --> 00:14:09,016 And you can have ADD and Tourette's, 243 00:14:09,183 --> 00:14:11,935 but they're two totally different medical problems, 244 00:14:12,102 --> 00:14:15,389 and Bobby may be misdiagnosed and incorrectly medicated, 245 00:14:15,564 --> 00:14:17,771 which is making his already hard life even harder. 246 00:14:19,234 --> 00:14:23,233 So did you, uh, manage to set up a meeting with Ruthie's teacher? 247 00:14:23,405 --> 00:14:26,074 This afternoon. Mrs. Poole's gonna watch the twins. 248 00:14:26,241 --> 00:14:29,576 I just-- I can't believe that a teacher would call a child stupid. 249 00:14:29,745 --> 00:14:31,620 I think there must be some misunderstanding. 250 00:14:34,833 --> 00:14:36,293 [LAUGHS] 251 00:14:38,754 --> 00:14:42,338 Heh. Okay, that ensemble doesn't work on any level. 252 00:14:42,508 --> 00:14:44,217 [GIRLS GIGGLE] 253 00:14:45,761 --> 00:14:46,960 [ALL GIGGLE] 254 00:14:48,847 --> 00:14:51,470 I don't know what's bigger, her head or her... 255 00:14:51,642 --> 00:14:53,931 [ALL LAUGH] 256 00:14:55,938 --> 00:14:58,430 - What's wrong with you? - Nothing. 257 00:15:04,196 --> 00:15:07,032 She's probably just wearing that big ugly farmer shirt 258 00:15:07,199 --> 00:15:09,773 to cover up all the weight she didn't lose last summer. 259 00:15:10,494 --> 00:15:13,330 Or the summer before that, or the summer before that. 260 00:15:14,373 --> 00:15:16,699 Run away, farmer girl, run away. Ha-ha-ha! 261 00:15:16,875 --> 00:15:18,952 [BELL RINGS] 262 00:15:27,553 --> 00:15:29,463 BRIAN: Hey, look, it's Spazman. 263 00:15:30,264 --> 00:15:31,640 Hey, Spazman. 264 00:15:31,974 --> 00:15:34,513 ERIC: "All that's necessary for evil to triumph 265 00:15:34,685 --> 00:15:37,852 is for good men to do nothing." 266 00:15:40,107 --> 00:15:41,222 Hey, Spazman. 267 00:15:42,860 --> 00:15:45,352 [BELL RINGS] 268 00:15:47,281 --> 00:15:49,321 Beat it, Camden. This ain't none of your business. 269 00:15:49,491 --> 00:15:52,493 I believe it's, "This isn't any of my business." 270 00:15:52,703 --> 00:15:55,242 And I'm making it my business. Leave him alone. 271 00:15:55,414 --> 00:15:56,992 Is everything okay here? 272 00:15:58,375 --> 00:16:01,377 You should all get to class, now. 273 00:16:07,092 --> 00:16:09,715 No one's ever stood up for me before. 274 00:16:09,887 --> 00:16:12,011 - Thanks. - You're welcome. 275 00:16:12,181 --> 00:16:14,507 Just sorry I didn't do it sooner. 276 00:16:17,227 --> 00:16:19,719 Hey, this is a surprise. 277 00:16:19,897 --> 00:16:22,021 Just stopped by to say hello. 278 00:16:23,442 --> 00:16:25,566 Okay, I came by to talk about Shana. 279 00:16:25,736 --> 00:16:29,320 Well, your Mom told me you've been avoiding Shana's phone calls. 280 00:16:29,656 --> 00:16:32,445 Last week, Shana said something that hurt my feelings. 281 00:16:32,618 --> 00:16:34,907 You know, she apologised, 282 00:16:35,078 --> 00:16:38,330 but the comment made me look at our relationship, really look at it. 283 00:16:38,498 --> 00:16:40,457 I'm just not happy with the long-distance thing. 284 00:16:40,626 --> 00:16:45,170 I'm sick of feeling lonely and upset and bored and depressed. 285 00:16:45,339 --> 00:16:47,249 I think I'm starting to resent her for leaving. 286 00:16:47,424 --> 00:16:49,085 That does sound pretty serious. 287 00:16:50,552 --> 00:16:52,546 Are you telling me that you want to--? 288 00:16:52,721 --> 00:16:54,347 Maybe I just needed to talk to somebody 289 00:16:54,515 --> 00:16:56,804 who wasn't 3,000 miles away. Thanks, Dad. 290 00:16:56,975 --> 00:16:58,969 Well, if you need to talk to some more, uh-- 291 00:17:05,067 --> 00:17:06,443 [KNOCKS ON DOOR] 292 00:17:08,111 --> 00:17:12,774 - Um, Annie Camden? - Uh, sorry, the sitter was late. 293 00:17:12,950 --> 00:17:14,326 Where are the kids? 294 00:17:14,493 --> 00:17:17,329 - Recess. - Oh, I see. Um... 295 00:17:17,496 --> 00:17:19,121 On the phone, you said it was important, 296 00:17:19,289 --> 00:17:21,247 and the children will be back soon. 297 00:17:21,416 --> 00:17:24,668 I think there's probably been a misunderstanding with Ruthie. 298 00:17:24,837 --> 00:17:26,996 Uh, she told her sister that 299 00:17:27,172 --> 00:17:29,842 you asked her to name the first president of the United States 300 00:17:30,008 --> 00:17:34,967 and when she said Thomas Jefferson, that you said she was stupid. 301 00:17:35,138 --> 00:17:36,598 [CHUCKLES] 302 00:17:36,765 --> 00:17:38,141 That's not what I said. 303 00:17:39,101 --> 00:17:43,146 I told Ruthie that her answer was stupid. 304 00:17:43,313 --> 00:17:44,595 There's a difference. 305 00:17:44,773 --> 00:17:47,526 She's 8. She doesn't know the difference. 306 00:17:47,693 --> 00:17:49,437 I think I know where this is coming from. 307 00:17:51,530 --> 00:17:55,860 Everyone wants to believe their child is perfect, 308 00:17:56,034 --> 00:18:00,116 but the truth is, the apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree. 309 00:18:00,289 --> 00:18:03,160 - Did you just call me stupid? - No, that's not what I said. 310 00:18:03,333 --> 00:18:07,996 Look, nothing justifies calling a child stupid. Nothing. 311 00:18:08,172 --> 00:18:10,331 You have your opinion and I have mine. 312 00:18:10,507 --> 00:18:12,300 Yes, but your opinion is wrong. 313 00:18:12,759 --> 00:18:14,800 I think I'm gonna have to ask you to leave now. 314 00:18:14,970 --> 00:18:16,679 I'm not going anywhere. 315 00:18:16,847 --> 00:18:18,841 Please don't make me call the principal. 316 00:18:19,016 --> 00:18:22,967 Go ahead, make my day. Call the principal. Go ahead. 317 00:18:23,145 --> 00:18:24,261 [SIGHS] 318 00:18:29,193 --> 00:18:30,604 Reverend Camden. 319 00:18:30,777 --> 00:18:35,322 Oh, Bill, Sheila. Please, uh, come in. 320 00:18:38,911 --> 00:18:40,489 Sit down. 321 00:18:42,915 --> 00:18:46,332 Look, if this is about Bobby's outburst in church, 322 00:18:46,502 --> 00:18:48,828 you should know that we're not going to bring him with us 323 00:18:49,004 --> 00:18:50,036 on Sunday anymore. 324 00:18:50,214 --> 00:18:54,259 Oh, no, Bobby's welcome in church. You all are. 325 00:18:55,761 --> 00:18:58,253 Then, uh, why are we here? 326 00:18:58,430 --> 00:19:01,765 Well, I wanted to talk about Bobby's ADD. 327 00:19:01,934 --> 00:19:03,512 Who said Bobby had ADD? 328 00:19:05,437 --> 00:19:07,347 Well, Sheila mentioned it. 329 00:19:10,943 --> 00:19:13,482 I know this might sound a little funny coming from me 330 00:19:13,654 --> 00:19:16,027 because I just met you and I'm not a doctor, 331 00:19:16,198 --> 00:19:18,275 but Louis Shea, who is a parishioner of mine, 332 00:19:18,450 --> 00:19:20,408 was in church on Sunday 333 00:19:21,036 --> 00:19:25,035 and he thinks that Bobby might have Tourette's. 334 00:19:25,207 --> 00:19:27,960 So you've been talking to other people about us? 335 00:19:28,460 --> 00:19:30,121 About my son? 336 00:19:30,295 --> 00:19:32,669 Well, actually, Louis approached me. 337 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:37,004 And the reason he thinks Bobby might have Tourette's is because he has it, 338 00:19:37,177 --> 00:19:38,970 has had it for years. 339 00:19:41,014 --> 00:19:42,925 Do you know what Tourette's syndrome is? 340 00:19:45,561 --> 00:19:48,563 Have you ever considered that Bobby might have Tourette's too? 341 00:19:49,273 --> 00:19:51,978 I think I've heard enough. Let's go. 342 00:19:53,402 --> 00:19:56,273 - Bill. - Look, no disrespect, 343 00:19:56,446 --> 00:19:59,532 but if the doctors haven't been able to help my son in the last nine years, 344 00:19:59,700 --> 00:20:02,073 what makes you think you can do anything? 345 00:20:02,452 --> 00:20:04,078 Excuse me. 346 00:20:07,624 --> 00:20:09,036 [DOOR CLOSES] 347 00:20:13,964 --> 00:20:17,963 - Hey. Wanna ride home with me? - Uh... 348 00:20:18,135 --> 00:20:20,093 You know, if, uh, you start hanging out with me, 349 00:20:20,262 --> 00:20:22,719 people are gonna start making fun of you too. 350 00:20:22,890 --> 00:20:25,216 I don't care what other people say. 351 00:20:25,392 --> 00:20:26,674 Cool. 352 00:20:31,106 --> 00:20:32,352 Hey, Camden. 353 00:20:32,524 --> 00:20:35,312 You didn't think I was gonna let you off that easy, did you? 354 00:20:43,869 --> 00:20:45,364 Tomorrow, before school, 355 00:20:45,537 --> 00:20:47,365 when there are no teachers around to save you, 356 00:20:47,539 --> 00:20:50,707 I'm gonna wipe the grin right off your face, permanently. 357 00:20:51,793 --> 00:20:54,416 You too, Spaz. 358 00:21:10,145 --> 00:21:11,938 Hi. 359 00:21:12,147 --> 00:21:14,141 I think we have Biology together. 360 00:21:15,692 --> 00:21:18,315 - What are you doing? - I'm talking to you. 361 00:21:18,487 --> 00:21:20,030 Right. Are you supposed to distract me 362 00:21:20,197 --> 00:21:22,107 so your friends can do something behind my back 363 00:21:22,282 --> 00:21:24,027 and then you can all laugh at me some more? 364 00:21:24,201 --> 00:21:25,482 Look, I don't laugh at you. 365 00:21:25,661 --> 00:21:28,497 You hang around with Laurel and those velociraptors she calls friends, 366 00:21:28,664 --> 00:21:31,749 - don't you? - Sometimes. 367 00:21:31,917 --> 00:21:33,163 Look, I am just trying-- 368 00:21:33,335 --> 00:21:36,372 Do you have any idea how much you and your friends hurt my feelings? 369 00:21:36,964 --> 00:21:38,589 Do you think I'm deaf? 370 00:21:38,966 --> 00:21:42,217 Sometimes I wish I was because then I wouldn't hear every little whisper 371 00:21:42,386 --> 00:21:44,510 and nasty comment that comes my way. 372 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,969 It's not fair to lump me in with Laurel. 373 00:21:47,140 --> 00:21:49,300 I have never said anything bad about you. 374 00:21:49,476 --> 00:21:52,893 Yeah. You just stand by and let it happen. 375 00:21:53,063 --> 00:21:55,353 Which, for your information, is worse. 376 00:21:56,066 --> 00:22:00,147 Knowing something is wrong and doing nothing to stop it 377 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:03,026 is worse than just doing the something that's wrong. 378 00:22:14,042 --> 00:22:15,419 [SIGHS] 379 00:22:15,586 --> 00:22:16,618 Wow. 380 00:22:16,795 --> 00:22:19,464 You do know that's the highest level you can get to on Spyro. 381 00:22:19,631 --> 00:22:20,747 Do you have a PlayStation? 382 00:22:20,924 --> 00:22:22,550 My parents don't believe in video games, 383 00:22:22,718 --> 00:22:25,340 but I know all about them from my friends. 384 00:22:25,512 --> 00:22:28,633 Man, I don't know what I'd do if I didn't have video games. 385 00:22:28,807 --> 00:22:30,967 It's the only thing I'm really good at. 386 00:22:31,143 --> 00:22:33,931 - Well, you do sound like-- - Sound like-- Sound like-- Sound like-- 387 00:22:36,315 --> 00:22:39,566 - I'm sorry, I just-- - I just-- I just-- I just-- I just-- 388 00:22:40,777 --> 00:22:44,859 - I didn't mean to-- - Mean to-- Mean to-- Mean to-- 389 00:22:50,037 --> 00:22:51,781 It's okay you looked away. 390 00:22:52,915 --> 00:22:53,947 I'm sorry. 391 00:22:54,499 --> 00:22:58,830 No, really, if no one stares at me, it goes away faster. 392 00:23:02,049 --> 00:23:05,633 Go ahead, I know you wanna ask me. 393 00:23:07,304 --> 00:23:08,930 What makes you do what you just did? 394 00:23:10,057 --> 00:23:14,933 The doctors told my parents I have, uh, attention deficit something. 395 00:23:15,103 --> 00:23:17,430 - What's that? - I'm not sure. 396 00:23:17,606 --> 00:23:21,984 My parents-- Actually, my dad doesn't really like to talk about it. 397 00:23:22,152 --> 00:23:23,980 - I shouldn't have asked. - No. 398 00:23:24,154 --> 00:23:27,773 My dad doesn't like to talk about it. I don't mind. 399 00:23:30,118 --> 00:23:33,785 Look, um, don't take this the wrong way, 400 00:23:33,956 --> 00:23:37,242 but, uh, why are you being so nice to me? 401 00:23:37,417 --> 00:23:39,292 I'm not being that nice. 402 00:23:39,461 --> 00:23:43,756 Trust me, you're the nicest person I've ever met. 403 00:23:51,765 --> 00:23:54,601 Hey, how did your meeting with Ruthie's teacher go? 404 00:23:55,018 --> 00:23:56,051 That bad, huh? 405 00:23:57,771 --> 00:23:59,350 There was no misunderstanding. 406 00:23:59,523 --> 00:24:02,726 - Ruthie's teacher did call her stupid. - What? 407 00:24:02,901 --> 00:24:04,610 And I had no luck convincing Ms. Riddle 408 00:24:04,778 --> 00:24:06,238 that what she did was wrong. 409 00:24:06,405 --> 00:24:08,529 - Unbelievable. - I know. 410 00:24:08,699 --> 00:24:11,405 Humph. She called me stupid too. 411 00:24:16,915 --> 00:24:18,708 Hmm. How was your day? 412 00:24:18,876 --> 00:24:20,335 [DOORBELL RINGS] 413 00:24:20,502 --> 00:24:23,374 Well, nobody called me stupid. 414 00:24:25,799 --> 00:24:26,963 [SIGHS] 415 00:24:33,223 --> 00:24:35,347 Sheila, come on in. 416 00:24:36,185 --> 00:24:38,558 Bill and I had a fight. 417 00:24:38,729 --> 00:24:40,010 He doesn't know I'm here. 418 00:24:40,230 --> 00:24:41,975 I got your home address from the church. 419 00:24:43,108 --> 00:24:44,817 Please help me. 420 00:24:44,985 --> 00:24:48,070 Help me and help my son and my family. 421 00:24:49,781 --> 00:24:51,859 I just can't stand to see Bobby suffer anymore. 422 00:25:02,461 --> 00:25:03,493 When Bobby was younger, 423 00:25:03,670 --> 00:25:06,459 he had all the classic symptoms of ADD, but no tics. 424 00:25:06,882 --> 00:25:10,299 As Bobby got older, his ADD symptoms have subsided, 425 00:25:10,469 --> 00:25:13,471 but he's developed verbal and motor tics. 426 00:25:13,639 --> 00:25:18,183 Speaking out like he did in church, uh, shoulder shrugging, eye blinking. 427 00:25:18,352 --> 00:25:19,895 That's not ADD. 428 00:25:20,062 --> 00:25:22,435 Have you told your doctor about Bobby's verbal tics? 429 00:25:22,606 --> 00:25:25,561 Every time I bring Bobby in to see the doctor, he never has the tics. 430 00:25:25,734 --> 00:25:29,318 Uh, yeah. From what I've read about Tourette's, it's quite common 431 00:25:29,488 --> 00:25:32,739 for kids not to exhibit any symptoms when they go to the doctor's. 432 00:25:32,908 --> 00:25:36,408 Unfortunately, they can't call up their tics on demand. 433 00:25:36,578 --> 00:25:39,746 It's quite frustrating when you know something is wrong with your child 434 00:25:39,915 --> 00:25:41,410 and no one believes you. 435 00:25:41,583 --> 00:25:43,328 We believe you. 436 00:25:43,877 --> 00:25:46,879 Do you know, I overheard a woman at a party ask a friend of mine 437 00:25:47,047 --> 00:25:49,337 if I did drugs while I was pregnant with Bobby. 438 00:25:50,133 --> 00:25:52,460 My parents are no better. All they say is, 439 00:25:52,636 --> 00:25:55,804 "Bobby certainly didn't get his problems from our side of the family." 440 00:25:55,973 --> 00:25:59,176 All people wanna do is blame and judge. 441 00:25:59,351 --> 00:26:01,012 And my husband's way of dealing with Bobby 442 00:26:01,186 --> 00:26:03,809 has always been to deny that anything's wrong with him. 443 00:26:03,981 --> 00:26:07,814 If I try to talk to him, he shuts me out. 444 00:26:08,360 --> 00:26:11,979 I have to say, our marriage isn't exactly rolling along. 445 00:26:12,155 --> 00:26:13,188 What can we do? 446 00:26:13,365 --> 00:26:15,275 - There must be something. - Yeah. 447 00:26:15,450 --> 00:26:18,239 I forced our HMO and Bobby's paediatrician 448 00:26:18,412 --> 00:26:22,161 to make an appointment for him with a paediatric neurologist. 449 00:26:22,332 --> 00:26:24,160 The appointment is tomorrow. 450 00:26:24,334 --> 00:26:26,661 I want Bill to be there for Bobby. 451 00:26:27,504 --> 00:26:29,747 For me, for us. 452 00:26:29,923 --> 00:26:31,502 But I don't think I can get him to go. 453 00:26:33,677 --> 00:26:36,549 Not without a little help. 454 00:26:43,562 --> 00:26:44,761 [LINE RINGS] 455 00:26:44,938 --> 00:26:47,608 MATT [ON MACHINE]: This is Matt-- JOHN [ON MACHINE]: John. 456 00:26:47,774 --> 00:26:49,353 MATT: Leave us a message at the beep. 457 00:26:49,526 --> 00:26:50,558 [MACHINE BEEPS] 458 00:26:50,736 --> 00:26:52,314 Hi, it's just me. 459 00:26:54,531 --> 00:26:55,730 Hey. 460 00:26:55,908 --> 00:26:57,735 You've been hard to get ahold of this week. 461 00:26:58,535 --> 00:27:00,328 It's because I've been dodging your calls. 462 00:27:00,495 --> 00:27:03,497 I know. What's going on? 463 00:27:05,918 --> 00:27:08,207 Matt, talk to me. 464 00:27:08,670 --> 00:27:10,415 I know you're mad. I know I did something. 465 00:27:10,589 --> 00:27:13,544 Just tell me what it is and then we can move on. 466 00:27:13,717 --> 00:27:14,749 Uh... 467 00:27:16,136 --> 00:27:18,213 It's just that, uh... 468 00:27:19,473 --> 00:27:22,925 - Yes? - I think maybe we need a break. 469 00:27:24,102 --> 00:27:26,096 - From what? - Each other. 470 00:27:30,692 --> 00:27:33,184 Just so you know, I'm not like Lucy. 471 00:27:33,362 --> 00:27:36,068 If you ever need to tell me a secret, my lips are sealed. 472 00:27:38,492 --> 00:27:42,076 Once you learn to talk, mum's the word. 473 00:27:44,373 --> 00:27:45,702 Have you done your homework? 474 00:27:45,874 --> 00:27:48,580 What's the use? Haven't you heard I'm stupid? 475 00:27:48,752 --> 00:27:51,505 We need to talk. Come here. 476 00:27:53,423 --> 00:27:57,553 Oh, you're almost getting too heavy to sit on Mommy's lap. Mm. 477 00:27:59,388 --> 00:28:00,420 [SIGHS] 478 00:28:01,932 --> 00:28:05,135 Do you know why I got so mad at your teacher? 479 00:28:07,771 --> 00:28:11,355 - Because she was mean to me? - Yes. 480 00:28:11,525 --> 00:28:14,859 But also because, when Ms. Riddle hurt your feelings 481 00:28:15,028 --> 00:28:18,114 and made you feel like you weren't smart, 482 00:28:18,282 --> 00:28:22,327 then school and learning became a bad thing. 483 00:28:22,494 --> 00:28:24,287 And if that happens often enough, 484 00:28:24,454 --> 00:28:27,741 it won't be long before you don't like school at all. 485 00:28:27,916 --> 00:28:30,622 And that would be wrong, 486 00:28:30,794 --> 00:28:35,208 because learning should always be enjoyable. 487 00:28:35,382 --> 00:28:40,211 And school should always be like this safe zone, 488 00:28:40,387 --> 00:28:43,555 where kids are loved and protected 489 00:28:43,724 --> 00:28:49,977 and able not only to study the stars, but to reach for them as well. 490 00:28:52,482 --> 00:28:57,311 I'm glad you yelled at my teacher. She is mean. 491 00:28:58,906 --> 00:29:01,991 You know, you might consider making up with Lucy. 492 00:29:02,159 --> 00:29:03,903 She loves you so much 493 00:29:04,077 --> 00:29:08,242 and she was only trying to help you the only way she knew how. 494 00:29:09,416 --> 00:29:10,580 I'll think about it. 495 00:29:10,751 --> 00:29:14,287 Maybe if the other kids' moms get mad at Ms. Riddle like you did, 496 00:29:14,463 --> 00:29:17,216 she'll stop calling everyone names. 497 00:29:17,382 --> 00:29:18,794 Other kids' moms? 498 00:29:18,967 --> 00:29:21,720 I'm not the only one she calls stupid. 499 00:29:23,430 --> 00:29:25,009 Really? 500 00:29:32,147 --> 00:29:34,057 Hey, do you know Denise Semple? 501 00:29:34,566 --> 00:29:37,936 - The girl who wears all the flannel? - Yeah. What's her story? 502 00:29:38,111 --> 00:29:39,772 I don't know. Why do you wanna know? 503 00:29:40,322 --> 00:29:41,354 No reason. 504 00:29:43,909 --> 00:29:44,989 [SIGHS] 505 00:29:45,869 --> 00:29:46,901 [SIGHS] 506 00:29:47,079 --> 00:29:48,657 Oh, come on. Tell me what I did. 507 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,494 What did I do? I know you know. 508 00:29:57,673 --> 00:29:58,954 I can't tell you. 509 00:29:59,383 --> 00:30:01,423 - Oh, please? - No way. 510 00:30:01,593 --> 00:30:04,168 I already squealed on one sibling and look what that got me. 511 00:30:06,682 --> 00:30:07,797 [GROWLS] 512 00:30:07,975 --> 00:30:10,264 Okay. I'm gonna give you a clue, 513 00:30:10,435 --> 00:30:12,096 but you have to figure it out on your own. 514 00:30:13,897 --> 00:30:15,807 Mary's mad at you because of something you said 515 00:30:15,983 --> 00:30:19,020 a couple of nights ago while you guys were playing basketball. 516 00:30:19,194 --> 00:30:20,524 Oh! 517 00:30:22,447 --> 00:30:24,275 I have no idea what you're talking about. 518 00:30:24,449 --> 00:30:26,906 What do you want, cash? Because I'll pay you. 519 00:30:27,077 --> 00:30:28,489 Mm-mm. 520 00:30:35,210 --> 00:30:36,409 [SIGHS] 521 00:30:46,722 --> 00:30:49,214 - May I help you? - Do you want to tell me anything? 522 00:30:49,391 --> 00:30:51,052 [MATT SIGHS] 523 00:30:51,226 --> 00:30:52,721 Shana called you, didn't she? 524 00:30:52,895 --> 00:30:56,015 - I hear you're breaking up. - Maybe, I don't know. 525 00:30:56,190 --> 00:30:58,729 No offence, but why is this any of your business? 526 00:30:58,901 --> 00:31:01,060 - Shana's very upset. - So am I. 527 00:31:01,236 --> 00:31:03,563 Why does it always have to be about Shana? What about me? 528 00:31:03,739 --> 00:31:06,065 - Okay, I'll get right to the point. - What point? 529 00:31:06,283 --> 00:31:07,826 The one I wanna make. 530 00:31:07,993 --> 00:31:10,781 A lot of things in your life will be difficult and challenging. 531 00:31:10,954 --> 00:31:12,118 As a matter of fact, 532 00:31:12,289 --> 00:31:14,283 some of the most wonderful things in your life 533 00:31:14,458 --> 00:31:16,368 will be difficult and challenging. 534 00:31:16,543 --> 00:31:18,336 All I'm saying is, 535 00:31:18,504 --> 00:31:22,668 break up with Shana if you don't love or care for her anymore. 536 00:31:22,841 --> 00:31:24,087 But don't break up with her 537 00:31:24,259 --> 00:31:27,047 just because long-distance relationships are hard. 538 00:31:27,221 --> 00:31:28,467 You're tougher than that. 539 00:31:28,639 --> 00:31:30,300 All I came over for was a sandwich. 540 00:31:30,474 --> 00:31:33,677 Every sandwich served in my kitchen comes with a free lecture on the side. 541 00:31:33,852 --> 00:31:35,431 [CHUCKLES] 542 00:31:56,291 --> 00:31:57,324 What's going on? 543 00:31:59,461 --> 00:32:03,542 Hi, you must be Bill. I'm Louis Shea. 544 00:32:03,882 --> 00:32:05,923 This is a support group. 545 00:32:06,093 --> 00:32:07,754 The couples here tonight all have children 546 00:32:07,928 --> 00:32:09,637 with varying degrees of Tourette's. 547 00:32:09,805 --> 00:32:12,344 My son doesn't have Tourette's syndrome. 548 00:32:12,516 --> 00:32:14,177 Please, don't run away. 549 00:32:14,810 --> 00:32:16,850 We have to face this. 550 00:32:17,563 --> 00:32:21,478 It's the only way to help Bobby and help ourselves. 551 00:32:22,276 --> 00:32:23,771 LOUIS: Bill, 552 00:32:24,695 --> 00:32:27,447 dealing with Tourette's is not an easy thing to do. 553 00:32:27,614 --> 00:32:30,320 And I should know. I've had it since I was a kid. 554 00:32:31,827 --> 00:32:33,867 - You have Tourette's? - Mm-hm. 555 00:32:34,621 --> 00:32:37,409 Well, you look so-- 556 00:32:37,583 --> 00:32:38,994 So normal? Ha. 557 00:32:40,836 --> 00:32:44,206 That's okay. As I got older, my symptoms and tics lessened. 558 00:32:44,381 --> 00:32:47,716 I still have Tourette's and I still get tics every now and then, 559 00:32:47,885 --> 00:32:50,721 but it's nothing compared to what it was like when I was a kid. 560 00:32:51,388 --> 00:32:55,885 The severity and the frequency of tics do lessen with age. 561 00:32:56,059 --> 00:32:59,061 The majority of kids with Tourette's grow up to lead healthy, happy lives. 562 00:32:59,229 --> 00:33:01,472 They, uh-- They go to school, they go to college, 563 00:33:01,648 --> 00:33:04,816 they have friends, families, careers. 564 00:33:07,487 --> 00:33:10,691 Okay, look. Uh, I don't know you. 565 00:33:11,283 --> 00:33:12,992 But I do know that as hard as it was 566 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,118 for me to be a kid growing up with Tourette's, 567 00:33:15,287 --> 00:33:17,826 I think it was harder still on my parents. 568 00:33:17,998 --> 00:33:19,458 Especially my dad, 569 00:33:19,917 --> 00:33:21,827 who just wanted a son that could play football, 570 00:33:22,002 --> 00:33:25,668 not one that had uncontrollable sniffing and blinking. 571 00:33:26,882 --> 00:33:28,710 Because of what my parents and I went through, 572 00:33:28,884 --> 00:33:30,296 I studied medicine when I grew up 573 00:33:30,469 --> 00:33:32,925 and eventually, I became a neuropsychiatrist 574 00:33:33,096 --> 00:33:37,178 so I could help families and children that suffer from Tourette's. 575 00:33:38,393 --> 00:33:42,938 Your wife didn't think you'd come to a support group meeting, 576 00:33:43,106 --> 00:33:44,732 so we brought the support group to you. 577 00:33:44,900 --> 00:33:47,772 Well, I'm sorry you went to all the trouble. 578 00:33:47,945 --> 00:33:50,152 I don't want your support. 579 00:34:00,541 --> 00:34:02,000 Bill! 580 00:34:02,835 --> 00:34:06,287 Look, you don't understand, okay? 581 00:34:06,463 --> 00:34:07,495 Nobody can understand. 582 00:34:07,673 --> 00:34:08,836 - I'm trying to-- - Please! 583 00:34:09,007 --> 00:34:11,048 Just leave me alone. Please. 584 00:34:11,260 --> 00:34:13,586 I wanna understand. Your wife wants to understand. 585 00:34:13,762 --> 00:34:16,598 Hey, I'm here to help you. 586 00:34:17,057 --> 00:34:18,636 You have to open up to somebody. 587 00:34:18,809 --> 00:34:21,727 You've got a lot of pain and anger. 588 00:34:21,895 --> 00:34:24,601 You can't keep it all inside you. If you do, you'll explode. 589 00:34:26,525 --> 00:34:29,278 When I was growing up, I had a cousin who had Tourette's. 590 00:34:29,820 --> 00:34:31,066 We didn't know it at the time, 591 00:34:31,238 --> 00:34:34,026 but later on, we realised that that's what he had. 592 00:34:34,658 --> 00:34:39,155 He had these horrible facial tics. 593 00:34:39,955 --> 00:34:41,616 I teased him all the time. 594 00:34:43,333 --> 00:34:46,620 I was really just mean. 595 00:34:47,421 --> 00:34:49,664 I tortured him relentlessly. 596 00:34:50,340 --> 00:34:52,299 I'm not quite sure I follow. 597 00:34:52,467 --> 00:34:53,583 I just can't stand to think 598 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,217 that there's some kid out there teasing Bobby like that. 599 00:34:56,388 --> 00:34:57,552 Torturing him, 600 00:34:58,182 --> 00:35:01,219 making his life a nightmare, the way I did to my cousin. 601 00:35:01,393 --> 00:35:04,312 And every time I look at him, it's... 602 00:35:05,230 --> 00:35:08,149 It just reminds me just how badly I've acted in the past. 603 00:35:10,194 --> 00:35:14,144 Look, look, I did the research. 604 00:35:14,990 --> 00:35:16,533 Tourette's is hereditary. 605 00:35:16,700 --> 00:35:19,702 So basically, it's all my fault that Bobby is the way that he is. 606 00:35:21,538 --> 00:35:24,208 You know, ADD, I could deal with. 607 00:35:24,374 --> 00:35:27,542 But this, you know, 608 00:35:28,670 --> 00:35:30,379 I just don't think I can bear it. 609 00:35:34,968 --> 00:35:36,345 You know what I think? 610 00:35:36,720 --> 00:35:40,386 I think you need to forgive yourself for the past 611 00:35:40,557 --> 00:35:43,263 so you can concentrate on the present 612 00:35:43,435 --> 00:35:47,600 and help your son and your wife 613 00:35:48,982 --> 00:35:50,775 and yourself. 614 00:35:52,444 --> 00:35:54,853 I just-- I don't think I can. 615 00:35:55,030 --> 00:35:58,115 - I really don't. - Fine. 616 00:36:13,757 --> 00:36:14,837 Look, I'm really sorry. 617 00:36:15,008 --> 00:36:18,675 I did a bad thing and I'll never do it again. 618 00:36:18,846 --> 00:36:21,682 - Never do what again? - What I did isn't important. 619 00:36:21,849 --> 00:36:25,349 - What is important is that I'm-- - You have no idea what you did. 620 00:36:25,519 --> 00:36:26,683 Exactly. 621 00:36:28,564 --> 00:36:30,806 You called me Big Butt. 622 00:36:31,942 --> 00:36:33,900 The other night when we were playing basketball, 623 00:36:34,069 --> 00:36:35,814 I fell on you and you called me Big Butt. 624 00:36:35,988 --> 00:36:39,191 But I was just kidding. I mean, I say stuff like that all the time. 625 00:36:39,366 --> 00:36:41,194 I know. But you're not a kid anymore, 626 00:36:41,368 --> 00:36:43,990 so I take what you say a little more seriously now. 627 00:36:44,162 --> 00:36:45,278 I'm not a kid? 628 00:36:46,456 --> 00:36:51,499 I mean, I'll watch what I say from now on, okay? 629 00:36:51,670 --> 00:36:54,292 Well, you better because words can really hurt a person. 630 00:37:02,055 --> 00:37:04,927 - I'm not mad at you anymore. - You're not? 631 00:37:05,142 --> 00:37:07,468 You're still a rat, but a good rat. 632 00:37:07,978 --> 00:37:09,473 What made you change your mind? 633 00:37:09,646 --> 00:37:12,897 I figured someday I'd have to squeal on Sam and David. 634 00:37:13,066 --> 00:37:15,605 And I'd want them to forgive me, so you're off the hook. 635 00:37:22,951 --> 00:37:24,660 - What? - Mom's been on the phone 636 00:37:24,828 --> 00:37:27,154 - all morning. - Doing what? 637 00:37:27,331 --> 00:37:28,612 Calling other parents. 638 00:37:29,041 --> 00:37:30,999 Your teacher's in big trouble, isn't she? 639 00:37:31,168 --> 00:37:32,580 Oh, yeah. 640 00:37:32,753 --> 00:37:34,331 [LAUGHS] 641 00:37:35,756 --> 00:37:38,046 [PHONE RINGS] 642 00:37:41,512 --> 00:37:42,544 Hello? 643 00:37:42,721 --> 00:37:45,343 I was going to get on a plane and fly back to Glenoak today. 644 00:37:45,516 --> 00:37:47,225 - What? - Let me finish. 645 00:37:47,392 --> 00:37:49,053 - Okay. - I was going to get on a plane 646 00:37:49,228 --> 00:37:50,343 and fly to Glenoak today. 647 00:37:50,521 --> 00:37:53,476 But then I realised that I couldn't afford the ticket. 648 00:37:54,525 --> 00:37:57,728 Then I thought I would take the train, but that would take too long. 649 00:37:57,903 --> 00:38:00,656 Then I thought I would take the bus, but that would take forever. 650 00:38:00,822 --> 00:38:03,778 So I said to myself, "Just drive your car." 651 00:38:03,951 --> 00:38:06,703 But then I remembered that I sold my car when I moved to New York. 652 00:38:06,870 --> 00:38:09,872 And what are you coming back to Glenoak for? 653 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:11,868 To apologise to you in person. 654 00:38:12,709 --> 00:38:14,086 Apologise? 655 00:38:14,253 --> 00:38:18,714 Yeah. For taking you and our relationship for granted. 656 00:38:19,383 --> 00:38:24,010 I've been so busy with school and work and making friends that I forgot. 657 00:38:24,179 --> 00:38:28,427 You're stuck in Glenoak, alone, missing me. 658 00:38:29,142 --> 00:38:31,551 It's not fair and I haven't been either. 659 00:38:34,231 --> 00:38:35,477 Apology accepted? 660 00:38:36,149 --> 00:38:37,561 Yes. 661 00:38:37,734 --> 00:38:38,850 [KNOCKING ON DOOR] 662 00:38:40,529 --> 00:38:42,523 Uh, I have to go. 663 00:38:42,865 --> 00:38:44,775 - Call me later? - Sure. 664 00:38:44,950 --> 00:38:48,367 - I love you. - I'll talk to you later. 665 00:38:53,834 --> 00:38:56,041 - Hey, you. - Talking to Shana? 666 00:38:57,462 --> 00:38:59,290 Did you tell her hello and thanks? 667 00:38:59,631 --> 00:39:01,958 - Thanks for what? - For letting me hang out with you. 668 00:39:02,134 --> 00:39:06,298 Oh, that. Um, I'll tell her next time. 669 00:39:07,431 --> 00:39:09,056 We should get going. 670 00:39:14,563 --> 00:39:17,600 Okay, Camden. The principal's not gonna save you today. 671 00:39:17,774 --> 00:39:20,267 I just saw her inside, yelling at a bunch of kids. 672 00:39:31,747 --> 00:39:32,993 What, are you chickening out? 673 00:39:33,165 --> 00:39:36,665 No. I was just thinking maybe there's a better way to settle this. 674 00:39:36,835 --> 00:39:39,043 What's better than fighting? 675 00:39:41,298 --> 00:39:43,339 How about a duel? A video-game duel. 676 00:39:43,509 --> 00:39:46,297 Bobby brought his Game Boy. Maybe you two can play each other. 677 00:39:46,678 --> 00:39:48,471 If you win, you still get to beat me up. 678 00:39:49,598 --> 00:39:52,600 But if Bobby wins, you have to leave him alone, for good. 679 00:39:54,978 --> 00:39:57,305 Of course, if you're not very good at video games, 680 00:39:57,481 --> 00:39:59,273 we can still just pummel each other. 681 00:40:00,776 --> 00:40:02,271 No, let's play for it. 682 00:40:08,951 --> 00:40:11,158 [GAME BOY BLEEPING] 683 00:40:11,328 --> 00:40:12,871 You first, Spazman. 684 00:40:24,341 --> 00:40:26,750 Oh, and after Bobby whups your butt on the Game Boy, 685 00:40:26,927 --> 00:40:28,968 you have to stop calling him Spazman too. 686 00:40:36,937 --> 00:40:40,687 Remember, you're gonna be quizzed on these tomorrow. Pass them back. 687 00:40:42,109 --> 00:40:43,770 Take one-- 688 00:40:45,612 --> 00:40:47,606 Mrs. Camden, what's going on? 689 00:40:47,781 --> 00:40:49,574 I found a few other people who agree with me 690 00:40:49,741 --> 00:40:52,530 and aren't wild about having their sons and daughters called stupid. 691 00:41:00,586 --> 00:41:03,160 That's my mom. 692 00:41:06,341 --> 00:41:08,169 Denise, hey, look. 693 00:41:08,343 --> 00:41:11,013 I can't make up for all the pain that my friends have caused you, 694 00:41:11,180 --> 00:41:14,715 and you may not think an apology from me means anything, 695 00:41:14,892 --> 00:41:17,597 but I am sorry. And I'm sorry for what they've said 696 00:41:17,769 --> 00:41:20,475 and I'm sorry for not doing anything about it. 697 00:41:20,647 --> 00:41:21,763 Thanks. 698 00:41:21,940 --> 00:41:24,432 So do you wanna go to the Millers' party with me this weekend? 699 00:41:24,610 --> 00:41:27,528 - It's supposed to be a huge blowout. - Me? 700 00:41:27,696 --> 00:41:28,978 You wanna go with me? 701 00:41:29,198 --> 00:41:31,867 Yeah. I was to go with my boyfriend, but I haven't heard from him. 702 00:41:32,034 --> 00:41:33,363 I do not wanna miss this party. 703 00:41:33,535 --> 00:41:36,110 - I wasn't invited. - I just invited you. 704 00:41:36,288 --> 00:41:38,032 Why should I trust that this isn't a trick? 705 00:41:38,207 --> 00:41:41,577 Because I would never do anything like that. I'm not Laurel. 706 00:41:43,504 --> 00:41:44,963 No, you're not. 707 00:41:51,261 --> 00:41:52,922 Denise does not have to leave. 708 00:41:54,389 --> 00:41:56,763 - Are you sure about that? - Yes, I am. 709 00:41:57,100 --> 00:42:00,517 Fine. If you wanna hang out with farmers, go ahead. 710 00:42:00,687 --> 00:42:02,681 You know, Denise isn't a farmer, and you are-- 711 00:42:05,275 --> 00:42:06,474 Well, you know what you are. 712 00:42:12,908 --> 00:42:14,237 Oh. 713 00:42:14,409 --> 00:42:16,652 And what makes you think that she doesn't badmouth you 714 00:42:16,828 --> 00:42:18,407 when you're not around? 715 00:42:21,375 --> 00:42:25,124 - What's Mary talking about? - Do you say stuff behind our backs? 716 00:42:27,339 --> 00:42:28,620 [BOTH SCOFF] 717 00:42:38,392 --> 00:42:40,432 [PHONE RINGS] 718 00:42:40,602 --> 00:42:41,683 WOMAN: Doctor's office. 719 00:42:47,568 --> 00:42:49,111 I can't believe you came. 720 00:42:49,278 --> 00:42:50,821 Well, I can't believe it either. 721 00:42:50,988 --> 00:42:52,981 I had a real good day in school, Dad. 722 00:42:53,156 --> 00:42:54,782 That's terrific. 723 00:42:54,950 --> 00:42:59,364 After we see the doctor, we'll all go out to dinner and you can tell me about it. 724 00:42:59,746 --> 00:43:01,206 Awesome. 725 00:43:04,501 --> 00:43:06,661 Thanks for being here. 726 00:43:06,837 --> 00:43:08,877 It means a lot to me and to Bobby. 727 00:43:09,882 --> 00:43:13,252 I know I haven't been there for you in the past. 728 00:43:13,427 --> 00:43:16,049 - Later, I'd like to tell you why. SHEILA: Okay. 729 00:43:16,221 --> 00:43:19,508 Let's make today a fresh start for all of us. 730 00:43:19,683 --> 00:43:21,427 I think we all deserve that. 731 00:43:22,811 --> 00:43:23,927 All right. 732 00:43:26,899 --> 00:43:28,857 Did you drive here? 733 00:43:29,026 --> 00:43:31,814 Uh, no. A friend gave me a lift. 734 00:43:31,987 --> 00:43:33,731 A friend?