All language subtitles for Psychologist episode 14 [Viki]

♫ With no specter to cut off the waves ♫

♫ With no halo bestowed by heaven ♫

♫ I should admit I was born ordinary ♫

♫ But I'm not resigned to the silence on stage ♫

♫ Break it down ♫

♫ I'm taking over now ♫

♫ Tough it out. That's what I'm all about ♫

♫ We are destined to break through a mental wall ♫

♫ To unlock a ray of light ♫

♫ We know there will be infinite waves ♫

♫ Getting in my way ♫

♫ They will build up into roads that enable me to climb high and see far ♫

♫ To test me, inspire me, make me and give me courage ♫

♫ I am the master ♫

♫ Of my own destiny ♫

This TV series is produced with a special fund for guiding and supporting TV series in 2020 from the National Radio and Television Administration and is a key TV series project supported by the Hainan Free Trade Port.

Episode 14

It's here.

Where are you going early in the morning?

My radio show script needs to be revised.

I've got to go there.

Then I have a counseling session at 2pm.

I have to be back at noon.

Poor you.

By the way, I saw Ye Jiahui in the morning.

He said he was going to give acupuncture therapy to Auntie Zhao.

Did he…

Did he tell you?

Auntie, how is your leg?

Your therapy session last time

really worked wonders.

I feel much better.

Now I can go anywhere in and out of the house.

I just can't bear to let you do it.

I know you young people are very busy.

With so many things to do, you still care about

a useless old woman like me.

Don't do this again.

That's the problem with Dun.

She didn't even tell me
up front that her friend

was coming to my place.

Auntie, don't blame He Dun.

I didn't tell her I was coming this time.

You…you didn't?

He Dun is someone

who dislikes owing a favor to others.

I was afraid if I tell her,

she'd be too courteous and keep thinking of

giving me something in return.

It wouldn't be a mental burden to her this way.

Yes.

She's a child like that.

Mr. Ye, you are such a considerate young man.

Thank you.

Dun, from her appearance,

looks like a weak child.

Actually, she has a strong character.

Sometimes so strong that…

she makes my heart ache for her.

To tell you the truth,
auntie, now I'm trying to

court He Dun.

Are you?

Very good, Mr. Ye.

You probably don't know much about Dun.

Although I'm her mother,

she wouldn't do what I say

when it comes to such a big thing, you know?

If you really want to court her,

just court her boldly.

And be nice to her, you know?

Of course I will.

I'm just thinking of

sharing more of her burdens with her.

Thanks.

Let's start the acupuncture.

Auntie, your leg is almost recovered.

I'll come two more times

and we'll almost be done.

Mr. Ye, how happy your parents are for having

such an excellent child like you.

If I had such a child,

I reckon I'd wake up from my dream with a smile.

He Dun is excellent too.

I think psychological counselor is a

magical profession.

Everybody coming to see her

tells their own life stories to her.

Auntie, has He Dun told you anything

about some particularly interesting cases?

No.

When she was in college, she used to tell me

some cases from the textbook back at home.

She doesn't do it now.

She seldom tells me about them now.

I can understand very well.

Visitors' privacy.

I've never asked.

Neither do I want to care.

The cases should be kept secret indeed.

He Dun must have chosen this profession

out of her own pursuit.

Don't you think so, auntie?

When you get out into the real world,

I'll see who you can be at odds with.

If you don't study hard,

you won't even be able to be a singer.

And you are at odds with me all the time.

I'll see who you can be at odds with

when you get out into the real world.

How do you know I can't do it?

Be quiet.

I also have a dream.

I want to be a doctor.

I'll then invent a medicine

which can stop people from arguing.

And when people take this medicine,

they'll feel full of joy and happiness,

and really want to love this world.

Stars are blinking

The moon is drawing a question mark

With a comet dragging its long tail

Say what I mean. Do what I say.

This is my way as a ninja.

Hey hey come on Be quick to use the nunchaku

Hey hey come on

Auntie, you are blessed with happiness.

He Dun has never told me

she has a younger brother.

Why? Doesn't he come home often?

Dun!

Jun!

Dun!

Hold tight, don't loosen your grip, my child!

Younger brother!

What's wrong, auntie?

Sorry.

I need to go to the bathroom.

Auntie, now you are

having needles in your leg. You can't move.

No, I must go!

Please take them off for me.

OK.

Qiao.

Thanks.

Miss He.

Thanks.

Kaiyi.

Thanks.

Is it OK this time?

What do you think?

I think it's OK.

Fine by me.

Send this script to everyone.

We'll be following this script tonight.

OK, Qiao.

If we are done, I'll go out for a while

and be right back.

Where are you going?

Lili has brought me lunch.

Has she brought my share?

Give me a second.

Lili!

Qian, I found you are following He Dun around

wherever she goes.

What is your star sign? You are so clingy.

Do you still remember what I said last time?

What did you tell him?

Court…

She said I'm like your shadow.

Yes, your shadow.

Do you want to take a look at our greenhouse?

It's amazing.

I'm not going.

I'm just stopping by to drop you some food.

I've got things to do. I'm off.

Are you?

Bye.

Bye.

By the way, don't forget to thank Mr. Ye.

For what?

He went to auntie's place to give her acupuncture therapy.

Of course he deserves to be thanked.

Right, He Dun?

He gave my mom acupuncture therapy?

Yes. Don't you know?

No, I don't.

He didn't tell me.

Ask him then.

OK.

Bye.

Bye.

Why is he so sleazy?

Jun!

Hold tight, don't loosen your grip, my child!

Would you like a drink?

Coke please.

We don't have Coke at home.

Nobody likes it.

He Dun

Excuse me, I've got a call.

Dun.

Mom.

Is Jiahui there at home?

Yes.

Well, why didn't you tell me he was coming?

He didn't intend to come.

My leg hurt today,
so I called him to come over.

Don't blame him.

Mom, if you want to have acupuncture therapy,

let me know and I'll take
you to a TCM hospital.

Don't put him out so often.

I've told Mr. Ye

that I won't put him out anymore.

Don't worry. Don't worry.

OK.

Well, I'll go home to check in on you

when I finish work.

OK, OK.

OK, bye.

What's going on?

Is Ye Jiahui really at auntie's place?

Why is he so shameless?

Where are you going?

I have a counseling session at 2pm.

I've got to go back to my counseling office.

Leave me a message if anything comes up.

It's OK, it's OK.

Sorry, Mr. Ye.

I kind of… lost my cool just now.

I'm sorry.

It's OK. I can understand.

It's just that the treatment was interrupted.

Now I need to apply the needles again.

No thanks.

I'm really a bit out of sorts today.

Let's do it another day.

Auntie, is it because I said the wrong thing

about Jun just now?

No.

I'm sorry. I apologize to you.

No.

It has nothing to do with you.

No.

Auntie,

I actually envy Jun a lot.

My mother abandoned me when I was seven.

Now I can hardly remember what she looked like.

Ever since I was a child,

my most fearful festival is Mother's Day.

When that day came,

I even dared not go to school.

I was afraid of seeing my classmates

talking about what presents to buy for their mothers.

I envied them.

I was even a bit jealous.

I knew they had someone

waiting for them at home.

When they got home, someone would say

"Dinner is ready, son."

Auntie,

hope you won't laugh at me for what I'll tell you.

No.

When I'm alone

at home,

I practice again and again.

If one day I could see my mother again,

in what kind of tone

would I call mom.

To let her know how much I've been missing her

over these years.

Sorry,

Jun.

It was mom's fault.

Mom shouldn't have done it.

Auntie,

what exactly happened to Jun back then?

You can speak out.

You can tell me.

It was a…

a su…summer.

Jun…

Auntie, it's me, Kaiyi.

I'll go.

I'm com…coming.

Kaiyi.

Auntie, I'm here to check in on you.

Thank you, thank you.

Mr. Ye happens to be here as well.

He's here to give me acupuncture therapy.

Here, come in and take a seat.

I'll let you guys talk first.

I'll go and wash some fruit for you.

OK.

You are here too.

Ms. Zhang.

Come on in.

Take a seat.

What brings you here today?

Well, does this need to be signed?

I'll sign.

No need.

No need to sign.

I wanted to call you after

the therapy session with Jiang Jing today

to let you consider family therapy.

I didn't expect you'd come first.

You see, I almost forgot.

Actually, I came today to say thank you.

You see, oddly enough,

Jing has only been here twice

and she's well again.

She's also stopped bulimia.

Has she?

That's very good.

She's stopped losing her temper with me too.

Didn't she say

she wanted to make an appointment with you today?

But today she's suddenly gone to her idol

Piano Prince Wu Muye's concert.

So I thought I had to come

and let you know about it.

Thank you so much

for your encouragement and enlightenment.

That's what I should do.

I could have called to tell you,

but I don't think we'll probably come again.

I just want to come and check out

if there's any paperwork that's left unsigned.

We don't have any

complicated paperwork to go through.

That's good, that's good.

Ms. Zhang, does Jiang Jing still remember

her appointment with me today?

She does, she does.

But the child does things on a whim.

She's gone to the concert and didn't come.

Miss He, I'm really sorry.

It's OK.

Here.

Oranges are good for this season.

To remove internal heat.

You guys should eat more.

-Boys. -Thank you, auntie.

No problem.

Here, take a seat, take a seat.

OK.

Help yourselves.

OK.

Let me taste it.

It's so sweet, auntie.

Give me a tissue.

Thanks.

Auntie, look.

What's this?

Giant ginseng.

This…this costs an arm and a leg.

Ginseng is good.

But don't buy such expensive stuff again.

Auntie, now you have to avoid certain food.

Something like ginseng is a no-no.

I really don't know about this.

Tell me more.

Ginseng is a tonic medicine.

It's for replenishing your vitality.

Since you have high blood pressure,

an overdose of ginseng

will raise your blood pressure

and give you headache and insomnia.

Mr. Ye is right.

My blood pressure is a bit high indeed.

It's OK, auntie.

Look, we also have Chinese caterpillar fungus.

Auntie, it's very good to drink with water.

I know, I know.

It's great stuff.

-Yes. -Next time don't…

Although Chinese caterpillar fungus is all the rage at the moment,

auntie, you have a damp-heat constitution.

The most important part of physical conditioning

is to get rid of dampness and heat.

The Chinese caterpillar fungus

will only give you more dampness and heat.

It is not recommended for consumption either.

Elderly people tend to have dampness and heat anyway.

It's OK, it's OK.

Bird's nest. This is great stuff.

Great stuff, great stuff.

Bird's nest is good.

It's lukewarm in nature.

But auntie, don't you know?

Its main ingredient is protein.

In fact, it has more or less the same nutritional value

as eggs.

We'd better eat eggs.

Going by what you said, Ms. Zhao

has an allergy to

all these health care products.

It's OK, auntie.

Let's take dietary supplement.

I've bought you a lot of processed food.

Look.

Good. This is good.

Auntie,

we should be more alert to dietary supplement.

We must choose high-quality protein.

Such kind of…

You are tongue-tied, aren't you?

We must have balanced nutrition.

Too much fish and meat

is not good for the recovery of your muscle tissue.

Dumplings.

Dumplings are surely good for health.

Yearning Dumplings.

Auntie, I gave this to He Dun before.

And this is her favorite.

Each dumpling has a big filling.

Auntie, we must alert Dun

to people with evil designs.

He could be giving dumplings or

be giving his yearning.

Rest easy, auntie.

The dumpling giver

absolutely keeps to the straight and narrow,

unlike someone

who has the devil design but not the courage

and let dumplings do the talking.

Bring the dumplings.

Auntie.

I'll cook the dumplings right away.

Thank you, auntie.

Auntie,

I'm waiting for your scrumptious dumplings.

He Dun!

Aren't you being too sensitive?

No.

I called her three times but she didn't answer.

Maybe she's fallen asleep

and didn't hear her phone ringing.

Lili, there are many other reasons

I can't tell you.

But I must pay a visit.

The principle of confidentiality, right?

He Dun, I know you have your own intuitions.

But do you remember what you often tell me?

The psychological counselor usually keeps a boundary

between her and a visitor.

Lili…

I just don't want you to cross that boundary.

This is not a question of crossing boundary.

Personal safety

is an exception to the terms of confidentiality

set out in a counseling agreement.

It's also one of the supreme principles

of counseling ethics.

I can't leave her unattended.

I must pay a visit.

I really don't know what to do with you.

What are you going to do?

I have to get someone to go with me.

Am I not someone?

Why?

We each go our own home, don't we?

Don't give auntie useless stuff later on.

OK. When you come next time,

bring something useful with you

so that I can widen my horizon.

It's OK with me.

I'll wait and see.

Are you going to see He Dun in a while

about something?

But it has nothing to do with you.

Yes indeed.

You have to contact He Dun in advance to see her.

While I can just go home.

Hi, Yuan.

I'm pissed off!

What happened again?

I've just finished a workout session.

Well, bro, let me ask you.

Do you think a man can be a fox spirit as well?

What did you say?

I think I've run into one.

He keeps going to He Dun's house

for something or other to please her mother.

He gives her mother acupuncture therapy every day.

I just don't get it.

You see, I bought some stuff for auntie.

Did I need him to comment on it one by one?

He threw it all aside and said it's useless.

And you know what,

from what I can see in his eyes,

I do think it's rather weird.

He always gives me the feeling

of hiding a dagger in his smile, do you know?

And He Dun is laughing and joking with him

every day.

And even going on a date!

By the way, they live in the same courtyard.

All right, I know.

Say no more.

You are taking Ye Jiahui as your love rival.

What love rival?

I just can't bear the sight of such people.

Bro, do you know what you are like now?

You are like you've just married He Dun

and are complaining to me

she's a scumbag who's never at home.

What has that to do with He Dun?

You keep on about He Dun.

What do you say?

What level are you at?

Someone who can keep you on tenterhooks

and make you distraught like this

could only be your rival at work

or your love rival.

Apart from He Dun,

do you have other common
friends with Ye Jiahui?

Does He Dun's mother count as one?

Who do you particularly want to chat to

and talk to recently and long to

get a response from?

Use your brain.

Now you are thinking about nobody but He Dun.

If you see another man around her,

you get extremely sensitive.

-I… -When I told you the other day

she was the one who confessed her love to me

at high school, do you remember

what you did to me?

I must clarify this.

What happened at high school

was really a misunderstanding.

As I see it, He Dun is your colleague.

There's no need to worry about her so much.

Or you can do this.

When she

gets into a relationship with Ye Jiahui,

you won't have to worry about this,

worry about that, right?

Hold on, hold on.

With whom?

No way!

Ye Jiahui.

Why did he hang up on me

while he's angry with others?

Piss off!

He Dun?

Well, Miss He, why don't you tell me

what exactly has happened?

Tell me more.

at least I can give you some advice.

One of my visitors sent me a suicide letter.

Where's my cellphone?

Where's my drum practice pad?

Where's my cellphone?

What are you doing?

These are your favorite jewelries, aren't they?

Does this make your heart ache?

Does this make your heart ache?

Now this makes your heart ache, doesn't it?

What are you doing?

What are you doing?

I tell you what, mom, I just don't want to

win first prizes at all.

I just don't want to play the piano at all!

You…

What's more,

this is the clothes I want to wear!

How long does it still
take for us to get there?

About 20 minutes.

I'll let you go mad.

Open the door!

Why are you locking me in?

Open the door quickly!

I'll let you go mad.

Are you out of your mind?

You are locking me in!

Open the door quickly!

What's going on? Did she reply?

With no communication I can't intervene at all.

I'll see if you…

Don't…

She's failed as a mother.

I hate you!

I hate you…

Dear listeners, good evening.

Today I'd like to recommend a song

of the well-known British band Def Leppard,

Long Long Way to Go.

The drummer of Def Leppard lost an arm

in a car accident, but he didn't

give up playing the drum.

Instead, he adjusted the position and combination

of the drums in a way most comfortable to him.

Maybe because he has only one hand,

his every beat seems particularly powerful.

Every beat is like a strike to the heart.

Dear listeners, maybe

you are on a crowded subway train

going to or getting off work,

or nibbling at a piece of bread in your rented room

facing despair and agony.

But I truly hope that when you hear this song,

you can be healed by the music and the story

or be inspired by such tenacious drumbeats

to have a renewed fighting spirit.

There is still a long way to go in life.

And there are many warm stories in this world

that are worth our love.

Let us embrace and love this world.

Maybe all the pains and sufferings

will be set aflame with hope

because of love and care.

All the misfortunes in the world

stem from each other's care.

I'm 30 this year.

I don't want to

live to be the person you want me to be.

I don't want such a way of life.

Tell me why you want to trap me like this.

Why do you want to leave the mistake

dad made on you to me?

Actually, you are afraid of me growing up,

afraid of me leaving you.

But will I?

I've already done what you want of me -

playing the piano, wearing a white one-piece,

with neat bangs and a high ponytail.

I know you love me.

But you are simply too afraid of

making another wrong choice in your life.

Wake up!

Ever since dad left,

the two of us have been trapped here.

Why?

I don't want to

be trapped in a besieged city anymore!

Zhang Lizi,

over the 30 years,

my life

is like this broken violin,

shattered to pieces.

I didn't know what I want.

I didn't know what kind of life I want.

I was aimless.

I had no dreams.

I didn't know what I like.

I thought I like perms and sun dresses.

Actually, I just want freedom.

I think I'm not just your daughter.

I'm also like your husband,

trapped in this house with you.

He's gone.

He won't be back.

We both should…

start a new life.

Mom, I've always thought I'm very lucky

for being your daughter

among billions of people.

I care about how you feel and what you think.

Such care is inexplicable.

Whether I'm growing up or being independent,

that doesn't mean I will leave you.

Zhang Lizi, do you hear me?

I just want you to do well.

I want you to have good prospects in the future.

So that we won't have to count on anyone.

We can live a good life like anybody else.

You are still young now.

When you grow up…

When you grow up,

you'll get to know mom's intentions.

Mom,

no matter where I go

or what kind of life I'll be living in the future,

I will not forget you.

Because I love you.

Much deeper than

my love of anybody else in the world.

You are

the only woman I love deeply.

Mom,

thank you.

Thanks.

Is it here?

Are you all right?

Here you are.

There's no need to go.

She's safe now.

How did you know?

How long does it still
take for us to get there?

About 20 minutes.

Don't be anxious.

Let's listen to the radio for you to wind down.

Qian Kaiyi, aren't you an announcer?

How about you helping me

record a paragraph for Jiang Jing?

Thank you, Miss He.

Thank you too to Mr. Qian's late night radio

for helping me find my courage again.

It is Mr. Qian who gave her courage.

For a man to be fearless

when facing difficulties

while helping others at the same time,

what he needs is strength and experience.

Of course you don't have them now.

You'll have them later.

Apart from that, you'll need

one thing that is the most important.

And that is…

That is…

Bravery.

Bravery is a person's character.

It can summon courage.

No matter how much experience you have, it can

generate a force to dominate you

and pump out a stream of hot blood.

Without them, no amount of strength

and experience is worth mentioning.

On the other hand, courage can make one

press ahead without hesitation.

If there is someone

you want to protect in the future,

make sure you learn to be brave.

Be brave,

do you know?

There's more?

It happens that I didn't have dinner this evening.

I really have a gourmet's luck.

When you called me,

I thought it was about something big.

Turns out it's about gourmet food.

Were you busy outside again?

Signs of danger loomed up one after another.

You've been doing suicide intervention for such a long time that

your tiny counseling office

has almost become an emergency center.

Don't worry.

The process was a bit tortuous,

but the outcome was good.

I do pay attention to these principles.

I see you are so busy every day, but I don't

actually have the headspace

to share your many burdens.

But I can still shell shrimp.

It's for you. Help yourself.

No.

Go on eating yourself.

I've taken in fumes of cooking oil. I'll ease off first.

Guess who I ran into on the flight

back home yesterday?

I'm not a stripling.

What's the point of keeping me in suspense?

Ye Niantang.

He starts to make waves as soon as he's back.

I keep worrying if something is off.

You are overthinking.

Mr. Ke, why is your chicken
running to my place?

Professor, what's up with you?

You look careworn.

Is something weighing on your mind?

What's your take on medicalization of

psychological counseling?

Wouldn't that be psychotherapy?

The health law stipulates that psychotherapy

must be conducted in a medical institution.

And nowadays only psychiatrists

have the right of prescription and diagnosis.

But nowadays psychiatric hospitals

are still in the age of the biomedical model

without a thorough transformation.

The transformation you mentioned

is about Engel's physiology, psychology

and social medicine model.

I'm quite curious though.

About what?

About who made such a suggestion to you.

I've only heard such a phrase.

Bringing psychology into psychiatry

is a downright dead end.

I think what we need to do now

is not carving out a new path

or spin-off and reorganization.

Rather, we should let each develop its own strengths

in their own field.

Only in this way can we set up a sound system.

What do you think?

That is the truth.

Professor Liu Ping

of Shanghai Mental Health Center

is a case in point.

She used to be a very well-known

psychoanalyst in our country.

But she led hospital staff

to open a psychological counseling clinic

and has been running it for over a decade.

So far, she's still

at the forefront of this field in our country.

But the real worry is some people

are copying her model

by crying up wine and selling vinegar.

Let me give you a suggestion.

Come to work at the Psychological Society.

Me?

I'm getting old.

The day will come

when I shall step down from the president position.

The Society's future development

is going to get tougher and tougher.

Over time, it needs some level-headed,

resolute people with an altruistic mind

to take up the responsibility.

Is that a praise of me?

Professor, I think the merits you mentioned

need further verification.

But I think

the counseling office I'm running now

can help one or two people every day,

and that makes me very happy.

In this profession, I'm just a small potato.

That's all I can do.

But I'm quite content.

You said you want me to

take up a post and learn about development.

That's not what I want to pursue.

What do you want to pursue then?

No matter how high a position we are in,

all we need to do is do the job at hand well.

I want to be

a hero who can save others like daddy.

It's cool that way.

For a man to be fearless

when facing difficulties

while helping others at the same time,

what he needs is strength and experience.

Of course you don't have them now.

You'll have them later.

Did you see daddy?

That's daddy's job.

Dad, you did a terrific job just now.

I want to learn too.

You didn't get it?

That means you are too young to learn now.

You can do it when you grow up.

Dad, you are lying to me, you are lying to me.

I wanna learn, I wanna learn.

You can't learn it now.

Baby, you can't learn it now.

I wanna learn.

Dad, why do you guys look so shiny?

You overshadowed us.

But let me tell you, now I can tie

all kinds of knots.

Every way you taught me

and didn't teach me, I can do it all.

Also, I don't know

if I've saved others today.

Anyway, as your son, I certainly will not

be left behind by you.

F's client file 99-00

Leave the dishes there.

I'll do it myself.

I can wash the dishes.

You are my student, not my maid.

If you keep doing this,

I won't let you come over for dinner next time.

All right.

I'll do nothing then.

I'm off.

Wait a minute.

One more thing.

This file was

with your senior fellow student Li Yun before.

At first, she wanted to let you keep it

and I held her back.

Some days ago,

she suddenly wanted this file back.

I didn't tell her it was with me.

Li Yun thought the file was with me?

Now I hand over this file to you.

Keep it safe.

Did this F used to be Li Yun's visitor before?

Just take it with you and keep it safe.

No need to guess.

Why don't you just give it to Li Yun?

I've been you guys' tutor for so many years.

If you are hiding one or two trivial things,

I may not be able to tell.

But if you are hiding big things,

I can just tell by looking into your eyes.

Same as usual. Don't peek.

There will be an arrangement when the time comes.

The psychological counseling cases in this TV series are artistically stylized for visual presentation purposes. Please seek help from professional psychological counseling institutions if you encounter similar cases or have other psychological distress.

♫ Each dawn blooms with a word of flowers ♫

♫ Here is an aroma of coffee and you ♫

♫ Whether the haze turns into a rain or the weather suddenly clears up ♫

♫ I wish to be with you ♫

♫ A shower of rain gently floats far out of the sky ♫

♫ Taking with it my blue and cloudy memories ♫

♫ I bloom a scenery as clear as a song ♫

♫ I see your eyes as bright as a star ♫

♫ They warm my smile and listen to my true voice ♫

♫ Giving me the gentlest response ♫

♫ I see the sudden arrival ♫

♫ Of beautiful love ♫

♫ Holding you hand, I can feel your heart ♫

♫ Holding you hand, I can feel your heart ♫