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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:17,080 --> 00:00:22,080 2 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:24,280 3 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:27,280 4 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:28,360 5 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:31,480 6 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:32,560 7 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:34,280 8 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:35,760 9 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,880 10 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:39,160 11 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:40,280 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,560 13 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:43,880 14 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,560 15 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,760 16 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:50,760 17 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:52,760 18 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:54,960 19 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:56,760 20 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,280 21 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,560 22 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,360 23 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:05,480 24 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:08,280 25 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,960 - Hey, Chief, one Green Lantern. 26 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:16,760 - Come on! 27 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:17,880 What is this? 28 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:19,080 We've been waiting for hours! 29 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,680 - Huh? 30 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:22,280 - There is a line. 31 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:25,280 This country has no concept of lines. 32 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:26,360 - I-- I-- 33 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:27,960 - The line is here for a reason? 34 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,080 - I'm-- I-- 35 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:30,560 - Charley, what's the problem? 36 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:31,680 Are you okay? 37 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:32,760 - Who is this? 38 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:34,880 Is this your friend, just coming to cut the line too? 39 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:36,760 - Ah? Ebey like this? Obroni dey craze ooh. 40 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,280 - Herh, excuse me? 41 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,360 - Please, guys, 42 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,080 let's not let this get out of hand. 43 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:42,160 Please. 44 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:43,760 - It's your friend; he's the crazy one, 45 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,360 cutting the line in front of everyone. 46 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,360 Who do you think you are? 47 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:49,760 - I can't believe this. 48 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:50,800 You-- 49 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,000 You are so rude! 50 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:53,280 - Paul. 51 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:57,160 Paul. 52 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,080 Paul. Paul. 53 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:12,160 Ah, you paa! 54 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:13,560 What is it? 55 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:15,560 You make small thing go spoil our night? 56 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,760 We can't say we dey come chill ooh. 57 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:18,960 - Look, I need to go, right? 58 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,160 I have work tomorrow anyway. 59 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:21,560 I left the iron on. - No no no no! 60 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:22,680 This is what you always do! 61 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:23,960 We can't say we dey come chill 62 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,280 the way you dey do this thing. 63 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:26,360 What be the problem, ah? 64 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:27,760 The night is too young ooh. 65 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,160 - Look, if you have to stay, stay! 66 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:30,280 But I need to go. 67 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:31,360 Goodbye. 68 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,480 - Paul! 69 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:33,560 Paul! 70 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,080 Mtchew. You dey see your man. 71 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:42,080 72 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:14,760 - Paul. 73 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:15,880 - Hello, Chief. 74 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:16,960 How are you doing, Sir? 75 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:18,680 - Look, I need those spreadsheets 76 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,200 on the Koomson accounts on my table by Monday. 77 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:22,360 - Uh-- Um, 78 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:23,480 Sir, I-- 79 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,560 told you my friend was getting married this weekend. 80 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,080 - And you are not getting married, are you? 81 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,160 - No, I'm not. 82 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,280 - Good. Monday, then. 83 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,160 - I'll take care of it after lunch, Sir. 84 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,960 - I don't need to know your whole schedule. Just get it done. 85 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:39,280 Oh, by the way, 86 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:40,880 enjoy your wedding. 87 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,080 88 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,560 - Yeah. Hello, Charley. 89 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:54,280 Yeah. How for do? 90 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:55,760 I'm just based at work. 91 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,760 Yeah, I'll be stepping out for lunch soon. 92 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:02,160 Yes! 93 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:04,560 Look, I'll see you in a bit, then. 94 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,280 Okay, bye. 95 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:12,760 96 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:25,760 - Hey. 97 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:26,880 - Ah. 98 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,480 What's up? - Yeah. 99 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:32,280 Excuse me? 100 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,160 Excuse me? 101 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,680 Can you please put on the football? 102 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:38,680 I don't want that confusion. 103 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,160 - Paul, 104 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,160 I no dey understand you. 105 00:04:43,280 --> 00:04:44,880 You, you say you be Ghanaian 106 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,360 - Mm-hmm? - way you no dey like football. 107 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:48,880 How? 108 00:04:49,280 --> 00:04:50,360 - Look, 109 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,360 don't start with me today, I beg. 110 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,680 My boss is already trying to ruin my day. 111 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,160 - That your boss, you need to talk to him. 112 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,280 Why does he want to take advantage of you like that? 113 00:04:59,280 --> 00:05:02,280 I thought you told him about Joojo's wedding weeks ago? 114 00:05:02,280 --> 00:05:04,880 - Look, I don't want to talk about it. 115 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:07,560 - Okay. 116 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:08,680 I hear. 117 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:10,880 So, 118 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,360 have you heard that Joojo and 119 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:16,480 whatey nu dey happen for that hotel for East Legon there? 120 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,880 Charley, I dey suspect say it go be dull 121 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:23,880 way I wan make you then me, we plan something to spice 'em up. 122 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:25,760 - Yeah, I don't know. 123 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:27,760 It may be fun. 124 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,760 - You and I know that Joojo 125 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:33,360 is some dull guy. 126 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,880 So, I just want-- 127 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,560 128 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:39,600 - Okay. 129 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:40,880 Like you said, we'll see. 130 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:42,360 - Yeah. Uh-- 131 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:43,760 Yeah, um-- 132 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:44,960 Can I have my-- 133 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,280 special burger? 134 00:05:47,280 --> 00:05:49,280 - Yeah. 135 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:54,480 Mmmm. 136 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:55,800 Mmmm. 137 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:57,360 This-- 138 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:58,760 is delicious. 139 00:05:58,880 --> 00:05:59,960 - Charley, me, 140 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:01,880 some kenkey and fish will do ooh. 141 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:02,960 Ah! 142 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:04,480 At least, it will be less expensive. 143 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:05,880 What is this? 144 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,080 Hm? - Hm. 145 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,360 Mmmm. 146 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:12,280 This 147 00:06:12,280 --> 00:06:13,560 is great. 148 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:18,560 149 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:22,080 So, 150 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,160 last night was eventful, right? 151 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:25,280 - Mm-hmm. 152 00:06:25,280 --> 00:06:26,360 Oh yeah! 153 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:28,560 That foolish-- 154 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:30,080 White woman. 155 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:32,760 Who the hell does she thinks she is? 156 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,080 I mean, coming to our country 157 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,080 and throwing her weight around like that. 158 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,080 These foreigners think 159 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,280 that they can come to our country 160 00:06:42,280 --> 00:06:44,760 and act like they do in their own country. 161 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,960 This is an organised place, 162 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,080 you know. 163 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:51,480 I didn't cut the line. 164 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,960 It was her fault for not speaking up. 165 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,960 - Yeah, yeah, I know. 166 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:57,680 - You know, 167 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,080 that is why I love 168 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,160 our Ghanaian women; 169 00:07:01,280 --> 00:07:02,360 homely, 170 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:03,960 sophisticated 171 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,080 and-- 172 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,280 they know how to act around a real man. 173 00:07:07,280 --> 00:07:08,360 174 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:09,880 Not this-- 175 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:10,960 stupid, 176 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,080 skinny, 177 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:13,960 ugly, unscrupulous-- 178 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:15,960 rude Obroni girl who thinks that-- What? 179 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:17,960 She-- - Excuse me? 180 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:22,560 This "stupid Obroni girl" 181 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,480 knows how to act around a real man. 182 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,280 Unfortunately, she's not seen one 183 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:27,760 since arriving in Accra. 184 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:32,480 - You! 185 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:33,960 - Yes, me! 186 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,960 You didn't think you'd see me again? 187 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,080 - I-- 188 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:39,960 What do you think you are? 189 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:41,480 - What? 190 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:42,760 I'm a woman. 191 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:43,960 I deserve an apology 192 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:45,880 for all those nasty things you said about me. 193 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,080 You don't know a thing about me! 194 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:49,280 - Please, 195 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,360 why don't you sit down, 196 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:52,960 relax and-- 197 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:54,080 let's talk about it? 198 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:55,360 - You're-- You're on her side? 199 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:56,480 - What side? 200 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,760 - Hm! He just wants you to blindly follow 201 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,280 whatever it is that he wants to say. 202 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:02,400 - Ah? What does sh-- ? 203 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:03,560 Mtchew. 204 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:04,680 - Paul. 205 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:05,760 Paul. 206 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:07,080 Paul! 207 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:09,760 208 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:13,360 Sorry. I'm sorry. 209 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:19,280 210 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:25,080 - Mtchew. - Charley. 211 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:26,560 - I'm not going back there. 212 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,560 Ah, I don't even understand this! 213 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:30,560 - Charley, you no pay ooh. 214 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:31,680 Way that beggar, 215 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,280 edey cause, huh. 216 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:34,760 - Mtchew. 217 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:37,159 Here. 218 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:38,960 But-- 219 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,160 Paul, make you no dey bore. 220 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:42,679 Charley, make you no dey bore, okay? 221 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:44,480 - But I have a lot of work to do, so-- 222 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,960 I will see you at the Bachelor party. 223 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,080 - Okay, bye. 224 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:48,560 - Okay. 225 00:08:49,680 --> 00:08:54,680 226 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:26,080 227 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:47,680 - I have to get ready. 228 00:09:47,680 --> 00:09:49,680 229 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,480 - Paul, can you hear the sound? 230 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,160 - Yeah. It looks as if our-- 231 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:12,680 smoke detector is malfunctioning. 232 00:10:12,680 --> 00:10:13,760 - Mm-hmm. 233 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,280 How are you this fine evening? 234 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:17,760 - The evening is fine; 235 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,680 and I can see you're having a good time. 236 00:10:19,680 --> 00:10:20,760 - A good time-- 237 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,280 fun, chilling and all that. 238 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,080 Paul, 239 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,480 I can't even decide which of my girls to bring on Sunday. 240 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:28,680 - Nana Opong, grow up 241 00:10:28,680 --> 00:10:30,760 and act like a real man. 242 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:31,880 A real man gets a woman, 243 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,480 marries her and starts a family. 244 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:34,560 - Pfff! 245 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:35,680 Paul! 246 00:10:35,680 --> 00:10:37,280 I can see you've not lived! 247 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,280 Dating the same woman for years 248 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:40,960 doesn't make you a real man. 249 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:42,160 It makes you boring. 250 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,680 251 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:44,960 - That's Mommy. 252 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,080 Did you do the dishes? 253 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:47,280 I told you to do the dishes. 254 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,760 - Why? Do I look like Cinderella? 255 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:53,080 Hey. - Hey! 256 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,560 - Hi, Mommy. - My little rascals. 257 00:10:56,680 --> 00:10:57,760 - Mom, 258 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:58,880 you're looking so-- 259 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:00,080 beautiful today. - Do I? 260 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:01,160 - So beautiful. 261 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:02,680 - Eeeh? - Mm-hmm. 262 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:04,560 - Thank you. 263 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,080 - Mom, you know what? 264 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,160 I left my phone in the room and I have to go. 265 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:14,760 - Eii, 266 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:18,360 thank God that, at least, I have one sensible son. 267 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:19,480 Paul. - Yeah? 268 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:21,480 - Why don't you wear-- 269 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,960 the shirt I bought for you last month? 270 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:25,080 I mean, the blue one? 271 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:26,760 - Mommy, but I-- I was going to wear-- 272 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:28,960 you know, the one I just got. 273 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,080 - Pauly-- 274 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,080 Mommy says wear the blue one, 275 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:34,480 please. 276 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:35,560 Please. - Okay. 277 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,080 Okay, Mommy. I-- 278 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:38,160 You know best. 279 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,560 - Thank you, my handsome son. 280 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,080 - I'm so happy that 281 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:44,280 your wedding is coming on this Sunday. 282 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:45,360 Oh, Mommy-- 283 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,080 but I'm-- I'm not getting married. 284 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:48,160 Joojo is. 285 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:50,760 - I know, but I can't wait for the day that 286 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,080 you will get married. 287 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:54,880 The only thing is-- 288 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:56,560 I wish your father-- 289 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:57,880 was here 290 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:00,880 to see his sons growing up, 291 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,160 to see you married, 292 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:05,280 to see you have children. 293 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:06,360 I-- 294 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:07,760 - No, please don't. 295 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:09,280 Look, I-- I-- 296 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:10,480 I will get married. 297 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:12,960 - But you haven't set up a date! 298 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,080 - I-- I will. 299 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:16,480 - When? 300 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,280 This weekend? 301 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:20,080 - Okay, I-- I-- I-- 302 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,480 I'll talk to Serwaa about it this weekend. 303 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:23,760 - I thank God. 304 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:27,360 She's such a lucky girl to have a handsome boy like you, 305 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:28,960 huh? 306 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:30,960 You are a real man! 307 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,080 Oh, Pauly, 308 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:35,280 you remind me so much of your father. 309 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,360 Even though your brother-- 310 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,960 resembles him more, 311 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,280 but you act exactly like him. 312 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,280 Oh, I miss him so much. 313 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:45,760 - Mommy. - I miss him so much. 314 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,680 - Mommy, I-- I know, you know. 315 00:12:48,680 --> 00:12:49,880 - Ah, 316 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,360 I am pleased that you are marrying-- 317 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,360 a good Ghanaian girl. 318 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,080 Aren't you happy that I selected her for you? 319 00:12:57,080 --> 00:12:59,280 - Yes, Mommy. 320 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:00,360 I am. 321 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:01,480 - You are? 322 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:04,280 Alright, the old ones must rest, 323 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:06,480 - Yeah. - whilst the young ones-- 324 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:07,560 enjoy. 325 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:08,760 326 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:10,280 - Take good care of yourself. 327 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:11,960 Don't drink too much. 328 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:13,080 - Okay, Mommy. - Huh? 329 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:14,160 - I won't. - I love you. 330 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:15,280 I love you so much. 331 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,280 - I love you too, Mommy. 332 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:18,760 Yeah. 333 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:19,960 - Alright. 334 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:21,480 - See you. 335 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,160 336 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:25,960 - Mommy is gone. 337 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:27,160 Paul, you know what happened? 338 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:28,960 The girl just left her clothes, 339 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:30,080 her bags, her shoes-- 340 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:31,360 Everything is still in my room. 341 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:32,760 342 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:34,760 Oh, that's funny, right? 343 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:36,560 Yeah. 344 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,280 So, as I was saying, 345 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:39,960 a real Ghanaian man eats 346 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,080 banku in the morning, 347 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,080 plantain in the afternoon and-- 348 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:44,360 fufu in the evening. 349 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,760 Afterwards, he unbuttons his big stomach, 350 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,080 sits and watch football and TV. 351 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:50,680 That's a real Ghanaian man. 352 00:13:50,680 --> 00:13:53,880 He does not eat kenkey with fork and knife like some-- 353 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:54,960 real dollu. 354 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:56,480 - Herh. 355 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:06,080 356 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:37,480 357 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:38,560 So, 'Saint Paul', 358 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:39,680 how's work? 359 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,080 - Oh, it's okay. 360 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:42,160 And you? 361 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:43,280 - Oh-- 362 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:44,760 Same. 363 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,360 What? 364 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:52,480 - Pfff, Charley, 365 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:54,960 I can't believe you're getting married. 366 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:56,760 - Oh my God, me neither, man. 367 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:58,960 There are times I actually have to pinch myself 368 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:00,560 to make sure I'm not dreaming. 369 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:01,760 - Yeah, Charley. 370 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:02,880 Look, it-- it-- it-- 371 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,880 It feels like only yesterday, 372 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:06,360 we were reading books on-- 373 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:07,480 how to talk to girls. 374 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:08,560 375 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:09,960 You know, you know! 376 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:11,960 And we were so cool back then. 377 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:13,360 378 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:14,480 - Yeah. 379 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,480 Um, Marian, 380 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,560 she's the sweetest girl. 381 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:20,560 - Correction: 382 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,080 she is wonderful. 383 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,560 You know, 384 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:28,880 I could never have imagined 385 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:30,360 in a quadrillion years 386 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,880 that I would ever have met somebody like her. 387 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:34,880 She's amazing 388 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,880 and I feel-- 389 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,080 I don't even deserve her, man. 390 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,280 - No, don't say that. 391 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:44,560 But you are lucky. 392 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:46,280 I mean, it is not easy to find somebody. 393 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,680 - I know, but-- you are lucky too, right? 394 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:50,160 - Ah yes, yes, of course. 395 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:51,280 I mean, pfff. 396 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:52,680 I guess I forgot. 397 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:53,760 398 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:54,880 You guess you forgot? 399 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:56,080 - Yeah. 400 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,560 - You guess you forgot. 401 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:00,360 Sorry, sorry, dude. 402 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:01,480 Sorry, look-- 403 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:02,560 Look, we're human, okay? 404 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,280 We are bound to forget at one time or another, but-- 405 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:06,560 just make sure 406 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,080 that you don't go "forgetting" 407 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,560 and some other girl, huh? 408 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:13,560 - Okay. 409 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:15,160 - Uh, by the way, 410 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,280 speaking about the love of your life, 411 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:19,560 what is Serwaa up to tonight? 412 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:20,880 - Oh yeah, um-- 413 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:23,560 she and the girls convinced Marian to go to 414 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:24,760 Paparazzi tonight. 415 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:25,960 So, we're meeting them there. 416 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,680 - Oh, I've been there a couple of times, 417 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:28,760 a very cool place. 418 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:30,280 The-- The food is great. Um, every-- 419 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:32,160 I-- I-- I-- I really-- I really like it there. 420 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:33,760 It's just that, um-- 421 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:35,560 You know, I'm not really-- 422 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:36,960 the outgoing-- 423 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:38,080 you know-- 424 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:39,560 - I mean, me too; but hey, man. 425 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,160 The women, they must have their way. 426 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:43,280 Yeah. 427 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:44,360 - Why not? 428 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,960 We might even have a great time there. 429 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:47,080 It could be a blast. 430 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,160 It's just that some of these clubs, man, 431 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:50,280 they-- they just charge-- 432 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:51,680 ridiculous amounts. 433 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:52,760 Ah? 434 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:54,480 Shake my head. 435 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:55,560 - Did you just say, 436 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,480 "shake my head"? 437 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,280 - Yeah. 438 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:01,360 439 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:02,480 You know what? 440 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:03,880 I think that's kind of cool. 441 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:05,280 Yes, it sounds kind of funny. 442 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:07,760 Shake my head. 443 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:11,360 Hey! 444 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:16,360 445 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,880 - She's here. 446 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,880 How could you do it? 447 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:32,160 - What? 448 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:34,880 - How could you bring her? 449 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:36,360 - What's going on here? 450 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,160 - Paul's new "best friend" 451 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,160 is giving him plenty wahala. 452 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:42,480 - Judas! 453 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:43,560 454 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:44,680 Come on, Paul. 455 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:45,760 - Hi. You must be Joojo. 456 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:46,960 I've heard so much about you. 457 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,160 - Oh, hello. - Wow. 458 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:50,880 - Hey. 459 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:52,280 Kwame, where should I put the FIFA? 460 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:53,680 Oh, right there. 461 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:55,160 Fix it there. 462 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:57,960 Paul. 463 00:17:58,000 --> 00:17:59,080 But, you, why? 464 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:00,480 Make you no dey do so. 465 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:01,560 Paul. 466 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,080 - Judas. 467 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:05,080 "Judas" 468 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:06,280 Constance Ofori 469 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:07,480 Kwame Frimpong. 470 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:08,560 Mtchew. 471 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:09,880 Nonsense. 472 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,160 - Paul! 473 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:13,960 - Ah? 474 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,480 What's with him? 475 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:16,880 476 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:21,880 477 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:12,960 - Big boss. 478 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:16,280 Um-- 479 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:17,360 Sorry. 480 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,960 I know you think I've-- 481 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:21,760 betrayed you or something like that. 482 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:23,760 But I talked to her. 483 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:25,760 Melani. 484 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:27,760 That's her name. 485 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,760 She's cool; 486 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,680 and I think if you gave her the chance, 487 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,680 you would like her. 488 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,960 She's an artist from Spain. 489 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,280 I'm gonna introduce her to my-- 490 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:42,360 friend, Mark, 491 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:43,480 the art dealer. 492 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,880 She's been in Ghana for a while now. 493 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:46,960 494 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:48,480 And you know what? 495 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,960 She's more Ghanaian than you are. 496 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:53,280 - Kwame, 497 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:54,480 it's your time for the-- 498 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:55,680 FIFA Finals. 499 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:56,760 - Oh. 500 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:57,880 They've beat you already? 501 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:59,080 - Mm-hmm. 502 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:00,560 Serious? 503 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:01,880 Aww. 504 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:03,360 Two shots for you there. 505 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,080 - There's a lot of-- 506 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:18,360 football and beer in there. 507 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:19,480 - I don't like football. 508 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:20,960 I don't like beer. 509 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,280 - Yɛfre me Melani. 510 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:31,280 511 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:43,760 - There's a lot of beautiful women 512 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:45,560 with big asses in there too. 513 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:46,880 - I'm not an ass man. 514 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,360 - Look, I don't mean it that way. 515 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,560 - S-- Stop laughing at me! 516 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,560 You're trying to turn my friends against me? 517 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:54,680 - No. 518 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,280 I'm sorry. 519 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:57,760 I-- 520 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,360 I was having a horrible day that day 521 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:00,480 and this afternoon-- 522 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:01,680 is no excuse. 523 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:02,760 I-- 524 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,280 I should not have yelled at you. 525 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:05,560 Mepa wo kyɛw, 526 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,560 fa me bone kyɛ me. 527 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:12,480 - Me too, 528 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:14,080 I am-- 529 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:15,560 530 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,080 sorry. 531 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,160 532 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,160 It's fine. 533 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:24,960 - Uh-- 534 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,480 Hey, guapa, 535 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:28,360 we're heading out to the club. 536 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:29,480 537 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:30,760 Uh-- 538 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,160 Uh-uh, Paul. - Yeah? 539 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,160 - Uh-- I need you for something. 540 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:35,280 - Okay. Uh-- 541 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:36,760 I'm- I'm-- I'm coming in. 542 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:38,480 - Okay. 543 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,480 - Okay, bye. 544 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:52,480 545 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:04,680 546 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,160 - Hey! 547 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:54,280 Thank you so much. 548 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,360 I can't believe you got everyone in here for free. 549 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:57,680 - Oh, it was really no big deal. 550 00:22:57,680 --> 00:22:58,760 I'm friends with the owner. 551 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:00,560 Some of my paintings are in his restaurants. 552 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:01,680 - Ah-ha! 553 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,760 I knew I knew you from somewhere! 554 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,760 You had a show in my friend Elisabeth's workshop. 555 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:07,960 - Now, I remember! 556 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,880 And you had a beautiful head wrap! 557 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:11,760 - I can't believe you remember. That's so cool. 558 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:13,560 Oh yes, and I love your accent. 559 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:15,560 - Ah, you are so sweet. 560 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,360 Aww. 561 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,360 - Whisky, everyone! 562 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,360 563 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,880 564 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,760 - To Bra Jack! 565 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,760 - Herh! - Hey hey hey hey, wait wait wait wait! 566 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:31,880 Ah, but you paa! 567 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:33,760 Um-- Why Bra Jack? 568 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:34,880 - Jack Daniels. 569 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,880 Abi, ebey them wey them pay the bill. 570 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:38,680 - Oh. 571 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:39,680 - To Bra Jack! 572 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:41,680 - To Bra Jack! 573 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,480 574 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,360 - I'll be right back. 575 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,360 - Okay. 576 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:50,880 - One more for Bra Jack! 577 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,480 - One more for Bra Jack! 578 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:54,960 579 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,480 - One more for Bra Jack! 580 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:01,480 - Paul. 581 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:02,560 - Mm? 582 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:03,680 What? 583 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,160 - Charley, I need your help. 584 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:06,760 - Argh, Nana! 585 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:07,880 Grow up again! 586 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,280 - Why, are you drunk? 587 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:10,560 - Yeah. 588 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,680 - Paul, see, I got two girls here, right? 589 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,160 I don't want to make them come by me. 590 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:15,480 So, I want you to-- 591 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:16,560 occupy this one, 592 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,480 so I get rid of the other one, yeah? 593 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:19,560 - Ah? 594 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:20,600 - Paul. 595 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:21,680 Oh, hello, Sonia. 596 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:22,960 This is my brother, Paul. - Hi. 597 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,160 - He's gonna get you a drink, yeah? - Nice meeting you. 598 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,280 - Yeah, um-- - So-- 599 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:27,760 - Alright. - Let's get a drink. 600 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,760 - Mm-hmm. 601 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,960 - Okay. 602 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,480 - Hey, sweetie! - Hi, sweetie. Oh! 603 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:36,960 - I missed you. - You're looking good. 604 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,080 I know. I did it all because of you. 605 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,480 - Mm-hmm. Do you know? Let's go and get you a drink. 606 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,040 - Why? We can sit here and have a drink. - No, let's-- Let's go, let's go. Let's go. 607 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:44,680 - Where? - Let's go. 608 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,680 - Argh, Nana, you are always coming up with something. 609 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:53,760 - Joojo. 610 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,160 Joojo. Oh! 611 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,080 Joojo! 612 00:24:58,080 --> 00:24:59,160 Yeah? 613 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:00,680 - Joojo, I've been meaning to ask-- 614 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:01,760 - Now, what is it, Love? 615 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,280 How do you know Melani? 616 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:05,960 - Oh, um-- 617 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,960 Kwame invited her. 618 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:09,560 But-- But, don't worry about her. 619 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:11,680 She's cool. She's really cool. 620 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,280 She's practically one of the guys. 621 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:14,680 So, don't worry about her. 622 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,360 - She seems kind of cool. I met her. 623 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:17,760 - Yeah, she is. - She's really nice. 624 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:18,880 - Yeah. - It's-- 625 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,160 just that it all seems a bit too random, 626 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,160 don't you think? 627 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,880 - Marian, please don't get jealous. 628 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,360 Besides, you know I would never do that! 629 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:32,960 - I know. 630 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:34,360 I know. 631 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:35,560 - Baby, 632 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,080 look, 633 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,360 you promised me and I promised you 634 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,080 that we would have no more secrets between us. 635 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:45,560 Hm? 636 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,160 Now, you know I would tell you if-- 637 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,360 I know I don't deserve you 638 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,880 and I know-- - Joojo. 639 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,360 Baby, 640 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,880 I forgave you a long time ago. 641 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,080 It's just that-- 642 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,760 I hope-- 643 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,080 if I messed up-- 644 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,560 you'd forgive me too. 645 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,080 - Well-- 646 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:13,160 Joojo knows that 647 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,880 that day is never going to come. 648 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:15,960 Hm? 649 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,080 And he knows that's never going to happen. 650 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,560 Now, 651 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,080 I'm going to get a drink. 652 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,280 I'll be right back. 653 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,080 Would you like one? - No, I'm fine. 654 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,880 - Are you sure? - Mm-hmm. 655 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,560 - Alright. 656 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,080 Give me some sugar. 657 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:31,760 Don't go anywhere. 658 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:32,960 - Sure. 659 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,080 - I'll be right back. 660 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,080 - Okay. 661 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:46,560 662 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,080 - Hey. 663 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,160 What are you doing here? 664 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,760 I was just talking to somebody. 665 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:20,800 - Boyfriend? 666 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:21,880 - Pfff. 667 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:23,080 No. Why? 668 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,160 You want the jam? 669 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:25,280 - No! 670 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,560 I don't chew white meat. 671 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,080 - Pfff. - I like it black. 672 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,280 - I didn't know-- 673 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,760 Paul was married. 674 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,560 - No, he's not married! 675 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,360 That's just his fiancée. 676 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:39,880 - Oh, I see. - Yeah. 677 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,360 Well, I'm not here to talk about 678 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,560 Paul's boring love life. 679 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:46,080 I've got more Bra Jack inside there; 680 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,080 - Mm-hmm? - and I know Paul is not going to drink. 681 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,360 So, I want you to go and grab Marian, 682 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,560 so that you guys come and drink. 683 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,080 I think she's in the washroom 684 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,160 and-- 685 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,560 I think I need to pee too. 686 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:58,080 So, let's go. 687 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:06,560 688 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,960 689 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:23,960 - Marian. 690 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,480 Oh. 691 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,480 I guess you've-- had too much to drink? 692 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:28,960 - No. 693 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,160 Melani, 694 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:32,960 can I trust you? 695 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,480 - You're not going to tell me you are a lesbian, are you? 696 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:36,680 - No. 697 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,480 I mean-- 698 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:39,880 I barely know you, 699 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,560 but I have to tell someone. 700 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,960 - Oh, you can talk to me. I-- 701 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:45,680 I'm a Piscis uh-- 702 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,560 ¿Cómo Se dice en inglés? Uh-- 703 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,080 - A Pisces? - A Pisces! 704 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,560 Listeners! - Wow, me too! 705 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:51,680 706 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,080 - March 10th. - March 11th! 707 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,160 - Wow, we are practically twins! 708 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,880 Okay, I'm gonna tell you, 709 00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:59,080 but you can't tell anyone. 710 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,080 - Mm-mm. My lips are sealed. 711 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:03,080 - I'm pregnant. 712 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:04,880 - Oh, who's the father? 713 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:05,960 - Joojo. 714 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:07,280 - Oh, this is-- 715 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,680 This is wonderful. And this is why you didn't take the shot? 716 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,480 - You saw that? - Uh-- uh-- 717 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:12,560 - Oh! - It's okay. 718 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,560 I don't think anyone else saw. 719 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:15,760 720 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:16,880 I don't know. 721 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,280 I just don't know what to do. 722 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,480 I don't want people to talk. 723 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,280 - You and Joojo are getting married anyway. 724 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,760 What's the big deal? 725 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,080 - Here is not like is in Europe. 726 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,360 A girl getting pregnant before marriage? 727 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:29,760 Doesn't look good. 728 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,160 People here talk. 729 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:32,280 730 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,160 - That's why I had to rush the wedding. 731 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,480 - Oh, people will always talk! 732 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:37,560 To hell with them! 733 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:38,880 That's what my father would say. 734 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,760 You're a grown woman 735 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,280 and you make your own choices. 736 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:44,360 But don't worry, 737 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,880 I-- I-- I'll keep your secret. 738 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,360 - Thank you. 739 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,160 - It's pretty exciting. 740 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:50,280 How long have you known? 741 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,960 - A couple of weeks. 742 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,080 I'm so nervous. 743 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,080 I don't even know how to tell Joojo. 744 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,560 - I think you should tell him. 745 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,080 - I don't know. 746 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,280 747 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,080 - My watchman, he used to tell me, 748 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,160 "Melani, what can come, can come." 749 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:07,280 750 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:08,760 - You are a Ghanaian papa. 751 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:11,480 752 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:12,560 I don't know-- 753 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,560 I don't know if I should tell him. 754 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,080 He doesn't like babies, you know. 755 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,080 I just don't want to freak him out. 756 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:22,960 You know men. 757 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,160 - Well-- 758 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:25,280 I thought I did 759 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,280 before I came here. 760 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,080 - Okay-- 761 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,760 What did "he" do? 762 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:31,800 - Mm-- 763 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,480 I don't want to talk about it. 764 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:34,680 - We are sisters now. 765 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,480 Keeping secrets is part of the deal. 766 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,480 Come on! 767 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:41,680 768 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:43,760 I guess they say, uh-- 769 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,080 love is blind? 770 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,680 I just didn't see that he was taking advantage of me. 771 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:49,880 - Don't worry. 772 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,560 It's fine. 773 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,560 Not all men are like that, hm? 774 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,080 Well, don't worry. 775 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,760 They say, "Somewhere in this world, 776 00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,560 "there's someone for all of us". 777 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,080 778 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,160 I wonder where mine could be. 779 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,560 780 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:12,960 - Pfff! 781 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,080 - Hey, 782 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:15,360 I didn't know you were in there. 783 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,280 - Oh, that's why dey dey call me 'Ninja'. 784 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,480 - Uh, nobody calls you that. 785 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:19,560 - Herh! 786 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,280 Go to Community 13 and biz. 787 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:22,360 Dey dey call me 'Ninja'. 788 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,360 Some sef dey call me 'Hunta'. 789 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,080 It seems you are in a good mood this evening. 790 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,160 - Er, yeah, I'm drunk. 791 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,680 - Argh! 792 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:35,680 So, Melani-- 793 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,280 - Yeah, what did she say? 794 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:38,960 - Charley, she dey there. 795 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,080 She dey drink up you serious. 796 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:42,280 Throughout my life, huh, 797 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,280 I've no see woman way dey finish 798 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:45,680 half bottle of Alomo 799 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,680 before the party sef starts. 800 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:48,880 - Yeah-- 801 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:50,680 So, um-- 802 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,080 she-- she's seeing someone else? 803 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:53,560 - Nah. - Maybe, she's seeing someone. 804 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,280 - No, I don't think so. 805 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,280 Maybe, some big man dey handle am. 806 00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:58,360 But, Charley, 807 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,080 Joojo sef say he dey invite am come the wedding party, so-- 808 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:02,280 - Eii, that would be fun. 809 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,280 - Yeah yeah yeah yeah. 810 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:05,760 811 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,680 - Hey, hey, dudes! What, the party is in here? 812 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:09,160 - Oh yeah. 813 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:10,480 - Let's get going! 814 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:14,560 - You dey see your man? 815 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:15,760 He never go down. 816 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,800 - You're right. 817 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,280 "Shaking my head." 818 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:27,360 Oh, don't worry, Paul. 819 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,560 It's okay. It's all good; it's all good. 820 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:30,680 Anyway, um-- 821 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:31,880 the girls said they are tired 822 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:32,960 and they want to leave. 823 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,280 So, do you guys want to go back to the hotel? 824 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:36,360 - Sure. 825 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:37,560 - Um, sure. Who-- 826 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:38,760 exactly is going? 827 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:39,880 - Uh-- 828 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,360 I think it's Jason-- 829 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:42,880 uh, Tee-- 830 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,280 Malik, 831 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,360 Helel, 832 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:46,400 Carl, 833 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:47,600 Mawuli, uh-- 834 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:48,600 you, me-- 835 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:49,880 That's it. 836 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,480 - Well-- 837 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:54,760 - And Melani! 838 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,680 Yeah, I think she's also going, yeah. 839 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:57,760 - Okay, so-- 840 00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,760 what are we waiting for? - Let's go, guys! 841 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:06,960 Mtchew, these people. 842 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:11,960 843 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,880 - See, this is what I'm saying: 844 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,880 things are very different in España. 845 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,360 - Like, how? 846 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:35,480 - Huh? 847 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,480 Like-- for family. 848 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:38,560 I mean-- 849 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:39,680 it doesn't matter-- 850 00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:40,760 who you marry, 851 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:42,160 as long as you're happy 852 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:43,680 and in love. 853 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:44,880 - Hmm. 854 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,880 Here, e no dey like that ooh. 855 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:48,160 856 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:49,880 If you no know and you go bring 857 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,160 some 'yawa' girl come house, 858 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:53,280 mtchew, 859 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:54,760 the way Mommy go hassle you. 860 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:56,360 She never go agree! 861 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,160 Herh! 862 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,280 - I don't think my mother would approve of-- 863 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:01,880 you know, a foreigner for my wife. 864 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,160 - Hmm, but why? 865 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:04,760 It doesn't have to be this way. 866 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,280 - It's just the preservation of our culture, you know. 867 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,080 I think that, uh-- 868 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,160 the older ones are-- 869 00:34:10,199 --> 00:34:11,279 afraid that we-- 870 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,160 we may go off and marry a non-Ghanaian 871 00:34:14,199 --> 00:34:15,279 and-- 872 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:16,760 I mean, someone from-- 873 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,280 another African country 874 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,080 or even from another tribe 875 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,560 and we might lose some of our culture. 876 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:23,679 - Mm-hmm. 877 00:34:23,679 --> 00:34:25,159 Um, I mean, I understand 878 00:34:25,199 --> 00:34:26,679 wanting to keep the culture, 879 00:34:26,679 --> 00:34:28,479 but don't you think that-- 880 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:29,560 maybe-- 881 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,360 if you marry someone of a different culture, 882 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,360 it can help make your culture better? 883 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,080 I don't know why it really matters anyway. 884 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,280 All these Ghanaian men, they have all these other women 885 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,080 and it doesn't even matter where they're from or who they are. 886 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:42,160 - Well, not all of them. 887 00:34:42,199 --> 00:34:43,279 - Ah. 888 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:44,360 I know, I know. 889 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,160 But, should it matter-- 890 00:34:46,199 --> 00:34:47,279 who you're marrying, 891 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:48,480 if it's a different culture, 892 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:49,560 if-- 893 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,280 if you're in love? 894 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:52,560 - I-- I-- 895 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:53,679 I don't know about that. 896 00:34:53,679 --> 00:34:54,759 I mean-- 897 00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,160 Look, my engagement 898 00:34:56,199 --> 00:34:57,760 was pretty much arranged 899 00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:58,880 and-- 900 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,360 my mother explained my duty as a son in our culture 901 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:02,480 and-- 902 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,560 yeah, it made sense to me, you know what I mean? 903 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:05,760 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah. 904 00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,360 - I mean, 905 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,560 in España, we-- 906 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,080 have very strong-- 907 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,080 family culture as well, but-- 908 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:16,080 I guess there's just more freedom to marry who you want. 909 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,080 I have some friends who-- 910 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,080 maybe, they were dating someone when they were 16 911 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:21,560 and now they're married. 912 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:22,680 - Ah! 913 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:23,760 Never! 914 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,280 Mtchew. 915 00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,760 916 00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,080 Yeah, I mean, um-- 917 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:34,560 Look, in-- in-- in Ghana, 918 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:35,760 we are not-- 919 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,480 really encouraged to date growing up. 920 00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:39,560 - Yeah. - I mean, so-- 921 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,160 It-- it makes it a little bit difficult 922 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,760 to relate to the opposite sex romantically. 923 00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:44,880 I mean-- 924 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:46,760 later on in life. 925 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,080 And-- and so, we pretend like 926 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:49,560 we know what we're doing. 927 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:50,680 - Hmm. 928 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,560 Is that what happened with your ex? 929 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,680 - No no no no. 930 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:55,760 931 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,080 She made a video. 932 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:58,360 Um-- 933 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,280 Pfff, but-- But that's a long story, 934 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,560 you know. 935 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:03,680 You see-- 936 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,480 937 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,760 When you're in love-- 938 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,760 you're blind 939 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:11,360 and-- 940 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:12,760 you let-- 941 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:13,880 whoever it's 942 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,960 you're in love with get away with-- 943 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,080 ANYTHING. 944 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:18,360 945 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:19,760 Yeah, he would just-- 946 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:21,480 He'd say things that-- 947 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:22,760 that break your heart 948 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:23,880 and-- and-- 949 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,560 you just feel so-- 950 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:26,880 - Feel so stupid? 951 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,880 For even loving them. 952 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:30,480 953 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:31,960 - Yeah, I mean-- 954 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,560 that is why I appreciate Serwaa. 955 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,360 I mean, she is quiet, 956 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,680 um-- 957 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,480 - How long have you been with Serwaa? 958 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:41,560 - Oh, for months! 959 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,760 I mean-- our mothers are old friends, 960 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,280 and so, you know-- she knows me. 961 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,280 - How, do you mean? 962 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:50,080 - M-- My mother, I mean! 963 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:51,960 I mean, Serwaa knows knows who I am-- 964 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,080 - Hmm. 965 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,960 - you know. 966 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,280 - Do you love her? 967 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,760 Serwaa? 968 00:36:58,480 --> 00:36:59,760 - Yes. 969 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:00,880 I mean, and-- 970 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,960 we're gonna be married very soon and-- 971 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,560 it's gonna make my Mommy-- 972 00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:05,680 proud and happy. 973 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:06,760 - Hmm. 974 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:08,760 - And that means a lot to me. 975 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,760 - You really listen to your Mom. 976 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,480 That's rare. 977 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,960 You are a good son. 978 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,280 - Thank you. 979 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:19,360 Yeah, um-- 980 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:20,480 981 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:21,560 You know, my-- 982 00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,280 my dad passed away when-- 983 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:25,560 we were young, 984 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,760 and so my mommy had to raise us up; 985 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:28,960 and-- 986 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,080 987 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:31,480 I remember my-- 988 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:32,560 my dad's extended family 989 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,280 wanted to take the family business away; 990 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:35,360 and-- 991 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:36,480 Sorry. 992 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:37,560 She-- 993 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:38,680 She was so strong. 994 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:39,760 I mean, she-- 995 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,080 She stood up to them and-- 996 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:43,480 997 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,480 me and my brother-- 998 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,680 we owe her the world. 999 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,360 I mean, look, I-- I trust her. 1000 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,360 I trust my mommy and-- 1001 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,480 listening to her has got-- 1002 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,480 gotten me where I am today. 1003 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,360 - But, are you happy? 1004 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,280 - Yes. 1005 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,880 I am so-- 1006 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:08,760 happy. 1007 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,960 So happy 1008 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,480 with a big smile. 1009 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,360 1010 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,760 - Yeah. 1011 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,960 I also lost my mom-- 1012 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,680 when I was young. 1013 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,160 My dad, he raised us. 1014 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:24,960 - Aww. 1015 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:27,960 - That makes a lot of sense. 1016 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:29,160 - How? 1017 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:30,680 - I mean, you-- 1018 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,560 the way you behave along comfortably; 1019 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:33,680 I mean, it's like-- 1020 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,160 you're one of the guys already. 1021 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,480 - But still very woman? 1022 00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:39,560 - Yes. 1023 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:40,680 1024 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,080 Um, no. I mean-- I mean, not-- 1025 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:43,160 not that way. I mean-- 1026 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,280 It's-- 1027 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:46,480 Well, look-- 1028 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:47,760 I'm in a-- 1029 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,760 I'm engaged. 1030 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,280 You are fine and-- 1031 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:53,760 - I know. - you know-- 1032 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,760 - You-- you don't have to explain yourself. 1033 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,760 I understand. 1034 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,280 1035 00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:03,280 So, um-- 1036 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:05,960 So, it means that-- 1037 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,280 I guess you can't cook, then? 1038 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:08,360 - What? 1039 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,560 - Ah, if your father raised you up, 1040 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:11,680 I mean-- 1041 00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,880 how could you have learnt the woman's duty? 1042 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,080 - Because a woman's duty is learning how to cook? 1043 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:17,160 1044 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:18,680 1045 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:20,560 - Well, 1046 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,360 probably-- 1047 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,880 there are other things like-- 1048 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,360 make babies? 1049 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:27,480 - Hmm! 1050 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:28,880 1051 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,280 - You almost had me. 1052 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:31,760 Mtchew, argh! 1053 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,160 You just wait! 1054 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,280 I'll cook. 1055 00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,080 I will make you tilapia and-- 1056 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:38,360 and yam. 1057 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:39,560 You will be shocked. 1058 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:40,760 - Oh. 1059 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:53,680 - Oh, my goodness! - Oh my gosh! 1060 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,080 - My God, I would never! 1061 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:56,280 - You! 1062 00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:57,360 Did we have sex? 1063 00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:58,480 - I don't know. 1064 00:39:58,480 --> 00:39:59,560 But, how would I know? 1065 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,280 This-- This is your fault! - Huh, my fault? 1066 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:02,360 - It-- It was y-- you 1067 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,160 who wore that sexy dress to seduce me! 1068 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,280 - Yes, this is my plan: 1069 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,680 I want to seduce you so that I can steal all your money! 1070 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,160 Come on! 1071 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:10,880 - Well, I-- I was drunk. 1072 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:12,960 - Yeah, me too. 1073 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,480 - E-- Exactly. 1074 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,960 N-- Nothing happened definitely happened, I'm sure. 1075 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:18,560 - No, nothing. 1076 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:19,680 - Oh, 1077 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,080 come on, guys! 1078 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,160 1079 00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:23,560 It's too early in the morning 1080 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:24,960 for all this wahala. 1081 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,160 - We're trying to figure out what happened last night. 1082 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,160 - What happened last night? 1083 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,680 What happened last night? 1084 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:35,960 Oh, come on, guys! 1085 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:37,160 Nothing happened! 1086 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,680 I was right here. 1087 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:41,680 Unless, maybe-- 1088 00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,080 you-- 1089 00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:49,560 - Ah! 1090 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:51,760 - Stop! 1091 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,160 Eii, pushaah! 1092 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:00,560 - Guys, 1093 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:01,680 what's the time? 1094 00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:03,360 Oh no, we're gonna be late. 1095 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:04,480 - Late for what? 1096 00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:05,680 - The traditional wedding. 1097 00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:06,760 - Ah, 1098 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,360 I think Joojo mentioned it last night. 1099 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,360 - Yeah. He asked me to invite you. 1100 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:11,760 - Ah no no no, I can't. 1101 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:13,560 - Oh, come on; it's gonna be fun! 1102 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:15,360 - We're wearing the same thing as yesterday. 1103 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:16,560 We can't go like this. 1104 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,680 - Yeah, she's right. - No no no, guys. 1105 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,280 It's better we go like this than-- 1106 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,280 being late. 1107 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,160 Come on! 1108 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:26,160 Alright, 1109 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:27,680 I think I have a plan. 1110 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,680 Yes, I have a plan. 1111 00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:35,680 1112 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:04,280 1113 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:51,680 - Nana? - Yeah? 1114 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:52,760 - Where is your brother? 1115 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,760 - Oh, I don't know. I think he's at the back. 1116 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:55,960 - Doing what? 1117 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:57,480 - The wedding is about to start ooh. 1118 00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,480 - Ah? Mtchew. 1119 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:03,960 1120 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:15,880 - So, is uh-- 1121 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:17,560 Is Joojo going to ask for her hand? 1122 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,360 - Um-- Not exactly. 1123 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,680 - So, the family members of Joojo are-- 1124 00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:22,760 You know, 1125 00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:23,960 they've gone to vouch for him 1126 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,080 and-- 1127 00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,080 you know-- 1128 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:28,560 that he intends to marry Marian. 1129 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,560 - Yes, and that is called 1130 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,080 the 'Knocking Ceremony'. 1131 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,080 It was actually done 3 months ago. 1132 00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:35,560 - Hmm, okay. - Yeah. 1133 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,360 That's when Joojo's family 1134 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,560 come to Marian's family; 1135 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,480 they knock and they say, 1136 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:42,560 "We have found 1137 00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,360 "a beautiful flower in your house". 1138 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,280 - That is so cute! 1139 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,360 - Yeah. 1140 00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,360 Yeah, and-- And so at this point, 1141 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,280 the family members are going to invite them into their house. 1142 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:54,760 Well, in this case-- 1143 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:55,880 you know, the hut. 1144 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,280 - Um-- 1145 00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:58,560 - Once in that space, 1146 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,280 they're gonna negotiate the bride price. 1147 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:01,360 - Hmm. - Yeah. 1148 00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:02,480 - What-- 1149 00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:03,760 What is the "bride price"? 1150 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:04,880 - The bride price 1151 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,080 is called "the dowry". 1152 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:08,680 - Okay. - It basically includes 1153 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,160 all the valuable things 1154 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,680 that show the value of the bride. 1155 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,280 Talk about money, 1156 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:15,760 clothes, - Yeah. 1157 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:16,880 - drinks, 1158 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:18,960 jewelleries, anything expensive. 1159 00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,080 - Yeah. They're-- they're-- They're just like gifts 1160 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:22,480 for the family members, - Exactly. 1161 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:23,560 - you know, - Yes. 1162 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,880 Just to show appreciation for the bride. - Mm-hmm, yeah. 1163 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:27,360 - Mm-hmm, right. Where is Marian in-- 1164 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:28,680 all of this, anyway? 1165 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:29,760 - Marian 1166 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,360 finally comes at the end 1167 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:32,880 gorgeously. 1168 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:34,680 - Okay, so-- 1169 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:36,560 they're gonna call her out 1170 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:37,680 and they're gonna find out 1171 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,680 if indeed she really wants to get married, 1172 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:40,760 you know; 1173 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:42,280 and then, she's gonna show them 1174 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,360 who the man is, you know. 1175 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:45,560 After that is confirmed, 1176 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:46,680 then everyone is happy. 1177 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:47,760 Yes! 1178 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:49,680 - It's so sweet; it's like a play or something. 1179 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:50,760 - Yes! 1180 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,160 This is our culture. 1181 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:53,360 I mean, Ghanaian 1182 00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:54,560 "cultcha". 1183 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:55,680 - Yeah. 1184 00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:56,760 Look, I mean, look-- 1185 00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,680 It's-- it's-- It's very important that we keep 1186 00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,960 some aspects of our culture, 1187 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,080 - Yeah, yeah. - you know. 1188 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:02,160 I mean, the nice ones. 1189 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,360 - Yes, yes. - Yeah, of course. 1190 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:04,480 - The "nice ones". 1191 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,360 So, have you had your traditional wedding yet? 1192 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:07,480 - No. 1193 00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:08,560 1194 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,560 - No, I haven't. 1195 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:16,160 1196 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:20,360 - Eii, 1197 00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:21,760 it looks good. 1198 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:22,880 - Lovely. 1199 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:24,480 - Yes. 1200 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:25,560 - Hi, Mommy. 1201 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,080 - Ah! 1202 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,760 - Hello, Aunty Stella. 1203 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,360 - Pauly, you look horrible! 1204 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:34,480 - Yeah. 1205 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:36,480 - Hello. 1206 00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:37,560 - Hello. - Hello. 1207 00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:38,880 - Congratulations. - Thank you. 1208 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:40,360 - Congratulations. - Thank you, Uncle. 1209 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,080 - Congratulations. - Thank you. Thank you. 1210 00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:43,560 Thank you, thank you. Medaase, wae. 1211 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:45,560 1212 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,080 - Marian! 1213 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:54,080 Aww. 1214 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,760 Joojo, my darling! - Eii. 1215 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:00,360 - You're alright? You're alright? 1216 00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:01,480 - I'm good; I'm good, yeah. 1217 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:02,680 - Hmm, 1218 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,080 what a great ceremony! 1219 00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:06,680 - Yeah. - Yours is next! 1220 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:07,760 - Oh, Mommy-- 1221 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:08,880 - Yeah. 1222 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,080 - In fact, I never thought I would see this day coming, 1223 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:12,680 that my best friend would get married. 1224 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,160 I thought this one would die alone. 1225 00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:15,360 1226 00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:16,480 - Kwame! 1227 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:17,560 - Yes, Maa? 1228 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,880 - Why can't you come for the palm nut soup again in my house? 1229 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:23,960 - Oh, Maa, it's not me ooh. 1230 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,080 It's Paul! - Ah? 1231 00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:26,560 - He doesn't want to invite me. 1232 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,080 He wants to eat all the food alone. 1233 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,280 - You-- you see your friend? 1234 00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:30,360 - Yes! 1235 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,080 - Uh-- 1236 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,080 I can see you have another friend here. 1237 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,360 - Okay. 1238 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,360 So, even though you gave me heads-up, 1239 00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:40,880 your best, 1240 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:41,960 your wisest, 1241 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,080 your oldest, 1242 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,160 your 'best-est--' 1243 00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:45,280 Eii, wait, 1244 00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,080 I already said "best". 1245 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:48,360 Okay. 1246 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,080 I have the honour to plan your wedding. 1247 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:52,360 I mean, your wedding. 1248 00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:53,880 - Oh, sorry, Mommy. 1249 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,080 Um, this is Melani 1250 00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:56,880 from Sevilla, Spain. 1251 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:58,760 - Hello, Aunty. It's so nice to meet you. 1252 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:00,080 I've heard so much about you. 1253 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,160 - You have? - Mm-hmm. 1254 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:02,280 - Mm. 1255 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:05,360 Well, sometimes, it's good to introduce our culture 1256 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:06,680 to outsiders. 1257 00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:07,880 - Listen, 1258 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,280 it's not that complicated. 1259 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:10,760 - Hm, mm-mm! 1260 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,760 - I just want a simple, 1261 00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,160 classy, 1262 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:15,560 beautiful wedding. 1263 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,360 Nothing over the top. 1264 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,360 - Mm-hmm. - Please don't go overboard. 1265 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,280 - Yes, no going overboard. 1266 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:22,360 PLEASE! 1267 00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,160 - Me? 1268 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,360 As in Beth Owusu? 1269 00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:27,880 When have I ever done that? 1270 00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:30,680 - Um-- 1271 00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,480 This is Aunty Stella, 1272 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,960 my son's future in-law. 1273 00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:37,960 - Well, we are yet to-- 1274 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:39,080 1275 00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:40,480 know the date for the wedding. 1276 00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:42,480 Who knows how long into the future that will be? 1277 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:43,680 - Let's see-- 1278 00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,960 How about Aunty Helen's 65th birthday bash last year? 1279 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,080 - And Ludwig and Senaa's-- 1280 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:49,360 wedding anniversary last year? 1281 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:50,480 - Mm-hmm, and-- and-- 1282 00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,760 And your cousin Tess' surprise home-coming birthday party? 1283 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:54,760 - Ah, and just recently, Kwame's naming ceremony! 1284 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:56,080 - Mm-hmm! And also, what about-- 1285 00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:57,360 - Hey, zip! - Ah? 1286 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:58,480 - Zip! 1287 00:47:58,480 --> 00:47:59,680 Thank you. 1288 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:01,680 - My son will take care of that very soon. 1289 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:02,760 Huh, isn't it? 1290 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,360 - Yeah. - Uh-huh. 1291 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:06,760 He's just too busy-- 1292 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,080 to do it, huh? - But, you know-- 1293 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:11,360 the only feeling better than seeing your children married-- 1294 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:13,960 is seeing their children. 1295 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,280 - See my grandchildren? - Oh my God! 1296 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:20,360 I've seen these! 1297 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,160 Ah, I've seen these, please! 1298 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,080 - Um, I really need to get going, okay? 1299 00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:25,560 Um-- - Why? Why that? 1300 00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:27,680 - It's okay. 1301 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:28,760 Trust me, 1302 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,160 I will personally see to it that this is the most 1303 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,680 modest wedding you have ever had. 1304 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,080 - Amen. - Hm. 1305 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,360 This, I'll have to see. - Okay? 1306 00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,960 And you don't like my ideas of releasing 200 doves when you say "I do"? 1307 00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,480 And yes, I have this idea-- - Ah, Beth, Beth, Beth, Beth, 1308 00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,480 we trust you, okay? 1309 00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,480 - Just don't go overboard. 1310 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:47,680 - At all! - Please. 1311 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,680 - No-- - But, you will miss the rehearsals! 1312 00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,360 - Yeah, I know, but you remember we had-- 1313 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,560 We scheduled the counselling meeting way before the wedding was pushed forward? 1314 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:55,680 So, you know, I-- 1315 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,360 I-- I have to. I have to leave now. 1316 00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:58,560 Okay? - Yes. 1317 00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,960 - See you, Aunty Stella. - Alright. 1318 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:01,560 I'll see you guys later, okay? 1319 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,960 Oh, I got lipstick on your face! 1320 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,960 - You always do. You always do. 1321 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:08,480 - I got lipstick on his face. 1322 00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:10,160 - Even your kisses are overboard, Beth. 1323 00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:11,280 - Oh, come on! 1324 00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:12,560 - Tell Mommy I said "hi", okay? 1325 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:13,680 - Okay. - We'll do that! 1326 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,160 - Thanks. 1327 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:16,280 - Argh! 1328 00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,080 - I'm finished. 1329 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,160 - You know something? 1330 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,360 Why - oh why - do I have the feeling that 1331 00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,360 she is going to go overboard? 1332 00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,080 - I have the same feeling, darling. 1333 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:29,160 - Go. 1334 00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:30,280 - Bye. 1335 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,280 1336 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:35,280 Hugging in public? 1337 00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,280 - Huh? 1338 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:46,760 - I was thinking-- 1339 00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,280 I think we should invite Melani to the wedding. 1340 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:50,560 - Done! 1341 00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:51,960 - Hmm? 1342 00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:53,960 You won't even ask why? 1343 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:56,160 - No, baby. I don't need to. 1344 00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:57,280 Why not? 1345 00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:58,360 I trust you. 1346 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:01,480 Rian, Rian-- 1347 00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:02,880 Listen. 1348 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,080 After all that we have been through 1349 00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,480 and after all I've done, 1350 00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:10,280 you deserve nothing, 1351 00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,680 but the utmost happiness tomorrow! 1352 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:14,160 So, whatever you want, just name it. 1353 00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:15,280 It's yours. 1354 00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:16,360 Anything you want! 1355 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:21,360 1356 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,760 - I didn't see you leaving the club last night. 1357 00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:31,560 How was the rest of your night? 1358 00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,880 - It was fine. 1359 00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:38,680 - Is everything okay? 1360 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:39,760 - Everything is okay. 1361 00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:40,880 I'm just tired. 1362 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,080 Jacob was-- 1363 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:43,680 bothering me again. 1364 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,160 - Jacob? 1365 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:46,280 1366 00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,560 He's always asking me for money! 1367 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:49,880 I can't believe you dated him. 1368 00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,880 1369 00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:54,760 - Why didn't you tell me he was worrying you? 1370 00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:56,560 - I don't know! 1371 00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:57,680 I can handle it myself. 1372 00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,480 I don't need you to be my big brother. 1373 00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,080 - I am not your brother; 1374 00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:02,560 I'm your fiancé! 1375 00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,080 Look, I'm just-- 1376 00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:05,880 Look, I worry about you. 1377 00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:06,960 - You don't have to worry. 1378 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:08,480 I can handle it myself. 1379 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:12,960 Hey. Hello, Mommy! 1380 00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:14,080 I know! 1381 00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,080 I was just about to call you. 1382 00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:17,280 Oh my God, 1383 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,360 are you serious? 1384 00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:20,560 You're such a pigeon! 1385 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:22,960 - Yes. 1386 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:24,080 No. I-- 1387 00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,360 Listen, I said I've got everything under control, okay? 1388 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,360 So, you just let me be. 1389 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,360 Yes. 1390 00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:31,560 Hurry it up, okay? 1391 00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:32,880 Let me do my job, okay? 1392 00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:33,960 I'll call you back. 1393 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,080 Hey! Hey, guys, 1394 00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,080 please come back. Thank you. 1395 00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:38,960 Like NOW, thank you! 1396 00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:40,480 1397 00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,080 Come, come! Thank you. 1398 00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:43,160 Yes, come! 1399 00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,160 You! You! All of you! 1400 00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:53,560 - Sorry. 1401 00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:57,560 Sorry, children, for being late. 1402 00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:58,880 Uh-- 1403 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:00,560 I have a serious-- 1404 00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:01,680 runny stomach; 1405 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,080 diarrhoea, huh. 1406 00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:04,680 - Erm, shouldn't you see a doctor? 1407 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:05,760 - No no no! 1408 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,760 It's just a mild diarrhoea. 1409 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:18,560 Excuse me! Hurry up! 1410 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,280 - Ah, asɛm bɛn nie? - Yes, thank you all. 1411 00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:21,360 Now-- 1412 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:23,080 Thank you. 1413 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:24,360 - Please don't-- don't-- don't-- 1414 00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:26,360 Don't start with me. 1415 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,280 - Excuse me? 1416 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:31,360 Fast, hurry up! 1417 00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:32,480 - Herh, Beth, 1418 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,480 can we get this thing over and running? 1419 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:36,480 - Marian, 1420 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:37,760 can I do my job? 1421 00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:38,880 YOMO, 1422 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:40,360 you only get married once. 1423 00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:41,480 - It's your 'YOLO' - 1424 00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:42,680 you only live once! 1425 00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:43,960 But, by the way this is going, 1426 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:45,480 I don't think I will last that long! 1427 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,080 1428 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,360 What can I do for you, children? 1429 00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,280 - Uh, we're-- 1430 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:52,480 In fact, we're here 1431 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:53,880 for the counselling meeting. 1432 00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:55,080 - Oh yes, I remember! 1433 00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:56,360 I remember. 1434 00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,560 Um-- 1435 00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,080 I see you have a very strong connection. 1436 00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:02,760 - Huh? 1437 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,280 - Your internet connection. 1438 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:07,560 What service are you using? 1439 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:08,680 - Vodafone. 1440 00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,360 - Oh, Me diɛ-- 1441 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:11,760 it's MTN. 1442 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:13,880 And do you know? I've not been able to update Tinder 1443 00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:14,960 for days. 1444 00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:16,080 - You, move! 1445 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:17,080 Move your fat head! 1446 00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:18,600 Yeah. 1447 00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,160 Thank you. 1448 00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:23,360 DJ ! 1449 00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:24,480 Yeah. 1450 00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:25,960 1451 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,960 Please rise. 1452 00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:31,160 Oh Lord, have mercy! 1453 00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:32,680 Save me, Lord! 1454 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:33,760 Save me! 1455 00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:35,560 Save me! 1456 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,080 You! - Beth, really? 1457 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:40,480 - Hm! 1458 00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:43,080 - Oh, young lady, 1459 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,080 Please, will you take it easy! 1460 00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:46,560 - Shut up! 1461 00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:51,760 You know, a friend tells me, 1462 00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:52,960 um, Tinder-- 1463 00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:54,080 is just like, uh-- 1464 00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:55,360 Facebook. 1465 00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:56,880 - No, Father. 1466 00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:58,880 Tinder is a dating app. 1467 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:00,360 - Come again? 1468 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:01,560 - It's a dating app, Father. 1469 00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:04,480 - It's like an app where people find-- 1470 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:05,960 singles of scores 1471 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,880 or-- or hookups, actually. 1472 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:09,960 - Oh, that-- That's impossible. 1473 00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:11,080 Because I've been disc-- 1474 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:12,760 I've been chatting with young, um-- 1475 00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:14,280 Christian men and women 1476 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,680 on this site. 1477 00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,160 - Father, can we really-- 1478 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,360 get to the reason why we're here? 1479 00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:20,560 - Of course, of course. 1480 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:21,760 Um-- 1481 00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:22,880 Why are we here? 1482 00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:27,080 - Come to me, baby. 1483 00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:31,760 Marian, 1484 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:33,280 you're walking too slow! 1485 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:34,560 - Argh, please! 1486 00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:35,680 - Beth! 1487 00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:36,960 Don't you think you're going out 1488 00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:38,480 just a little-- ? - Excuse me? 1489 00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,480 Who's the wedding organiser here? 1490 00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:41,680 Thank you. 1491 00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:42,760 Come. 1492 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,160 - Because we are supposed to. 1493 00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:45,280 - No no no no. 1494 00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:46,760 Serwaa? 1495 00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:48,480 - Oh, 1496 00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:49,960 because we want to get married. 1497 00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,160 - Why do you want to get married? 1498 00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,080 - Marian, you're moving too fast. 1499 00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:56,360 Slow down! - Now, what is it? 1500 00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:57,480 Too fast or too slow? 1501 00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,080 - Fast, baby. 1502 00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:00,680 Fast! 1503 00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:02,960 Sister, 1504 00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:04,360 do you really want to get married? 1505 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:05,760 Do you want to get married today? 1506 00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:06,880 Do you? 1507 00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,080 - Ooh! 1508 00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:10,360 - ECG, why?! 1509 00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:11,480 - Oh! 1510 00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:12,680 - I'm so done with this! 1511 00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:13,760 I can't take this anymore! 1512 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,160 You guys just go ahead without me! 1513 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:15,760 - Ma-- 1514 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,160 - Because I love him. 1515 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,360 - Why do you love him? 1516 00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:22,280 - He-- 1517 00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,280 Well, he's handsome, 1518 00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,280 has a good job, 1519 00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:27,960 comes from a good home 1520 00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:29,080 and, uh-- 1521 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,080 he will take good care of me. 1522 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,080 1523 00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:35,080 Where is my glasses? 1524 00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:36,160 Argh, 1525 00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:37,280 I left it somewhere. 1526 00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:38,560 - Joojo! - Herh, Marian! 1527 00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:39,680 Joojo, do something! 1528 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:40,960 Do something. 1529 00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:42,080 - Ma-- Ma-- - Marian! 1530 00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:43,960 - Marian, honey, wait wait wait! Wait! - What? 1531 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:45,360 - Why-- Why are you here, son? 1532 00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:46,480 - I-- 1533 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:47,560 1534 00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:48,880 - Take your time. 1535 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:50,880 Take your time! 1536 00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:52,880 - I-- 1537 00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:54,960 - Marian. 1538 00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:56,560 - What? 1539 00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:57,680 - Baby, relax! 1540 00:55:57,680 --> 00:55:59,080 Take it easy! 1541 00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:00,160 It's just dumsor. 1542 00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:01,360 - It's not the dumsor! 1543 00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:02,680 I'm just-- 1544 00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:04,680 pre-- 1545 00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:07,160 - Prag-- 1546 00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:08,280 matic? 1547 00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:10,760 - I'm just preparing for tomorrow. 1548 00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:12,760 - Oh. 1549 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:14,080 Okay. 1550 00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:15,480 1551 00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,160 Baby, we're all preparing for tomorrow! 1552 00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,160 - I think I'm just stressed. 1553 00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,160 I have too much on my mind. 1554 00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,160 - And, honey, that is why 1555 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:30,360 we are getting married, hm? 1556 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,560 To shed the loads on both our minds. 1557 00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:34,680 Not yours; not mine. 1558 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:35,760 Ours. 1559 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:36,880 Hm? 1560 00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:38,880 - I want to marry Serwaa. 1561 00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:40,080 Um-- 1562 00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:41,560 and because my-- 1563 00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:42,680 I-- I mean, 1564 00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:43,760 I'm 30 years 1565 00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:44,880 and, um-- 1566 00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,880 I want to start a family. 1567 00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:49,080 I mean, in our culture, 1568 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:50,560 a man has to marry a woman. 1569 00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:51,680 Honey, look at me. 1570 00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:53,680 Look at me. 1571 00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:55,080 You don't have to do anything 1572 00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:56,880 that you don't want to do. 1573 00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:57,960 Whatever it is, 1574 00:56:58,000 --> 00:56:59,880 I know Beth can figure it out! 1575 00:56:59,880 --> 00:57:01,280 She always does, 1576 00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:02,760 hm? 1577 00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:04,280 - Okay. 1578 00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:07,280 - Come here. 1579 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:12,880 - Those are very good reasons 1580 00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:14,560 to get married. 1581 00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:15,880 - Joojo? 1582 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:17,360 - Yes, baby? 1583 00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,560 - Joojo, I love you. 1584 00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:21,680 1585 00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:22,760 - So much. - Come here. 1586 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:24,560 Come here. Come here. Come here. 1587 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:25,760 I know! 1588 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:27,160 But, why do YOU 1589 00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,160 want to marry Serwaa? 1590 00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:31,560 And you know I love you more than 1591 00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,080 Ghanaians love politics. 1592 00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:42,280 - Mm, sí. 1593 00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:43,880 Sí, Papi. Buena. 1594 00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:44,960 Sí. 1595 00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:52,880 Oh, gracias. 1596 00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:53,960 Adiós. 1597 00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,080 Hi, Joojo! 1598 00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:57,280 - Hi. - I think we are done here? 1599 00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:58,360 - Yes, it's a-- 1600 00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:01,680 It seems like Marian is not really up to it right now. 1601 00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:02,760 - Is-- 1602 00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:03,960 Is she okay? 1603 00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:05,080 - Yes, she's fine! 1604 00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:06,280 Just a bit tired, you know-- 1605 00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:07,880 wedding jitters. 1606 00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:08,960 - Well-- 1607 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:10,080 Thank you so much! 1608 00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:11,880 I've had such a really good time. 1609 00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:12,960 - You're welcome, but-- 1610 00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:14,080 Why? You're talking like 1611 00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:15,280 you're planning to leave. 1612 00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:16,360 - I need to change. 1613 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:17,560 I need to shower. 1614 00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:19,080 Your family has been so nice to me, 1615 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:20,160 but-- I-- I-- 1616 00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:21,680 I haven't known you guys that long. 1617 00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:22,760 - Madam, Madam, 1618 00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:24,760 YTTM ! 1619 00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:26,960 That means "you're talking too much". 1620 00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,080 - Mm. 1621 00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:29,160 - Melani, honestly, 1622 00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:30,760 you have to come to the wedding! 1623 00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:31,880 - Marian told me that 1624 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,080 if you don't come to the wedding, she won't marry me! 1625 00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:35,360 1626 00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:37,680 Okay, well, she didn't exactly say that, 1627 00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:39,280 but, uh-- 1628 00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:40,880 I-- I felt it; 1629 00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:42,960 and-- and we guys, we can feel these things. 1630 00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:44,280 1631 00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:45,360 - It's not funny! 1632 00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:46,480 Don't laugh; come on! 1633 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:47,560 Can you imagine? 1634 00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:48,760 Anyway, she did tell me that 1635 00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:49,880 you guys talked. 1636 00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:50,960 - Mm-hmm. 1637 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:52,080 Yes, we did. 1638 00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,080 - Whatever talking it is that you did, 1639 00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:56,080 you have to continue, so that she will marry me! 1640 00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,080 And I know you can do that! 1641 00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:00,080 Look at what you did here, hm? 1642 00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:02,760 You've livened up this boring engagement, hm? 1643 00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:04,560 It's so much more lively here now! 1644 00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:07,280 And besides, you are so cool, hm? 1645 00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,680 - Wow, you must really want to marry Marian if-- 1646 00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:11,280 you're begging me like this. 1647 00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:13,680 - Believe me, you have no idea! 1648 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:14,760 I really do. 1649 00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:15,880 I need her! 1650 00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:18,680 Like a president needs votes to win at an election. 1651 00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:20,560 So please, 1652 00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,160 if you wouldn't do it for me, would you please do it for Marian? 1653 00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:25,480 Please, please, please, please, please, please, please, 1654 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:27,080 Pleeease? 1655 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:28,160 1656 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:29,680 - For Marian, fine. 1657 00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:30,760 But, ah! 1658 00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:32,080 I don't even have a dress! 1659 00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,480 - Chica, don't worry! 1660 00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:35,680 1661 00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,280 But, you're supposed to meet Marian 1662 00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:39,160 later at Chez Julie, right? 1663 00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:40,280 - Mm-hmm. 1664 00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:41,360 - Good! 1665 00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:42,880 So, Kwame can take you home. 1666 00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,360 Then from there, he takes you to the store! 1667 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:47,360 Problem solved! 1668 00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:49,360 - Fine, thank you so much! 1669 00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:50,880 You've seriously-- 1670 00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:51,960 You've-- you've-- 1671 00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:53,360 just welcomed me to your wedding. 1672 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:54,680 You've welcomed me into your f-- 1673 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:55,960 your culture. 1674 00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:57,880 - The pleasure is all mine! 1675 00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:00,280 You just keep convincing Marian to marry me, 1676 01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:01,680 and we're great to go. 1677 01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:03,680 - Alright. 1678 01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:06,760 - Um-- 1679 01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:08,480 I have to go and do a few things; 1680 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:09,680 So, um-- 1681 01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,360 I'll meet you later tonight for the dinner. 1682 01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:13,560 So, whatever happens, 1683 01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,360 please do not be late. 1684 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:16,480 - Mm-mm. - Seriously. 1685 01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:18,960 - You know, as Ghanaians, we don't like being late. 1686 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:20,160 1687 01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:21,960 Ghanaians are never on time! 1688 01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:23,080 - What was that? 1689 01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:24,560 I can't hear you! 1690 01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:31,360 - Well, so far, things-- 1691 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:32,560 have been a bit-- 1692 01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:33,760 rough. 1693 01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:35,280 I hope tomorrow-- 1694 01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:37,880 will be more organised. 1695 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:40,680 I wonder about that French girl. 1696 01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,880 - I don't understand what she's doing here. 1697 01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:44,480 - Gloria, 1698 01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:45,560 - Ah? 1699 01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:46,680 - I keep telling you, 1700 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:47,880 watch your son. 1701 01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:49,360 - What are you trying to tell me? 1702 01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:51,280 - Who knows where they went to bring 1703 01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:52,880 that foreign girl from? 1704 01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:55,160 She looks like trouble. 1705 01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,080 That hug was very inappropriate! 1706 01:00:58,280 --> 01:00:59,680 - Oh, Stella! 1707 01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:00,760 1708 01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:02,760 - I'm only worried for my daughter. 1709 01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:05,880 I don't want any scandal. 1710 01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:07,760 - Neither do I. 1711 01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:11,680 I have known for a long time that 1712 01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:13,160 Paul and your daughter 1713 01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:14,480 will marry. 1714 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,560 You see, even when they were children. 1715 01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:18,080 1716 01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:20,360 I know your son can get attracted-- 1717 01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:22,360 to-- 1718 01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:23,480 these-- 1719 01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,560 - unstable types. - Mtchew. 1720 01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:28,080 We all saw that-- 1721 01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:29,160 video. 1722 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:30,560 Remember? 1723 01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:32,560 - Stella, I know my son. 1724 01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,080 - Okay. - He is a dutiful one. 1725 01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,560 He will surely marry your daughter; 1726 01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,080 and very soon, 1727 01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:40,880 we will be grandparents. 1728 01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:42,080 1729 01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:43,280 Oh, Gloria! 1730 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:46,280 - Why? - You know I already am. 1731 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,080 Cry your own cry. 1732 01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:50,080 - Argh! - Eii. 1733 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:51,480 - Why? - Sɛ, I've shown you all of these pictures? 1734 01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:52,560 - I've already seen them. - No. No, no. 1735 01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:53,760 - I've seen them! - Maybe, you've forgotten. 1736 01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:55,560 - It's okay; it's okay. It's okay. Stop. - My grandchildren. Look. 1737 01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:56,360 - Oh, mtchew. Why? 1738 01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:57,680 Why are you behaving that way? 1739 01:01:57,680 --> 01:01:59,080 It's okay, I don't want to see it. 1740 01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:00,160 - Cry your own cry. 1741 01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:01,280 - I don't want to see it. 1742 01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:06,160 1743 01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:07,960 - Paul, what happened at the Counsellor's? 1744 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:09,280 - Look-- I know. 1745 01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:10,560 I-- I'm sorry. 1746 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,080 I don't know what happened. 1747 01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:15,280 - I hope I have nothing to worry about? 1748 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:17,080 - No! 1749 01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:18,560 Of course. 1750 01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:20,560 What do you have to be worried about? 1751 01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:22,480 - It's fine. 1752 01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:23,560 Um-- 1753 01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:26,080 Let's just meet at dinner, okay? 1754 01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:47,880 1755 01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:50,080 - So what, you just-- drop the baby? 1756 01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:54,560 - For you information, 1757 01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:56,560 it's not like I intentionally drop the baby! 1758 01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:57,680 It just-- 1759 01:02:57,680 --> 01:02:59,160 slipped. 1760 01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:00,760 - Slipped? 1761 01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:02,080 With all the muscle, 1762 01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:03,360 the baby slipped? 1763 01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:05,360 Wait. Is it that you don't like babies? 1764 01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:06,480 Wait. You don't-- 1765 01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,680 You like the process, but you don't like the produce? 1766 01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:10,680 Really? How can you drop a baby? 1767 01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:12,160 How? 1768 01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:13,760 - Look, I don't have anything against-- 1769 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:15,280 I-- I like babies. 1770 01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:16,560 I just prefer-- 1771 01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,080 the company of adults. 1772 01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:19,680 They don't slip. 1773 01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,680 Does this suggest you won't have babies with Marian, 1774 01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:23,760 huh? 1775 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:25,760 - Look, Marian and I will have babies 1776 01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:27,280 when I'm ready to have them. 1777 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:28,360 It's j-- 1778 01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:30,160 Why are you harassing me with this anyway? 1779 01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:32,080 - Mm? - Don't you have something better to do? 1780 01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:33,960 - You are my better something I'm doing. 1781 01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:35,080 Where is this-- 1782 01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:36,560 key? 1783 01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:38,560 1784 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:45,760 Aunty. 1785 01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:47,160 - Aww-- 1786 01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:48,960 Aunty Gloria, 1787 01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,080 this dress is really nice. 1788 01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:53,480 - Thank you. 1789 01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:54,560 1790 01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:56,560 I mean, the dress is nice. 1791 01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,160 But it doesn't look-- 1792 01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:00,280 1793 01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:01,760 good on you. 1794 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:04,080 - Mtchew. 1795 01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:06,680 - Beth, must you always be so direct? 1796 01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:07,960 - Ah, I'm just speaking my mind. 1797 01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:09,080 - Joojo, may-- 1798 01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:10,680 May I speak to you, please? 1799 01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:11,760 - Oh. 1800 01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:13,760 Sure, sure, sure. 1801 01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:17,680 - Um-- 1802 01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:18,760 Beth, could you-- 1803 01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:20,360 like give us a moment, please? 1804 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:21,880 - Oh. 1805 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:23,280 Yeah, sure. 1806 01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:29,160 - Like now?! 1807 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:30,280 - Oh. 1808 01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:32,280 Now? Oh. 1809 01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,280 Oh okay. 1810 01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:37,480 - Ah? 1811 01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:39,480 That girl is always a strange one. 1812 01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:40,560 Why? 1813 01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:41,680 - Yes, Aunty Gloria. 1814 01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:42,960 But, uh-- Don't worry; her-- 1815 01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:44,480 her heart is in the right place. 1816 01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:45,560 Well-- 1817 01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:47,760 at least, most of the time. 1818 01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:49,280 Anyway, what's up? 1819 01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:52,080 - I wanted to ask you, 1820 01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:54,760 where from that French girl? 1821 01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:56,280 - Oh, you mean Melani? 1822 01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:57,360 Well, actually-- 1823 01:04:57,400 --> 01:04:58,480 she's not French. 1824 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,160 She's Spanish, from Spain. 1825 01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:02,160 - Yes, Spanish, French, whatever. 1826 01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,080 What is she doing here? 1827 01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:06,760 - Uh, Paul and Kwame met her 1828 01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:08,280 a couple of days ago when-- 1829 01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:09,480 they became friends. 1830 01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:10,080 Um-- 1831 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:11,560 She's really a nice girl. 1832 01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:13,080 - Joojo! 1833 01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:15,080 This is very weird. 1834 01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:16,560 I hope you haven't invited her 1835 01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:18,080 to the wedding? 1836 01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:19,880 - Well-- 1837 01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:21,080 Aunty, the thing is-- 1838 01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:23,960 we all really do like her and-- 1839 01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,160 yes, we did invite her to the wedding! 1840 01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:27,480 - Ah! 1841 01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:29,960 It is very inappropriate! 1842 01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:31,880 What will your parents say, 1843 01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:33,880 huh? 1844 01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:37,560 Well, I don't know. 1845 01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:38,680 Maybe, 1846 01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:40,960 you want to introduce your culture 1847 01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:42,080 to strangers. 1848 01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:43,360 1849 01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:45,080 Aunty, I-- 1850 01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:47,360 I really don't know what is it that you want from me. 1851 01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:50,080 - Well, in actual fact, 1852 01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:52,080 I wanted to congratulate you, 1853 01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:53,480 especially-- 1854 01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:55,680 for marrying a good Ghanaian girl. 1855 01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:56,880 - Aunty, 1856 01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:57,960 to be frank with you, 1857 01:05:58,000 --> 01:05:59,480 I'm just happy that I'm marrying 1858 01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:00,560 somebody that I love 1859 01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:02,560 and who also loves me back. 1860 01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:04,560 It really wouldn't make any difference to me 1861 01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:06,080 whether she was Ghanaian or not. 1862 01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:07,160 - You are young. 1863 01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,160 So, you don't understand our culture. 1864 01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:12,080 It will be very nice 1865 01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,560 if you get yourself a good Ghanaian girl. 1866 01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:16,560 Now, listen: 1867 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:18,080 people from different cultures 1868 01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:19,760 shouldn't mix! 1869 01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:21,680 Plain and simple! 1870 01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:23,080 - Aunty-- 1871 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,560 forgive me, but-- 1872 01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:26,680 isn't it more important 1873 01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:29,160 to marry someone who loves you? 1874 01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:31,560 - Love is important, 1875 01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,080 but it is not all that important. 1876 01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:36,760 I am happy that you and Paul 1877 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,560 have been able to find yourselves 1878 01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:40,160 good Ghanaian girls. 1879 01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:41,480 This is all-- 1880 01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:43,960 that I was hoping for my son. 1881 01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:45,760 - But, doesn't-- 1882 01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,560 Paul's happiness mean anything? 1883 01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:51,360 - Serwaa will make him happy. 1884 01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:54,480 The happiness will come. 1885 01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:55,560 This is what you young ones 1886 01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:56,760 don't understand. 1887 01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:58,280 It will come! 1888 01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:00,360 Anyway, 1889 01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:01,480 I think I-- I-- 1890 01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:03,960 I want to go and rest before the dinner. 1891 01:07:09,200 --> 01:07:10,280 1892 01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:11,760 We don't understand. 1893 01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:12,880 Maybe, it is YOU 1894 01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:14,680 who doesn't understand! 1895 01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:16,360 - Are you guys still talking? 1896 01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:20,360 Oh. 1897 01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:21,480 1898 01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:22,960 - Bye. 1899 01:07:26,280 --> 01:07:27,360 - Oh cool, man. 1900 01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:28,480 What's up? 1901 01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:29,960 I'm at Melani's place. 1902 01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:31,080 We're gonna-- 1903 01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:33,560 link up with Marian at Chez Julie. 1904 01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:40,760 Okay, yeah. 1905 01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:42,360 Marian is there already. So-- 1906 01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:43,480 no problem. 1907 01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:44,960 See you soon. 1908 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:46,960 Alright. Bye. 1909 01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:55,960 - You didn't have to wait outside, you know. 1910 01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:57,280 - Well, I always believed that 1911 01:07:57,280 --> 01:07:59,960 women deserve their privacy. 1912 01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:01,080 1913 01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:02,680 You have a gentleman behaviour. 1914 01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:03,760 - Thank you. 1915 01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:04,880 Get in! 1916 01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:09,880 1917 01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:12,560 So, there's so much traffic going this way. 1918 01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:13,880 - Mm-hmm. 1919 01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:17,680 - You're causing a lot of conversation 1920 01:08:17,680 --> 01:08:18,760 in the family. 1921 01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:19,960 - Really? - Yep. 1922 01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:21,080 - I don't like this. 1923 01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:22,680 I don't want people talking about me. 1924 01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:25,160 - Why? People will always talk about you, 1925 01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:26,279 no matter what. 1926 01:08:26,279 --> 01:08:27,759 - Mm-hmm. - Pfff. 1927 01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:28,880 You are a White woman 1928 01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:29,960 with an African taste. 1929 01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:31,080 1930 01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:32,760 - What is "African taste"? 1931 01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:34,160 - The way you talk, 1932 01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:35,279 the way you dress; 1933 01:08:35,279 --> 01:08:36,959 even the way you drink Alomo-- 1934 01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:38,080 - Mm? - is very Ghanaian. 1935 01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:39,880 1936 01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:40,960 - Well-- 1937 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:42,560 Thank you. I've been-- 1938 01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:44,680 trying to fit in as much as I can. 1939 01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:45,760 - No. 1940 01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:47,760 You don't have to try to fit in. 1941 01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:49,560 You just have to be yourself. 1942 01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:52,560 Not everyone is going to like you. 1943 01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:53,960 I take you like my sister. 1944 01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:55,080 1945 01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:57,080 Thanks, Kwame. 1946 01:08:57,080 --> 01:08:58,680 - You know what I was thinking? 1947 01:08:58,680 --> 01:08:59,760 - Mm? 1948 01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:01,960 - That you are more Ghanaian than Paul. 1949 01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:04,080 - Oh really? 1950 01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:06,360 - The guy doesn't drink, 1951 01:09:06,399 --> 01:09:08,159 not even Alomo, 1952 01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:10,360 though he knows I represent them. 1953 01:09:10,399 --> 01:09:11,759 He doesn't dance. 1954 01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:13,080 He doesn't like football. 1955 01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:15,080 In fact, he hates football. 1956 01:09:15,399 --> 01:09:17,079 He's the only Ghanaian I know 1957 01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:18,880 who eats kenkey with fork and knife. 1958 01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:20,360 - Aabah! 1959 01:09:20,399 --> 01:09:21,679 1960 01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:24,160 - But-- 1961 01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:25,279 he's a good guy. 1962 01:09:25,279 --> 01:09:26,359 - Mm-hmm. 1963 01:09:26,399 --> 01:09:28,079 - He's always been there for me, 1964 01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:30,080 even though he's a bit difficult. 1965 01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,080 - Has he always been like this? 1966 01:09:32,399 --> 01:09:33,879 - Kind of-- 1967 01:09:34,279 --> 01:09:35,359 I think he has a problem 1968 01:09:35,399 --> 01:09:36,559 expressing himself. 1969 01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:38,279 I remember our secondary school days, 1970 01:09:38,279 --> 01:09:39,359 I was having a problem 1971 01:09:39,399 --> 01:09:41,079 with my English assignment. 1972 01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:42,680 Paul stayed up the whole night 1973 01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:44,160 to help me 1974 01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:46,080 finish my assignment 1975 01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:47,880 and he forgot to submit his. 1976 01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:48,960 Mine had a 'B'. 1977 01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:50,080 1978 01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:51,880 My only 'B' in secondary school. 1979 01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:56,680 He was so angry with me. 1980 01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:58,080 We didn't talk for weeks. 1981 01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,360 - Mm! 1982 01:09:59,480 --> 01:10:00,680 - But-- 1983 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:02,280 he's always been there for me 1984 01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:03,760 and I appreciate him for that. 1985 01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:04,880 - Yeah, 1986 01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:05,960 it seems like it. 1987 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,080 - Yeah. 1988 01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:09,280 And he deserves to be happy, 1989 01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:11,080 especially after-- 1990 01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:12,360 Gigi, 1991 01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:14,280 his ex-girlfriend. 1992 01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:15,760 - Yeah, he didn't tell me about it. 1993 01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:16,880 - Yeah, he won't. 1994 01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:18,360 Even we all don't know. 1995 01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:19,880 We just got the-- 1996 01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:21,360 video. 1997 01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:22,960 I think he went in too quickly 1998 01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:24,480 to trust her. 1999 01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:26,360 He can be too kind sometimes, 2000 01:10:26,400 --> 01:10:28,360 putting others before himself; 2001 01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:30,880 and the problem with that is-- 2002 01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:32,880 people take advantage of you. 2003 01:10:34,480 --> 01:10:36,280 He's actually been under pressure 2004 01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:37,880 to get married for some time now. 2005 01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:38,960 2006 01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:40,080 Pressure from his mom? 2007 01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:41,360 - Oh yes. 2008 01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:44,360 - Even this thing with him and Serwaa, 2009 01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:46,880 I have my doubts about it, 2010 01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:48,160 because-- 2011 01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:49,560 I've heard a lot of things 2012 01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:50,960 about Serwaa and-- 2013 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:52,480 her ex-boyfriend. 2014 01:10:52,480 --> 01:10:53,560 - Really? - Yeah. 2015 01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:54,680 - What kinds of things? 2016 01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:55,960 - Mm, I won't tell you. 2017 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:57,480 2018 01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,080 That's why I am still single. 2019 01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:01,680 You women are too much of trouble. 2020 01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:02,760 - Ah! 2021 01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:04,560 Men are too much of trouble. 2022 01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:07,280 - No, because you women make us crazy. 2023 01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:08,360 - Mm? 2024 01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:10,360 I guess we would just agree to disagree. 2025 01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:11,560 - Yes. 2026 01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:17,360 2027 01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:31,280 - Oh, there they are! 2028 01:11:32,480 --> 01:11:34,360 We've been waiting for you guys for like ever. 2029 01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:35,480 - Yeah. 2030 01:11:35,480 --> 01:11:37,560 - We're arriving fashionably late 2031 01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:39,160 as always. 2032 01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:40,680 - Excuse me, excuse me. 2033 01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:42,760 Please, are you ready to get whatever you came for? 2034 01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:43,880 - Um-- yes. 2035 01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:46,360 - Ah. 2036 01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:47,880 This way, please. 2037 01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:48,960 Mtchew. 2038 01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:50,560 - What? - What is his problem? 2039 01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:52,880 - We convinced him to stay a bit later 2040 01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:54,560 so you could get a dress. 2041 01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:56,480 He was supposed to have closed an hour earlier. 2042 01:11:56,480 --> 01:11:57,960 He says he has a date or something. 2043 01:11:58,000 --> 01:11:59,160 - Yeah, we've got to go. 2044 01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:00,560 We don't have a lot of time, guys. 2045 01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:01,880 - Mm-hmm. 2046 01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:03,680 - How about-- 2047 01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:05,160 this one, guys? 2048 01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:11,080 - Which size? - This one? 2049 01:12:11,080 --> 01:12:12,160 - Mmm-- 2050 01:12:12,200 --> 01:12:13,280 - No. 2051 01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:23,880 - This will go like that. 2052 01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:27,960 - Hi, Melani! 2053 01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:29,080 Marian! What's up? 2054 01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:30,360 - I need to talk now. 2055 01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:32,360 - Can it not wait till I'm fully dressed? 2056 01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:33,960 - I think I'm beginning to show. 2057 01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:35,080 - Oh. - What do you think? 2058 01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:36,160 - No. 2059 01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:37,680 No, I think you're fine. 2060 01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:41,080 - I can't keep this secret anymore. 2061 01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:43,880 Joojo makes me feel so guilty! 2062 01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:45,880 It's like he knows. 2063 01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:49,760 - Madam, do you know you have taken too long here? 2064 01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:51,280 I don't want to be late for my date. 2065 01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:52,360 - In a minute! 2066 01:12:52,480 --> 01:12:53,560 - Ah! 2067 01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:54,680 Okay. 2068 01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:56,360 - Ma-- Marian, are you okay? 2069 01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:57,560 - No. 2070 01:12:57,600 --> 01:12:59,360 This secret is killing me. 2071 01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:00,480 - Um, guys-- 2072 01:13:00,480 --> 01:13:01,560 - GET OUT! 2073 01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:03,080 - This is the women's changing room! 2074 01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:04,560 - I know! But the sales associate 2075 01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:05,760 is getting very angry. 2076 01:13:05,800 --> 01:13:07,760 He's threatening to lock us in here. 2077 01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:09,480 - What? 2078 01:13:09,480 --> 01:13:11,480 - What were you guys talking about, though? 2079 01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:13,280 I heard something about a secret. 2080 01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:15,360 - Hey, guys, please-- 2081 01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:16,480 the guy is not joking ooh. 2082 01:13:16,480 --> 01:13:17,560 He's going to lock us up. 2083 01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:19,080 Please let's hurry up and go. Please. 2084 01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:20,960 - Ju-- just hold on. These ladies have a secret. 2085 01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:22,880 - No, we were just gossiping; that's all. 2086 01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:24,360 - It's nothing important at all. 2087 01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:25,960 - So, you admit there's a secret? 2088 01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:27,080 - Uh-huh. 2089 01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:28,560 - Mm? 2090 01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:30,280 You know what? 2091 01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:32,280 I think I know what it is. 2092 01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:35,480 Melani, 2093 01:13:35,480 --> 01:13:36,880 you are Ghanaian 2094 01:13:36,880 --> 01:13:39,080 and your name is Akosua Bamboy. 2095 01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:41,680 - Mtchew. 2096 01:13:43,480 --> 01:13:44,680 2097 01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:46,160 - What's that? Guys! 2098 01:13:50,480 --> 01:13:52,160 - Mtchew, nonsense. 2099 01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:01,760 - No way. 2100 01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:02,880 - Ah! What's that? 2101 01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:04,880 - No no no no no no no no! 2102 01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:07,360 I can't believe this! 2103 01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:10,080 It's all falling apart! 2104 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:11,280 - No, Marian. 2105 01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:12,680 It's going to be okay. 2106 01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:13,760 - No. 2107 01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:15,560 Joojo is going to find out 2108 01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:17,160 I'm pregnant; 2109 01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:22,360 and then he won't want to marry me. 2110 01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:25,760 Then, I'm going to end up-- 2111 01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:27,160 fat. 2112 01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:29,880 And die alone. 2113 01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:31,160 See them? 2114 01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:32,560 Men. 2115 01:14:32,600 --> 01:14:33,680 2116 01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:35,680 See what they've done to me. 2117 01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:40,080 - Did you just say you are pregnant? 2118 01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:42,880 - I messed up. 2119 01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:47,880 Now, we are stuck in this overpriced store. 2120 01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:51,360 We are going to miss the dinner 2121 01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:53,360 and miss my wedding; 2122 01:14:57,200 --> 01:14:58,880 and I will die alone. 2123 01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:02,560 - Calm down. 2124 01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:04,560 Everything is going to be fine. 2125 01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:07,600 Okay, you know that Joojo loves you more than anything. 2126 01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:11,680 You guys are meant to be together. 2127 01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:13,560 Seriously, this pregnancy 2128 01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:15,360 is a gift. 2129 01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:17,880 - Yeah, Marian. 2130 01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:20,480 We all love you; 2131 01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:22,360 and I know you have 2132 01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:25,360 strength in you to carry that. 2133 01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:28,760 We are all a family now 2134 01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:30,760 and we are here to support you. 2135 01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:35,880 - Thank you, guys. 2136 01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:38,760 But you know he doesn't-- 2137 01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:40,080 - Like babies? 2138 01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:41,560 - Yes, we know. 2139 01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:43,080 - Look, I think you should find 2140 01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:44,480 a good time to tell him. 2141 01:15:44,480 --> 01:15:45,560 - Yes, 2142 01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:48,080 but not the way you just told us. 2143 01:15:51,480 --> 01:15:52,760 - Thank you, guys, 2144 01:15:52,800 --> 01:15:54,280 so much. 2145 01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:56,560 I'm so blessed to have friends like you. 2146 01:15:57,200 --> 01:15:58,360 2147 01:15:58,400 --> 01:15:59,680 - Is it a phone? 2148 01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:04,680 2149 01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:09,760 2150 01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:11,880 - Ha! - Oh, he's back! 2151 01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:21,080 - Get out! 2152 01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:26,080 2153 01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:31,280 - Serwaa, 2154 01:16:32,480 --> 01:16:33,560 - Yes, Maa? 2155 01:16:33,600 --> 01:16:36,080 - You know you are my youngest daughter. 2156 01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:38,360 I love you very much 2157 01:16:38,480 --> 01:16:39,760 and I've been waiting anxiously 2158 01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:41,280 for you to get married. 2159 01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:42,760 Hm? - Maa, I've done-- 2160 01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:44,360 I've done everything you told me to. 2161 01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:46,960 - I mean, it doesn't look to me like you are serious 2162 01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:49,160 with your relationship with Paul. 2163 01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:50,560 - We're going through counselling; 2164 01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:52,560 we'll set a date soon. 2165 01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:55,560 - To tell you the truth, 2166 01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:56,880 Serwaa, 2167 01:16:56,880 --> 01:16:59,360 you see this French, Spanish or wherever she's coming from? 2168 01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:00,880 That girl? 2169 01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:02,480 I am not happy-- 2170 01:17:02,480 --> 01:17:03,760 - about the way she-- 2171 01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:05,960 she hangs around Paul. 2172 01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:07,680 Right? - You know what--? 2173 01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:08,760 - If you don't take care 2174 01:17:08,800 --> 01:17:10,160 that girl is going to snag Paul 2175 01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:12,080 from under your nose before you know it. 2176 01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:13,560 - That won't happen. 2177 01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:15,960 Paul and I will get married 2178 01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:17,680 and we'll have all those lovely 2179 01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:19,680 lovely grandchildren you've always wanted. 2180 01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:20,880 Just don't worry. 2181 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:21,960 - Well, okay. 2182 01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:23,080 I hope-- 2183 01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:24,760 you don't keep me waiting too long? 2184 01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:29,960 - Sorry. 2185 01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:31,080 - Sorry, we are late. 2186 01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:32,760 - Eeeh! 2187 01:17:37,480 --> 01:17:38,560 - Hi, Mommy. 2188 01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:39,680 - Mtchew. 2189 01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:44,680 2190 01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:16,160 - Oh. E-- Excuse me. 2191 01:18:16,200 --> 01:18:17,560 Waiter, excuse me. 2192 01:18:17,600 --> 01:18:19,560 - Paul, what's the matter? 2193 01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:21,280 - No, no, he-- He gave me the wrong food. 2194 01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:22,960 - Oh, that's my fufu! 2195 01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:25,760 - It's my fries. 2196 01:18:25,800 --> 01:18:26,880 - You're done? 2197 01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:29,360 - Yeah. 2198 01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:35,960 - What? 2199 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:37,560 - Aww. 2200 01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:39,560 You two look so cute-- 2201 01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:41,080 together. 2202 01:18:44,400 --> 01:18:45,480 Serwaa, 2203 01:18:45,480 --> 01:18:46,560 - Mm-hmm? 2204 01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:48,280 - be careful-- 2205 01:18:48,600 --> 01:18:50,560 she doesn't snatch your man. 2206 01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:51,880 - No, no way! 2207 01:18:51,880 --> 01:18:53,560 No way! 2208 01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:56,160 - Chill out, guys. 2209 01:18:56,200 --> 01:18:58,160 Your little secret is safe with me. 2210 01:19:01,480 --> 01:19:03,960 - What is all this looking-looking that is going on? 2211 01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:07,960 Melani, 2212 01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:09,560 do you chew your fufu? 2213 01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:11,080 - No, I only swallow. 2214 01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:12,560 - Wow. 2215 01:19:14,800 --> 01:19:15,880 - Pauly? 2216 01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:16,960 - Yeah? 2217 01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:18,160 - Do you chew your fufu? 2218 01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:19,680 - I don't eat fufu. 2219 01:19:21,480 --> 01:19:22,560 - Come on, Paul, 2220 01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:24,680 when you eat your fufu, do you chew it? 2221 01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:25,760 - Yes, I do. 2222 01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:27,480 - Mm, Paul. 2223 01:19:27,480 --> 01:19:29,280 - I learned you weren't supposed to chew. 2224 01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:30,480 Kwame, do you? 2225 01:19:31,000 --> 01:19:32,160 - Mm-mm. 2226 01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:33,280 No. 2227 01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:35,080 - Only Obronis chew their fufu. 2228 01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:37,680 - Wa-- Watch it, Beth. 2229 01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:39,960 - Come on, Paul. 2230 01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:45,160 Look, you can chew your fufu. 2231 01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:47,280 No one cares; 2232 01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:48,960 but, when chewing, 2233 01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:51,080 make sure you don't talk with your mouth full. 2234 01:19:55,280 --> 01:19:56,760 - Nana. - Mom? 2235 01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:57,960 - Why are you late? 2236 01:19:58,000 --> 01:19:59,760 - Oh, I had some business to run, 2237 01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:00,880 you know? 2238 01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:02,480 - Mtchew. - Yeah. 2239 01:20:02,480 --> 01:20:03,960 - What kind of business? 2240 01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:05,080 - Eii, what dis? 2241 01:20:05,080 --> 01:20:06,160 Charley, hey, 2242 01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:08,760 this Obroni dey enjoy the fufu wow 2243 01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:10,760 and she eats with her hands. 2244 01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:12,080 Paul, 2245 01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:14,080 you should take note. 2246 01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:15,360 - Shut up, Nana. 2247 01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:17,280 Mtchew. 2248 01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:18,360 - I'm Nana, by the way. 2249 01:20:18,400 --> 01:20:20,480 My annoying little brother. 2250 01:20:20,480 --> 01:20:22,280 - That's my official title. 2251 01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:23,480 - My name is Melani. 2252 01:20:23,480 --> 01:20:24,560 - Melani? 2253 01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:25,680 Oh, 2254 01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:26,760 what a nice name. 2255 01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:28,080 What are you doing here? 2256 01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:29,680 - She dey come play football for here. 2257 01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:31,080 - Wow. - You dey craze. 2258 01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:32,880 Shut up! 2259 01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:34,160 - I'm an artist. 2260 01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:35,280 I live here in Ghana. 2261 01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:36,360 - Okay-- 2262 01:20:36,400 --> 01:20:38,080 Then, why are you in this wedding? 2263 01:20:38,080 --> 01:20:39,760 - If it's any of your business, 2264 01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:42,280 she happens to be my long-lost cousin, 2265 01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:43,680 from Spain. 2266 01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:44,760 - From Spain? 2267 01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:45,880 Ah? 2268 01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:47,560 I bet you know a lot of footballers, then. 2269 01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:48,680 - Oh yes! - Mm-hmm? 2270 01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:50,160 - Messi sef be ein 2271 01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:51,680 ex-boyfriend. 2272 01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:52,760 - Really? - Ah, Charley! 2273 01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:54,360 - Ah! - Uh-uh. 2274 01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:55,560 Not Messi, but-- 2275 01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:56,680 I did have a boyfriend 2276 01:20:56,680 --> 01:20:58,160 and he played for Barcelona. 2277 01:20:58,200 --> 01:20:59,880 - Wow. - Mm! 2278 01:20:59,880 --> 01:21:01,080 - Wow. - Wow! 2279 01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:02,160 - Oh! 2280 01:21:02,200 --> 01:21:03,760 - What? - Seriously? 2281 01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,760 - Yeah, seriously, which one? 2282 01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:06,960 - I can't tell. 2283 01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:08,280 - Aww. 2284 01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:11,360 - You guys are all acting weird on the table. 2285 01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:14,280 - Was it Neymar? 2286 01:21:14,680 --> 01:21:15,760 - Mm-mm. 2287 01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:17,080 - What is a "Neymar"? 2288 01:21:18,480 --> 01:21:19,960 - Anyway, all these footballers, 2289 01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:21,280 they are local. 2290 01:21:27,600 --> 01:21:29,080 - Paul, 2291 01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:31,160 I think it's time the best man 2292 01:21:31,200 --> 01:21:32,480 made a speech. 2293 01:21:33,480 --> 01:21:34,560 - No, no, Charley. 2294 01:21:34,600 --> 01:21:36,280 I-- I really don't want to do it. 2295 01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:37,760 - Yes, you should! 2296 01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:39,080 Toast! 2297 01:21:39,080 --> 01:21:40,360 - Toast. - Toast. Mm-hmm. 2298 01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:42,560 - Toast, toast, toast, 2299 01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:44,560 toast, toast, toast, toast, 2300 01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:47,160 toast, toast, toast, toast, 2301 01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:49,760 toast, toast, toast, toast 2302 01:21:50,600 --> 01:21:52,680 - You all know I'm not too good with words. 2303 01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:53,760 - Yes, 2304 01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:55,280 we all know that. 2305 01:21:56,080 --> 01:21:57,160 - Anyway, um-- 2306 01:21:57,200 --> 01:21:58,360 I-- I've known Joojo-- 2307 01:21:58,400 --> 01:21:59,480 for so long. 2308 01:21:59,480 --> 01:22:00,560 Um-- 2309 01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:01,760 and he's a friend 2310 01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:03,280 and he's great. 2311 01:22:03,800 --> 01:22:05,280 And Marian. 2312 01:22:05,280 --> 01:22:07,280 Well, Marian is just sweet 2313 01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:09,280 and she's also great. 2314 01:22:09,280 --> 01:22:11,160 I-- I guess all I'm trying to say is that 2315 01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:12,360 they're both great. 2316 01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:14,360 - Yes, we know they are all great. 2317 01:22:14,400 --> 01:22:15,560 - Ah, Kwame! 2318 01:22:15,600 --> 01:22:17,080 - Huh? 2319 01:22:17,480 --> 01:22:18,560 - Um-- 2320 01:22:18,600 --> 01:22:19,680 I'm sorry. 2321 01:22:21,080 --> 01:22:22,880 Well, um-- 2322 01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:25,280 To many, many years; 2323 01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:26,360 - Yes! 2324 01:22:26,400 --> 01:22:27,680 - And-- 2325 01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:29,480 I love you, Joojo. 2326 01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:31,160 I love you, Melani. 2327 01:22:31,200 --> 01:22:32,280 - Eii! 2328 01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:34,360 - Um-- 2329 01:22:34,400 --> 01:22:35,880 Raise your glasses, everyone! 2330 01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:42,360 - Paul. - What? 2331 01:22:43,280 --> 01:22:45,360 - Oh, I think you wanted to say-- 2332 01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:46,880 "Marian", 2333 01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:48,560 not "Melani"! 2334 01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:50,080 - Marian! 2335 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:51,560 That's-- That's what I meant. 2336 01:22:54,080 --> 01:22:55,880 - Marian. - Yes, Marian. 2337 01:22:55,880 --> 01:22:57,160 - Cheers! - Cheers! 2338 01:22:57,200 --> 01:22:58,280 - Cheers! 2339 01:22:58,280 --> 01:22:59,360 - Cheers. 2340 01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:00,680 - Mommy, cheers! - Yes, cheers. 2341 01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:01,760 - Cheers. - Cheers 2342 01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:02,880 - Cheers. 2343 01:23:12,480 --> 01:23:13,560 - Uh-- 2344 01:23:13,600 --> 01:23:14,880 Thank you-- 2345 01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:16,280 Paul, for that-- 2346 01:23:16,280 --> 01:23:17,760 uh-- great-- 2347 01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:18,960 and-- 2348 01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:20,080 uh, lengthy-- 2349 01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:21,560 speech! 2350 01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:24,560 Marian, 2351 01:23:26,000 --> 01:23:27,480 I love you. 2352 01:23:27,480 --> 01:23:28,760 - I love you too. 2353 01:23:30,800 --> 01:23:32,480 - So much. 2354 01:23:35,000 --> 01:23:36,160 You know-- 2355 01:23:36,200 --> 01:23:37,880 my father told me-- 2356 01:23:39,080 --> 01:23:40,880 life is about those-- 2357 01:23:40,880 --> 01:23:42,560 "Uuuh!" and-- 2358 01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:44,560 "Ah!" moments 2359 01:23:45,400 --> 01:23:47,880 and that I should find somebody-- 2360 01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:50,560 somebody special, 2361 01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:52,880 to share those moments with. 2362 01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:54,680 Marian, 2363 01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:58,160 I know I don't deserve you; 2364 01:23:58,200 --> 01:23:59,680 but hopefully-- 2365 01:24:01,280 --> 01:24:03,280 2366 01:24:03,280 --> 01:24:06,080 2367 01:24:07,080 --> 01:24:09,080 2368 01:24:12,800 --> 01:24:14,080 2369 01:24:14,080 --> 01:24:16,080 2370 01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:19,080 2371 01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:22,360 2372 01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:23,960 2373 01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:25,880 2374 01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:27,280 2375 01:24:27,280 --> 01:24:29,360 2376 01:24:35,480 --> 01:24:36,960 2377 01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:38,960 2378 01:24:40,480 --> 01:24:41,760 2379 01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:43,880 2380 01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:45,760 2381 01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:48,480 2382 01:24:49,800 --> 01:24:52,160 2383 01:24:52,200 --> 01:24:53,560 2384 01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:55,680 2385 01:24:55,680 --> 01:24:57,880 2386 01:24:57,880 --> 01:25:00,360 2387 01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:02,680 2388 01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:04,880 2389 01:25:04,880 --> 01:25:07,160 2390 01:25:07,200 --> 01:25:08,280 2391 01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:10,080 2392 01:25:10,080 --> 01:25:11,280 2393 01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:12,360 2394 01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:14,560 2395 01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:16,680 2396 01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:19,080 2397 01:25:19,080 --> 01:25:21,360 2398 01:25:21,400 --> 01:25:23,680 2399 01:25:23,680 --> 01:25:25,880 2400 01:25:25,880 --> 01:25:26,960 2401 01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:28,360 2402 01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:30,080 2403 01:25:30,080 --> 01:25:31,760 2404 01:25:33,080 --> 01:25:36,160 2405 01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:37,280 - It's so nice! 2406 01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:38,760 Ah-huh! 2407 01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:41,080 - Aww. 2408 01:25:41,080 --> 01:25:42,560 - Ajeii! 2409 01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:46,960 - By the way, Paul, 2410 01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:48,080 - Yeah? 2411 01:25:48,080 --> 01:25:49,280 - I saw the video online 2412 01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:51,560 and someone has made a sing along to it. 2413 01:25:51,600 --> 01:25:52,680 2414 01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:54,080 - Come on-- 2415 01:25:54,080 --> 01:25:55,480 Why-- why do you bring it up now? 2416 01:25:55,480 --> 01:25:56,880 - Ah? 2417 01:25:56,880 --> 01:25:57,960 It's been a year now 2418 01:25:58,000 --> 01:25:59,760 and I thought you brought all of them down. 2419 01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:00,880 - Nana, stop it! 2420 01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:02,360 - What, Mom? 2421 01:26:02,400 --> 01:26:04,280 - You know what? I really have to excuse myself. 2422 01:26:04,400 --> 01:26:05,680 - Oh, Paul. - Paul? 2423 01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:07,680 - Nana. - Paul! 2424 01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:09,560 - You see what you've done? - What?! Argh! 2425 01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:10,680 - Ah! 2426 01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:13,760 - Mtchew. 2427 01:26:13,800 --> 01:26:15,080 - Ah? 2428 01:26:15,480 --> 01:26:17,560 - So, what it is about this video? 2429 01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:22,360 - I will never tell you. 2430 01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:26,360 - Okay. 2431 01:26:26,400 --> 01:26:27,480 So-- 2432 01:26:27,480 --> 01:26:28,960 Gigi, 2433 01:26:29,000 --> 01:26:30,160 his ex-- 2434 01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:31,280 girlfriend, 2435 01:26:31,280 --> 01:26:33,480 she stole Paul's phone 2436 01:26:33,480 --> 01:26:36,360 and sent a long video broadcast 2437 01:26:36,400 --> 01:26:38,360 to all his contacts 2438 01:26:38,400 --> 01:26:39,560 - What the hell? 2439 01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:40,880 - I know, right? 2440 01:26:40,880 --> 01:26:42,560 In this video, 2441 01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:44,160 she said a whole lot 2442 01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:46,360 of indecent things about Paul. 2443 01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:49,160 It was so embarrassing. 2444 01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:51,880 She admits to-- 2445 01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:53,160 cheating on Paul, 2446 01:26:53,200 --> 01:26:55,280 but blames it on him that 2447 01:26:55,280 --> 01:26:56,760 he-- 2448 01:26:56,800 --> 01:26:58,080 is the one at fault. 2449 01:26:58,080 --> 01:26:59,160 2450 01:26:59,200 --> 01:27:01,680 Wow, this girl is crazy! 2451 01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:02,760 She cheats on him 2452 01:27:02,800 --> 01:27:04,680 and then she blames it on him? 2453 01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:06,360 - She's really crazy. 2454 01:27:06,600 --> 01:27:09,160 In fact, she admits to cheating on him 2455 01:27:09,200 --> 01:27:11,080 and then just broadcast the video. 2456 01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:12,760 Everyone got the video! 2457 01:27:12,800 --> 01:27:14,080 Even Paul's boss 2458 01:27:14,080 --> 01:27:16,080 got the video! 2459 01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:17,360 - Oh, Serwaa. 2460 01:27:17,400 --> 01:27:19,360 - Come on! - Serwaa. Serwaa. 2461 01:27:19,880 --> 01:27:20,960 - Oh. 2462 01:27:23,600 --> 01:27:26,160 2463 01:27:26,200 --> 01:27:27,480 - Nana. 2464 01:27:27,480 --> 01:27:28,760 - Was it the time or the place 2465 01:27:28,800 --> 01:27:29,880 to bring this up? 2466 01:27:29,880 --> 01:27:30,960 - What did I do? 2467 01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:32,480 - Oh, shut up! 2468 01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:44,880 2469 01:27:48,080 --> 01:27:49,480 - Hey, Paul. 2470 01:27:49,480 --> 01:27:50,560 - Yes? 2471 01:27:50,600 --> 01:27:51,760 - What's wrong? 2472 01:27:51,800 --> 01:27:52,880 2473 01:27:52,880 --> 01:27:53,960 Nothing. 2474 01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:57,680 - I heard you say my name back there. 2475 01:27:57,680 --> 01:27:58,760 - No, I-- 2476 01:27:58,800 --> 01:28:00,360 I mean, I don't remember I-- 2477 01:28:00,400 --> 01:28:01,480 Look, either way, 2478 01:28:01,480 --> 01:28:03,360 it doesn't matter anyway. 2479 01:28:03,400 --> 01:28:05,080 - Oh. 2480 01:28:05,800 --> 01:28:07,080 - No, it's not-- 2481 01:28:07,080 --> 01:28:08,160 Not like that. 2482 01:28:08,200 --> 01:28:09,280 I mean, 2483 01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:10,680 you mean nothing to me like that. 2484 01:28:10,680 --> 01:28:11,760 - Mm? Wow! 2485 01:28:11,800 --> 01:28:13,880 you really know how to make a lady feel special. 2486 01:28:13,880 --> 01:28:14,960 - Please don't do that. 2487 01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:16,560 You know what I mean. 2488 01:28:16,680 --> 01:28:17,760 2489 01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:19,760 I-- I-- I'm engaged. 2490 01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:21,480 I can't. 2491 01:28:21,480 --> 01:28:23,560 - Don't worry; I understand. 2492 01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:26,880 2493 01:28:26,880 --> 01:28:28,560 Look, it's-- 2494 01:28:28,600 --> 01:28:29,760 It-- It's not that. 2495 01:28:29,800 --> 01:28:30,880 It's-- 2496 01:28:31,480 --> 01:28:33,080 It's the video. 2497 01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:34,880 I-- I thought I had put it behind me. 2498 01:28:34,880 --> 01:28:35,960 I-- 2499 01:28:36,000 --> 01:28:38,960 But, still-- 2500 01:28:40,000 --> 01:28:42,080 Pfff. - You don't have to explain yourself. 2501 01:28:42,080 --> 01:28:43,160 I understand. 2502 01:28:43,200 --> 01:28:44,880 You're very trusting of people and-- 2503 01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:46,280 2504 01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:47,880 Sometimes, you get hurt. 2505 01:28:48,080 --> 01:28:49,560 Sometimes, you think you've moved on 2506 01:28:49,600 --> 01:28:50,760 and then, it's like-- 2507 01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:53,480 - We-- take several huge steps backwards. 2508 01:28:53,480 --> 01:28:54,960 - Exactly. - Yeah. 2509 01:28:56,280 --> 01:28:57,680 - You're going to be alright. 2510 01:28:57,680 --> 01:28:58,760 Serwaa, 2511 01:28:58,800 --> 01:29:00,080 she's a nice girl. 2512 01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:01,880 - Thank you. 2513 01:29:04,080 --> 01:29:05,160 I-- 2514 01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:07,160 I-- I feel a bit better now. 2515 01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:10,880 It's so easy to talk to you. 2516 01:29:22,200 --> 01:29:23,360 Ah okay, so-- 2517 01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:24,880 I was-- 2518 01:29:25,280 --> 01:29:26,360 Oh. 2519 01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:31,360 There's something I want to say. 2520 01:29:41,680 --> 01:29:43,360 Serwaa, it's-- 2521 01:29:43,600 --> 01:29:45,080 Serwaa, it's not what you think. 2522 01:29:45,080 --> 01:29:46,160 Serwaa! 2523 01:29:46,200 --> 01:29:47,480 It's not-- 2524 01:29:47,480 --> 01:29:51,560 2525 01:30:03,480 --> 01:30:04,880 - Aunty Gloria! 2526 01:30:04,880 --> 01:30:06,880 - Oh, don't start with me! 2527 01:30:06,880 --> 01:30:08,880 What have you done? 2528 01:30:09,480 --> 01:30:10,760 Huh? 2529 01:30:10,800 --> 01:30:12,160 - Whatever is going on 2530 01:30:12,200 --> 01:30:14,080 between you and my son 2531 01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:15,760 should stop now! 2532 01:30:15,800 --> 01:30:17,080 You understand? 2533 01:30:17,600 --> 01:30:19,160 - It isn't what you think. 2534 01:30:19,200 --> 01:30:21,280 - It's what? Tell me! 2535 01:30:21,280 --> 01:30:22,360 Let me tell you; 2536 01:30:22,400 --> 01:30:25,480 if you think you can come to my country 2537 01:30:25,480 --> 01:30:28,280 and ruin my son's happiness, 2538 01:30:28,280 --> 01:30:29,480 then-- 2539 01:30:29,480 --> 01:30:31,680 you are not good enough for him! 2540 01:30:31,680 --> 01:30:32,760 Huh? 2541 01:30:32,800 --> 01:30:34,760 If you think because you can eat our food, 2542 01:30:34,800 --> 01:30:37,080 sing our song and then do whatever 2543 01:30:37,080 --> 01:30:38,480 will make you a Ghanaian, 2544 01:30:38,480 --> 01:30:39,560 let me tell you, 2545 01:30:39,600 --> 01:30:41,880 it doesn't make you sh*t! 2546 01:30:41,880 --> 01:30:43,080 Mm? 2547 01:30:43,080 --> 01:30:45,360 My son will marry a Ghanaian woman, 2548 01:30:45,400 --> 01:30:47,480 but not a French girl! 2549 01:30:47,480 --> 01:30:48,560 2550 01:30:48,600 --> 01:30:49,760 It isn't your decision. 2551 01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:51,480 - Herh! 2552 01:30:51,480 --> 01:30:53,080 Excuse me? 2553 01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:54,280 What did you say? 2554 01:30:54,280 --> 01:30:55,760 What impudence! 2555 01:30:55,800 --> 01:30:56,880 Who gave you the audacity 2556 01:30:56,880 --> 01:30:58,680 to talk to me that way? 2557 01:30:58,680 --> 01:31:00,360 Is that how you talk to your mother? 2558 01:31:00,400 --> 01:31:01,480 Huh? 2559 01:31:01,480 --> 01:31:02,560 2560 01:31:02,600 --> 01:31:04,280 - Is that how you talk to your mother? 2561 01:31:04,280 --> 01:31:05,360 Here, in Ghana, 2562 01:31:05,400 --> 01:31:07,880 our children respect the elders 2563 01:31:07,880 --> 01:31:10,280 and they obey whatever they say! 2564 01:31:10,280 --> 01:31:11,880 You understand? 2565 01:31:11,880 --> 01:31:13,160 Huh? 2566 01:31:13,200 --> 01:31:14,280 2567 01:31:14,280 --> 01:31:16,280 There's nothing going on between me and Paul. 2568 01:31:16,280 --> 01:31:17,680 - I don't care! 2569 01:31:17,680 --> 01:31:19,760 And I don't believe it! 2570 01:31:19,800 --> 01:31:21,160 But, listen. 2571 01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:23,080 Whatever is going on 2572 01:31:23,080 --> 01:31:24,760 between you and Paul, 2573 01:31:24,800 --> 01:31:25,880 must stop! 2574 01:31:25,880 --> 01:31:27,880 Whatever you do, 2575 01:31:27,880 --> 01:31:29,360 my son will marry 2576 01:31:29,400 --> 01:31:30,560 a Ghanaian woman. 2577 01:31:30,600 --> 01:31:32,880 Do I make myself clear? 2578 01:31:32,880 --> 01:31:35,760 Or you want me to speak in French? 2579 01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:37,080 - I'm not French; I'm Spanish! 2580 01:31:37,080 --> 01:31:38,160 - Oh go a you! 2581 01:31:38,200 --> 01:31:39,760 Whatever! 2582 01:31:39,800 --> 01:31:41,160 And so, what? 2583 01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:42,360 Listen to me, 2584 01:31:42,400 --> 01:31:43,480 I don't want to see you 2585 01:31:43,480 --> 01:31:44,960 at the wedding tomorrow! 2586 01:31:45,000 --> 01:31:46,080 Huh? 2587 01:31:46,080 --> 01:31:47,360 Trust me, 2588 01:31:47,400 --> 01:31:49,560 so long as there is blood 2589 01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:51,680 flowing through my veins, 2590 01:31:51,680 --> 01:31:52,760 my son 2591 01:31:52,800 --> 01:31:53,880 will marry Serwaa, 2592 01:31:53,880 --> 01:31:55,160 not you. 2593 01:31:55,200 --> 01:31:56,880 NOT YOU! 2594 01:31:57,600 --> 01:31:59,880 Because people from different cultures 2595 01:31:59,880 --> 01:32:01,160 should not mix! 2596 01:32:01,200 --> 01:32:02,880 That is the best! 2597 01:32:03,080 --> 01:32:04,880 Is that clear? 2598 01:32:04,880 --> 01:32:05,960 STAY AWAY 2599 01:32:06,000 --> 01:32:07,080 FROM MY SON! 2600 01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:09,280 Stay away from him! 2601 01:32:11,480 --> 01:32:16,480 2602 01:32:20,200 --> 01:32:21,280 2603 01:32:35,480 --> 01:32:36,960 - Paul. - Yeah? 2604 01:32:37,000 --> 01:32:38,280 - Paul. 2605 01:32:38,280 --> 01:32:39,560 Wha-- wha-- What's the problem? 2606 01:32:39,600 --> 01:32:41,560 - Oh-- I-- 2607 01:32:41,600 --> 01:32:43,160 My God, I-- I don't know. 2608 01:32:43,200 --> 01:32:45,080 Melani and I were talking, 2609 01:32:45,080 --> 01:32:46,680 Serwaa saw us. 2610 01:32:47,080 --> 01:32:48,560 - And so, what? 2611 01:32:48,600 --> 01:32:50,680 Why are you acting up like this? 2612 01:32:50,680 --> 01:32:52,160 - She ran away! 2613 01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:53,360 - Who? 2614 01:32:53,400 --> 01:32:54,480 Melani? 2615 01:32:54,480 --> 01:32:55,560 - No, Serwaa! 2616 01:32:55,600 --> 01:32:57,080 2617 01:32:58,000 --> 01:32:59,280 - Okay, dudes, what's happening? 2618 01:32:59,280 --> 01:33:00,760 Where's the fire? - Okay, so-- 2619 01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:02,760 Serwaa saw Melani and Paul. 2620 01:33:04,600 --> 01:33:06,560 - Oh, Heavenly Lord. 2621 01:33:08,800 --> 01:33:10,280 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait-- 2622 01:33:10,280 --> 01:33:12,160 Don't tell me you guys were kissing?! 2623 01:33:12,200 --> 01:33:13,280 - No! It was-- 2624 01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:14,760 It was just a little hug. 2625 01:33:14,800 --> 01:33:16,080 It was a simple little hug-- 2626 01:33:16,080 --> 01:33:17,360 that doesn't mean anything. 2627 01:33:17,400 --> 01:33:18,880 Anything! 2628 01:33:19,680 --> 01:33:20,880 2629 01:33:21,600 --> 01:33:26,560 2630 01:33:27,680 --> 01:33:28,760 - Uh, Paul. 2631 01:33:28,800 --> 01:33:29,880 Um-- 2632 01:33:29,880 --> 01:33:31,160 - Yeah? 2633 01:33:31,800 --> 01:33:33,080 Don't you think that, 2634 01:33:33,080 --> 01:33:34,160 uh-- 2635 01:33:34,200 --> 01:33:35,680 maybe-- 2636 01:33:37,080 --> 01:33:38,280 possibly-- 2637 01:33:38,280 --> 01:33:39,760 there might have been 2638 01:33:39,800 --> 01:33:42,360 just a little something in that hug? 2639 01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:43,480 - What do you mean? 2640 01:33:43,480 --> 01:33:44,960 - Yeah, um-- 2641 01:33:45,000 --> 01:33:46,960 I think he means-- 2642 01:33:47,000 --> 01:33:48,280 Melani-- 2643 01:33:48,280 --> 01:33:49,680 is a great girl. - Yeah. 2644 01:33:49,680 --> 01:33:50,760 - Right? - Mm-hmm. 2645 01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:52,760 - I don't like where this is going. 2646 01:33:55,480 --> 01:33:56,560 - Paul. 2647 01:33:56,600 --> 01:33:58,080 Look, 2648 01:33:58,280 --> 01:33:59,760 Serwaa is my cousin, 2649 01:33:59,800 --> 01:34:00,960 Okay? She's my blood. 2650 01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:02,680 I love her. 2651 01:34:02,680 --> 01:34:04,360 But-- 2652 01:34:04,400 --> 01:34:06,360 2653 01:34:06,680 --> 01:34:08,880 I just don't think she's the right one for you, dude. 2654 01:34:08,880 --> 01:34:10,560 - Where the hell is all this coming from? 2655 01:34:10,600 --> 01:34:11,680 - Paul. 2656 01:34:11,680 --> 01:34:12,760 Please. 2657 01:34:12,800 --> 01:34:14,960 You are our best friend. 2658 01:34:15,000 --> 01:34:17,080 Come on, you have always been there for us! 2659 01:34:17,080 --> 01:34:18,360 - Yeah. 2660 01:34:18,400 --> 01:34:19,880 - Now, 2661 01:34:19,880 --> 01:34:21,080 let us-- 2662 01:34:21,080 --> 01:34:22,680 be there for you now! 2663 01:34:22,680 --> 01:34:23,760 - Yeah, bro. - Please. 2664 01:34:23,800 --> 01:34:25,560 - I-- I-- I can't believe this. 2665 01:34:25,600 --> 01:34:26,680 - Look, Paul, l-- 2666 01:34:26,680 --> 01:34:27,760 - I got this. 2667 01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:29,080 Paul. - What? 2668 01:34:29,080 --> 01:34:30,160 - I think-- 2669 01:34:30,200 --> 01:34:32,080 you have some feeling for Melani 2670 01:34:32,080 --> 01:34:34,360 and you are not being true to yourself. 2671 01:34:34,400 --> 01:34:35,880 If you look deep inside you, 2672 01:34:35,880 --> 01:34:37,160 you know it, 2673 01:34:37,200 --> 01:34:38,560 that you are only marrying Serwaa 2674 01:34:38,600 --> 01:34:39,760 just to please your mother 2675 01:34:39,800 --> 01:34:40,880 - This is bullsh*t! - No. 2676 01:34:40,880 --> 01:34:42,360 - No, Paul; it's not! Mm? 2677 01:34:42,400 --> 01:34:43,480 It's facts! Mm? 2678 01:34:43,480 --> 01:34:45,560 Why are you trying to fight us on this one? 2679 01:34:45,600 --> 01:34:46,680 Mm? 2680 01:34:46,680 --> 01:34:48,480 Why don't you take a look inside your heart 2681 01:34:48,480 --> 01:34:50,960 and find out, what is it telling you? 2682 01:34:51,000 --> 01:34:52,480 - Paul, I'm sorry. 2683 01:34:52,480 --> 01:34:53,560 - Look-- 2684 01:34:53,600 --> 01:34:55,560 I have nothing to say to you. 2685 01:34:55,600 --> 01:34:57,080 - This isn't my fault; you hugged me! 2686 01:34:57,080 --> 01:34:58,160 - It doesn't matter! 2687 01:34:58,200 --> 01:34:59,680 You are trying to ruin my marriage. 2688 01:34:59,680 --> 01:35:00,760 - Come on, Paul! 2689 01:35:00,800 --> 01:35:02,680 - This is not your business, Kwame! 2690 01:35:02,680 --> 01:35:03,960 - I don't want to see you. 2691 01:35:04,000 --> 01:35:05,080 Pfff. 2692 01:35:05,080 --> 01:35:07,560 - Fine; I don't want to see you either! 2693 01:35:08,680 --> 01:35:10,680 - Argh, my God! 2694 01:35:12,680 --> 01:35:13,960 What do we do now? 2695 01:35:14,000 --> 01:35:15,280 - Well-- 2696 01:35:15,280 --> 01:35:17,280 so much for my wedding dinner, right? 2697 01:35:17,280 --> 01:35:22,280 2698 01:35:23,480 --> 01:35:24,560 - Hey. 2699 01:35:24,600 --> 01:35:25,680 Hey, bro. - Yeah? 2700 01:35:25,680 --> 01:35:26,760 - What's up? 2701 01:35:26,800 --> 01:35:28,480 Do you want to chat? 2702 01:35:28,480 --> 01:35:29,560 - Honestly, Nana, I-- 2703 01:35:29,600 --> 01:35:30,960 I'm so tired. I just wanna sleep. 2704 01:35:31,000 --> 01:35:32,080 - Alright, I get you. Look, 2705 01:35:32,080 --> 01:35:33,680 I'm really sorry about earlier tonight. 2706 01:35:33,680 --> 01:35:35,560 I didn't know that you were going to get upset about this whole-- 2707 01:35:35,600 --> 01:35:36,680 - It's okay, ah! 2708 01:35:36,680 --> 01:35:38,360 - Paul, relax, man! I'm apologising to you. 2709 01:35:38,400 --> 01:35:40,360 There is no reason to get angry! 2710 01:35:41,080 --> 01:35:42,160 2711 01:35:42,200 --> 01:35:43,280 Okay, I'm sorry. 2712 01:35:43,280 --> 01:35:45,280 Paul, come. 2713 01:35:46,400 --> 01:35:47,480 2714 01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:52,560 - Okay, sit down. 2715 01:35:55,200 --> 01:35:57,280 Can I give you some advice? 2716 01:35:57,280 --> 01:35:59,560 - Who are you to give me advice? 2717 01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:01,080 - Do you know where your problem is? 2718 01:36:01,080 --> 01:36:02,160 - No. 2719 01:36:02,200 --> 01:36:03,960 You tell me what my problem is. 2720 01:36:04,000 --> 01:36:05,560 - You want to ignore all your problems, 2721 01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:06,960 instead of standing up to them. 2722 01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:08,680 You're too lazy to make your own decision 2723 01:36:08,680 --> 01:36:10,680 and you let people walk all over you. 2724 01:36:10,680 --> 01:36:12,360 - Where-- where-- where are you getting at? - I'm not finished! 2725 01:36:12,400 --> 01:36:14,080 Have you ever stopped to ask yourself 2726 01:36:14,080 --> 01:36:16,360 why Gigi felt she could walk all over you? 2727 01:36:16,400 --> 01:36:18,680 It's because you let her. 2728 01:36:18,680 --> 01:36:20,080 Paul, you need to teach people 2729 01:36:20,080 --> 01:36:21,160 how to treat you. 2730 01:36:21,200 --> 01:36:24,080 You cannot just expect them to know! 2731 01:36:24,080 --> 01:36:25,360 - So-- 2732 01:36:25,400 --> 01:36:27,080 you have all this figured out? 2733 01:36:27,080 --> 01:36:28,160 - No, I don't. 2734 01:36:28,200 --> 01:36:29,360 But, when it comes to people, 2735 01:36:29,400 --> 01:36:30,680 I let them know what I am about, 2736 01:36:30,680 --> 01:36:32,080 especially when it comes to women. 2737 01:36:32,080 --> 01:36:34,360 If not, they are going to walk all over you. 2738 01:36:38,280 --> 01:36:39,560 - I don't even know what to say. 2739 01:36:39,600 --> 01:36:40,880 - You don't say anything. 2740 01:36:40,880 --> 01:36:42,680 You just run away. 2741 01:36:42,680 --> 01:36:45,280 Paul, you cannot let people dictate your life. 2742 01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:47,760 You need to stand up and be a real man, 2743 01:36:47,800 --> 01:36:49,280 a man says how he feels 2744 01:36:49,280 --> 01:36:50,560 and deals with the consequence 2745 01:36:50,600 --> 01:36:52,880 or you're going to make a big mistake! 2746 01:36:53,600 --> 01:36:55,280 - What do you mean? 2747 01:36:55,280 --> 01:36:56,360 - Do you love Serwaa? 2748 01:36:56,400 --> 01:36:57,680 Really? 2749 01:36:57,680 --> 01:36:59,560 - Where-- Where is all this coming from? 2750 01:36:59,600 --> 01:37:01,160 - I saw her run out of the restaurant. 2751 01:37:01,200 --> 01:37:02,280 I mean, we all saw her. 2752 01:37:02,280 --> 01:37:03,560 - Oh. So, you've heard from her? 2753 01:37:03,600 --> 01:37:04,960 I've been looking for her. - Paul! 2754 01:37:05,000 --> 01:37:06,280 Let her go! 2755 01:37:06,280 --> 01:37:08,280 You know deep inside your heart she's not the one! 2756 01:37:08,280 --> 01:37:10,160 You're just marrying her to make Mommy happy! 2757 01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:11,480 - I am doing my cultural duty! 2758 01:37:11,480 --> 01:37:13,080 - You have to do what is right for you! 2759 01:37:13,080 --> 01:37:15,160 That's why I'm saying you cannot live someone else's life! 2760 01:37:15,200 --> 01:37:17,080 If marrying Serwaa is going to make Mommy happy, 2761 01:37:17,080 --> 01:37:19,880 but it's not going to make you happy, Sir, why are you doing it? 2762 01:37:19,880 --> 01:37:21,160 Ma guy, 2763 01:37:21,200 --> 01:37:22,880 you no go fit please everyone ooh. 2764 01:37:22,880 --> 01:37:25,160 You have a responsibility for yourself. 2765 01:37:25,200 --> 01:37:26,480 - Responsibility for what?! 2766 01:37:26,480 --> 01:37:27,960 - For happiness. 2767 01:37:28,600 --> 01:37:30,480 Paul, you need to listen to your heart. 2768 01:37:30,480 --> 01:37:31,560 2769 01:37:31,600 --> 01:37:33,560 - Tell me, what does your heart tell you? 2770 01:37:33,600 --> 01:37:36,080 2771 01:37:36,080 --> 01:37:37,160 2772 01:37:37,200 --> 01:37:42,160 2773 01:38:37,200 --> 01:38:38,480 - Herh, I'm telling you 2774 01:38:38,480 --> 01:38:39,760 this is not the place! 2775 01:38:39,800 --> 01:38:41,880 How many more weddings are we going to crush today? 2776 01:38:41,880 --> 01:38:43,480 Uh? 2777 01:38:43,480 --> 01:38:44,560 - Juuust-- 2778 01:38:44,600 --> 01:38:46,160 one. 2779 01:38:46,200 --> 01:38:48,160 I'm gonna find you, Paul. 2780 01:38:49,280 --> 01:38:50,360 2781 01:38:51,200 --> 01:38:52,680 - Herh, Uncle! 2782 01:38:52,680 --> 01:38:53,760 Eii, Uncle, Uncle! 2783 01:38:53,800 --> 01:38:54,960 Eii! Hey yah! Get up! 2784 01:38:55,000 --> 01:38:56,160 This is not a funeral. 2785 01:38:56,200 --> 01:38:57,280 It's a wedding! 2786 01:38:57,280 --> 01:38:58,360 Get up and move! 2787 01:38:58,400 --> 01:38:59,880 And you, you're gonna just sit down 2788 01:38:59,880 --> 01:39:01,360 without doing anything? 2789 01:39:01,400 --> 01:39:02,880 Get to work! 2790 01:39:02,880 --> 01:39:04,080 Hurry up, work! 2791 01:39:04,080 --> 01:39:05,560 Fast! 2792 01:39:05,880 --> 01:39:07,760 Do I have to do everything by myself? 2793 01:39:10,080 --> 01:39:11,760 - Yeah, girls, 2794 01:39:11,800 --> 01:39:15,080 poppin' bottles! 2795 01:39:19,080 --> 01:39:20,560 Oh, this thing! 2796 01:39:20,800 --> 01:39:22,080 - Mm. 2797 01:39:23,200 --> 01:39:24,880 Open it, girl. 2798 01:39:26,000 --> 01:39:27,080 - It's popping. 2799 01:39:27,080 --> 01:39:30,560 2800 01:39:31,080 --> 01:39:33,560 2801 01:39:33,600 --> 01:39:34,880 - Pass the "champay"! 2802 01:39:34,880 --> 01:39:36,160 - Hey hey hey! No, no, no. 2803 01:39:36,200 --> 01:39:38,280 It is "cha-pan-yay". 2804 01:39:38,280 --> 01:39:39,960 - What-e-ver. 2805 01:39:40,000 --> 01:39:41,080 - But, wait ooh! 2806 01:39:41,080 --> 01:39:42,560 What about the Alomo Silver? 2807 01:39:42,600 --> 01:39:44,080 - Yeah! 2808 01:39:44,080 --> 01:39:45,160 Yes! - Mm-hmm. 2809 01:39:45,200 --> 01:39:46,360 Yes. 2810 01:39:47,400 --> 01:39:48,880 - Uh-- 2811 01:39:48,880 --> 01:39:50,560 - Marian. 2812 01:39:51,400 --> 01:39:52,880 Aren't you drinking? 2813 01:39:52,880 --> 01:39:54,560 - Do you want some? 2814 01:39:57,600 --> 01:39:59,680 - Okay, you girls get out! 2815 01:39:59,680 --> 01:40:00,760 Now, I've had enough. 2816 01:40:00,800 --> 01:40:01,880 - What? 2817 01:40:01,880 --> 01:40:03,480 - Get out! 2818 01:40:03,480 --> 01:40:05,160 GET OUT! 2819 01:40:05,480 --> 01:40:06,560 Ah! 2820 01:40:15,800 --> 01:40:17,080 2821 01:40:18,800 --> 01:40:20,480 2822 01:40:23,200 --> 01:40:24,760 - You promised to be there for me. 2823 01:40:24,800 --> 01:40:25,880 Ah! 2824 01:40:30,280 --> 01:40:31,560 Kwame, 2825 01:40:32,200 --> 01:40:33,760 you are taking me to Melani's place. 2826 01:40:33,800 --> 01:40:34,960 Now! 2827 01:40:35,000 --> 01:40:36,960 Okay, I'm waiting. 2828 01:41:00,000 --> 01:41:01,080 - Gentleman, 2829 01:41:01,080 --> 01:41:02,280 you can't sit here. 2830 01:41:02,280 --> 01:41:04,280 Is there were I asked you to sit? 2831 01:41:05,000 --> 01:41:06,280 - I'm taking video. 2832 01:41:06,280 --> 01:41:07,760 - Shut up. 2833 01:41:07,800 --> 01:41:10,160 That is why we do rehearsals. 2834 01:41:10,400 --> 01:41:12,360 On second thought-- 2835 01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:13,960 - What is up with all this? 2836 01:41:14,000 --> 01:41:15,480 - Oh, shut up! 2837 01:41:15,600 --> 01:41:16,880 Sit. 2838 01:41:20,880 --> 01:41:22,360 Eish! 2839 01:41:22,600 --> 01:41:24,280 Herh, Mama! 2840 01:41:24,280 --> 01:41:25,960 If you sit there, I will-- 2841 01:41:26,000 --> 01:41:27,480 Mm! 2842 01:41:32,200 --> 01:41:33,880 Here. 2843 01:41:34,480 --> 01:41:35,960 - Eii! - Perfect. 2844 01:41:41,600 --> 01:41:43,560 Excuse me? 2845 01:41:43,600 --> 01:41:45,080 What are you doing here? 2846 01:41:45,080 --> 01:41:46,760 - Um, we are here for the wedding. 2847 01:41:46,800 --> 01:41:48,360 - But, whose wedding? 2848 01:41:48,400 --> 01:41:49,480 - Oh, is it not the-- 2849 01:41:49,480 --> 01:41:50,560 bride and the groom? - Mm? 2850 01:41:50,600 --> 01:41:52,560 Listen, you cannot think you can come 2851 01:41:52,600 --> 01:41:54,880 for someone's wedding for free food. 2852 01:41:57,000 --> 01:41:58,080 Get out! 2853 01:42:11,800 --> 01:42:13,080 Parasites. 2854 01:42:14,080 --> 01:42:19,080 2855 01:42:24,680 --> 01:42:25,960 - Anyone seen Joojo? 2856 01:42:26,000 --> 01:42:27,080 - No. 2857 01:42:27,280 --> 01:42:28,360 - No. 2858 01:42:41,800 --> 01:42:42,880 2859 01:42:42,880 --> 01:42:44,280 Hello there. 2860 01:42:44,280 --> 01:42:46,480 - Marian. - Yes, Marian! 2861 01:42:46,480 --> 01:42:48,960 Remember me? The one getting married-- 2862 01:42:49,280 --> 01:42:50,960 who's pregnant? 2863 01:42:52,880 --> 01:42:54,880 Why aren't you at my wedding? 2864 01:42:55,400 --> 01:42:56,480 2865 01:42:56,480 --> 01:42:57,560 I'm sorry, Marian. 2866 01:42:57,600 --> 01:42:59,560 I just can't. - I don't want to hear it. 2867 01:43:00,000 --> 01:43:03,080 Melani, I thought you promised to be there for me. 2868 01:43:03,080 --> 01:43:05,560 You promised to help me get through this. 2869 01:43:06,880 --> 01:43:07,960 - I know, 2870 01:43:08,080 --> 01:43:09,160 I know. 2871 01:43:09,200 --> 01:43:10,280 Marian, look, I-- 2872 01:43:10,280 --> 01:43:12,280 - Don't "Marian-look" me. 2873 01:43:13,000 --> 01:43:14,960 Melani, I need you. 2874 01:43:15,600 --> 01:43:17,880 All my bridesmaids are idiots! 2875 01:43:18,400 --> 01:43:20,080 I feel fat. 2876 01:43:21,480 --> 01:43:22,760 I'm stressed. 2877 01:43:22,800 --> 01:43:24,760 In fact, I'm freaking out. 2878 01:43:26,280 --> 01:43:27,760 All I know is these past few days, 2879 01:43:27,800 --> 01:43:29,080 you are the only one who seems 2880 01:43:29,080 --> 01:43:31,080 to understand what I'm going through. 2881 01:43:31,200 --> 01:43:36,160 2882 01:43:49,200 --> 01:43:50,880 - Charley. 2883 01:43:52,800 --> 01:43:54,080 - Well-- 2884 01:43:54,080 --> 01:43:56,280 it looks like it's finally here. 2885 01:43:57,280 --> 01:43:58,960 - Yes, it is. 2886 01:44:03,800 --> 01:44:05,480 Are you nervous? 2887 01:44:06,480 --> 01:44:07,680 - Me, nervous? 2888 01:44:07,680 --> 01:44:09,160 Nah. 2889 01:44:09,200 --> 01:44:10,560 Dude, I'm not nervous at all. 2890 01:44:10,600 --> 01:44:11,680 - Okay. 2891 01:44:11,680 --> 01:44:12,760 - I'm terrified. 2892 01:44:12,800 --> 01:44:15,560 2893 01:44:15,600 --> 01:44:18,680 I'm marrying the woman of my dreams and I-- 2894 01:44:18,680 --> 01:44:21,680 I feel like I don't even deserve her. 2895 01:44:21,680 --> 01:44:23,360 - Mm. 2896 01:44:24,600 --> 01:44:25,880 Hey, um-- 2897 01:44:25,880 --> 01:44:26,960 Look, I'm-- 2898 01:44:27,000 --> 01:44:29,480 I'm sorry for getting angry with you guys last night. 2899 01:44:29,480 --> 01:44:30,680 - Oh no no no no no, dude, 2900 01:44:30,680 --> 01:44:32,280 don't worry about that. It's a-- - Okay. 2901 01:44:32,280 --> 01:44:33,880 - It happens, you know. It's a-- 2902 01:44:33,880 --> 01:44:35,280 No, no, forget about it, please. 2903 01:44:35,280 --> 01:44:36,560 It's-- it's-- it's cool. 2904 01:44:36,600 --> 01:44:38,080 It's cool. 2905 01:44:38,600 --> 01:44:39,880 By the way, 2906 01:44:39,880 --> 01:44:41,880 have you heard from Serwaa by any chance? 2907 01:44:41,880 --> 01:44:43,080 - No. 2908 01:44:43,080 --> 01:44:44,280 Look, I've done everything. 2909 01:44:44,280 --> 01:44:45,480 I even signed up on-- 2910 01:44:45,480 --> 01:44:47,160 What? Snapchat. 2911 01:44:47,200 --> 01:44:48,680 2912 01:44:49,200 --> 01:44:50,480 Well-- 2913 01:44:50,480 --> 01:44:51,560 2914 01:44:51,600 --> 01:44:53,280 - I don't know, dude. 2915 01:44:53,280 --> 01:44:55,280 Maybe-- 2916 01:44:55,280 --> 01:44:57,680 Maybe it's for the best. 2917 01:44:57,680 --> 01:44:58,760 Uh-- 2918 01:44:58,800 --> 01:45:00,560 I understand you, Paul. 2919 01:45:00,600 --> 01:45:01,680 I mean-- 2920 01:45:01,680 --> 01:45:04,760 sometimes, we mess up-- 2921 01:45:04,800 --> 01:45:07,480 We have our doubts-- 2922 01:45:08,880 --> 01:45:10,560 - Is there something you-- 2923 01:45:10,600 --> 01:45:12,280 you wanna tell me? 2924 01:45:16,200 --> 01:45:18,680 - It's complicated. 2925 01:45:19,280 --> 01:45:21,280 - Life isn't complicated. 2926 01:45:21,280 --> 01:45:22,560 People are. 2927 01:45:22,600 --> 01:45:23,760 2928 01:45:23,800 --> 01:45:25,480 You're right. 2929 01:45:25,480 --> 01:45:26,560 I should have been there. 2930 01:45:26,600 --> 01:45:29,080 I-- I promised. 2931 01:45:29,880 --> 01:45:31,760 2932 01:45:31,800 --> 01:45:33,160 - You sound like there's a "but". 2933 01:45:33,200 --> 01:45:34,280 What's going on? 2934 01:45:34,280 --> 01:45:35,960 - Well-- 2935 01:45:36,000 --> 01:45:37,680 Last night, at the restaurant, 2936 01:45:37,680 --> 01:45:38,960 I-- 2937 01:45:39,000 --> 01:45:40,280 Serwaa saw me and Paul. 2938 01:45:40,280 --> 01:45:42,880 - Saw you and Paul doing what? 2939 01:45:42,880 --> 01:45:44,880 - We were hugging. 2940 01:45:44,880 --> 01:45:46,280 - What's wrong with hugging? 2941 01:45:46,280 --> 01:45:47,480 - Well-- 2942 01:45:47,480 --> 01:45:48,960 It was-- 2943 01:45:49,000 --> 01:45:50,960 a little more than just a hug. 2944 01:45:51,080 --> 01:45:53,160 - A little over 2 months ago, 2945 01:45:53,200 --> 01:45:54,680 at our corporate retreat, 2946 01:45:54,680 --> 01:45:56,160 - Mm-hmm? 2947 01:45:56,480 --> 01:45:58,480 - I kissed another woman. 2948 01:46:01,200 --> 01:46:02,680 - Okay. 2949 01:46:02,800 --> 01:46:04,360 - Call it, uh-- 2950 01:46:04,400 --> 01:46:05,560 A moment of weakness. 2951 01:46:05,600 --> 01:46:07,560 I-- Pfff. 2952 01:46:09,600 --> 01:46:12,560 But I didn't kiss her because she was attractive. 2953 01:46:16,080 --> 01:46:18,360 I was honestly doubting-- 2954 01:46:18,400 --> 01:46:20,080 if I was in love with Marian 2955 01:46:20,080 --> 01:46:21,560 and-- 2956 01:46:21,600 --> 01:46:24,880 I felt that if I kissed another woman 2957 01:46:24,880 --> 01:46:27,880 and I was still in love with her, 2958 01:46:27,880 --> 01:46:30,360 then, it was real. 2959 01:46:33,000 --> 01:46:35,480 - S-- So, how did it feel? 2960 01:46:35,480 --> 01:46:37,480 - Nothing! 2961 01:46:37,600 --> 01:46:38,680 Nothing. 2962 01:46:38,680 --> 01:46:39,760 Nothing for her. 2963 01:46:39,800 --> 01:46:41,760 Nothing for Marian. 2964 01:46:41,800 --> 01:46:43,480 2965 01:46:43,600 --> 01:46:45,480 But I decided to-- 2966 01:46:45,480 --> 01:46:47,480 man up and confess and-- 2967 01:46:47,480 --> 01:46:48,560 tell her what happened. 2968 01:46:48,600 --> 01:46:50,960 I was expecting the inevitable, that, you know-- 2969 01:46:51,000 --> 01:46:52,960 we would break up. 2970 01:46:54,600 --> 01:46:56,280 But she forgave me; 2971 01:46:56,280 --> 01:46:57,360 and in that instance, 2972 01:46:57,400 --> 01:46:59,880 something wonderful happened. 2973 01:47:00,480 --> 01:47:01,560 - Yeah. 2974 01:47:01,600 --> 01:47:04,560 - All the magic just came flowing right back. 2975 01:47:04,880 --> 01:47:07,360 I looked into her eyes-- 2976 01:47:08,800 --> 01:47:12,680 and I felt the love that I felt the very same day I met her. 2977 01:47:13,280 --> 01:47:15,560 It was amazing! 2978 01:47:15,600 --> 01:47:17,080 - Yeah, I remember that. 2979 01:47:17,080 --> 01:47:18,160 I was there. 2980 01:47:18,200 --> 01:47:19,280 2981 01:47:19,280 --> 01:47:21,360 - Is there something going on between-- 2982 01:47:21,400 --> 01:47:22,480 you and Paul? 2983 01:47:22,480 --> 01:47:24,480 - No, no. 2984 01:47:24,600 --> 01:47:26,880 - But you have feelings for him? 2985 01:47:29,280 --> 01:47:30,680 Listen, Melani, 2986 01:47:30,680 --> 01:47:32,080 I can't tell you-- 2987 01:47:32,080 --> 01:47:34,360 how to feel for someone or-- 2988 01:47:34,600 --> 01:47:36,880 But, if there's the slightest chance 2989 01:47:36,880 --> 01:47:39,760 that he might have the keys to your happiness, 2990 01:47:39,800 --> 01:47:41,880 you should totally get him. 2991 01:47:41,880 --> 01:47:43,760 - But-- 2992 01:47:43,800 --> 01:47:45,080 What about Gloria? 2993 01:47:45,080 --> 01:47:47,560 - Gloria doesn't know sh*t. 2994 01:47:47,600 --> 01:47:48,760 She feels she knows it all. 2995 01:47:48,800 --> 01:47:50,480 She feels she knows her son. 2996 01:47:50,480 --> 01:47:52,080 She feels there's this-- 2997 01:47:52,080 --> 01:47:54,560 connection between Paul and Serwaa. 2998 01:47:54,600 --> 01:47:57,080 Nobody sees it; just her! 2999 01:47:58,000 --> 01:47:59,280 - You're probably right, but-- 3000 01:47:59,280 --> 01:48:00,560 I just-- 3001 01:48:00,600 --> 01:48:02,560 I don't think he wants to see me. 3002 01:48:02,600 --> 01:48:04,080 - Sometimes, you just have to-- 3003 01:48:04,080 --> 01:48:05,280 let go and-- 3004 01:48:05,280 --> 01:48:06,760 do what you want to do 3005 01:48:06,800 --> 01:48:09,280 and tell yourself, "What can come, can come". 3006 01:48:09,800 --> 01:48:11,160 - Now, you're taking my line. 3007 01:48:11,200 --> 01:48:12,280 - I know. 3008 01:48:12,800 --> 01:48:14,880 - Relationships ain't easy, dude, hm? 3009 01:48:14,880 --> 01:48:15,960 - Yeah. 3010 01:48:16,000 --> 01:48:18,160 - Now, if you're thinking or if you feel-- 3011 01:48:18,200 --> 01:48:21,160 that you have something special for Serwaa, my cousin, 3012 01:48:21,200 --> 01:48:22,360 then, by all means, Bro, 3013 01:48:22,400 --> 01:48:23,480 just go for it! 3014 01:48:23,480 --> 01:48:25,560 Give it your full 100%. 3015 01:48:25,600 --> 01:48:27,080 3016 01:48:27,080 --> 01:48:28,880 - But if there's any doubts, 3017 01:48:28,880 --> 01:48:31,080 I mean, even the smidgen of doubt, 3018 01:48:31,080 --> 01:48:34,080 then you would be wasting her life and yours! 3019 01:48:34,400 --> 01:48:36,080 And I don't think that's fair-- 3020 01:48:36,080 --> 01:48:37,560 to either of you! 3021 01:48:37,600 --> 01:48:38,680 3022 01:48:38,680 --> 01:48:39,760 - Okay. 3023 01:48:39,800 --> 01:48:41,760 Now, it's my wedding day, 3024 01:48:41,800 --> 01:48:42,960 not Paul's, 3025 01:48:43,000 --> 01:48:44,280 not Serwaa's, 3026 01:48:44,280 --> 01:48:46,080 and definitely not Gloria's! 3027 01:48:46,080 --> 01:48:47,880 3028 01:48:48,200 --> 01:48:49,360 I need you at my wedding. 3029 01:48:49,400 --> 01:48:50,680 You've got to be there. 3030 01:48:50,680 --> 01:48:51,760 3031 01:48:51,800 --> 01:48:54,280 We didn't get that dress from that expensive boutique 3032 01:48:54,280 --> 01:48:55,680 just so you don't get to wear it. 3033 01:48:55,680 --> 01:48:57,280 - Hmm? 3034 01:48:57,280 --> 01:48:59,760 I'm supposed to be the one giving you an inspirational speech! 3035 01:48:59,800 --> 01:49:00,880 - I know, right? 3036 01:49:00,880 --> 01:49:02,280 But we are running late. 3037 01:49:02,280 --> 01:49:05,080 I have got to get married before this baby-- 3038 01:49:05,080 --> 01:49:06,360 pops out of my stomach. 3039 01:49:09,080 --> 01:49:10,160 Sweety, 3040 01:49:10,200 --> 01:49:13,360 everything is going to get okay, hm? 3041 01:49:13,400 --> 01:49:16,360 Love always finds a way. 3042 01:49:16,400 --> 01:49:18,760 I have a good feeling about this one. 3043 01:49:18,800 --> 01:49:21,480 And the bride is never wrong. 3044 01:49:21,480 --> 01:49:22,560 You know that, right? 3045 01:49:22,600 --> 01:49:23,960 - Even on your wedding day. 3046 01:49:24,000 --> 01:49:25,080 - I know. 3047 01:49:25,080 --> 01:49:26,560 On my wedding day. 3048 01:49:26,600 --> 01:49:28,560 3049 01:49:28,600 --> 01:49:29,680 Excuse me. 3050 01:49:29,680 --> 01:49:31,160 Marian. 3051 01:49:31,200 --> 01:49:32,760 Melani, 3052 01:49:32,800 --> 01:49:35,480 if you two want to get married to each other, 3053 01:49:35,480 --> 01:49:37,480 we can figure that out. 3054 01:49:37,480 --> 01:49:39,080 If not, we are getting late. 3055 01:49:39,080 --> 01:49:41,360 So, we need to hurry up. - Yes, yes, we are getting late. 3056 01:49:41,400 --> 01:49:42,480 So that we go. 3057 01:49:42,600 --> 01:49:44,480 I really felt guilty about-- 3058 01:49:44,480 --> 01:49:47,480 what happened with the other woman; 3059 01:49:47,480 --> 01:49:50,480 and I know this sounds crazy, but-- 3060 01:49:51,000 --> 01:49:53,960 I'm actually happy I did it. 3061 01:49:56,800 --> 01:49:59,280 Because it showed me the truth. 3062 01:49:59,880 --> 01:50:01,880 I love Marian. 3063 01:50:01,880 --> 01:50:03,080 - Yeah. 3064 01:50:03,080 --> 01:50:07,360 - And there's nobody I would rather spend the rest of my life with! 3065 01:50:08,000 --> 01:50:09,480 That's it. 3066 01:50:09,480 --> 01:50:10,960 3067 01:50:11,000 --> 01:50:12,960 You are going to be-- 3068 01:50:13,000 --> 01:50:15,160 a wonderful dad. 3069 01:50:15,800 --> 01:50:17,880 Look, eventually. 3070 01:50:17,880 --> 01:50:18,960 Yeah. 3071 01:50:19,000 --> 01:50:20,080 - Oh, yeah. 3072 01:50:20,080 --> 01:50:21,280 Right. 3073 01:50:21,280 --> 01:50:22,760 Eventually. 3074 01:50:22,880 --> 01:50:24,280 - Yeah. 3075 01:50:24,680 --> 01:50:27,160 - What's that? 3076 01:50:27,280 --> 01:50:29,360 The traditional thing koraa is worse. - Eii! 3077 01:50:29,400 --> 01:50:30,960 - Why?! - Gloria, your son isn't coming? 3078 01:50:31,000 --> 01:50:32,080 - Ah? 3079 01:50:32,200 --> 01:50:34,480 3080 01:50:37,600 --> 01:50:38,880 3081 01:50:39,200 --> 01:50:41,280 The White girl, ooh. The White girl. - Mtchew. 3082 01:50:41,280 --> 01:50:42,360 - I told you. - Huh! 3083 01:50:42,400 --> 01:50:44,360 - Second girlfriend. - Oh, pfff! 3084 01:50:44,400 --> 01:50:45,880 Mtchew. 3085 01:50:50,800 --> 01:50:52,080 - Aunty, please sit down. 3086 01:50:52,080 --> 01:50:53,560 Where-- Where are you going? 3087 01:50:53,600 --> 01:50:55,080 - I'm going to look for my son. 3088 01:50:55,080 --> 01:50:56,680 - Where? Which one? 3089 01:50:56,680 --> 01:50:58,680 The womaniser or the angry one? 3090 01:50:58,680 --> 01:51:00,360 - Mtchew! 3091 01:51:03,880 --> 01:51:04,960 - Well-- 3092 01:51:05,000 --> 01:51:06,080 - Yeah? 3093 01:51:06,080 --> 01:51:08,080 - Let's shift the focus back on me, okay? 3094 01:51:08,080 --> 01:51:09,560 Especially since it's, uh-- 3095 01:51:09,600 --> 01:51:11,560 my wedding, hm? 3096 01:51:12,880 --> 01:51:14,880 - So, anything a best man can do? 3097 01:51:16,000 --> 01:51:18,280 - There is a lot the best man can do. 3098 01:51:18,280 --> 01:51:19,360 - Okay. 3099 01:51:19,400 --> 01:51:21,080 - And he can start by going in there 3100 01:51:21,080 --> 01:51:23,080 and telling Marian that I'm ready. 3101 01:51:23,080 --> 01:51:24,880 So, let's go do this thing! 3102 01:51:24,880 --> 01:51:26,160 - Okay. 3103 01:51:26,200 --> 01:51:27,960 Alright. 3104 01:51:28,000 --> 01:51:29,480 Yeah. 3105 01:51:30,080 --> 01:51:31,680 She's a lucky girl. 3106 01:51:31,680 --> 01:51:33,360 - No, dude. 3107 01:51:33,400 --> 01:51:35,360 I'm the lucky guy. 3108 01:51:38,880 --> 01:51:39,960 Oh, Paul! 3109 01:51:40,000 --> 01:51:41,080 - Yeah? 3110 01:51:41,080 --> 01:51:43,360 - Don't forget to follow your heart. 3111 01:51:52,280 --> 01:51:57,280 3112 01:52:03,280 --> 01:52:05,960 - So, this is the b*tch you are with? 3113 01:52:07,600 --> 01:52:09,080 - Excuse me, 3114 01:52:09,080 --> 01:52:10,960 who do you think you are calling "b*tch"-- 3115 01:52:11,000 --> 01:52:12,080 b*tch? 3116 01:52:12,080 --> 01:52:13,880 - Oh, you go feel real pain! 3117 01:52:13,880 --> 01:52:15,360 I'm gonna slap you like "Ryu"! 3118 01:52:15,400 --> 01:52:16,480 - And what is that? 3119 01:52:16,480 --> 01:52:17,680 Slap me! 3120 01:52:20,480 --> 01:52:21,560 - See, please-- 3121 01:52:21,600 --> 01:52:23,080 - And is that why you brought me here? - No, no, listen, 3122 01:52:23,080 --> 01:52:26,080 this is not the place to do this, yeah? Let's just find somewhere else and talk. 3123 01:52:26,080 --> 01:52:27,360 I beg you, please, 3124 01:52:27,400 --> 01:52:28,880 so we don't cause a rant, yeah? 3125 01:52:28,880 --> 01:52:29,960 - Eish! - Nana. 3126 01:52:30,000 --> 01:52:31,080 - So, please. 3127 01:52:31,080 --> 01:52:32,560 - Nana, I'm leaving. 3128 01:52:32,600 --> 01:52:33,760 Do not call me again. 3129 01:52:33,800 --> 01:52:34,880 Do not call me again! 3130 01:52:34,880 --> 01:52:37,160 You allow somebody else to insult me! 3131 01:52:37,200 --> 01:52:38,280 Leave me! 3132 01:52:38,280 --> 01:52:40,280 Don't touch me! Don't touch me! 3133 01:52:40,280 --> 01:52:41,560 I'll go. Leave me alone! 3134 01:52:42,200 --> 01:52:43,480 Leave me alone. 3135 01:52:43,480 --> 01:52:45,960 3136 01:52:46,400 --> 01:52:47,480 - Paul. - Yeah, Mommy? 3137 01:52:47,480 --> 01:52:48,760 - Is everything alright? 3138 01:52:48,800 --> 01:52:50,160 3139 01:52:50,200 --> 01:52:51,280 - Where is Serwaa? 3140 01:52:51,280 --> 01:52:52,960 - I-- I-- 3141 01:52:53,000 --> 01:52:55,080 I don't know. 3142 01:52:55,080 --> 01:52:57,480 Honestly, I haven't seen her since last night. 3143 01:52:57,480 --> 01:52:59,560 - You see? This has been my fear. 3144 01:52:59,600 --> 01:53:00,760 It has been my fear. 3145 01:53:00,800 --> 01:53:03,680 I have my suspicion about this Spanish girl, 3146 01:53:03,680 --> 01:53:05,160 huh! 3147 01:53:05,200 --> 01:53:06,280 Listen, 3148 01:53:06,280 --> 01:53:08,560 there can be nothing 3149 01:53:08,600 --> 01:53:09,880 between the two of you! 3150 01:53:09,880 --> 01:53:11,760 I forbid it! - Ah, what is this? 3151 01:53:11,800 --> 01:53:12,880 Mommy, honestly, 3152 01:53:12,880 --> 01:53:14,280 I don't have time for this. 3153 01:53:14,280 --> 01:53:15,360 - Herh! 3154 01:53:15,400 --> 01:53:17,360 Remember who you are talking to. 3155 01:53:17,400 --> 01:53:19,160 I am your mother 3156 01:53:19,200 --> 01:53:20,680 who sacrificed her life-- 3157 01:53:20,680 --> 01:53:22,280 for you! - Oh, Mommy, come on! 3158 01:53:22,280 --> 01:53:23,760 - Is that how to talk to your mother? 3159 01:53:23,800 --> 01:53:25,560 Paul, is that how to talk to me? 3160 01:53:25,600 --> 01:53:26,760 - Mommy-- 3161 01:53:26,800 --> 01:53:28,760 I need to go. Joojo is waiting for me. 3162 01:53:29,000 --> 01:53:30,280 - Paul! 3163 01:53:30,880 --> 01:53:32,560 Herh. 3164 01:53:33,080 --> 01:53:34,160 Hm! 3165 01:53:34,880 --> 01:53:39,880 3166 01:53:39,880 --> 01:53:41,160 - Herh, 3167 01:53:41,200 --> 01:53:42,880 Marian, paa! 3168 01:53:42,880 --> 01:53:46,360 See the way she kicked us out when we were enjoying our champagne! 3169 01:53:46,480 --> 01:53:47,560 - She's like that. 3170 01:53:47,600 --> 01:53:48,880 See her face! Mtchew. 3171 01:53:48,880 --> 01:53:50,160 - Come on, girls-- - 'Too-know'. 3172 01:53:50,200 --> 01:53:51,680 she's been under a lot of pressure. 3173 01:53:51,680 --> 01:53:53,560 - So? Is she the only person getting married? 3174 01:53:53,600 --> 01:53:54,160 - Mm-hmm! 3175 01:53:54,200 --> 01:53:55,280 - Um, hi, ladies. 3176 01:53:55,280 --> 01:53:56,560 Um, have you seen Marian? 3177 01:53:56,600 --> 01:53:58,160 - Shouldn't you be asking about Serwaa? 3178 01:53:58,200 --> 01:53:59,280 - Oh no! 3179 01:53:59,280 --> 01:54:01,080 Maybe, he should be-- 3180 01:54:01,080 --> 01:54:02,880 be asking about the Spanish girl, 3181 01:54:02,880 --> 01:54:04,480 or don't you think so? 3182 01:54:04,480 --> 01:54:06,280 - We know all about your Spanish girl. 3183 01:54:06,280 --> 01:54:06,960 - Mm-hmm. 3184 01:54:07,000 --> 01:54:08,480 - Look, ladies, I don't have time. 3185 01:54:08,480 --> 01:54:09,760 There's a wedding going on here. 3186 01:54:09,800 --> 01:54:10,480 - Mm? 3187 01:54:10,480 --> 01:54:12,960 What about your wedding, Paul? 3188 01:54:13,600 --> 01:54:14,960 - Yes. 3189 01:54:15,000 --> 01:54:16,080 Paul, 3190 01:54:16,080 --> 01:54:17,560 what about your wedding? 3191 01:54:17,600 --> 01:54:18,760 Where is your fiancée? 3192 01:54:18,800 --> 01:54:20,480 - Mommy, please. 3193 01:54:20,800 --> 01:54:21,880 - Hey! 3194 01:54:21,880 --> 01:54:23,760 It's a hallway party! 3195 01:54:23,800 --> 01:54:25,760 - Hey, Melani, I-- 3196 01:54:25,800 --> 01:54:26,880 - Ah! 3197 01:54:26,880 --> 01:54:27,960 There she is! 3198 01:54:28,000 --> 01:54:29,360 Ashawo! 3199 01:54:29,400 --> 01:54:30,760 - Ah, who - her or me? 3200 01:54:30,800 --> 01:54:31,880 - Her! 3201 01:54:31,880 --> 01:54:33,680 - Herh, I'm not ashawo. 3202 01:54:33,680 --> 01:54:34,880 Wha-- What is this? 3203 01:54:34,880 --> 01:54:36,560 - What are you doing here? 3204 01:54:36,600 --> 01:54:38,160 What are you doing here?! 3205 01:54:38,200 --> 01:54:39,280 - Aunty Gloria, 3206 01:54:39,280 --> 01:54:40,960 she is my guest. 3207 01:54:41,000 --> 01:54:43,080 And in case any of you forgot-- 3208 01:54:43,080 --> 01:54:45,280 this is my wedding! 3209 01:54:45,280 --> 01:54:46,560 - Marian, 3210 01:54:46,600 --> 01:54:48,480 don't let this foreigner show you her-- 3211 01:54:48,480 --> 01:54:50,360 disrespectful ways. 3212 01:54:50,400 --> 01:54:52,360 I don't know how they do it in Spain. 3213 01:54:52,600 --> 01:54:53,760 But in Ghana, 3214 01:54:53,800 --> 01:54:55,880 we respect our elders. 3215 01:54:55,880 --> 01:54:57,280 - Aunty Gloria, 3216 01:54:57,280 --> 01:54:59,080 with all due respect, 3217 01:54:59,080 --> 01:55:01,760 you've not respected me or my wedding. 3218 01:55:01,800 --> 01:55:04,080 How can you ask Melani not to come to my wedding? 3219 01:55:04,080 --> 01:55:05,160 - Eii! 3220 01:55:05,200 --> 01:55:05,760 - Mm. 3221 01:55:05,800 --> 01:55:06,880 - Mommy, is that true? 3222 01:55:06,880 --> 01:55:08,680 - She has no right to be here! 3223 01:55:08,680 --> 01:55:10,480 - Oh! - She has every right to be here. 3224 01:55:10,480 --> 01:55:12,080 She is my guest! 3225 01:55:12,080 --> 01:55:15,680 - Mommy, it is you who have no right to ask her not to come to the wedding. 3226 01:55:15,680 --> 01:55:16,760 - But, Paul-- 3227 01:55:16,800 --> 01:55:17,880 - Oh yes, Paul, 3228 01:55:17,880 --> 01:55:19,560 defend your Spanish ashawo. 3229 01:55:19,600 --> 01:55:21,680 - Mm-hmm. - Argh, I've had enough of her! 3230 01:55:22,800 --> 01:55:23,480 - Herh! 3231 01:55:23,480 --> 01:55:25,280 - Oh, my cake! 3232 01:55:25,280 --> 01:55:26,960 - Herh! 3233 01:55:27,400 --> 01:55:29,360 See what you've done! 3234 01:55:29,880 --> 01:55:31,760 So, you have no respect-- 3235 01:55:31,800 --> 01:55:33,760 for our heritage, huh? 3236 01:55:33,800 --> 01:55:35,080 I know why you are doing this. 3237 01:55:35,080 --> 01:55:38,280 You just want to ruin my son's engagement, isn't it? 3238 01:55:38,280 --> 01:55:39,560 - Mommy, stop it! 3239 01:55:39,600 --> 01:55:41,880 - Why? - This is not Melani's fault! 3240 01:55:41,880 --> 01:55:43,880 - But, Paul-- - No, Mommy. 3241 01:55:43,880 --> 01:55:45,160 Look, Mommy-- 3242 01:55:45,200 --> 01:55:46,560 I love you, Mommy. 3243 01:55:46,600 --> 01:55:48,360 Look what you've done for me, Nana-- 3244 01:55:48,400 --> 01:55:50,560 B-- but you have to stop trying to control my life 3245 01:55:50,600 --> 01:55:52,560 and allow me to follow my heart. 3246 01:55:52,600 --> 01:55:54,760 - Pauly, I am your mother! 3247 01:55:54,800 --> 01:55:56,280 And I know what is best for you. 3248 01:55:56,280 --> 01:55:57,360 - No, Mommy. 3249 01:55:57,400 --> 01:55:59,360 You know what you think is best for me. 3250 01:55:59,400 --> 01:56:00,960 Only I know what is best for me. 3251 01:56:01,000 --> 01:56:03,960 And I have to start taking responsibilities for my life, mistakes and all. 3252 01:56:04,000 --> 01:56:05,680 - But, Paul-- - No, Mommy! 3253 01:56:07,280 --> 01:56:08,560 - Um-- 3254 01:56:08,880 --> 01:56:10,160 Marian, Paul, 3255 01:56:10,200 --> 01:56:12,160 I am very sorry to do this, 3256 01:56:12,280 --> 01:56:16,080 but I think the guests have been waiting for close to 5 hours 3257 01:56:16,080 --> 01:56:17,360 and if we don't go now, 3258 01:56:17,400 --> 01:56:19,080 there may be a riot. 3259 01:56:19,080 --> 01:56:20,760 Please, let's go. 3260 01:56:20,800 --> 01:56:23,160 - Huh? If she's not late, it is not a Ghanaian wedding. 3261 01:56:23,200 --> 01:56:24,280 Marian? 3262 01:56:24,280 --> 01:56:25,560 - Fine 3263 01:56:25,600 --> 01:56:26,680 It's just a cake. 3264 01:56:26,680 --> 01:56:29,160 YOLO, I'm still getting married today. 3265 01:56:29,200 --> 01:56:32,480 - Yes! So, let's go quickly and get this done. Please. 3266 01:56:32,480 --> 01:56:33,680 - Yes, please. - Let's go. 3267 01:56:33,680 --> 01:56:35,160 - Let me help you with this. 3268 01:56:41,280 --> 01:56:46,280 3269 01:57:03,600 --> 01:57:06,080 - If anyone has objections to this marriage-- 3270 01:57:06,600 --> 01:57:08,160 please speak up 3271 01:57:08,200 --> 01:57:09,560 or forever-- 3272 01:57:09,600 --> 01:57:11,160 shut your mouth. 3273 01:57:12,200 --> 01:57:14,160 - Excusez-moi. 3274 01:57:17,800 --> 01:57:19,280 - Gigi? - Gigi?! 3275 01:57:26,000 --> 01:57:27,480 - Eish! 3276 01:57:28,080 --> 01:57:29,160 - Eii! 3277 01:57:31,280 --> 01:57:32,360 - Hi. 3278 01:57:32,680 --> 01:57:34,360 So, Paul, 3279 01:57:34,400 --> 01:57:36,360 you're not the one getting married, are you? 3280 01:57:36,400 --> 01:57:37,680 - No! 3281 01:57:39,600 --> 01:57:41,080 - Oops. 3282 01:57:41,080 --> 01:57:42,280 Sorry, guys! 3283 01:57:42,280 --> 01:57:43,360 Have fun! 3284 01:57:43,400 --> 01:57:45,160 Until then, baby! 3285 01:57:45,200 --> 01:57:46,280 - What a galamsey wedding! 3286 01:57:46,280 --> 01:57:47,760 - Young lady-- 3287 01:57:49,800 --> 01:57:52,280 She's on Tinder. 3288 01:57:59,080 --> 01:58:00,360 Well, um-- 3289 01:58:00,400 --> 01:58:01,560 if there-- 3290 01:58:01,600 --> 01:58:04,280 are no other objections, we may proceed. 3291 01:58:05,880 --> 01:58:07,360 I now-- 3292 01:58:07,400 --> 01:58:08,760 pronounce you-- 3293 01:58:08,800 --> 01:58:10,760 husband and wife. 3294 01:58:10,800 --> 01:58:12,080 You may kiss the bride. 3295 01:58:12,080 --> 01:58:17,080 3296 01:58:23,000 --> 01:58:24,480 - Wow! 3297 01:58:35,800 --> 01:58:36,880 - Go, Joojo! 3298 01:58:43,200 --> 01:58:44,280 - Go, Joojo! 3299 01:58:51,600 --> 01:58:53,560 - Ayeekoo ooh! 3300 01:58:53,600 --> 01:58:58,560 3301 01:59:00,600 --> 01:59:05,560 3302 01:59:08,200 --> 01:59:09,880 - This love is fine. It's fine. 3303 01:59:09,880 --> 01:59:11,880 - Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah-- 3304 01:59:43,680 --> 01:59:44,760 - Aunty Gloria. 3305 01:59:44,800 --> 01:59:46,560 - What do you want?! 3306 01:59:47,080 --> 01:59:49,360 - I-- I'm sorry for what just happened. 3307 01:59:51,400 --> 01:59:53,880 - For turning my son against me? 3308 01:59:56,200 --> 01:59:57,680 - With all due respect, I-- 3309 01:59:57,680 --> 01:59:58,760 I didn't do that. 3310 01:59:58,800 --> 02:00:00,280 I-- He's a grown man. 3311 02:00:00,280 --> 02:00:02,280 He makes his own decisions. 3312 02:00:02,600 --> 02:00:05,080 - I suppose you've gotten what you want. 3313 02:00:05,600 --> 02:00:08,080 - I don't know what I want, Aunty. 3314 02:00:08,080 --> 02:00:09,160 - Mm. 3315 02:00:09,600 --> 02:00:11,080 - Please, Aunty, I-- 3316 02:00:11,080 --> 02:00:12,160 It would mean so much me-- 3317 02:00:12,200 --> 02:00:14,880 if you could find a way to forgive me. 3318 02:00:14,880 --> 02:00:16,360 - Why?! 3319 02:00:16,400 --> 02:00:17,880 - I-- I-- 3320 02:00:17,880 --> 02:00:19,080 3321 02:00:19,080 --> 02:00:20,560 - I-- 3322 02:00:20,600 --> 02:00:22,760 - It's because you love my son. 3323 02:00:22,800 --> 02:00:24,160 Why don't you admit it? 3324 02:00:24,200 --> 02:00:25,560 You love him! You love him! 3325 02:00:25,600 --> 02:00:26,960 Why don't you admit it? 3326 02:00:27,000 --> 02:00:28,560 - M-- Maybe, there is something there, 3327 02:00:28,600 --> 02:00:29,680 but I-- I-- 3328 02:00:29,680 --> 02:00:31,280 I don't know, but-- 3329 02:00:31,280 --> 02:00:32,360 I-- I know you should-- 3330 02:00:32,400 --> 02:00:34,080 be in the wedding with your family. 3331 02:00:34,080 --> 02:00:37,480 - You think by being nice to me will make me like you? 3332 02:00:37,480 --> 02:00:38,560 Look, 3333 02:00:38,600 --> 02:00:40,160 I will never like you! 3334 02:00:40,200 --> 02:00:42,360 And you will not be good enough for my son! 3335 02:00:42,400 --> 02:00:44,680 And you will never be good enough for him! 3336 02:00:44,680 --> 02:00:46,080 Do you understand? 3337 02:00:46,080 --> 02:00:48,080 Do you understand?! 3338 02:00:49,480 --> 02:00:51,560 - Aunty, it's not up to you. 3339 02:00:51,880 --> 02:00:53,360 - Eeeh? 3340 02:00:54,200 --> 02:00:56,880 ɛnyɛ asɛm aah, anka ma kasɛ, "We shall see"! 3341 02:00:58,600 --> 02:01:03,560 3342 02:01:14,200 --> 02:01:15,880 - Can I sit? 3343 02:01:16,800 --> 02:01:18,480 - Sure. 3344 02:01:18,480 --> 02:01:19,760 Where have you been? 3345 02:01:19,800 --> 02:01:21,480 - I've been calling you since last night. 3346 02:01:21,480 --> 02:01:22,960 - Thinking. 3347 02:01:23,280 --> 02:01:25,880 I've been thinking, Paul. 3348 02:01:25,880 --> 02:01:27,880 I have something to confess to you. 3349 02:01:28,200 --> 02:01:29,680 - What is it? 3350 02:01:30,080 --> 02:01:32,360 - I-- I don't want to marry you. 3351 02:01:32,680 --> 02:01:33,760 - Serwaa, let's-- 3352 02:01:33,800 --> 02:01:34,880 - There's more. 3353 02:01:34,880 --> 02:01:36,960 I'm in love with Jacob-- 3354 02:01:37,000 --> 02:01:38,080 but he has no money; 3355 02:01:38,080 --> 02:01:40,280 and Mama said it made more sense to-- 3356 02:01:40,280 --> 02:01:43,280 get married, since our families knew each other. 3357 02:01:43,280 --> 02:01:46,080 And with everything that's been going on these past few weeks, 3358 02:01:46,080 --> 02:01:49,360 I have been trying so hard to make this work-- 3359 02:01:49,400 --> 02:01:50,480 planning the wedding, 3360 02:01:50,480 --> 02:01:52,960 getting connected to you and-- 3361 02:01:53,000 --> 02:01:57,960 3362 02:02:00,080 --> 02:02:02,360 I guess what I'm trying to say is-- 3363 02:02:02,400 --> 02:02:04,680 I hope you can forgive me. 3364 02:02:13,280 --> 02:02:15,160 - Serwaa, 3365 02:02:15,200 --> 02:02:17,160 I accept your apology. 3366 02:02:18,880 --> 02:02:21,160 You just go and follow your heart. 3367 02:02:21,200 --> 02:02:22,880 Okay? 3368 02:02:41,800 --> 02:02:43,680 Hello, Mommy. - Hey. 3369 02:02:43,680 --> 02:02:44,880 - Can we have a dance? 3370 02:02:44,880 --> 02:02:46,160 - Ah, but you are not a dancer. 3371 02:02:46,200 --> 02:02:47,280 - Oh, come on! 3372 02:02:47,280 --> 02:02:49,880 What son will I be if I don't dance with my Mom? 3373 02:02:49,880 --> 02:02:52,360 Argh, there you go! 3374 02:02:52,800 --> 02:02:54,080 - Okay. 3375 02:02:57,000 --> 02:02:59,560 - Also, you look-- You look-- s-- stunning! 3376 02:02:59,600 --> 02:03:01,080 - Thank you, my son. - One-two-- 3377 02:03:01,080 --> 02:03:02,160 - Eii. 3378 02:03:02,280 --> 02:03:03,360 Eii. 3379 02:03:12,800 --> 02:03:14,560 You don't know how to dance. - Mom. 3380 02:03:14,600 --> 02:03:15,880 - Let's go like this. - Oh, don't make fun of me. 3381 02:03:15,880 --> 02:03:17,360 - Mom, Mom, Mom-- - One-two-three, let's go like this. 3382 02:03:17,400 --> 02:03:19,280 - See, I thought I saw someone try to attack you. 3383 02:03:19,280 --> 02:03:20,760 Then, I realised it was Paul dancing. 3384 02:03:20,800 --> 02:03:22,760 - Oh, shut up! 3385 02:03:22,800 --> 02:03:24,560 He doesn't know how to dance. - Oh, too bad. 3386 02:03:24,600 --> 02:03:26,080 - You must actually take him to somebody-- - Mm-hmm. 3387 02:03:26,080 --> 02:03:27,560 - to teach him how to dance. 3388 02:03:27,600 --> 02:03:29,280 - Seriously, from afar-- 3389 02:03:29,280 --> 02:03:31,160 I thought someone was attacking your mother. 3390 02:03:31,200 --> 02:03:33,760 - Oh! - Before I realised, it was Paul dancing! 3391 02:03:33,800 --> 02:03:35,280 - You guys-- 3392 02:03:35,680 --> 02:03:37,360 - Hehe, anyway-- 3393 02:03:37,400 --> 02:03:39,160 my sons, I'm so proud of you. 3394 02:03:39,200 --> 02:03:41,280 - Aww-- - Whatever you do in life, 3395 02:03:41,280 --> 02:03:43,880 always remember that your Mommy 3396 02:03:43,880 --> 02:03:46,880 and then Daddy, wherever he is right now, 3397 02:03:46,880 --> 02:03:49,080 - Aww. - was very proud of you. 3398 02:03:49,080 --> 02:03:51,080 I love you all, and-- - We too. 3399 02:03:51,080 --> 02:03:53,560 - Thank you, Mom. - I'm so proud of you. 3400 02:03:53,600 --> 02:03:55,680 - Thank you. Thank you, Mom. Mwah! 3401 02:03:55,680 --> 02:03:57,160 - Love you. - Love you too. 3402 02:03:57,200 --> 02:03:58,680 - Thanks. - Argh. 3403 02:03:58,680 --> 02:04:01,280 Let me retire for the young ones to enjoy themselves. 3404 02:04:01,280 --> 02:04:02,360 - Aww. - Okay, Mommy. 3405 02:04:02,400 --> 02:04:03,760 - Do enjoy yourselves. - Sure, Mom. 3406 02:04:03,800 --> 02:04:05,880 - But teach him how to dance. - Mm-hmm, me I'm going to do that. 3407 02:04:05,880 --> 02:04:07,560 - Come on, Mommy. Ah. 3408 02:04:09,800 --> 02:04:11,760 - Eii, Charley, 3409 02:04:12,200 --> 02:04:14,080 what be the name of your dance moves? 3410 02:04:14,080 --> 02:04:15,960 - It's called 'Mind-your-own-business' dance. 3411 02:04:18,000 --> 02:04:19,680 - I think it's popular in Rwanda. 3412 02:04:21,480 --> 02:04:23,760 - It's fine, I'm just not minding you guys. 3413 02:04:28,000 --> 02:04:30,560 - The little dance that I did, I am so tired. 3414 02:04:30,600 --> 02:04:31,680 Eeeh? 3415 02:04:35,280 --> 02:04:37,560 - Hey, Melani. 3416 02:04:48,000 --> 02:04:49,080 3417 02:04:49,080 --> 02:04:51,360 I think you should go and dance with her. 3418 02:04:51,800 --> 02:04:52,880 - No no no; she won't. 3419 02:04:52,880 --> 02:04:54,080 Not after-- after last night. 3420 02:04:54,080 --> 02:04:56,080 - Oh, Paul! Remember you did say you love her 3421 02:04:56,080 --> 02:04:57,280 in front of everyone - Mm-hmm. 3422 02:04:57,280 --> 02:04:58,480 - at dinner last night. - Yes! 3423 02:04:58,480 --> 02:05:00,560 - Just go; just go and dance with her. 3424 02:05:00,600 --> 02:05:02,160 Paul, go! 3425 02:05:02,200 --> 02:05:04,360 - Ah, I'm sure she has forgiven you by now. 3426 02:05:04,400 --> 02:05:06,360 Everything that happened is in the past. 3427 02:05:06,400 --> 02:05:07,880 It's past and gone. 3428 02:05:07,880 --> 02:05:09,360 Go and dance with her. 3429 02:05:09,400 --> 02:05:10,560 - Go. Go go go go go! 3430 02:05:10,600 --> 02:05:11,680 - Go! 3431 02:05:11,680 --> 02:05:13,680 Mtchew. Go! 3432 02:05:13,680 --> 02:05:15,680 - Bro, just go! 3433 02:05:26,880 --> 02:05:27,960 - Mtchew. 3434 02:05:28,000 --> 02:05:29,480 - Hi. 3435 02:05:29,480 --> 02:05:30,560 - Hi. 3436 02:05:34,800 --> 02:05:35,880 - What are you doing? 3437 02:05:35,880 --> 02:05:37,280 - I'm dancing. 3438 02:05:37,280 --> 02:05:38,360 - Mm. 3439 02:05:38,400 --> 02:05:40,280 I didn't know this is how they dance in Ghana. 3440 02:05:40,280 --> 02:05:41,360 - Ah, well, um-- 3441 02:05:41,400 --> 02:05:42,760 This is actually-- 3442 02:05:42,800 --> 02:05:44,280 the new moves in Ghana right now. 3443 02:05:44,800 --> 02:05:46,280 - Mm? - Yeah. 3444 02:05:46,280 --> 02:05:48,560 - That means there's a lot I need to learn about Ghana. 3445 02:05:48,600 --> 02:05:49,680 - Oh yeah, if-- 3446 02:05:49,680 --> 02:05:50,760 If you give-- 3447 02:05:50,800 --> 02:05:53,760 Ghana some more time, Ghana's gonna show you some more. 3448 02:05:55,600 --> 02:05:57,080 - Are we still talking about dancing? 3449 02:05:57,080 --> 02:05:59,080 3450 02:06:01,000 --> 02:06:02,680 - It's been a very crazy weekend. 3451 02:06:03,600 --> 02:06:05,880 - It's been a very Ghanaian wedding. 3452 02:06:07,200 --> 02:06:08,280 Hey, um-- 3453 02:06:08,280 --> 02:06:09,360 Melani, 3454 02:06:09,400 --> 02:06:11,280 I'm really sorry-- 3455 02:06:11,280 --> 02:06:12,960 - You're WHAT? 3456 02:06:13,000 --> 02:06:17,960 196308