1 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,160 Can you tell how did you meet? 2 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:48,720 It was summer. 3 00:00:50,160 --> 00:00:52,920 It was a kind of party. 4 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:57,000 I came there with a close friend. 5 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:02,680 - You must get something to drink. - Hello. Cozy, cozy. 6 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,920 I was really lost. I was in the middle of a breakup. 7 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:12,320 I had been too long in a very bad relationship. 8 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:15,600 No. 9 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:22,000 I had two small children, who needed me all the time. 10 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:27,520 Hello. I'll be right back. I'll just say the night here. 11 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,040 I had projects and tried to establish myself. 12 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,520 And then suddenly he was there. 13 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:07,320 What was so strange was that it was as if I knew him. It was ... 14 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,720 "There you are!" 15 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:16,200 "Where have you been all this time?” 16 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:20,400 I've never felt like that with someone before. 17 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,240 - Hello. - Hello. 18 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,040 I feel like I know you. 19 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:35,160 - I just feel like I know you. - Oh, yes? 20 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,400 Okay. Yes. 21 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:55,760 For many months I wondered how I was to get him. 22 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,880 I sought out all those places I could get to meet him. 23 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:10,960 Could I have him? It was not a given. 24 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,560 There were so many who wanted him. 25 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:20,720 I had to. I never wanted to- give me even if I didn't get him. 26 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:27,040 And then one evening were we in the same place. 27 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,000 I can take it. Can I pay with Vipps? 28 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,600 He had freedom. 29 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,440 And a lot of friends. 30 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:08,480 I had children. 31 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:17,200 And he loved them from the first moment. 32 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,760 Yes. That's how it was. 33 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,640 Hello? Yes. 34 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,280 Yes, that project description I wrote yesterday. 35 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:26,240 I'll call later, it's a bit much chaos here. Hello. 36 00:06:29,280 --> 00:06:31,680 Mikael, you have to go down. 37 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,880 Unfortunately, it was rejected. 38 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,360 Then ... We'll see. 39 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:47,760 Unfortunately, that was also rejected. 40 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,440 No, no, no. 41 00:06:56,120 --> 00:07:01,240 You must transfer money. It is not money on the card. Mikael, please. 42 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,640 Hello. 43 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:11,360 - The bright one or the one with glitter? - I have to poop. 44 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:15,040 - But go to the bathroom, then. - You don't care. 45 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:20,600 - Ludvig, take out of the dishwasher. - Why? Alma made a mess in the kitchen. 46 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,560 - Yes, Stella. - What shall we have for dinner? 47 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:32,240 - Dad will pick us up in a quarter of an hour. - We have not submitted this. 48 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:36,240 No, no, no, Stella. Not that. 49 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,680 - Mom, I'm done! - Alma, can you help him? 50 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,920 I'm not going to wipe him. 51 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,480 - I have to pack. - Just do as I say. 52 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,320 - Then I'll go without. - Ludvig, we will find you something. 53 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:53,360 Last time I was the only one who did not have a bus card. 54 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,760 He doesn't want me to do it. It stinks. 55 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:58,960 Right. Then you get to take Stella. 56 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:13,280 - You didn't come and collect last weekend. - It was a tournament, so it didn't work. 57 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:18,680 You must arrange it with me first. The children were waiting for you. 58 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:22,960 You can't just do what you want, and never pick up the phone. 59 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:27,600 - Okay. Are you ready? - I'll get my headphones. 60 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:33,480 Get out! 61 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,800 - I just want to talk to you. - Close the door. Get out. 62 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,800 I get that it's not fun when dad and I talk like that. 63 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:44,760 - It hurts! - I say you should close the door! 64 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,880 - I haven't done anything. - You are annoying and rude. Go! 65 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:52,560 - Now that's enough! - I hate you! 66 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:58,120 Dad, can I move in with you? I can't bear to live here anymore. 67 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,560 Yes, it is not impossible. 68 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:05,960 - My girl. The darling. - Your spirit stinks. 69 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:10,520 Starboy, hello. Look me in the eye when you say yes. 70 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,880 - Hello. - Hello. 71 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:08,400 I bought woolen underwear for the children. Just hope it's the right size. 72 00:10:08,560 --> 00:10:11,560 There are so many things to remember. 73 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:20,800 - How are you? - No, what do you think? 74 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,760 It's not okay that you never come when you say you will. 75 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:34,320 We just went over time, so that wasn't that much I got to do. 76 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,880 You don't answer when I call. 77 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,560 I ran out of power. 78 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,120 How wonderful you are. 79 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,640 Did it go well? 80 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:57,640 Yes, it went pretty well. I have played with a couple of the others before. 81 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:02,200 But the manufacturer assumed that I should do something else, - 82 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:06,400 - so we spent some time on that to find out together. 83 00:11:06,560 --> 00:11:10,920 Yes. But I was quite tired. Or out of shape. 84 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:15,040 I often sleep badly in hotels, so I get groggy, - 85 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:19,760 - and then it spreads outwards all day. It was tiring. 86 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:26,240 Yes, I get that, I'm real tiring to sleep in a hotel and ... 87 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:32,680 It's nice to be home again. 88 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,680 Wednesday was frustrating. 89 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:40,040 We didn't find out anything, so we spent several hours on… 90 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,480 There have been some things with Mikael at school again. 91 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:48,440 He has thrown stones through the window. They have requested a call, - 92 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:53,640 - but I said we have to wait on you so we can do it together. 93 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:57,880 Okay. Let's do it. It's nice of you to speak up. 94 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,520 I like you. 95 00:12:06,680 --> 00:12:10,160 - I don't like you. - No? 96 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,320 No? Stupid, then. 97 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:29,040 It's such a jerk of you to let me be here alone. It's hell. 98 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,880 I should report you to the police for attempted murder, - 99 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,920 - because that was it I survived this day. 100 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:40,800 When I was finally able to cook dinner, the smoke alarm went off. 101 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,960 You have hung it so high up, that I have to stack three chairs. 102 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:49,320 I caught a glimpse of myself, and the sight was so damned, - 103 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:52,840 - that you had hanged yourself. 104 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,920 i love you 105 00:12:59,680 --> 00:13:02,280 i love you 106 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:05,840 i love you 107 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:10,040 - And then the project was rejected today. - Oh no. 108 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,280 Can't you say "oh no" like that. 109 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,360 I can't do it. 110 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:22,160 You must not jump to conclusions based on the one time. 111 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:26,560 They don't want me and what I have to offer. 112 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,960 You mustn't think like that. You have a lot to offer. 113 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:34,400 You are strong and truth-seeking. You could have chosen an easier path. 114 00:13:34,560 --> 00:13:37,880 You haven't done that. That's why I like you. 115 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:43,240 You have to believe that you can make it happen. Try to see the big picture. 116 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:48,200 It's because you work all the time. Then I won't get anything done. 117 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:53,520 When I have to be at home with the kids, I can't concentrate. 118 00:13:53,680 --> 00:13:58,400 I have had to cancel important meetings due to lice and dental appointments. 119 00:13:58,560 --> 00:14:01,760 It doesn't work. I can't concentrate. 120 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:05,880 Now I will be home for two weeks. Then you can work. 121 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:09,440 Two weeks? You eat meat, don't you? 122 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:14,640 - You weren't supposed to travel anymore. - It wasn't entirely certain. 123 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,680 Yes, it was. Have you agreed to more work now? 124 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:23,160 It was uncertain with your applications, and we must have an income. 125 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:27,480 - You assumed I didn't make it? - No, stop, then. 126 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,080 I don't want it like that! 127 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:35,160 I don't get time to breathe or get to a place to make it happen. 128 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,200 It's not just you who will work. 129 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:42,280 It's too late to jump off now. There are two more weeks. 130 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:47,400 - I have to cancel things all the time. - Otherwise I will never get a job again. 131 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,280 Then you can feel a little how i feel 132 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,360 Yes, I understand that very well. 133 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:31,200 Yes. 134 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:36,480 I'm glad to hear that. That's what I tried. 135 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:39,520 Yes, very much. Yes, of course. 136 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:48,720 Yes. It sounds very good. 137 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:51,760 I completely agree. 138 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,480 Yeah, I thought the same thing. 139 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:01,560 Yes, then. We care a lot about this, so it's good to talk about it. 140 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,440 Good, Åsa. 141 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,320 Do you take the parental interview on the phone? 142 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,200 Yes, we really appreciate that. 143 00:17:10,360 --> 00:17:14,640 Right? Yes, it is important to stand together. 144 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:19,440 - We will have that conversation together. - I'll tell her. 145 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:24,000 - Can you hang up? - Good, then we'll keep in touch. 146 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:28,440 - Can you hang up? - We talk. Have a good time. 147 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,040 What the hell are you doing? 148 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:36,120 Did you take the parental interview on the phone? Did you do it? 149 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:41,680 Why not? Åsa called. You said it that we had put it off for far too long. 150 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:46,760 - There were things we had to talk about. - Yes, things we have to talk about. 151 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:50,160 We have postponed it because you've been gone for months. 152 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:55,040 I said we have to wait for you, so we could all be present. 153 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,520 I don't have to ask you everything, do I? 154 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:05,600 I put it off for you, and then you don't want me to join. 155 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:11,960 Now you can take it easy. We agreed that someone will come and investigate him. 156 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:21,000 Did you agree on that? 157 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:22,960 Yes. 158 00:18:23,120 --> 00:18:28,360 You can't just agree on it without me being part of the conversation. 159 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,560 He doesn't need an investigation. 160 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:35,200 You know nothing about what he needs. 161 00:18:35,360 --> 00:18:39,200 You're completely stupid, aren't you? Are you? 162 00:18:39,360 --> 00:18:42,160 You can't just come home in that way. 163 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,560 You step in here without asking me. 164 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,120 Why do you do that? 165 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:53,840 Can you answer? Why do you do that? 166 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:58,640 Do you care what I think? Fuck you! 167 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:02,960 So stop, then! Don't you see? That I'm trying to help you? 168 00:19:03,120 --> 00:19:08,280 Can't you see I'm trying to do something good? I can't take it anymore! 169 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:41,760 Maria. 170 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:46,640 What is it? 171 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,800 This, that...it doesn't work. 172 00:20:52,120 --> 00:20:55,480 - What are you talking about? - It doesn't work. 173 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:59,560 You... You need to get help to that mind of yours. 174 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,440 Help? 175 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:06,600 Yes. You need to take an anger management course, one or the other. 176 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:11,920 - I can't be like that. - Neither can I. 177 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,920 - Maria, I mean it. - Yes, me and. 178 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:23,040 But it's not me who is going on a course. Maybe it's you. 179 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:28,800 What you are doing... It makes me sick. 180 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:33,000 What I'm doing? What you're doing makes me sick. 181 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:37,480 You're also angry. Look at you now. You're crazy. 182 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,680 You can't mean - 183 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:50,880 - that I should change because you did something crazy. 184 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,240 Besides, you were at least as angry as me. 185 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,200 Hello. 186 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,800 Who wants yogurt? 187 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:32,960 Okay. Be so good. 188 00:22:33,120 --> 00:22:38,280 Are you going to ...? No, no, no ... Have you seen? 189 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:44,000 Can you dry it up? Thank you. It helps a lot. 190 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:48,040 It was a bit... Do you also want more? 191 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:53,000 Good morning. There is coffee in the pot if you want. 192 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,920 Mom! 193 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,880 - Mom! - Stella! 194 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,760 - Mikael, now we're leaving soon. - Okay. 195 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:12,840 Come on, then. 196 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:20,800 - Okay, Dad. - Yes... 197 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,280 Now we're going, Mikael. 198 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,560 Come on. Yes! 199 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,960 - Help, Dad. - Yes, now we have to go. 200 00:23:30,120 --> 00:23:33,560 - Why that? - Then we'll put it on. 201 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:38,640 I am willing to work with me yourself, but you also have a part in this. 202 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,480 Like that. Wait for dad. 203 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,040 You don't want a divorce do you? 204 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,800 Do you want a divorce? 205 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,120 God, answer then. 206 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,720 Dad is coming. 207 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:29,640 - Who will go to bed with you? - Me. 208 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,680 Are you going to sleep here? 209 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:42,320 I have a headache. I need to sleep. 210 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:47,600 - Can't we talk together? - I can't take it now, Maria. 211 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:52,720 - Can't we sleep together at least? - I don't feel very well. 212 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,240 I can't just change. 213 00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:00,040 You know how tired I am. I can't do it now. 214 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,480 You wake up the kids. 215 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,240 We can talk about it tomorrow. It's late now. 216 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:12,440 - Have you met someone else? Is that it? - No, absolutely not. 217 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,360 What is it then? 218 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:19,520 - What is it then? - We can talk about it tomorrow. 219 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:23,320 Like that. We must sleep now. Please be kind. 220 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,600 I can't do this. 221 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,160 I can't be here when it's like that. 222 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,280 - No, well. - "No, well"? 223 00:26:20,360 --> 00:26:25,240 I'll go away until you find out whatever you want. You can take the children. 224 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,360 - Okay. - "Okay"? 225 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,920 Okay. 226 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:35,880 Do you think it's good that I just leave? 227 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:40,040 You were the one who suggested it. If you need it, that's fine. 228 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,320 I can't be here when it's like that. 229 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,680 Just do what's best for you. 230 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,280 So you think That this is best for me? 231 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:52,120 Mikael, do you think I'm very angry? 232 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,560 Maria, he will be allowed to drop it there. 233 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:02,360 - Mikael, do you think mum is angry? - Stop. End! 234 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:06,840 He would say that if he thinks so. 235 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,800 At least you can hug me. 236 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,800 i love you 237 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:01,880 Damn, you're just fucking awesome. 238 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:46,680 - Thank you very much. That's so kind of you. - It just had to be missing. 239 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:51,920 - I'll call you. Good luck. - You and. Have it. 240 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:39,000 You have come to Sigmund. Add a message and I'll call you back. 241 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,360 Leave a message, then I'll call you back. 242 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,520 Is the mind about to destroy the relationship with your family, - 243 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,960 - can you get help of the Bråseth model. 244 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:12,360 The offer is for everyone over the age of 18 who struggles with anger and violence. 245 00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:16,520 It is important to address one's problem, - 246 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,320 - because it hurts the rest of the family. 247 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,280 Stop! 248 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,960 - Hello. - What are you doing here? 249 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:45,240 I'm just coming to meet you. Maybe we can go to a cafe. 250 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,480 Don't come here. It's really embarrassing. 251 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:52,400 It's not terribly embarrassing that I come to say hello. 252 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:57,320 - Mom, just go. Okay? - It's a hurtful thing to say. 253 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:02,680 I'm just coming to be fair. You don't have to talk to me like that. 254 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,440 Mom, I don't want to that you should come here. 255 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,360 Why not? I never come by. 256 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,560 Is it that hard? to be visited once? 257 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:17,320 I thought you might think so it was nice. But no. 258 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:21,920 God, so embarrassing! Your mother came to visit to say hello. 259 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,120 - You're completely crazy. - Then go, then. 260 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,680 Yes, just go. Be so good! 261 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:37,720 Alma, I'm sorry. It was stupid. I'm sorry it turned out that way. 262 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:58,840 You have come to Sigmund. Add a message and I'll call you back. 263 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,080 Hello. It's me. 264 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,680 I was just wondering how it's going. 265 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:12,240 If you're going into town tomorrow, can you bring my eczema cream 266 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:17,360 It is at the top of the shelf in the bathroom on the left. 267 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:22,080 It is very itchy now. It itches much more than usual. 268 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:27,720 Then I might not be able to sleep, and... I might have to go to the doctor, but… 269 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:33,800 Can't you...? Call or message me, then. 270 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:41,440 By the way, I forgot some socks. And underpants. 271 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:46,560 If you can bring it too… And then… Okay… 272 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,720 The night. 273 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,800 I'm in the middle of a meeting. 274 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:58,600 I only found the blue underpants. It was stressful this morning. 275 00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,280 And then it was this cream, wasn't it? 276 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:07,200 Have you gotten closer to what you want? 277 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:13,440 I think it's good with time and space for both of us. 278 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:18,280 It is important to me not to define anything right now. 279 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:22,280 But... I have to go back in. 280 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,320 Remember to give Mikael the wart remedy. 281 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:29,320 - It must be worn every week. - Yes, I have done it. 282 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:34,320 And then the thermos ... When I was going rinse it, it smelled bad. 283 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:39,240 You have to take it completely apart and rinse it in boiling water. 284 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:43,400 And then I never got given you that. 285 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,880 You must read it. 286 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:58,080 I haven't got a babysitter. Then you know what awaits us, - 287 00:35:58,240 --> 00:36:01,720 - if we get back together, then. 288 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:07,040 But the trip is paid for, so you can travel with someone else if you want. 289 00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,920 I have to go back in. 290 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:18,920 I was looking forward to work, but I can't do that now. 291 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:23,720 I don't have a job, so I earn nothing, so you get to take the bills. 292 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,760 I have to go back in, so I don't lose that job. 293 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,840 But I really want to work. 294 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:34,280 I don't understand why you are doing this. 295 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:39,320 - I cannot talk about this now. - Is it because I'm not good enough? 296 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:43,040 If I had changed, then you wouldn't have done this, - 297 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:49,040 - but I can't get better. I do the best I can. 298 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:54,080 I am exhausted and have sacrificed everything I dreamed of doing. 299 00:36:54,240 --> 00:36:57,040 - I'm just shit. - Don't beat yourself up. 300 00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,160 - I'm not worth a shit. - Don't do it. 301 00:37:01,240 --> 00:37:04,680 If I come on anger management course - 302 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,760 - or at a psychiatric hospital, do you want me then? 303 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,480 Can you just say what do you want me to do? 304 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:13,960 You, you... Look at me. 305 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:19,080 Now I'm going in, and you have to take it together. You need to talk to someone. 306 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:32,000 He's not going to want a divorce. 307 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,680 I can't believe that. He just needs some room. 308 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:41,160 I don't know. I feel like anything can happen. 309 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:46,040 I don't know who he is anymore. I don't understand what he's doing. 310 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,720 He has never been in a longer relationship before you. 311 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:55,720 - And then he met Dracula. - Yes, he was a bit unlucky there. 312 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,160 But he doesn't have that experience as you have, - 313 00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,320 - with children and previous relationships. 314 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,600 - He has been in previous relationships. - Half a year, yes. 315 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:10,880 But he hasn't been somewhere where you have to work to get ahead. 316 00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,560 It just sounds like you need therapy. 317 00:39:13,720 --> 00:39:18,160 He won't. He just wants to that I should change. 318 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,560 It is impossible to say that. 319 00:39:21,720 --> 00:39:24,920 Then he must be able to say it in front of a third person. 320 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:29,200 If he is so afraid to show himself for an outsider, - 321 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,760 - then there is something he is hiding. 322 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:36,840 Has he been in therapy before? No. Does he talk to his friends about it? 323 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,040 No, he doesn't have a valve. Just me. 324 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,800 If he really wants to leave you, - 325 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:47,320 - is mediation mandatory, if you have children. 326 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:51,880 - He might agree to that. - Yes, there is a minimum. 327 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:10,560 - Hello. Maria and Sigmund? - Yes. 328 00:40:10,720 --> 00:40:13,240 Hello. Hello. 329 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,440 Come with me. 330 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:20,000 So Sigmund says is that he experiences - 331 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:24,640 - that he has no room, and that he feels trapped. 332 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:30,240 Yes. It makes me sick. Or... I don't know. 333 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:35,920 It's hard to sort now. Maybe that's why I need room. 334 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:40,200 Room? You are out working all the time. I am alone with everything. 335 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,520 You have plenty of room. 336 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:47,800 When it's my turn to work, then you still take a job. 337 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:52,400 I am asking you to cancel, and then you will divorce! 338 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:58,080 I understand that you have a lot on your mind, but can we focus on Sigmund first? 339 00:40:58,240 --> 00:41:01,400 - Is it okay with you, Maria? - Yes. 340 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:07,000 What makes it difficult for you? to take the room you need? 341 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,320 It is not so easy to say. 342 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:14,040 There is a difference in private rooms and work rooms. 343 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:18,640 You have one of the parts, and I have neither. 344 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:23,840 So Mary is inside everything, everywhere. 345 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:27,400 I don't know how to explain it. 346 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,760 I don't feel good anywhere. 347 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:35,160 I have no leeway. I don't have room at home. 348 00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,960 There is no room for anyone now. It's a hectic time. 349 00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,840 I'm a little curious what you say, Sigmund. 350 00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,960 What makes it difficult for you? to take that place? 351 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:51,000 I don't know if it is difficult... 352 00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:55,680 No? What do you mean? You just can't get room? 353 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:59,800 Yes ... There is so much conflict all the time, - 354 00:41:59,960 --> 00:42:02,920 - especially if I trying to take a seat. 355 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,680 Do you think it is difficult? With conflicts? 356 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,240 Yes, it is tiring. 357 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,120 Is it just Maria's fault that you have no room, - 358 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,440 - or is it something you can do yourself? 359 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:21,520 I don't know. To be honest I don't know what to say. 360 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:25,240 There is so much anger that I cannot see clearly. 361 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:30,560 Of course you get angry when you are alone with everything all the time. 362 00:42:30,720 --> 00:42:36,840 I also take a lot of responsibility. I looked after your children. 363 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:41,560 - It has taken its toll. - Shall we start counting on it? 364 00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:45,560 I'm happy about all that you have given the big children, - 365 00:42:45,720 --> 00:42:50,120 - but it has also cost something that you have come into their lives. 366 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,560 If only I had them, I had a lot of freedom. 367 00:42:53,720 --> 00:42:59,880 We just have to get through this. The children are small. We never have a babysitter. 368 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:05,960 With an uncertain economy and four children, It is clear that we must stick together. 369 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:11,120 - I've been divorced before, and... - This is from the winter holidays. 370 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,920 Have you picked it up? 371 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:21,680 That's the only thing you have to remember! But you're just screwing it up! 372 00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:27,440 - It is taken out of context. - We don't need to listen to this now. 373 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,600 My God! 374 00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:36,440 Don't you get angry, Sigmund? 375 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,840 No ... I don't know. 376 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:44,480 That must make you angry that Maria gets so angry with you. 377 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:51,040 If you don't know you're angry, Is it perhaps a problem in itself? 378 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:55,480 But can you understand that your anger affects him? 379 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,640 It's a big picture. 380 00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:02,120 I don't think the solution is that I am going to an anger management course. 381 00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:08,840 Why should I be downgraded? in order for you to have more space, - 382 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:12,600 - when you already are which has the most room? 383 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,880 I think we have to solve it together, - 384 00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:19,360 - and I'm willing to go to therapy, together. 385 00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:22,160 I'm not there right now. 386 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:30,920 Okay. Now the class is almost over, and we shall immediately conclude. 387 00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:36,360 But I would like to summarize and clarify where we are in the process. 388 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:41,720 Maria, you would like to continue to work on this on the relationship? 389 00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:45,440 Sigmund, what are you thinking now? 390 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:47,480 Yes... 391 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:51,640 I'm not sure if I want to continue. 392 00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:56,560 You must then be able to say something. I can't live in uncertainty. 393 00:44:56,720 --> 00:45:00,640 You must be able to tell whether you want to try or not. 394 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:08,080 It's absolutely awesome. I have no idea what I have to deal with. 395 00:45:08,240 --> 00:45:12,480 This is demanding for Maria. I understand that. 396 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:18,680 Maria would like to move home and find out what she has to deal with. 397 00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,000 Yes, I get it. 398 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,360 Can we set a deadline? to give Maria a clear answer? 399 00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,000 Okay. 400 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:32,000 What do you think, Sigmund? A day or a week? 401 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:36,280 It's nice that the waiting time will not be so long. 402 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:40,200 I can imagine a couple of days. 403 00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:43,320 Yes? It's great. 404 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:46,320 Can we say by Wednesday night? 405 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,320 How are you, Maria? 406 00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:01,680 Then I think that we will see each other again on Thursday anyway. 407 00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:06,560 Then we can talk a little about the way forward together or individually. 408 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,520 I think that is important. 409 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:18,800 Sorry. Are we done? I think it's the job, which... 410 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:27,120 I would like to have checked some personal data. 411 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:28,600 Yes. 412 00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,960 He was supposed to send a reply by tonight. 413 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:59,440 He will probably answer. He tends to well to keep what he promises? 414 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:04,080 Yes. Maybe except from the marriage vows. 415 00:47:04,240 --> 00:47:09,280 It's probably going well. This here... You know what? I just think ... 416 00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:15,720 I don't know... What do you think he will write? 417 00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:22,600 I think ... Can't you try not to think about it? 418 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,880 Breathe a little with your stomach, and get some sleep. 419 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:29,240 He loves you. I know he does. 420 00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:33,360 If he departs from you, he is an idiot. And he is not. 421 00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,560 Dear Maria, - 422 00:48:19,720 --> 00:48:24,840 - first I want to thank everyone the nice moments together. 423 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:28,120 It has meant so much to me. 424 00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,440 You probably have to prepare for that I want out of the relationship. 425 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,440 You have come to Sigmund. Leave a message. 426 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,120 Mom! 427 00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:34,080 Mom! I can't do this! 428 00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:58,280 You must prepare for that I want out of the relationship. 429 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:31,120 You have come to Sigmund. Add a message and I'll call you back. 430 00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:36,280 I'll come and get the kids now, then you can go wherever you want. 431 00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:41,760 I can do without you. I will never talk to the children about you. 432 00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:46,160 I don't want to be here anymore so now I'm coming home. 433 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:50,840 It would be nice if you could confirm that you have received this message. 434 00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,840 Did he write it? 435 00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,760 So that... that's great. 436 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:28,240 - It's so sad that you feel that way. - Dear... 437 00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:32,960 I just feel a little bit to damn hell. 438 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:39,000 It's going well. I have a lot to do. I'm going to clean and shower... 439 00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:42,440 There are quite a few emails I have to send. 440 00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:46,440 I can come here after I have been to Blindern. 441 00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,320 I sleep here tonight. 442 00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:53,960 That is incredibly kind of you. but I can manage. 443 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,640 - You don't need that. - Okay. 444 00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:01,680 Then you call me if there is anything. 445 00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,680 - Do you promise? - Yes, I'll call. 446 00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:08,120 - Have it. - Okay. Have it. 447 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:26,360 - Hello. - I think we have to wait for Sigmund. 448 00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:29,760 I got a message about that he will not come. 449 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:33,840 - Why not? - He didn't write anything about that. 450 00:52:36,720 --> 00:52:39,760 Damn it. 451 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:45,920 Since you still have this hour, maybe you want to come in? 452 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:53,000 - Alone? - You might get something out of it. 453 00:52:55,120 --> 00:53:00,360 Now this might be something else than you had expected. 454 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:04,280 I don't understand why should I sit here, - 455 00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,400 - when it's him who needs it. 456 00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:11,400 Should he just run away like that? Don't do anything. 457 00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:17,680 Yes, I think he will have to one way or the other. 458 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:25,880 It's not that important what he does. What is important to you now is - 459 00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:30,640 - that you focus on to sort your own. What you have with you. 460 00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:36,920 What do I have with me? 461 00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,560 That is a very big question. 462 00:53:40,720 --> 00:53:45,240 We can think about what could be your part in this. 463 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:51,280 My part? He is the one who wants to go. Do you think I provoked it? 464 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:54,200 - Do you think? - No. 465 00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:57,840 I don't know what you're thinking. 466 00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:02,600 Is there nothing in the situation here that you are responsible for? 467 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:06,960 Yes, I probably have a small part in it, but it's not that important, - 468 00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:10,320 - when he is the one who wants a divorce. 469 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:15,760 It's nice. Then we'll take care in the small part that is yours. 470 00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:23,080 Okay. 471 00:54:23,240 --> 00:54:27,480 Last time you told me how it was when he got home from work. 472 00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:31,840 How he would take the job and took the parental call - 473 00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:37,240 - without having listened to you first, and then suddenly wanted to divorce. 474 00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:41,240 - Yes. - Can you say it one more time? 475 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:49,440 - I've already told you. - Yes, but try to say it again. 476 00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:54,520 Tell about when he came home after being gone for six weeks. 477 00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,480 I was very tired. 478 00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:04,360 I put in the dishwasher, and then he came in through the door. 479 00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:08,400 And what happens inside you when you see him? 480 00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:14,200 I will be happy to see him. I love him, I know it. 481 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,360 And what happens then? 482 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:22,160 He is happy. He's coming towards me and wants to hug me. 483 00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:27,280 I walk towards him. Then he holds me close to him. 484 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,240 And then you hug him too? 485 00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,800 Not for long. 486 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:36,480 You don't want to hug him back? 487 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:40,320 No, I don't really want to. 488 00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:44,640 Why not, when you are so glad to see him? 489 00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:50,520 - I don't know. - And what happens then? 490 00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:55,640 Then he comes in and helps me with what I hold on me. 491 00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,880 Is there something you are leaving out now? 492 00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:04,640 When you stop hugging him, what is he doing then? 493 00:56:06,720 --> 00:56:12,200 I don't know. He might stay a little surprised or sad. 494 00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,360 And you? 495 00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:19,120 I look away. 496 00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:23,200 In what way do you look away? 497 00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:26,360 - I don't know. - Why do you do that? 498 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:30,440 Why do you look away in the way you do? 499 00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:35,320 I want to that he should feel bad. 500 00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:39,680 - Why do you want it? - I don't know. 501 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:43,680 - Has he done something? - Yes, he has left us. 502 00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:48,040 - But you have agreed on it? - Yes 503 00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:51,520 - And you have approved it? - Yes 504 00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:57,320 Why would you that should feel bad? 505 00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,600 I don't know. 506 00:57:06,240 --> 00:57:08,240 What happens then? 507 00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:15,200 - He starts talking about the job. - Is he happy to share it? 508 00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:18,960 - Yes, he is happy. Narrator. - And you? 509 00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:23,400 - I just want him to stop. - Why that? 510 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:27,560 I just find it uncomfortable, so I interrupt him. 511 00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,520 What do you say? 512 00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:33,160 There have been some things with Mikael at school again. 513 00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:38,680 Should Sigmund feel that it is his responsibility that Mikael has problems? 514 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:44,560 I understand that it is not his responsibility. 515 00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:49,120 But you still want him to feel that it is his responsibility? 516 00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:51,600 - Yes. - Why? 517 00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:57,000 Because it has happened while he was away from me. 518 00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:02,040 But do you think it is something else Sigmund could have done? 519 00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,360 No. 520 00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:11,320 But still you want to that he should feel guilty. 521 00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:13,560 Yes. 522 00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:15,720 Why that? 523 00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:21,680 Why would you that he should feel bad? 524 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:33,520 Have you wanted to in several situations that he should feel that way? 525 00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:48,440 See if you can remember those times you have been doing the same thing. 526 00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:55,800 Are you doing well? 527 00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:32,760 Optimist I know it will go well in the end 528 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:36,960 as long as I live here 529 00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:40,240 am I an optimist 530 00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:44,360 I'm an optimist 531 00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:50,120 What happens in that situation? 532 00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:53,400 I don't want to because it doesn't feel good. 533 00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,880 Because I feel stupid. 534 00:59:56,040 --> 01:00:00,200 If he sees I'm enthusiastic, will he ridicule me. 535 01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:03,920 I will not accept all that joy. 536 01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:08,960 - Hello. I can take over. - It's going well. 537 01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:13,040 - You don't know what belongs to whom. - Yes, I do. 538 01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:17,600 When you fold clothes, fins I put my panties in Mikael's drawer. 539 01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:21,200 You don't know the difference wool and cotton. 540 01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:23,760 Yeah, yeah. Just put it down. 541 01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:27,520 No. You're never here. You don't know which clothes belong to whom. 542 01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:32,240 It just ends with that I have to do it. 543 01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:37,600 - Okay. Who is this guy? - Yours? 544 01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:39,880 Yes, that's mine. 545 01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:46,680 Very good, Sigmund. See here. Did it not fit well? 546 01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:49,520 It's Mikael's. 547 01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:52,200 And this one then? 548 01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:56,040 Those are Alma's trousers. 549 01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:59,640 It's Ludvig's pajamas. 550 01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:01,880 There you see. 551 01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:08,360 I think you knew that he should leave you for a long time. 552 01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:27,080 I can't believe that. After all, you have worked for their relationship. 553 01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:31,000 After all, you are the vulnerable one. He is the one who wants to go. 554 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:36,840 Maybe I expected it. That is what I know from my childhood. 555 01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:41,400 I might push him unconsciously out of the relationship. 556 01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:46,400 - Why would you do that? - To hold him. 557 01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:50,040 Hold him by pushing him away? 558 01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:57,400 If I make him feel bad, that things are his fault, - 559 01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:02,040 - then he will think that I am better than him. 560 01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:07,000 And then he will believe that he is lucky to have me, - 561 01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:09,920 - and that he must be with me. 562 01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:17,040 So if I get him to to feel inferior to me, - 563 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:22,360 - then he doesn't discover how bad I really am. 564 01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:27,120 Oof me. So... 565 01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:31,680 You probably don't think you are worse than him? 566 01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,680 You ... 567 01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:36,360 You are so good. 568 01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,880 I am so happy for you. 569 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:49,640 Excuse me. That sweater was so tacky. 570 01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:55,520 Okay. 571 01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:22,240 Have you always been afraid to be abandoned? 572 01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:25,800 What happens if he leaves you? 573 01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:28,560 Then I die. 574 01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:30,720 Are you dying? 575 01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:34,960 Yes, or ... will disappear. 576 01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:38,720 Why that? 577 01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:42,240 Because he brings all that is good in my life. 578 01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,960 Then there is nothing left. 579 01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:51,840 So if it's just you left, so isn't that good enough? 580 01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:57,440 All that is good, that is attached to him? 581 01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:02,520 Yes, in a way. He is in a way what is good about me. 582 01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:08,960 Actually, I don't understand that I got him. 583 01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:16,080 But sooner or later he will discover it. 584 01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:21,960 If he gets time to be in his element own room or with others, - 585 01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:27,400 - then he will discover that it is much better to be there - 586 01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:29,960 - than to be with me. 587 01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:36,960 - Hello. - Hello. 588 01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:38,960 My girl. 589 01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:43,400 You could do your hair, at least. 590 01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:45,680 Hello. There you were. 591 01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:50,880 - And father was late? - Yes. 592 01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:55,720 We are here to talk about Alma. It has gone very well this winter. 593 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:59,720 I am incredibly impressed with it you have done. 594 01:04:59,880 --> 01:05:03,000 Besides, you are a joy to have in the classroom. 595 01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:08,200 You are kind, funny and caring, and you deliver the homework when you are supposed to. 596 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:12,520 By the way, have you seen it? the master's book? It is so nice. 597 01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:16,960 No, I haven't seen it. Why haven't you shown it to me? 598 01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:21,880 I don't need to check the homework page, because Alma always delivers. 599 01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:24,320 Yes, she does. 600 01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:29,640 There has been so much talk about it parents who checked all the time, - 601 01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:33,880 - and spends so much time on to nag at their children. 602 01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:37,960 I've never cheated on you. You just do everything by yourself - 603 01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:41,960 - without asking for help. It's so good. 604 01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:47,120 Precisely. It won't be a little too much for you, Alma? 605 01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:49,120 It's going well. 606 01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:53,520 I think that's your father. 607 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:57,680 That was it. Two sec. I'm just going to pick him up. 608 01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:05,000 This is going really well. 609 01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:09,680 Why do you say that about that you are not on the homework page? 610 01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:15,160 - To say that you are independent. - Just stop saying that, okay? 611 01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:19,480 But I've never been there. You deliver everything you need. 612 01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:23,160 So good for you. It would probably have been tiring for you. 613 01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:26,400 - It's only because you don't bother. - Why do you say that? 614 01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:31,800 You don't understand anything. You want me to must work hard. Not like you. 615 01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:38,160 You don't need anything from anyone, but I'm not like you. 616 01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:44,320 - Hello. - Hello. 617 01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:48,600 I just want to update you on that we have talked about. 618 01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:54,160 Alma is doing very well, both professionally and socially. 619 01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:28,680 Coming! 620 01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:38,760 Hello. Is that you? 621 01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,880 Yes, I would like to come for a walk. 622 01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:45,280 My Maria ... how are you? 623 01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:49,960 My girl! Come in, then. 624 01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:53,440 Fortunately, you are strong. That's you. 625 01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,360 You are like me. 626 01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,600 The women in our family tolerates most things. 627 01:07:59,760 --> 01:08:03,400 I often think about it, that there is a string - 628 01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:07,280 - of very strong women through our family. 629 01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:11,720 We have mom... and me, you, Alma... 630 01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:18,840 I also often think about all those years with dad and the divorce and stuff like that. 631 01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:24,760 Obviously it's tough, but I got through it. 632 01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:28,760 And you have the same power. It's going to be fine, Maria. 633 01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:32,400 It's going to be fine. It does. 634 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:40,320 - I have this one with me. - Okay. Yes, well. What is that something? 635 01:08:40,480 --> 01:08:43,040 It's just a little gift. 636 01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:46,080 There is a lot of paper. 637 01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:51,720 It is from the nice shop which I know you like so good. 638 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:57,000 I tried to find that taste you talked about when we were in London. 639 01:08:57,160 --> 01:09:03,000 - Did I say something? - Yes. You really liked it. 640 01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:06,840 I have stopped drinking tea. 641 01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:12,440 You get yellow teeth from it. It's nothing special at my age. 642 01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:18,320 The neighbor has had his teeth whitened. It's probably the last now. 643 01:09:18,480 --> 01:09:22,240 I actually have very much to do today. 644 01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:27,600 Anne, the neighbor, had a water leak, so I had to go down to help her. 645 01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:33,800 And then there has been so much stress with those tickets. 646 01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:38,120 And Are... him I think have called over a hundred times - 647 01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:41,880 - because of the big anniversary in the union. 648 01:09:42,040 --> 01:09:45,040 You see what's on my to-do list. 649 01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:48,480 There is so much mess. I can hardly live here. 650 01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:51,800 I have no more space in the attic. 651 01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:55,960 You have not retrieved it which is in the innermost attic. 652 01:09:56,120 --> 01:10:00,960 - I can take those things. - I think so when I see it. 653 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:06,560 Green tea, I treat myself to that. 654 01:10:06,720 --> 01:10:10,040 This one is very good. 655 01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:14,600 And the box is so cute. Look at it here. It is so cute. 656 01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:18,760 Can't you take your seat? 657 01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:26,720 - I can put myself in your place. - Yes, by all means. 658 01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:30,480 But you don't want to sit in your old place? 659 01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:37,040 You always sat there. Like a queen. 660 01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:41,360 You made sure to sit there so you didn't have to get up. 661 01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:46,960 Erlend and I had to do that. We flew back and forth, - 662 01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:52,240 - and you sat there like a princess and expected to be looked after. 663 01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:55,840 Would you like a slice of brown cheese? 664 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:59,240 My girl ... Do you want it? 665 01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:04,360 Why do you say that? with the place at the table? 666 01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,160 What then? I ... 667 01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:11,000 That I was just sitting here, and that you did everything for me? 668 01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:16,360 - It was just the way it was. - What do you want to achieve by saying that? 669 01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:19,440 It was just a humorous comment. 670 01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:23,760 You had a tendency to asking people to do things for you. 671 01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:29,160 You had some ... What can I say? Such a bit of prima donna whimsy. 672 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:34,000 - It's nothing new. - Do you think that's a funny comment? 673 01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:40,600 Have a little sense of humor, then, Maria. Does everything have to be so damn dramatic? 674 01:11:40,760 --> 01:11:45,160 If you stop laughing, then there is nothing left. 675 01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:47,360 My girl... 676 01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:54,240 I have bought some very good cheeses in the delicatessen on the corner. 677 01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:57,960 You say that I have asked too much of you? 678 01:11:58,120 --> 01:12:00,440 Yes, so... 679 01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:03,440 I have... 680 01:12:03,600 --> 01:12:08,120 ... felt me as a servant now and then. 681 01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:10,040 In what way? 682 01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:13,280 I don't know... That was kind of how you were. 683 01:12:13,440 --> 01:12:16,280 It was difficult to set limits for you. 684 01:12:16,440 --> 01:12:19,640 You were quite demanding at times. 685 01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:25,880 I just want to see… 686 01:12:35,480 --> 01:12:37,440 Mom? 687 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:45,520 - Mom? - Yes. What is it now? 688 01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:49,880 I don't think it really feels something good for you to give something to me. 689 01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:54,160 What do you mean? I have done nothing but give. 690 01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:57,880 I have been alone with you in all these years. 691 01:12:58,040 --> 01:13:02,600 If you haven't caught on, what? I have given, it is surprising. 692 01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:06,760 - I'm not saying you haven't given. - What are you saying? 693 01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:09,840 I was completely alone with you. 694 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:13,640 Because your father ran away. Full and deplorable. 695 01:13:13,800 --> 01:13:19,760 I cried every single night, because I was so damn tired. 696 01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:24,640 - I understand. - I was so unhappy in those years. 697 01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:28,080 It was a nightmare. 698 01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:35,160 No, I mustn't think about it. Then I can't do anything today. 699 01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:41,200 I don't say that you have not given anything. 700 01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:45,640 I don't think it feels good for you to give me. 701 01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:49,560 - What do you mean? - It doesn't feel good to give. 702 01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:54,000 I don't think so it feels good for you to get either. 703 01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:59,280 The tea I gave you ... I don't think so it felt good for you to get it. 704 01:13:59,440 --> 01:14:02,760 I was very happy with that tea. 705 01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:06,040 Were you? In what way did you show it? 706 01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:09,920 Such cross-examination. That's what I can't stand about you. 707 01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:14,320 What you are saying now is that you don't really like me. 708 01:14:14,480 --> 01:14:17,240 It's like you want to push me away. 709 01:14:17,400 --> 01:14:22,120 It's like you want to that I feel bad. 710 01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:25,840 Maybe you had that anger towards dad too. 711 01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:31,080 He said you were always making fun of him in an unpleasant way. 712 01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:33,920 He shouldn't say anything. 713 01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:37,440 Maybe you didn't understand what you did. 714 01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:41,040 Now I see you must take care, Maria. 715 01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:45,720 I feel that you will that I should feel bad. 716 01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:52,160 You've never been interested in to think about other than yourself. 717 01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:56,560 When you came today, I thought: “Oh, so nice. 718 01:14:56,720 --> 01:15:01,720 Maybe she will ask how i have it? 'Are you tired, mom?' 719 01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:05,880 'Do you need any help, mom?'" No, you didn't. 720 01:15:06,040 --> 01:15:10,520 But your brother does. He is tender and caring and... 721 01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:14,160 He always put a blanket over me when I was tired. 722 01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:16,560 You have never done such things. 723 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:19,720 You won't remember it I have done that which is good. 724 01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:24,440 You will not accept it I have to give you. 725 01:15:24,600 --> 01:15:30,440 I don't know why you don't trust that I will you well. 726 01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:33,640 That I am good and have a good heart. 727 01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:37,160 I can never be good enough for you, anyway. 728 01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:44,160 I have walked with a voice inside me, that I am so bad and worthless. 729 01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:48,000 It sits deep inside my chest. 730 01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:50,440 Okay. 731 01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:54,440 Is it my fault, too? 732 01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:57,600 No, I'm not saying it is, but maybe... 733 01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:01,880 I don't think I can take this. I'm so tired. 734 01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:05,640 I was happy when you came, but then it was to criticize me. 735 01:16:05,800 --> 01:16:10,640 I'm a human, not a machine, which can accept anything. 736 01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:16,080 I think I'll go for a walk. You can just leave when you're done eating. 737 01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:21,240 I can't take all the criticism. Maybe others do, but not me. 738 01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:05,040 How are you doing? 739 01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:10,120 Yes, it's fine. 740 01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:17,080 I think about what we talked about. 741 01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:22,680 About feeling like the bad one. And the one who cannot give. 742 01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:26,120 It must also be painful for you. 743 01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:34,680 No, it's not that bad. 744 01:17:36,200 --> 01:17:39,760 - It's going well. - No? 745 01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:46,000 There are many who have it much worse than me. 746 01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:52,120 That doesn't mean it doesn't can be painful for you too. 747 01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:10,880 I don't think so I manage to talk so much today. 748 01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:16,520 I didn't sleep at all last night, so I'm very ... tired. 749 01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:19,120 Okay. Do you want to quit? 750 01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:25,360 I'm so tired, I can do it don't think. I think I need to rest. 751 01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:28,960 If you want, you can rest here. 752 01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:34,800 I have that sofa, and... Do you want to go to bed? 753 01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:38,920 I can't do that. It will be very strange. 754 01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:41,920 It is of course completely voluntary. 755 01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:47,600 But those are your working hours. It ruins your working time. 756 01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:53,920 Yes, but my time here now is for you. 757 01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:59,080 And if that's what you need, then I would like to give it to you. 758 01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:01,720 Will you accept it? 759 01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:05,920 You are tired, and that what you need is there. 760 01:19:08,480 --> 01:19:12,360 You can be allowed to rest here with me. 761 01:19:12,520 --> 01:19:14,600 If you want. 762 01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:25,160 Okay. 763 01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:39,360 Oh. Luxury. 764 01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:49,000 It was very kind. 765 01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:56,040 I'm sitting here with you. 766 01:19:56,200 --> 01:20:00,160 You don't need it. You probably have a lot of work. 767 01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:04,880 I can just lie here for a while until I feel a little better. 768 01:20:05,040 --> 01:20:07,040 I'm not going to go. 769 01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:13,440 I can sit here and watch you. 770 01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:16,440 Or I can look out the window a bit. 771 01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:19,120 But I'll take care of you. 772 01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:26,160 That's fine by me to be allowed to do so. 773 01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:37,440 Excuse me. I'm just tired. 774 01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:40,840 It's not so strange. 775 01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:52,280 Sorry, that I... I'm just really tired. 776 01:20:52,440 --> 01:20:54,800 It's going well. 777 01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:06,040 There is nothing strange that you feel that way, Maria. 778 01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:13,240 Excuse me. I don't know... I don't know what is wrong with me. 779 01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:16,400 I didn't sleep at all last night. 780 01:21:20,400 --> 01:21:24,560 I'm not usually like this here. I don't know... 781 01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:05,560 I hate you. You are so stupid. You are so stupid! 782 01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:09,560 Cruel. Stupid. 783 01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:15,320 Stupid. I hate you. I hate you. I hate you. 784 01:22:15,480 --> 01:22:17,600 Stupid. Cruel. 785 01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:20,640 I hate you. You're a piece of shit. 786 01:24:25,960 --> 01:24:27,960 You ... 787 01:24:31,440 --> 01:24:33,800 You are... 788 01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:43,480 You're... perfectly fine. 789 01:24:45,560 --> 01:24:47,560 You ... 790 01:24:50,840 --> 01:24:52,840 You are good. 791 01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:58,600 I haven't ready to tell you before. 792 01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:00,760 For... 793 01:25:02,200 --> 01:25:05,440 ... I haven't been doing so well. 794 01:25:09,080 --> 01:25:11,120 My good girl. 795 01:25:14,400 --> 01:25:16,920 You have a good heart. 796 01:25:22,120 --> 01:25:24,360 You can get... 797 01:25:25,960 --> 01:25:30,600 You can get love. 798 01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:36,240 You can get it. 799 01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:42,360 You are so good. You are so... good. 800 01:25:44,680 --> 01:25:49,640 That's perfectly fine that you need love. 801 01:25:52,000 --> 01:25:54,000 You are so good. 802 01:26:00,360 --> 01:26:02,480 i love you 803 01:26:08,480 --> 01:26:10,600 i love you 804 01:28:17,640 --> 01:28:19,240 Hello! 805 01:28:20,320 --> 01:28:22,960 Hello! 806 01:28:23,120 --> 01:28:25,880 Hello. Come on, honey. 807 01:28:46,680 --> 01:28:48,680 - Hello. - Hello. 808 01:29:01,360 --> 01:29:03,360 Hello. 809 01:29:04,800 --> 01:29:07,320 You're just such a jerk. 810 01:29:13,000 --> 01:29:16,200 You understand that I think you're a jerk? 811 01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:18,760 Yes, I understand that. 812 01:29:22,000 --> 01:29:27,240 You say you are going to work in Oslo, but you don't have a real job. 813 01:29:27,400 --> 01:29:32,760 You are just a failure and pathetic. You should never have had children. 814 01:29:32,920 --> 01:29:38,320 I want to move in with dad. He's not a jerk like you. 815 01:29:38,480 --> 01:29:41,520 It's okay that you want to. 816 01:29:41,680 --> 01:29:45,760 I understand that you want to. 817 01:29:53,160 --> 01:29:55,160 Mom. 818 01:29:57,840 --> 01:29:59,840 My girl. 819 01:30:04,760 --> 01:30:08,440 There is nothing strange that you feel that way. 820 01:30:31,480 --> 01:30:35,360 The one on the corner is closed, so we have to find another place. 821 01:30:43,520 --> 01:30:44,840 Here? 822 01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:56,240 Hello. 823 01:31:02,920 --> 01:31:07,200 - A Farris and a cappuccino. - Yes, me and. 824 01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:16,400 I haven't really so much to say. 825 01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:19,520 It was you who wanted to meet. 826 01:31:22,080 --> 01:31:26,080 Say what you have to say. I will listen. 827 01:31:46,800 --> 01:31:48,880 I might start to cry. 828 01:31:49,040 --> 01:31:55,000 But...I don't think it is because I'm so sad right now. 829 01:31:55,160 --> 01:31:59,560 I will that you should try not to feel guilty - 830 01:31:59,720 --> 01:32:02,360 - when I say this. 831 01:32:03,440 --> 01:32:08,280 You should know that if you want to go, then you can. 832 01:32:08,440 --> 01:32:11,920 You don't have to feel bad. 833 01:32:12,080 --> 01:32:18,640 If that's what you need to do, then you shall do it. 834 01:32:22,080 --> 01:32:27,680 And you don't have to be afraid of that I don't feel well. 835 01:32:27,840 --> 01:32:30,000 Because I do. 836 01:32:33,480 --> 01:32:35,480 I'm going to be fine. 837 01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:40,680 I have though how scared I've been. 838 01:32:43,160 --> 01:32:48,520 I have been so afraid of that you should leave me, and ... 839 01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:54,280 ... and how difficult it has been for me to say it...to you. 840 01:32:56,600 --> 01:33:01,680 I have been so scared to be left with myself... 841 01:33:01,840 --> 01:33:05,360 ... which I have hated so much. 842 01:33:13,880 --> 01:33:17,200 I just want to say sorry. 843 01:33:17,360 --> 01:33:21,880 Because I haven't trusted that you have wished me well. 844 01:33:22,040 --> 01:33:24,600 I have blamed you. 845 01:33:25,800 --> 01:33:31,920 I have criticized you and ... held you tight. 846 01:33:32,920 --> 01:33:38,920 It is...vital to me... to figure this out. 847 01:33:39,080 --> 01:33:40,680 So... 848 01:33:41,960 --> 01:33:46,760 ...in a way it is that has happened now ... a gift. 849 01:33:51,600 --> 01:33:54,680 I would so like to that we should be together. 850 01:33:54,840 --> 01:33:58,080 But what I realize now is… 851 01:33:59,240 --> 01:34:01,840 ... that I don't want to ... 852 01:34:02,920 --> 01:34:06,720 I don't want it, if you don't want it. 853 01:34:06,880 --> 01:34:09,880 If we're not together, then... 854 01:34:12,960 --> 01:34:15,440 ... is that ok too. 855 01:34:17,000 --> 01:34:20,080 I can also live a good life... 856 01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:24,440 ... without you. 857 01:34:27,160 --> 01:34:29,440 Thanks. 858 01:34:29,600 --> 01:34:32,360 Be so good. 859 01:34:43,000 --> 01:34:47,320 Then it's just a matter of getting to grips in my own problems. 860 01:34:47,480 --> 01:34:51,720 I realize there are two of us in this. 861 01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:56,760 And that I have my share to take hold of. 862 01:34:56,920 --> 01:35:01,320 And that I have not been clear about what are my needs. 863 01:35:01,480 --> 01:35:06,920 It has been dangerous for me to know what are my needs. 864 01:35:15,320 --> 01:35:18,920 - I have to go. - Okay. 865 01:35:24,400 --> 01:35:26,400 Okay. 866 01:35:33,400 --> 01:35:35,920 - Have it. - Have it. 867 01:36:08,800 --> 01:36:10,120 Hello. 868 01:36:13,400 --> 01:36:15,360 Hello. 869 01:36:17,960 --> 01:36:20,320 How are you? 870 01:36:29,200 --> 01:36:31,880 It's dangerous for me - 871 01:36:32,040 --> 01:36:36,040 - to accept love you give me 872 01:36:36,200 --> 01:36:38,400 It scares me. 873 01:36:39,440 --> 01:36:41,440 What are you afraid of? 874 01:36:43,320 --> 01:36:49,240 If I let you hold me, then I think you will let me go. 875 01:36:49,400 --> 01:36:51,400 Do you think so? 876 01:36:53,440 --> 01:36:56,880 Do you think that I going to drop you? 877 01:37:01,280 --> 01:37:03,480 Come on. 878 01:37:06,600 --> 01:37:08,200 Come on.