All language subtitles for Married.At.First.Sight.S17E13.1080p.WEB.h264-EDITH[EZTVx.to]_track3_eng

[cheers and applause]

- Eight singles took a leap
into the great unknown

in search of love.

They married
as total strangers.

[cheers and applause]

[upbeat music]

Last time,
our couples delved deeper

in order to learn more
about their spouse.

Becca and Austin.

- You have been a very
pleasant surprise for us.

- Blow us away.
Like, wow.

- Certainly enjoyed
getting to know you.

- Out of all the ways
that this could go,

this is the best-case scenario.

Yeah.

- Clare and Cameron.

- I'm going to need a procedure
done on my heart.

- You know,
we talk and I check in

and I'm trying to be
as supportive as I can.

- Yeah.

- But I just feel like we're
very much distant right now.

- Emily and Brennan.

Like, it's OK to just--

I don't know what the [bleep]

is going to get through
to him at this rate.

[tense music]

- Chloe and Michael.

- I know I'm going to like him.

I can feel it
with every fiber of my being.

- I really want to seize
that opportunity

to get her excited,
to get her happy.

Wanted to really kind of,

you know,
reflect my commitment.

- And tonight...

- ♪ Good energy, energy
- [laughs]

- [yelps]
- Nice.

- I haven't had a relationship

that moves this slowly
or, like, a relationship

where I don't feel, like,

as desired as I have
in past relationships.

And it's been difficult.

- Going to Boulder hospital
for an operation.

- Tomorrow is the big day.

I can't believe it.

- You know, doing this again,

obviously, I know

what the worst-case scenario
kind of feels like.

I definitely acknowledge
that I'm a little more anxious.

- The intent of this
was to talk

about how we're going
to move forward,

not to talk about the past.

I thought we were
on the same page of what

we wanted to accomplish today.

- Brennan, do you trust Emily?

- Um...

♪

[upbeat music]

- ♪ It's all or nothing

- This is
"Married at First Sight."

- ♪ There's no other way

♪ It's all or nothing

[upbeat music]

♪

- Good morning.

It is the morning after
wedding dress shopping,

and holy smokes.
[laughs]

It is all starting
to set in now.

I'm feeling really excited
and really hopeful

and so really, really,
really overwhelmed.

I can't believe the big day
is just a few short days away.

So I'm going to go
and spend the day

doing all the bride shopping
that I can squeeze into today.

I'm just really excited for--

for the wedding.

- ♪ Yeah,
you're turning me off ♪

♪ Turn me off, turn me off

♪ Make me doubt,
make me doubt all my love ♪

- Actually, signed us up
for a sexy naked people

figurines
terrarium-building class.

- Whoa.
- A little surprise.

It's back this way.

You want to do it?
- Yeah.

- Cool.
- Build a terrarium?

- Yeah.
- Yeah, let's go.

- Becca and I both love plants,
but the fun little

not-safe-for-work figurines
are for Becca

because she is,
to quote Lindsay

from our wedding, a sex vixen.

- ♪ It's time to be me

♪ Got luck in my breeze,
love in my pocket ♪

- I am doing little sexy people

in the corners...
- In the corners?

- And then having the plants
kind of divide them up.

- So everyone can watch.
- [laughs]

What were you going to do?

- Give them an oasis where they
can do what they need to do.

- All right.
- But I love yours.

Just, like, put them
in the window.

- To each his own
sexy terrarium.

- For sure.

I'm choosing him,
and he's going

to rail her against the moss.

- [laughs]

Love it.

- Remember how important
foreplay is.

Have you ever had sex
on a bed of moss?

- [laughs]

Describe a bed of, like--

- Any moss at all.

- Have to be a big--

I mean, I've had sex outside.

- Nice. Good for you.
- [laughs]

- Happy for you.

- I mean, what are you,
like, into?

- I am very sex positive.

So I'm open to trying
new things, typically.

But, like, typically, I just
enjoy what my partner enjoys.

- Yeah.

It's like how I go
about it as well.

- Yeah.

- You know what, fingers.

Fingers are great.

- [snorts]
They are.

Do you like to use fingers?
[both laugh]

- I do.
I typically use this motion.

[both laugh]

- Is the dirt lube?
- [laughs]

- Just nice and dry.

Rub it up on there.

In your ideal marriage,
how often does sex happen?

- I don't know, maybe, like,
once a day or, you know,

once every two days.

[quirky music]

I feel like that's--
is that normal?

- Yeah.
- Is it?

- I would agree with that.
- Yeah?

- Yeah.
- You sure?

- If more happens,

then nobody's ever
going to complain.

- Yeah.

- Austin and I don't really
have these conversations.

So anything I get to learn
about Austin sexually, I like.

That feels right.

Yep, that's it.

She's done.

And it makes me hopeful

that that will progress
into something.

- What about,
you know, like, pegging?

That seems to have come up.
- You want me to peg you?

[laughing]
OK.

- Actually, you know what,
I retract the question.

- What?
- [laughs]

[steady music]

- ♪ I got a brand-new heart

♪

- Going to Boulder hospital
for an operation.

Some forms of A fibrillation
and other heart arrhythmias,

you can kind of get by
with just medication,

whereas this one,
unfortunately,

you know, I really just
don't have a choice.

I have to get the procedure.

The flutter is obviously,
you know, something that is

very limiting and distracting.

I have no need to contact Clare
at this moment.

Just got to get it done.

Let's go to the hospital.

[tense music]

♪

- You know, I wasn't
in the perfect headspace

to talk last night,
but I feel much better now.

So how do you feel
about last night?

What's going on in your mind?

- Mm...I don't know.

I'll go back
to what I said last night.

I assume that you're
really not about to faint.

And I, like, snapped
in some sort of way,

but that was not me
trying to, like, attack you

or put you on the spot.

I think it's just,
I guess, disappointing

when you can't
answer questions.

I'm just saying, like, it feels
like there's lack of effort.

It just feels like, to me, like
you're already shutting down,

and maybe why I snapped
because we were trying to have,

like, a reset,
and how sometimes,

actions like that make me

just feel bad.

♪

- Yeah.

You know, last night,
I understand

where you didn't feel
supported.

Like, I understand
it's lack of effort.

Like, I was trying to do right
by you,

and in return, I messed it up.

Like, I'm not trying
to hurt you.

Like, I'm sorry
if I'm hurting you.

Definitely going to work on,
you know,

the way I'm coming across
and my delivery.

Definitely something
I want to keep in mind

and be better at.

- Yeah, I appreciate that

and that you were open
to just having

a civil conversation about it.

I really think it's, like,
the only way,

like, we can move forward

is if we work on it.

- Yeah.

Cheers to working on it.

- His apologies
are appreciated,

but I don't think he realizes
that doesn't mean anything

if he keeps acting
the way he is

and keeps putting in
the minimal effort,

considering this has all been
on his terms.

- So in spirit of the reset,
Dr. Pepper asked us to write

a note to our younger selves.

Are you ready to go do that?

- OK.

[upbeat music]

♪

Whoa, that was therapeutic.

My hand hurts.
I was on a roll.

- Want to go first
because you're on a roll?

- Sure.

"Dear high school Emily,

"I know everything seems hard
right now,

"so I'm here to say
keep doing you

"and working hard
because that is

"what's going to get you here.

"Dad--oh, man, does he
drive you really insane,

"make you mad, angry,
and makes you cry a lot.

"It's mostly around
sports and soccer,

"but know that although
he has pushed you a lot,

"and at times too hard,
this will be so important--

"important to who you are
as a person down the road.

"And without his passion
and dedication to you,

"your motivation, your drive,
just overall success

"would not be the same.

"Soccer--it's been
your life to date,

"but please remember that it
doesn't define who you are

"or that it's all
you are good at.

"You are better at a lot more

"than you give yourself
credit for,

"and you will be
so happy and proud

of where you end up."

The end.

- Nice.
Feel good reading it?

- Yeah.

Really work
on my handwriting, though.

- All right.

"Dear Brennan,
you're probably feeling

"a lot of pressure right now.

"You're a teenager
going through school

"and always thinking
about the future.

"Even at your age, that was
always on the forefront

"of our minds
because we like to have a plan

"and know exactly
where we're heading.

"You've always been
a risk-taker.

"Don't worry about
letting anyone down.

"It's OK to make mistakes.

"The people that matter
aren't going anywhere.

"Mom and Dad love you
very much.

"They have a funny way
of showing it sometimes,

"but at the end of the day,
they are always here for you.

"Don't be in a rush to grow up,

"because if you blink,
it's all over

"and your childhood is done.

"Be proud of who you are

and everything will all be OK."

- I love that.

Who did you, like, lean on
for advice at that age?

- My friend's dad
was my mentor.

He was the real estate guy
that I started

working with when I was 13.

You know, everyone was playing
around, you know, hanging out.

I was sitting there
picking his brain.

I was 13 and he was like,
"What are you doing?

Don't you want to hang out
with kids your age?"

And I'm like,
"I'm good right here.

I just like
picking your brain."

- It's so interesting.

I was nowhere near that.

I wish I was.

- Yeah, I wouldn't say I was

very common
at such a young age.

And that's where half
the advice is just, you know,

it's important
to just take a step back

and realize you're a kid.

And I put so much pressure
on myself to grow up quick.

And I didn't have to do that.

I could have enjoyed life,
I think, a little bit more.

And I don't regret anything,
but yeah,

I could have enjoyed
just a bit more.

- It's always progress
and growth for Brennan

when he does open up.

And I'm getting a sense
of why he is the way that he is

in ways that have been
challenging for him

and for us to move forward.

- ♪ I know
you're worth the fight ♪

- Really getting
the full picture here.

- ♪ Oh, oh, 'cause I know
it's worth the fight ♪

[soft dramatic music]

♪

- Cameron, he--

I talked with him,
and he let me know

that, like, he's doing OK.

So I'm feeling super relieved.

You know, thinking about him,
it was weighing on me a lot.

And it was affecting me
because I was super concerned,

super worried, as I tend to do.

And, you know, I asked
how he wants me to support him

during the surgery,
and he was like, "You know,

because you do tend
to worry a little bit"--

and I was like,
"OK, you're right"--

"why don't you maybe
just hang back

for the surgery part,"
which I think is a good call,

and I totally respect that.

You know, I just want
to give him

the time that he needs
right now

and just let him know
that I care about him so much

and that he has so much support

and show him that he means
a lot to me.

- ♪ Flew through the rainbow
and didn't realize ♪

♪ I want to get day drunk
with you ♪

♪ Not cry, there's so much

♪

- You used these before?

- Not these.
- Yeah.

- Find out real quick.

Press and go.

[clicking]

- Oh, beautiful.
Look at us.

- The boys are
grilling right now.

- I know.

This is going to be
my little station.

- What'd you bring, Em?
Some treats for us?

- My bag of tricks.
- Oh, my gosh, we love that.

- So I just went for it,
you know?

White wine, tequila,
no chasers, no water,

some marshmallows
and s'mores stuff.

- Yay.
- Love that.

- Are there skewers
for the marshmallows?

- There are bamboo sticks.
- Wow.

Fire hazard, but I love it.

- So how are you girls doing?
- I don't know.

Are any of us doing well?

- Good.

Physically, mentally,
emotionally.

- We are--
- We're here.

- That is very true.

- A lot has--a lot has
changed for us, man.

- How so?
What's going on?

- Well, for one,
we kind of, like, reset,

like, the whole expectation.

Just, you know, trying to take
the pressure off and, you know,

just enjoy each other,
which has been

an interesting adjustment,
to say the least.

- Is it a good adjustment?

- I think it has been
for me, at least.

I'm trying to work through it
with Emily,

which has been
a bit of a challenge.

But I think we are in
a much better place.

- I think part of our issue is,
we keep,

like, having intense talks.

It's hard for us to, like, hear

and say the stuff we're saying.

- You guys are
both, like, reactive.

You say what you mean
in that moment.

Is that what you mean?

- I think we just have
different

communication styles.

- Yeah. Yeah, which is hard.

- Like, I haven't had
my proudest moments.

I almost did lose it
for a sec this weekend.

- Yeah, but you're a human.

- I think
we talked everything out

and wanted to, like,
just move on.

Me losing patience,
we need to go back

to, like, stay
in the positives.

You know, like,
I can be better.

And I think we'll be able
to persevere.

- Everything that you do
is, like, to better

your relationship and, like,
to understand Brennan better.

And, like,
there's not, like, a minute

that goes by that I don't think
that you're trying.

And I just think you need,
like, the biggest kudos.

- Have to stay positive.
- Yeah.

- Because that's who I am.
I'm an optimist.

I go back to being positive,
fun, and taking it day by day.

- Minute by minute.
- Riding the wave.

- Minute by minute.
- Ride, ride, ride.

- Ride, ride, ride
the wave, wave, wave.

- Yeah, what's nice
about this reset is,

it's, like, critical that
we don't have, like, any plans.

We're just taking it literally,
like, week by week, day by day.

Because it was either that
or divorce.

But we're not giving up,
you know?

- Yeah.

- So, you know, we're doing
everything we can.

- And you are still,
like, on good terms

and both want to, like,
carry forward like this?

- Yeah, we're in
a good place now, I think.

- Yeah.
- You know, I truly--

I truly want to believe that,
you know?

- Yeah.
- So...

- Who ever thought
that none of us

would be getting laid
right now?

- Literally so sad.

- A month and a half
into marriage.

- Yeah.

Well, I've see you guys kiss.
- I'm imagining it's hot.

- I thought you guys
were, like--yeah,

I'm like, very lovey-dovey.
- Oh, yeah.

We make out.

- Farther than all of us.

- In the race of intimacy,
I am crushing it.

- You guys are adorable.

- Things are
progressing wonderfully.

- We love that.

- I just like them
to go further faster.

- With Becca, the one thing is,

she is a little more
sexually driven

than I am, like, this early on.

- Yeah.

Do you feel like you've made
progress in that area?

- Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

It's stuff I have to be,
like, more conscious about

and, like, actively try.

You know, like,
that's how problems work.

You have a problem, you have
to [bleep] think about it.

- You get in your head
very easily thinking about it.

- Dude, that's the thing,
is, like,

it, like, started out
as, like, a little thing.

It just, like, grew
and grew and grew

because, like, you got to talk
about it, like, constantly

over and over again.

It's like,
the pressure comes in.

Like, you start
thinking about it.

Like, it's really
[bleep] get in your head.

So the problem isn't,
like, the problem itself

but, like, what has,
like, come out

of the [bleep] problem,
which is annoying.

- Yeah.

- We're working through it,
you know?

Like, baby steps.

- Your attitude is
literally, like--

I admire it.
[car horn honking]

Because I think
sometimes I can be

really negative
about this process

and where we're at and--OK.
[laughs]

And, you know,
Cameron's been having,

like, some health concerns.

He is experiencing,
like, heart flutter,

which is very serious.

Cameron went into surgery.

And I talked with him.

And he let me know that,
like, he's doing OK.

It's been really worrisome
for me.

And I'm not--
the more I talk about it,

like, I will get emotional,
and so--

but the main thing is,
yeah, that he's OK

and that I'm strong for him.

And I'm realizing, like,
I was meant to be in his life

to support him
and be there for him

and be whatever it is
that he needs me to be

in these moments,
because that's all I can do.

- As someone
who has been taken care of

by people that are loved,
like, you are doing him the--

you're giving him
the biggest gift.

- He is appreciating it
whether he's saying it

or not, like, from afar.

- Thank you for saying that
'cause I need to know those--

- And there's people
who aren't even able to, like--

some people, like,
back away in these situations.

- Yeah. Oh, yeah.
- Oh, no.

- I mean, as someone
who's recovered from surgery

so many times,
I've lost friends.

- We're dealing
with hard things.

All we can do is
lift each other up.

And that's all I will ever
continue to do.

When you say your vows, like,
"In sickness and in health,"

like, you don't say it thinking
that it's going to be a thing.

Even if we're at a spot
where we don't know

what's happening--like,
there's just so many unknowns--

I'm going to stay true
to those vows.

I'm going to make sure
that I live that out

and be as supportive as I can.

But I don't want to hurt him
any more than I already have.

- ♪ My heart can't take

♪ Anymore damage,
anymore damage ♪

[steady music]

- Have you shot pool before?

- You know...
- Good try. Good try.

- I agree. You got this.
- It's like a few balls

want to have me.

- I believe in you.

- So--
- She's put me--

- Oh, my God,
that was embarrassing.

[laughter]
- [bleep].

- She touched it twice.
That's cheating.

[laughter]
- [gasps]

- Whee.
- Michael.

- What is on your head?

- Look, look, I had to get
one more run out of this crown

before I retire.

- Wow.
- Oh, my God.

- Mike with the crown.

- Wait, can we hug? Hi.

Good to see you.
- Nice seeing you guys again.

- I don't think
you have to retire.

- Hello.
Good to see you again.

- You as well.
- It's been a long time.

- I know.

- Looking sharp as always.

- I try.
- How are we doing?

- All right.

- I'm here to give you
a nice, cute little update

on my situation,
if you'll indulge me.

So I did have an opportunity
to speak with the experts.

And they asked me
if I would be open

to potentially being
re-matched,

not knowing
if they'd be able to or not.

So I said I would be.

Met up with my friends.

And your girl
Dr. Pepper dropped in on us.

- That's how she does it.
That's how she does it.

- So she dropped in
to let me know

that they were able
to re-match me.

- Wow.
- Yay!

- Yay!
- That's exciting.

- You deserve that.
- It is exciting.

I'm excited.
I'm looking forward to it.

I mean, I'll be honest,
I'm trying to imagine--

you know, like,
I'll have to address the fact

that this is my second
go-around at this.

- You did nothing wrong.
- Right.

- Like, you should go
into it being like,

"This is how badly
I wanted this.

Like, this is how badly"--
- You're committed that much.

- And not only that, but, like,

it's bringing you
this new wife, right?

So, like, you should speak
about it in that way,

that, like, you are thankful
that that happened

to bring you to this point.

- Turn it into a positive.
- Yeah. And it shows--

- "If that didn't happen,
I wouldn't have met you and"--

- Exactly.
- I think that's a great point

because one of the things
that I feel like

I would want to communicate
is, like,

you're not receiving,
like, a broken man.

- It takes a lot for someone
to, like, go about this again,

and I think
she's going to respect that.

- And also the minute
that she comes to us,

if she has any, like--
- Got to back me up.

I'm going to need you guys.
I'm going to need you guys.

- But, like, we saw how you
dealt with that afterwards,

and it was so beautiful.

And, like, if we can
convey that to her

so that she knows that,
you know, you will carry that

into your relationship
with her.

- Right, and how badly
you wanted marriage

that you were willing
to, you know,

make it through
a really hard experience,

right, And talk about it
with us and also be like,

"Yeah, I'm still devoted
to that

and that is still
my number one goal."

- And you want even more.
- Right.

- I mean, you got a taste
of it, and now you--

- Nothing but good things
will come

from you telling her that.

- Yeah.

- Timing is everything.
- Yeah.

- Wait, I'm so excited
for you, though.

- Well, thank you.

But yeah, so things are moving
at quite the quick pace.

The wedding is on Saturday,
and I would be very honored

if you guys would be
in attendance

to support me
and my future wife.

- Aww.
- Wow.

- We're going to be
out of [bleep] town.

[laughs]
- Yeah.

- We have to go
visit his grandma.

- Well, we'll be there,
for sure.

- All right, perfect.
- That's going to be amazing.

- We're so happy for you.
- Thank you.

- It'll be good, man.
- We don't know that.

We don't know this new girl.

I'm just kidding.
[laughter]

- My risk management.

The worst.
- It'll be great.

Literally, don't be nervous.
It'll be great.

Yeah.
- I'll do my best.

- We got you.
- Be great.

- We got you.
We're excited for you.

- Can't wait to see
what the future holds for you.

- Cheers to wife 2.0.

- I've got a good feeling
about you.

I feel like--
- I do too.

- I feel like
you're going to really hit it

out of the park this time.

- Second time's the charm.

- Putting pressure on me.

[laughter]

- ♪ No, the game ain't over

[upbeat music]

♪

[phone ringing]

- Well, what's up, my boy?
Looking fresh.

- What's up?

- I know we talk
pretty much every day.

So you kind of know
what's been going on.

So I was just hoping to get
a little advice

from the master of marriage
himself.

My best friend, Richie,
knows me better than anyone.

So we have a lot of trust
with one another.

So he can speak as freely
as he wants

without me having to worry
if he's holding back.

Even though Emily and I
are in a better place,

I just want his honesty.

So I feel like he can give
the best advice

about how to keep
the momentum going.

♪

- How's it been going?

- It's been challenging,
you know.

I'm not used to not having
a romantic element

in my relationship.

But, like, we get along
really well,

and we have a lot of fun
together, so...

- What do
the experts recommend

about how you can
move past that?

- They're recommending
that we just continue

to get deeper and focus

on the emotional connection.

- That's good.

But also, I think actions
speak louder than words

as far
as romantic connections go.

- Right.

I've been making an effort
to, like, try to hug more

and see if that,
like, helps anything.

We're doing, I think,
all the little things

that expand
on the emotional connection.

Like, I definitely feel
closer to her.

- I don't know, I think
you can get stuck in your head

sometimes about things.

You know, if your roommate
leaves something out

and you'll just be
pissed at the roommate.

It's happened
with relationships

in the past, you know?

There could be one little
thing that bothers you.

And that one little thing
will trump

any other connection you have.

And once that thought
gets in your brain,

like, I think it's hard for
you to maybe snap out of it.

So I worry that in your head,

you said there's no
romantic connection,

and now you're kind of--

I don't want you
to close your doors

to the opportunity
that it could happen.

The only way
you're going to get there

is if you try to do things
outside of what

you're told you have to do.

- Last week, we were
having lunch together,

having dinner together.

Does that, like, make you
feel comfortable

that I am giving it my all
and doing things differently?

- I could get lunch with my
friend, you know what I mean?

Like, I don't know,
I'm not trying

to have a romantic
relationship with, like, you,

you know what I mean?

I don't know, I just feel
like, be flirtatious,

be fun, be easygoing.

Don't make
these things chores.

In your head, do you think,

"I'm doing everything
perfectly

"and there's nothing
I can do differently.

It's just
kind of not there yet"?

Or is there something
that you think

you can try to improve on?

- I don't think
I'm doing everything perfect.

Like, I think I can definitely
be better, like, with my words

and expressing myself better.

- I mean, it sounds like
you get along pretty well

as friends,
which, being friends is

an important part
of a relationship

for the foundation,
but it's important,

like I know
with my relationship,

that you have to make time
for each other.

Make sure you're asking her
how her day was,

make sure
you're giving her hugs.

I just think
that you're getting

too stuck in the motions
of adapting to,

"This is what life should be."

And I think that's why
maybe you're not there yet.

- I kind of feel
a little stuck right now,

but we're going to try to talk
about more serious stuff

this week
to see if that can help,

like, expand
the emotional connection.

Like, unpack more family stuff.
- Yeah.

I think those conversations
can definitely help.

Because once you get
to know somebody

on such a deeper level,
I feel like the connection

could get stronger,
which could lead

to more romantic connection.

Do you think
there is a possibility

that there is a chance
it does click at some point?

- That it does click?
- Yeah.

- Emily is, like, one
of the most wonderful humans

I've ever met.

Like, she's very caring,
she's very giving,

and she's very just sweet.

I think, you know,
she's amazing.

So I'm hoping
the romance part will come.

- ♪ I won't back down

[upbeat music]

- I have a question.

- What is your question?

- This is my microphone.

- I see that.

- Why are you nervous tonight?

- You know, I feel like
before a big game,

a little nerves
are to be expected.

- What game
are we playing here?

- The big game is
the meeting with the experts.

Those are always the big games.

- What about Dr. P
makes you nervous?

- Um...

- I know sex isn't
your favorite topic to cover

on national television.

- Yeah, that's right too.

- Could that be part of what's
contributing to your nerves?

- Yeah, that makes sense.
[chuckles]

Like, obviously, we move
at different paces.

And that can cause...

grinding.

Maybe that's not
the right word.

- [laughing]
- Friction?

Or--and, you know,
just might be nice to tell

the doctor about, like--

it'll be good to talk
with you about--

and Pia about that.

What are you going to ask her?

- I kind of just want
to hear her thoughts.

I also just want to ask her,
like, how do I stay patient?

[soft music]

And also
how to make you comfortable.

- I think you're doing a good
job making me comfortable.

- Does the pre-pickle help?

- No. No, it doesn't.

[laughs]

[knock at door]

You ready to do this?

- Mm-hmm.

- Great.

♪

- ♪ Sometimes
you're misunderstood ♪

♪ When your intentions
are good ♪

♪ You feel like screaming,
but no one hears you ♪

- Hello.
- Hello.

- Welcome to our home.

You look so cute.

- Thank you.

Good to see you.
- Hey.

- Good to see you as well.

All right.
- Yeah. Follow us.

- Follow y'all.

Right. Sit here? OK.
- Yeah.

That's yours.

Post up here.

- So tell me, how have things
been since we last met?

- Um...

- It's been good.
- Yeah.

Yeah.
They've been good, for sure.

- I know the last time
that we talked,

intimacy was something
that we were working toward

improving upon
and gaining more comfort.

And I know we said, OK,

we're not going to talk about
intercourse right now,

but that doesn't mean
that other things

are off the table.

And I'm curious, like,
how has that been?

- Hmm...

say it's been a little slower
than anticipated.

I just feel like
the time has flown by,

and we haven't really,
like, progressed that much.

- Yeah.

- Which I feel bad about,
and it's, like, mostly on me.

- I appreciate you owning that.

Can we maybe talk about
what's the barrier?

- I mean, I typically just like
to move slow.

And there's been a couple
of times when we have been,

but it hasn't been--

it hasn't gone exceedingly far,
right?

- You said there's a couple
times where we have been.

Have been...

- Like, intimate and, like,

rolled around in bed and...

- OK.
- Had fun.

- How was that?

- It's great when it happens.

I think that's something
that, like,

has been, like, surprisingly
difficult for me,

because, like, I haven't had
a relationship

that moves this slowly,

or, like, a relationship
where I don't feel, like,

as desired as I have
in past relationships.

And it's been difficult.
- Hmm.

- Well, and that's
what I want to squash,

is, like, that she feels
a lack of desire,

because, like,
the desire is there.

I just, like, tend to move
slower than most.

- When you hear him say, like,
"No, I absolutely desire you.

I just need more time,"
what comes up for you?

- It feels hard
because, like, I desire him.

And for me,
it's hard to understand

how he could desire me and then
also not want to show it.

- Yeah. No, I know.
- I think he's hot.

- You're ready.
- Oh, yeah.

- Yeah.
- I mean, even just ready

for, like, a longer make-out
every now and then.

Like, I don't need, like--

- But we do that.

And we've, like,
been doing it more,

and granted it hasn't been
that much recently, but--

- So, OK, I mean, your wife is
saying she thinks you're hot.

She is so ready
and willing to do whatever.

Well, those are my words,
not yours.

She's waiting.

She's ready.
- Yeah.

- And I'm curious,
what might be holding you back

from taking things
a little bit further?

- I don't know.

Because, yeah,
we definitely have,

like, an emotional connection.
- Mm-hmm.

- The first part of this,

it was just, like,
wanting to wait

till, like, I was more ready.

And then, like, we started
talking about it.

And then it seemed like that's
all we did was talk about it.

I think, like, the pressure,
like, kind of built

and, like, get more
in my head about it.

And now I'm, like,
questioning myself.

Because a spotlight has been
shone on this, like,

now I'm in my head about it.

- Which is hard
because I don't want to--

like, that's
what it has felt like,

is that--like, a favor to me.

- Mm-hmm.

- And I don't want it
to come off that way.

But now I feel like no matter
what I, like, try to do,

like, it feels like--
it feels like it's tainted

or something.

- That--I appreciate the way
that you're explaining this

because now it's registering
to me a little bit better

where it's like, there's been
so much of a spotlight.

There's all this
pressure around, like,

OK, we're waiting for Austin
to be ready to have sex.

And so that's, like you said,
putting you

in your head of, like,
"OK, well, now I'm

"very conscious of when
I'm going to make a move,

when I'm not going
to make a move."

Like, almost like
this hypervigilance.

- Yeah, yeah.
- And it sounds like

it's perhaps, like, taking away
the excitement

or any kind of excitement
that there could be.

- Yeah.

- So I want to help you
with this challenge, right?

Like, when you all
have fooled around,

was there something that made
you stop taking it further?

Like, what were you
thinking about?

- I think it's all in my head.

And I think
I just need to, like--

- Get out of your head?
- Get out of my head.

- Mm-hmm.

So I think
what I'm hearing is that

perhaps a little bit more
of the foreplay is missing.

And I'm curious if that
might be

part of the barrier for you,
where it's like,

I'm supposed to turn this on,
turn it off, right?

Like, more of a foreplay
leading up to it.

And foreplay doesn't have
to be physical, right?

Is there a way
in which we can increase,

like, your intimate
conversations

throughout the day?

So I hear you
where it's like, OK,

we're not going to put down
like, "9:30 PM,

we're going to be
intimate together," right?

But more so of like,
"OK, tonight's the night."

What does foreplay look like
to both of you?

- I'm a firm believer,
like, you--

that, like, foreplay doesn't
have to be sexual in any way.

Like, it can literally be,
like, how you look at someone,

like, how you text them, like,
how you touch their back.

Like, it can be, like,
everyday things.

Yeah, not even physical
in any way.

- Mm-hmm.
- That's all new for me.

- Ah. OK.

So being that that's kind of,
like, where your mind is,

would you feel
comfortable initiating

the foreplay earlier?

- I think so,
but then this is what--

I don't want him
to feel pressure.

Because I feel like
that's what he's felt.

He's expressed
that he's felt that before.

- Yeah.
- If Becca sends you a text,

like, while you're at work
and it's like, "Oh, my gosh,

I can't wait to see you naked
tonight," or something,

just whatever she might say,

would that bring apart
a feeling of pressure for you?

- I don't know.
We can try it.

- Yeah, because I'm wondering
if it's like,

we're talking around it
but not, like,

doing it, essentially, right?

And so if it was less of,
like, "Well, what might we do?

"Or what might this be like?

Or what's your turn-ons
and turn-offs?"

And just get to it.
- Yeah.

- So we're going to work
on removing expectations.

Just removing the expectation
that anything needs

to happen in a particular way.

You all really care
about each other.

You like each other.

Y'all go together.
You're married, right?

Like, this is serious.
This is real.

I can tell that you all have
this connection.

And there is, on both ends,
a desire for things

to move forward a bit, right?

And so can we go into it with,
"We're just going to explore

each other's bodies"?
- Yeah.

- "We're going to explore
our sexual chemistry,"

create your own
sexual experience together.

So let's just, like,
put a pin here.

- Yeah.
- And y'all finish it together.

OK. No pressure.
[laughs]

- ♪ I don't know what it is,
but I keep dreaming ♪

♪ I keep dreaming
'bout you, babe ♪

- ♪ You know
that I got you on my mind ♪

♪ I just really want
to get to know you ♪

- All right,
we are one day away.

Still not nervous,
but definitely

a little bit more anxious.

You know, doing this again,
obviously,

I know what the worst-case
scenario kind of feels like.

So there's I think a little bit
of a reckoning there.

But, you know, overall,
I feel confident

that I'll be able
to remain optimistic.

But I definitely acknowledge

that I'm a little bit
more anxious.

[upbeat music]

- So here we are
getting our wedding nails done.

Tomorrow is the big day!

I can't believe it.

I have got my bridesmaid,
Brandi, and my mom in tow.

Here they are.
Here we go. Here we go.

There we are!

And there's Mom.

We are doing all the things
to be beautiful

for the big day tomorrow.

We can't believe it's here.

This is so fun.

Here we go.

- ♪ I'm floating like a dream
through the city lights ♪

♪

- Ah, indoor turf.

- Is this what you
normally played on?

- Definitely not.

I feel like they're
so different, outdoor-indoor,

but indoor is
always really fun.

- Watch this. Ready?

Do you think
I can hit it from here?

To that?

- Go for it.

[intense music]

- Oh!
- So much power.

♪

Oh.

But I made it, I guess.

♪

That was, like, basically
my whole childhood growing up.

- Yeah?
- Very competitive.

It's basically how I spent
my weeks and weekends.

- Uh-huh.

- And then I played
in high school,

played on a couple
premier teams.

I was pretty good.
- How often did you play?

- Three days a week,
and I would travel, like,

out of the state every weekend
for a game.

- Hmm.
- I was the captain.

- Oh, wow.

- Soccer was big at our school.

- That's awesome.

- Should we play, like,
a one-on-one situation?

- Yeah, let's do it.

[upbeat music]

OK.

Oh, dude!
[laughs]

I'll keep it inside the bounds.
Hold on.

- Whoopie!
- [laughs]

What--oh, no, you can't!

- Whee!
- Whoa! Nice.

♪

Ooh. Boop!

Oh, no!

Wide open.

- Wish I had
all my foot skills.

- Ooh. Ooh.

Nice.
- Ah!

- Good shot.

I'm impressed
with Emily's soccer skills.

She busted a good move on me.

And all the little moments
of having a good time together

and bouncing back
really goes a long way.

So it just feels really good.

- [sighs]

- That was fun.
- That was fun.

- Kicked my butt.

- I started at being the worst
and somehow made

my way up to, like, the best.

And I think
that's me wanting that.

My dad definitely pushed me.

On the state team,
my dad coached.

Played goalie there
for a hot sec.

And then, I don't know,
I just got, like, really fast

and, like, good.

It was, like,
a lot of practice.

- I could definitely relate
to that.

When I, like, started
playing soccer and baseball,

like, I was very bad and then
kind of came into my own.

And it, like, clicked for me.
- Mm-hmm.

- When I was, like, 13,
I was like,

"Oh, wait, I can do this,"

and vowed never to be
the worst again.

- Yeah.

My dad would buy me,
like, VHS tapes.

Bought me all this [bleep]
to, like, play out in the yard

and made me do, like,
speed clinics, soccer camps

that I didn't want to do.

Sometimes I feel like
it took away from me,

like, loving the sport
because it was

just so much all the time.

- Yeah, sometimes I wish I had,
like, an extra push, though.

I like being coached.

I like getting better.

And when you do it
all by yourself,

it kind of slows that,
you know?

- Yeah.
- And I think if I had,

like, a coach
pushing me to be better,

you know, I probably
would have got better

and maybe would have made
my high school teams.

- There were just times where
I think when I was younger,

I didn't see, like,
why my dad was pushing me

as hard as he did.
He would, like, yell at me.

He's like, "You don't
understand how good you are."

And, like, I don't know
why it was.

It was really hard
for me to, like, think

I was really good at something.

I think it was also hard
with, like, the highs and lows

of, like, being pushed so hard,
getting yelled at,

but then, like, getting, like,
all, like, the praise.

Like, it was just--it was
a lot, I think, to handle

when you're, like,
growing up like that.

- Do you think
that was, like, refreshing

that your dad believed in you
so much?

- Yeah.

- Do you think
that, like, helped boost

your confidence later on?

- Yeah.

I think that's where
I got a lot

of, like, my leadership skills.

- Definitely doesn't surprise
me that you were captain.

You know, I feel like you're
very charismatic

and strong and caring

and like to take charge
in situations.

So I think that speaks
to a good leader

and a good captain.

- Wasn't always easy, but yeah.

It's a lot of highs and lows,
I guess.

- Yeah.

- I think, like,
the commitment to something--

because it got harder
as you got older.

Like, I never--like, I didn't
always want to go to--

I always had to drive far
for practice,

drive far for the games.

But I don't give up on stuff
for my teams.

- Yeah.

- Or my people.

- Yeah.

- ♪ You've got to get lost
if you want to be found ♪

♪ If you wanna be found

[upbeat music]

♪

- They're happy?

- I think they would be happier
with one more friend.

- Yeah.
I say the more the merrier.

[knock at door]

Ooh. I wonder what that is.

- Aggressive knock.

Oh-ho-ho!

- What you making noises about
over there?

- It's like the Easter Bunny
but Dr. Pia.

As a Jew, this is exciting.

♪

- Ah, yes.

- Isn't this what was
in your Easter basket?

Did you have a vibrator
in your Easter basket?

- Did not.

- How about these?
- That's new.

Um...
[laughs]

[quirky music]

Chocolate fruit?

- Soy massage candle.

♪

- Ooh.

- Smells like sex.
- [laughs]

- OK.

"To enhance trust,
you and your partner will do

"a blindfold obstacle course
around the home.

"After each obstacle
is cleared,

"the one leading should reveal

something intimate
about themselves."

All right.
- Sounds good.

Are there any more--

- Let's turn this place
into a jungle gym.

- ♪ As long as I'm here
on this Earth ♪

[upbeat music]

♪ You don't have to worry
'bout nothing ♪

♪ But me loving you,
loving you ♪

♪ Nothing but me

- All right, you know.

I think it's good.

Need more furniture.

All right, Becca.

I guess I got to come
and blindfold you.

- Bring me the blindfold.

- I'm coming.
I'm coming.

You're going to want
to take those off.

- [laughing]
These?

Oh, God.

You have a hair right there.

- Thank you.

- OK, I'll see you
on the other side.

- Yes, you will.

Come with me.

There we go.
Come on, keep coming.

A couple more big steps.

You're doing--
you're doing great.

- My eyes are my best feature,
and now you can't see them.

- All right.
- I already know there's one.

- [laughs]
Yes. All right, now stop.

Now, pick one leg up.

Higher.

Wait, pick your other leg up.

OK, yeah, that's good.
You're doing great.

- At the same time?
- All right, now step down.

Intimate.

Uh...

my feet are ticklish.

[both laugh]

All right, turn 30 degrees
to your right.

Just keep going a little more.

There you go.
Now walk three steps forward.

- How big steps?

- Bigger.

A little more.

All right.

Now, put your hands down.

To the ground.

- Like a table?
Oh.

- There you go.

- OK.
- You gotta crawl over it.

- [laughs]

See you later, basket.
- [laughs]

Oh, another intimate thing.

I really like it
when you talk dirty.

- All right.
- Cool.

All right, stand.

♪

There we go.

Walk straight.

- Really?
- Yeah.

All right, now get
on your hands and knees.

[both laugh]
- Yes, master.

♪

- All right.
[laughs]

Crawl forward a little bit.
- Are you gonna ride me?

Which direction?
- Straight.

Just keep going straight.
- Into the window?

- I'll tell you when to pivot.

- That's the window.
- Keep going.

- I'm--is there
something above me?

- Yes, there will be.

Come on, you got this.

Keep coming.
Keep coming.

There we go.
There we go.

Killer.

You can stand now.

OK, intimate.
Intimate.

- [whispering]
Say something about my boobs.

- Does that count as intimate?

I mean--
- My boobs?

[both laugh]
That's pretty [bleep] intimate.

- Fair enough.
You have great [bleep].

[both laugh]
- OK.

And it was unprompted.
- [laughs]

Just come to me. Just run.
Just go for it.

- Honey. Honey.
- Come on.

- I am respecting the fact
that Austin

doesn't have the same
comfort level as I do.

But I'm definitely
feeling hopeful

and feeling like
if I just be patient,

good things will come.

- Come on, come on,
come on, come on.

Keep coming.
You're doing so good.

Oh.
- [laughs]

♪

We should do this every day.

- ♪ It's my time
and I'm taking my shot ♪

♪ Oh

♪ Unafraid to give it
all that I've got ♪

- Hello. How are you?
- Good. How are you?

- Good. Oh, thank you.
- Thank you.

- I have a very aggressive
fabric moment happening, but...

- OK.
- You know.

- It smells really good
in here.

- Like garlic or candles?

- No, the candle smells good.
- Oh.

Smelled like garlic
for a while.

- All right, so we meet again.

- We do.

- OK.

So how are y'all feeling?

- Good.
- Yeah?

So I hear that a lot has
happened and not happened

since I was last here, so--

- That's a great way
of putting it.

- I want to check in
and fill me in.

I want to hear from y'all.

- I feel good.

I feel like
we're in a good place,

having fun and just getting
to know each other

with a lot less pressure
involved, so...

- Yeah?
What about for you, Emily?

- I feel like the last talk
you were here

is when, like, everything
went, like, backwards again.

And then I feel like
there was more pushback

from your recommendations.

He was focusing on, like,
a few of the negatives.

- Hmm.

- I know we agreed
to do Pia's exercises,

but the touching one seemed
a little odd to me

to, like, force each other
to, like, touch.

- Would it feel productive
to talk about that now?

- I don't think so.

I just don't know
where this is coming from.

We had, like, such a good day
playing soccer.

So I think
we're in a good place now

and moving forward and not
really dwelling on the past

like we agreed.

- I know, but I feel like
it's important

because she was here last time

and now we're here
to, like, help understand

why nothing happened
and why we're here.

- We did do a version
of the touching exercise.

We said we would hug more
because that was better for us.

- OK.

- So we didn't do
an extreme amount of hugging,

but I think it was a little bit
more than normal.

- Yeah, but that was also
kind of, like, his rules.

[tense music]

- Yeah, so I'm just going
to say, like,

hearing that is just
really, really frustrating.

- Hearing what piece?
- The it's my idea.

It's my this, it's my that.

She--I tell her,
"What do you want to do?"

She says,
"Come up with something."

I come up with something.

She goes--I go, "Do you agree?"

"Yes, I agree."
"Do you like the idea?"

"Yes, let's do that."
"Perfect."

It's also because she said

we didn't do the exercises
at all.

So there was nothing,
and I'm just like--

- Well, the exercise
wasn't to hug.

So no, you didn't do
the exercise.

♪

Why do you think that happened?

From your perspective.

- Because he doesn't want to.

- Right.
Do you know why he doesn't?

♪

Why don't you ask?
- I feel like--

- [sighs]
- Hold on. What?

What is that about?

- Can we please,
like, shift gears

and talk about
something positive?

Because this is not.

And I'm sorry,
it's just not going to be

productive at this point.

Like, do you feel like
we're making progress?

- I don't know
where she's going.

So no, I don't know.

- She's asking you to ask me

the question you already know
the answer to.

- She just said
she doesn't know the answer.

So I'm noticing
a lot of pushback from you.

- Mm.

- And I'm not sure why that is.

So I'm going
to ask you directly.

Every time I am asking
a question of her,

you jump in and you say,

"This is not
where I want it to go.

This doesn't feel productive."
What is happening for you?

- Every time?

- More than not.
- OK.

- I'm experiencing it
as being pretty defensive.

- OK.

The intent of this
was to talk about

how we're going
to move forward,

not to talk about the past.

And I thought
we were on the same page

of what we wanted to accomplish
today.

- I'm hearing
two different versions.

I'm hearing from you,
"Everything is fine.

"Everything was great.
We worked through it.

"We talked about it.
I don't know

why this is happening,
what's going on."

I'm hearing from you that,
"Wait a minute,

"that's not
what my experience was.

I would like to have
more information."

It almost sounds like
you're holding back

from what
you truly are feeling,

what you want to say.

You're questioning yourself.

And I don't know if that's
because of my presence.

I don't know
if that's the dynamics

between the two of you.

I don't know what's going on,
so I'm trying to gain clarity.

- Yeah, sometimes I feel,

although I'm very open
and honest,

that sometimes,

if I say things
that don't align,

are good to hear, that yeah,

I feel like...

defensive comments, actions.

Brennan is a little reactive
off camera,

which isn't seen
because it's not

what he wants people to see.

I think that side of him
and just any sort

of negative connotation
around him, his actions,

his behavior are
all things he tries

to avoid being seen at all.

- I'm almost getting this idea
of, like, you being like--

saying yes
to what he's presenting,

even if it's not
what you truly want.

- Yeah, I would agree.

I feel like for a lot
of the turn of post-honeymoon,

that's been needed in order
to keep things, like, afloat

in a very delicate situation.

- OK.
- But that being said,

it doesn't mean I haven't
stuck up for myself

when I felt like
I haven't been spoken to

or treated well.

But yeah, sometimes I--

it's easier to say yes.

♪

Yeah, I just wanted
to make sure

that I'm thinking
about how I want

to address him

and make sure I'm, like, calm
before doing so.

- OK. OK.

Any comments that you have?

- She always speaks her mind,
and I have no idea

where this is coming from,
to be honest.

She tells me something
and goes,

"I don't know why I was
nervous to tell you that.

Like, you reacted greatly."

Then we come into this.

And she tells you,

"You know, I'm just nervous
to tell him things

because I'm worried about how
he's going to react."

- It's literally the same thing
that you just said.

- Yeah, but--OK.

♪

- Do you think
you're being defensive?

- I think when someone comes
at you in a way that's unfair,

you're allowed
to defend yourself.

Had I known she wanted
to talk about this--

- That's not, like--
I'm answering her questions.

- OK.
- Right.

So I want to take
the blame for that.

Like, I am asking
these questions.

It is me sort of guiding
this conversation.

- We've given enough context.

And now I think--
- In your opinion.

- In my opinion, yes.

- Does her opinion matter?

- Of course.

- OK.

So she feels like there's
more context to be given.

I also want to ask of you,
Brennan, in your friendships,

do you talk about
difficult things?

- Yeah, all the time.
- OK.

Do you allow your friends

to maybe challenge you
or push you?

- Yeah, all the time.
- OK.

Do you feel comfortable with
Emily to be able to do that?

- I don't know.

- What are you feeling
right now?

- Just blindsided.

I thought
we were in a good place.

- Brennan, do you trust Emily?

- Um...

♪

♪

- Um...

I think

we are rebuilding trust
right now.

♪

- What do you need from her
in order to rebuild trust?

- What did I do
to break the trust?

- Hold on. Hold on.
Let him say that part first.

- When we say
we're going to do things,

then we actually do them.

- Can you be specific?

- Like, her plan was
to go into this--

I understand she asked.

I get all that.

But we didn't have
to dive so deeply into it.

- So trust for you,
as you've just outlined it,

is, like, consistency
and knowing that, like,

if someone says
they're going to do something,

they're going to do it,
that they stick to it?

- Yup.
- How, then, in that scenario

can we make room for someone
to change their mind?

Like, how would that
best be expressed?

- Communication.
- Yeah.

How can she communicate
to you in a way

that doesn't put you
on the defensive

or that doesn't frustrate you
or anger you?

- By saying,
"Hey, so we said this."

- Mm-hmm.
- "We agreed on this,

but now I'm thinking,"
duh-duh-duh-duh.

Just start from the very
beginning and go--it's just--

- OK, that's helpful to hear

because when I heard you
say that, you're saying,

"I need her to first
validate and acknowledge

what did happen."

- Yes.

- Can you speak to that?

- What do you mean?

- He's saying,
what's challenging for him is,

he feels like you're not first
validating and acknowledging

the effort that he's put forth
or the changes that he's made

or the things that you all
have agreed upon,

that you're leading
with what isn't going right

or what isn't working or what
you'd like to be different.

And that's putting him
on the defense

because he feels like you're
discrediting his perspective.

- Yeah. And that's hard for me.

I feel like I've gone
above and beyond

for him to not feel that way.

- I think that you all are
having a parallel process

of experiencing the same thing,

although the context
might be different.

And so it's hard
for the two of you

to get each other's perspective

because you both are
on the defense.

♪

- I'm trying to, like, be
constructive, but, like--

- Can you tell him
how you're feeling right now?

- Yeah, I'm just sad because
I don't know what to do.

I'm just trying to, like,
be honest in ways

that we can, like,
move forward.

I do care about you.

And, like, I know this is
something we can work through

if you're open to it.

- I care about you too.

And I'm sad too.

Like, this is not
the relationship

you and I both wanted,
deserve, all of that.

And we're just--
we're trying to make it work

the best way we know how.

- I just feel like, like,
we could be doing better.

And that's why
I'm trying to be honest.

♪

- You mentioned, Brennan, like,

this isn't what
either of you wanted.

Do you feel like
change is possible?

- Yeah.
We have great days.

- Can you share with him
the qualities that you desire

in a healthy friendship?

- Caring, kindness,
trustworthiness,

respect, and hard work.

- Are there things
that you need from him

in order to gain what you just
listed you need?

- Continue to be open and aware
and open to feedback.

- I want to ask
the same thing of you, Brennan,

that I asked of her.

- Same.

Respect, loyalty, honesty,

communication, and respect.

- What needs to happen for--
when I leave

out of here tonight--

for the two of you
to shift your focus

to continuing to build
the trust in the relationship?

- I think I need clearer
expectations of what that is.

- OK.

- Because, like,
I didn't even know

I've broken your trust to date,
so...

- I just don't want
to dwell on the past.

And, you know, if there's
things you want to do,

please voice them.

If there's things
you disagree with, tell me.

And, you know,
just being in the moment.

♪

- I can do that.
- Upwards and onwards.

- ♪ Oh-oh-oh-oh

- ♪ Magic in the air
got me on another way ♪

♪ Keep up with me
if you dare ♪

♪ Get this money,
set the pace ♪

♪ I'm on a roll

♪ Already know
which way to go ♪

- I clearly see that, like,

our intimacy is
affecting Becca.

And I do want to make
the necessary steps

to get us to a better place.

But I'm not still totally clear

on what non-sexual
or non-physical foreplay is.

These look like boobs.

Kind of.

Is this just like getting
yourself in the right mood?

Ooh!

Look at the honey,

bringing back one milkshake
for the two of us.

- [laughs]

- Why are you laughing?

[both laugh]

I have a little surprise.

Some dessert for you
in the bedroom.

- Wow, honey.
[both laugh]

♪

Wow, it's hot in here.
[laughs]

- Well, we are--

- Temperature-wise.

Look at all the candles.
- Many, many flowers.

Yes, I tried to shape

the ones on the dressers
like boobs.

- [laughs]
- Just for you.

[laughs]

- I don't totally see
the boob shape,

but I appreciate it.

- You know,
it's a soft attempt.

- Polaroids all over the place.

- I did.
- So cute, honey.

- Hopefully you'd feel
the intimacy

of our wedding day.

- [laughs]

I would say that I initiate
deep, connective intimacy

99% of the time.

So the passenger seat
is a new place for me.

I don't typically sit here,
but I'm happy to be here,

ready to see what the views
look like from this seat.

Yeah, warming it up.

- You want to play
sexy truth or dare?

- Let's do this.

- [laughs]

Just one.
[both laugh]

Is this the truth or dare?

- What's your absolute
favorite part of my body?

- I mean,
I love your pink hair.

- Hmm?

- I love your eyes.
- Hmm.

- And your lips.
- Hmm.

- But boobs take the cake.

[both laugh]

♪

Your smile and your laugh
are pretty good too.

Ooh, I like this.

If you could have sex with me
anywhere in public,

where would it be?
- Mm.

I mean, we haven't, like,
done much traveling yet,

but, like, on a balcony
somewhere where we're staying

would be very nice.

[laughing]

♪

Sure we can go to--
it's a little cold,

but, like, maybe
when it's a little warmer.

- We'll just set up
a campfire of candles.

- Perfect.

You set it up
in the wrong spot.

- I did.
I [bleep] up.

- What do you think is
your very best sex move?

What would you name it?

- Well, I shouldn't say
that one.

[both laugh]

- OK.

- Oh, man, I got a lot of--

- You got a lot of moves?

I think, like, you should know

that, like, this, to me, like,
what we're doing is foreplay.

And, like, joking around,
like, that to me is--

- Oh, yeah?
- Yeah.

- You want to do
the other thing now?

The play?

The play?
- Oh, you want to do--

Yeah.
[both laugh]

- OK.

- [laughing]
Wait, are you serious?

♪

- Oh, you took my move!

- Wait, what would you call it?

- The Get In Here.
[both laugh]

- ♪ Boy, you got me all up
in my feelings all day ♪

♪ And you got my heart

♪ Never thought that I would
let down my guard, yeah ♪

♪ And I want you to know

♪ That I never plan
on letting you go ♪

♪ So lay it down on me

♪ I can't get enough

♪ Lay it down on me

♪ Lay it down on me

♪ I can't get enough

♪ Lay it down on me

♪ I can't get enough

♪ I can't get enough of you

- ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh

Next time
on "Married at First Sight"...

- To Chloe's wedding.

- Oh!
- Whoo!

- Oh.

- Cheers to your day.
- Mm-hmm.

- Chloe and Michael are
about to meet each other

for the very first time.

- My first wedding felt like
the biggest personal failure

that I've ever experienced.

And having to face that
again is super scary.

- I'm so scared.

Oh, I wasn't expecting
to feel this way right now.

It just hit me like
a ton of bricks.

It's affecting me now.

There's always the possibility
that he's not my person,

and I'm not feeling
very good about that.

- All rise.

[dramatic music]

- What if she doesn't like
what she sees?

♪

You know, she may not want
to do this anymore.

♪

I don't know how you can
not be scared of that.

♪