All language subtitles for PSYCHOLOGIST EPISODE 39 [VIKI]

♫ With no specter to cut off the waves ♫

♫ With no halo bestowed by heaven ♫

♫ I should admit I was born ordinary ♫

♫ But I'm not resigned to the silence on stage ♫

♫ Break it down ♫

♫ I'm taking over now ♫

♫ Tough it out. That's what I'm all about ♫

♫ We are destined to break through a mental wall ♫

♫ To unlock a ray of light ♫

♫ We know there will be infinite waves ♫

♫ Getting in my way ♫

♫ They will build up into roads that enable me to climb high and see far ♫

♫ To test me, inspire me, make me and give me courage ♫

♫ I am the master ♫

♫ Of my own destiny ♫

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Episode 39

So our previous guesses are all wrong.

Professor Ji isn't Jiahui's adoptive father,

but his biological father.

Jiahui has been brought
up by his adoptive father.

In this case, Fu Tang
is Professor Ji's patient.

But there is something wrong.

Fu Tang said she was taken
away by Jiahui's adoptive father.

Then Jiahui should hate
his adoptive father more.

Why does he hate Professor Ji?

We don't know how Jiahui gets
along with his adoptive father.

But we know one point.

It was his biological father's
absence that led to all these

miseries.

Maybe he transfers this
hatred to Professor Ji.

He's been abandoned by his biological father.

Of course, he'll hate him.

Keep your voice down.

They're outside.

What's up?

Can't I even express my emotions?

He's indeed pitiful.

But he did something wrong to you.

If it were me, I
wouldn't have let him in.

Is it right, Lili?

Don't taunt me in insinuation.

It is a special situation, isn't it?

That's his biological mother, right?

I won't compromise
in matters of principle.

Why are you angry?

Mrs. Fu.

We're leaving now.

Thanks for lending us your kitchen.

Let's go.

I can't compromise.

Thanks.

Can you play a song for me?

I'd like to hear it.

Please.

Very good.

Look at my left hand.

Did you see it?

Raise your left hand like this.

Yeah.

Put it here.

Here.

Yeah.

Move it ahead a little bit.

Hang it over here.

Use your chin to pin it down.

Prefect.

Let's play a long note.

Look.

Play a long note.

Music

is flowing.

I can see

it flowing.

Does it look good?

Yes.

It's flowing

with colorful lights.

Enough.

Let's go.

Let's go.

Didn't you say it looked good?

Nothing can be retained.

No wonderful things can be retained.

If only I had a music box.

Then I could keep

the music in the music box for some time.

Yeah, a music box.

Yes.

So I like a music box best.

It can

collect the music.

I like a music box best.

Memories can also be put inside.

So can everything wonderful.

I really don't know

if I should trust him.

Miss He, I didn't want to lose my temper.

But the moment I
thought of what I saw, I…

How could he do that thing?

Did you mean Song?

I really hope

I saw it wrong.

It's so high-end.

Of course.

Get in the car.

She said she had seen everything.

She pulled a long face when I came back.

But that's not like what she said.

Nothing has happened.

Song, calm down.

Take it easy.

Li Lanzhi,

mentioned by Fang, set up a stall

accidentally next to my company.

We're on the same way back, anyway.

I thought it was tiring for
her to carry so many things.

So I wanted to give her a ride.

That's all for our relationship.

Then how do you understand
Fang minded it so much?

She likes to speak or act on hearsay.

Once she hears of something,
she will exaggerate it.

So you think Fang's guess about
this matter is ungrounded and fake?

Of course, it isn't true.

After so many years spent
with her, I know her well.

I just talked more with others.

But she thought we had had an affair.

Shall I turn off the air conditioner?

No, I'm not cold.

Chang, you drove your boss's car.

What about him?

He'll call me if he has anything to do.

How lordly!

So in your description, you
communicate with Li Lanzhi

in a different way from with Fang.

Yes.

I'm a man.

I also hope my wife can adore me

and care about me more in life.

But you know how Fang is.

So due to Li Lanzhi, you
feel a little disappointed

about your marriage.

It can be said so.

But we really didn't have an affair.

I don't have the guts.

You hid your emotional needs from Fang.

And your relationship
with Li Lanzhi makes you

guilty about your marriage.

I never have that in my mind.

But when it comes to guilt…

She won't understand it.

I just hope Fang can be more
considerate and gentler to me.

I never want to replace
her with another woman.

After he knew that
woman, he came back later.

Could a group of old men dance so late?

I'm sorry.

I just wanted to spend a
little more time with Li Lanzhi.

He did not only come back
late, but also lied to me.

Then why do you think Fang has
a new misconception about you?

It's perhaps because of those days

when Li Lanzhi just joined us and
wasn't familiar with dance steps,

so after dancing, I taught her alone

and went back over ten minutes late.

He usually came back at eight o'clock,

but that day, he didn't come back even at nine o'clock.

Then I called him.

Fang then called me.

I asked where he was.

I lied to her.

He said he was eating night
snacks with a dance partner.

But unexpectedly, my dance partner
who went back first exposed my lie.

When I went downstairs, I saw
his dance partner taking a walk

with his wife and child.

What about him?

He must be on a date
with that woman alone.

She said… He must be on a
date with that woman alone.

Get ready!

Right.

Left.

Right.

Two, three. Turn your body.

Look, we were just dancing
like this, devoid of any intimacy.

He did such a thing.

How could I not suspect him?

I understand your feelings.

Lying will make you angry

and damage the trust between you.

You wanted to avoid Fang's
discontent and complaints,

just in a pattern of seek-and-run
we mentioned last time.

You wanted to get some
breathing room by avoiding.

Yes.

Most of the time, I could fool her.

But she found it by accident that time.

I have no other choice.

I can't break off with
all women except her

just because of her doubt, right?

Is that

Fang's request?

No, she didn't say that.

But do you know how she
talked about the business

between Li Lanzhi and me
with her relatives and friends?

I think that's just what she wants.

Faced with Fang's discontent and
complaints, you've compromised.

But there is also much discontent
accumulated in your heart.

Not really.

She has been dominant
since we fell in love.

I'm used to it.

If there is a person who she doesn't allow

me to have something to
do with, I'll have to avoid him.

You don't want him to have
contact with other women.

He was afraid you would get
angry, so he lied to you, right?

In fact, I know

he doesn't have the guts to do that.

So she always asked you to
break off with some people.

Yes.

I don't want him to obey me

or want to control him.

I just think without me,
he could do nothing.

A while ago, one of my classmates
at high school contacted me.

But when I was ready to go to
see him, she purposely asked me

to do something else.

One of his classmates at high school

hasn't contacted him for a long
time But he came to our house,

and asked to borrow money.

If I hadn't stopped him, he would
have pretended to be generous.

As time went by, my classmate
didn't contact me anymore.

Is he kind or stupid?

What do you think?

She looks proud and arrogant.

But she also has many disadvantages.

She's so mean in life.

She has no discernment.

Besides, she tends to be brainwashed

by fake knowledge of keeping healthy.

It's more than wasting money.

She also always takes me as a guinea pig.

What makes me saddest is that she
always told those rumors to others,

which embarrassed me.

Before meeting Li Lanzhi,

I thought it was no big deal.

But once having a comparison, I
can see the differences between them.

No matter what I do, Li
Lanzhi will respect me.

So she lets you realize you've
been always unhappy with Fang.

Yes.

Sometimes, I did have that thought.

How was your relationship
when you just knew each other?

Did she make a lot of demands on you?

In fact, at the early
stage of our relationship,

she was the same as now.

Then I thought she was capable

and got things arranged.

I'm a little weak-headed.

There were some things
she could help me decide.

You know what?

What a couple appreciates
about each other in the beginning

is often what drives
them apart in the future.

Yes.

This will happen over time.

She controlled everything of mine.

At first, I didn't want
to argue with her.

But later, she didn't even
bother to ask me for any opinion.

I can understand it.

In the beginning, you
took her as your umbrella.

You would think she was warm and sunny.

But after a long time, you would
find many disadvantages of her.

Most importantly,

she tended to ignore
your emotional needs.

Have you ever told your
real thoughts to him?

For example, you want to help
him get rid of this useless friend.

Yes.

I told him that person came
to him with a bad intention.

But how could I get it through to him?

Have you ever told your real
thoughts to him with sincerity?

For example,

you don't want a divorce.

Have you discovered you
seem to often avoid expressing

your real thoughts?

Is that so?

Let's have an assumption.

Song wants to go out to dance,
but you don't want him to go.

What will you say?

Where are you going?

Look, you said "where are you going?",

instead of "please stay here or don't go".

Much of the time

argument… I'm gonna dance.

Go to see that bitchy widow again?

Your words are so sharp.

Avoid… Who are you calling?

China Mobile.

Abuse… You always behaved
like this in front of others.

It's not the directest way
to solve those problems

through external forces.

I think you'd better just speak it out,

which is easier and more efficient.

In each marriage, the priority
and thoughts of each one

are different.

But now that you're a couple,

you can't just ask each other for something.

It's also very important to
know each other's needs

and contributions.

A marriage will be the
stablest when giving and taking

strike a balance.

Before the end of this counselling,
I'd like to assign homework

to you.

After going back, you can recall
when you argued most fiercely

over the years and record it.

I hope you can bring it to me
when you come to me next time.

What do you think?

It looks good.

Your son is handsome.

So he looks handsome in each suit.

Pack them up.

And this.

OK.

How much is it? I'll pay it.

I'll pay it.

It's my gift for you.

Hello, the total price is 1,280 yuan.

These two are too thick.

I don't like either of them.

I'll take this one.

OK.

This one costs 350 yuan.

It's fine.

I can't wear them all.

Here you are.

Thanks.

Thank you for your patronage. Please take care.

Mom, I'm back.

Why didn't you call me in advance?

I'll cook some dishes for you.

There is no need. I'm not hungry.

Why do you just eat this?

If I cook many dishes,
I can't eat them up.

This is enough.

Mom.

Sit down.

I'm sorry.

I shouldn't have talked
to you so rudely last time.

It's fine.

I didn't take it to heart.

If you're unwilling, it's fine.

It's quite good to live with you.

Sit down.

You know what?

The supermarket offered

a discount yesterday.

All the old ladies went there.

I bought grapes and watermelon,
which are you favorite fruits.

I bought a bunch.

Look at the grapes.

They're so fresh.

What's up, mom?

My arm hurts.

What?

Why does it happen?

Because I was too greedy yesterday.

I couldn't carry so much,

but I still carried them.

I'm fine.

My arm probably…

I'll get you a plaster.

I suddenly remember I have something

to do in my office this afternoon.

I'll put the plaster here.

Bye, mom.

Take care. It's hot.

Have a good rest.

I'll come to see you tomorrow.

Really?

Yes.

Where do you want to go tomorrow?

Beach.

No problem.

Well, you get some rest.

I'm leaving now.

I'm sorry.

If I had saved more money,

I could have bought the two coats.

The marvelous Snail

Why are you unhappy?

Hasn't Jin replied to you?

I've made up my mind.

If he still doesn't reply
to me, I'll defriend him.

Who cares?

I think he's quite responsible.

Wait for a while longer.

Don't defriend others so casually.

Didn't you go back to your mom's house?

Why did you come back?

When I arrived there,

I knew he would not come back anymore.

But for a while…

I don't know.

I felt uncomfortable.

I didn't know how to face my mom.

So I left.

I can't believe you
become independent so late.

Why do you taunt me today?

Have you been provoked?

Who's it?

Who comes here so late?

Could it be your friend?

Why are you here?

Use our kitchen again?

I'm here to apologize.

I brought some beer.

If I don't drink it, perhaps
I won't have the guts

to say what I want say.

I'm sorry for

bugging your house.

How did you do it?

Do you remember you asked
me to come over to your house

to fix the Wi-Fi?

I found an opportunity to install

a surveillance plugin on He Dun's phone?

Anything else?

And

I made Lili fall down on purpose
and gave her acupuncture treatments

to win her trust,

approach Mrs. Zhao

and get some information from her.

What the… Lili.

Anything else?

You've known the matters of Yao Kexin

and your senior Li Yun.

I also tried to destroy your counselling

with each one of your visitors,
including Zhang Lizi and Mo.

Ye Jiahui,

if you want to hurt Professor Ji and me,

you shouldn't get others involved.

I'm sorry.

I'm so sorry.

Is it helpful?

I just hope you can forgive me.

OK.

I'll ask you one last thing.

Is Fang Zhongyi's matter
the show you made for us?

No, that's real.

Well, you aren't completely heartless.

I can't forgive you for
now for other things.

But I have to thank you

for helping me that time.

Ye Jiahui,

I think sometimes you're really horrible.

I really don't know which is the
real you and which is the fake.

Take now as an example.

I don't know if you're sincere.

Today I'm here

just to apologize

to you.

I'm grateful to have
you guys as my friends.

It doesn't matter

whether you forgive me or not.

I can accept all the consequences.

You know what?

You can't go back

once you do some damage.

I was really happy

over the past days.

Thank you.

I'm sorry.

Ye Jiahui,

can we believe what you just said?

Yes.

It's time to get reacquainted.

Hello, I'm He Dun.

Nice to meet you.

Hello,

I'm Ye Jiahui.

Nice to meet you too.

Well, in this case,

we're still friends.

Come back.

Who's going to say it first?

Me.

The wedding between Fang and
me was held in the Harvest Qilin Hotel

right next to the city hall.

Her mother said her daughter's
wedding had to be held magnificently.

We planned to save the
money to buy a house.

As a result, we appropriated part of it

to hold a great banquet.

The rest

was used to buy an aiwa
recorder, an imported product,

because she liked singing.

And we bought a video recorder.

Wasn't it because you liked dancing?

I didn't expect such a
beautiful bride also liked money.

How much did you count?

Let me have a look.

Take care.

This camera gives a pretty good shot.

Of course.

I bought it in a foreign exchange shop.

It's an imported product.

How much is it?

Over 5,000.

It's so expensive.

Are you angry?

Your mom just gave 5,000

as my dowry.

You think my mom gave you too little?

You've spent the money
for buying a house.

When will we be able to move out?

OK, I'm wrong.

Heng Bin happened to come back.

I asked him to get a foreign exchange voucher.

He gave us 800 yuan.

We can't spend this money.

The wedding between him
and Li Yuan is coming up soon.

Don't buy things randomly from now on.

We can show it to him when he grows up.

Don't change the topic.

OK, you're the boss.

I won't do that anymore.

This is the first confrontation
between you that lets you realize

your confronted views on consumption.

I compromised.

Then she was in charge of the money.

I had to ask her before I wanted to buy something.

Song, if I hadn't saved,

could we have bought a
house for us so quickly?

I admit you indeed had credit.

I'll say something too.

On Mao's 18th birthday,
we had a big fight.

It was the summer of his second year of high school.

He was going to be a senior soon.

It happened to be his birthday.

He wanted to watch a basketball game.

Look at the camera.

Watch out!

Don't hit others.

Well, go over there.

I'll have a talk with your dad.

OK.

You acted before reporting to me.

I don't want to argue in front of Mao.

Bring him back right now.

I've promised him.

This thing is so important.

Have you discussed it with me?

His NCEE is coming up next year.

It's a critical time now.

Evening News in City H
The superstar Kobe arrives in Guangzhou to start his journey in China.

It's a once-in-a-lifetime exam.

His 18th birthday is
also once-in-a-lifetime.

Mom!

Help me hold this and record it.

Do you know him?

Evening News in City H
The superstar Kobe arrives in Guangzhou to start his journey in China.

He's Kobe who scored
81 points in one game.

Is he handsome?

Yeah.

Yes.

You record it yourself.

I don't know how to use the camera.

Go buy some water.

OK.

Go tell him right now.

Don't you know our Mao's situation?

He can just be enrolled
in a first-tier university.

If he doesn't study in summer,
his grades will be worse.

What if he's even worse than
Heng Bin's son in the future?

Why are you so unreasonable?

Why do you always compare
Mao with Heng Bin's son?

We're different.

Do you think I'm willing to do it?

If Heng Bin's son doesn't
study well, he can go abroad

because his family is rich.

Then what about us?

What can we provide for our son?

I'm also willing to let Mao live happily.

I'm also unwilling to force him.

Anyway, I've bought the ticket.

I move my hands off this matter now.

It's up to you whether Mao can go.

Two thousand yuan

traded for just this piece of shit paper?

Mom, you bought the ticket?

You dad bought it.

Thanks, dad.

Get him back now.

No. You go.

I won't go, either.

Then it means you've agreed.

That's quite another thing.

Safety is also very
important when he's outside.

What if something happens to him?

He's grown up.

What could happen to him?

I'll ask Yang to pick him up

at the station when Mao arrives in Guangzhou.

With Yang and his wife
beside, he will be safe.

What are you two talking about?

We're talking about you.

Contact Yang when you arrive there.

Don't eat what others
give you in the train, got it?

In other words,

the conflict between you
hasn't been really resolved.

It looked peaceful on the surface
just because of another person

in your triangle relationship, Mao.

Yes.

Even at last, she didn't
agree with my decision.

It was just because Mao studied harder

after coming back from Guangzhou
that she didn't say anything.

Why did you have that feeling?

After Mao came back, we saw
the photos he took in Guangzhou.

He's so tall.

Did Mao get his autograph?

How is that possible?

He's surrounded by so many people.

I'm not bad at playing basketball.

Why does he like a foreigner?

With your poor skills?

You're really something.

One wanted to watch a game,
and the other bought the ticket.

Give a two-man comic show to me?

I did it for our child's good.

Didn't I?

Fortunately, our child is self-conscious.

I knew when he entered the third
year, he would have no opportunity

to go out for fun.

It happened to be his 18th birthday.

So I wanted to give him a break,
which was indeed helpful for him.

Come on.

You knew his studying condition
after that and take the credit now?

So you're a good person both ways?

Why didn't you

tell all this to him before he left?

Did you give me a chance?

In fact, when you two just got married,

the conflict between you was resolved.

An American sociologist
Sandy Burchsed once said this.

A marriage can be divided into three stages.

The first stage is learning.

That's when you just got married.

You were trying to
build a family together.

At that time, you had clear goals.

When you disagreed, you
would reach a consensus easily.

You've spent the money
for buying a house.

When will we be able to move out?

Buy a house.

Yes.

Buy a house and a car, as well as have a child.

Those goals united you together as one.

After your son was born, your
relationship entered the second stage,

parenting.

You turned all your needs
on your son and pulled him

into the relationship between you
two to make your communication

in a triangle pattern.

At this time, your conflict
could be ignored temporarily

because you had a
common goal, your child.

Even if the root of your
problem couldn't be solved,

your relationship wouldn't be threatened.

No wonder every time Mao
came back, we would argue less.

Our goal is to let Mao grow up.

But when your son gradually
left the family, the problems

you didn't solve before would
come to the surface again.

It's so rare.

Fang,

you're the first to bring a
family member to the party.

Your relationship is so good.

He just happened to be free today.

So I brought him here with me.

I'm admiring you, Fang.

My husband isn't home all day.

Maybe he's drunk at a bar.

He's doing business to
let you enjoy a good life.

No, he even doesn't care
about me when I have a fever.

If I call him, he'll say he's busy
and ask me to drink some hot water.

Men are the same.

My husband, who can't earn a lot of money

doesn't care about me, either.

He acts like a boss at home.

He even won't get the oil
bottle erected when it falls down.

I think Song is better than my husband.

Your husband obeys you.

He doesn't even dare to pick up a piece of meat.

He has high blood pressure.

The doctor doesn't let him eat it.

What nonsense!

Will I die after eating a piece of meat?

You always make a fuss and are paranoid.

No one can tolerate the life with you.

I save your face but you don't take it.

It's more than a piece of meat.

This is mutton, a kind of stimulating food.

The doctor doesn't allow you to eat it.

Don't you know you have prostatitis?

How could say I'm making a fuss?

Are you in menopause?

Will you feel uncomfortable
if you don't say anything?

Do you really wanna make a scene here?

Calm down.

Who's making a scene?

Why do you always say I'm in
menopause no matter what I say?

You're so bad-tempered.

I think you're in menopause.

Humph!

Don't take it to heart.

Come on.

You make me embarrassed in public.

I've had enough.

You're so old.

And the present is all your classmates.

Please be more normal, OK?

Who's abnormal, you or me?

It's you.

I'm telling you, go live with the
person who you think is normal.

You…

Why are you leaving, Song?

Song.

It's OK.

Miss He.

She's a person with a sharp tongue.

How dare you scold me?

Miss He, he always tells lies.

How could you say that?

I find

if you two don't get the help
from a third party, your relationship

will worsen.

In fact, conflicts aren't horrible.

Conflicts are the hints that there is

something wrong with your relationship.

As long as you solve those
problems, your relationship

will be kept good.

Now let's simulate a scenario

and watch the moments
when you argued in the past,

Both of you try to be onlookers
and understand each other's feelings.

And then tell each other the
thoughts at the bottom of your hearts.

You brought this back today. What about tomorrow?

Brought her back tomorrow?

Do you wanna keep this family?

Do you have a lot of
resentment towards me?

You don't treat me the way
you did when you were young.

You're not considerate of me at all.

You don't want me?

Fine, I have many wooers.

Will I die after eating a piece of meat?

You always make a fuss and are paranoid.

I'm telling you, go live with the
person who you think is normal.

You…

Are you angry with me?

Don't you know that?

A man just wants his dignity.

I save your face but you don't take it.

It's more than a piece of meat.

This is mutton, a kind of stimulating food.

The doctor doesn't allow you to eat it.

Don't you know you have prostatitis?

How could say I'm making a fuss?

Can you tell me

what exactly you need?

This family doesn't belong to me alone.

I hope you can help me do the chores.

Even if you don't, don't make a
mess and just entertain yourself.

Am I hindering you from dancing?

I didn't say I would go to dance.

So are you gonna date that widow?

You never speak out what you
want, but always pick on me.

Tell me what you want.

I don't like you talk about
family affairs in front of outsiders.

I wanted to provoke you at that time.

Are you in menopause?

Will you feel uncomfortable
if you don't say anything?

Do you really wanna make a scene here?

Now in retrospect, I think I shouldn't have done it.

I shouldn't have laid bare everything

to embarrass you.

Then if something happens
later, let's discuss it secretly.

Wu Shufang, why did you say that?

I have no affair with her.

There are so many
people dancing together.

If you don't believe me, why
not go with me to have a look?

I'm not going.

Did you really not want to go
because you were not interested?

No.

I'm just

not used to it.

I'm old now.

When I was young,

I liked to play,

sing

and go to the park.

But now, I just

want to stay at home every day.

Every day after work,

I'm wondering when you'll come back,

when Mao will come back,

and what to eat

tonight.

Mao has grown up now.

He comes back less and less often.

I only have you

by my side.

The psychological counseling cases in this TV series are artistically stylized for visual presentation purposes. Please seek help from professional psychological counseling institutions if you encounter similar cases or have other psychological distress.

♫ Each dawn blooms with a word of flowers ♫

♫ Here is an aroma of coffee and you ♫

♫ Whether the haze turns into a rain or the weather suddenly clears up ♫

♫ I wish to be with you ♫

♫ A shower of rain gently floats far out of the sky ♫

♫ Taking with it my blue and cloudy memories ♫

♫ I bloom a scenery as clear as a song ♫

♫ I see your eyes as bright as a star ♫

♫ They warm my smile and listen to my true voice ♫

♫ Giving me the gentlest response ♫

♫ I see the sudden arrival ♫

♫ Of beautiful love ♫

♫ Holding you hand, I can feel your heart ♫

♫ Holding you hand, I can feel your heart ♫