All language subtitles for Psychologist episode 24 [Viki]

♫With no specter to cut off the waves♫

♫With no halo bestowed by heaven♫

♫I should admit I was born ordinary♫

♫But I'm not resigned to the silence on stage♫

♫Break it down♫

♫I'm taking over now♫

♫Tough it out. That's what I'm all about♫

♫We are destined to break through a mental wall♫

♫To unlock a ray of light♫

♫We know there will be infinite waves♫

♫Getting in my way♫

♫They will build up into roads that enable me to climb high and see far♫

♫To test me, inspire me, make me and give me courage♫

♫I am the master♫

♫Of my own destiny♫

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Episode 24

Li, it's OK with me.

You can go and ask for Miss He's opinion.

OK, Qian.

Qian, this is for you.

This is a list we've sorted out

of messages left by people with needs of

psychological counseling.

And these are the profiles of counselors

who have signed up to be Heart Messengers.

And we've sorted them by visitors

and counselors.

Great.

Then can we start matching?

Yes. But now the problem is each counselor

has a specialization of problems

they are good at handling.

And each visitor has their own problems.

Now we are thinking about

how to match those problems

in a more effective way.

Yes.

Besides, the visitors are not being specific

about their demands in the written documents.

The bigger difficulty is we have no idea

what exactly the visitors' problems are

from the perspective of psychological counselors,

so we dare not recommend counselors indiscriminately.

We must be responsible for our listeners.

Yes. Look at this message.

She says "I'm burned out every day.

I'm not interested in anything

and just want to sleep.

I feel every day is a torture,

but I can't figure out why."

"I have no sense of security.

Even if he shows me

all the messages on his cellphone,

it still doesn't work.

As soon as he's gone out,

I stay at home shaking my legs.

I'm on pins and needles and can't fall asleep."

Many people don't know what their problems are,

so they can only express their feelings,

which is enough to show they need

professional psychological counselors

to clear their confusions for them.

Li, please bring

the record of all the visitors to me

to have a look.

OK, Qian.

Qingqing.

Please print out the keywords of marriage, relationship,

family, school, personal and workplace for me.

OK.

We don't know

what their problems are…

But

we can pinpoint the sources of their problems.

Qian.

They've been printed.

OK.

When we are choosing psychological counselors,

we must have a good grasp of the divisions.

Let's try to classify them.

"Whenever I have an exam coming up,

I get stomach upsets.

When I go to the hospital,

doctors say there's nothing wrong with my stomach.

I don't know if

it is caused by too much nervousness."

School.

When we are choosing psychological counselors,

we must have a good grasp of the divisions.

Here's one.

Wang Wenyu,

Master of Psychology from Jingbei Normal University,

a certified psychological counselor.

13 years of practice

with specialization in individual counseling
and family counseling.

Has extensive experiences in
systematic family therapy and training.

Lili.

I'm back again.

It was my fault.

I shouldn't have stopped you
from pursuing your true love.

You were right, He Dun.

What…what happened to your face?

Are you a victim of domestic violence?

Let's go and report to the police.

What are you doing?

Are you still gonna put up with him on such an occasion?

He didn't do it.

Who did it then?

His wife.

By the way, let me introduce someone to you.

She is my…

Hello.

I'm Tong Yao, Fang Zhongyi's wife.

Instead of being a domestic hen,

you want to fly high and become a phoenix?

Stinky prostitute!

You are very lucky.

It's a pity that you just don't have the fate.

Will I hold you up for receiving visitors?

No.

I'll be closed for a few days.

Why?

I'm burned out.

I want to take a few days off and stay with my mom.

Take a good rest over the next few days.

Why don't you scold me?

You've been conned as well.

That scumbag is the one to blame.

But I still feel so bad.

All right.

Let's have an analysis.

What's good about him

that makes you feel so bad?

What do you like about him?

In what way is he good?

He's nice to me.

And?

He's rich.

OK.

Are you the only one he's being nice to?

Can you guarantee he'll be nice to you forever?

Is his money yours?

Don't you have the money he spent on you?

So what the hell do you feel bad about?

To hell with the scumbag.

To hell with the scumbag.

To hell with the scumbag!

My garden finally becomes alive.

Just take my home as your own home from now on.

Tell me what you want to eat,

and then I'll make it for you.

Young people should eat more meat.

How old are you, Jiahui?

I was born in 1991.

In the Year of the Goat?

Yes.

So you are a year older than He Dun?

Yes.

This is my Telesphorus.

I remember when I was a child, I once fell ill

and my mother gave this to me.

I slept with it in my arms

and recovered straight away.

Since then, it has become my patron saint.

Now I give it to you.

It means so much to you,

yet you are giving it to me?

I hope you can get better soon.

I dropped everything and left.

This is a mistake I have to bear

for the rest of my life.

I left the child to you

because you had always loved him

and I hope you could go on protecting him

and give him a stable life.

Your mother wouldn't end up like this

if it weren't for Ji Mingcong.

After being her tutor for a long time,

I see her as my own child.

Have you ever fallen in love with someone?

No.

Tang Lili,

you are so badly injured.

How are you gonna do boxing?

He Dun,

I know you closed your practice for a few days

to keep me company.

But if

our big-name psychological counselor Miss He

is really not available,

who knows how many people

would get lost with no way to return?

So I've decided to do something for their benefit.

I'm gonna do boxing to vent out my anger.

Our life has to go on, doesn't it?

But the thing is, I don't know how to do boxing.

It's OK. Someone does.

Qian Kaiyi?

What brings you here?

Let me set the record straight.

I didn't offer to come myself.

It is Lili who asked me to come.

Have you recovered from your injuries?

They are nothing but bruises and scratches.

Don't worry.

He Dun, I need your help.

How are you getting on?

Jab-jab-straight is the basic move of boxing.

Have you heard of it?

It's often used in actual combat.

I'll teach you later.

Be careful, you guys.

Good posture.

So what?

So what?

I asked you to come to take my punches,

not to teach me how to punch.

Come on. Show me what you've got.

Are you ready?

Come on.

Punch hard.

Punch hard, come on.

Punch hard.

I can't feel your strength.

Again!

Again!

Punch hard!

Come on!

Again!

Punch hard!

Fang Zhongyi

Tang Lili, where are you going?

Are you scared?

Who's scared? Come on!

Come on!

Haven't you eaten? Give your strength.

Again!

Come on!

Is this all you've got?

Again!

Not until the moment I met you

did I want to settle down and be with you.

I'll certainly give you the best wedding,

one that you'll like the best.

When I was a child, I used to dream about

the scene of my father seeing me get married.

He would take my hand

and give it to my loved one.

I'll certainly give you the best wedding,

one that you'll like the best.

Tang Lili, you are really good for nothing.

You were given only a little sweetness,

and you've lost your soul to it?

Are you in need of love so badly?

Qian Kaiyi.

Come on.

Come on!

Come on, show me what you've got.

Haven't you eaten?

Go on!

Come on.

Tang Lili, you've been taking a beating

and can't get on your feet.

It looks like you were born to take a beating.

Instead of being a domestic hen,

you want to fly high and become a phoenix?

Qian Kaiyi, I'm gonna knock you flat,

or I wouldn't be Tang Lili!

I can't feel your strength.

Come on!

He Dun, turn off my cellphone for me.

It's so noisy!

I see.

Punch hard!

Come on!

Again!

Use a little bit strength. Use your strength!

Are you OK?

That's right.

Look.

You won.

Thank you for what you did today.

Thank you for what you did today.
Does it still hurt?

No. I'm a sturdy man.

Mr. Qian, take a break.

Thanks.

I'm sorry.

I made you guys pull an all-nighter with me again.

The work should be done by us together.

What's there to be sorry about?

Qian.

how much work is left to be done?

Wake everybody up first.

Look, he's sound asleep.

Get up.

It scared the hell out of me.

Get up.

He woke up with a shudder.

Get up. It's getting late.

Let's call it a day today

and go on with it tomorrow.

That won't do.

You let us go back to get some sleep

while you'll probably

work…work extra hours on your own here.

The information for preliminary screening

was almost done this morning.

It's only waiting to be entered

into the Bridge of Hearts System.

Let's divide up the work again tomorrow morning.

Hello.

Are you here to submit your information?

Could you please tell me

if you have any counselors here?

Which area of counseling do you need?

It's like this.

If we know more about your needs,

we'll be able to make better recommendations to you.

As to the content of counseling,

we will not be involved in it.

Forget it then.

Hold on a minute.

These are the profiles of counselors

which have passed the check.

You can look through them.

Look.

This is Mr. Huang.

He's a national Level-2 psychological counselor.

His specialization is

relationship and marriage counseling.

And here's Mr. Liu.

He specializes in family therapy.

Mainly parent-child relationship counseling.

And He Dun.

She specializes in personal growth counseling,

interpersonal and social contact counseling

as well as post-traumatic therapy.

If you have listened to our show,

you must know something about her.

He Dun Personal Growth Counseling Interpersonal & Social Contact Counseling Post-Traumatic Therapy
Personal

And these.

You can look through them all.

Thanks.

Please feel free to contact us

if there's anything you need.

This woman is a bit weird.

Two, three, six, eight.

Don't take too many at a time,

or there will be side effects.

Take the medicine when
you feel you really can't

control your mind and emotions.

Recently,

a man passed out at home in a residential community

in Jiyang District of City H.

It is reported that the man

had taken a dangerously high dose

of medicine called Prozac before he passed out.

As per the patient's self-report,

he's been receiving

psychological counseling these days.

However, during the course of therapy,

he decided for himself to take

an antidepressant called Prozac

which can only be taken

under the guidance of a doctor,

so it induced some side effects such as mania.

When the patient regained consciousness,

he recounted that he had an argument with others

when he was on medication.

We hereby remind members of the public

to make sure to take medicines on doctor's advice

and pay attention to medication safety.

Man passed out at home after taking Prozac.
After criticism and education,

the police decided not to give an administrative penalty to the man.

Night Talk to Your Heart
Welcome listeners, thank you for staying tuned to our show. This is Night Talk to Your Heart

of Haifeng Radio International.

I am your emotion listener Yi.

I am happiness communicator He Dun.

We've received
a lot of feedback from our listeners,

saying that the Say No event last time

gave them a lot of encouragement.

But still we are sorry to tell you that

the event has come to an
end for the time being.

The message and private mail sections

of our official account are open.

You are welcome to share your own stories.

After the show, we received a message from

a long-time listener named Pear Flower

telling us that she's soon to be 45.

In order to take care of her family,

the elderly, her husband and children,

she's been a housewife for 20 years.

After listening to our show,

an idea has occurred to her for the first time,

which is to say no to

such a mechanical and tedious life.

Before now,

she has never been far away from home.

Now she is about to

cross mountains and rivers on her own,

but she is not afraid.

Deep down, she feels

unlimited freedom and pleasure.

Yes.

Actually, the listener Pear Flower

has impressed me a lot.

Because she said over the past 20 years,

her neighbors

has been addressing her as Mrs. Wang.

The moment she got her driver's license

and saw her name on the license,

she was overwhelmed with emotions.

At that moment, she thought

she was no longer Mrs. Wang

or her children's mother.

She was just herself.

She had her own name

other than the label of housewife.

Exactly.

The Say No theme

has not only brought some comfort

to our listeners, actually, in terms of myself,

I've begun to have some new ideas

about a lot of things.

I found that all our listeners

talked about their families.

I found that when we were talking about

how to say no and why we dare not

say no to others, quite a few listeners…

Hello, Professor Ji.

It's me, Jiahui.

Didn't you say

you'd like to invite me for dinner last time?

I'm bumming it myself.

But I found once our listeners realize

one's habit and character

stem from one's past growth and experiences,

there will be a spontaneous change

in their behavior.

That's to say when you find a change

in your heart, the same change

can be found in your behavior correspondingly.

In fact, the formation

of character in each of us

may have something to do with family atmosphere

and growth environment, but please believe that

you can use your strength to change

and have a new lease of life.

Miss He, I have a question.

When our personal growth and choice clash with

our family's expectations, how should we

make a choice and a trade-off?

I think not just family members,

when our personal choice clashes with

anybody's expectations,

we should all understand each other

and show mutual support and honesty.

We've seen such kind of people in our lives.

They respond to standards set by others.

They cater to others and please others.

They are deeply mired

in the obstinate obsession that I must do well,

I must be kind and I must not let down

people who care about me.

Over time,

they speak words that are not from their heart,

but their mind and body have been suffering.

By doing so, they are abandoning

individualized development while hindering

establishment of genuine relationships.

Night Talk to Your Heart

All right. Stay with us for more

after a commercial.

It's raining hard.

Yes.

Thank you, Mr. Liu.

I'd certainly get wet in the rain

if it weren't for you.

It's OK. I happened to be heading in the same direction.

All right. I'm going home then.

Take this umbrella with you.

This umbrella…

Is it my mother's?

Yes.

I borrowed it from auntie during the day today.

How are you going home then?

Take it.

It's OK, it's OK.

It's a light rain.

I usually don't carry an umbrella.

Thanks.

OK. Please go.

Mom.

Mom.

Mom!

Mom, are you inside?

Mom!

This is the third time

you've pretended to be dead.

It's not funny at all.

Mom, is it not stuffy in the bedroom?

Don't forget you daughter

is a student of psychology.

Come out.

The umbrella with which

the security guard Mr. Liu escorted me home is yours.

He said you lent it to him during the day.

But it didn't rain during the day at all.

The TV set is still warm,

which shows you turned it off

no more than 10 minutes ago.

The rain started 15 minutes before I came home.

And the raindrops on the windowsill

show that you've just closed the window.

When you saw me coming home from a distance,

you spilled the fake blood you prepared

onto the floor.

Meanwhile,

you spilled some on the doorknob as well.

The blood stain on the doorknob

shows you entered the room from the outside.

Mom, I tell you what,

you've really scared me this time, do you know?

I'm not gonna come home if you do this again.

I'm really pissed off.

I'm leaving.

Jun…

Jun!

You have blood all over your face.

Like the face of a calico cat.

Don't do this again next time.

You scared the hell out of me.

I really didn't mean to scare you.

The last couple of days I was watching…

No touch.

Look, this is a mixture of lipstick

and red wine.

Doesn't it look like real blood?

Yes.

Let me wipe it off for you.

You can smack me if you are angry with me.

Why don't you smack me?

No.

Do it.

I just don't want you

to weep secretly.

And bottle up everything in your heart.

I didn't.

Just now I… Just now I was just scared,

so I cried a little.

I'm OK now.

Really.

Are you really not angry?

I'm not gonna caress you then.

What a nuisance!

What's up?

Didn't you smell…

Something seems to be burned, doesn't it?

Yes.

I made another mistake.

I was cooking pork tripe and chicken with Chinese pepper for you.

It must be burnt.

Why do I keep making the same mistake?

I'm sorry.

What mood are you expressing

with that look on your face?

Being in love?

Being conned?

Had an argument?

With such a sharp tongue,

you are not supposed to lose an argument.

Why are you standing in my vegetable plot?

Such a big chunk of you is sticking here,

blocking the sunshine

and taking away the nutrition of my pakchoi.

You are getting shrewd now.

You've learnt to cheat your teacher

who's giving you emotional therapy by way of a sting.

I've finished my apprenticeship.

Have I taught this?

I didn't cry.

You even blame me?

The pakchoi is helpless

and ends up as a dish for people in the world.

While you

have no worries about food and clothing,

you are doing things you like,

have quite a few friends
and such a good mother,

and you want to compete against the pakchoi?

Do you think that once a mistake is made,

there will be no way to fix it?

It's just like a ditch which is always there.

No matter how hard you try, toiling and moiling

throughout a dozen years.

You thought time could fill everything up,

only to find it's covered with fallen leaves.

Since you couldn't see it,

you thought it was not there.

Actually, it's been there all the time.

This doesn't sound quite like

what a psychological counselor would say.

Now I'm just a lost daughter.

My mom asked me

to come home for dinner yesterday.

When I was back, I found

she was locking herself in the room

and the doorknob was covered with blood.

It turned out to be a mischief.

She painted it with lipstick.

An old kid's mischief.

How interesting that was!

She started calling me Jun again.

She was doing it unconsciously before.

But now I'm not sure.

What do you think?

It's raining again.

What are you smiling at?

You've given me a conundrum.

Shall I answer it as your teacher,

your friend or a psychological counselor?

As a psychological counselor,

the first two identities are an impediment.

As a friend, I'm not good at comforting people.

As your teacher,

what I'm gonna say is even harsher.

Go ahead.

First, I have to criticize you.

Troubles start with solicitude.

You ignored the simplest question

in your narrative of the matter.

Let's first set aside

the assumption that she's blaming you intentionally.

What does your mother's

fake death mean?

Excessive attention to death.

Because of my younger brother.

You are actually not to blame.

As her daughter,

you can't make an object analysis

of the matter indeed.

Compared with your brother's death back then,

for people of my age,

when we get old,

nobody can avoid the common failing of human nature.

It is not death that we fear.

It is

separation from our loved ones.

She's probably being more concerned…

about her own death.

Miss Wen.

Ms. Zhao.

Come in please.

Sorry.

Has your visitor just left?

Why did you come early today?

It's like this.

Thanks.

I like your tea very much.

It's like this.

At the end of our last counseling session,

you said something about… about…

about post-traumatic…

Post-traumatic stress disorder.

Yes, yes, yes. That's the one.

I thought about it back at home.

I suddenly thought of something today

and wondered

if it could be related to this thing.

Tell me more.

Ever since my younger brother was washed away by a flood,

I had been blind for a long time.

My mother thought

I might have fallen into the river

or bumped into a stone, so she took me

for a checkup in several big hospitals,

but nothing was found.

For a very long time, I liked

going to our balcony and sitting there

to feel the warmth of the sun

as if I was fearful of cold and damp places.

Mom,

what are you doing there?

How long did your blindness last?

For about…

half a year.

How did you recover from it later on?

It was… It was a miracle.

Nobody would believe it.

Later on, I lost hope about recovery.

And I just felt my way

up and down the stairs every day.

One day, I was

feeling my way along the stairs as usual.

My hand suddenly slipped

and I rolled down to the bottom of the stairs.

When I got up from the bottom of the stairs,

I suddenly saw everything.

And then there has been no relapse.

Up to this day.

my eyesight has been good.

Sounds like your blindness back then

was not caused by an organic problem.

Both your blindness and recovery

had something to do with strong emotions,

which is similar to conversion disorders.

Of course, when people

suffer a strong mental shock,

it's possible for them to show

symptoms of visual dysfunction.

Some people also show symptoms of

loss of speech, loss of hearing or paralysis.

So do you mean my trauma and blindness

are interrelated?

There is such a possibility.

When people suffer a strong mental shock,

they tend to show a strong emotional response.

When their emotions are not given

a normal outlet, the brain will resort to

a variety of somatic disorders to eliminate

or mitigate such a response.

If such a response is gone, can it show

I've fully recovered?

Not necessarily.

Associations or reliving your emotions

at the time of the first episode

are very likely to lead to a relapse.

And the relapse is very likely to be caused by

suggestions or auto-suggestions.

Miss Wen,

will I be blind again

or be blind forever?

You don't have to worry about this.

Conversion disorder is
not an imperative problem

for us to solve at the moment.

If there was no relapse back then,

the probability of a relapse is not high.

Just that in the upcoming exposure therapy,

we need to take such a risk into account

and have a good grasp of the progress of exposure,

and there's not gonna be a problem.

Next, let's come back to PTSD

we talked about last time.

OK.

Please tell me more about your symptoms.

Night Talk to Your Heart and Say No Special Show…

Rank No.1 in audience rating of shows of the same time slot!

What about the rank in the radio station?

What about the rank in the radio station?

Also No.1 of all the shows of the radio station.

Thank you for your hard work.

Thank you for your hard work

Keep up the good work.

Don't horse around.

Go on with your work.

Fortune knocks once at least at every man's gate.

No.

The fortune is ours in the first place.

Yes, Li is right.

We've finally got a break.

Indeed.

Indeed.

What are we eating today, Qiao?

He Dun, our show got No.1 in audience rating.
A maximum of 200 yuan per person for midnight snack.

I have some good news. Do you want to…
200?

200 is not OK. Make it 250.

That's not an auspicious number, Qiao.

Qian Kaiyi, Director Pan asked you to

go to her office.

I'm going.

Wait for me. Wait for me!

Keep it up, Qian.

Keep it up!

Mom.

Mom.

When we get old,

nobody can avoid the common failing of human nature.

It is not death that we fear.

It is

separation from our loved ones.

He Dun

He Dun,

let me tell you…

Qian Kaiyi.

Something seems to be wrong with my mom.

The psychological counseling cases in this TV series are artistically stylized for visual presentation purposes. Please seek help from professional psychological counseling institutions if you encounter similar cases or have other psychological distress.

♫Each dawn blooms with a word of flowers♫

♫Here is an aroma of coffee and you♫

♫Whether the haze turns into a rain or the weather suddenly clears up♫

♫I wish to be with you♫

♫A shower of rain gently floats far out of the sky♫

♫Taking with it my blue and cloudy memories♫

♫I bloom a scenery as clear as a song♫

♫I see your eyes as bright as a star♫

♫They warm my smile and listen to my true voice♫

♫Giving me the gentlest response♫

♫I see the sudden arrival♫

♫Of beautiful love♫

♫Holding you hand, I can feel your heart♫

♫Holding you hand, I can feel your heart♫